If you're reading this today, I love you and your pet. We are most likely watching this for the same reason tonight, and just know our loved ones will always watch over us. We will be okay, I promise you with all my heart.
@@MrBarboza92 I am SO SORRY Felix. I know your pain well or relate very much to it. I am having to have my kitty euthanized tomorrow....he is Renal Failure. He would go everywhere with me
I love my dog been w him since I was kid and he getting old I feel like once he gone I will loose my mind because this dog is the reason why I'm happy and keep going in life and calms me down when I'm angry in life
My parents let me pick out my dog, a golden retriever named Nancy, when I was 7 years old. Here I sit 15 years later as a 22 year old man, crying like a baby, knowing this is the last day I’ll share this Earth with her. I am eternally grateful for any loyal and loving pets. You are a good girl Nancy. Thank you for greeting me every day I came home from school throughout my childhood and teenage years. I will love you my entire life as you loved me throughout your entire life.
I just euthanized my dog after 14 years with him. He was in obvious pain and would sit and wimper. This dog slept on my bed every night, was with me after my heart attack, did daily chores with me for 14 years. He knew what was happening at the end and was licking my hands and face in the waiting room. It was so devastating I don't know that I could do it again. They are better than people.
why people are so selfish??? To kill dogs when they are old? you think its for their betterment? no it's not for their betterment, its for your betterment. for you to live hassle free, since you cant find additional time to take care of your dog when he is old. Have you ever asked him if he wanted to be killed???? Dogs biggest dream and only wish is to live atleast one additional second/minute/hour or a day with their families, DESPITE OF THE PAIN THEY ARE IN.............. you like, throwing a waste shit, you wanted to kill him by injecting venom. its harsh. let him die, naturally. natural death is not killing. Remember, that He was there for you when you needed him and now it is the time when he needs you but you wanna to kill him. huh, justifying as its to ease his pain..... good for you, if you think so.
Betsy Ettensohn Betsy - the pet owner needs to be saved, through Christ alone, in order to see their pet again after death. Heaven and hell are real and the Bible is the only truth.
oscarcat1231 The modern day bible is one in name only. There have been huge changes in the bible since its translation. The modern day bible does not accurately represent the teachings of Jesus Christ or his apostles. To understand that modern day bible one must understand the original. Few Christians do.
Franco the Hebrew Bible is good to study but so too are modern translations. Jesus Christ died for our sins - we need to repent to be saved - and read His Word/pray & trust in Him for His Truth to be revealed to us
Oscarcat1231 The modern bible is good to read if one has common sense enough to know the difference of what is truly God's word and what is not. There are not groups of little sins that damn a man to hell. Christ did say that the most important commandment is Love thy Neighbor and in fact said that that commandment alone will take a man to eternal life. Any attempt to condemn any group of people or their behavior is totally contrary to what Jesus actually taught. Jesus made it very clear that the Justices were the only laws from the O.T. that should be considered detrimental to the soul of mankind. There are parts of the O.T. and the N.T. that are helpful in leading a good life but if we are talking what a man must do to enter the Kingdom of Heaven it is clear enough because Jesus himself said it. Love your brothers and sisters. Not just some of them, all of them. Not an easy assignment I must say. I do however believe that when we pass we will be met by all our furry friends. Those of us who have been surrounded by them all our lives will be inundated by licks and barks.
Just had to put my boy to sleep Saturday 30th 2022. One of the hardest yet peaceful and beautiful things I've experienced. We cuddled him til the end. Rest in Peace Onyx Smith Love you 💔
My dog was put down a few weeks ago and I still suffer from the pain. I will miss my toshy, but to anyone who has to do this, remember we're all in this together. Everything gets better with time. And sooner or later, we will join them in the afterlife and see our beloved bestfriends again. Much love everyone ❤ 🐾
I've watched a lot of these videos (had to do it just six months ago for a cat of 15 with HCM and am facing again with his lifelong companion), and this is one of the best; he gives excellent guidelines to follow, a personal example, and clearly feels compassion, unlike some vets. I especially like that he says not to feel rushed into the decision. On two occasions, I definitely did (my options as given were leaving them at the clinic in the hospital all alone for treatment that would most likely have been futile, at great emotional cost to them and financial cost to me) or doing the deed then and there; I felt I wasn't given the option of taking my pet home and thinking it over. Very good video.
I followed your advice til the end. I was there the first day my dog opened her eyes, and i was there the last day she closed them. 15 years of unconditional love and loyal companionship. The first real health issue was when she was 12. She had an infected uterus, and it had to be removed. After hours of talking to the vet, we decided it was worth trying. As she was still really fit and strong for her age. The operation was a success and she recovered in a couple of weeks. Fast forward 3 years.. In her last year, her health rapidly started to decline. She got mid stage cataract and went about 95% deaf. She was pooping and urinating uncontrollably. Puke and diarrhea everywhere every 2 to 3 days. She was in constant pain because of her old bones. She was rapidly losing weight. She started getting severe heart murmurs. We got a prescription for that, which extended her life for another 2 months. Eventually she could hardly walk for 5 minutes. Eventually she just started to collapse. She started developing a bulge on the side of her head, and got really scary seizures.. Today, we asked our vet for advice and we all came to the agreement that it would be best for the dog to be put down. I dropped to the floor and held her in my arms. The first injection, which was to put her to sleep, was supposed to hurt. She didn't even budge.. I gently scratched her neck and behind her ears.. She just kept looking me in the eyes as she slowly fell asleep. I'll never forget her.. A lot of dog owners claim their dog is really sweet. But mine i can confidently say was one of a kind.. She'd cheer me up if i was down. Even in our final moments together.. She licked my nose one last time before she fell asleep. The second needle came, and she slowly stopped breathing. I was there from the beginning all the way to the end, and wouldn't have it any other way. I'll never forget her. And i'll never be able, or even try to replace her. Rest in peace Blacky..
@@thebaldog1209 I had mine euthanized today...I'm happy that I took her to SPCA... I'm happy that she slept ....I don't know how I'm gonna go through this deep pain...I said goodbye... I assured Him of my love forever...I'm hurting sooo much.... Sadly I have another one whom I see that He's hurting... I pray that He must not die of a broken heart... Donnel couldn't walk any more...Simba spent all His time with Him...never left His side...This morning we had to set Donnel free...I get goosebumps... May He rest in peace...
I am planning on finally saying the eternal goodbye this week to my beloved pup Archie, who I got as a rescue over 18 years ago. It is time. I really needed this beautiful video from Dr. McAfee to reinforce my decision. As Morgan Steele wrote, and I agree, "Sir, thank you for your compassionate and professional video." I have watched it 4 times already, with tears in my eyes.
Morgan Steele wonderful video. Very important, hard to do as a pet owner, but if you love them you have to let them go if it's time. Don't be selfish and keep them alive for you. I'm having that right now with my little 14yr old Yorkie mix....😔
I so agree that we should be with our beloved pets until the end. I’ve heard so many stories where pet parents have said that being in the room would have been too hard. Yes, it’s extremely difficult to watch your pet be put to sleep but why put our feelings first? To pass away in the arms of someone you love most is the ultimate comfort. Our beloved pets do deserve that.
Completely agree that it is selfish and wrong to abandon a beloved pet at the very end of its life. Don't know how I will cope but cope I must when the time comes. I must remember that when he sees my face close to his at the vets he becomes calmer. That will be the last gift I can give him.
Thanks for the added guilt to last a lifetime. It is not selfish as one of the comments here stated. It is an individual choice, nothing to do with self interest.
@@Doriesep6622.. your friend, your dog wouldn't want that.. He/she would want you to think about the good times and be happy with those memories. That's all dogs ever really want, besides treats, is for their people to be happy.
Being in the same room and seeing my cat die gave me PTSD afterwards and to this day I have intrusive thoughts at random times that I cannot control of the process of my cat dying. I wish I didnt see it because now I'm left with lifelong trauma that effects my everyday life. So no, it's not for everyone and a person is not cruel for not wanting to look at their animal die.
It was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I put my dog Boy down on October 25th, 2021. He gave me 15 incredible years and I will always be thankful to him. He taught me how to love unconditionally. Thank you Boy! I will love you forever! Thanks for this video Doc, it got me through a hard time. I was feeling guilty about euthanizing my Boy. I feel a lot better now.
My 14 year old crossed the Rainbow Bridge yesterday with the help of our vet. I see so many other people have come to this video after they did this just as I did. I have cried and cried all night. My dog was falling all over the place, could no longer stand without falling over and would wake up in pee on her dog bed most mornings the last few weeks. I didnt want to let her go! She was still eating and drinking but she had no clue where she was. Everyone says do it for your pet. Why do I feel so wrong?? I am broken into pieces. My dog trusted me and I had to make a choice. Why do I feel wrong for making the choice? I know it was the right thing to do but I am heartbroken and I don't think I could ever do it again. I have cried more in the last 24 hours over my dog than I have over friends and family members that have gone. My sweet Layla was one of the best dogs. I adopted her 12 years ago after some puppy farm used her and dropped her at a pound! I will miss my best friend😢😢
@jimmy jones I am so very sorry for your loss. I know your pain and I know you keep questioning yourself, I did too. It has been 2 years since I posted this and I still miss my girl. I now know I did the right thing and in time you will come to peace with it too. I kept hoping my girl would pass in her sleep at home but she just wouldn't let go and I believe it was because she knew I needed her. She could no longer walk those last 2 weeks and would lay in her pee every morning because she couldn't get up. The way I see it now is that it is our responsibility to show our loyalty back them just as they did for so many years. my loyalty to her was to let her go peacefully with no more pain while I held her as she crossed the Rainbow Bridge. I truly believe they hold on for us so as much as it hurts, you did the right thing. I wish I could say something to take the pain away, they are family and we hurt just like we would if we lost a human loved one. Again I am so so very sorry.
Daniel, what a precious comment. Thank you. It made me cry. The hardest things I have done in my life was take my elderly, sick cocker spaniel for euthanasia. She was truly my best friend, and was my constant companion. I know I did the right thing, but so painful.
Wow, that just punched me right in the gut. So true ❤️❤️❤️ this, for multiple pet owners never gets easier. I got to wonder why we keep putting ourselves through it. But I know why... the loyalty and unconditional love is something you don’t find anywhere else but in a great pet. I’m facing this decision again with my 13 year old dog. He’s had diabetes since he was 2 years old. Chronic pancreatitis has left him weak, lethargic and in pain. Chronic muscle wasting has left him too weak to be hisself and I know he’s suffering. Struggling to get his diabetes under control and keep him eating regularly. I don’t want to keep him around for my sake. He deserves a better life. This dog is my heart.... they all are. It’s a road to a decision that never gets easier but I’ve learned that quality of life is what all good pets deserve. Pancreatic inflammation is painful, mostly chronic when they get to this age and no amount of money or treatment will help, it will only prolong the inevitable. Meanwhile your pet feels like shit most of the time. Yeah, my heart is breaking.
@@dawncombs1408 Hi Dawn. May you be blessed in your decision to help your pup cross Rainbow Bridge. I know it sucks. This video really is honest and real as painful as it is. Make a video or take pictures. Spend the full day with him/her. Make a clay imprint of the paw, shave or cut some fur to save. Do everything you need to do to keep your memories. After almost a year now, I am looking for another dog. Grief will soon become joy again. 🐾🐾
Christy what a beautiful thought, you are exactly right. Had to put my best friend of 15 years down two months ago and the heartbreak is still nearly unbearable. I still keep his collar on my bedpost where he and I spent so much time together. Every once in a while I will rub up against it just to hear his tags tinkling like he's still there. It just makes me feel a little closer to him. RIP Teddy...see you soon!
@@robertbeckom1962 I wish you well. I had to put my boy of 14 years to sleep on Christmas Eve morning last year. And guess what...I just brought home a 2 year old rescue this afternoon. Trust me. Time will heal your heart. There are so many dogs out there who are just waiting every day for someone like you. ❤❤🐾🐾
This heartfelt advice has helped me deal with this issue more than any other. In less than two days of writing this my dear cat of over 20 years will be put down due to kidney failure and refusing to eat. You really hit this gut wrenching decision on a level I've not heard before. Thank you.
I had to have my beloved cat, Hannah, of 14 years put down last Thurs suddenly after her health rapidly deteriorated. Her vet and staff were so sweet and compassionate and she left this world with me at her side...one of the most difficult decisions I had to make but it was for her sake. I will always be grateful for the 14 years I had with her as she was the most affectionate, loving cat I have ever known. Until we see each other again my sweet Hannah...rest in peace...
My 13 1/2 German Sheperd named Rocky has been there for all my childhood. I recently graduated college and my dog has been showing symptoms of age such as joint problems since January. However last month and this month he can no longer get up, he cannot control his bladder he goes where he lays and I constantly clean him up and move him outside and inside. It's so sad when I was young he loved playing soccer with me. He was like Air Bud, he moved the ball with his paws and head. So athletic. Now I see in his eyes that he can't go anymore. I know its time to put him down it's hard to let go the one you love. But I know the memories of him and I will live on forever.
Biscuit, my first dog ever. You were with me for elementary, Jr high, high school, college, apprenticeship, and now I’m a union journeymen. 17 old years and you still looked like a stud. I don’t even remember my life without you in it. You fought till the very end buddy. But god saw you were tired.. July 2 2018. Love you little one rip
Just saw this. So sorry for your loss. You were truly blessed with the long years that you had with your fur-baby. I'm sure you made many precious memories together. Let those wonderful moments take you into the future. And, perhaps, if you haven't yet, you will find another friend one day. One to walk with you in another few chapters of your life. You seem like a very loving and sensitive person towards your pet and best friend. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Again, so very sorry for your loss.
My cat was just put down today, i didnt want it but he was suffering his heart stopped and had blood clots on his hind legs. Doctors tried everything but wasnt responding to medications. I really miss him. Death is hard but death is part of life too. Im happy he didnt suffer any longer than he have to. I miss you sylvester :(
I just lost my cat five days ago and I vowed to always be there at the end with my pets. They do deserve that. I hear other people say they can't do it, but try to be there for them. It rips me apart and I am still very sad over it.
Thank you. I’m letting my boy Leroy go today. He’s 16 years old weighs 2 pounds. Lived a good pampered life and the best fur baby I’ve ever had. It’s hard to say goodbye but it’s time. Thank you again.
I was scheduled to take my dog in for euthanasia two months ago. He is a black lab, retriever mix, who is AT LEAST 15 years old. We got him in 2001. My husband made me cancel the appointment because he was not ready (my husband, not the dog). I can't stand to see my dog in pain every day of his life. He falls all the time, lays around day and night, I think he's blind now, he always has slobber on his face -which he's never had before, and he has lost so much weight, he doesn't resond the way he used to. He quit going on walks a year ago. My husband is hoping he will die on his own, but I know what we need to do. I appreciate the message that we need to consider the dog's life over our own needs to keep him around. I will have to tell the man, "Use your brain, not your heart." :)
I'm so sorry for what you're going thru. My chocolate lab is not acting himself. He's 11. Everything I'm reading isn't good and I got to take him in at 930am tomorrow to see what the vet thinks. I can't sleep, think, I'm feeding him treats like a Crack fein. I'm a rough and tough prison officer, hunter, etc. Nothing makes me tear up like loosing my best bud, I hope you guys figure out what's best for your bud. Labs are so awesome.
When your dog has slobber all over him it is due to the head shaking post or after a grand mal seizure.....after a seizure they have a ton of saliva that is thick and gooey and after a seizure which is difficult to watch let alone keep them safe afterwards they attempt to shake off the dizziness their response is as if they went swimming in water and got water in their ears they cant focus or gain balance they often suffer strokes or vestibular events which make them really unstable they can hardly walk or walk in circles and head tilt or have one eye half closed which is either temporarily or permanently blind. They peepee anywhere are confused or their bedding is soiled and they cannot walk without falling their eyes may go back snd forth rapidly or they lick their blankets or their own teeth and twitch when they sleep they may be.clinging to you want to be near you or right after a grand mal which btw they lose control of bladder and or colon and may pee or poop where they had the seizure and they are restless they will get up right away and not follow commands to lay down or sit due to their dazed condition they only know to leave the position they were in when they half aware knew that something wasnt right. This is followed by them running into doors glass sliding doors coffee tables anything they then fall and despite your best efforts will not stay laying down they think they are fleeing an area that is causing this outside of their own body doing it so they worry about you having it and stay close to you after they get over the running around falling over ...they will be very thirsty very thirsty afterward amd may even try to eat..but they will be very susceptible to another seizure..i use CBD OIL by a place called vet meds.signal hill california they make this pure full spectrum no hallucinogenic no overdose possibility no interaction with any other drugs and no allergic reactions it is hypoallergenic it is just the flowers of the plant so dont think you are drugging your dog it has zero allucinogenic
My dog is still pretty healthy for his age, but I know this will be the hardest and saddest moment of my life when it's time... And I plan to be there till the very end. I agree we owe them that much. And not drop them off at vet
I would ask the vet what cocktail your dog will be given. Many times, animals appear as though they are experiencing humane euthanasia, but they are simply paralyzed and unable to breath. ALWAYS ASK. Vets still use muscle relaxers which cause animal to stop breathing. Many times, it takes minutes to die. It is agony. Vets will not tell you this. Many times people think their pet is dead, but animal is alive, just cant breath or open eyes.
MartialArtsFan72 That's BS. The vet let us listen for his heart with her a few seconds after he died. He was gone quickly. Veterinarians have NO motive to let animals suffer. I think what you're posting here is cruel and meant to taunt people who came here for help.
That time is coming very soon for my baby. He's twelve and has an enlarged heart, asthma and his kidneys are failing. He's going to the vet soon, and we have to make the decision on whether he should be put down or not. He still has his mind and he can still get around, so its a gray area right now. I just wish he didn't have to go. :( :( :(
Update: my dog passed away about two years ago, on the kitchen floor. I came downstairs to leave for school, and I realized he was laying paralyzed and breathing heavily. After I told him it was alright to go, he died. He was twelve.
I just lost my dear baby cat. He was stroke by a car, lost an eye and got his jaw fractured. I wish people would be more conscious about the animals and respect the fact that they are living things, they feel pain and joy. All lives matter. Rest in peace my baby Richard
My dog passed 2 months ago. Im hearbroken but i always promised myself that he will pass in his own house on his own blanket and pillows. So i had a Lady Vet to come to my house and the family was here also to say goodbye. It helped to have it done this way. It helped just a little bit better then to do it on some steel table in the Vets office. He died in his surroundings and i wasn't ashamed to cry like i did along with my family. It helped a little with the guilt trip that we all go through after their gone. God Bless all the animals on earth. I also cremate my pets and the Urn's that their ashes are in are beautiful and i know their spirit and the energy they leave behind feels closer to me. Either way ......their energy stays with us. Energy never dies. I believe a dog will never break your heart ; Not until theirs stops beating. The same for the cats I've raised too. The same for any pet we've raised. When you talk to them , I also believe they hear us. The older the memory gets..... The sweeter it becomes. And God Bless all of you that have Loved your pets as I have.
I had to let my best friend go yesterday. He had MO and had got aspirated pneumonia and the vet felt he wouldnt get better. When we went to the animal hospital he stood there, and wagged his tail when we got there, although he was a good age, all the other parts of him just hadnt seemed "done yet" but, it was hard to say good bye, but it wouldnt have been right to make him go through bouts of this just for us. I will miss him forever, he was truly a good boy. We were with him, we hugged him, we told him how good he was and he truly was a perfect friend.
+Liz Kimber I am sorry for your loss...i am still in grief when i had to put down my 5 yr old dog buddy due to lymphoma i miss him so much but i know we did the right thing he was already losing coordination and was very uneasy this was in dec 4 so our christmas was a sad one without him but now he is no longer in pain
It may have been the right thing but in a way it didnt feel right. Imho, it shouldnt to some extent feel right to end a life, you should have reservations, but in the end you need to do whats right for them not you ..
I had to say goodbye to my cat Marty last week on the 19th of May. He had been eating his wet cat food, but then laid on his side. It was like his legs gave out on him. My mom and I think he might have had a stroke. By the time I got him into the vet, they said he was in really bad shape by looking at his eyes. He didn't seem very aware of his surroundings. I gave him one last kiss on the cheek and told him I'll always love him. Marty was my best friend.
I would like to thank you sir, your words have a healing affect. Yesterday, I put down my baby boy 8 year old pug bootsy ... hardest thing I've ever done... one of my sons hates me for putting him down but unfortunately he was paralyzed and we couldn't afford surgery. Uncontrollable bowels, dragging his legs, etc. I knew in my heart it was time but stalled for weeks, dealing with the grief of him being in pain was just unbearable. He was a blessing to everyone he met including me. Pets have a way of reminding us humans to love unconditionally. I feel his spirit is still with us and I could never replace him. Thank you again for making this video to console those whom have lost a pet or contemplating saying goodbye humanely. God bless
Great little video. I just took our girl down yesterday, It killed me, honest, ripped me and my wife to bits. Yes we stayed till she fell asleep, We love her, and she loved us. All I can say is the pain for us left behind is way more than the pain of those we love, who have gone to heaven. I know she is happy for eternity, and I will see her again one day. For anyone doing the right thing by their best friend, it takes real guts, and strength, to do the kindest honorable thing for you'r animal. It's paying back their love for you in a way that shows, for you to go through with it, when that time comes. God bless the caring owners ..
Not sure how anyone could give this video a thumbs down.. your words and reasoning gives my heart comfort. Thank you for posting..I put my girl down yesterday. I consider myself a strong person and one that can handle most anything...I was wrong! I didn't want to see it or be there, but you are correct Doc. I/we owe it to our pets to be there. I've replayed her final moments over in my mind endlessly..but.she died with me.holding her in her home.I will gladly bear that burden. Thanks again
I have to make this decision tomorrow. My Seymore has many of the symptoms you describe. He was an old foster that no one wanted and has lived with me for 10 years. He can't walk, has had nose bleeds the past few weeks and has stumbled in the corner and cannot back out. I am taking him in tomorrow asking God for strength.
Thank you Dr. Larry. This was a hard watch about a very hard thing to go through. When I heard your pet's story, I can see parallel's to what my own dog is experience. The clarity currently is heartbreaking. God bless you and anyone watching this video, and all the pets of whom we're all here for the same reason.
Thank you so much! I so needed this validation on end of life care for my 3 senior pets. My 18 year old dog was diagnosed with cancer in her leg. We brought her home. It's our turn to give back to them all the love, and companionship they gave us unconditionally throughout the many years. Again, thank you.
We have to put down my Chihuahua of 15 almost 16 years today. No matter how hard I’ve tried to prepare myself for this day, I’m not ready. What you just said helps me, help him. We just lost our other Sr. Female Chi about a month ago to heart failure. Our boy was already in kidney failure and we almost lost him about two months ago. Trying not to lose both so close together was expensive and I think we did it for our sake. He is also suffering from dementia and does about half the things you mentioned. These are difficult times for my family. If you have it in your hearts, please keep us in your thoughts. We need all the healing we can get. God bless all the animal lovers out there and most of all, god bless our beautiful animals. They bring us so much love, positive energy and happiness.
Having to put our cat down tomorrow, she was sick but doing better. She took a turn for the worst recently and lost a bunch of weight. Hard to do but we can’t be selfish and keep her around in this state. Never thought I’d cry this much
My 13 year old cat was found to have cancer (most likely in his back foot bone), and had a huge bulge full of blood. This made it really hard for him to walk, as well as peeing and pooping. This also caused him to loose control over when to pee and poo. We therefore chose to end his life so that he may rest. He didn't react to the needle, he was quiet and most likely understood it was time to say goodbye. I miss him already, and it's only been one day. R.I.P Svartepetter 2001 - 02.03.2015
Thank you, I'm going throught it now with my 14 year old yorkie. (98 years dog years) This is almost 9 years after the original video was posted. I love my Max the Yorkie, and me, my wife, my son, and my daughter hate to see him go. Pray for us,
I did this with my cat, I think I got it done at exactly the right time. He had cancer but was on medication. Right up to the evening before the morning he was put to sleep he was active and eating. During the night he suddenly changed. The medication had stopped working and bad things were going on for him. I'd decided when he was diagnosed to allow him to keep going until such a time that he lost decent quality of life. I had a powerful feeling that it was the right time and didn't have any qualms. Of course I would have been ecstatic if he didn't have cancer and was still with me but We've all got a time and that was his time. It would have been harder to see him go on like he'd become than it was to stand there and see him euthanized in front of my eyes. I owed it to him to be there and to have my hand on him right until he'd gone. It was always all about him from start to finish. You should accept that when you take an animal on as a pet. Now I'm sad that he's not here grinning at me from the opposite chair but I don't have any regrets or feelings of guilt which is something I suppose.
A few months on and I miss the little critter a hell of a lot but I'm still resolute that it was the right thing to do under the circumstances. We adopted another cat from a cat shelter to give him a chance almost immediately. There's always an animal in need of a decent home.
@Karen oh In time you will see things differently. I was watching a video clip of my cat a few hours ago. He had a good life and he was spoilt rotten. We had him cremated and we put his ashes under the floor boards right under his favourite sleeping spot.
My love, Mila, a border collie/Pom mix, almost 15 years old, was in good health. The last few months she needed to go out in the middle of the night and was having accidents in the house the last week or two. She got diarrhea about two weeks prior and I started cooking boiled chicken and rice and threw in peas and carrots and she ate it like it was gourmet food, licked the bowl into a corner! Her appetite was good. Then one morning I saw she was drooling. What? She vomited a couple times and had a #2 accident in the house. I rushed her to the vet with these symptoms and they knew her age, but never even hinted that she could be passing and ran up $400 in tests and told me she had a little infection somewhere and sent us home with two antibiotics. So even though it didn’t seem right, I was hoping all it was was an infection. When we got home, she laid on the floor and started panting. I was really confused because of what the vet said and didn’t say. I was so hoping that’s all it was. I tried to give her the antibiotics, but the poor baby wasn’t even swallowing her saliva. It made her very uncomfortable and I was so upset for having tried it and the pills were bitter and she couldn’t even drink water. As the afternoon progressed, she got worse, but the vet was closed by the time I was absolutely sure she was dying(after 5). It was a sad and grueling evening for both of us. I am still angry at the vet because I’m fairly certain she knew what was happening. She kept calling her old girl. But she made a lot of money on those tests. How sad. 😔. If I ever see that again, I’d know what was happening. She also kept going into a corner of the kitchen by late afternoon and wanted to be alone. I slept downstairs on the couch that night, and she came out by me in the living room about 1:30 a.m. she had been doing the heavy panting since around 2 or 3 in the afternoon. She stayed by me till about 2:30, then w not back to the kitchen. At 2:53 a.m., I heard a huge cough/pop and she was gone. It was the worst moment of my life. She suffered because the vet either Mia-diagnosed or just didn’t say so they could make money on an old dog that was passing. I am more inclined to believe that the latter is the case. She could have at very least mentioned that it could be a possibility. She didn’t - and Mila suffered and so did I. Thought I’d make people aware of these signs and would suggest making plans with someone to come later in the day, to your home, to euthanize, if things go bad after hours. Had I really thought that’s what was happening, I would have made plans with someone. Now I know.
We had to put our 13 year old beautiful golden down last week from arthritis in his rear legs and hips. Buck will be missed forever. This is the second golden we have had to put down, and it does not get any easier. Buck was still very alert and still loved people making over him. Broke our heart when it got to the point he could no longer get up by himself. We had to lift him for a number of weeks until he could no longer stand or walk correctly. We our suppose to get his remains today to come home to his permanent home forever. LOVE YOU BUCK, WILL MISS YOU FOREVER.
As a vets assistant for many years let me say this, they WILL let you know and when it is time let them go no matter how bad it hurts, let them go. You will recognize when the time comes trust me.
I'm having a hard time reading my cat, but I see her walk into a room and do a deep quiet meow. She's either lost or in pain. :( appointment is tomorrow. I'm a wreck
ALL pets are slaves. it's not okay to own another life. it's time to let them go and let them be free. I love you Nino. You've taught me so much. I didn't deserve you. My best friend. I'll love you forever. I want you to have the best life ever next time.
If you waited untill they tell you then you have been waiting too long by the time . It's too much sufferings . Sometimes putting it down earlier isn't bad . You make them less suffering .
Today (17th February 2016) my beloved cat Jesse had to be put down, he was 19 human years old I had him since I was 3 and I can't remember a time before he was around, but he was old and he was in pain, today at the vet I had to make the toughest decision any pet owner would have to make, but it's going to get better Jesse you just sleep now.
You were so blessed to have had Jesse for 19 years. I just had to say goodbye to an 11.5 yr old cat. They never could figure out what was wrong. He dropped all body weight, vomited and started having fluid build up in lungs. Whatever their age however, it is the most difficult thing I think we have to endure.
Subscribed and bell ringer! Thank you Doctor for the very good information in this video! My "Baby" just turned 11 yrs old on 3/4/23. She's the love of my life and I'm going to be very distrot when that day comes for her. I take very good care of her now making sure she eats healthy and exercises. I can't imagine leaving her to be put down without me being there to let her know how much I love her and will miss her tremendously. She's my entire world, she always makes me happy!!!!!!!!
Thank you, I think this is an important message. To many loving pet owners can't come to that decision because like you said they keep their pets alive for themselves. Sorry for your loss, I could tell it still hurts. You could here your voice begin to crack at the end. You are a wonderful soul kind sir and, I wish you the best.
thank you for this video - it helped me see what I was missing. Lacey (my 14 year old Ruby Cavalier) was an awesome dog/companion/friend and had been struggling with degenerative myelopathy for some time. She could still move around by herself but each day was getting harder and harder. I watched her struggle and since she was ‘my dog’ I kept helping her overcome because God had not yet taken her. Her decline was slow and she still had a lot of energy and life inside her but she could barely stand and toileting was becoming more and more difficult for her. I would have gladly helped her with that but your video helped me look at her though the eyes of what her quality of life was today, knowing that we could do nothing to help her improve. My soul was crushed by what I saw and what I knew I needed to do. I owed it to Lacey to ‘help’ and rather than waiting until she got really bad we decided to put her down yesterday. I’ve always said to myself that I’d rather be a month early with the decision to put her down than an minute to late because that minute of suffering would be agonizing to watch her endure. Thank you for helping me help Lacey. RIP my sweet Brown. I will be forever grateful for you, the time we spent together and the things you taught me about love and companionship. I will love you forever!
Thank you so much for this video. I had my pal of 14 years euthanized las weekend and it was so hard. She could no longer walk without stumbling and couldn't get up by herself without help. She had been foecal and urinary incontinent for some time. Her back legs had been weak for a year, but her front legs began to go as well. Her appetite was still good, and she still wagged her tail, but her eyes told me she was ready. I'm also very glad I was with her to the end. I sat on the floor with her (as did the vet), and she died with her head in my lap, with no fear or anxiety. It is the hardest thing, but watching her continue to suffer would have been worse.
Thank you for the video. We had a similar case. We had our 13 year old euthanized at home yesterday. It was a very very hard decision. She was 95lbs and had developed severe arthritis to a point where she couldn’t get up and was soiling on herself. She was walking slow but with medication she was all right but suddenly one day she couldn’t walk or stand no more. We were carrying her out to backyard and back for a few days and yet she would soil herself. The poor soul was actually embarrassed this was happening to her. Till the last minute she enjoyed her food and treats. Except for arthritis all her vitals were very normal. My entire home feels lonely with out her and my nightmare is I have three other dogs 11,9 and 8 and dread this experience. What I found as a life lesson is that losing a pet is incredibly more painful than one realizes. Memories of you pet makes you both happy and sad. It is a unique emotional pain like no other..
Thank you Doctor. I have a 16 year old Lhasa Apso who has been with me every day of her life. This past year and the half she started to lose her vision, and has a difficult time moving. The past six months she started to walk into walls or trapping herself into corners, and is no longer responding to my voice. What makes this decision difficult is when we get ready for bed she still responds to my snuggles 😣 It breaks my heart to lose her, but it really breaks my heart knowing that she’s no longer enjoying her life. Thank you for helping me through this process.
Thank you for your wonderful and heartfelt video. The care and love you have for animals is so evident in your eyes and voice. The pain of putting down your dog still shows on your face. Thank you so much for the love you have for the animals that love us back unconditionally.
Thank you from the bottom of my broken heart for making this video. You are right about it being one of, if not the hardest decisions to make in your life. Your word's of wisdom have helped me make a logical decision where there is much emotion involved.
You're an amazing person. The loving heart you have for our companions comes through 110% I've had several pets, five dogs for the last several years and have had to make the decision to euthanize more than once. I will never forget when I took my black lab Max, to be euthanized, let me tell you a little about this and why one thing you said matters so very much. Max was with me as a teenager and was my constant companion. It was he and I against the world. I moved from Ohio to Texas, Max came with. When everything went wrong, Max was there to comfort me. But, when Max got old and became incontinent, I decided to have him put down. When I took him to the vet hospital I was taken into a room to say my goodbyes. When the nurse checked in to see if I was ready, I told her I was. She asked if I was going to come along, I declined. It was the worst decision I've ever made in my life. When she led Max out of the room, his tail wagged but he stopped, looked back at me as if to say, aren't you going to come too? I cried and put my head down and the door shut. Max was euthanized and I wasn't there to hold him after all those years he was to comfort me. I'm so sorry Max. I'm crying as I write this because I am now going on 48 and although that was nearly 15 years ago, I know I was in the wrong. I was so selfish to not be there for him. Please, don't make the mistake I did. Be there with you companion when he is euthanized. It's very difficult, but like the doctor says, he deserves at least that much from you. Thanks for reading this long post. Thank you Doctor for such great advise and love you give to our most faithful companions.
I'm so sorry; try to forgive yourself (but not forget the lesson, and thank you for sharing it with others). We all make mistakes and fall short; we're only human -- not as good as animals! O:)
My boxer/Shepherd mix, 11 year old girl has later stage lymphoma. Prednisone helped for two weeks, but her appointment is tomorrow at noon because keeping her alive in her deteriorating condition would be selfish. I just happened upon your video, and you just said everything my head knows but my heart doesn’t want to face. I will keep the appointment because I know she’ll only get worse, and the look in her eyes as she struggles to walk and get up, asking me what’s wrong with her is heartbreaking. Thank you for your reiteration of what I know I have to do. I’ll miss her, but she deserves peace.
My grandpa had to let his dog go a while ago. Her name was Twister. She had tumors on her sides and was pacing around the house aimlessly and my grandpa decided it was the time to euthanize her when she walked out of an open gate in the yard and she didn't know where she was or how to get back home. She lived to around 14, i think. if you ask me for an update I'll ask my grandpa exactly what age. That's really good considering she was a Russell terrier! She was a good dog, the boss of all the other bigger dogs though. My fondest memory of her is the the time my brother's dog ran out of the front door while it was open and ran down the street. Twister ran out right after her and chased her down the street out of view, and when my grandpa hopped in the car to go find them he saw that the dog who escaped was walking back home... with Twister close behind, barking at her all the way and making sure the dog walked all the way back up the stairs into the house.
Great story. Yeah Terriers rule! Had a terrier and cattle dog mix, she was def alpha. She loved rawhides but preferred to get one that one of the other dogs had made more pliable. So what she would do is sound the alarm (bark like they needed to get out in the yard and patrol.) Run outside real quick and then race back in and grab up the chewy rawhide while the other ones were like "uh?..what are we out here for, anything good to see? She did this a lot so we knew it was indeed her special little trick. She was a real character.
I knew when it was time to say goodbye to my Woofer. I'd known the time was coming for a while, then on 5th November 2014, he came downstairs about 10am, he put his head on my knee, and all the life had gone from his eyes. All the sparkle had gone, they were dull, sad, and sunken. I knew instantly that today was the day. I phoned the vets, made the appointment for 1pm, then called my family to let them know, and invite them to the house to say goodbye if they wanted to. I gave him his favourite breakfast, and at 12:30, the pet ambulance arrived to pick him, and I up. Mum followed us to the vets in a taxi, and at 1pm on the dot he died in my arms. We bought Woofer in 1999 when I was just shy of 8 years old, he was the little brother I'd always wanted. When I got him he was far younger than I was led to believe at just 5 weeks. I stayed up with him every night for a month, and a half to bottle feed him. When I had to put him to sleep, it was the first, and only time i've ever felt grief. I've lost family, and friends, and never felt a thing for them, but when Woofer went, my heart broke.
I just want to thank you Dr. McAfee. I watched this video at least 10 times. You are so thorough and honest. You have obviously put enormous effort into this video. Well done! I hope a ton of people see this and benefit. I have to make the choice for my Lillian tomorrow. Much love. ❤️
Thank you for this video and your personal story. I am putting my beloved Lab Tootsie down this afternoon. You helped me feel a little less guilty. She has been soiling in the house for many months, needs help getting up 90 percent of the time, but can walk and wags her tail that has been straight down for about a year. She still begs for food and wants to go in the park for walks, but can't make it too long and walks tripping over herself. I know she is in pain and not doing any of the crazy stuff she used to be able to do....especially knocking over the kitchen garbage can when we forget to put it up. (She used to open the kitchen cabinets to get into it too.) She used to love to jump our 5 foot fence and run around the park playing with the kids and the dogs out there until we grabbed her. Although she learned to listen so well outside she hardly ever needed a leash. She loved the rain and was never afraid of thunder and lightning. She's 14. I will miss her so much........I can't go to work anymore and come home to find her stuck in her own feces and trying to get up. She doesn't deserve it. Now she will be able to follow me everywhere I go and not have to wait at home for me to get back...right? That's what I will believe. God Bless all of our pets and loving owners.
My dog is 16 almost 17 and has several symptoms but I can't say he would rather be resting then here with us. When times are good he's happy bit he often head presses, I've been cleaning up 15 accidents a day for 6 months. Sadly he has lost function in his right front leg so he hobbled on 3 legs. After months of knowing this day is coming, in 12 hours my neighbor who is a vet is coming over to put him down. I'm having a rough time feeling ok with this. My friend who I promised to care for has brought me a lifetime of memories and laughs and love. Tucker I love you and will miss you, I'm sorry...
just had to put my only dog down 3 days ago. He was 18 years old. Well trained and such a wonderful dog always smiling. He had kidney failure. I feel losted without him.
i couldnt stay with her in the room, my father stayed... i would collapsed... its been 20 days and it hurts so much still...i hope shes happy up there.
Thanks Dr.---must confess you torn me apart. I'm in tears but you confirmed what I knew but your reinforcement is important to me. I cried for your loss too. You come across as a wonderful guy --God bless U.
Had our beloved pit bull/black lab mix euthanized seven years ago---enlarged heart pressing on esophagus. Loved her dearly, but didn't realize how our spirits were intertwined until she was gone. Miss her everyday since then, but looking forward to reunion at Rainbow Bridge. Have had our new girl for several years---a rescue also, and am glad I learned from my Mollygirl how precious time with them is. Not too far from having to make "the decision" again, but will do so with love and appreciation for the love she also has given me. I am grateful for the good doctor's advice and reassurance. I am crying in advance of losing another special girl, because I know how beyond words I will be missing Riley too. The love and loyalty of a dog is such a gift.
I have to put my kitty down in 3 days. He as been my best friend for 7 years. 5 years ago I found a coffee cup that says "When I needed a Hand I found your paw". McGee has always been there for me, and I for Him. I have never been this close to an pet before. I am dreading the days to come. 😪
Very helpful video. You must always stay with them when you put them to sleep, because that is when they need you most. It's all about them at that point. Put them first and don't be a coward. You'll be glad you stayed with them.
My Chow Chow was 3 mos old when I got her & I had to PTS at age 16 due to having hip dyplasia, just like this vet said...she started losing urine on her ortho bed and once she looked up at me with "those eyes" & I knew she was telling me it was time to let her go...I still cry to this day because we went thru so much together. Her vet did piss me off as it was done at the vets...and I said I WANTED TO BE WITH HER....so the receptionist said that will be $40 extra dollars, WHAT!!!! well I paid the extra $$$ because there was no way I would have left my loving dog to go thru this alone....I stroked her & spoke to her...& I brought her home & I dug her grave myself....(I am female) and I place her grave under my bedroom window so she still could be close to me....and the breezes blow the wind chimes we both love so much. R.I.P. Ayla
I had to make a decision. I had a small Jack russel/ chihuahua mix breed. He was showing every symptom explained in this video except the vomiting. I know I wasn't ready until it was time. He gave me many signs with minor things he showed.. the way he looked at me.. etc. This video helped me to make a responsible decision. He has suffered long enough just for me to consume more additional data before I had to take action. I wanted one more night with him but he showed me that it's already long enough.. I made the decision nearly right after watching this video. RIP Reeses 2007-2020 🥺😪❤
Pony (26th sept 2003~3rd July 2019) I love you so much... that you were my only little sister and I will never forget about you. RIP. Love you, love you so much... Thank you for the video..
I couldn't watch her die. I held her while they gave her a sedative, I love my Angel. Such a good dog, but I couldn't watch her die...I didn't want that image forever seared in my mind. Hurts so much. I wanted to remember her alive happy and healthy. 15 years of joy. Nothing can replace that love.
Poem for my dog You brought hope.dreams and love to our life If could do it again we wouldn't think twice We are here today to lay you too rest It's very hard but we shall do our best With music,love and all the comforts of your home to let you know you're not alone So here we are and here we stand to walk you back into Gods hands In heaven you'll run a great! Golden lane and you'll do it all will no more pain We are sending you too.the heavens above just know shido we do it with love One day we'll look to the stars with memories of you in deep in our hearts So run bushido run do what you do and perhaps that day we may get a glimpse of you. Koyo,kuma and Akria too will miss the life they once shared with you,. you were a dog like no other and I swear we will take care of care of your sisters and bother so rest my love and you will see the hardest part of loving you is setting you free Love always your pack
Carol Jean, your poem touched my heart soooooooooo deeply. Your loss is so profound and you expressed it beautifully. The very last line of the poem brought great tears falling from my eyes - "So rest, my love, and you will see the hardest part of loving you is setting you free." Thank you for that.
Thank you for this compassionate video. I have to say Good Bye tomorrow to my Blu Boy. I'm emotionally all over the place; I've had him for 10 1/2 years since he was 5 weeks old; this is one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make. Thank you for clarity and understanding to make the right and decent decision.
My 16 year old had the vast majority of the fatal symptoms described by this kind doctor. His organs were shutting down one by one but it all happened so fast! Within two days a senior with health problems went from lively to lifeless. All I needed to do was look into his eyes to see that he didn't have any more strength even though doctors did all they could to reverse the inevitable. But I knew, when it's your dog you know in your gut when your friend decides he has no more strength. It's clear euthanasia was the kindest act, after we fought until the end. And yet here I am two days later watching videos that will confirm my decision was the correct one. It was, but every time I come to this conclusion I have to start all over second guessing. Euthanasia was the kindest thing I could do for my dog but I don't think I'll ever get over it.
Thank you for sharing these clear stages of death. I agree with everything you said and My decision to let Solomon go was the most difficult decision of my life but I know I showed him the respect he always deserved and death with dignity was truly honored. I could not have done this without the support of my dear friends...Solomon was put to sleep on May 11 2015. I can take comfort in knowing i showed him respect and treated him as I would want to be treated... and that i never pulled on his leash while on a walk because he was sniffing too long or I was in a hurry. The day will come that you wish you were holding that and waiting and waiting while they sniff..I still have extreme moments of sadness that i can't hug him
Thank you, i needed that. I just had to say good bye to my cat "Armin" after19yrs a couple of weeks ago. I love and miss him so much. In his last days as hard as it was i had to think of him and not myself. I am still trying to not beat myself up. I have to remember all the love and good times. Hearing your words and watching your video help a lot. thank you again.
Thank you so much for this video and your wise comforting words. Your personal story was heartfelt and i'm sorry for your loss. Tomorrow I have an in home euthanization appointment for my Daisy that is a Beagal hound mix that I rescued 15 years ago from a shelter. She is my bestfriend and has been through everything with me a wonderful protector, helped raise my two children. Was there for me on lonely nights when I felt unwanted or unloved. I will miss her dearly.....My heart goes out to any pet owner that has to make this heart wrenching decision. I pray that our furry family waits on the other side for us all. Peace be with you.
Thanks, right now lifting my Labrador up on his bad knees. Sometimes he can do it, still goes to the bathroom once he starts walking but having a seizure once every two days....its almost that time for the 15yr old buddy..
Your video gave me a lot to think about and after days of soul searching I was able to let go of my dog, Shadow. Thank you so much for posting this thoughtful video!!!!
Thank you for this compassionate advice to others about their pets. I agree with you. It is a hard decision to make, but I have been with every pet I have had to put down to rest at the end of their life. It is best to be there with them so they feel comfortable. I had a cat that had cancer, a dog with a bowel blockage, another dog with kidney failure, my favorite dog that became so old she struggled to get up and kept losing control of her bladder - these were hard decisions, but I knew their quality of life was at the end and they were in pain. Keep supporting pet owners like you do.
I watched my grandmother die slowly and painfully. I made a promise when I adopted my dog that I would let her go when her quality of life diminished. I've had her for 9 of the 10 years of her life so I know the changes. Statistically speaking I will outlive her so to keep her alive as long as possible is just inhumae. My boyfriend has a dog that I feel needs to be put down but he thinks it's normal to have aches in pain in old age that he attributes her constant crying (that he admits annoys him) as no big deal. I feel really sorry for her but she's going to be in a lot of pain because he's too selfish to let go (which he also admitted might be a thing).
Your personal story really hit me hard because, I’m going through that right now. My first ever dog was clearly sick and struggling to breath so we made the decision to put her to sleep. with my dog now she still eats, drinks, and is still there mentally, still can control her bowels, she just cannot walk well and struggles to get up on her own. We have to carry her outside down the steps to go out and potty. I don’t know why it’s been a harder decision with her but, last night I broke down knowing this isn’t far to her and that the time to let her go is coming soon. I had to put myself out of my shoes and say “if this was someone else’s dog I would be saying this isn’t fair”. So I think my family will be setting that up soon and it breaks my heart but, your advice is great. We have to think about her and what’s best for her ❤️
this is literally me right now. My dog declined pretty badly a few days ago where he couldnt get up at all without my help. hes seemto regained some strength to get up but needs me to constantly watch him and hold him while he pees and poos so he doesnt fall over. he just started trying to eat again but still just lays there all day long. Part of me is making any excuse I can but my gut is saying is time is now. He cant go on his long walks or chase a ball like he loved. but its gonna break me, hes still wagging his tail but he looks so tired
This video really helped me feel more at ease of making my decision. Thank you for sharing your story, it really helped me know that Sophie's needs have to be first, always.
Thank you for sharing your personal story. I too just put my dog down she was 21. I struggled with using my head and not my heart. But ultimately I did just that. Saying goodbye to my dog was 100 times harder saying goodbye to my beloved parents when they passed. It feels like an eternal pain.
Thank you doctor for this video. We put our cat down at 21 and I was with her the whole time. Our dog is 13 and slowing down. It is the hardest decision to make for them as their pet parents.
I can tell how much he cares. This video helped me in February of last year. Rest in peace, Odie. He was my best friend from the age of five to twenty. I will always miss him. Best friend I could have ever asked for. I can only hope he felt the same about me. Even in the times when I was maybe grumpy or meaner than I should have been. Or the lazy times I didn’t spend with him when I could have. I love you, Odie. I hope I can see you again some day.
I'm 74 and single. My dogs mean everything to me. I rescued my last girl, Florence, a Lab mix from the pound 3 years ago. She was running loose on the street, no collar or chip and had recently given birth. She appeared to be about 6 years. The Humane Society had to trap her as she would not come to anyone, so she lost her pups! Severely flea infected and heavy skin damage, severe hair loss etc. I adopted her 3 weeks after they brought her in, just after she was spade. She'd caught pneumonia at the pound, which I was unaware of until the next day when she got very sick. 2 weeks in hospital. I dealt with numerous other med issues- skin and ear infections etc. over her life with me. She was well worth the effort! Nothing helped but prednisone which caused other major problems. She also developed tumors on her hocks and toes/feet. The prednisone was increased to control them. Some had to be surgically removed, along with an infected front toe that would not heal. The tumors worsened, finally diagnosed as cancer and she was put on chemo, but it was too late. She had stopped playing fetch before this, had slowed down over the past few months, would sometimes stand and stare vacantly at nothing. She began to regularly tear up her beds, restless at night and laying in strange spots. Her eyes sometimes looked vacant and sad. She developed another large tumor on her tongue. Her stools had changed over the last few weeks from well-formed to smaller dark poops. She could no longer get comfortable in her seat in the truck. She'd stopped showing interest in her chew toys that she loved just a few days before my decision to let her go. She had also refused her dinner the previous night, as well as her breakfast that morning, and had difficulty pooping. Just one little poop, but with mucous and bright red blood. She was compassionately euthanized that day at home, while eating ice cream. This was 2 weeks ago! I have never been so devastated in my life! My guilt and my grief are horrendous! I'm now doubting my decision and it's tearing me apart! Even though I tried to process all of these signs and arrive at a correct outcome, I'm gutted! I sob and cry for her every day to the point of exhaustion! I'm not sure how much more i can take. I miss her so much, words are useless! I only hope I can get through this, and try to be reasonably whole once more.
I have lost many many dogs over my 70 years on this earth and it never gets easier. To determine if my dog is ready for that final trip to the vet I ask myself if I would want to continue living in the condition my dog is in. If the answer is no, I know it is time. I have a lump in my throat now just writing this. My heart goes out to each of you who have had to face this terrible loss.
If you're reading this today, I love you and your pet. We are most likely watching this for the same reason tonight, and just know our loved ones will always watch over us. We will be okay, I promise you with all my heart.
Literally in the room with my dog right now wondering if we made the right choice. he was my best friend
@@MrBarboza92 I am SO SORRY Felix. I know your pain well or relate very much to it. I am having to have my kitty euthanized tomorrow....he is Renal Failure. He would go everywhere with me
Daniel Hubbard THANK YOU for your comfort and tremendous love for others.
Thank you for being thoughtful x
I love my dog been w him since I was kid and he getting old I feel like once he gone I will loose my mind because this dog is the reason why I'm happy and keep going in life and calms me down when I'm angry in life
My parents let me pick out my dog, a golden retriever named Nancy, when I was 7 years old. Here I sit 15 years later as a 22 year old man, crying like a baby, knowing this is the last day I’ll share this Earth with her. I am eternally grateful for any loyal and loving pets. You are a good girl Nancy. Thank you for greeting me every day I came home from school throughout my childhood and teenage years. I will love you my entire life as you loved me throughout your entire life.
I just euthanized my dog after 14 years with him. He was in obvious pain and would sit and wimper. This dog slept on my bed every night, was with me after my heart attack, did daily chores with me for 14 years. He knew what was happening at the end and was licking my hands and face in the waiting room. It was so devastating I don't know that I could do it again. They are better than people.
+Jay Gold so sorry. I hope your grief is less. xo Your dog is STILL with you though...
You showed real love and strength, for you'r friend. It's out the ball park hard, I just had my girl sent to heaven yesterday. God bless.
Im understand i had my 15 year old pit bull mix put to sleep. No quality of life
why people are so selfish???
To kill dogs when they are old? you think its for their betterment? no it's not for their betterment, its for your betterment. for you to live hassle free, since you cant find additional time to take care of your dog when he is old. Have you ever asked him if he wanted to be killed???? Dogs biggest dream and only wish is to live atleast one additional second/minute/hour or a day with their families, DESPITE OF THE PAIN THEY ARE IN..............
you like, throwing a waste shit, you wanted to kill him by injecting venom. its harsh.
let him die, naturally. natural death is not killing.
Remember, that He was there for you when you needed him and now it is the time when he needs you but you wanna to kill him.
huh, justifying as its to ease his pain..... good for you, if you think so.
+Aravinda Dahanayake I agree . what did they do in the 1600s this purposefully killing of pets seems like a modern tool.
I put my best friend to rest today....my heart is crushed....13 years Jack was my best friend and soul mate ......my life will never be the same...
My heart breaks for you, Darrell. Rest in peace, Jack. You two will be reunited over the Rainbow Bridge one day.
Betsy Ettensohn Betsy - the pet owner needs to be saved, through Christ alone, in order to see their pet again after death. Heaven and hell are real and the Bible is the only truth.
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The modern day bible is one in name only. There have been huge changes in the bible since its translation. The modern day bible does not accurately represent the teachings of Jesus Christ or his apostles. To understand that modern day bible one must understand the original. Few Christians do.
Franco the Hebrew Bible is good to study but so too are modern translations. Jesus Christ died for our sins - we need to repent to be saved - and read His Word/pray & trust in Him for His Truth to be revealed to us
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The modern bible is good to read if one has common sense enough to know the difference of what is truly God's word and what is not. There are not groups of little sins that damn a man to hell. Christ did say that the most important commandment is Love thy Neighbor and in fact said that that commandment alone will take a man to eternal life. Any attempt to condemn any group of people or their behavior is totally contrary to what Jesus actually taught. Jesus made it very clear that the Justices were the only laws from the O.T. that should be considered detrimental to the soul of mankind. There are parts of the O.T. and the N.T. that are helpful in leading a good life but if we are talking what a man must do to enter the Kingdom of Heaven it is clear enough because Jesus himself said it. Love your brothers and sisters. Not just some of them, all of them. Not an easy assignment I must say. I do however believe that when we pass we will be met by all our furry friends. Those of us who have been surrounded by them all our lives will be inundated by licks and barks.
It’s really hard. I lost my cat last week. I offer my deepest condolences to anyone else who is going through this.
It’s like a kick to the stomach, isn’t it?
@@Tammy8823 You're don't just lose a pet you lose a member of the family. My 2 cats were like my children.
@@Tammy8823 "A kick in the stomach"? More like being *stabbed* at the very depth of your soul!
@@jaggass Correct!
@@Tammy8823 More like a kick in the heart.☹
Just had to put my boy to sleep Saturday 30th 2022. One of the hardest yet peaceful and beautiful things I've experienced. We cuddled him til the end.
Rest in Peace Onyx Smith
Love you 💔
My dog was put down a few weeks ago and I still suffer from the pain. I will miss my toshy, but to anyone who has to do this, remember we're all in this together. Everything gets better with time. And sooner or later, we will join them in the afterlife and see our beloved bestfriends again. Much love everyone ❤ 🐾
Yes we will
Dang, Dr looked like he was about to cry, this video made me feel a lot better
I've watched a lot of these videos (had to do it just six months ago for a cat of 15 with HCM and am facing again with his lifelong companion), and this is one of the best; he gives excellent guidelines to follow, a personal example, and clearly feels compassion, unlike some vets. I especially like that he says not to feel rushed into the decision. On two occasions, I definitely did (my options as given were leaving them at the clinic in the hospital all alone for treatment that would most likely have been futile, at great emotional cost to them and financial cost to me) or doing the deed then and there; I felt I wasn't given the option of taking my pet home and thinking it over. Very good video.
I followed your advice til the end.
I was there the first day my dog opened her eyes, and i was there the last day she closed them.
15 years of unconditional love and loyal companionship. The first real health issue was when she was 12. She had an infected uterus, and it had to be removed. After hours of talking to the vet, we decided it was worth trying. As she was still really fit and strong for her age. The operation was a success and she recovered in a couple of weeks. Fast forward 3 years.. In her last year, her health rapidly started to decline. She got mid stage cataract and went about 95% deaf.
She was pooping and urinating uncontrollably. Puke and diarrhea everywhere every 2 to 3 days. She was in constant pain because of her old bones. She was rapidly losing weight. She started getting severe heart murmurs. We got a prescription for that, which extended her life for another 2 months. Eventually she could hardly walk for 5 minutes. Eventually she just started to collapse. She started developing a bulge on the side of her head, and got really scary seizures..
Today, we asked our vet for advice and we all came to the agreement that it would be best for the dog to be put down.
I dropped to the floor and held her in my arms. The first injection, which was to put her to sleep, was supposed to hurt. She didn't even budge.. I gently scratched her neck and behind her ears.. She just kept looking me in the eyes as she slowly fell asleep. I'll never forget her.. A lot of dog owners claim their dog is really sweet. But mine i can confidently say was one of a kind.. She'd cheer me up if i was down. Even in our final moments together.. She licked my nose one last time before she fell asleep.
The second needle came, and she slowly stopped breathing. I was there from the beginning all the way to the end, and wouldn't have it any other way.
I'll never forget her. And i'll never be able, or even try to replace her. Rest in peace Blacky..
RIP Blacky
@@thebaldog1209 I had mine euthanized today...I'm happy that I took her to SPCA... I'm happy that she slept ....I don't know how I'm gonna go through this deep pain...I said goodbye... I assured Him of my love forever...I'm hurting sooo much.... Sadly I have another one whom I see that He's hurting... I pray that He must not die of a broken heart... Donnel couldn't walk any more...Simba spent all His time with Him...never left His side...This morning we had to set Donnel free...I get goosebumps... May He rest in peace...
Beatrice my love, I rescued you, and you rescued me. Some of the best dogs come from the pound. RIP Sweetie
Groovyman 1968 I've got some wonderful dogs and cats from the pound very loving very grateful
Sir, thank you for your compassionate and professional video.
I am planning on finally saying the eternal goodbye this week to my beloved pup Archie, who I got as a rescue over 18 years ago. It is time. I really needed this beautiful video from Dr. McAfee to reinforce my decision. As Morgan Steele wrote, and I agree, "Sir, thank you for your compassionate and professional video." I have watched it 4 times already, with tears in my eyes.
Morgan Steele wonderful video. Very important, hard to do as a pet owner, but if you love them you have to let them go if it's time. Don't be selfish and keep them alive for you. I'm having that right now with my little 14yr old Yorkie mix....😔
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I so agree that we should be with our beloved pets until the end. I’ve heard so many stories where pet parents have said that being in the room would have been too hard. Yes, it’s extremely difficult to watch your pet be put to sleep but why put our feelings first? To pass away in the arms of someone you love most is the ultimate comfort. Our beloved pets do deserve that.
Completely agree that it is selfish and wrong to abandon a beloved pet at the very end of its life. Don't know how I will cope but cope I must when the time comes. I must remember that when he sees my face close to his at the vets he becomes calmer. That will be the last gift I can give him.
I am still resenting the vet who sent me home 35 years ago. I will never forgive myself for leaving mine.
Thanks for the added guilt to last a lifetime. It is not selfish as one of the comments here stated. It is an individual choice, nothing to do with self interest.
@@Doriesep6622.. your friend, your dog wouldn't want that.. He/she would want you to think about the good times and be happy with those memories. That's all dogs ever really want, besides treats, is for their people to be happy.
Being in the same room and seeing my cat die gave me PTSD afterwards and to this day I have intrusive thoughts at random times that I cannot control of the process of my cat dying. I wish I didnt see it because now I'm left with lifelong trauma that effects my everyday life. So no, it's not for everyone and a person is not cruel for not wanting to look at their animal die.
It was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I put my dog Boy down on October 25th, 2021. He gave me 15 incredible years and I will always be thankful to him. He taught me how to love unconditionally. Thank you Boy! I will love you forever! Thanks for this video Doc, it got me through a hard time. I was feeling guilty about euthanizing my Boy. I feel a lot better now.
My 14 year old crossed the Rainbow Bridge yesterday with the help of our vet. I see so many other people have come to this video after they did this just as I did. I have cried and cried all night. My dog was falling all over the place, could no longer stand without falling over and would wake up in pee on her dog bed most mornings the last few weeks. I didnt want to let her go! She was still eating and drinking but she had no clue where she was. Everyone says do it for your pet. Why do I feel so wrong?? I am broken into pieces. My dog trusted me and I had to make a choice. Why do I feel wrong for making the choice? I know it was the right thing to do but I am heartbroken and I don't think I could ever do it again. I have cried more in the last 24 hours over my dog than I have over friends and family members that have gone. My sweet Layla was one of the best dogs. I adopted her 12 years ago after some puppy farm used her and dropped her at a pound! I will miss my best friend😢😢
@Lisa Mac I am so sorry for your loss. It was definitely the hardest thing I ever had to do. I miss my boxer everyday. Sending hugs to you
@jimmy jones I am so very sorry for your loss. I know your pain and I know you keep questioning yourself, I did too. It has been 2 years since I posted this and I still miss my girl. I now know I did the right thing and in time you will come to peace with it too. I kept hoping my girl would pass in her sleep at home but she just wouldn't let go and I believe it was because she knew I needed her. She could no longer walk those last 2 weeks and would lay in her pee every morning because she couldn't get up. The way I see it now is that it is our responsibility to show our loyalty back them just as they did for so many years. my loyalty to her was to let her go peacefully with no more pain while I held her as she crossed the Rainbow Bridge. I truly believe they hold on for us so as much as it hurts, you did the right thing. I wish I could say something to take the pain away, they are family and we hurt just like we would if we lost a human loved one. Again I am so so very sorry.
Daniel, what a precious comment. Thank you. It made me cry. The hardest things I have done in my life was take my elderly, sick cocker spaniel for euthanasia. She was truly my best friend, and was my constant companion. I know I did the right thing, but so painful.
The only time a dog will ever break your heart is when theirs stops beating. 💔🐾
Wow, that just punched me right in the gut. So true ❤️❤️❤️ this, for multiple pet owners never gets easier. I got to wonder why we keep putting ourselves through it. But I know why... the loyalty and unconditional love is something you don’t find anywhere else but in a great pet. I’m facing this decision again with my 13 year old dog. He’s had diabetes since he was 2 years old. Chronic pancreatitis has left him weak, lethargic and in pain. Chronic muscle wasting has left him too weak to be hisself and I know he’s suffering. Struggling to get his diabetes under control and keep him eating regularly. I don’t want to keep him around for my sake. He deserves a better life. This dog is my heart.... they all are. It’s a road to a decision that never gets easier but I’ve learned that quality of life is what all good pets deserve. Pancreatic inflammation is painful, mostly chronic when they get to this age and no amount of money or treatment will help, it will only prolong the inevitable. Meanwhile your pet feels like shit most of the time. Yeah, my heart is breaking.
@@dawncombs1408 Hi Dawn. May you be blessed in your decision to help your pup cross Rainbow Bridge. I know it sucks. This video really is honest and real as painful as it is. Make a video or take pictures. Spend the full day with him/her. Make a clay imprint of the paw, shave or cut some fur to save. Do everything you need to do to keep your memories. After almost a year now, I am looking for another dog. Grief will soon become joy again. 🐾🐾
Christy what a beautiful thought, you are exactly right. Had to put my best friend of 15 years down two months ago and the heartbreak is still nearly unbearable. I still keep his collar on my bedpost where he and I spent so much time together. Every once in a while I will rub up against it just to hear his tags tinkling like he's still there. It just makes me feel a little closer to him. RIP Teddy...see you soon!
@@robertbeckom1962 I wish you well. I had to put my boy of 14 years to sleep on Christmas Eve morning last year. And guess what...I just brought home a 2 year old rescue this afternoon. Trust me. Time will heal your heart. There are so many dogs out there who are just waiting every day for someone like you. ❤❤🐾🐾
This heartfelt advice has helped me deal with this issue more than any other. In less than two days of writing this my dear cat of over 20 years will be put down due to kidney failure and refusing to eat. You really hit this gut wrenching decision on a level I've not heard before. Thank you.
I had to have my beloved cat, Hannah, of 14 years put down last Thurs suddenly after her health rapidly deteriorated. Her vet and staff were so sweet and compassionate and she left this world with me at her side...one of the most difficult decisions I had to make but it was for her sake. I will always be grateful for the 14 years I had with her as she was the most affectionate, loving cat I have ever known. Until we see each other again my sweet Hannah...rest in peace...
My 13 1/2 German Sheperd named Rocky has been there for all my childhood. I recently graduated college and my dog has been showing symptoms of age such as joint problems since January. However last month and this month he can no longer get up, he cannot control his bladder he goes where he lays and I constantly clean him up and move him outside and inside. It's so sad when I was young he loved playing soccer with me. He was like Air Bud, he moved the ball with his paws and head. So athletic. Now I see in his eyes that he can't go anymore. I know its time to put him down it's hard to let go the one you love. But I know the memories of him and I will live on forever.
LovelyJenny :'(
He will have had a beautiful life.
im very sorry, my dog is 15 and am going through this right now... we are going to put her down and its so heart breaking ….
Hi Jack, how are you? My dog is almost at the end too 😭
Sorry for your loss ! German shepherds are the best !!! I grew up w/ them as well.💜💜💜💜💜🥁🎵🐉🎤🎶💖💕💞Lots of hugs & love to you from L.A.! I am Japanese.
Biscuit, my first dog ever. You were with me for elementary, Jr high, high school, college, apprenticeship, and now I’m a union journeymen. 17 old years and you still looked like a stud. I don’t even remember my life without you in it. You fought till the very end buddy. But god saw you were tired.. July 2 2018. Love you little one rip
Just saw this. So sorry for your loss. You were truly blessed with the long years that you had with your fur-baby. I'm sure you made many precious memories together. Let those wonderful moments take you into the future. And, perhaps, if you haven't yet, you will find another friend one day. One to walk with you in another few chapters of your life. You seem like a very loving and sensitive person towards your pet and best friend. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Again, so very sorry for your loss.
My border collie is 17 and I have to put her to sleep today :( I've also had her all thru schooling, tech school and every job until today 9/14/20
My cat was just put down today, i didnt want it but he was suffering his heart stopped and had blood clots on his hind legs. Doctors tried everything but wasnt responding to medications. I really miss him.
Death is hard but death is part of life too. Im happy he didnt suffer any longer than he have to.
I miss you sylvester :(
Hi. I wonder after your cat put in sleep, what was your next step?
I just lost my cat five days ago and I vowed to always be there at the end with my pets. They do deserve that. I hear other people say they can't do it, but try to be there for them. It rips me apart and I am still very sad over it.
Thank you. I’m letting my boy Leroy go today. He’s 16 years old weighs 2 pounds. Lived a good pampered life and the best fur baby I’ve ever had. It’s hard to say goodbye but it’s time. Thank you again.
I was scheduled to take my dog in for euthanasia two months ago. He is a black lab, retriever mix, who is AT LEAST 15 years old. We got him in 2001. My husband made me cancel the appointment because he was not ready (my husband, not the dog). I can't stand to see my dog in pain every day of his life. He falls all the time, lays around day and night, I think he's blind now, he always has slobber on his face -which he's never had before, and he has lost so much weight, he doesn't resond the way he used to. He quit going on walks a year ago. My husband is hoping he will die on his own, but I know what we need to do. I appreciate the message that we need to consider the dog's life over our own needs to keep him around. I will have to tell the man, "Use your brain, not your heart." :)
I'm so sorry for what you're going thru. My chocolate lab is not acting himself. He's 11. Everything I'm reading isn't good and I got to take him in at 930am tomorrow to see what the vet thinks. I can't sleep, think, I'm feeding him treats like a Crack fein. I'm a rough and tough prison officer, hunter, etc. Nothing makes me tear up like loosing my best bud, I hope you guys figure out what's best for your bud. Labs are so awesome.
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When your dog has slobber all over him it is due to the head shaking post or after a grand mal seizure.....after a seizure they have a ton of saliva that is thick and gooey and after a seizure which is difficult to watch let alone keep them safe afterwards they attempt to shake off the dizziness their response is as if they went swimming in water and got water in their ears they cant focus or gain balance they often suffer strokes or vestibular events which make them really unstable they can hardly walk or walk in circles and head tilt or have one eye half closed which is either temporarily or permanently blind. They peepee anywhere are confused or their bedding is soiled and they cannot walk without falling their eyes may go back snd forth rapidly or they lick their blankets or their own teeth and twitch when they sleep they may be.clinging to you want to be near you or right after a grand mal which btw they lose control of bladder and or colon and may pee or poop where they had the seizure and they are restless they will get up right away and not follow commands to lay down or sit due to their dazed condition they only know to leave the position they were in when they half aware knew that something wasnt right. This is followed by them running into doors glass sliding doors coffee tables anything they then fall and despite your best efforts will not stay laying down they think they are fleeing an area that is causing this outside of their own body doing it so they worry about you having it and stay close to you after they get over the running around falling over ...they will be very thirsty very thirsty afterward amd may even try to eat..but they will be very susceptible to another seizure..i use CBD OIL by a place called vet meds.signal hill california they make this pure full spectrum no hallucinogenic no overdose possibility no interaction with any other drugs and no allergic reactions it is hypoallergenic it is just the flowers of the plant so dont think you are drugging your dog it has zero allucinogenic
My dog is still pretty healthy for his age, but I know this will be the hardest and saddest moment of my life when it's time... And I plan to be there till the very end. I agree we owe them that much. And not drop them off at vet
I would ask the vet what cocktail your dog will be given. Many times, animals appear as though they are experiencing humane euthanasia, but they are simply paralyzed and unable to breath. ALWAYS ASK. Vets still use muscle relaxers which cause animal to stop breathing. Many times, it takes minutes to die. It is agony. Vets will not tell you this. Many times people think their pet is dead, but animal is alive, just cant breath or open eyes.
MartialArtsFan72 That's BS. The vet let us listen for his heart with her a few seconds after he died. He was gone quickly. Veterinarians have NO motive to let animals suffer. I think what you're posting here is cruel and meant to taunt people who came here for help.
That time is coming very soon for my baby. He's twelve and has an enlarged heart, asthma and his kidneys are failing. He's going to the vet soon, and we have to make the decision on whether he should be put down or not. He still has his mind and he can still get around, so its a gray area right now. I just wish he didn't have to go. :( :( :(
Update: my dog passed away about two years ago, on the kitchen floor. I came downstairs to leave for school, and I realized he was laying paralyzed and breathing heavily. After I told him it was alright to go, he died. He was twelve.
My dog was 20 years old when he died I was there until the end!I it was heartbreaking...
I just lost my dear baby cat. He was stroke by a car, lost an eye and got his jaw fractured. I wish people would be more conscious about the animals and respect the fact that they are living things, they feel pain and joy. All lives matter. Rest in peace my baby Richard
It was time for Henny Penny. 15+ years and I face a sad day tomorrow.
Compassionate words "Keep your pet alive for them". Thank you!
My dog passed 2 months ago. Im hearbroken but i always promised myself that he will pass in his own house on his own blanket and pillows. So i had a Lady Vet to come to my house and the family was here also to say goodbye. It helped to have it done this way. It helped just a little bit better then to do it on some steel table in the Vets office.
He died in his surroundings and i wasn't ashamed to cry like i did along with my family.
It helped a little with the guilt trip that we all go through after their gone. God Bless all the animals on earth. I also cremate my pets and the Urn's that their ashes are in are beautiful and i know their spirit and the energy they leave behind feels closer to me.
Either way ......their energy stays with us. Energy never dies. I believe a dog will never break your heart ;
Not until theirs stops beating. The same for the cats
I've raised too. The same for any pet we've raised. When you talk to them ,
I also believe they hear us. The older the memory gets..... The sweeter it becomes. And God Bless all of you that have Loved your pets as I have.
I had to let my best friend go yesterday. He had MO and had got aspirated pneumonia and the vet felt he wouldnt get better. When we went to the animal hospital he stood there, and wagged his tail when we got there, although he was a good age, all the other parts of him just hadnt seemed "done yet" but, it was hard to say good bye, but it wouldnt have been right to make him go through bouts of this just for us. I will miss him forever, he was truly a good boy. We were with him, we hugged him, we told him how good he was and he truly was a perfect friend.
+Liz Kimber I am sorry for your loss...i am still in grief when i had to put down my 5 yr old dog buddy due to lymphoma i miss him so much but i know we did the right thing he was already losing coordination and was very uneasy this was in dec 4 so our christmas was a sad one without him but now he is no longer in pain
It may have been the right thing but in a way it didnt feel right. Imho, it shouldnt to some extent feel right to end a life, you should have reservations, but in the end you need to do whats right for them not you ..
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I had to say goodbye to my cat Marty last week on the 19th of May. He had been eating his wet cat food, but then laid on his side. It was like his legs gave out on him. My mom and I think he might have had a stroke. By the time I got him into the vet, they said he was in really bad shape by looking at his eyes. He didn't seem very aware of his surroundings. I gave him one last kiss on the cheek and told him I'll always love him. Marty was my best friend.
I would like to thank you sir, your words have a healing affect. Yesterday, I put down my baby boy 8 year old pug bootsy ... hardest thing I've ever done... one of my sons hates me for putting him down but unfortunately he was paralyzed and we couldn't afford surgery. Uncontrollable bowels, dragging his legs, etc. I knew in my heart it was time but stalled for weeks, dealing with the grief of him being in pain was just unbearable. He was a blessing to everyone he met including me. Pets have a way of reminding us humans to love unconditionally. I feel his spirit is still with us and I could never replace him. Thank you again for making this video to console those whom have lost a pet or contemplating saying goodbye humanely. God bless
Great little video. I just took our girl down yesterday, It killed me, honest, ripped me and my wife to bits. Yes we stayed till she fell asleep, We love her, and she loved us. All I can say is the pain for us left behind is way more than the pain of those we love, who have gone to heaven. I know she is happy for eternity, and I will see her again one day. For anyone doing the right thing by their best friend, it takes real guts, and strength, to do the kindest honorable thing for you'r animal. It's paying back their love for you in a way that shows, for you to go through with it, when that time comes. God bless the caring owners ..
Not sure how anyone could give this video a thumbs down.. your words and reasoning gives my heart comfort. Thank you for posting..I put my girl down yesterday. I consider myself a strong person and one that can handle most anything...I was wrong! I didn't want to see it or be there, but you are correct Doc. I/we owe it to our pets to be there. I've replayed her final moments over in my mind endlessly..but.she died with me.holding her in her home.I will gladly bear that burden. Thanks again
Those who thumb downs this heart felt advise walk with the devil.
Maybe they thumbs down that dogs die or something - who the hell are you to tell people how to use youtube?
Thank you. My constant companion for 18+ years , a feral kitten , Annie has aged well with me .
The vets tried to bully me into euthanasia but it didn't feel right. I waited a week and we both needed that after 15 years together.
I have to make this decision tomorrow. My Seymore has many of the symptoms you describe. He was an old foster that no one wanted and has lived with me for 10 years. He can't walk, has had nose bleeds the past few weeks and has stumbled in the corner and cannot back out. I am taking him in tomorrow asking God for strength.
Thank you Dr. Larry. This was a hard watch about a very hard thing to go through. When I heard your pet's story, I can see parallel's to what my own dog is experience. The clarity currently is heartbreaking. God bless you and anyone watching this video, and all the pets of whom we're all here for the same reason.
Thank you so much! I so needed this validation on end of life care for my 3 senior pets. My 18 year old dog was diagnosed with cancer in her leg. We brought her home. It's our turn to give back to them all the love, and companionship they gave us unconditionally throughout the many years.
Again, thank you.
We have to put down my Chihuahua of 15 almost 16 years today. No matter how hard I’ve tried to prepare myself for this day, I’m not ready. What you just said helps me, help him. We just lost our other Sr. Female Chi about a month ago to heart failure. Our boy was already in kidney failure and we almost lost him about two months ago. Trying not to lose both so close together was expensive and I think we did it for our sake. He is also suffering from dementia and does about half the things you mentioned. These are difficult times for my family. If you have it in your hearts, please keep us in your thoughts. We need all the healing we can get. God bless all the animal lovers out there and most of all, god bless our beautiful animals. They bring us so much love, positive energy and happiness.
Having to put our cat down tomorrow, she was sick but doing better. She took a turn for the worst recently and lost a bunch of weight. Hard to do but we can’t be selfish and keep her around in this state. Never thought I’d cry this much
My 13 year old cat was found to have cancer (most likely in his back foot bone), and had a huge bulge full of blood. This made it really hard for him to walk, as well as peeing and pooping. This also caused him to loose control over when to pee and poo. We therefore chose to end his life so that he may rest. He didn't react to the needle, he was quiet and most likely understood it was time to say goodbye. I miss him already, and it's only been one day. R.I.P Svartepetter 2001 - 02.03.2015
Don't be sad they're gone. Be happy they were part of the fam. Easier said than done, I know.
With so much junk on the internet, Its nice to see a humble and genuine person giving honest advice about their field of expertise. Nice job sir.
12 yrs with my rotty. Getting prepared. I thank this vet for clearing my heart. I will do it for her life and not mine.
Thank you, I'm going throught it now with my 14 year old yorkie. (98 years dog years) This is almost 9 years after the original video was posted. I love my Max the Yorkie, and me, my wife, my son, and my daughter hate to see him go. Pray for us,
I did this with my cat, I think I got it done at exactly the right time. He had cancer but was on medication. Right up to the evening before the morning he was put to sleep he was active and eating. During the night he suddenly changed. The medication had stopped working and bad things were going on for him. I'd decided when he was diagnosed to allow him to keep going until such a time that he lost decent quality of life. I had a powerful feeling that it was the right time and didn't have any qualms. Of course I would have been ecstatic if he didn't have cancer and was still with me but We've all got a time and that was his time. It would have been harder to see him go on like he'd become than it was to stand there and see him euthanized in front of my eyes. I owed it to him to be there and to have my hand on him right until he'd gone. It was always all about him from start to finish. You should accept that when you take an animal on as a pet. Now I'm sad that he's not here grinning at me from the opposite chair but I don't have any regrets or feelings of guilt which is something I suppose.
Same experience my dog went through. ❤️
A few months on and I miss the little critter a hell of a lot but I'm still resolute that it was the right thing to do under the circumstances. We adopted another cat from a cat shelter to give him a chance almost immediately. There's always an animal in need of a decent home.
Very well said! I am in the midst of making that decision for my dog, who has nasal cancer and is not responding too well to the treatment.
@Karen oh In time you will see things differently. I was watching a video clip of my cat a few hours ago. He had a good life and he was spoilt rotten. We had him cremated and we put his ashes under the floor boards right under his favourite sleeping spot.
My love, Mila, a border collie/Pom mix, almost 15 years old, was in good health. The last few months she needed to go out in the middle of the night and was having accidents in the house the last week or two. She got diarrhea about two weeks prior and I started cooking boiled chicken and rice and threw in peas and carrots and she ate it like it was gourmet food, licked the bowl into a corner! Her appetite was good. Then one morning I saw she was drooling. What? She vomited a couple times and had a #2 accident in the house. I rushed her to the vet with these symptoms and they knew her age, but never even hinted that she could be passing and ran up $400 in tests and told me she had a little infection somewhere and sent us home with two antibiotics. So even though it didn’t seem right, I was hoping all it was was an infection. When we got home, she laid on the floor and started panting. I was really confused because of what the vet said and didn’t say. I was so hoping that’s all it was. I tried to give her the antibiotics, but the poor baby wasn’t even swallowing her saliva. It made her very uncomfortable and I was so upset for having tried it and the pills were bitter and she couldn’t even drink water. As the afternoon progressed, she got worse, but the vet was closed by the time I was absolutely sure she was dying(after 5). It was a sad and grueling evening for both of us. I am still angry at the vet because I’m fairly certain she knew what was happening. She kept calling her old girl. But she made a lot of money on those tests. How sad. 😔. If I ever see that again, I’d know what was happening. She also kept going into a corner of the kitchen by late afternoon and wanted to be alone. I slept downstairs on the couch that night, and she came out by me in the living room about 1:30 a.m. she had been doing the heavy panting since around 2 or 3 in the afternoon. She stayed by me till about 2:30, then w not back to the kitchen. At 2:53 a.m., I heard a huge cough/pop and she was gone. It was the worst moment of my life. She suffered because the vet either Mia-diagnosed or just didn’t say so they could make money on an old dog that was passing. I am more inclined to believe that the latter is the case. She could have at very least mentioned that it could be a possibility. She didn’t - and Mila suffered and so did I. Thought I’d make people aware of these signs and would suggest making plans with someone to come later in the day, to your home, to euthanize, if things go bad after hours. Had I really thought that’s what was happening, I would have made plans with someone. Now I know.
We had to put our 13 year old beautiful golden down last week from arthritis in his rear legs and hips. Buck will be missed forever. This is the second golden we have had to put down, and it does not get any easier. Buck was still very alert and still loved people making over him. Broke our heart when it got to the point he could no longer get up by himself. We had to lift him for a number of weeks until he could no longer stand or walk correctly. We our suppose to get his remains today to come home to his permanent home forever. LOVE YOU BUCK, WILL MISS YOU FOREVER.
As a vets assistant for many years let me say this, they WILL let you know and when it is time let them go no matter how bad it hurts, let them go. You will recognize when the time comes trust me.
I'm having a hard time reading my cat, but I see her walk into a room and do a deep quiet meow. She's either lost or in pain. :( appointment is tomorrow. I'm a wreck
ALL pets are slaves. it's not okay to own another life. it's time to let them go and let them be free.
I love you Nino. You've taught me so much. I didn't deserve you. My best friend. I'll love you forever. I want you to have the best life ever next time.
If you waited untill they tell you then you have been waiting too long by the time . It's too much sufferings . Sometimes putting it down earlier isn't bad . You make them less suffering .
Today (17th February 2016) my beloved cat Jesse had to be put down, he was 19 human years old I had him since I was 3 and I can't remember a time before he was around, but he was old and he was in pain, today at the vet I had to make the toughest decision any pet owner would have to make, but it's going to get better Jesse you just sleep now.
I know you feel buddy
You were so blessed to have had Jesse for 19 years. I just had to say goodbye to an 11.5 yr old cat. They never could figure out what was wrong. He dropped all body weight, vomited and started having fluid build up in lungs. Whatever their age however, it is the most difficult thing I think we have to endure.
So sorry for your loss of a dear friend
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Thank you Doctor for the very good information in this video!
My "Baby" just turned 11 yrs old on 3/4/23. She's the love of my life and I'm going to be very distrot when that day comes for her. I take very good care of her now making sure she eats healthy and exercises. I can't imagine leaving her to be put down without me being there to let her know how much I love her and will miss her tremendously. She's my entire world, she always makes me happy!!!!!!!!
Thank you, I think this is an important message. To many loving pet owners can't come to that decision because like you said they keep their pets alive for themselves. Sorry for your loss, I could tell it still hurts. You could here your voice begin to crack at the end. You are a wonderful soul kind sir and, I wish you the best.
thank you for this video - it helped me see what I was missing. Lacey (my 14 year old Ruby Cavalier) was an awesome dog/companion/friend and had been struggling with degenerative myelopathy for some time. She could still move around by herself but each day was getting harder and harder. I watched her struggle and since she was ‘my dog’ I kept helping her overcome because God had not yet taken her. Her decline was slow and she still had a lot of energy and life inside her but she could barely stand and toileting was becoming more and more difficult for her. I would have gladly helped her with that but your video helped me look at her though the eyes of what her quality of life was today, knowing that we could do nothing to help her improve. My soul was crushed by what I saw and what I knew I needed to do. I owed it to Lacey to ‘help’ and rather than waiting until she got really bad we decided to put her down yesterday. I’ve always said to myself that I’d rather be a month early with the decision to put her down than an minute to late because that minute of suffering would be agonizing to watch her endure. Thank you for helping me help Lacey. RIP my sweet Brown. I will be forever grateful for you, the time we spent together and the things you taught me about love and companionship. I will love you forever!
Thank you so much for this video. I had my pal of 14 years euthanized las weekend and it was so hard. She could no longer walk without stumbling and couldn't get up by herself without help. She had been foecal and urinary incontinent for some time. Her back legs had been weak for a year, but her front legs began to go as well. Her appetite was still good, and she still wagged her tail, but her eyes told me she was ready. I'm also very glad I was with her to the end. I sat on the floor with her (as did the vet), and she died with her head in my lap, with no fear or anxiety. It is the hardest thing, but watching her continue to suffer would have been worse.
Such a strange feeling, to select the date and time, and watching the clock move.
Thank you for the video.
We had a similar case. We had our 13 year old euthanized at home yesterday. It was a very very hard decision. She was 95lbs and had developed severe arthritis to a point where she couldn’t get up and was soiling on herself. She was walking slow but with medication she was all right but suddenly one day she couldn’t walk or stand no more. We were carrying her out to backyard and back for a few days and yet she would soil herself. The poor soul was actually embarrassed this was happening to her. Till the last minute she enjoyed her food and treats. Except for arthritis all her vitals were very normal. My entire home feels lonely with out her and my nightmare is I have three other dogs 11,9 and 8 and dread this experience. What I found as a life lesson is that losing a pet is incredibly more painful than one realizes. Memories of you pet makes you both happy and sad. It is a unique emotional pain like no other..
Thank you Doctor. I have a 16 year old Lhasa Apso who has been with me every day of her life. This past year and the half she started to lose her vision, and has a difficult time moving. The past six months she started to walk into walls or trapping herself into corners, and is no longer responding to my voice. What makes this decision difficult is when we get ready for bed she still responds to my snuggles 😣 It breaks my heart to lose her, but it really breaks my heart knowing that she’s no longer enjoying her life. Thank you for helping me through this process.
Thank you for your wonderful and heartfelt video. The care and love you have for animals is so evident in your eyes and voice. The pain of putting down your dog still shows on your face. Thank you so much for the love you have for the animals that love us back unconditionally.
11 years ago, this was made, and this really helps.
My dog will be 14 and he’s a still tank. He sleeps a lot but surprisingly he gets these burst of puppy energy at the park or beach. Heavy duty dog
Thank you from the bottom of my broken heart for making this video. You are right about it being one of, if not the hardest decisions to make in your life. Your word's of wisdom have helped me make a logical decision where there is much emotion involved.
I thank you also, tomorrow I have to get my 12 year old dachshund put to sleep, I am sick, I can't stop crying the Dr, Video helped me some
You're an amazing person. The loving heart you have for our companions comes through 110% I've had several pets, five dogs for the last several years and have had to make the decision to euthanize more than once. I will never forget when I took my black lab Max, to be euthanized, let me tell you a little about this and why one thing you said matters so very much.
Max was with me as a teenager and was my constant companion. It was he and I against the world. I moved from Ohio to Texas, Max came with. When everything went wrong, Max was there to comfort me. But, when Max got old and became incontinent, I decided to have him put down. When I took him to the vet hospital I was taken into a room to say my goodbyes. When the nurse checked in to see if I was ready, I told her I was. She asked if I was going to come along, I declined. It was the worst decision I've ever made in my life. When she led Max out of the room, his tail wagged but he stopped, looked back at me as if to say, aren't you going to come too? I cried and put my head down and the door shut. Max was euthanized and I wasn't there to hold him after all those years he was to comfort me. I'm so sorry Max. I'm crying as I write this because I am now going on 48 and although that was nearly 15 years ago, I know I was in the wrong. I was so selfish to not be there for him. Please, don't make the mistake I did. Be there with you companion when he is euthanized. It's very difficult, but like the doctor says, he deserves at least that much from you. Thanks for reading this long post. Thank you Doctor for such great advise and love you give to our most faithful companions.
I'm so sorry; try to forgive yourself (but not forget the lesson, and thank you for sharing it with others). We all make mistakes and fall short; we're only human -- not as good as animals! O:)
My boxer/Shepherd mix, 11 year old girl has later stage lymphoma. Prednisone helped for two weeks, but her appointment is tomorrow at noon because keeping her alive in her deteriorating condition would be selfish. I just happened upon your video, and you just said everything my head knows but my heart doesn’t want to face. I will keep the appointment because I know she’ll only get worse, and the look in her eyes as she struggles to walk and get up, asking me what’s wrong with her is heartbreaking. Thank you for your reiteration of what I know I have to do. I’ll miss her, but she deserves peace.
Damn it’s time. I can’t watch her cry in the corner and not be able to take her pain away anymore. 😢😢😢
My grandpa had to let his dog go a while ago. Her name was Twister. She had tumors on her sides and was pacing around the house aimlessly and my grandpa decided it was the time to euthanize her when she walked out of an open gate in the yard and she didn't know where she was or how to get back home. She lived to around 14, i think. if you ask me for an update I'll ask my grandpa exactly what age. That's really good considering she was a Russell terrier! She was a good dog, the boss of all the other bigger dogs though.
My fondest memory of her is the the time my brother's dog ran out of the front door while it was open and ran down the street. Twister ran out right after her and chased her down the street out of view, and when my grandpa hopped in the car to go find them he saw that the dog who escaped was walking back home... with Twister close behind, barking at her all the way and making sure the dog walked all the way back up the stairs into the house.
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astrwolf how great dog, she was backings now does not dare to run.😡😍
Great story. Yeah Terriers rule! Had a terrier and cattle dog mix, she was def alpha. She loved rawhides but preferred to get one that one of the other dogs had made more pliable.
So what she would do is sound the alarm (bark like they needed to get out in the yard and patrol.) Run outside real quick and then race back in and grab up the chewy rawhide while the other ones were like "uh?..what are we out here for, anything good to see? She did this a lot so we knew it was indeed her special little trick. She was a real character.
What a wonderful dog!
Thank you. Your message has helped me understand when I need to say goodbye.
I knew when it was time to say goodbye to my Woofer. I'd known the time was coming for a while, then on 5th November 2014, he came downstairs about 10am, he put his head on my knee, and all the life had gone from his eyes. All the sparkle had gone, they were dull, sad, and sunken. I knew instantly that today was the day. I phoned the vets, made the appointment for 1pm, then called my family to let them know, and invite them to the house to say goodbye if they wanted to. I gave him his favourite breakfast, and at 12:30, the pet ambulance arrived to pick him, and I up. Mum followed us to the vets in a taxi, and at 1pm on the dot he died in my arms. We bought Woofer in 1999 when I was just shy of 8 years old, he was the little brother I'd always wanted. When I got him he was far younger than I was led to believe at just 5 weeks. I stayed up with him every night for a month, and a half to bottle feed him. When I had to put him to sleep, it was the first, and only time i've ever felt grief. I've lost family, and friends, and never felt a thing for them, but when Woofer went, my heart broke.
I needed to listen to this. We had to put our pet to sleep today . It was the most difficult decision of our lives. Thank you for this video
I just want to thank you Dr. McAfee. I watched this video at least 10 times. You are so thorough and honest. You have obviously put enormous effort into this video. Well done! I hope a ton of people see this and benefit. I have to make the choice for my Lillian tomorrow. Much love. ❤️
Thank you for this video and your personal story. I am putting my beloved Lab Tootsie down this afternoon. You helped me feel a little less guilty. She has been soiling in the house for many months, needs help getting up 90 percent of the time, but can walk and wags her tail that has been straight down for about a year. She still begs for food and wants to go in the park for walks, but can't make it too long and walks tripping over herself. I know she is in pain and not doing any of the crazy stuff she used to be able to do....especially knocking over the kitchen garbage can when we forget to put it up. (She used to open the kitchen cabinets to get into it too.) She used to love to jump our 5 foot fence and run around the park playing with the kids and the dogs out there until we grabbed her. Although she learned to listen so well outside she hardly ever needed a leash. She loved the rain and was never afraid of thunder and lightning. She's 14. I will miss her so much........I can't go to work anymore and come home to find her stuck in her own feces and trying to get up. She doesn't deserve it. Now she will be able to follow me everywhere I go and not have to wait at home for me to get back...right? That's what I will believe. God Bless all of our pets and loving owners.
My dog is 16 almost 17 and has several symptoms but I can't say he would rather be resting then here with us. When times are good he's happy bit he often head presses, I've been cleaning up 15 accidents a day for 6 months. Sadly he has lost function in his right front leg so he hobbled on 3 legs. After months of knowing this day is coming, in 12 hours my neighbor who is a vet is coming over to put him down. I'm having a rough time feeling ok with this. My friend who I promised to care for has brought me a lifetime of memories and laughs and love. Tucker I love you and will miss you, I'm sorry...
just had to put my only dog down 3 days ago. He was 18 years old. Well trained and such a wonderful dog always smiling. He had kidney failure. I feel losted without him.
i couldnt stay with her in the room, my father stayed... i would collapsed... its been 20 days and it hurts so much still...i hope shes happy up there.
Thanks Dr.---must confess you torn me apart. I'm in tears but you confirmed what I knew but your reinforcement is important to me. I cried for your loss too. You come across as a wonderful guy --God bless U.
Had our beloved pit bull/black lab mix euthanized seven years ago---enlarged heart pressing on esophagus. Loved her dearly, but didn't realize how our spirits were intertwined until she was gone. Miss her everyday since then, but looking forward to reunion at Rainbow Bridge. Have had our new girl for several years---a rescue also, and am glad I learned from my Mollygirl how precious time with them is. Not too far from having to make "the decision" again, but will do so with love and appreciation for the love she also has given me. I am grateful for the good doctor's advice and reassurance. I am crying in advance of losing another special girl, because I know how beyond words I will be missing Riley too. The love and loyalty of a dog is such a gift.
I have to put my kitty down in 3 days. He as been my best friend for 7 years. 5 years ago I found a coffee cup that says "When I needed a Hand I found your paw".
McGee has always been there for me, and I for Him. I have never been this close to an pet before.
I am dreading the days to come. 😪
Very helpful video. You must always stay with them when you put them to sleep, because that is when they need you most. It's all about them at that point. Put them first and don't be a coward. You'll be glad you stayed with them.
THANK YOU!!! Yes, suck it up cowards and put your pet first. Be there and absorb their fear and discomfort.
My Chow Chow was 3 mos old when I got her & I had to PTS at age 16 due to having hip dyplasia, just like this vet said...she started losing urine on her ortho bed and once she looked up at me with "those eyes" & I knew she was telling me it was time to let her go...I still cry to this day because we went thru so much together. Her vet did piss me off as it was done at the vets...and I said I WANTED TO BE WITH HER....so the receptionist said that will be $40 extra dollars, WHAT!!!! well I paid the extra $$$ because there was no way I would have left my loving dog to go thru this alone....I stroked her & spoke to her...& I brought her home & I dug her grave myself....(I am female) and I place her grave under my bedroom window so she still could be close to me....and the breezes blow the wind chimes we both love so much. R.I.P. Ayla
I had to make a decision. I had a small Jack russel/ chihuahua mix breed. He was showing every symptom explained in this video except the vomiting. I know I wasn't ready until it was time. He gave me many signs with minor things he showed.. the way he looked at me.. etc.
This video helped me to make a responsible decision. He has suffered long enough just for me to consume more additional data before I had to take action. I wanted one more night with him but he showed me that it's already long enough.. I made the decision nearly right after watching this video.
RIP Reeses 2007-2020 🥺😪❤
Pony (26th sept 2003~3rd July 2019) I love you so much... that you were my only little sister and I will never forget about you. RIP. Love you, love you so much...
Thank you for the video..
I couldn't watch her die. I held her while they gave her a sedative, I love my Angel. Such a good dog, but I couldn't watch her die...I didn't want that image forever seared in my mind. Hurts so much. I wanted to remember her alive happy and healthy. 15 years of joy. Nothing can replace that love.
I am scared to be in the same room. Is this normal?
Poem for my dog
You brought hope.dreams and love to our life
If could do it again we wouldn't think twice
We are here today to lay you too rest
It's very hard but we shall do our best
With music,love and all the comforts
of your home to let you know you're
not alone
So here we are and here we stand
to walk you back into Gods hands
In heaven you'll run a great! Golden lane
and you'll do it all will no more pain
We are sending you too.the heavens above
just know shido we do it with love
One day we'll look to the stars
with memories of you in deep in our hearts
So run bushido run do what you do
and perhaps that day we may get a glimpse of you.
Koyo,kuma and Akria too
will miss the life they once shared with you,.
you were a dog like no other
and I swear we will take care of care of your sisters and bother
so rest my love and you will see the hardest part of loving you is setting you free
Love always your pack
Carol Jean, your poem touched my heart soooooooooo deeply. Your loss is so profound and you expressed it beautifully. The very last line of the poem brought great tears falling from my eyes - "So rest, my love, and you will see the hardest part of loving you is setting you free." Thank you for that.
😭😭😭 I shouldn’t have read this at work. Beautiful poem ❤️
Beautiful
Thank you for this compassionate video. I have to say Good Bye tomorrow to my Blu Boy. I'm emotionally all over the place; I've had him for 10 1/2 years since he was 5 weeks old; this is one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make. Thank you for clarity and understanding to make the right and decent decision.
My 16 year old had the vast majority of the fatal symptoms described by this kind doctor. His organs were shutting down one by one but it all happened so fast! Within two days a senior with health problems went from lively to lifeless. All I needed to do was look into his eyes to see that he didn't have any more strength even though doctors did all they could to reverse the inevitable. But I knew, when it's your dog you know in your gut when your friend decides he has no more strength. It's clear euthanasia was the kindest act, after we fought until the end. And yet here I am two days later watching videos that will confirm my decision was the correct one. It was, but every time I come to this conclusion I have to start all over second guessing. Euthanasia was the kindest thing I could do for my dog but I don't think I'll ever get over it.
I knew when my dog was ready, I could see it in her face. She simply gave up the will.
Thank you for sharing these clear stages of death. I agree with everything you said and My decision to let Solomon go was the most difficult decision of my life but I know I showed him the respect he always deserved and death with dignity was truly honored. I could not have done this without the support of my dear friends...Solomon was put to sleep on May 11 2015. I can take comfort in knowing i showed him respect and treated him as I would want to be treated... and that i never pulled on his leash while on a walk because he was sniffing too long or I was in a hurry. The day will come that you wish you were holding that and waiting and waiting while they sniff..I still have extreme moments of sadness that i can't hug him
Thank you, i needed that. I just had to say good bye to my cat "Armin" after19yrs a couple of weeks ago. I love and miss him so much. In his last days as hard as it was i had to think of him and not myself. I am still trying to not beat myself up. I have to remember all the love and good times. Hearing your words and watching your video help a lot. thank you again.
Thank you so much for this video and your wise comforting words. Your personal story was heartfelt and i'm sorry for your loss.
Tomorrow I have an in home euthanization appointment for my Daisy that is a Beagal hound mix that I rescued 15 years ago from a shelter. She is my bestfriend and has been through everything with me a wonderful protector, helped raise my two children. Was there for me on lonely nights when I felt unwanted or unloved. I will miss her dearly.....My heart goes out to any pet owner that has to make this heart wrenching decision. I pray that our furry family waits on the other side for us all. Peace be with you.
Thanks, right now lifting my Labrador up on his bad knees. Sometimes he can do it, still goes to the bathroom once he starts walking but having a seizure once every two days....its almost that time for the 15yr old buddy..
Your video gave me a lot to think about and after days of soul searching I was able to let go of my dog, Shadow. Thank you so much for posting this thoughtful video!!!!
Thank you for this compassionate advice to others about their pets. I agree with you. It is a hard decision to make, but I have been with every pet I have had to put down to rest at the end of their life. It is best to be there with them so they feel comfortable. I had a cat that had cancer, a dog with a bowel blockage, another dog with kidney failure, my favorite dog that became so old she struggled to get up and kept losing control of her bladder - these were hard decisions, but I knew their quality of life was at the end and they were in pain. Keep supporting pet owners like you do.
I watched my grandmother die slowly and painfully. I made a promise when I adopted my dog that I would let her go when her quality of life diminished. I've had her for 9 of the 10 years of her life so I know the changes. Statistically speaking I will outlive her so to keep her alive as long as possible is just inhumae.
My boyfriend has a dog that I feel needs to be put down but he thinks it's normal to have aches in pain in old age that he attributes her constant crying (that he admits annoys him) as no big deal. I feel really sorry for her but she's going to be in a lot of pain because he's too selfish to let go (which he also admitted might be a thing).
Your personal story really hit me hard because, I’m going through that right now. My first ever dog was clearly sick and struggling to breath so we made the decision to put her to sleep. with my dog now she still eats, drinks, and is still there mentally, still can control her bowels, she just cannot walk well and struggles to get up on her own. We have to carry her outside down the steps to go out and potty. I don’t know why it’s been a harder decision with her but, last night I broke down knowing this isn’t far to her and that the time to let her go is coming soon. I had to put myself out of my shoes and say “if this was someone else’s dog I would be saying this isn’t fair”. So I think my family will be setting that up soon and it breaks my heart but, your advice is great. We have to think about her and what’s best for her ❤️
this is literally me right now. My dog declined pretty badly a few days ago where he couldnt get up at all without my help. hes seemto regained some strength to get up but needs me to constantly watch him and hold him while he pees and poos so he doesnt fall over. he just started trying to eat again but still just lays there all day long. Part of me is making any excuse I can but my gut is saying is time is now. He cant go on his long walks or chase a ball like he loved. but its gonna break me, hes still wagging his tail but he looks so tired
This video really helped me feel more at ease of making my decision. Thank you for sharing your story, it really helped me know that Sophie's needs have to be first, always.
Thank you for sharing your personal story. I too just put my dog down she was 21. I struggled with using my head and not my heart. But ultimately I did just that. Saying goodbye to my dog was 100 times harder saying goodbye to my beloved parents when they passed. It feels like an eternal pain.
Thank you doctor for this video. We put our cat down at 21 and I was with her the whole time. Our dog is 13 and slowing down. It is the hardest decision to make for them as their pet parents.
Thank you so much, This help me understand that now is the right time to say goodbye to my best friend of 8 years; she is 16.
I can tell how much he cares. This video helped me in February of last year. Rest in peace, Odie. He was my best friend from the age of five to twenty. I will always miss him. Best friend I could have ever asked for. I can only hope he felt the same about me. Even in the times when I was maybe grumpy or meaner than I should have been. Or the lazy times I didn’t spend with him when I could have. I love you, Odie. I hope I can see you again some day.
I'm 74 and single. My dogs mean everything to me. I rescued my last girl, Florence, a Lab mix from the pound 3 years ago. She was running loose on the street, no collar or chip and had recently given birth. She appeared to be about 6 years. The Humane Society had to trap her as she would not come to anyone, so she lost her pups! Severely flea infected and heavy skin damage, severe hair loss etc. I adopted her 3 weeks after they brought her in, just after she was spade. She'd caught pneumonia at the pound, which I was unaware of until the next day when she got very sick. 2 weeks in hospital. I dealt with numerous other med issues- skin and ear infections etc. over her life with me. She was well worth the effort! Nothing helped but prednisone which caused other major problems. She also developed tumors on her hocks and toes/feet. The prednisone was increased to control them. Some had to be surgically removed, along with an infected front toe that would not heal. The tumors worsened, finally diagnosed as cancer and she was put on chemo, but it was too late. She had stopped playing fetch before this, had slowed down over the past few months, would sometimes stand and stare vacantly at nothing. She began to regularly tear up her beds, restless at night and laying in strange spots. Her eyes sometimes looked vacant and sad. She developed another large tumor on her tongue. Her stools had changed over the last few weeks from well-formed to smaller dark poops. She could no longer get comfortable in her seat in the truck. She'd stopped showing interest in her chew toys that she loved just a few days before my decision to let her go. She had also refused her dinner the previous night, as well as her breakfast that morning, and had difficulty pooping. Just one little poop, but with mucous and bright red blood. She was compassionately euthanized that day at home, while eating ice cream. This was 2 weeks ago!
I have never been so devastated in my life! My guilt and my grief are horrendous! I'm now doubting my decision and it's tearing me apart! Even though I tried to process all of these signs and arrive at a correct outcome, I'm gutted! I sob and cry for her every day to the point of exhaustion! I'm not sure how much more i can take. I miss her so much, words are useless! I only hope I can get through this, and try to be reasonably whole once more.
I have lost many many dogs over my 70 years on this earth and it never gets easier. To determine if my dog is ready for that final trip to the vet I ask myself if I would want to continue living in the condition my dog is in. If the answer is no, I know it is time. I have a lump in my throat now just writing this. My heart goes out to each of you who have had to face this terrible loss.