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  • @AmItheJerk
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      @TheReturnOfStephan1 Рік тому

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  • @netto6681
    @netto6681 Рік тому +229

    Last story - honestly, I don’t think the guy is in the wrong at all. It sounded like she was testing the waters and deliberately trying to make him jealous, trying to get a rise out of him. The best thing to do is nip that nonsense in the bud before you’re being made a fool of left, right and centre. Also, he did say specifically he took her to one side to have it out, so it wasn’t in front of the whole family, whereas her behaviour was.

    • @gotenblack2542
      @gotenblack2542 Рік тому +6

      true

    • @RebornDPK
      @RebornDPK Рік тому +10

      Or she cheating

    • @gotenblack2542
      @gotenblack2542 Рік тому +30

      who knows am just tied of the narrator being a simp

    • @dawntaylor8660
      @dawntaylor8660 Рік тому +30

      Agree Sometimes I wonder does the narrator listen to the story as he's reading it
      The guy was not in the wrong at all

    • @llcoojoe20
      @llcoojoe20 Рік тому +17

      ​@@gotenblack2542fr tho video after video the narrator is simping. Like grow a pair.

  • @user-wo6gi6vs46
    @user-wo6gi6vs46 Рік тому +30

    #3 op needs to get out of that terrible situation because from personal experience raising your younger siblings is not something that YOU have to deal with.

  • @erikaguilar4624
    @erikaguilar4624 Рік тому +46

    I disagree with with the last story he doesn't need to apologies at all she shouldn't have bought a random dude to another person's party in the first place if she felt some type of way she should have just said something but she didn't and the whole situation just a huge mess

  • @DanielGonzalez-qk6sd
    @DanielGonzalez-qk6sd Рік тому +133

    Last story: ah the female bias appears once again. No OP does not need to apologize. It is simple, it was his mother’s birthday. His gf bought a random guy he did not know to the event. Then she ignored his wishes for space. That is disrespectful as heck. How? Let me explain.
    1) guys and girls can be friends. But I firmly believe that both partners need to know the other’s friends of the opposite sex. OP did not know it, so yeah.
    2) She invited someone OP did not know to a family based event. What if the friend had issues with the family or other traits?
    3) what happened to no means no? OP said he needs space meaning “no” to any interaction as of now.
    Yeah this is clear bias against OP imo

    • @gotenblack2542
      @gotenblack2542 Рік тому +36

      youll soon learn this narrator favors females even if their in the wrong in the story's

    • @Yawgmothx
      @Yawgmothx Рік тому +17

      Yeah I really hope whoever they're trying to empress see this. I'm glad I'm not the only person who notices.

    • @gotenblack2542
      @gotenblack2542 Рік тому +5

      yup

    • @DanielGonzalez-qk6sd
      @DanielGonzalez-qk6sd Рік тому +11

      @@gotenblack2542 oh I know this. But I will continue commenting on it when I see it.

    • @gotenblack2542
      @gotenblack2542 Рік тому +4

      same man same

  • @sandrasausville9103
    @sandrasausville9103 Рік тому +16

    The last one, dude she is cheating on you with her work friend.... There's no other reason for her actions. Move on and find a better person

  • @erinnolan5012
    @erinnolan5012 Рік тому +3

    I can't belive this dang dude PROPOSED at a wedding that is just WRONG

  • @AshGaming6420
    @AshGaming6420 Рік тому +42

    You have to be SO entitled to propose at someone else’s wedding

    • @antiker_Lucifer
      @antiker_Lucifer 3 місяці тому

      The little „golden child“-brother of my first sons best friend proposed to his girlfriend of my first sons best friends wedding. My first sons best friend cutted his little brother off and his family said he‘s the jerk, not his little brother

  • @halfshinesketches
    @halfshinesketches Рік тому +9

    I know exactly why HER mom had HER take care of HER brothers

  • @tonyp.2935
    @tonyp.2935 Рік тому +8

    The last story he said he pulled her to a quiet corner so it sounds like he moved away from everyone

  • @bensgalley1368
    @bensgalley1368 Рік тому +39

    Alright on the story with the useless brothers. I have to ask for those who defend the mother if you would do the same. If we swapped the worthless mom for a worthless father. As I find when a father is horrible no one forgives or defends it. But if it is a horrible mother everyone feels like the mom gets a pass. Does anyone else not see how hypocritical that is?

    • @SendhelpIbegofyou
      @SendhelpIbegofyou Рік тому +1

      Ngl i totally agree BUT I feel like sometimes the op exaggerates a bit because there has to be a reason the bf and friend are disagreeing with op

    • @jessicadriver1636
      @jessicadriver1636 Рік тому +7

      It's sexist, completely sexist, people need to learn to let go of these gender biases towards men and women, not every dad is a caring and athorative family man, and not mother is a loving woman who knows best.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 Рік тому +4

      I agree, Ben. And both the boyfriend and friend suck. Time for OP to find new friends and to get out of there.

    • @femkefeenstra7754
      @femkefeenstra7754 Рік тому +1

      Yeah, just tell the bf and friend to swap with OP, so they can see what it's like. Also, the only reason mom demands her to come back is because now she has to do everything. If I were OP, I wouldn't step another foot in the house and let mom take care of it.

    • @Razzberry_dollz
      @Razzberry_dollz Рік тому +2

      @@SendhelpIbegofyounot really friends and partners usually base on their own families so if they don’t have a mom like her they think you should always apologize to mother because they’ve never delt with mommy dearest

  • @darkgamer7379
    @darkgamer7379 Рік тому +10

    Are you serious? He literally said he pulled her aside, which means that she and him would've been off alone for that talk. Not standing in earshot of his family

    • @mattcatt1165
      @mattcatt1165 5 місяців тому

      Afterwards. He started the talking and then pulled her aside and then talked some more.

  • @gotenblack2542
    @gotenblack2542 Рік тому +12

    as for the last one i dont really see how op needs to say sorry the gf started all of this who knows what is really going on

  • @QuickManEXE
    @QuickManEXE Рік тому +33

    Story 1: I dont get why people do that at weddings.... it is literally the single worst time/place to do that. I also don't get why people that do that don't get beaten up for it too.... and that crazy former friend definitely seems like he's in need of a roughing up, both for the wedding incident and his subsequent actions at the friends house after. That guy is a complete idiot and im surprised everyone didn't go zero contact with him and block him on everything. He is totally not worth it.
    Story 2: No way is the OP the jerk here. The OP gave very clear warning to the BIL and his son about the size of the steak meal and that if he couldn't eat it, he'd be paying for it. No ones fault here but the BIL and the son. Tomahawk steaks are HUGE, and a lot of high-end places will make you pre-pay for them... and they had a bunch of sides too. Something like that is almost a platter for 3-4 people, there's no way the kid is going to eat it all, unless he is like 450 lbs.
    Story 3: OP is absoluteuly not a jerk here. The mother here totally failed as a parent here. She seemed to do next to nothing in terms of raising those boys, especially if the OP had to do so much for them... willing or not. If the boys can't (won't) clean up after themselves, then they are just way too lazy, OP shouldn't have to do it or be expected to. Hopefully the OP is able to move out of that household soon and go no contact with them. Screw the mom. The mom should've been yelled at.
    Story 4: Simple solution here... cut this crazy mother out of your life and 100%. You had to deal with her as a kid, and that's bad enough, but you're an adult now and moved away... you don't need her or her attitude around you at all.
    Story 5: OP needs to ditch their partner and yesterday. This girl is crazy and i would say very likely to be cheating on the OP here. That would thing of inviting the other guy seemed intentional, there's no way it was just a coincidence. OP needs to split up with her.

    • @uniquleyinhuman309
      @uniquleyinhuman309 Рік тому +3

      Yea you nailed everything I was gonna say

    • @thrash208
      @thrash208 Рік тому

      Yeah that last story is nuts. Shes bored so invites another guy to a family get together? WTAF i would say 90% chance shes cheating or is about to. Ditch her ASAP

    • @albertovalera2811
      @albertovalera2811 Місяць тому

      On the second story the restaurant says is for 6 people aprox and it is 190$ of course nobody can eat it alone OP did warn BIL and son f around and find out

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 Рік тому +10

    Third Story: OP is NTA. She is being parentified by her toxic mom for her spoiled brothers. My siblings and I were more self sufficient by age 11. And OP’s boyfriend and friend are stupid, OP needs to dump them for siding with the mom. Also, OP is 22 and needs to get out of that house.
    I’ve known people who have gone through what OP did, and only by leaving for good did they break free and the parents realized they failed the remaining lazy/spoiled/useless siblings.

  • @kristalres
    @kristalres Рік тому +22

    Story 3:
    You should never apologise to such a controlling parent. There's so much favouritism and neglect that they don't deserve to be a parent

  • @micapowder1221
    @micapowder1221 Рік тому +7

    For #3 I can’t stand “you can’t talk to grown ups/parents like that” stuff. You’re allowed to stand up to abusive parents. You’re allowed to stand up for yourself no matter who it is, parents, boss, elders, family, etc. Especially when they’re abusive like op’s mom is. That “you can’t stand up to parents” mentality really needs to end, it makes it harder for people to stand up to abusive partners in the future

  • @Fiercetits
    @Fiercetits Рік тому +7

    If someone ever tried proposing at my wedding or my siblings I’d interrupt that immediately and show them the door.

  • @sonicblitz1884
    @sonicblitz1884 Рік тому +19

    If he made a racial comment towards me like that, he'd already be on the floor losing teeth. Not to mention stealing someone else's wedding is beyond fucked up.

    • @bruh-rb8ye
      @bruh-rb8ye Рік тому

      How was that racist

    • @sonicblitz1884
      @sonicblitz1884 Рік тому

      @@bruh-rb8ye It was what he said about the dude's wife, the op.

    • @bruh-rb8ye
      @bruh-rb8ye Рік тому

      @@sonicblitz1884 I've heard people say that in movies, and it's cuz their friends change when they meet their wife's or hang around different people, if he would've said ever since you've been hanging around that n word you've changed then it would be racist he only pointed at her to show who he meant

  • @brianarnold8666
    @brianarnold8666 Рік тому +17

    Legend says the orange juice is still sitting there waiting for OP to come clean up

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 6 місяців тому

      Same with carpet sauce growing Nth generation of mold in Tik Tok's bitch calling guy's house

    • @SquidWardisback-v9h
      @SquidWardisback-v9h 3 місяці тому

      Fax man

  • @ThatStormTrooper1914
    @ThatStormTrooper1914 Рік тому +14

    Last Story: Yeah, you protect her until the genders are reversed. How would you feel if a man started following a girl that constantly says she wants to be alone? Answer, police. The narrator definitely needs to actually understand that woman does not equate to not being bad. This story could be so different with so many different outcomes that could definitely have escalated to more than a break up.
    Girl invites man to a family birthday without telling anyone. Starts demanding to argue with her boyfriend. Ignores his requests and boundaries and follows him home. Result: possible break up or going to therapy.
    Gender reversed situation:
    Man invites girl to a family birthday without telling anyone. Result: he’s a jerk.
    Starts demanding to argue with his Girlfriend. Result: he’s creepy, a jerk, and maybe dangerous.
    Ignores her request and boundaries and follows her home. Result: police arresting him, or people thinking he’s dangerous and might wanna hurt or do something bad to the girl.
    Man invites girl to a family birthday without telling anyone. Starts demanding to argue with his Girlfriend. Ignores her request and boundaries and follows her home. Result: 99% chance of being arrested or everyone calls him a jerk and everybody hates him.
    See how different everything went from simply changing a woman to a man and a man to a woman?

  • @Reaper-bd9bl
    @Reaper-bd9bl Рік тому +4

    In story three, i kind of thought she needed to just talk it out with her mom until their ages were stated. Holy crap.

  • @kayschut9327
    @kayschut9327 Рік тому +7

    Can we get more videos with the other narrator that isn't biased? Last story the OP did nothing wrong. She brought a work friend to a family gathering without any heads up or discussion. Stating that the OP bored her. I would have broken up with her on the spot.

  • @miguelarias5193
    @miguelarias5193 11 місяців тому +2

    IF you are going to propose at SOMEONE ELSE'S WEDDING.... DON'T DO IT..... UNLESS THE BRIDE AND GROOM GIVE YOU THEIR FULL SUPPORT AND CONSENT

  • @skyecoleman5449
    @skyecoleman5449 Рік тому +3

    Last story. He is all off. He pulled her aside to tell her, she then got in the middle of everyone and made a scene. She then stalked him all the way home. Don’t go easy on her and make him the bad guy. She is 100% wrong!

  • @CaptainTom_EW
    @CaptainTom_EW Рік тому +5

    Last story: OP is not in the wrong

  • @Legourgent
    @Legourgent Рік тому +4

    Story 3 those kids are the ones that are usless in school

  • @cooperburnham9753
    @cooperburnham9753 Рік тому +2

    The steak story: the reason the tomahawk steak was so expensive is because of size, at a nice restaurant you pay typically 50$ for a 8oz filet mignon, so that was actually a pretty good price

  • @firegirl4707
    @firegirl4707 Рік тому +3

    i will never understand why people think it is a great idea to propose at someone else’s wedding

  • @sandrasausville9103
    @sandrasausville9103 Рік тому +8

    The second one is hilarious he made the deal so it's on him!
    Third, honestly I would have left long ago. She's the mother not you!! She needs to be the mother and make them adults not babies. And screw your boyfriend and the other friends.

  • @fistyyyy
    @fistyyyy Рік тому +33

    The only time it would be okay to propose at someone else's wedding is if it was asked about and agreed upon by the bride and groom. And the allotted time should be during a planned bouquet throwing

    • @QuickManEXE
      @QuickManEXE Рік тому +6

      Even then, that's still pretty tacky.

    • @cybermainstream
      @cybermainstream Рік тому +6

      Sorry but no. I don't care even if you ask. The thought of asking should never have come across their mind.

    • @thrash208
      @thrash208 Рік тому +2

      I agree but it has to be a really tight group of friends. We have a group of 4 myself included that are family weve been inseperable since kindergaten one of our friends got married and it was discussed before hand at the bouquet throw. Everybody including the wife was not onky ok with it but thrilled. If youre a SO of one of our boys your also one of us. Just the way it is.

    • @fistyyyy
      @fistyyyy Рік тому

      @@thrash208 I love that. "If you're a SO of one of our boys, your one of us." Just from that I can tell how you care for your friends

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 6 місяців тому

      Yeah, and most of those will be either bullied, guilted into it or too innocent to understand the repercautions and have to suffer through it. The rest of the 'good' ones if the marrying couple genuinly don't give a fuck or the bride conspires to make her 'married siblings double whammy' dream happen we had in some not so nice stories

  • @Raja-bz4yw
    @Raja-bz4yw Рік тому +2

    The only time it is okay to propose at a wedding is AFTER ITS OVER.

  • @Zanthil
    @Zanthil Рік тому +2

    If you are going to propose at anyone else's event, you have to check with them that it's OK beforehand

  • @diegoironfistlacayo8473
    @diegoironfistlacayo8473 5 місяців тому +2

    1st story: I've said it before and I'll say it again. You don't propose to someone else's wedding. EVER!!!! Proposing at someone else's wedding can be considered disrespectful and inappropriate. It is important to respect the couple's special day and not overshadow it with your own proposal. If you're planning to propose, it's best to choose a separate occasion that is focused solely on you and your partner.

  • @robertyoung1421
    @robertyoung1421 7 місяців тому

    It truly makes me sad to know that those kind of people are still in society and we can't stop them so thank you for doing the best we can do and bring awareness to them

  • @TheCarlitos562
    @TheCarlitos562 Рік тому +2

    Guy that his GF Brought a guy to the party. You were 100% correct on what you did. Unless she apologizes and begs you to not leave her, kick her to the curve. She is most likely starting up some sort of inappropriate relationship at work with that guy.

  • @miciogattomatto
    @miciogattomatto Рік тому +6

    the fun thing about stories ending up in this channel is that they're basically getting double revenge, because not only they got revenge on the person it is, but now also tens of thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of people are hearing how that person has been a jerk (and probably feel so satisfied hearing the OP's revenge)

  • @RiccoVanWilder
    @RiccoVanWilder 11 місяців тому +2

    I went back to listen to the last story but didn't find any reason for OP to be in the wrong. It sounds like they were at a family event and for a while before the coworker showed up. So she felt so isolated from everyone but didn't feel the need to speak to OP before bringing a stranger to OP's mom's birthday? The only thing OP should've done was hear her out but she poisoned the well before they even had a chance to address how she felt. OP isn't wrong at all

  • @IIGrayfoxII
    @IIGrayfoxII 11 місяців тому +1

    Someone should go to that guys wedding and "Propose" to show them how it feels.

  • @Tubb2581
    @Tubb2581 Рік тому +1

    Last story she was giving the Gluck Gluck 3000

  • @kubamaly4070
    @kubamaly4070 Рік тому +2

    Yess, 1 MILLION SUBS!!!❤🎉

  • @gotenblack2542
    @gotenblack2542 Рік тому +3

    1st story is wild is crazy the friend thought it was a good idea to do that and the friend hitting op is not cool am glad that they cut out the friend before he ruined things just imagine at the baby shower he come in and say his wife is having one to lol

  • @Dnd_Nerd
    @Dnd_Nerd 23 дні тому +1

    Why would you want to propose at someone else’s wedding either?? Like, you have to share the spotlight, might as well wait and then have the full spotlight , saving the wedding for the couple

  • @michellecoleman5577
    @michellecoleman5577 Рік тому +5

    story 1: If I was the person being proposed to and my partner thought someone else's wedding was the appropriate place to do that, my answer would be a f no and get out of my life because I have apparently seriously misjudged your character. Not only are you showing that you don't care about the people whose day it is to celebrate and who cared enough about you to want you to join in their celebration, but you're also clearly showing that my feelings are meaningless because now I'm going to have guilt over your crappiness for the rest of my life.

  • @Kadaue
    @Kadaue Рік тому +1

    It still surprises me that people think it's okay to propose at someone else's wedding

  • @ericbumbles4145
    @ericbumbles4145 Рік тому +1

    When dealing with a malignant narcissist as this woman's mother, the only thing you can do is put up boundaries if she continues to disrespect those, you have to consider distancing yourself, either go what s called in narc survivours terms Low-contact and if that gets breached, no-contact. That means social media, phones, address, everything. These people will destroy you and you are far too young to be dealing with such a toxic situation and family member. There are many support groups for narc survivours out there, on-line communities such as F#(book have many, they are everywhere online, do try taking that route and speak to your therapist about ways you can distance yourself sanely and safely. This is truly an abusive, damaging situation for anyone to be in.

  • @SenseiRaisen
    @SenseiRaisen Рік тому +3

    Last Story: CAN YOU STOP BEEN A SIMP FOR 2 SECONDS? wow! you're the jerk for been a simp. Yeah! he could heard her side but at the moment he isn't the right mind to do it, and the situation was clear. This is a disrepect from her and she play it as it was nothing and quadruple down too. NOPE! OP is not the jerk and neither need to apologize for something she create in the 1st place as she was the one who drag this thing on and create the drama.

  • @wardrobeuntermensch223
    @wardrobeuntermensch223 Рік тому +1

    How does "pulled her aside" mean the same as "embarrassed her in front of the whole family"?

  • @Randomlyme931
    @Randomlyme931 Рік тому +3

    Didnt watch yet but we all know its a great vid

  • @jessicathompson236
    @jessicathompson236 Рік тому +2

    First story; Step bro needs to send those people the bill for the ruined wedding

  • @Hickorypaws
    @Hickorypaws 6 днів тому

    loving organizing photos to these videos
    of all the apps you could crash, you’d think Photos would be a pretty difficult one

  • @lonelypotato4998
    @lonelypotato4998 Рік тому +2

    They must've not read the last story bruh. He said he talked to her in a quiet corner

  • @alanphipps
    @alanphipps Рік тому +2

    I never understand why people bloody so that at someone else wedding

  • @GradientShades
    @GradientShades Рік тому +2

    Second story: I also think that she was in the right because he agreed to pay if he didn't eat it all. I myself could actually eat all of that because I and a bottomless pit though. I have eaten 5 pizza at a time.

  • @Juzokinnie
    @Juzokinnie Рік тому +2

    The girl who had to take care of her brothers: gurl run, you need better friends. Parentification is basically abuse and her mother expected her to raise her brothers. Her mother was just lazy and didn't want to fulfill her duty as a mother. OP absolutely should not apologize to her mother and frankly, anyone who doesn't realize just how toxic it is, OP should just be firm and brutually honest with how it is. Sometimes for people to realize how bad your situation is, you just have to get firm with them and just say "Hey, it's not an overreaction. I am being taken advantage of and it's a toxic situation. I know you mean well but the situation is much more severe than you realize, and I don't appreciate being told to disregard the things that are happening." If they still don't get it, get better friends.
    It might seem mean but when I was being s3xu4lly harassed by my dad's father, my mom's dad would disregard my ranting of the s3xu4l harrassment until I said "Look, this isn't okay. His behavior is not okay. Him touching my butt and thighs despite me constantly asking him to stop." When I was blunt about it, he finally understood what I was saying and realized I was right.

  • @viviennemorgan7217
    @viviennemorgan7217 Рік тому +3

    another title for the entitled man story is my step brother's entitled friend ruined his wedding.

  • @Alphalink29
    @Alphalink29 Рік тому +2

    For story 1 the act itself isnt the problem it was how it was handled if they have consent from the weddies (I dont know what to call them) and handle it with respect by proposing and then allowing the celebration of the wedding to continue instead of showing the ring etc

  • @kyleturner536
    @kyleturner536 Рік тому +1

    Last story, that chick sounds like she's testing OP about how much disrespect she can get away with and/or she's preparing to ask for an open relationship.

  • @fernandorios474
    @fernandorios474 Рік тому +1

    When I was a kid I was always hungry for something to put me in a food coma but when Burger king triple stacker came out I wanted to try it out which I passed out after eating Triple Stacker, Fries & a drink but on the good side I got ban from the kitchen :P

  • @justinmyers9515
    @justinmyers9515 Рік тому +2

    All I know is man that steak sounds good

  • @christianmarshal6117
    @christianmarshal6117 Рік тому +2

    If I were ever to use a wedding as the scene for my proposal, which I wouldn’t do anything but I’d someone were too, the only way it would be semi acceptable would be to do it AFTER the bride and groom drive away.
    Everyone’s all gathered together and so lovestruck and happy after a successful marriage and most importantly of all the bride and groom have already left. That’s all. From the moment the bride and groom arrive to the moment they drive away to their honeymoon all attention should be on them! Stealing the spotlight at someone else’s wedding is morally reprehensible!
    Well except for during the speeches but even those are supposed to be given in their honor and be mostly about them.

  • @SashaKerrigan-nn6wv
    @SashaKerrigan-nn6wv Рік тому +1

    Story 4 is a textbook emotionally immature parent. I am a psyc student and am currently dealing with my own version of this. There are several really good online books that can help you learn the signs of this and how to set boundaries and move forward in the relationship (assuming you still want one of course)

  • @Moeez-te8mq
    @Moeez-te8mq Рік тому

    The first story is the first story I have seen about a family getting along

  • @AJackalopeNamedSilver
    @AJackalopeNamedSilver Рік тому

    Sunset overdrive playing in the background makes my day

  • @SoloQueueGamer
    @SoloQueueGamer Рік тому +1

    Last story - That GF belong to the streets. The Narrator is jus too scared to be cancelled.

  • @joosyjulie
    @joosyjulie Рік тому +1

    Story 1- Sometimes an engagement is announced at a wedding, BUT, it's only ever with the permission of the bride and groom and usually only for uber close friends.
    Story 4- the only way you will ever have peace with a narcissistic parent is to cut them out of your I've done it and have never regretted it.
    Story 5- Dodgy behaviour on behalf of the girlfriend. If it was just friends, then calling to people outside of the core group, is usually just a goodreason for expanding your and others friend group. But this was a family occasion, family invited only.

  • @christianmarshal6117
    @christianmarshal6117 Рік тому +1

    The way I see it in story 3 there are 2 possibilities, one OP is altering and /or exaggerating the facts to make herself look better or two her friend and boyfriend are crappy people and I can’t begin to fathom why she’s with them…

  • @sizzlinggecko
    @sizzlinggecko 5 днів тому

    A relationship comes with a 50/50 guilt. No one has no fault.

  • @maryjane4432
    @maryjane4432 Рік тому +3

    The mom with two little brothers I thought they meant like under 13, not 16&18!!!! Good lord

    • @jessicadriver1636
      @jessicadriver1636 Рік тому +2

      OP is so not the jerk in that story, let Mrs. good mommy spend a night in there shoes we'll just see if her "equal parenting" really did rub off on those boys well.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 Рік тому

      My siblings and I learned to get self sufficient by 11.

  • @brandonnewby178
    @brandonnewby178 5 місяців тому

    *chuckles. They are not bad people, they are just bad together.

  • @elemantelgirl
    @elemantelgirl Рік тому +1

    16:35 In all honesty I personally can relate to a lot of this and can understand why this person acts the way they do

  • @Spiderz_World
    @Spiderz_World 6 місяців тому +1

    Story 3: Your mother is choosing favorites. You don't need to go to apologize to anyone. She's probably trying to get you to come home so she can force you to clean after your brothers again.
    Story 4: She is horrible. In my opinion, you need to just stop all contact with her if she's going to act like she can do whatever she wants.
    Story 5: I don't think the am I the jerk guy knew what was going on. The O.P said that most of the family was at the next pub, which means it was her, him, and maybe 1 or 2 others there. When he went to the new pub, he pulled her to a corner where non of the family would hear them. She then decided to scream in front of everyone telling him to apologize. She doesn't deserve an apology.

  • @thomasscott758
    @thomasscott758 Рік тому +1

    If you want to propose at a wedding, do it at the end - makes a wonderful end of the day. And makes the person who was married's day even more memorable. Because they've had their day. And make sure to ask. Otherwise it's obviously going to ruin both things in multiple ways

  • @Kestrelmint
    @Kestrelmint Рік тому +1

    In every story here has there been none who have been the jerk.
    1. The only way engaging someone at someone else's wedding is okay is if the people who are getting married are okay with it (as in they asked and got permissions).
    I've seen a video where instead of the bride of a wedding throwing the flowers to the crowd, she hands it to her friend, and her friend's bf goes and proposes.
    And sometimes it is cute seeing engagement at a wedding, but it always depends on the situation and people. Which is why asking comes in handy.
    2. He already agreed that if his son did not eat the steak, he would pay for it. And I'm sorry, but the kid is also at fault, he's old enough to realize he cannot eat that much steak. And, it's your money.
    3. From the start, I was saying no, because a mother should love her children equally. And it's even worse that she makes you do all the chores. And flat out saying she loves her other sons more than you is even worse. Your bf and friend are also in the wrong, your mother has been rude to you from the start, and when you finally want to give your opinions, you're in the wrong? No. Also, the fact that the 'kids' are now adults, they should definitely be taking care of themselves and their messes now.
    4. Your mother should respect you a bit more and should let you be yourself. She's also not in the right for dismissing your friends or behaving rudely. She sounds like a rude person in general.
    5. You dating her and her saying that you're not enough company is definitely not good. If she's seeing you but is also with another guy, I'd think it'd be better just for her to say goodbye. Sad for you but I'd prefer having my gf leave for another guy knowing that at least you don't have to worry about anything said or done behind your back. Also, that seat was your uncle's so that's also not nice of her to let someone sit down when it was for someone else. I understand that you may have been rude, but she's definitely more of a jerk than you.

  • @dragonweyr44
    @dragonweyr44 Рік тому +2

    1st story: Proposing at someone else's wedding, esp. when the bride and groom didn't know, is a HUGE dick move.
    3rd story: My father died in 2000, In the will he left each of us, me and my two brothers, some land and a house to go with it, PLUS a fourth property and building that has been used for storage that is in all three of our names. We each pay property taxes on this property (as well as our own) but that's it.
    Since 2000, I have mowed the lawn on this property. I pay for any and all maintenance. My niece has stored her belongings inside that building for more than 15 years, with $0 paid in storage fees and I believe she's pretty much forgotten her crap in that time because I haven't once seen her come back for it. I can't throw it away, I can't sell it or else my brother, who wouldn't piss on me if I were on fire, literally, wouldn't approve

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 Рік тому

      Perhaps for a bit of cash, my brothers could arrange a break in and burglary of that fourth property, get your niece’s things out of there? 😉 (J/K) Seriously, my sympathies. And my condolences regarding your dad.

  • @Mysterioustical_CDT
    @Mysterioustical_CDT Місяць тому

    (Making brother pay story) Idk if it's just me, but I could easily eat that much food, and in 2 years younger than the kid. I feel like most 15 y/o teens can eat that much, saying that he'd take a bit and leave it is a HUGE understatement

  • @dannyxxstupid9977
    @dannyxxstupid9977 Рік тому +5

    Some people are just horrible why would they ruin someone else's moment , read the room , for the second story you did well don't worry he should've never taken advantage of tour kindness , the third story I have no words as well your mother is in the wrong and the people who say go apologize to her are right though try to talk it out and if you see it isn't working hang on for a little while and when you can take care of yourself leave she might've raised you but it doesn't .mean she can treat you like a maid for your siblings ,, AITJ RESPONDED responsibly than me I was just gonna say break up with her

  • @sonalSingh-yq7ju
    @sonalSingh-yq7ju 9 місяців тому

    I watch story one standing and I am palalsyed 💀💀

  • @zavierm6571
    @zavierm6571 6 місяців тому

    Man this admin loves protecting women even when there wrong 😂

  • @christianmarshal6117
    @christianmarshal6117 Рік тому

    I had a friend who was half Native American that had an older sister. They moved away while we were all still kids.

  • @Weird_puppets
    @Weird_puppets Рік тому

    Nice to have new stories every day.

  • @joshp3446
    @joshp3446 Рік тому

    The thing about narcissists (and I love doing this) they tell you you're fat or overweight etc. You just have to play the same game against her
    "I see you're wearing those gray hairs admirably!"
    "YOU don't look a day past 55"
    Etc

  • @ultracat2960
    @ultracat2960 18 днів тому

    Story 3: no you are not the jerk. I actually have a cousin who is barely a teenager and she has been taking care of her little brothers for years, and I think her favorite time of the year is our family Christmas Eve party, because my brother and I help her watch her younger siblings. Meanwhile, her mom just sits back and tells her dad to fetch her wine. I have seen firsthand what this kind of attitude of a parent does to their kid. You were slightly harsh to your mom, but you do not need to apologize at all because she is an entitled jerk.

  • @xinsalait_397
    @xinsalait_397 Рік тому +1

    time to sleep to this

  • @Pinosmrimeultrakillicup
    @Pinosmrimeultrakillicup Рік тому

    13:23
    The time above is relatable

  • @ClockSolver
    @ClockSolver 10 місяців тому

    my opinion on the story about terry and john: just make them clean up for themselves when they start walking, like why bother forcing your oldest child to do so? its not like they are gonna find good jobs and make a living. they are probably going to depend on your retirement money

  • @Razzberry_dollz
    @Razzberry_dollz Рік тому +1

    … taking her to talk to her to her privately was exactly what he did he didn’t single her out wtf do you mean

  • @jessicaspaw528
    @jessicaspaw528 Рік тому

    Don't go home! Let her clean it up

  • @MollyMiller2024
    @MollyMiller2024 Рік тому +1

    Story 1-I get that it’s inappropriate to ask for marriage at someone else’s wedding but there is a specific time when it can be allowed (although you must ask the people who are getting married to see if it’s ok with them,if the answer is no try another time at another place,if the answer is yes then wait till the end so married couple can have their time to be the spotlight at their own wedding

  • @tasteslikepennies2549
    @tasteslikepennies2549 8 місяців тому

    Story one. So lucky that wasn't my wedding. So lucky he didn't show up at my door. There's all kinds of way to make stupid sausage

  • @ionelmacesaru
    @ionelmacesaru Рік тому

    First story - If it was planned it would have been cute.

  • @pageachatter229
    @pageachatter229 6 місяців тому

    There are two unspoken rules that come with attending someone else's wedding. The first is that the only woman who should wear white is the bride. The second is that, unless you have the express permission of the bride and groom, do not *ever* make big announcements of your own at someone else's wedding.

  • @elizabethalkenbrack8767
    @elizabethalkenbrack8767 Рік тому

    the first story... ugh, it just pissed me off and I just wanna hug the poor lady who hadta live/experience/deal with that.

  • @samauraipc16
    @samauraipc16 Рік тому +1

    I was hoping the pregnant announcement qpd happen at bf wedding. I read a story where a brother dis that to his sibling where he proposed. So at their wedding his sibling switched yhe flower girls flowers to blue and during the reception announced they were pregnant. The brother was mad. And yhe sister was like how does it feel now

  • @user-mx5rs9wh6w
    @user-mx5rs9wh6w Рік тому

    HOW CAN HE HAVE A WEDDING IF HE PROPOSE AT HIS FRIEND WEDDING

  • @bobm5951
    @bobm5951 Рік тому +1

    Last story - Obviously it's over. Tell the guy to F off the moment he showed up. And publicly dump her and kick her out. DO NOT APOLOGIZE. She was Absolutely Wrong to invite anyone Especially a guy. You did Nothing wrong.

  • @mysiklp2509
    @mysiklp2509 Рік тому

    Love to see sunset overdrive getting some love

  • @JulianBomgardner-sr3mn
    @JulianBomgardner-sr3mn Рік тому

    Honestly I would propose at a wedding if my girlfriend catches the flowers

  • @ImpoSher
    @ImpoSher Рік тому

    Thats my new biggest pet peeve.

  • @finnmchugh99
    @finnmchugh99 Рік тому

    I probably said this before, there are 2 taboos you should never do at weddings:
    1. Wear white when you are not the bride... you are just asking forvdoneone to spill red wine on you.
    2. Propose or announce anything unrelated to the happy couple as that is narcissistic and downright selfish

    • @Leosloth2011
      @Leosloth2011 Рік тому

      Any wedding requiring you to wear all white to attend is a bad wedding