Women Can't Work Construction?!? (MEN V WOMEN)
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"I do laundry and make my kids breakfast." Somebody give this man an award. 🙄
He does basic stuff that literally everyone should do and wants praise for it.
Claiming he also cooks better than most restaurants and blah blah blah came across like he was also advertising himself like this was a dating show. Very gross
I will praise him. You wanna know why? Because it's normal and bad to not do that. If someone is doing a good thing, I will praise them but I'm pretty simple about that.
@@acidicsubstancehe's probably a good cook
How about we give him the same praise that we shower stay-at-home mothers with, then?
I would like to chime in as a woman who worked in a male-dominated industry for almost two decades. I was in a position of authority, not even super high authority, but had to enforce the rules. I had men aggressively coming at me over simply telling them the company rules that needed to be followed. They didn't want to answer to me because I was a woman. I was sexually harassed and once cornered in a stairway where a man went as far as whipping out his "stinky cucumber". This guy is a part of the reason why women do not do these jobs. They cannot treat women like human beings.
It's an uncomfortable truth that people do not want to engage in. I did some research onto the topic after reading the graphic novel "DUCKS" and now I cannot unsee what I've read.
The culture in raw resource extraction industries are VILE.
As a man who has worked in the oilfield, women definately go through these types of abuses. Also, I've seen men get their behinds groped, and I've personally been screamed at for having conversations about work and safety.
I don't think it's entirely a man vs. woman issue , more or less it is a psychological issue of aggression, emotional control and ego.
Mind you that most of these labour jobs attract lower IQ and EQ workers
"Let me tell you how great I am, I'm a landlord..." "No thanks!"
Perfect timing.
Cherry on top
he said property manager; not the same thing! they actually do a job for the landlord; the lazy people he refereed to.
He said he worked for the landlords but yeah
Five minutes in, and I’m already annoyed at this caller patting himself on the back for “making homemade pizza”.
All that natural talent and he still manages to have the personality of backed up Septic Tank. Can you believe he still hasn't found a Woman to worship him yet?
He sounds amazing. If i was a woman who was into guys i'd be looking for him rn. How many people coach little league and then host and cater the parties?
@@darrene.vonbraun4421this is a joke, right??
@@darrene.vonbraun4421 and since you're clearly new to girlhood my advice to you would be this:
"Girl, no.. didn't your momma teach you to watch out for red flags? You gonna end up in a True Crime video or a missing person."
..and you'd ignore it.. and we'd all be watching a video about him feeding you to a bunch of kids.
@ Girl, you have fun with that.
I'll keep an eye out for your True Crime debut disappearance.
Why do so many guys use top performing men as the minimum benchmark to explain why women can't compete?
Just about every man believes he can fight a bear. This explains everything you need to know.
@@volk4523 I can fight a bear, my odds of winning are not great though.
@@matthewmcfadden4863 I mean, Cro Magnon and Neanderthal did it. So there is a non-zero chance. However, you would be rolling like a 1:9 ratio there, lol. Keep in mind, our ancestors when fighting cave bears routinely used group tactics, and injuries were still a minimum risk.
Would the arguments or outcomes be any different if the means or averages were used instead?
@@darrene.vonbraun4421 Yes
The caller learned a ton of skills from his dad... but a woman couldn't have learned those same skills apparently.
There’s a lot of stuff most women can’t do in construction lol. Come work the sites I’ve been on and you’ll get it. Some can maybe. Like 5-10% of women.
Like in concrete cutting and demo. Most chicks can’t lift 100-200 lbs blocks and toss I a dumpster.
But all women can do job site clean up, prep work, etc.
7:40 he works 300 hours a month and also homesteads ??? BS
He also describes his hobbies of cooking and yardwork as the responsibilities of the household. I can guess why he is divorced.
He probably doesn't know half the things his wife did for him and the family.
“Homesteading” probably means having 3 chickens, an apple tree, and a poorly attended garden that’s mostly garlic and chili peppers
I don't know where he would find the time to bother his wife about every last thing that she does when he's working 300 hours a month. Anyway, he said that he used to work 300 hours a month not that he does today.
Its crazy how every different form of misogyny mentioned he had to clarify "hey this isnt something i do" and follows up with "women just gotta deal with it"
Women are choosing the jobs they want to do, but men aren't? HUH?? 16:07
This is true. Working a job you don't want to is a fundamental part of the roles that men are pigeonholed into by Society. Where is women are often encouraged to pursue whatever career that they would like to work at. This is also due to the role that Society tries to put women into because people see their career as an extra, like a hobby. The idea being that if they're dream career doesn't work out well they can always do what they were supposed to do and raise kids at home. So I don't understand how you're so confused if you understand the dynamic that's under discussion. Men working jobs that they don't necessarily want to do and women working the jobs that they do want to do is not contradictory.
@@darrene.vonbraun4421it sounds to me that most men have a hard time making their own decisions instead of conforming to social norms.
Women in current society are choosing things they are interested in because for decades when we were ALLOWED into the general workforce, they were steered into clerical or caretaking type of roles and told they COULDN’T do things like manual labor or in STEM fields.
@@darrene.vonbraun4421 because men also don't want to do those jobs, but they do if their dream job doesn't become a reality. It's the same shyt. The only difference is that men "allowed" women to suddenly choose if they want, but even if they do decide to work, *because* it's seen as a "hobby" they're still expected to do most if not all of the household chores as well. This is non contradictory.
This guy wants a cookie so bad
And sound like women are denying him those cookies
He makes better cookies than most restaurants
Oof, the worst kind of voter. The "if I haven't seen it personally it's not relevant" type.
“ WHY WILL WOMEN NOT DATE MEEEEEEEEE “ that was how this grown ass man sounded the entire call
I want to hear why his marriage broke.
It's definitely not his fault
Yeah. Seriously.
He's definitely a Chad2Dad type dude. Wild guess. 😂
Also, the misogyny was so crazy like it was actually very insane. No wonder why his relationship fell apart after 25 years. I’m glad she escaped.
Definitely misogyny wasn't the problem if she married him and they were together for 25 years.
@@darrene.vonbraun4421it obviously was incel
@@darrene.vonbraun4421Some people realize they’re in an abusive relationship later than others
@hermit0345 hey, i will never argue with that. I never figured it out. But mysogyny at the levels observed in this video are benign to many people.
@@darrene.vonbraun4421 abusive relationships are hard to leave
I'd sincerely like to know what rock this caller was living under to think that "society doesn't teach women how to treat men."
like.
There are literal needlepoints about this.
17:42 Who are the male nurses often being emasculated by? 🙄
We aren’t that’s the thing. Nursing is a hard job. Getting through nursing school is hard. Doing the job is hard. Both mentally and physically. Some of the toughest guys and girls I’ve ever known have been nurses I’ve worked with. Fighting with a 300 pound guy with AMS because their O2 sats are in the 70s because they have COVID and won’t keep their bipap on and you can’t put them in restraints while someone gets the Ativan ready is hard, dangerous work. People think nursing is easy work, and thus feminine, because they don’t actually see what it all entails.
@@TalabAlSahra My sister is a nurse, and I worked as a companion sitter for a while, so I saw a lot. The shit nurses go through is 100% tough. I never saw a male nurse being emasculated either, unless it was by some old dude with dementia that didn't want the man wiping their ass after they shit themselves for the fourth time that shift.
Random conservatives, infrequently
@@authorkellyrey female nurses
@ExpertContrarian My late husband was a nurse. Women nurses adored him, because he could do the heavy lifting on larger patients. Men not in healthcare mocked him.
it is not confusing to me that his ex wife couldn’t take it anymore after 20+ years.
Interesting how instead of the caller just accepting that he might be an exception to the rule and leaving it at that, he chooses to use this as an opportunity to get defensive over his gender identity as a man.
To be fair that's the most natural thing in the world and we all do it
I'm a male student nurse, and whilst there are more women in the field than men, there's no emasculation going on. Everyone helps each other because we all have the same goal of wanting to help our patients/residents/clients. We're taught that we're a team, not opponents of one another. In addition to that, in my experience as a male in the nursing field, I've been commended by instructors. It says more about a person's security in their masculinity/femininity if they go into the opposite-sex's dominated fields. People who think like this caller are the only ones who make me feel less secure in what I do, not anyone in the actual field itself. It's such a narrow, binary world view that, somehow, many people subscribe to because they quite clearly have a fragile self-image.
"I don't use pronouns"
"I don't use..."
"I don't..."
"I..."
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This is always embarrassing.
That caller just loved hearing himself talk my goddddd
dude so badly wanted to go on that rant about what he does and just be told "oh good job! you work so hard you're the best male ever, you should get all the maids and cheffs you want!"
I can't imagine why this guy doesn't have a wife anymore
12:53 This is such a good example of benevolent sexism. More than likely, he really thinks he's doing everything necessary even though to me it's the bare minimum. Also, I'm so sick of hearing men say men are providers and protectors because A. A lot aren't even close, and B. They always leave out the human part of being an effective partner. There are families where the father provides funds but don't emotionally connect to their partner or children, that's why we seen men with a girlfriends or family that can't tell someone the color of their partner's eyes or what school their child attend.
“I grow vegetables” “I cook better than most restaurants” “I take care of my car!”
I absoultely dispise this person and their smug attitude
He did everything but say the words "women need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps."
What really doesn't surprise me he didn't say that because that doesn't seem to be the argument that he was making at any point at all. To me anyway I could have missed something.
Yeah I can’t listen to the rest of this shit, this guest is disgusting
You're disgusted by most people then right?
@@darrene.vonbraun4421what does this reply even mean
@@cjbird446 well, this guest is not disgusting. Perhaps he's a little dated in his views on gender roles. But most people are. Disgusting is pretty pejorative word. Let us apply it to things worthy of it.
I feel sorry for the kids this guy is grooming
I feel sorry for the men in your life.
Do you see how gross that is?
@@darrene.vonbraun4421huh?? bro, you may want to stop glazing the caller so much in the comments, it's embarrassing
Wth is caller even talking about women do all these jobs while raising their children and their adult baby husbands (not all husbands but most) my brother does all the things this crybaby said he does for his kids and I've never heard him cry for a pat on the back. The misogyny after the crying and complaining about women is fucking gross.
Not the giant cookie 😂😂😂 lmfao
This dude has ZERO capacity to fathom anything outside his personal experience/life
The fact he feels like his individual contributions outweigh all history of the oppression of women says everything about his entitlement and superiority beliefs.
I think you're mistaking is assessing the Modern Age that we all live in for using anecdotal evidence. Which makes sense because the oppression of people in history has no bearing on how they should be treated today.
Ive worked with a few women in construction and a couple out worked a few of the men.
Your experience would seem to just support the callers point
@darrene.vonbraun4421 That I can't help. I'm just speaking from my experience.
@@clarenceworley3714 fair enough.👍
11:30 the fact that actual NBA players have said that if basketball was coed from the start women would absolutely compete in the NBA. Like just do the first bit of research guest.
Source please? Id love to dive into this.
@ it was in an interview with JaVale McGee from Steven A
@bananarangitron2895 thank you!
That's pretty thin but enough of a lead to be going on with.
I feel sorry for this guy’s sons.
Watching this as I drive my 18 wheeler down the highway 😂😂😂😂😂
Need I say I’m a woman?
Even if you grant that men are "better" at sports than women, why would it matter anywhere except at the peak level of competition? If you are just teaching / playing sport with your kids, how does that affect the value of the exercise done in a meaningful way? "Oh no! Because you threw the ball 10% slower, the entire thing became worthless!"
This
Toxic masculinity given flesh
"All day long" is his favourite phrase.
Military background.
Maybe the "W or L or Whatever" that theakkiqueen4655 spoke of... was the friends we made along the way
Maybe the Legends or the Crazies or Whatever... was us all along
Why’d his voice change at the beginning 😂 his voice is naturally very whiney
Oh really excellent point. Are you going to call him a beta next?
@ no. People change their voices sometimes to sound more domineering. The patriarchy is probably why he does it, ironically lol
@@BigFrijolero6 there is a million reasons someone might change the way they are speaking on the phone. I answer scam calls in german, for instance. Perhaps his kids are sleeping in the next room. Etcetera.
@@darrene.vonbraun4421 I’m talking about the guest btw, not Jovan 🤔
Something tells me if you ask this guy he's one of those who doesn't realize Ron Swanson was the butt of those jokes as Nick Offerman was pretending to be a super "manly" man. This caller has no idea we're supposed to laugh 'at' Ron more than 'with' Ron.
Edited to fix wording.
Ron Swansons character was NOT pretending.
@darrene.vonbraun4421 Okay well the point still stands despite me wording it slightly wrong. His character was intended as a caricature. From an in universe perspective you're correct 🙄
@@TitenSxull well how is that not true of every character on the show?
@darrene.vonbraun4421 My point is not about the show itself. It's about a certain subset of men who can't recognize when they're being made fun of and think the parody is a real reflection of manliness or conservatism. I could have just as easily brought up Colbert Report and how conservatives didn't realize he was a parody laughing AT them.
he’s completely obsessed with himself
Dude is capping so hard 300 hours a month plus all the child care and coaching? 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
To be fair he said he used to work 300 hours a month not that he does currently.
That clearing his throat tells me this isn’t probably true 🤦♀️
Edit: makes more sense, he’s divorced and talking about his past. Who knows 🤷♀️
The fact that this guy thinks hazing rituals are just something you have to 'work through' says a lot
The dad from growing pains got real misogynist over the years
"Is there a rest stop between here and the fucking point?" - me every time he started talking
"I'M a stay at home dad in the 2020s, I don't think women have it that hard."
bro took that bullet point personally 😂
Him trying to invalidate women in every way, then he wants to give us his life story like he's Cody Rhodes or sum 😂
"The divorce came out of nowhere."
Do this guy's "friends" see what he does for his kids? Or does he brag about it to them any chance he gets?
Relevance?
I worked at a line cutting company, basically we cut trees away from the power lines to help prevent wild fires. I worked in the saw shop, I loved my job I quit my job because I was harrased constantly and I was underpaid for doing the same job as a man. I quit because men made the job awful.
Anecdotes don't matter when you're talking about the grand scheme of things. And how things are going in the workplace.
All this guy did was just use anecdote after anecdote. It's so annoying.
Something that slipped under the radar for Jovan is when he said "Women don't want so..." @15:36 That is so fucking wild and really shows his true feelings.
I'm intrigued by your premise but i dont follow the thought. Can you expand on that for a dense fellow like myself?
No he asked men want to right after
Special pleading for misogynistic tendencies is wild
If I have to wait for someone to make a pizza, instead of my hot and ready, I might crash out
I usually I’m sad that I miss some debates live, but I am very glad that I did not have to sit through this while it was actively happening. This guy really irritated the fuck out of me.
i wanted to rip my hair out hes so fucking incompetent
2:19 I rather hear Teddy from Bob’s Burgers talk about his childhood than to hear this man ramble nothing of substance to his point.
This is very funny, I have an older sister that works in construction.
I can definitely see why his wife left him 😂
“Me me me, it’s all about me”
This guy really just wanted to talk about himself and how he’s the best person ever
Narcissistic? Perhaps?
Misogynistic? Even?
This guy does nothing he claims
Ah, you're the ex-wife, eh?
@darrene.vonbraun4421 you know all about ex-wives
My father was an abusive alcoholic when I was a child, and my parents divorced at 7. I was raised by my mother and was shown nothing but love from her, and I still learned to shave my face and work for my family without my father being in the picture. Like " oH wElL mEn arE stRonGeR tHaN woMeN!" Who actually cares? What good does a man's strength contribute to the modern working man? The majority of men in the US work in retail. Other than lifting heavy boxes that any woman could lift, what good does strength have to contribute to that job that women can't do? Another common job is driving a truck from point A to point B. With the proper training, literally anyone can do it. So again, what's the point?
Not gonna lie, I almost didn’t get through this one. Guest’s non-sequiturs and figurative language was pissing me off. But I’m so glad I finished it because the “no, thanks” and hang up just as he launched into a story was worth it!
Jovan 😂😂😂 with the giant ass 🍪 😂
Ranting below about my job's sexual harassment training directly supports Jovan's point on the construction views.
For my job, the "sexual harassment training" has 2 videos with women in construction settings. 1st one being called princess and manager(I forgot the position name) complained about women getting pregnant and missing work, blah, blah.
2nd video guy throws an "L" in LGBTQ joke towards the woman. The masculine woman must like other women idiotic belief.
Bro really bragged about luring a team of children into his house?
EDIT: “Women can’t do what men do for boys.” SOMEONE CHECK THIS MAN’S HARD DRIVES AND TOR BROWSER HISTORY
He said the quiet part out loud, a lot of men or “should I say?” most men subconsciously think this way.
No
We've got a rambler boys!
This guy just sucks
¡This is infuriating!
¡Why!?
This guy seems very privileged 🙄
Caller wants a cookie 5:51
Jack of all traders, Master of done..
How long do you think he continued to talk before he realized he was kicked?
I'd book an over/under at 3 1/2 minutes. 🤓
This is by far the dumbest debate in a long catalog of dumb debates. For 1, there are no rules preventing a woman from trying out for the NBA. Nor are there in the NFL or MLB. So Javon is just wrong. Aww and he seems so sure of himself too lol. And to think there are several woman who could compete in the NBA is laughable. Nothing against the ladies but the athleticism and size is just different.
Second, so yea I'd agree that women do the majority of cooking and cleaning and general housework. But who does the home repair and upkeep? Funny he left that out. This argument is ridiculous. I'd call to show he's wrong but I've seen what happens when he's losing a debate. *Click.* hangs up and calls them a name and ends the video. It's fucking childish 😂
Oh I forgot to say that women can also play in the NHL. And 1 even has. In 1992 a women played goalie for the Lightning. He thinks women are just as good as men but they don't compete because the big bad man made the "no girls allowed" rule. When that's not true at all 😂 what an idiot
This dude c CANNOT stop talking about himself. Like stfu and address the logic.
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