my question is: Why Pat isn't punched already? People grew so much fear of retalation now days.. when sometimes is the solution to this kind of asshole people.
@@jackthecraftian yeah!! from where i come from you had to have a saint patience for deal with this kind of stuffs. I been having that for a long time, but my patience get really worn out quickly by just the mere condesding tone or any attempt of entitlement. And often get received either with an insult form my part or just straight a punch if the person get to much physical and berating.
Everyone knows poor Hank not only got rapped through the die-vorce court system for half his stuff/property, he would also have to pay alimony and child support until all those 5 kids were 18 or 21 depending on which state.
Honestly he didn't want to have those kids so I find it unfair if he would have to pay child support as he wasn't involved in the decision, sure he technically gave consent, but he wasn't in the proper state of mind to do that in my opinion
I feel bad for Hank. I'm glad he finally stood up for himself and left. Even if he has to live with his folks for now at least he's better off. I just wish him the best.
No, NTA. You did what you had to do to bring down a narcissist, and get a ring that's sentimental back. (When I turned 13, my grandma gave me a ring with a white crystal in the center On both sides, there are two small pink crystals. I wear it on my pinkie sometimes. It's sentimental, and I don't want to lose it again, after losing it once.)
Tedious story. I don't know why people aren't just straight up honest with people like this. Your kids can't come back as as you and them were told not to harass the geese and they still did it. I'm sorry if it causes problems for you but they can't be trusted to behave so no, they can't come back.
This is how I feel. Why are people afraid of holding people accountable for their cruddy actions? I would have been blunt about the ring situation and tell Pat to never associate with me or my family again and threaten to file a report with the police. I guess they got the point by nobody showing up to the wedding, but Pat probably still feels like a victim and is wondering what she did wrong.
If I was part of the couple that Pat was trying to get to change their venue date I would not have caved. I would’ve said something like “I already scheduled for this time so either find a different venue or wait until next year. You can do a really early sign up for next year”
A lot of stories start with someone accepting a request out of politeness.1 time, my friend accepted a relationship request from a girl that she didn't even like and proceeded to get abused by that girl in multiple times. And this was in 5th grade too!
7:59 She left out the part where he goes to the police and files a complaint against the girl for stealing the ring and defaming his daughter at school... right?🥺 😡Ok, but not even something about the school issue? I mean, some people at school believe that the girl tried to steal Casey's ring. And that's why the daughter has problems. So wouldn't it be time to go to school and clarify the issue somehow? That after what happened to Casey it doesn't take much to spread the word that the girl sent her mother to steal her ring. Which could make even more people side with her and/or speak badly of the reporter's daughter.
I find it ironic that OP calls Hank a doormat while OP and the rest of the community just let Pat and her spawn get away with their crap. They all should’ve stood up to Pat years ago instead of letting things slide in order to keep the peace.
There is being polite and there is being a doormat. The community is taking pity out of Pat like a charity case... If they were a door mat, they would have never took revenge
Hank needs a full redemption arc. Emotional distress, emasculation, and seeing that the US judicial system , whether it is for child support or divorces, isn't objectively fair. It goes by the biases of the judge. As a wedding photographer, I've only seen "they aren't going to last long" couples twice. The groom had depression just like this guy, but was also alienated by his own friends. The bride's actions made me uncomfortable and made for a dangerous environment. The story on Hank alone is something I can relate with Mr. Castro (the groom in my story).
I'd fix it in the most Dutch way ever. Straight to the face 'You are a horrible person, leave and never even think of talking to me again'. Done. I feel sorry for that guy though.
If you do get to see someone like that , I hope you call them out immediately and not ignore it like the person in this video, I wish everyone did that ,the world would be a much better place , people are way too tolerant towards BS these days
Have you ever taken breaks? I bet it's pretty stressful to do like 40 minutes of content a day excluding editing and stuff, so if you do take a break I completely understand! Just as long as you are ok :)
This is my first ever comment and like on UA-cam. I usually just like reading and scrolling past comments but I loved the compassion and understanding demonstrated here by a kind-hearted person. Thank you for being nice :)
I had something similiar except we went to HS and she found me 15 yrs later. point being she invited me tried pity thing told her no once. she tried to hash on something no meanial and unintrusive that happened 20 yrs ago. called her pathetic n blocked her. seriously is the world filled with karens and few sane ppl left
I have a feeling, that someone should make locking up rude brats in different enclosed spaces so they wouldn't ruin everyone's fun legal... And their parents with them.
In every single one of these videos I always go to “murder them.” They’re an entitled Karen? Murder them. They want to go on MY Disney trip without paying? Murder them. Also I feel like this guy would be a great judge he looks at both side so deeply that even I think sometimes the Karen’s actions are justified
"I accepted her friend request out of politeness" well there's your first mistake. I only accept friend requests from people I know and want to be associated with. You shouldn't feel obligated to associate with people who are detrimental to your mental health. You're an adult and you have the right to choose who you keep in your life (and that includes family too).
Sounds like Pat got exactly what she deserved, you reap what you sow!! I pray her husband's in a better place & also her children don't turn out to be entitled people in society!! Pat now finds herself having no friend's and sounds like she's doing her own house cleaning too. In 1 word KARMA
OP is not the jerk. for hank.. since he didn't win the divorce, well.. whether he won or not, he still would have his obligations to his kids. JUST HIS KIDS!! he could've just started a new life without pat and did his duties / obligations for his kids alone. he'd buy the stuff his kids needs.. NOT WANT. that would be the best thing he would do and that would also force pat to work her butt off.
Pat deserved that. Heck, Lena had the right idea, though personally, I would not have given her a dress at all. Hank deserves better and I hope he's doing okay.
When she stole the dress I probably would have made sure nothing showed up, if she steals why can't she be stolen from? I also would have booked the same venue last minute for a better price out of spite
But everyone already knows what she did and u just cant come in a wedding with a fucking projector and nor can u get a degree as a chef is such a short time and get hired to make the pie 😭😭😭 yall are so unrealistic
Revenge is never good because karma takes care of narcissistic people. It's just about waiting for karmas firework show. Unfortunately you did lower yourself to Pat's level and you can get karma as a result.
@@Hexagon5791 yeah isnt it all for justice and punnishment for the evil people out there? You really need to fix your way of seeing justice and fairness
frist story ~ about how the lady asked people to watch her kids one of my neighbors did this to me when she asked me to watch her two kids for a few hours ~ and they still owe me $ for babysitting their kids
Omg when I clicked on the video all I her was BRIDEZILLA😅 sorry I forgot to read the title and Hank is not the jerk in this situation dude his wife is crazy poor dude😓
story 1 thinks she helping at the community centre turns to be untitled by stealing presents for Theo’s who really need it and her kids destroy your house and go into rooms they won’t allowed and then she steal her daughter ring and her mother thinks you’re watching her kids for a week no way Karen kids would steal everything you own and now Karen bully’s other people to give her everything and now wants a free wedding dress and free food and ruined her dress hear come the cow fair fat and wide and replace dress didn’t fit you should tried a trash bag 😂🤣🤪🐄🐮👗
I do used to have that kind of friend In my schooldays, always try to use my money on his needs by using friends as an excuse,even though I don't want to pay single dime on him. Also he always talks like he looks down on everyone,bruh he didn't even respect his own parents at that point.but glad I left my school after all the classes, I can finally escape this dipshit of a classmate. I still meet all of my school friends, but most likely I'm not meeting them if they include that bully too.
No give yourself a big pat on the back, I had very much the same thing happened to me and I got revenge on this person, After her walking out with my husband who now is in jail for sexual absence on my 13 year old son at the time, but my revenge was much harsher she found me on Facebook aswell, but you did the Wright thing.
i'd do a jerk move and secretly destroy the cake but i won make it obvious like unscrewing the cart that was carrying the cake wheels off to nearly break then when the cake is push in it falls off
In situations like these I can’t feel bad for the Op at all. Like you said this women is opportunist and forceful and you cut her off yet knowing all these and seeing it again you just kept her around
My uncle is auntie's weddings were just held up at a campsite with a little tree handsome hamburgers for food it's not that hard to have a good wedding
Not the jerk. Feel so sorry for Hank. Glad he's getting the help he needs now
No matter what we can agree that Hank got the worst fate here
Yeah agreed. It's good that he finally grew a spine.
Agreed.
Agreed. Justice for Hank
Agreed
True
Bro I feel bad for Hank
He should have divorced minutes after getting married
That monster is crazy
Damn everybody agrees on this
Hank should file for divorce since month 1 with this greedy of a woman. Rip Hank
Should have left the alter
my question is: Why Pat isn't punched already?
People grew so much fear of retalation now days.. when sometimes is the solution to this kind of asshole people.
She'd walk away like a penguin and sue them for assaulting a pregnant lady.
Most people are just wimps. A solid punch fixes a lot of stuff
@@jackthecraftian yeah!! from where i come from you had to have a saint patience for deal with this kind of stuffs. I been having that for a long time, but my patience get really worn out quickly by just the mere condesding tone or any attempt of entitlement. And often get received either with an insult form my part or just straight a punch if the person get to much physical and berating.
Wish Pat's husband would.
if that happened she would call the police :D
The fact that she kept in contact after her kids ring was stolen baffles me. There's being a push over and just a door mat.
Everyone knows poor Hank not only got rapped through the die-vorce court system for half his stuff/property, he would also have to pay alimony and child support until all those 5 kids were 18 or 21 depending on which state.
Honestly he didn't want to have those kids so I find it unfair if he would have to pay child support as he wasn't involved in the decision, sure he technically gave consent, but he wasn't in the proper state of mind to do that in my opinion
@@brycecarr8262if Hank was a woman and pat a man Hank would have won everything
Makes me so happy my dad won me and my sister.
We really need more long ones, they are always better than the short ones
Ya I would rather listen to 1 long one than 10 very short ones
I agree. Short ones are nice but it's fun to listen to 1 big juicy story
Plus the longer stories are the most exciting ones
The longer stories are way more satisfying
EXACTLY
The fact that he calls them “bridezilla” makes me laugh
Reminds me of what call my mom....i cal her momzilla HAHA
Definitely not the jerk. People deserve to be treated like shit if they treat others like shit
Absolutely. Wish Pikachu would 1000 volt shock her.
“do unto others as you would have them do unto you”
:)
I feel bad for Hank. I'm glad he finally stood up for himself and left. Even if he has to live with his folks for now at least he's better off.
I just wish him the best.
Moral of the story : do not befriend shitty people
No, NTA. You did what you had to do to bring down a narcissist, and get a ring that's sentimental back. (When I turned 13, my grandma gave me a ring with a white crystal in the center On both sides, there are two small pink crystals. I wear it on my pinkie sometimes. It's sentimental, and I don't want to lose it again, after losing it once.)
Tedious story. I don't know why people aren't just straight up honest with people like this. Your kids can't come back as as you and them were told not to harass the geese and they still did it. I'm sorry if it causes problems for you but they can't be trusted to behave so no, they can't come back.
This is how I feel. Why are people afraid of holding people accountable for their cruddy actions? I would have been blunt about the ring situation and tell Pat to never associate with me or my family again and threaten to file a report with the police. I guess they got the point by nobody showing up to the wedding, but Pat probably still feels like a victim and is wondering what she did wrong.
If I was part of the couple that Pat was trying to get to change their venue date I would not have caved. I would’ve said something like “I already scheduled for this time so either find a different venue or wait until next year. You can do a really early sign up for next year”
A lot of stories start with someone accepting a request out of politeness.1 time, my friend accepted a relationship request from a girl that she didn't even like and proceeded to get abused by that girl in multiple times. And this was in 5th grade too!
Hank needs to "go get milk for family"
Pat getting every dam wedding dress is like being married 1000 times wow, and she got the epic end of disasters
Not a jerk! She got what she deserved and realized nobody likes her because of her actions... And poor Hank! I hope he is doing well!
7:59
She left out the part where he goes to the police and files a complaint against the girl for stealing the ring and defaming his daughter at school... right?🥺
😡Ok, but not even something about the school issue?
I mean, some people at school believe that the girl tried to steal Casey's ring. And that's why the daughter has problems.
So wouldn't it be time to go to school and clarify the issue somehow?
That after what happened to Casey it doesn't take much to spread the word that the girl sent her mother to steal her ring. Which could make even more people side with her and/or speak badly of the reporter's daughter.
I feel so bad for Hank he didn't deserve a monster like that
No bad and nasty deed ever goes unpunished!!!
tht's not true....
Dude, what are these crazy games you're always playing? I can't stop watching!!
45% listening
55% *what the f### is that game?*
I find it ironic that OP calls Hank a doormat while OP and the rest of the community just let Pat and her spawn get away with their crap. They all should’ve stood up to Pat years ago instead of letting things slide in order to keep the peace.
İ agree
There is being polite and there is being a doormat. The community is taking pity out of Pat like a charity case... If they were a door mat, they would have never took revenge
Hank needs a full redemption arc. Emotional distress, emasculation, and seeing that the US judicial system , whether it is for child support or divorces, isn't objectively fair. It goes by the biases of the judge. As a wedding photographer, I've only seen "they aren't going to last long" couples twice. The groom had depression just like this guy, but was also alienated by his own friends. The bride's actions made me uncomfortable and made for a dangerous environment. The story on Hank alone is something I can relate with Mr. Castro (the groom in my story).
You guys are one of my favorite channels, I try to watch every new vid as soon as I possibly can
OP and Lena did the impossible.
They *broke* the Karen.
Was Pat even RAISED CORRECTLY??
I'd fix it in the most Dutch way ever.
Straight to the face 'You are a horrible person, leave and never even think of talking to me again'.
Done. I feel sorry for that guy though.
Hank I feel bad for him the most he got most of Karen's Force hopefully he has a good rest of his life
Hank: "You know, prison might not be so bad."
People put up with to much bs. That Pat lady can get cussed out. I'm so thankful I don't have anyone like that in my life! 🙏🏾
If you do get to see someone like that , I hope you call them out immediately and not ignore it like the person in this video, I wish everyone did that ,the world would be a much better place , people are way too tolerant towards BS these days
Have you ever taken breaks? I bet it's pretty stressful to do like 40 minutes of content a day excluding editing and stuff, so if you do take a break I completely understand! Just as long as you are ok :)
This is my first ever comment and like on UA-cam. I usually just like reading and scrolling past comments but I loved the compassion and understanding demonstrated here by a kind-hearted person. Thank you for being nice :)
you are truly a angel
@@lolman6976 true³
@@melywijaya214 no, truly is correct
man learning what happened to hank completely broke my heart. I hope all the best for him and May God bless him
Not only is OP NTA, But I would argue she is actually the hero here.
I had something similiar except we went to HS and she found me 15 yrs later. point being she invited me tried pity thing told her no once. she tried to hash on something no meanial and unintrusive that happened 20 yrs ago. called her pathetic n blocked her. seriously is the world filled with karens and few sane ppl left
I have a feeling, that someone should make locking up rude brats in different enclosed spaces so they wouldn't ruin everyone's fun legal... And their parents with them.
Pat (Karen) got what she deserves. Glad to say you are NOT the AH! I so enjoyed the story of retaliation.😊
The worst wedding for the worst person 😎
This here is a situation where people need to stop being polite.
In every single one of these videos I always go to “murder them.” They’re an entitled Karen? Murder them. They want to go on MY Disney trip without paying? Murder them. Also I feel like this guy would be a great judge he looks at both side so deeply that even I think sometimes the Karen’s actions are justified
YES EXACTLY
Am I the jerk I love your work
Me to 😊
This is gold. You start piling up the Karenness, they return with some sweet, sweet revenge. GG, Karen.
Never knew the monsters under my bed act like this!!
"I accepted her friend request out of politeness"
well there's your first mistake.
I only accept friend requests from people I know and want to be associated with. You shouldn't feel obligated to associate with people who are detrimental to your mental health. You're an adult and you have the right to choose who you keep in your life (and that includes family too).
Sounds like Pat got exactly what she deserved, you reap what you sow!! I pray her husband's in a better place & also her children don't turn out to be entitled people in society!! Pat now finds herself having no friend's and sounds like she's doing her own house cleaning too. In 1 word KARMA
A helluva rollercoaster story. Well told though.
Holy!! At some Point, I had to go back to check if we were on the same story 10 minutes in.
These reddit posts are getting longer each and every year... no. *Months*
that bridezilla is literally bowser in mario odyssey lmao
God dangit now i cant see the diffrence between them now...
If hell exists, there's a special place in it for parents who intentionally raise impossible children.
OP is not the jerk.
for hank.. since he didn't win the divorce, well.. whether he won or not, he still would have his obligations to his kids.
JUST HIS KIDS!!
he could've just started a new life without pat and did his duties / obligations for his kids alone.
he'd buy the stuff his kids needs.. NOT WANT.
that would be the best thing he would do and that would also force pat to work her butt off.
I can imagine rn Pat sitting here reading the comments and throwing a tantrum to her friends only to get ignored
Absolutely not Pat should’ve deserved far worse if I paid attention she basically stole the dress from Lena.
Pat:waddles like a penguin. Me: IM THE ONLY PENGUIN
Awesome premier,watching it rn
same
its great
I would likely do something that could be thought of as assault if I was in hanks position
Yeah I think it's the ladder she just doesn't give a flipping crap she wants what she wants and doesn't care who she inconveniences
You are not jerk. You are a hero
This is gonna Be good
Pat deserved that. Heck, Lena had the right idea, though personally, I would not have given her a dress at all. Hank deserves better and I hope he's doing okay.
Being polite is literally no reason to not stand up and set boundaries
I hate that I imagined Hank as the Hank in Breaking Bad. And Marie as Pat.
Karen:ITS MY WEDDING
Karen:So NO POOR PEOPLE!!!
Me: so leave..?
Hank is an abuse victim more then a push over
12:39-12:45 my man got a short poem there💀
17:42 Wait what is the unspeakable act hank be doin? 📸🤨👀👀👀
Unspeakable?
Nah its just his way to calm himself down after all the suspicious acts with Pat for her dreams to have... 5 KIDS??
Great video Thanks
Definitely NOT a jerk.
When she stole the dress I probably would have made sure nothing showed up, if she steals why can't she be stolen from? I also would have booked the same venue last minute for a better price out of spite
Ummm I think her mom is like " what demon have I released into the world?"
What is sad is the lack of backbone that the OP had and allowed people to be used, abused and hurt.
She shouldn't be surprised I mean really I doubt if she even have any friends left and she can call on if she needs help
that revenge was pathetic I would have ruined the pie as well show everyone proof what she did and more
But everyone already knows what she did and u just cant come in a wedding with a fucking projector and nor can u get a degree as a chef is such a short time and get hired to make the pie 😭😭😭 yall are so unrealistic
@@Ok-oj4qp I dont ened a chefs degree just some needled with hot sauce so I can inject that in the pie
@@wowgek7 and who would let you do that u cant just turn into a chameleon and plus other people would eat it
@@Ok-oj4qp true lol but maybe I just ruin it another way there are more ways
I guess you aren’t a woman.
Absolutely not!
Revenge is never good because karma takes care of narcissistic people. It's just about waiting for karmas firework show.
Unfortunately you did lower yourself to Pat's level and you can get karma as a result.
Revenge is just man made karma
Karma doesn’t exists. Revenge is bad because it poisons your soul.
@@nataliam9764 so bad people should get away with their sins?
@@Hexagon5791 yeah isnt it all for justice and punnishment for the evil people out there?
You really need to fix your way of seeing justice and fairness
@@melywijaya214 lol imagine supporting sinners smh
frist story ~ about how the lady asked people to watch her kids one of my neighbors did this to me when she asked me to watch her two kids for a few hours ~ and they still owe me $ for babysitting their kids
Its disappointing that Karen literally took the kids and harassed her husband...
My sister saw this story and the first thing she asked was
" who on earth would want 5 f***ing kids"
8:48 yep, a Splatoon fan
💀
Watching the premier
That Casey kid need to experience sole Redo of Healer kind of revenge
honestly if the first thing happened to my kid that kid wouldn't even have gotten close to my kid
"Also messed with the Geese." YOU DON'T FUCK WITH GEESE!!
We’re I live every other woman excluding mi Mom are fricking karens
Really? I feel sorry for you
Yea and most of them have abused my dads confidence on many times
pastor ugh Karen's need to go to space and be forgotten
Yes, that is correct.
I wonder how many OPs show the people in they're stories these videos.
can we get more stories of crazy dudes, the karen stories are becoming really numerous ;v;?
Revenge is best served cold
Not just cold,
*But magma hot is also an option*
why is it that i always pay more attention to the background game than the actual story?
Moral of the story: don’t be polite
Omg when I clicked on the video all I her was BRIDEZILLA😅 sorry I forgot to read the title and Hank is not the jerk in this situation dude his wife is crazy poor dude😓
story 1 thinks she helping at the community centre turns to be untitled by stealing presents for Theo’s who really need it and her kids destroy your house and go into rooms they won’t allowed and then she steal her daughter ring and her mother thinks you’re watching her kids for a week no way Karen kids would steal everything you own and now Karen bully’s other people to give her everything and now wants a free wedding dress and free food and ruined her dress hear come the cow fair fat and wide and replace dress didn’t fit you should tried a trash bag 😂🤣🤪🐄🐮👗
I agree
I love this
I do used to have that kind of friend In my schooldays, always try to use my money on his needs by using friends as an excuse,even though I don't want to pay single dime on him. Also he always talks like he looks down on everyone,bruh he didn't even respect his own parents at that point.but glad I left my school after all the classes, I can finally escape this dipshit of a classmate. I still meet all of my school friends, but most likely I'm not meeting them if they include that bully too.
Cool video story.
Pat is a toxic partner, the Hank should have left her.
Pat would've got that 20pc combo and a side of slap ya mama suace cause uhuh 🤣🤣
I can’t tell if I feel bad for the jerk or not??
"Bride-zilla Karen-zilla"
No give yourself a big pat on the back, I had very much the same thing happened to me and I got revenge on this person,
After her walking out with my husband who now is in jail for sexual absence on my 13 year old son at the time, but my revenge was much harsher she found me on Facebook aswell, but you did the Wright thing.
i'd do a jerk move and secretly destroy the cake but i won make it obvious like unscrewing the cart that was carrying the cake wheels off to nearly break then when the cake is push in it falls off
In situations like these I can’t feel bad for the Op at all. Like you said this women is opportunist and forceful and you cut her off yet knowing all these and seeing it again you just kept her around
My uncle is auntie's weddings were just held up at a campsite with a little tree handsome hamburgers for food it's not that hard to have a good wedding