Emily & Todd debate Alex PWF on the black pill ideology, attraction, and the future of dating

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • On this episode of The Emily & Todd Podcast, UA-camr Alex PWF (playing with fire) debates us on the importance of looks vs game, what men value, what women value, how attraction really works, simping and pick-me's on social media, and what the future of dating is going to look like. Let us know in the comments what you think!
    Welcome to The Emily & Todd Podcast, where dating and relationship topics are discussed in depth from both the male and female perspective. As a popular TikTok star, Emily King is known to give dating and relationship advice that is unexpected. With Todd’s years of experience in the field of psychology, he brings a professional perspective on mental health and men’s issues. It’s no surprise this podcast has some uncomfortable discussions but with some real solutions.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 38

  • @raviraju6798
    @raviraju6798 Рік тому +10

    Destiny is a smart guy but definitely agree with Todd that he is a bit deluded on what the average guy feels. If you watch some of his videos, he'll claim all average guys are lazy af and need to do the bare minimum to get women interested. But when pushed on why he feels this, he says he knows "normie" girl friends who are dating the most disgusting guys and generalize those behaviors to all average guys. Definitely blue pilled and definitely unaware of the struggles of the average young guy.

    • @pieda3
      @pieda3 Рік тому +5

      In my opinion Destiny is moron detached from reality in terms of dating.

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 Рік тому

      @@pieda3that’s what status game money do to you

  • @hahamasala
    @hahamasala Рік тому +10

    That abundance/scarcity concept is BS, so similar to the feminist manifesting ideology. You do need to have a good hopeful attitude, but then there's reality.

  • @painexotic3757
    @painexotic3757 Рік тому +7

    Finally a woman who acknowledges the importance of looks in MODERN dating. Most people are meeting online (dating apps and social media) yet people are still pretending like this myth of fairytale love exists (like meeting some charming person in a coffee shop). That rarely happens anymore lol. Nowadays, if you aren't attractive or famous, you'll struggle as a male.

  • @darkerisbetter8699
    @darkerisbetter8699 Рік тому +9

    I understand Alex's point, but it's not very strong.
    There are some women with lower self-esteem, lower intelligence, lower resources, etc. that also are good looking. These are the types of women who will date down in looks in exchange for money, status, charisma, etc.
    If anything, the way in which Alex presents himself on instagram reinforces the importance of looks. The photos are heavily edited to make him look much more impressive than he actually is.

    • @roninsjourney7560
      @roninsjourney7560 Рік тому +5

      He has to cope to maintain his grift. Just like everyone else, he makes money off of men.

    • @theemilyandtoddpodcast
      @theemilyandtoddpodcast  Рік тому +5

      Thanks for the comment

    • @painexotic3757
      @painexotic3757 Рік тому +2

      he even has videos on how to catfish using faceapps and says he doesnt think it's morally wrong lmao.. yet tries to downplay looks.

    • @markcurry3083
      @markcurry3083 3 місяці тому

      @@painexotic3757no it’s the idea of using apps to your advantage. He’s said multiple times women never meet him in person and say he’s a catfish. He’s playing the game women have been for a decade and it’s only people like you who act like it’s morally wrong to slightly edit your photos to get better results, just like almost all women do

  • @diabeetus5052
    @diabeetus5052 Рік тому +2

    Alex (PWF) hairline goes back farther than slavery.

  • @mesooofrugal775
    @mesooofrugal775 Рік тому +3

    the future of dating is going downhill with all these social media platforms. it can be quite toxic.

  • @sammcconkey8768
    @sammcconkey8768 Рік тому +2

    I disagree with a lot of the things Alex says here. I like that you two are genuine people.

  • @philosophyjunkies6693
    @philosophyjunkies6693 Рік тому +5

    First like and first comment - winner.

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  • @johnhaas3270
    @johnhaas3270 Рік тому +3

    I agree with Todd when he says that there’s a lot of women who some guys will sleep with, but would never date. Seen that a lot

    • @markcurry3083
      @markcurry3083 3 місяці тому

      I’m a big fan of Alex, also a guy figuring it out with little to no real options. The girls I’ll date vs just casual hook up with is a massive difference. I have way more standards for someone I’ll date.

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  • @wanderergrim
    @wanderergrim Рік тому +4

    I would not say a girl is trashy is she has a lot of tattoos, its actually one of the things I find super attractive maybe that's because I am a goth and a metalhead so a woman with a lot of tattoos depending also on the way she is dressed with those tattoos its an indictor that we might have at least a few things in common and some similar values. Also I have heard some bullshit that a woman with a lot of tattoos automatically makes her more masculine.

    • @willhogtieyou4752
      @willhogtieyou4752 Рік тому +1

      I think it’s because having tattoos used to be more of a niche kind of like being interested in a specific genre of music, but now it’s more mainstream. Trendy tattoos seem trashy to me

    • @wanderergrim
      @wanderergrim Рік тому +2

      @@willhogtieyou4752 yeah certain tattoos I'd agree are a bit trashy or more so cringe like having a realistic style lion on your upper arm etc

    • @kenyanicholas6809
      @kenyanicholas6809 Рік тому

      I am a goth and a metalhead 🙂

    • @markcurry3083
      @markcurry3083 3 місяці тому

      Tattoos are definitely perceived as being more masculine and less traditional and less feminine

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  • @ec3328
    @ec3328 Рік тому +4

    Yup everyone skips over the fact that there are a lot of overweight guys in US lol

    • @contracthit9839
      @contracthit9839 Рік тому +1

      An amusing false equivalency men are far more visually stimulated than women...

    • @painexotic3757
      @painexotic3757 Рік тому +3

      and there are also alot of overweight women..what's your point?

    • @contracthit9839
      @contracthit9839 Рік тому

      @Pain Exotic American women are the 12th most overweight women in the world which many ignore

  • @willhogtieyou4752
    @willhogtieyou4752 Рік тому +2

    Good point about pearl pandering. She transitioned from having open discussions to grifting and it was sad to see. When people get a following their ego makes them start giving advice on stuff they have no idea about.
    One thing I disagree with you on is men’s ability to do 50/50 relationships. I don’t think men have an issue with the 50/50 partnership, but I think the reason it seems that men are struggling with it is because a 50/50 defies hypergamy and this makes the relationship less stable. Not saying traditional relationships were perfect, but I think they were at least more stable because they catered to this instinct