The Difference Between Misogyny And Misandry
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Fellas, we don’t even have to say anything. We already know what happens when a man merely suggests that women are capable of having misandrist views. Gaslit at best, or seen as a perpetrator/misogynist at most.
I've been called a misogynist for pointing out that it's impolite to ask a woman's age or weight. Just the mere act of pointing out that there is this small benefit to being a woman is misogynistic, apparently. You must uphold the narrative that being a woman is harder than being a man.
@@Joseph-Cthere are benefits to being a man, there are benefits to being a woman. i wish the oppression olympics btwn genders stop.
@@Joseph-C iknowthatfeelbro.jpg
I got called a mysoginistic pos, when I suggested to a girl that both mysogyny and misandry is such a big problem and occurs from the same foundation of resentment from opposite sides.😂😂😂
Lol, she didn't even see the irony in her statement and then blocked me.😂😂😂😂 so, she didn't have to actually engage in a conversation.
These people are so weak minded and pathetic
Fun fact, misandry is far more occurring than misogyny, yet woman and blue hair soy boys are complaining more about misogynist behavior.
Another fuck!ing fun fact: when I typed misandry on my iPhone keyboard, it didn’t even recognize the word as valid, but when I typed misogyny, it compares right away.
Ain’t that weird? Just a coincidence? Probably no.
Misandry - hatred, dislike, or mistrust of men.
Misogyny - hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women.
Both are wrong.
Misandry irritates
Misogyny kills..
@@Iamhere829cap, both kill a lot, actually most suicides are men killing themself bc of misandry the faced by women
@@BrookIsDead citation needed.
@@Iamhere829 cap
@@Iamhere829 gee i wonder why ?
Most people have not even heard the word Misandry.
Women* I had to explain this to a bunch of female coworkers only one knew what it was
i found out only recently about the existence of the word
You can thank Feminists for suppressing and censoring and Conservatives for ignoring and I'm not believing in the word.
Which in the end means neither the left or the right really cares about man's and boys issues.
The conversation always ends one way, how men's problems affect women.
That's Misandry for you unfortunately.
I learned about this word today.... Just because I was wondering if there's any opposite word for misogyny
@@acestorm5555 The problem is that you had to wonder much at all, this fact should be widely known, is not your fault of course. You think critically independent enough to ask yourself the question. It's the culture and certain political ideologies that are to blame.
When I was a teen, my father signed me and my younger brother up to train in tennis with a coach who already had a class of about a dozen others. They were all women who were training with him for a while, and we were signed up just days before the coach holds a tournament. My brother was chubby. I was scrawny with little/no muscle. Neither of us were athletic, neither of us liked tennis, neither of us wanted to be there. The women were all in their mid to late 20's.
I came out first place, my brother came out 2nd place - both of us were an enormous margin above the women (leading by 17 and 14 points respectively).
Testosterone puts males as physically stronger than women. Congrats if that’s something you need to feel special about.
I should also add this detail: whenever it was my and my brother's turns to practice either against each other or against two others... I would notice what seemed really bizarre to me at the time: the ladies would be sitting all weirdly close together to the coach, huddled to him, and he and they would be playfully chatting with one another. Not joking. It was like they were competing for who could be physically close enough to him that they'd practically be in his lap, and he was not going to complain. It felt really weird because of the whole nature of that dynamic, and how it made me and my brother feel excluded from any sort of camaraderie. Like they created their own club of all adult females and one adult male: the athletic coach himself.
No wonder they lost at playing tennis itself, because they were busy fawning over the coach instead. And it _worked._ He *was* participating in it with them He was spending more time buttering them up instead of teaching how to play better. And though my brother and I won - it was like he and the ladies were pretty unenthused about it and just wanted to get back to the flirting. We won at tennis, but they won at just having his favoritism overall which could affect winning at anything. Including the game of tennis, in which case they made it such that _it did not matter anymore._
Maybe that tells a bigger picture story than just simply why female athletes generally can't compete with male athletes. Rather, it might be about *how* they deal with male competitors (or any competitors really). Such as, just bypassing the rules and opting to garner social favoritism (intentionally or not - might just be their natural strategy), whether from the public in general, or with target individuals who are supposed to be the neutral party in charge. It's really interesting now that I look back at it.
It's common sense. It's no surprise. Men are stronger than women. That's a biological fact. You know what else is a biological fact? Only women can give birth. Another biological fact: a lot of predators, whether male or female, are stronger than human males. A untrained male couch potato with no weapons will be mauled by an angry female lion.
I don't see why it should be humiliating that female athletes can't compete against men. That's exactly why they have their own competitions as long as someone will watch it. Even in male sports, we tend to separate categories by weight class, if there's enough demand. If there's no demand, we don't give chances to the weaker ones at all. You'll almost never see a short basketball player in the NBA. At the end of the day, sports is also about luck and privilege, as much as it is about talent and training. It's a lie that people can be whoever they want. Only first world kids are fed that crap.
We should just to our best to respect each other despite our differences. That's what a lot of extreme feminists and male rights advocates tend to forget.
I worked for a nonprofit medical center in Colorado, and my supervisor told me that men are not as good facilitators as women, I filed a formal complaint to HR after all few similar incidents. You guessed right, nothing happened after that.
A Google search can also reveal WHY these things are more likely to be true? Did we all forget about genetics and how habits will shape a person? If someone’s bloodline is full of people who worked out a lot, they are going to have the genetic potential to do strong things; same as the opposite. If someone’s bloodline is full of leisure, ofc they will have a harder time (or impossible) meeting up to the other person’s standards.
It’s real simple.
The Matrix keeps Matrixing
But misogyny is historically systematic, misandry is not.
Is this 1837? You know things are allowed to be relevant today but not in the past
@@prestongarvey57you don't have to go nearly that far back for women to have had no choice in this country, dum dum.
Misandry is becoming historically systematic
@prestongarvey57
You should ask that to all the guys saying "We men paved the way for you women's survival"
@@SuspiciousDetective I’d say that is still relevant in certain cases. Not as a bragging point but when there’s radical feminists who boast about the uselessness of men I’d say it’s relevant to point out mostly male firefighters, construction workers, farmers, etc.
We currently live in a matriarchy
What % of executives (higher than middle management) are women?
What % of Congresspersons?
@@jameswilkerson4412 what % of military deaths are men? What of homeless are men? Are there exclusively men’s shelters?
@@NeverSarcasticManWho are these female leaders you speak of?😂 Men occupy nearly all political positions around the world.
@@NeverSarcasticManUk the governments who send these men to die in war or implement crappy policies that lead to homelessness are made up almost exclusively of men right? We live in a patriarchy that negatively effects everyone including men.
@@jameswilkerson4412that doesn't make it a patriarchy if the women rule the roost. A king might be king, but if he obeys the will of the queen, then it is truly the queen that is in charge.
Gee, it’s almost like violence against one group or another is a male thing…😑
How does it feel lying to yourself constantly because youre a raging radical?
What are you talking about men are only responsible for a small vast majority of violent crime???
Misandry doesn’t exist
Misogyny does not exist lol
Misogyny and Misandry are both bad!
Misogyny is worse because I know some women that don’t like men but just stay away from men and respect their spaces. But when men hate women it turns into violence, rape, etc.
Google image "Happy white woman"
Enough said about Google
Wow!!! Wtf?!? I don't know why that surprised me.
Whoa! Wtf?!? Very odd...
it's all part of the agenda
Yeah, what exactly does that mean?
Totally fuckin weird.
@@braxtonagee412 Wow!! That's hilarious.
It makes sense. These would be psychological studies and the field of psychology is 75% women. They don’t let men in the club anymore.
Survival of the fittest…
@@sarahalderman3126men don’t like pursuing pseudoscience
Fuck psychology
Niggas be saying this, but also blaming woman for woman in STEM programs.
Yet you don't see em doing rallies on the unfairness of that industry😂
Wikipedia: „[…] misandry is not the hatred of men as men; this kind of loathing is present only in misogyny which is hatred of women as women“ and you wonder why there are less research papers for misandry? I once called out a woman at work for a misandrist statement and had to fear she’s reporting me to HR for misogyny because I was not confirming her in her belief. Just to be clear, as long as we men can‘t even have a term for the hatred we receive just for being a men, how can there ever be equality? But those who fight for equality are predominantly doing so from the woman‘s perspective and man-rights advocates are being defamed left right and centre as just being misogynistic
This is disinformation (i.e. lies). Hatred of anyone is either a sin, an emotion, or an act of injustice towards someone. Hatred is NOT disagreement or just punishment. It is highly likely that the latter two are called "hatred" when men "call out" women.
@@truecatholic1 the Wikipedia citation is disinformation or are you me calling out a misandrist hatred?
Misandry is not as common because nobody hates men more than themselves. Thats why the su*cide and the homicide rates are higher in males. Women hate men and men hate each other and rightfully so🤷♀️
@@odeode4338 I think truecatholic1 is refering to the cite that you provided.
Ha thats funny men haveing rights we will never be equal woman will always have more rights and complain about having less even tho there claim can Easily be disproven
Ideology ruined search. Which is not surprising. In our species, belief is stronger than truth. Imagine what our species would be like if it were the reverse.
It's so pissing like it's meant to be a neutral body
At the family Fourth of July party this year I, a 5'10 32 year old woman in good physical condition arm wrestled with a 5'10 13 year old neighbor boy who plays sports. He and I weigh about the same and are about the same size. I beat him at arm wrestling, barely. It took everything I had to beat a thirteen-year-old boy at arm wrestling. I know that there are women out there that are stronger than I am, but there are also thirteen-year-old boys out there that are stronger than he is. We are both fairly average for what we are. That tells me that I am about as strong as the average healthy 13 year old boy. I'd say that I am a bit stronger than the average 32 year old woman, but for the benefit of the argument let's say that I'm average. This really put into perspective for me how much stronger men are than women. Because compared to men, women are the equivalent of 13 year old boys.
That Womens 100m record was also set during an era when the women sprinters were famously roided similar to the barry bonds era of baseball
So then why hasn’t any current women beat her record
@@Birdx69420 Because their hearts are pumping actual blood, not steroids.
Google toxic masculinity then google toxic femininity. Enjoy your laugh
bro I would love being called toxic male and rencounter a toxi female. (i went to read the def and was shocked, all of it is just patriachy)
Both are seen by Google as patriarchy's fault
you didnt explain the difference between misandry and misogyny broski
I am a female interested in anti-male bias i am noticing more prevalent than ever i do not tolerate it. Men and women both have things to work on and admire. If a women male bashes i point out a female equivalent behaviour.
Wow, I did the google search, and she's right.
same
There's also bias in content salience. Google's search algorithms will promote results that align with popular narratives before it will provide results that either go against dominant narratives or represent what you may have intended when Googling certain phrases, etc. It's so obvious, too.
If you search up, my wife is yelling at me, it shows that she's having a bad day, but vice versa, it gives you an abusive hotline
@chaosblitz1352 yeah, that's a great example. It shows how algorithms are reinforced by stereotypes, which in turn reinforces the stereotypes themselves. It's like they are mutually cultivating each other to ensure a successful and stable cycle of reproduction.
The dominant narratives among US costal elites yes. Not what really is held by most people.
Try googling any balanced/true information relating to certain drugs and you’ll see it there too. You have to already know which websites to google or you’ll never find good information
There are over 7,000 male athletes with official 100m times better than 10.49 seconds. Also, it is over 1,000 under 18 males under 10.49. Sources: IAAF, 125MB, NFHS.
I remember having a discussion with my sister on the subject, and she made a great and true statement: Since we live in a patriarchy, we've never seen women statistically at their worst.
I think my aunt is Misandry- I’ve always had my suspicions but I confirmed with by observing her around my 5 year old son.
It’s like she’s always looking for flaws in him, she never interacts with him on a personal level and she’s always nagging him or find something to fault him for when she’s around him.
I find it weird and don’t even know how to go about this whole thing.
She probably wishes he was a girl I experienced a similar thing as a child but with my grandma
And all my grandma would talk about was how I’m becoming like my father and how horrible that was
Just tell her to stay away from your son. No negotiation.
I googled the images and she is correct, wtf people?
I only discovered what misandry was until a few months ago...
And that record female 100m was dodgy as hell if you image search her
@@Dimitris_Half I think that the point was: a female elite athlete with professional training and possibly chemically enhanced made a record that many male under age athletes have achieved, most likely with less resources, training or substances at their disposal. Highlighting that the difference in performance is even bigger.
@@konstantinosstag6436 more on the amount of humanly impossible effort it would take a woman to reach a man's peak
Men are better at Chess too.
Why.....? Why makes everything a competition between men and women. This is pointless.
It's the goal of Marxists
Goal of m.arxists
it’s not googled as much because we all know what it is…
I've only heard the word misandry, probably.... 7 times max, 2 years ago, and I'm only a few hours old. 😂
Searched it and was angry that google would be so idealistic and not realistic.
I forgot its not far from social media.
Creators there are totally human with their own agenda.
Buzz words, and other SEO metrics like any other social media.
Some weird popularity contest but for content and websites
And the ones that rank high in those metrics by the algorithm are what we see.
Particularly click bait images that tend to have had more clicks.
AI is structured around human way of thinking and we humans tend to give more credibility to popular people and ideas. Widespread rumors etc
Building a truth seeking algorithm is almost impossible since the input has to be humans. And an AI is only as useful as the data it's trained on.
Since it's a free for all anybody can learn to manipulate the data from his end and work their way up the ranks
Controversial topics also go out the roof due to engagement.
This is the best we have for now Algorithms based on social proof(opens, views, clicks and followers) trends and popularity.
I doubt it's a planned effort of some elite group😅
Oh dear
I googled the images. Its true i cant believe it this is ridicolous. 😂
they should when men pay all the taxes. if get treated better gov gets more taxes.
What your seeing is the cult unravelling under the pressure of truth
Stepped on a pebble, misogyny strikes again.
Google is the enemy? 🤔
Google supprts women even meta too.
I was surprised when I searched 'drag race' in Google. I wanted to see some throttle whacks. Google has been shit for a while now.
u can pull her easy
mate 😎💪
This is why I support trans people in sports, we constantly hear "women are physically more capable than men in everything", well, then having a biological man compete in women's games will mean that he'll always finish at the last place, ¿Right?
What in the catdog hell? How petulant and hung up of you.
It's called delusional at is finest.
But women have LITERALLY been oppressed for thousands of years. The context matters.
It's like saying, "why is there not enough white recognition?!" Dude, YOUR people weren't enslaved and discriminated against for hundreds of years. Of course white people shouldn't be ostracized on that basis, but the question itself usually is in bad faith. The same applies to this one.
HORRIBLE argument lmfao, prove your bs claims
@@Kashimo_Glazer123 "Prove your claims."
You genuinely don't need to prove common knowledge within an argument. But if you need specific examples: throughout all cultures, and all societies, women were treated practically as inferior citizens, and had less rights.
For example, they were often legally property, and were given off to men by the whims of their parents. Their education was neglected. For the most part, women had no power, and could not vote autonomously (when there was a democratic system.)
Women were often the target of wars and raids. Again, taken as property. The punishments against them were horrific. If mansplaining and misogyny is bad today, it was god awful years ago.
In an intersectional scale, women, and especially of women of color in America, are at the lowest. Throughout history this was generally the same (colored only became genuinely problematic during specific slave trades, colonization, and their centuries of effects.)
Is that enough for you? Now, prove how they weren't oppressed for the past 12,000 years.
@@someperson9998 Prove your claim, not just women but in general PEASENTS suffered not just "women" lmfao
@@Kashimo_Glazer123 We're talking about women specifically here?
You do understand how intersectionality works, right? Poor women of color are at the bottom. Sure, a higher class woman could be above poor men, but that doesn't mean there wasn't blatant misogyny throughout history.
That alone makes me know you didn't read the second to last paragraph on my comment, and probably none of it in general.
You are quite literally denying basic history. Since you're following horrible, baseless conspiracy theories, prove that women were not victims in history. I'm waiting my good sir. 👍
I don't need to prove anything. All professional historians hold the base assertion that women were treated as inferior citizens throughout all 12,000 years of modern human society. Please find any well-respected professional who does not hold this claim.
@@someperson9998they are weak that why 😂😂
Being a skinhead, a misogynist, in the KKK, a Nazi, or misandrist... all = the exact same thing.
Cowardly copouts for the weak/lowbrow set.
misandry literally just irritates
They are both wrong, if you can't see that then you are the problem
@@RedPigSpartan If you hate an entire (largely innocent) demographic for the crimes that just a few of them may have done, then that's all kinds of as wrong as you can get.
Cowardly copout stuff for the lowbrow set, at that.
@@ashy7230 not really but okay
"misandry irritates, misogyny kills"
Misandry also kills wake up.
@@sanket700 try comparing the stats
@@RakshitaVani more are misandray and toxic feminist 🤡
Nope, images search is fine for me...
Misandry hurts your feelings
Misogyny ruins lives
THIS
MISOGYNY KILLS WOMEN
Stop lying to yourself
Do you seriously believe that misandry doesn’t ruin lives? Then why are men killing themselves at vastly higher rates compared to women, why are they much more likely to be homeless and have way shorter lifespans?
But I need something to say im oppressed aboutttt😩
Misandry annoys. Misogyny kills.
THIS👏
Tell that to the high rates of male suicidality. Keep on turning everything in Oppression Olympics and then wonder why most men don't want to identify as a feminist.
Women in middle east have it worse than women in U.S. but we would never invalidate the struggles of women here because middle eastern women suffer more or are more oppressed. Yet, here you are, invalidating the struggles of anti-male bias that men face just because women aren't as predisposed to violence as men are.
If you appeal to biology to justify your hatred and indifference, don't be surprised when the other side does the same to perpetuate negative stereotypes about your gender by appealing to that same norms derived from biology.
Wow, so not sure if the blatant misandry and completely missing the point, or the seeming belief that any social complex issue can be reduced to a token t-shirt sentence is what makes you look most callous and dumb🤔
Either way it says everything anyone needs to know of both your intelligence and sense of empathy.....
No, misandry plays a role in harming relations between women and men, thus making misogyny more prevalent. It provides no benefits and while it might not be the same as misogyny it’s still bad. You’re hating 50% of the world’s population.
Wow you must think you are really smart
Misogyny is the normalization of boys joking about their friends mom an insult, males using women as comparison to something inferior and bad when saying “stop crying like a girl” or “man up” and other terms that compare males to women when they aren’t performing “normal” male gender roles. Misogyny gives males a false sense of importance over women and make them feel entitled, which can be dangerous because when they feel a woman isn’t doing what they want those males get violent.
Jokes aren’t hatred.
Women do cry more than men and are quicker to emotional outbursts. Men need to be more stoic and need to man up in life if they want to be successful. Life is different for men than it is for women.
Saying stop crying like a girl isn’t misogynistic lol it’s just actually valid.
@@YungPhilosopherYou still didn't disprove her point though. Mysogynists have countless records of violence and harm while mysandrists pretty much just stay away. It's very obvious which one causes more destruction.
@@a.m.308Tell that to the high rates of male suicidality, which is driven by factors that result from misandry/anti-male bias. Keep on turning everything in Oppression Olympics and then wonder why most men don't want to identify as a feminist.
Women in middle east have it worse than women in U.S. but we would never invalidate the struggles of women here because middle eastern women suffer more or are more oppressed. Yet, here you are, invalidating the struggles of anti-male bias that men face just because women aren't as predisposed to violence as men are.
If you appeal to biology to justify your hatred and indifference, don't be surprised when the other side does the same to perpetuate negative stereotypes about your gender by appealing to that same norms derived from biology.
@@AlaReDuS All you have to do is search on youtube and look at the numerous Manospheres with millions of subs spouting the same rhetoric on how women lack logic, lack accountability, and are hypergamous all the while blaming single mothers who chose to stay and not be absent in their children's lives. Now who again is running the Oppression Olympics?
"Middeleastern women have it harder..." well, who's fault is that? The women?🙄
The fact that men highlight that men exist to protect women from other men just goes to show who really is the problem here. The middle east is proof how most of you failed in that role. Matter of fact, you already failed calling out these manospheres preaching harmful rhetorics against women in the west; with all their vilifying modern women/western women BS.
Painting us in a negative light is nothing new. You've done that for centuries: Witch trials, witch burnings, "she's a witch" "hang the witch". Any mysandrist hanging/burning someone at the stake yet?
So it's fine. Let the opposite paint us negatively so we can just stay away from each other and thereby pretty much just stop birthing you until there's less to none of you. There would be less violence that way. At this point, we're pretty much just birthing our own accusers anyway.
@@a.m.308Men are more likely to fight for the truth
“Women are stronger than men” is not empirically correct, actually. There are numerous examples to the contrary, and strength is not even well defined here. She used a freaking Google image search
I'm fairly sure she said "Men are stronger than women, which is empirically correct"
@@leos.2322 oh ,you’re right.
What? I mean I guess it depends on the definition of “strength” that is used to quantify this data set. However using the standard definition of strength it is fairly OBVIOUS to anyone and everyone that on average men are stronger than women. Which is exactly what she stated… not really sure what you’re going for here.
@@sarahalderman3126
Yeah… meant to type “men are stronger than women,” so def gonna get crapped on for that.
But look, listen:
Ultra marathon completion rates: women are better
Pain tolerance: women
Flexibility: women
Tolerance to disease and infection: women
Life expectancy: women
So, it really depends on “strength” is being used. What domain are we talking about?
Yes, men on average are faster and can exert more muscular force, but that’s pretty much where the superiority ends.
@@aamidjaythreepointoh yes, I do agree that the answer is dependent on the definition used. But like I stated and as you pointed out, using the standard definition of “strong”: having or marked by great physical power,striking or superior of its kind, or effective or efficient especially in a specified direction… according to Merriam Webster. The obvious answer is that men are on average physically stronger than women on average. However physical strength is not the only metric on which “strength” is measured. So yeah I agree with you technically but honestly the debate about this and many other similar issues seems rather silly and pointless imo. I mean we all know that when people state things like this, that men are stronger, they are measuring or referring to physical strength. Lol I suppose that is my “agreeableness” shining through, as JP often reminds us is a strength😉 Rather than quibble about something that no one actually disagrees on…
Misandry is what privileged males (especially straight, white, cisgender, Christian males) use as an excuse to continue being misogynists.
@@Bauua18 How so? Misandry isn't real. Get over it.
And this is a reply women give to not take accountability when wrong doing is done by both genders and not just one and the other is the perfect innocent oppression one 😂
Yes thier ego gets hurt so they use it against women
“Cisgender” doesn’t exist its either male or female
@@Bauua18no, you. You know nothing.
And Google dont index those pages either.
It's all about money, they "support" women and feminism cause it gives them money.