HARDY - wait in the truck (feat. Lainey Wilson) [Pastor Reaction]
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I know murder is wrong but as someone who has spent 28 years working in law enforcement and corrections I will say our system fails these women all to often. Nothing happens to the guy or he gets a slap on the wrist and continues the abuse. It's a great video and song. I honestly wouldn't go this far for a stranger, but if this happened to my daughter, well.....
Thank you for your input. The system is worthless for abusers.
My Dad was a homicide detective for the most part of his LE career which was a span of 35 years. So he saw it all, as you probably have and just don't talk about it. When my EX beat me up where I couldn't hide it, my Mom had to literally restrain my Dad from, well, doing something that would have destroyed our family. Later he went on to tell me that he had several women that were killed by the abuser that had been released either on bail or just a failed system....Needless to say, my Dad scared my EX enough that he never came around me again. My brother was also in the "Gang Unit" at the same Sheriff's Dept....So, my EX had two very powerful and good men that loved me. It took almost 5 years until I was free of my Ex. The saving grace was after i was beat up, I called LE, stayed in the back bedroom & heard them knocking on the door. My EX answered the door. He was arrested. The D.A. pressed charges based on photo's the female deputy took of my injuries...I was very fortunate to be free. I was so grateful the D.A. pressed charges. The system lets these guys out so quick and the next time it is usually much worse. There is always a next time with a man that beats on a woman...I have been married now 30 years to wonderful man. My Dad passed away not long ago, but I will forever be grateful for the love My Dad had for me and my siblings.
@@livingandriding Thank God you were able to get free from that poor excuse of a man. We both know far too many aren't so lucky. Thankfully you found a good man and have had a good marriage. Sorry about the loss of your father. I understand as I'm one of the last of my family that is still alive.
@@danielcrow4247 Yes.. I was lucky.. and I do miss my Dad so much as you miss yours. But we keep moving and living for them! God Bless our Law Enforcement!
Buddy, I would go that far for your daughter. I don't know you, but I would do it for any woman.
as a retired military man , my opinion , justice served , 1 less abuser
He gave her the gift of living her life free of pain. I think he’s an angel.
It's a great example of whats legal and whats right aren't the same thing
I am not a country music fan but this song Just Hits me in my soul every time
Try Nickleback-Never Again. Similar and just as awesome just rock.
i grew up in an abusive household, watching my mother get beaten daily and then moved on to live through my own abusive relationships and what i can say about this song is that hardy brought to life a figment of my imagination that i have had since childhood. im not saying murder is right, but i am saying that i prayed desperately for the majority of my life for someone to come along and put an end to our suffering. hardy and lainy are most definitely a voice for the voiceless and i commend them for having the bravery to send this message.
The irony is -- in the beginning of the video, she was a prisoner of a horrible situation; and he sacrificed his freedom so she could have hers. Now, at the end of the video- hes the prisoner. Also, in the truck(which he let her keep while he was locked up) - Vigilante justice is never a good idea, but so often the system fails these women -
If abuser went to jail, it would be for a short time. Then, he would get out and kill her. Happens all the time. No tears from me, he had it coming.
I'm just speaking on how the system is so messed up, and that's coming from my own experience with them,I was Married for 12yrs to a Man that not only physically torture me, I'm sorry for saying this but sexualy abused me,at times would keep me tied up, burn me with cigarettes and burn our 2 girls with cigarettes, now see all this was going on all through the marriage and in the beginning, yes I'd call the cop's and they'd lock him up,ok he make bail and comes home and you tote a bigger ass beating, well after years of that and thing's getting worse you leave, he finds you brings you back, I tried everything, finally he hired a man to kill me and run me off the road and I was on life support for 3 weeks and in a coma for 3 months and when I woke up I didn't know who I was,or my kids,or parents nobody, I'm 60yrs old now and I've had 2 Brain Surgeries, learn how to feed myself and walk again, all of that happened on my 29th Birthday, I use to have a dream I was gonna die before I was 30 in a car wreck, me...I'm saying God don't make mistakes, He put that Man there to save that Woman for reason, We Serve an Awesome Loving God and I give him all the Glory, Thank You Sir for your reaction hope you have a blessed evening 🙏 sending love from Lafayette Georgia 🙏 🍑
The guy was teaching for a 12 gauge!!! He didn't shoot for no reason. Praise God for men like him!
No greater love has a man that he would lay down his life for another. (I know it's paraphrased, at best. But I think of this every time I watch this video) GREAT REACTION!!
Great thought..
I am a survivor of domestic abuse. Every one in the South knows what wait in the truck means. When I went to the law -the law did nothing. My ex left the state when i finally got away because he knew what would happen. I’m glad the song brings light to the subject of DA.
Very well spoken. Glad you made it out. I almost didn't. From age 15-19.
Hardy and a buddy wrote this song. They started with a hypothetical conversation on what they would do if something happened to their wives. I think they did a amazing job on this song. I was with a man that hit me once... when I could see that it would happen again... I left. (He slapped me once... I punched him 3 times back. I would not take that from anybody. We were told, taught and had it hammered into our heads... you don't hit women. Then dad told us a story a couple times a year about a woman way back in the day that expedited this.... he passed out after and she worked him over head to toe with a hardwood broom handle....he woke up with marks all over himself and never touched her again. The results... it flips the switch in us. ) BTW I promised myself to never be in a relationship like that again... and never did. If you are reading this and are in this situation, you CAN leave. You CAN choose something better... when you are ready. (Skip the broomstick... just leaving is best.)
There are the legalities of man but justice comes from a far higher power.
"What better gift than that one surrenders their own life to save another."
God sent that man to enact His vengeance.
Years ago I was in this Hell. I was thrown through a window, had my hair set on fire, beaten, bones broken but couldn't go to the hospital. The police said things to me like, If you would shut up he wouldn't have to do that. Or Just do what you're told next time. Restraining order wasn't enforced, he found me at the shelter so I had to leave to protect the other women. I moved a lot. He found me. He ended up dying of stomach cancer.
I think man searches for something worthy to lay down his life for. Maybe this man's soul was lost and believed God brought him this woman to lay down his life for. In his mind fulfilling his destiny.
He knew it was wrong, but did it anyway and took his punishment from the governing authorities, but asked forgiveness from the only one he cared about.
Once he made the decision to go through that door he was in a self defense position. He states he dropped the hammer before he could get the 12 he was reaching for. I also feel he is not asking the court for mercy, he asking the Lord to have mercy on him. I have never been in an abusive relationship but I am glad there are men out there that would help someone that is in her shoes .
The shame is that there aren't many out there that would even do what Hardy did and that's when it's sisters-daughters-grand daughters. And make no mistake abusers only get worse at what they do. Jail doesn't stop them-prison doesn't stop them. And the law only spanks their hands and makes them more mad.
It was a true story. It happened to one of Hartys friends. He served 15 years. They got married and have 4 kids. They still have the truck. ❤❤
My best friend was in a very abusive relationship, the law was no help, she finally left but took a lot to get her to do it. I wish someone would have come along and rescued her like this. He does not deserve to be here.
He is an angel. Abusers don't change...they'll just find they're next victim unless they go through the "I'll kill you if you leave me.". He saved her and sacrificed himself. As a DV survivor and then a DV Counselor, I debated the "morality" of this. Knowing that the only place abusers should be is life behind bars or in a pine box is because society and the judicial system are worthless when it comes to DV. If this video was a true story, I would bet he knew someone who he loved that suffered from DV. It's also possible that he didn't intend to shoot him...only scare him but the guy reached for his shotgun. The way Hardy exhales and facial expressions makes me think that it came down to self defense. But none of that matters. That abuser got what he deserved. "Judge not....", remember that from seminary school?
"...he knew someone who he loved that suffered ..." Yes, that's how I imagined his story.
There is no greater gift, than when a man lay down his life for another
Awwww what a beautiful comment. Best I’ve seen regarding dv and the video.
Our justice system is broken. As a nurse I’ve seen a lot of women repeat visits to the ER because of domestic abuse. We try to get them assistance to leave the abuser, but the most dangerous time for women who are abused is when they leave the abuser. He could have taken her to the police but the abuser would likely get a slap on the wrist and the abuse cycle begins again. He could have taken her out of town with him; the abuser would have found another woman to abuse. He saw a problem. He fixed the problem and accepted accountability for his actions. He said he is ok with spending forever in prison just to be able give her her life back. I am a Christian and agree he committed a crime; but he also saved a life. He sacrificed his life for her’s. He is praying in prison, asking for God’s Mercy, and our God is a forgiving God. I don’t recommend doing what he did, but this is a hard one.
I'm an old southern woman, and I don't condone murder. But, if that man was beating her for a long period of time, then he qualified as what my grandma would have called "somebody who just needed killin'". As a victim of abuse, I prayed for an angel. What I got was the backbone to fight back. That will to fight included the ability to look him in the eyes and promise him a one-way trip to Hell if he touched me again. To this day, 40 years later, he knows that I still mean it.
Back when I was living this...I wish I met someone like this...I put up with 7 years of torture. To this day I fight those memories and evil words. I couldn't have children because of it. It was over 20 years...now I have someone that would defend me to the end...but it took awhile for him to get me to understand my value and worth until him I felt replaceable because of the abuse I survived
The system fails the abused. Abusers get out of jail and abuse again! He may have seen someone that he loves be failed by the system and this triggered that pain for him. ABUSERS DO NOT STOP UNTIL THEY ARE DEAD!!! Our system does not stop them, EVER!
The abuser never stops until either they die or the women they are beating on dies. The justice system is a joke. And she asks. I don't know if he is an angel. He is. An avenging angel. And I liked and subbed.
To me, it's a clear case of PTSD from his childhood of probably seeing his mom and possibly himself, abused and he was too young to stop it. So, he promised himself, never again and when he saw lady by road, in rain, beaten up, he snapped. I'm not for vigilante justice to point if killing somebody, but I do think the abuser needed the crap beaten out of him with a warning that if he ever did it again, the guy who beat him would hunt him down like the dog he is and it would be worse. I wish I'd had someone do that much for me. I'm a DV survivor and I was married to my abuser. I was abused physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually. He raped me so badly. I bled and couldn't sit right for a week. That was 21 years ago since I got out and I still shake uncontrollably if I smell the whiskey he drank. I went to police and lawyer, told them everything, and nothing they could do because we were married. If I left and took our son to protect us both, I'd be charged with kidnapping and abandonment of property so he would have gotten MY family home and land. If I had rape kit done at hospital, no charges would be filed or hold up in court because law looked at it as kinky sex due to our being married. Didn't matter he did it against my will and outweighed me by 130 pounds. He threatened to hurt my elderly parents if I left and knew anywhere I would go. I was so stuck. If I told daddy, daddy would have shot and killed him but daddy was 85 and I couldn't let him go to prison for me. My ex had affair and that gave me the out I needed. I went through intense therapy to get my head right and found myself again. I didn't date during that time. Awhile later, I met my angel and he and I have been married for 20 years now. He loves, respects and treats me well. To other women reading this, if a man dies ANYTHING to you that you know is wrong like this, don't forgive him or give him another chance or stay. Leave him right away. If you stay, it will only get worse to the point that he basically owns you. Prayers for anyone going through abuse of any kind. Thank you reverend for your reaction to this song/video. I knew you'd be conflicted about it, but I enjoy hearing your thoughts dear sir. May God bless you always.
It wasn’t cold blooded, the guy was reaching for a shotgun. Rewatch it. He gave up his freedom, knowingly and willingly, to help a stranger. He made his mind up as soon as he saw her in the road. Great song! Nice reaction video, but do a re reaction to it.
Re watch it, he kicked in the door, chased him down the hallway, dragged him back and threw him to the ground in front of the shotgun. I’m not saying I wouldn’t do the same damn thing, but it was cold blooded. And I’d do the exact. Same. Thing. And I’d sleep like a baby. He wasn’t innocent in this situation, and I wouldn’t be if I did the same damn thing. And like him, I wouldn’t care. At the end of the day, you’re protecting someone and taking a piece of shit off the face of the earth. And I can live with that.
There is no lesson that they will learn from. The predator in them is ingrained too deeply. They slowly distance their victims from friends and family and they don't feel they can get out. My wife was in a number of abusive relationships, metal plates in her jaw, weeks in the hospital. There is no other punishment acceptable to me. It took years to get her to stop apologizing for literally nothing. She would drop her eyes and say I'm sorry. The emotional baggage that is left is so overwhelming at times. It was a long journey, but when her mom thanked me for giving her real daughter back, every minute was worth it.
People seem to take the law into their own hands AFTER OUR JUSTICE SYTEMS FAILS..over and over again
This was a trade.
His freedom for hers.
All the Whiskey Scars I hid.. judge under a seat!!!
All you have to know is he saved a soul. He was willing to pay the price for doing so.
He didn't run..he waited for the cops.
Jeremiah 22:3 (NIV) “This is what the LORD says: 'Do what is just and right. Rescue from the hand of the oppressor the one who has been robbed. Do no wrong or violence to the foreigner, the fatherless or the widow, and do not shed innocent blood in this place.
do what is just and right. rescue from the hand of the oppressor the one who has been robbed. i think that says it all
I understand your conflict, as a man of God. Youre a good and faithful Christian, but still a man who feels all the human feelings for weaker ones in pain.when he cries, " Lord, have mercy on me" always brings tears to my eyes.
This is a tragic story about self sacrifice for a stranger.
Murder is 100% wrong but I have respect for this man who in heck does this to protect someone
He did it, knowing full well that he had nothing to gain from his actions and everything to lose. But he never gave his well-being a second thought. He just did what his conscience & character dictated with no hesitation at all. And her life is better as a result.
These are the kind of people that, when presented with certain situations, like some soldiers in combat. They simply react as their nature dictates and completely disregard the consequences to themselves. Some Medal of Honor-winning soldiers have done precisely what this guy did-like MV TSgt John A. Chapman, ON March 4, 2002, who was awarded two medals of honor posthumously.
In my humble opinion, this guy should not have spent even one day in jail. He just did what society and law enforcement all too often fail to do. He took out the garbage permanently.
That guy had not only beaten this girl horribly and repeatedly but also threw her out into the rain. He was already working on another one when this girl’s savior busted through his door. So, this girl’s selfless savior inadvertently saved two women from this horrible fate.
I believe that Hardy's character lost someone he loved to domestic violence.
He had just met her but instantly decided that the only way she would be safe is if he was dead.
Plus, right after he did it for few seconds the gravity of what did sank in, it showed on his face.
I don't condone vigilante justice but I understand the thought process.
Even after pressing charges many times justice isn't served and they're still terrified for their lives.
A common occurrence is also that the abuser once they start losing control of their victim often kills them.
Empathy at its finest.
Eye for an eye,called justice
Even in our country, calling the cops often doesn't provide a solution, and more often makes the situation even worse ... and shooting him wasn't completely in cold blood, the guy was reaching for a shotgun, even though the other guy did break in his door
My daughter was abused and hid it from me or I might have been hardy. Thank God she got out of that relationship. He has since have had the police called on him several times including spending 4 different 3 year sentences for domestic violence
In my opinion he shouldn’t have been given that many chances! He should be in prison for life! I think the justice system goes way too lightly on domestic violence offenders! I am so glad that your daughter was able to get away from him safely!
All I'll say is when I was in the military. They told us and had training exercises. About not sexually abusing others. Like some sexual assaulter or absuer in general just years this training going "oh dang I musta been wrong oh no!" I agree with this songs message because a killer an abuser who choses what he does. To lay them hands. from where I come from you don't do that.
It's called Southern Justice ya'll. ❤❤
Yep! Mess around and find out. It's just how southern people are raised. And, we will take our justice to save another child, another battered woman, another elderly abuse, another rapist, another robbery. This is how we roll.
Its called morality. That man had morality and understood what needed done.
I LOVE that song! I'm so glad that they made a clean, decent video!
And AGAIN....THE BAD GUY WAS REACHING FOR A SHOTGUN!!! SO, YAH, HE SH I T FIRST!
As a woman of abuse, I live this song, I live what this stranger did fir her. My own dad and brother did nothing!
If you haven't done it you should look at Randy Travis 3 wooden crosses.A few others would be Carrie Underwood Temporary Home,How Great Thou Art with Vince Gill.Martina Macbride Gods Will and Concrete Angel.
It was not just a cold blooded shot. At the moment of the shot the man on the ground is reaching for a shotgun that is leaning against the window. So it comes down to shoot or be shot…and he shot.
Your the second reactor who watched this without emotion. But with logic. Thank you! He didn't ask her any questions, that guy could have been her crack dealer. First off, she would be in jail too because she led him there. Breaking and entering and cold blooded murder. People are letting emotion and story telling cloud their logic . I guess if some chick led a guy like this to their brother/son/fathers house they would wake up to facts. Lived your reaction.
In this video, he went to beat the guy's ass. He brought his gun just in case. The guy was crawling to try and get his Shotgun, that is why he got shot.
I get the feeling that something like this happened in his life before. And although she was a stranger he wouldn't let it happen again. It was worth the punishment by a justice system that does so little when it comes to domestic violence.
i am sure most would agree he's an avenging angel, abusers dont get put in jail for long and when they get out it happens again. They say Justice is blind despite religious backgrounds i am sure most of not everyone here would do what he did even if it meant being locked up.
A mans honor is what he is. He knew he couldn't walk away and leave her to more torment and possible death. He told her to "wait in the truck" because it was in his hands now. This is choice, his sacrifice, his consequence and he wanted her to have no part of that. He made that choice with his honor intact, he was sentenced with his honor intact, he is doing his time with his honor intact. And he still knew his God. He released her from her prison, her hell and he is at peace with that. And if you read the bible you know that Angels, even Jesus and God himself will raise their hands to protect "us" or even send someone to intervene. Great song. Great topic for discussion. For instance, would anyone's negative opinion on this man killing another man change if this woman were a child? Men who act on honor are a rare thing today. Very rare.
I thought to bust his right hand. If he is dead, he cannot fulfil or change to better his soul. She still carries the scars inside and out and needs to build her spiritual goals.
His friend got 20 year's. True Story. Southern Justice ya'll.
I admire a man that stands faithfully on his principles. He took responsibility for his actions without complaint. I had a friend that suffered from DV. It took her almost loosing her teenage daughters to the system to get out. The sorry sob started trying to mess with his own daughters. Sad thing is, I warned her 10 to 12 yrs earlier about that before i separated myself from the situation protecting my own daughter. You cant rescue someone that doesnt want to leave. Of course i did not know how bad it was till afterwards. The only reason I warned her was that she told me, the system took his kids from his previous marriage. She didnt know why, I pointed out she needed to find out for the sake of her own girls. She told me stories of broken bones and hospital visits after she got out. I wished she had listened when I tried to ward her off him in the beginning. He came onto me when i was jail bait. Then she met him, barely legal, he was old enough to be her daddy. Just left a bad vibe so i had to say goodbye to that friendship to protect my own children.
Yes sometimes it can get to the point that you have to distance yourself. We can't save them all and I don't believe that's our job to do. God handles the rest. You can tell them but you can't make them do what's right.
It says at thee beginning he was driving through a town he’d never been to
The system doesn't help women....I have 2 friends and the police didn't even write a report with one and let the other out the day it happened.....
most of these situations end up with the woman dying, so he freed her from her prison to take her place.. and there are Angels of Justice!
Yes taking another's life even if it is wrong it's for the right that's integrity and that's love for your fellow more about somebody else's life that's a man
The world is always at war. I just emailed my sister about this.Pick any time in our history. There is war going on somewhere. It never ends. Superiortaty and money is at stake.
I am not a religious man by any means, but I love this man's channel. I feel it gives me perspective and I have a lot of respect for his character.
That being said, I feel this situation has many facets to consider. His perspective that there is a justice system in place, and that would be the proper avenue is a tough pill to swallow in the real world. I am 54 years old and have seen the justice system fail over and over again. That is not a judgemental statement. It is simply fact.
Mankind is naturally flawed. Individuals are flawed. And it is my opinion that the justice system is very flawed. I have not engaged in any "vigilante " act, but I can certainly understand a lack of faith that the system would produce proportional justice.
Call me cynical if that is what it is, but it's an honest statement.
Sometimes the law doesn't do enough. To many domestic violence victims (men & women) end up dead before the law really does something. So from the day I heard it I have been torn here but I can't say I blame him at the end of the day
Great, thought-provoking song. A society cannot call itself civilized when the weak are not protected from those who would prey upon them. Our laws and justice system are there for that purpose, but too often fail to protect the weak. When predators step outside the social contract and injure/abuse/torture/kill others, something or somebody needs to stop them. The protagonist's actions were rash -- and costly -- but he stepped in where "the system" was likely to fail. There are times / situations -- resulting from predators' actions -- where violence may indeed be the only right answer. What indeed makes a good man?? It has been said that a good man is not a harmless man, but rather one capable of extreme violence who voluntarily keeps it restrained. I won't say that the protagonist killing the abuser (judge, jury and executioner) was absolutely correct. Doing so was rash and not necessary in the moment to offer protection to the lady. It was an absolutely final solution, though.
I would say we are all instruments of God. He does not exact His vengeance directly, or there would be no need for prisons, He puts His will in the hearts of others, we just need to listen.
I think that he is showing personal Honor. He did not do anything that we do not ask our Military to do for us. He did it for someone that needed help. While I am interpreting that he was going to beat up the guy, until he reached for the 12 gauge shotgun. But it is only my interpretation of the video.
Id call him a hero
He only had a pistol, the guy was reaching for a 12 gauge shot gun. He was in the right as far as I’m concerned‼️
I know it's wrong to say but he had it coming good shot man
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Sometimes it's justified that's why we stayed slaves for so damn long
I agree if our justice system cared about the victims but they care more about the criminals. You hear all the times that the guy gets arrested and gets out and ends up killing her. If anyone touches one of my kids that way I will be in his shoes.
"I let the hammer drop before he got
To that 12 he was reaching for" Guy was reaching for a 12 gauge shotgun....
It's ok to cry. I did.
I agree that it was extreme for him to execute the guy. But, I also think that there could have been an untold backstory. Perhaps he saw this type of abuse as a child, his Dad beating his Mom......so many possibillities.
The fact he knew immediately what happened to her is proof enough. And it most likely ended fatally.
And if someone loses a loved one to DV, they're far more likely to kill an abuser if they encounter one later in life.
DV abusers learn a way around the system or ignore it and God ain't been listening for 30 yrs but that song validates all the issues we deal with as Survivors.
I'd say that in this story, he probably grew up watching his father beat his mother & get away with it time & again. Sadly, abusers get caught & go to jail & then get out & beat or kill their victims as soon as they are free. As you say, this is extreme, but this powerful song is making the rounds & the subject of abuse is being discussed. Maybe Hardy is telling us to be our sister's keeper & protect her. 'See something, say something or DO something'. Not murder, but SOMETHING to stop what is happening & don't look the other way.
he did it right. and owned it as a man...
Keep your opinion to yourself. You don’t know what would happen if you run into this. I lived this as a child and I would have gave my life for someone had done this for me.
He knew what he was doing. He accepted the consequences and traded his freedom for hers
I watch reactors react to this just because I love the video and like to see what other people think about it. I understand the surprise when he shoots the abuser, but as someone who's seen this and dealt with it in his family, with his friends, and in other ways it's not really surprising to me. Usually a person is that way because that's how they are, this is an end for the situation because the legal system doesn't usually handle it correctly. Because of the laws around domestic violence at some point you have to decide whose life needs protecting and there are those among us willing to make that decision.
you said it it happens everyday. yes men do kill for much less
ptsd is real maybe he grew up not able to help his mom from being beat. lot of angles
The law and the court fail women who are abused, and a restraining order is just a piece of paper. My husband was told by the judge not to come within 500 ft of me and the children. He came right into the house, sat down in a chair, calmly said what the judge had said then told me if I called the cops he would kill me. I ended up moving to another town with just suitcases, he found us on the internet, called and told me he knew where we were and that he could get me anytime he wanted to. I had to move again and change my number. He had been to court for domestic violence a total of 4 times. I didn't feel safe until he passed away from a stroke at work from cocaine use.
Self sacrifice
Quit wishy washy your way around, In your heart, in your soul, you know that he did the right thing. An eye for an eye, and all that. No turn the other cheek.
This song always gets to me deep in my soul. although as a woman I can fully say seeing a woman defended this way is nice to see. Then also I gotta think of how many times even after leaving an abusive relationship we seem to just repeat our choices. so as a song/video love it, just dont do this in r/l, try to help someone in these situations in another way
Over the years I've come to better understand the mindset of some that have had a mother, wife, daughter or loved friend absed over and over again. Add in the the fact that the offenders are often more aggressive and dangerous after they are processed and released. It often leads to the death of the one that was abused...
he was going for that gun
Women are offered a protective order first which is just a piece of paper with a judge's name. The man is served with the protection order that says don't come within five hundred yards of her. Men don't even read it and his first thought is how could she do this to me and file a order of protection against me. She will be gone by his hands before sunset. Seen it happen.
The abuser was reaching for a gun ("I let the hammer drop before he got to that 12 (guage) he was reaching for"). I'm all for the abuser getting his due but when he reaches for the gun, the person handing out justice should be able to protect himself. If she had had a firearm, maybe she wouldn't be in this circumstance.
He gave up his freedom so she could have hers
There is no justice system for these women they get slapped on wrist and continue to abuse they don’t stop
It wasn't a "cold blooded shot", as at that point, the guy is reaching for his 12 (gauge)... so it then turns into a 'kill or be killed' moment'
You are so right, he had no right to do that. There are some people out there that jail is the only way to stop them. If they are not stopped what to do? This is such a hard issue. I agree with what he did, I don't agree with what he did. That's the question the song is asking.
Murder is to kill with malice. Soldiers don't do their job with malice. This was a good man defending a woman he didn't know but knew she was being repeatedly abused--- WITH MALICE.
HE JUST TOOK OUT THE GARBAGE.
I want to bring a different reason on why he may have done what he done for this lady.
Maybe the guy is a combat veteran and when he seen her beat up it triggered some of what he went through.his mind reset to when he was combat and in his mind took the measures to protect the lady.
As a combat veteran myself we can see or experience things that take us back and the way we see things changes.there is a lot of gray areas in combat and everything is not right or wrong.in this guys mind he did what needed to be done to neutralize the threat.
I'm straight out start by saying..
God also says is vengeance is mine said the Lord. Some man live and die by the sword.
But in the good old book Matthews writes a eye for eye. God will stick down and evil man
he just might use a righteous man hand..
Well that begin said I'll let you inside of me let you see the things I have to live with..
I spent 18 years out of my 25 years sentence prison for killing the man who beat my ex wife and my 7 year old daughter to death
Like I tell everyone ask me I would do the same thing again.. I might not make it to heaven but I go to hell with a smile on my face I sent him we're he belongs as all the rest of those that wants to put there hands on a woman or child..
Sorry but for the my message but it has to be know that the ones the abuse eventually will end up killing them it the truth facts 💯