I see that a sense of remorse. Unless it’s the child’s choice of any kind of situation, NEVER EVER make that child do something that will have the probability of trauma or situation that could change their lives and their feelings
The tricky things is that parents of child bride thinks it's for their daughters good... They are on other level of logic. We can't understand why they think this way. We are not as crazy as them. We had healthier parents than them.
I found the episode and how this plot line ends. It's... not a happy ending. Right after this clip, Iggy calls Max, and Max has Iggy lock down the hospital, the other people at the wedding get treated, the staff end up talking on the rooftop about how it feels weird to save her husband (he was dying because he needed a blood transfusion but had a super rare blood type) and they talk about how everyone involved in this wedding was bad for letting it happen. The smoke bomb was set off by the child bride's 15 year old brother who wanted to stop the whole thing. Iggy breaks the news that none of the adults involved would be arrested because there is no federal law against child marriage in the US. Everyone goes home, and Iggy goes to see his kids. And that's the end of that plot. There is no resolution. Because this is a story based on what's happening right now. Some states have made child marriage illegal and the minimum marriage age 18, but in plenty of states, the minimum ages are scarily low. Just need a parent and the willingness to travel a few states over for the marriage license. Not to get political, but if you're in the US, check your state's laws. If you live in a state where the minimum age for marriage is under 18, call your local representative and demand change.
The funniest thing is that I've seen it both ways a girl like this one who's being pawned off and eventually managed to escape from her family, and another who was in high school with me and was already divorced at 16 are parents allowed her to marry her boyfriend literally 2 years before on condition that they have no children and practice safe sex considering their ardent Catholics okay and Latino latinx as they call it these days I was told that this isn't all that uncommon among the more Catholic among the LatinX and the thing is that the deal was that they continued in high school and she graduates high school and she's not allowed to have children until she's 18 that was the deal of the parents he agreed the groom agreed to this deal and they live together in her parents house I remember I had asked her how could you be married and divorced and I mean it's illegal to be married under the age of 18 isn't it and she said no not in Arizona and not if it's a marriage done by the Catholic Church, I asked her how she got her divorce from her husband and she said via the Catholic church it was decided that it they both went to the priest they both explained why they didn't think the marriage could continue and they got a divorce which I know is never easy when it comes to Catholic church but apparently she got one and I asked her why she had married him I mean she's so young and all that and it was because they had been already dating and after a year they didn't want to have sex without being married, you have to understand this was the 1980s and teenage mothers were a common denominator you saw it everywhere in fact in my drama class alone, I was the only student who did not get pregnant or have a child for that matter before finishing high School another words I didn't have a kid and the rest of them did I was in my mid-twenties and got married Etc but then again I think I was the only preacher's kid in the whole class, even even the girl most likely to become like president of the United States I mean most people thought she needed to be the president of the United States a senator or some kind of big business person even even she had a kid before finishing high School... The greatest thing is the first one that I mentioned above she didn't really want to be married to the guy nor did she want to have a kid and yet her parents had prearranged everything and she was 13 years old at the time we were in junior high when I found that out... The second one was a latinxand she was in love with her boyfriend but did not want to have sex without marriage and did not want to wait you know till she was 18 so they had an agreement and their parents her parents specifically said that fine they could get married but they have to take contraceptives and you know what the basic rules of the house. It might explain why the marriage didn't last. I thought it was so weird though but being ace at the time there was no word for Ace being a person who watched the whole thing happening and got to hear the stories from the horse's mouth as it were I can tell you that trying to k bosh child marriages is going to be hard to do because while they will not have a registered marriage with the state that will not mean they will not have a marriage via the church, I think the best way is to prevent the adults involved from being permitted to give consent unless there is a public IE there is a judge who asks the young person in question do you realize what being married is going to involve and just like they do with people who want to have a sex change they demand that they wear and be the other sex for a year to see if they really want it or not, and how it's going to be whatever sex they're changing to... I remember thinking the girl I went to high school with had been married for 2 years and was now divorced at 16 was a really smart had really smart parents rather than have these kids you know go to Mexico and it wouldn't have been hard for them to cross the border and then come back to be honest they could have gotten married at a church and then you know come back as a the complete the truth is that the parents said, "You two want to get married okay but here are the only way will agree to it." and they set out very clear terms because they didn't think it would last and it turned out mom and pop are right but at the same time they respected the to teenagers enough because they saw that they did in fact love each other but they wanted to also do the sideways Tango and they didn't want to do anything to break the rules as it were... How many guys do you know as teenagers are going to be willing to not have sex until marriage and at the same time if they do manage to get married before they hit 18 are going to be willing not to have children and are going to make sure that their wife is going to be able to finish high school without carrying a bundle... And on top of all that live with their in-laws so that their in-laws can keep an eye on things.
Except there is abuse of a minor, once she’s married then custody will fall to the husband. But just because they are married it doesn’t change that child abuse will still be a factor.
The problem lies with states who allow the marriage of children, often girls, as minors, legally. Some states even state its okay as long as there is parental consent or consent of a legal guardian.
There's a documentary on netflix called Child Brides. A woman who was pawned off as a child bride was trying to make child marriages illegal, but she was opposed by republican politicians who made the argument, "If my daughter gets pregnant as a teenager, I WANT her to be able to marry the father of her child. I want her child to carry its father's name." Just disgusting that he even considered a scenario where he would marry his own daughter off before she was old enough to consent to it herself.
@@Lady_Amelia-EloiseChild marriage is legal in 37 US states, and there are legal exceptions for a marriage at 16 in other western countries too. So yes, it is happening.
Those law were written at the turn of the last century back then it wasn’t uncommon for children to start working at that age not working at Dairy Queen’s for pockets money work actually put food on table work like apprenticeships as watch makers or tailors or furniture makers or other job to help put food on there family’s all you needed for steady work was to be able to read my grandfather was working on the railroad at 14 and my great aunt was cleaning houses at 12 to put food on the table back then a 14 year year old was at the mutiny age of a 17 or 18 year old
Its the conservative solution to teen pregnancy. Why have abortion when you can ruin a child's entire life by forcing her to marry her child's genetic father?
there should be a minimum age of 18 yrs old. i’m sorry but there is absolutely NO reason anyone under 18 should be getting married w/ or w/out parental consent. it makes no sense to have that be a legal thing. anyone under 18 can just WAIT.
@@Lors-mg3pe and you would've been fine waiting 12 months. Speaking of 12, that's probably THAT girl's age. Wayyy to young to even consider it. 😢 just disgusting
So, some kids do marry each other for emancipation reasons. Like say if they had a child or something of that nature. What’s completely wrong and immoral is the casual typical child bride that’s basically forced into it by either tradition or just messed up folks
Firstly, I can’t believe all of these people supported this wedding. The brother was the only one with sanity. Also, the story of the four year old, trying to eat the ring?ummm… did it look like candy because other than that, I’ve never seen a four year old want to eat a wedding ring. Maybe a baby…
there's a LOT of shows and movies that are written by people who seem like they've never met actual kids... everyone knows toddlers need to be within arms reach bc they're too dumb to survive (no judgment, I was actually a toddler myself once)... but 6 year olds aren't toddlers. but they're also not insightful. the little girl in these clips is crushing it, it's a devastating part to play.
@@BlastFromThePastTheGoodOldDays it's still a spoiler considering many people just watch clips instead of the episode. No one is claiming spoiler warning on the video itself, but the title.... If you want a warning, add it to the video itself
@@duckmeat4674 aaand many others search for specific scenes to watch back or to show to others. the title is so it's searchable, because most people watch the shows, not just clips, and most people who watch clips watch it for specific reasons and how things are revealed, not to follow the story. If you want to follow a story watch the episodes, these sorts of videos are titled so that they can actually be searched for, rank high in the relevant results list, and so people who search for them know they've found the right clip
There's a article from The19thNews from July 2023 that talks about states in the US still have laws allowing for child marriage, excluding 10 states that passed laws banning it.
A very old episode... But I wonder if she "understands" what commitment means... Of all those adults nobody stopped this? The bombing was to stop her from getting married?!
legally the adults are *required* to consent to it. it's not like this girl up & decided to marry a middle-aged man. child marriage is basically legalized human trafficking.
@@signespencer6887 women's shelter won't take you in either, because it could be considered kidnapping. And often sex in marriage doesn't need to comply to age of consent laws, and if I'm not mistaken, in some states there is even no marriage SA laws.
@@lilylunamoonytPoppy was (and kinda still is) an alternative music artist, who had this whole schtick of being very um... Stiff and emotionless. Although she was being manipulated into these stunts.
Ugh it’s gotta be crazy trying to triage after a fire with multiple victims, the internal not visible burns can be more severe than the ones on the outside of people
Children cannot consent to marriage and children should never be forced to get married to people old enough to be their parent or older. They need protection from the sick people who want this stuff
Thing that they're not addressing in this realistically, is that in the US, any community that would widely allow and celebrate a child of this age (10-12) marrying an adult would virtually always be very stringently religious, and often in some visibly fringe way, such as some weird, culty offshoot of mainstream Christianity, or the FLDS from Mormonism, or a very very strict Islamic family with stronger foreign culture than American. And in all of these cases, the wedding party wouldn't look like these people do: like an everyday regular American wedding reception. The mother wouldn't be wearing that lowcut black dress, the men would be hovering around in strong controlling patriarchal roles, or the women would all have abayas and be Arabic, or the people would all speak in a rural accent, or even in an odd, religious-keep sweet manner like the FLDS do and have hair like that. The portrayal of a 10-12 year old girl in a full-on, community accepted, fully decorated and attended and officiated, non religious extremist wedding to an adult man like this isn't how very young child marriages happen in the US.
Plenty of states still allow child marriage in the U.S. and they fight for that right. In some states if you have had sex with or impregnated a child (no matter how young) you can marry her.
Don't kid yourself it happens everywhere the whole world is what's wrong with this planet, and to quote my protege and certain family members humans on this planet is what's wrong.
@@dgk42 To be fair, the first amendment allows freedom of religion and if child marriages are in your religion with parents consent, sadly it's legal. That is what happens when you allow so much freedom
The fact Lily picked up the bride doll and pointed on it and herself just send me chills down my spine. This poor girl. I do not want anyone to say "relax its just a show" "its not real" "she is just an actress". You are not allowed to say that. I am setting boundaries, and just know not everything is fake or doesn't exist. We are not in a TV show, this is REAL LIFE. So I want you to never comment those things. Again, DO NOT comment "this isnt real".
she goes home with her husband, after the doctors save his life and treat his injuries. she does not live happily ever after. completely legal as per many US state's laws.
The staff rush around trying to save the groom[er] without knowing his bride was a child bride. They fly all the way to bermuda to talk to a doner and try and convince the doner to come donate blood. eventually the donner does come and give blood. the man is treated i'm not sure but i think he lives. the doctors upon realizing what was going on were horrified and wondered if they had done the right thing, they had gone above and beyond for a patient who was marrying a child what happened at the wedding the girl's brother had set off a smoke bomb at the wedding to try and get her out of marrying the man and accidentally started the fire. i think the mother supported the wedding and iggy one of the hospital staff members said there was nothing they could do as it was legal
Max has Iggy lock down the hospital, the other people at the wedding get treated, the staff end up talking on the rooftop about how it feels weird to save her husband (he was dying because he needed a blood transfusion but had a super rare blood type) and they talk about how everyone involved in this wedding was bad for letting it happen. The smoke bomb was set off by the child bride's 15 year old brother who wanted to stop the whole thing. Iggy breaks the news that none of the adults involved would be arrested because there is no federal law against child marriage in the US. Everyone goes home, and Iggy goes to see his kids. And that's the end of that plot. There is no resolution. Because this is a story based on what's happening right now. Some states have made child marriage illegal and the minimum marriage age 18, but in plenty of states, the minimum ages are scarily low. Just need a parent and the willingness to travel a few states over for the marriage license.
there is no satisfactory ending or conclusion. The staff rush to find a way to treat the groom before they realize his bride is a child bride, but they still have to treat him. There is nothing any of them can do. the adults involved in the wedding wont be arrested because it is legal in the states and many just need guardian/parental consent if the one to be married is under age. the child bride's 15 year old brother set off a smoke bomb to stop the wedding which started the fire
@@ArgentuTA164-2 Sadly it's a tradition amongst the Romani (who we identify as gypsies.) In eastern Europe Romani have been known to get married as young as 12 years old.
@@ArgentuTA164-2 it's only ILLEGAL in 13 US states, so it's allowed in MOST of US states. 4 states have no minimum age.... but generally *12* for girls and 14 for boys.... And saying it's "only" legal with guardian consent doesn't make it better. Children are coerced into marriages, they make a commitment that they're not old enough to make. A child cannot get divorced because they can't petition the court for one. Only 14% of child marriages are two children marrying each other, the average age gap was 4 years, and over 400 marriages between 00-10 were a child marrying someone over 40. There are men who r*pe girls and through that marry them because parents believe in the word of the bible and think that means they should marry to avoid ruin or shame. I know one woman who was abused for years before her abuser took her over state lines, then when she returned she was made to marry him. She couldn't divorce until she was 18, and had to become homeless and join the military to escape. Again: the legal age for marriage is 18 in only 13 states, the rest say child marriage should be legal (but child divorce isn't!), and that parents should be able to enter that contract for them. Many americans seem to think it's only some states that do it, but it's a widespread problem, and your elected officials work hard to keep child marriage legal. Just today I heard of a democrat in California that argued that child marriages preformed abroad should be recognized there.
It’s sick how republicans give all that judgement to abortion doctors and try to infringe on peoples autonomy but didn’t vote to ban child marriage. They can’t blame people who think they only want others to have children for things like this
Can you point to a specific republican who had the opportunity to end it but didn't? It honestly seems like a Democrat thing to me, as they tend to push for kids to have autonomy to do things early as minors. The whole love is love right?
@@mariposa9506You will find the correlation of states where child marriage is legal aligns with red states friend. I find liberal people are more likely to take consent and power dynamics in couples seriously, whereas the kind of relationship portrayed here is found most commonly among a certain brand of conservatives.
@user-uu2cj9ct3j 38 states still allow child marriage. I think you'll find the 'liberal strongholds' among them. In California and New York, first cousin marriage is also legal.
@@mariposa9506 When presented with a chance to vote against the marriage, Mike Moon voted against it. Then defended his stance by saying that 12 year olds who marry remain married. In Michigan when a law went up vote, the only senators who voted NO to ending child marriage, or who abstained from voting, were Republican. Would you like more examples? Edit to add; Between 2000 and 2018 there were over 41,000 legal child marriages in Texas. Which was more than the following two states combined.
actually, i'm pretty sure he has a condition called dwarfism, which causes adults to permanently be small with slightly deformed and smaller limbs and a shorter stature
All of these comments and not a single "happy honeymoon!" Disgraceful. (p.s. the episode ends with the girl leaving with her husband, since there's nothing anyone can do to stop a LEGAL marriage)
If the girl in this episode has grown up in the sort of insular, ultra patriarchal religious community where child marriage is the norm, I doubt she’s come into contact with many same-sex couples living together openly (much less legally married.) OTOH, given how young she is, she might have only the vaguest understanding of what sex is, even between a man and a woman. Clearly, the producers wanted to call attention to the issue of forced child marriage. However, in order to work within the constraints of US broadcast network TV, I suspect that they had to gloss over A LOT. The scriptwriters also seem to have been deliberately vague about what type of community/sect this girl belongs to, probably to avoid any backlash from calling out a specific real life group. Not surprisingly, some of parts of the episode seem inconsistent, or unrealistic.
the video is from a series, but child marriage is legal in all but 13 US states. Child marriages was legal in the state of New York until 2021, and New Jersey until 2018. Delaware was the FIRST state to ban child marriage (completely) in *2018*. That's 6 years ago. There's states where a child can be married at 14 with someone of... any age. But she can't divorce until 18.
The fact that it was her brother who tried to save his sister from being married off to a creep speaks volumes to the adults involved
It’s awesome seeing the mom act like she cares about the child she’s pawning off as a bride
I see that a sense of remorse. Unless it’s the child’s choice of any kind of situation, NEVER EVER make that child do something that will have the probability of trauma or situation that could change their lives and their feelings
@@annlouiserainey4888been a child bride is not a choice!😂 A child could never make those kind of decisions.
@@Mimi-cq4bg If Mom was a child bride herself, she probably would see it as normal. 😢
The tricky things is that parents of child bride thinks it's for their daughters good... They are on other level of logic. We can't understand why they think this way. We are not as crazy as them. We had healthier parents than them.
The amount of trauma 😭😭 that poor child
Agreed I can’t imagine her pain, fear, anger if she has any, and sorrow
I found the episode and how this plot line ends. It's... not a happy ending.
Right after this clip, Iggy calls Max, and Max has Iggy lock down the hospital, the other people at the wedding get treated, the staff end up talking on the rooftop about how it feels weird to save her husband (he was dying because he needed a blood transfusion but had a super rare blood type) and they talk about how everyone involved in this wedding was bad for letting it happen. The smoke bomb was set off by the child bride's 15 year old brother who wanted to stop the whole thing. Iggy breaks the news that none of the adults involved would be arrested because there is no federal law against child marriage in the US. Everyone goes home, and Iggy goes to see his kids.
And that's the end of that plot. There is no resolution. Because this is a story based on what's happening right now. Some states have made child marriage illegal and the minimum marriage age 18, but in plenty of states, the minimum ages are scarily low. Just need a parent and the willingness to travel a few states over for the marriage license.
Not to get political, but if you're in the US, check your state's laws. If you live in a state where the minimum age for marriage is under 18, call your local representative and demand change.
The funniest thing is that I've seen it both ways a girl like this one who's being pawned off and eventually managed to escape from her family, and another who was in high school with me and was already divorced at 16 are parents allowed her to marry her boyfriend literally 2 years before on condition that they have no children and practice safe sex considering their ardent Catholics okay and Latino latinx as they call it these days I was told that this isn't all that uncommon among the more Catholic among the LatinX and the thing is that the deal was that they continued in high school and she graduates high school and she's not allowed to have children until she's 18 that was the deal of the parents he agreed the groom agreed to this deal and they live together in her parents house I remember I had asked her how could you be married and divorced and I mean it's illegal to be married under the age of 18 isn't it and she said no not in Arizona and not if it's a marriage done by the Catholic Church, I asked her how she got her divorce from her husband and she said via the Catholic church it was decided that it they both went to the priest they both explained why they didn't think the marriage could continue and they got a divorce which I know is never easy when it comes to Catholic church but apparently she got one and I asked her why she had married him I mean she's so young and all that and it was because they had been already dating and after a year they didn't want to have sex without being married, you have to understand this was the 1980s and teenage mothers were a common denominator you saw it everywhere in fact in my drama class alone, I was the only student who did not get pregnant or have a child for that matter before finishing high School another words I didn't have a kid and the rest of them did I was in my mid-twenties and got married Etc but then again I think I was the only preacher's kid in the whole class, even even the girl most likely to become like president of the United States I mean most people thought she needed to be the president of the United States a senator or some kind of big business person even even she had a kid before finishing high School... The greatest thing is the first one that I mentioned above she didn't really want to be married to the guy nor did she want to have a kid and yet her parents had prearranged everything and she was 13 years old at the time we were in junior high when I found that out... The second one was a latinxand she was in love with her boyfriend but did not want to have sex without marriage and did not want to wait you know till she was 18 so they had an agreement and their parents her parents specifically said that fine they could get married but they have to take contraceptives and you know what the basic rules of the house. It might explain why the marriage didn't last. I thought it was so weird though but being ace at the time there was no word for Ace being a person who watched the whole thing happening and got to hear the stories from the horse's mouth as it were I can tell you that trying to k bosh child marriages is going to be hard to do because while they will not have a registered marriage with the state that will not mean they will not have a marriage via the church, I think the best way is to prevent the adults involved from being permitted to give consent unless there is a public IE there is a judge who asks the young person in question do you realize what being married is going to involve and just like they do with people who want to have a sex change they demand that they wear and be the other sex for a year to see if they really want it or not, and how it's going to be whatever sex they're changing to... I remember thinking the girl I went to high school with had been married for 2 years and was now divorced at 16 was a really smart had really smart parents rather than have these kids you know go to Mexico and it wouldn't have been hard for them to cross the border and then come back to be honest they could have gotten married at a church and then you know come back as a the complete the truth is that the parents said, "You two want to get married okay but here are the only way will agree to it." and they set out very clear terms because they didn't think it would last and it turned out mom and pop are right but at the same time they respected the to teenagers enough because they saw that they did in fact love each other but they wanted to also do the sideways Tango and they didn't want to do anything to break the rules as it were... How many guys do you know as teenagers are going to be willing to not have sex until marriage and at the same time if they do manage to get married before they hit 18 are going to be willing not to have children and are going to make sure that their wife is going to be able to finish high school without carrying a bundle... And on top of all that live with their in-laws so that their in-laws can keep an eye on things.
Sadly even in the states where the minimum age is 18 in most cases if a parent gives permission they can get around the age limit.
😮😮😮😮😮😮....I wanted to see the episode.. where did you see the full episode? I kind of predicted bombing was planned but I couldn't know..
Except there is abuse of a minor, once she’s married then custody will fall to the husband. But just because they are married it doesn’t change that child abuse will still be a factor.
@@FullTimePatient37 New Amsterdam is on Netflix, at least in the US. I know different countries have different access to shows/movies.
This needs to be illegal. A child can’t give consent. It’s the whole damn point.
The problem lies with states who allow the marriage of children, often girls, as minors, legally. Some states even state its okay as long as there is parental consent or consent of a legal guardian.
But parents CAN there in lies the Gordion knot..
There's a documentary on netflix called Child Brides. A woman who was pawned off as a child bride was trying to make child marriages illegal, but she was opposed by republican politicians who made the argument, "If my daughter gets pregnant as a teenager, I WANT her to be able to marry the father of her child. I want her child to carry its father's name." Just disgusting that he even considered a scenario where he would marry his own daughter off before she was old enough to consent to it herself.
@@aznmochibunnyIt's the worst thing. It's salt on the wound.
It's a TV show
She says protect your children while she marries her young daughter off to some creep
The sad truth of the whole thing is that this kind of thing is still happening today!
Not really in developed countries
@@Lady_Amelia-Eloise Between 2000 and 2018, some 300,000 minors were legally married in the United States
@@Lady_Amelia-EloiseChild marriage is legal in 37 US states, and there are legal exceptions for a marriage at 16 in other western countries too. So yes, it is happening.
@@Lady_Amelia-Eloiseit's legal in 37 states in the US
@@Lady_Amelia-Eloiseyes in developed countries, child marriage isn’t as unheard of as you might think in the us
This shook me to the core. I don't understand why some states allow girls young as 12-14 to marry older men.
Those law were written at the turn of the last century back then it wasn’t uncommon for children to start working at that age not working at Dairy Queen’s for pockets money work actually put food on table work like apprenticeships as watch makers or tailors or furniture makers or other job to help put food on there family’s all you needed for steady work was to be able to read my grandfather was working on the railroad at 14 and my great aunt was cleaning houses at 12 to put food on the table back then a 14 year year old was at the mutiny age of a 17 or 18 year old
Its the conservative solution to teen pregnancy. Why have abortion when you can ruin a child's entire life by forcing her to marry her child's genetic father?
@@booklover6403Yeah, exepct now things are different.
@@tonypeppermint5329 the laws haven’t changes as society changed
@@booklover6403plenty of people back then probably had steady jobs even if they couldn’t read
there should be a minimum age of 18 yrs old. i’m sorry but there is absolutely NO reason anyone under 18 should be getting married w/ or w/out parental consent. it makes no sense to have that be a legal thing. anyone under 18 can just WAIT.
I was married at 17.....41 years later still happily married
@@Lors-mg3pe and you would've been fine waiting 12 months. Speaking of 12, that's probably THAT girl's age. Wayyy to young to even consider it. 😢 just disgusting
@@Lors-mg3peever consider you might be the exception not the rule?
So, some kids do marry each other for emancipation reasons. Like say if they had a child or something of that nature. What’s completely wrong and immoral is the casual typical child bride that’s basically forced into it by either tradition or just messed up folks
Tyler Labine is such a treasure. I’ve been obsessed with him since forever. Such an underrated actor. So funny. So good with drama. Love him.
That seizure..is psychogenic..most likely..so much trauma..poor kids around the world with nobody to save them
Firstly, I can’t believe all of these people supported this wedding. The brother was the only one with sanity. Also, the story of the four year old, trying to eat the ring?ummm… did it look like candy because other than that, I’ve never seen a four year old want to eat a wedding ring. Maybe a baby…
there's a LOT of shows and movies that are written by people who seem like they've never met actual kids... everyone knows toddlers need to be within arms reach bc they're too dumb to survive (no judgment, I was actually a toddler myself once)... but 6 year olds aren't toddlers. but they're also not insightful.
the little girl in these clips is crushing it, it's a devastating part to play.
I would assume a ring box CAN look like candy. Especially for the marriage of that character, seems like his jam 😅
I tried to eat jewelry regularly as a four year old lol
Damn, title is such a spoiler considering the whole clip is a setup for the very last part where the she turns out to be the bride
Not really a spoiler with how long the episode has been out. It might also serve as a trigger warning
@@BlastFromThePastTheGoodOldDays it's still a spoiler considering many people just watch clips instead of the episode. No one is claiming spoiler warning on the video itself, but the title.... If you want a warning, add it to the video itself
@BlastFromThePastTheGoodOldDays yeah I thought this was a re-upload?
@@duckmeat4674 aaand many others search for specific scenes to watch back or to show to others. the title is so it's searchable, because most people watch the shows, not just clips, and most people who watch clips watch it for specific reasons and how things are revealed, not to follow the story. If you want to follow a story watch the episodes, these sorts of videos are titled so that they can actually be searched for, rank high in the relevant results list, and so people who search for them know they've found the right clip
This episode was hard to watch . That poor child
The horror on his face when he realizes the truth
There's a article from The19thNews from July 2023 that talks about states in the US still have laws allowing for child marriage, excluding 10 states that passed laws banning it.
A very old episode... But I wonder if she "understands" what commitment means... Of all those adults nobody stopped this? The bombing was to stop her from getting married?!
It seems that her older brother (15 years old), was the one who detonated the bomb, to stop the wedding. I don't know if he dies.
legally the adults are *required* to consent to it. it's not like this girl up & decided to marry a middle-aged man. child marriage is basically legalized human trafficking.
The parents ‘consented for her’. This unfortunately happens even in real life and the minor often has no choice but to do it.
@@yamato6114. And also can not get divorced because they can’t hire a lawyer because they are a minor.
@@signespencer6887 women's shelter won't take you in either, because it could be considered kidnapping. And often sex in marriage doesn't need to comply to age of consent laws, and if I'm not mistaken, in some states there is even no marriage SA laws.
the girl reminds me soooo much of Poppy it's crazy
who's poppy?
@@lilylunamoonytPoppy was (and kinda still is) an alternative music artist, who had this whole schtick of being very um... Stiff and emotionless. Although she was being manipulated into these stunts.
"The whole damn wedding." Thays great but its not a number. Is it a 50 person wedding or 150?
If only this wedding had been close to Princeton, New Jersey... 😂😂
That scared the heck out of me literally!
There are some countries where the age of consent is low as 14
Lower in some places in the world
Some have no limit so even a newborn baby can immediately have a spouse
Ummm you mean states
... "some countries?" You mean, like America? I know someone from Minnesota who was driven to South Dakota to get married at 14!
@@amandawalters8087 there are many countries in the WORLD, my dear
Ugh it’s gotta be crazy trying to triage after a fire with multiple victims, the internal not visible burns can be more severe than the ones on the outside of people
Children cannot consent to marriage and children should never be forced to get married to people old enough to be their parent or older. They need protection from the sick people who want this stuff
I get at the beggining when they say the mother of the bride is 32
And her older son is 15, she must have had him at 16-17 years old ish
@@Sedow1231 not defending the mother, but she was also a child bride, in her mind this is normal
This was a great twist but yeah, sick.
Thing that they're not addressing in this realistically, is that in the US, any community that would widely allow and celebrate a child of this age (10-12) marrying an adult would virtually always be very stringently religious, and often in some visibly fringe way, such as some weird, culty offshoot of mainstream Christianity, or the FLDS from Mormonism, or a very very strict Islamic family with stronger foreign culture than American. And in all of these cases, the wedding party wouldn't look like these people do: like an everyday regular American wedding reception. The mother wouldn't be wearing that lowcut black dress, the men would be hovering around in strong controlling patriarchal roles, or the women would all have abayas and be Arabic, or the people would all speak in a rural accent, or even in an odd, religious-keep sweet manner like the FLDS do and have hair like that. The portrayal of a 10-12 year old girl in a full-on, community accepted, fully decorated and attended and officiated, non religious extremist wedding to an adult man like this isn't how very young child marriages happen in the US.
Jerry Lee Lewis
Plenty of states still allow child marriage in the U.S. and they fight for that right. In some states if you have had sex with or impregnated a child (no matter how young) you can marry her.
Where’s the rest of
Probably on Netflix or a streaming service 😂
Is there more to this video?
Omg the end dr thrones face😮
What is wrong with this planet?
To be fully accurate, what is wrong with the USA? The rest of the world aren't weird like that.
Don't kid yourself it happens everywhere the whole world is what's wrong with this planet, and to quote my protege and certain family members humans on this planet is what's wrong.
@@dgk42you clearly know nothing about the rest of the world. Child marriage happens everywhere on the planet, still.
@@dgk42 To be fair, the first amendment allows freedom of religion and if child marriages are in your religion with parents consent, sadly it's legal. That is what happens when you allow so much freedom
Nothing is wrong with the planet. It's humans.
How is this shrink so friend-shaped? He's like Winnie the Pooh.
How does it end!? 😩
how old is Lily?
12
The fact Lily picked up the bride doll and pointed on it and herself just send me chills down my spine. This poor girl.
I do not want anyone to say "relax its just a show" "its not real" "she is just an actress". You are not allowed to say that. I am setting boundaries, and just know not everything is fake or doesn't exist. We are not in a TV show, this is REAL LIFE. So I want you to never comment those things. Again, DO NOT comment "this isnt real".
You can't set boundaries that you can't enforce. Welcome to the internet.
@@clamhammer2463 yeah I know.
How did it end?
she goes home with her husband, after the doctors save his life and treat his injuries.
she does not live happily ever after.
completely legal as per many US state's laws.
@@its99pm what was the name of the episode
@@its99pm >:(
How did this end?!
Every clip I've seen of this episode (which I can't access without a big paywall) ends at the exact same moment 😭
They all lived happily ever after.
The staff rush around trying to save the groom[er] without knowing his bride was a child bride. They fly all the way to bermuda to talk to a doner and try and convince the doner to come donate blood. eventually the donner does come and give blood. the man is treated i'm not sure but i think he lives.
the doctors upon realizing what was going on were horrified and wondered if they had done the right thing, they had gone above and beyond for a patient who was marrying a child
what happened at the wedding the girl's brother had set off a smoke bomb at the wedding to try and get her out of marrying the man and accidentally started the fire. i think the mother supported the wedding and iggy one of the hospital staff members said there was nothing they could do as it was legal
Max has Iggy lock down the hospital, the other people at the wedding get treated, the staff end up talking on the rooftop about how it feels weird to save her husband (he was dying because he needed a blood transfusion but had a super rare blood type) and they talk about how everyone involved in this wedding was bad for letting it happen. The smoke bomb was set off by the child bride's 15 year old brother who wanted to stop the whole thing. Iggy breaks the news that none of the adults involved would be arrested because there is no federal law against child marriage in the US. Everyone goes home, and Iggy goes to see his kids.
And that's the end of that plot. There is no resolution. Because this is a story based on what's happening right now. Some states have made child marriage illegal and the minimum marriage age 18, but in plenty of states, the minimum ages are scarily low. Just need a parent and the willingness to travel a few states over for the marriage license.
Badly for the bride AKA the child
Will the paragraph guy please tell me how this ends, I've seen this clip three times and have yet to figure out how it ends!!!
there is no satisfactory ending or conclusion.
The staff rush to find a way to treat the groom before they realize his bride is a child bride, but they still have to treat him.
There is nothing any of them can do. the adults involved in the wedding wont be arrested because it is legal in the states and many just need guardian/parental consent if the one to be married is under age.
the child bride's 15 year old brother set off a smoke bomb to stop the wedding which started the fire
@@n.jboltz599It's only allowed in certain states with guardian consent, others have entirely outlawed it.
@@n.jboltz599 thank you
@@ArgentuTA164-2 Sadly it's a tradition amongst the Romani (who we identify as gypsies.) In eastern Europe Romani have been known to get married as young as 12 years old.
@@ArgentuTA164-2 it's only ILLEGAL in 13 US states, so it's allowed in MOST of US states. 4 states have no minimum age.... but generally *12* for girls and 14 for boys....
And saying it's "only" legal with guardian consent doesn't make it better. Children are coerced into marriages, they make a commitment that they're not old enough to make. A child cannot get divorced because they can't petition the court for one. Only 14% of child marriages are two children marrying each other, the average age gap was 4 years, and over 400 marriages between 00-10 were a child marrying someone over 40.
There are men who r*pe girls and through that marry them because parents believe in the word of the bible and think that means they should marry to avoid ruin or shame. I know one woman who was abused for years before her abuser took her over state lines, then when she returned she was made to marry him. She couldn't divorce until she was 18, and had to become homeless and join the military to escape.
Again: the legal age for marriage is 18 in only 13 states, the rest say child marriage should be legal (but child divorce isn't!), and that parents should be able to enter that contract for them. Many americans seem to think it's only some states that do it, but it's a widespread problem, and your elected officials work hard to keep child marriage legal. Just today I heard of a democrat in California that argued that child marriages preformed abroad should be recognized there.
What season an episode is this please
Season 5 episode 3
What is the name of this actress?
Talia Cuomo
How old is she
12.
I wished i knew what happened without watching the show lol
This is sad. Some states allow a child as young as 13 to marry
It’s sick how republicans give all that judgement to abortion doctors and try to infringe on peoples autonomy but didn’t vote to ban child marriage. They can’t blame people who think they only want others to have children for things like this
Can you point to a specific republican who had the opportunity to end it but didn't? It honestly seems like a Democrat thing to me, as they tend to push for kids to have autonomy to do things early as minors. The whole love is love right?
@@mariposa9506You will find the correlation of states where child marriage is legal aligns with red states friend. I find liberal people are more likely to take consent and power dynamics in couples seriously, whereas the kind of relationship portrayed here is found most commonly among a certain brand of conservatives.
@user-uu2cj9ct3j 38 states still allow child marriage. I think you'll find the 'liberal strongholds' among them. In California and New York, first cousin marriage is also legal.
@@mariposa9506 When presented with a chance to vote against the marriage, Mike Moon voted against it. Then defended his stance by saying that 12 year olds who marry remain married.
In Michigan when a law went up vote, the only senators who voted NO to ending child marriage, or who abstained from voting, were Republican.
Would you like more examples?
Edit to add;
Between 2000 and 2018 there were over 41,000 legal child marriages in Texas. Which was more than the following two states combined.
@@mariposa9506 you mean… look at the states that allow childhood marriage. What a coincidence they end up being red states.
Unfortunately the husband was stabbed 37 times
Don't you mean "Slipped and fell on a knife 37 times."?
So tragic v-v
Is this the same little girl from the suicide attempt episode on Greys Anatomy?
We're the rest of this episode
Did anybody notice the small doctor in the beginning??? Like what? Am i high 😭😂😂😂 0:35
Why so funny? People are people.
Yeah. I saw him. Whatever.
actually, i'm pretty sure he has a condition called dwarfism, which causes adults to permanently be small with slightly deformed and smaller limbs and a shorter stature
So you think laughing at someone's height is funny?
All of these comments and not a single "happy honeymoon!" Disgraceful. (p.s. the episode ends with the girl leaving with her husband, since there's nothing anyone can do to stop a LEGAL marriage)
All the PC boxes checked.....yup.
Lily was probably confused with the two doll husbands getting married
Bruh this episode is about a child getting married to an adult man your priorities are messed up
Ur worried bout that but not the child bride? Yikes
She probably wasn't.
If the girl in this episode has grown up in the sort of insular, ultra patriarchal religious community where child marriage is the norm, I doubt she’s come into contact with many same-sex couples living together openly (much less legally married.) OTOH, given how young she is, she might have only the vaguest understanding of what sex is, even between a man and a woman.
Clearly, the producers wanted to call attention to the issue of forced child marriage. However, in order to work within the constraints of US broadcast network TV, I suspect that they had to gloss over A LOT. The scriptwriters also seem to have been deliberately vague about what type of community/sect this girl belongs to, probably to avoid any backlash from calling out a specific real life group. Not surprisingly, some of parts of the episode seem inconsistent, or unrealistic.
Yall know this is fake right?
the video is from a series, but child marriage is legal in all but 13 US states. Child marriages was legal in the state of New York until 2021, and New Jersey until 2018. Delaware was the FIRST state to ban child marriage (completely) in *2018*. That's 6 years ago. There's states where a child can be married at 14 with someone of... any age. But she can't divorce until 18.
The show is fake but the story behind the episode is all to real
Second!
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Every clip of this show is a woke fest.