Entitled Mother STEALS MY WELFARE MONEY so I GET REVENGE and REPORT HER for FRAUD - Reddit Podcast
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0:00 Entitled Mother Steals my welfare money without my knowledge, so I get revenge, and get her in trouble with the state. (u/YasminLeigh1224)
8:22 I’m afraid that my boyfriend might implode one day from the immense amount of pressure he is under. And now, I seriously don’t know what to do. (u/Mysterious-Bat-6615)
17:40 My cousin is acting very flirty around my fiancé, and it’s really bothering me, and I seriously don’t know what to do. (u/nabiscowhoreos)
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Wait this video came out 4 hours ago but the pinned comment was 17 hours ago
@@KevinSanchez-dx9gc maybe the wideo was stet to private for a day or few
@@gaijin_moments this was a year ago
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Ben is a ticking time bomb.
Somebody save him please.
17:14 things need to change before Ben has a heart attack or other more serious health problems
Ben seems like a good man who thinks he has to shoulder the burden all alone. He's going to end up working himself to death if he doesn't step back and ask for help. Pride is a awful thing sometimes
I mean thing is, its not really pride. Both OP and Ben’s younger sibling are busy with school. Also it is an objective fact that by mixing work and school one of the two will surfer. So it makes sense that Ben shoulders the burden alone.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd No it doesn't make sense for one person to shoulder the burden of three. People work and attend school all the time without a problem. Yes, they probably shouldn't get full-time jobs if they're serious abou their education, but there are a number of part-time jobs they can get.
@@magic8ball1982 You are right people go part time and even I have seen this and I can tell you that people who have gone to school and done work have lower grades then those that can somehow afford to solely focus on schools.
So given OP is in a master’s program (which are extremely strict) and Ben’s brother has a full ride (which are also strict) it makes sense why Ben is taking the burden.
Now I do not agree that is how things should be. However, that is more pointing to the issue within the higher education system and less on Ben himself. All Ben is doing is making sure his brother and GF can finish their respective programs
Pride goes before the fall. He's heading for a mental breakdown. They need to get a job and help him out, even if he objects
If this keeps happening, by the time her & his brother are finished, he will be done mentally & physically
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd there's no reason for him to do it alone, I worked raised a child and took care of my house. And I was wore down, my parents helped me because I asked for help because I was going insane with two hours of sleep at night
Story 1: Excellent job. Perfect case of karma.
Yeah…It only took 19 years. Oh and someone to report a druggie’s illegal activities
If karma had anything to do with it, they'd all have gotten theirs. Fighting over welfare money? There are far too many available jobs to have to fight with someone over a welfare check.
I wouldn't have stayed with her to begin with!!
This woman deserves jail time and everything else that's coming
First story, good for OP. Sorry she lost her stuff, hope she could get her stuffed animals back at least.
I can relate to Ben. We men have been told from birth we are to man up and take care of everything. If a man shows any feeling that aren't "manly" we're treated less than a human. We can not brake, show weakness or cry. It sucks but as a man myself I want to say I'm here for all the "Bens" out there. We can do this together.
I was like that to, until I met a girl that refused to let me shoulder all ot it
My girlfriend is a good woman
@@WTC-1990 I am so glad you found someone who will come along you and help. DON'T LET HER GO!!!! I was talking to my mother about why men who loss their wife don't last long and women do after losing their husbands. I told her it's because a good wife is the rock of a man. Someone who they can brake down around and show who they really are. Without that they are like a ship with no anchor. Lost at sea.
@@IncStickman she refuses to let Mr close off
@@WTC-1990 that girl in the video as she sayd toxic masculinity i knew she is one of those . also GET A JOB WOMAN
Story 1: Gotta love those stories of parents who see their kids as shadow clones. An entity whose work they take benefits from(by force if necessary) and can be discarded when it’s not useful anymore
That second story is, WOW. I agree that OP and Paul should see abiut getting work (even part tjme) to start helping. But I will say it sounds like they are trying ti support Ben any way they can while he hides his burden. He’s got good support in them (made great if they can relieve the burden some by helping with jobs and such).
Story 2: The definition of all men, we all hurt inside, some more that others, and almost noone cares. 😢😢😢
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Sorry you feel that way. My experience has been that the women in my life have been the biggest advocates for my mental health, both offering support directly, and encouraging professional treatment. What I hear from my sisters, ex-girlfriends, and many women friends (and so many women on the internet its basically a meme at this point) is that they emphatically, desperately even, want men to go to therapy, address trauma, anxiety, depression etc..., and develop healthy coping and communication skills. Modern women seem to emphatically want us to be emotionally open and pursuing mental wellness, to the point where I see it noted in dating profiles.
The "men suffering in silence" thing is something largely self-imposed these days in the West, and only other men have ever made me feel less-than for talking about my feelings or seeking help.There are a bunch of shifts in society men are dealing with that lead us to be more isolated and have thinner support networks, accompanied by, and sometimes resulting from, economic displacement and stagnation-this is a really serious issue we have to tackle at a society level. That said, we men have to recognize our own part in perpetuating "boys don't cry", not seeking treatment, and not nurturing deeper supportive relationships with other men (as women do with their friends).
Go ahead, cry, it's fine. Then man up and go to therapy or your pastor or your brother or bar tender or partner, and talk it out.
So very true
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Story 2: This is the reason why that the self unalivement rare is mostly made up of males, she is not at fault it is just how he had been raised.
The second story yes he should talk about how he's feeling but not to you, if he does it will change your relationship even without you wanting it to. A therapist is probably best.
I agree with that. I have seen it happen in relationships with men who open up their troubles to their girls and the girls felt turned off over time. Now, will the OP be an exception to the rule? Maybe, but he should not take that risk if he wants to keep her.
That's always so weird to me. My husband has cried in front of me and I know for a fact he's the most perfect human being and I will do anything for him because he will do anything for me. He's my best friend and I'm his. I find it so weird that some women will view men as lesser when they show their emotions. Like they don't realize that men have emotions? It's absolutely asinine
@@samalvarez8776 Then you are a rare one, and I applaud that. But it is just how things have been for millennia, where men need to be the strong provided and show no weakness, otherwise the woman does not feel safe.
@xiahoupaul19 hopefully not that rare. All my friends that are in relationships are the same way. Then again I try to keep toxic people out of my life. I also show example to my son's and daughter so hopefully less toxic people in the future!
@xiahoupaul19 see here's my view: I absolutely want a leader and a provider for me and my family. That is 100% what I want and what I have. The thing is, we also have mutual respect for each other. He listens to me and I him. We talk to each other and love each other. He is my soulmate and I'll follow where he leads, and I'll do my best to love and protect him from his demons.
A man with high emotional intelligence is very sexy to me, and a man that trusts me so much to feel safe enough to cry or be vulnerable, I'm honored. I know how men are treated. I love him, why would I leave just because he chose to show me that side of himself? It made him more beautiful. He literally cried with me when my mom died. Just held me and cried. I've never felt so safe and loved in my entire life. I hope those women pull their heads out of their ass cause once a good man shows you this, and you love him and accept him, he'll stay with you. Note: I said GOOD man.
i think ben might need therapy after all this .i hope you ben and paul make it through this.
I applaud that first OP.
I can relate with the second story so much. I truly can feel and understand what he feels. One big thing he needs is just to be held, to be loved and eventually he'll be able to talk about it. I know I'm like a year late but OP just needs to keep him close and just hold him in an embrace
i feel so bad that op got robbed of her mother and the police didn't care like the police is supposed to care instead of acting like that.
but i hope she sues her mother and takes her to court.
Story 2 INSTEAD OF TRYING TO GET HIM TO
OPEN UP WHY DON’T YOU HELP HIM PAY BACK ALL THE MONEY 🤦♂️
She really said, Our fiance
Yes, yes, and yes!!! Glad to see that we encouraged you! Keep grinding!! We here for it. Have a great day!!
From what I understand about getting your Masters, there may be less classes depending on the degree but a lot more work. Also, not everyone can go to work and go to college at the same time, it depends on a lot of different factors.
Act like the Entitled Person in story 1, Karma is just waiting for you.
My boyfriend is an incredibly hard worker like Ben. He rarely takes breaks and I only see him every few months. I worry about his mental health all the time.
As for the second story: I know a friend who is similar to Ben he's not at all good looking or doesn't have any impressive talent but he's a super sweet guy. The kinda guy who would say sorry even if it wasn't his fault just to de-escalate the situation!
And as a friend who knows him from KG.. the reason for him being like this was the fact that he was mostly a lonely person! He wasn't terrible at studies but wasn't exactly a genius, wasn't physically strong, didn't have a good sense of humour... So he never made friends ever.. i even remember him telling me how he sat alone during recess and eating his own food watching the trees move with the wind out of his school window!
His parents were both working but dad was alcoholic and egoistic and only earned for himself soo most of the time he was alone in his home and never had much of a family time either! His mom used to work 10-12 hour shifts excluding 2hrs of commute time... So whenever she came home from work she would be in a bad mood and would burst out her anger on him and he couldn't say a word because he understood that opening up means escalating the situation further! There was no way he could ever win an argument with his mom, dad or his uncles and aunts!
This kinda life made him the person similar to Ben and he did for exhausted to a point he passed out and was hospitalized for a week!
Because he actually dropped out of college after just 1 semester without telling anyone but me and started working a job to save enough to move out!
I know all this because of some voice notes and typed notes he had in his phone which i accidentally came across when he was hospitalized.
So i think ben must have had similar experiences in his childhood!
Stiory 1: if she was getting 3k a month why not move out??
she did move out of her mother's house to her boyfriend's house
There is no such thing as "Toxic masculinity." Only a lack of it. Screw anyone who unironically used that phrase.
Kudos to the horrible mom for at least making you get a degree worthwhile
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The 2nd story: The OP better be the best GF or if they get married wife that she can be. Ben is the guy that females claim that they want. And no OP it is NOT "toxic masculinity", that is what we men do for those that we love.
1st story: That sounds like my cousin when he & his wife were stealing from me and I didn't know it! He even had me on a $40.00 a week budget & when I was walking out on him, he said "twenty dollars is good enough for you!" I got a lawyer, regained my poa & went no contact when I was moving to Indiana!
For a moment, I thought that Ben had supraventricular tachycardia.
Ben is a GigaChad
Congratulations on 1M you deserve it
Hey if you're ever in the situation as the second story and you feel like your SO is taking on too much I have found that this helps best (at least with my husband)
Everyone has a cup. Some cups are big, some cups are small. At the end of the day if you keep pouring water into the cup the cup will overflow.
I told this to my husband back over a year ago. We were having money problems, 6 hours away from our home town, I was pregnant, and we were facing eviction. He was trying to be strong for me, but I could sense he was falling apart. After telling him that we laid in bed and I held him while he cried
Story #1... way to go girl 😊👍👍
Story 1:OP, you should take it a step further. Your mother's boyfriend sounds like he killed cops in the past take it further, and have him arrested by the swat team as he's sounds clearly too dangerous for society
First story: if OP wasn't able to go to art school... There is something else she can do. She could set up a shower station!
That 1st story would have resulted in a pier 6 brawl. Typical cops. Useless
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I don't care if he begs you not to take some of the burden off of Ben's shoulders, help him.
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Story 2, its the reality for men. We have to hold in our emotions and be seen as strong, otherwose women label us as weak and effeminate. But when we do that, its labelled as toxic masculinity.
In reality, men have a lot fewer options when it comes to help with mental health. Thays why the suicide rate is roughly 75% men.
Good video❤
Fish, feed and grow
Good video
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Karens getting wild with this one like YOU GOT HIDDEN TALENTS BUT KEEP THEM HIDDEN KAREN🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I’d be crushed if my brother was a pole smoker
It's entirely possible that he is fine with the current situation because he knows it is largely temporary and is setting up two people he cares about for success. He may not care about them getting a job right now, especially since OP being in school means later on she can contribute more. "Deep down he wants you to get a job" -- don't ascribe stuff like this, come on.
40 seconds in and i'm already angry there is no way she convinced you art is "stupid" that mom was just jealous she can't do art that good
Ben is the goat fr
As a man who does the same thing it's how we are raised we are men we don't break
The mother would have also had to pay back everything she got during her fraud. They do have emergency food stamps that you can get immediately if you are actually starving, which OP was. Idk why they didn't give them to her. I hope she's doing so much better now. The part about the cops not caring bc the bf is a little weird to me. I've known people that it has taken many cops to arrest them, but they still did it when the law was being broken. Plus, it was the mom that should've been arrested that day, not the "scary" bf. That part was really odd to me.
Correct me if Im wrong but I believe the first op has a good case for battery, assault, and grand theft
Ben needs to make a go fund me
Story 2: is a Code Eugene in the waiting. He's gonna end up on a bell tower with a 🔫🔫
1st story lacks the part about mom going to prison for fraud. I wonder how true?
I think the same thing happened to me as OP in story 1. My mom left when i was 2 & my dad raised me. My mom was only in my life here & there but after she was in an almost fatal accident & went on disability after, once or twice at a younger age, she had me sign checks. I was too young to understand. Years later as i was older & had a child i got called about a bank account i nevrr knew i had. Upon asking her about it, she claimed she used to have an account under my name but never mentioned why. As i got older & thought about it, I'm pretty sure i was also getting checks under her disability & she never told me & kept it. I think she was probably getting them direct deposited so she didn't have to have my signature & probably had herself on the account as well. It's just a theory but by all the other things she did to me as a child i believe I'm right. Examples are when i was very young, she'd have a day on a weekend set up to come & get me for the night & never showed. I remember my dad dressing me up, putting pigtails in my hair, the whole 9 yards. I found out later that she had been at a bar all night instead. When i was a teenager & she'd promise to come get me for a weekend, she'd call at the last minute to cancel aith some excuse about being stuck out of town. I'd later that night see her driving down the road snd at bars, many other things. Thank god my dad loved me so much. Anyways, I'm pretty sure she did that to me for years. I've never confronted her about it & we barely speak now.
Edit: I forgot to mention about how I came to this conclusion. I never knew much about disability until not too long ago, my husband passed away in a motorcycle accident. He had 2 children from before that were under 18. This is when I learned more about disability & learned about dependants disability. I wish it wasn't so many years ago & I also wonder if there's any way I can find out the truth. It was her disability, but if I did receive some kind of dependent money, would I be able to find that out?
Sad to say this, But when my mother was still drinking, She used to talk to me the exact Way that the mother of the first story talks to their child. Basically saying every hurtful thing You can think of to try and manipulate and guilt trip me into doing what she wants. And i'm also sad to admit that my brother used to do this too. It was how he would talk to me when I was being ungrateful or selfish
I'm glad you didn't give her all that money cuz the average rent doesn't cost no $3,000 that's equivalent to about three and a half months worth of rent
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Story 2: why it's toxic masculinity when he is literally carrying to full grown adults. He's taking care of everything and wonder why he's acting like he is. Y'all need to grow up and get a job. It's pathetic to try and be mean him for going above and beyond.😤
Let's go feed and grow
'the woman who birthed me" Not "My mother." Totally deserved.
Why don't you get a job no matter what Ben said
Story2
I love how they are a really good couple and although ben brother came out gay ben stil supported him what a sweet brother ❤
I disagree. Ben doesnt want you to get a job he wants you to finish your masters at which point you better take care of him.
First story
How the hell did you keep your shit together I couldn't my mom would be on the floor with a broken nose
story 1: mother awful, but OP is wasting money on stuff she really can’t afford.
want to be clear i’m not judging her. rough situation for her growing up.
Story 2 you should have called Welfare and IRS immediately and reported her to the police. The OP was an idiot in this
Ben is heading for a mental breakdown. She needs to make him spread the load cause he can't shoulder the load much longer
Story 2 I'm pretty sure OP is in a job unless they haven't mentioned anything about quitting, or being let go from, the job because of the pandemic. so there is a chance that her boyfriend is using both paychecks of hos jobs and her job. as for her boyfriend's brother yes he would need to get a job.
Did you ever get your phone and stuff back?
It's honestly sad he can make these many videos meaning there are this many people
name of game?
Second sorry I get where she’s coming from but I don’t like how she said toxic masculinity. Makes it seem like she’s tryna find an excuse to be mad at him, but With what he’s going through can’t be expressed by words atm to him. That’s basically asking an animal how there feeling you not finna get a response. He himself just can’t physically talk about it specially when he’s not trying to get anyone involved or to worried
What is the game called
what game is this you are playing in this video
Wait did she get her stuff animals because stopping you from having a panic attack I think you need them in that case
Fybro cam be very bad but the B got what was coming
1.story I would have slapped my own mother .
Why the game feed and grow fish
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That first story is so much bullshit
How did we survive with daycare assistance the only form of welfare I received as a single teen mom? They hand it out so easily that a mom and an adult daughter can fight over it. Wow. No wonder the country is in massive debt and is going down the shtter.
Story 1: The mother was a physically, emotionally, and financially abusive bitch.
Story 2: Ben is being, well, a man. He needs to find a way (possibly a manly way) to relieve his strength. Because sooner or later they will in the worse way possible.
When my beloved, and I went to College, and Uni. we were both working. If we can do it so can you.
Please come here to claim your here within a hour ticket
Story 1 once again we need to abolish the police just a bunch of 60 thousand dollar street lamps they don't do anything
Are u a girl or a boy please answer
First
Nope
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idea for better view score- make new ones without this voice [ups and downs with wanna be trailer voice] and use the other one- I'm trying to listen it but I CAN'T ITS SO ANOYYING
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