It took me many more years than you to learn that I'm a rucksack girl - my current fave (in my 60's) looks like a bumblebee and cost $5 from the children's clearance section at Walmart because it's an everyday thing that brings me joy 😀
Pro tip: If you live in a western country, go to an Indian store and buy the equivalent of a spice rack. It's a metal circular tub like thing with a lid that's clear. Instead of buying your spices in these expensive containers, you can just take out the individual components from the tub and fill them up yourself from bagged spices. I find it saves money on spices in the long run. I'm of South Indian descent so my brain calls it a dubbuh and my mother gave me mine, but seriously, it's so convenient.
Things for me that are not included in the video - scarves long and wide enough to be blankets - suitcases with 4 wheels for travel, moving and storage - under the bed rolling storage containers - A set of different colours of pens to do revision notes - Wall hanging art - easy to roll up move and put back up for decoration
I will never regret the art I have purchased over the years. The joy it brings me on a daily basis is well worth every penny I've spent on my collection
I just turned 25 so my Top 5 purchases so far in my twenties have been: 1. My grocery cart (yes, like the little rolling ones grandma's tend to use) So helpful for being able to big stock-up trips to the grocery store without a car 2. My sweet cat 3. Blundstones 4. A comfy desk chair good for my back. 5. My prescription drugs that help regulate my mental health and ADHD
I love my grandma trolley! Bought one as soon as a new supermarket opened up walking distance from my place, it's a game changer! I can haul a 12 pack of lacroix plus week worth of groceries no problem.
An official autism diagnosis opened so many doors and helped me understand myself and feel less alone in the world. Sadly to talk to someone to get this officially can be super expensive but for me the knowing for sure was with it
This one is boring but a little handheld vacuum, especially living in a house with pets! I wish I’d bought one sooner, it makes getting all that hair that gets everywhere so much easier and quicker.
I'm really thinking of getting a second smaller vacuum just for daily stuff, and because I have a cat. My big ass vacuum is too big and clunky for everyday cleaning, lol
I totally agree I bought one a few years back and it's been so useful for pet hair but I also use it for things like windowsills, hoovering crumbs off the coffee table etc. I never dust, just whizz over my bookshelves with the brush nozzle on occasion. Plus having health issues I can't use the big hoover very easily so it's perfect for doing the stairs, tiny bathroom and smaller areas. I was pleasantly surprised how useful it's been.
This one might seem a bit racey but a pulsating sex toy! When I was suffering badly with depression my medication gave me the lovely side effect of anorgasmia. When I came off my medication this side effect stuck around for much longer than I was happy with. Swapping from normal vibrators to pulsating/sucky ones suddenly cured this issue and I haven't struggled since. Also while we're on the subject of sexy things, try out different brands of condoms if you're not enjoying using them. I figured out I had a latex sensitivty and that's what was causing my recurrent thrush and cystitis!
My grandpa always said it’s worth spending money on things that go under you (comfortable shoes that don’t mess up your feet, nice non-scratchy sheets, and a good mattress) and now that I’ve bought a good mattress and some shoes that cost more than £15 and don’t mangle my feet - I agree! Also, invest in one good chefs knife - it will make cooking so much quicker, easier and safer!
I'm not even half way into my twenties, but my best purchase so far is my wool blanket. It keeps me warm without having to put the heater on and, like Leena said about jumpers, is vastly superior to polyester blankets which would give me the cold sweats after a while.
The colander lid made me laugh - can't be the only that just uses the regular lid and holds it so there's a small opening to pour the water out of the pan? Also hate washing up colanders!
Doc martens, my cat and medical gender transition 😅 all solid investments that continue to give me much joy. Also my slow cooker (which I got by swapping my housemate for a blender) that gets used every week!
FR glad my mom taught me shoes and mattresses are the two things to spend all your money on. So easy to skimp on and there have been times in my life I've had no choice, but when you're able, they pay for themselves quick. Animal company and medical procedures also very much worth it of course
still in my 20s but so far: - mobility aids (obviously not applicable to everyone) - a cast iron pan - spices (didn't think about it as *a thing* but I season my food) - *not technically bought because I'm poor* but better health insurance (I hate the US 🙃) - some soft glowing lamps for my room - THERAPY - comfy shoes - comfy pillows - art and hobby supplies - nice soaps which are a pretty inexpensive luxury but makes me feel nice - skincare, specifically rosehip oil and glycolic acid - fuzzy socks
My chest freezer haha. I don't know why I bought it originally, I think I was just like "hm yes this is very adult". Anyway, when we moved internationally and had to get rid of it I realised how much time and money the chest freezer saved me. We could stock up on discounted food, I could make a lot of stuff ahead when I had time and energy for when I didn't have time or energy. Not having one was awful, having to constantly go to the supermarket or not buying stuff because we didn't have room. We got a new recently, order is restored haha
You know allspice is actually one spice but the mixes you get mimic the flavour of it but it's not actually the allspice one - both are delicious though definitely make everything Christmassy!!
Teehee yeah it's also called Pimento I think. Mixed Spice is the one that I think tastes and smells like Christmas and is used a lot in Christmas foods, and it also contains Allspice/pimento. Love these tips!!! xxx
In my late twenties now, and best purchases so far: - bed and bedding - being able to be in MY bed, is nice after so many rented homes - glass nail file - cheap and will last a lifetime! - rose gold hangers - they make my wardrobe look pretty no matter what :-P
My grandma gave me a glass file a few years ago, best file I ever had and then I sat on it and broke it by accident! I've been trying to fund a replacement ever since, where did you get your?
In my 20s I used to travel to London regularly to go to the theatre. We used to make a day of it, so by the time we had paid for train tickets, theatre tickets, lunch and dinner, shopping and regular stops for a glass of fizz, it became quite expensive. No regrets at all! I loved every minute of it! Now I am 37 with 2 young kids and I don't have the time or money to do it. So pleased I did it when I could.
No regrets for me on tattoos, concerts, and travel. Experiences are of immeasurable value to me and even though there were travel mistakes that cost me a lot of money at the time, I don't dwell on them at all and only remember the truly amazing times I had. Also glad that I did a bunch of traveling when I was perfectly happy sleeping in 15 bed rooms in hostels. 30 year old me would never.
Such a great video! Will be silly to most people, but I have a tea kettle that allows me to heat water to different temperature, and being able to "boil" my water specifically for green, white, or black tea has been such a pleasure and makes any tea I buy taste better because I'm preparing it correctly!
My mother in law just got me an electric kettle for Christmas and it's changed my life. Not a lot, but enough that I'm not forgetting about a pot and boiling out water everytime I want ramen (which also means I'm feeding myself more often)
As someone with ADHD, the ONLY way I can clean/do house chores is with my wireless bluetooth earphones in, listening to a podcast. Greatest life hack I ever discovered.
A woollen skirt is a perfectly acceptable way to wear a blanket out and about. I only recently realised this (late 20's viewer here) and it has been a game changer. I made a knee-length wool circle skirt, and now I just tuck my legs under when I'm cold, but still look smart most of the time. 100% would recommend.
For me, the no regret purchases of my 20s are: - spending on experiences (whether that’s travel, or classes, or hobbies). - investing in fewer but better quality clothing - thrifted or new. - ereader: became a necessary space saver when moving. I also read more frequently. I also invested in an eink note-taker which is amazing. - Paid library memberships: some US libraries allow people (including those based internationally) annual access by becoming a fee paying member. My local library’s digital selection isn’t great, so subscribed to one. - spending on gifts and experiences for/with family. - also, a mug warmer (not a usb one, but plugs into the mains). I’m a slow tea drinker so this is a quality of life upgrade.
I eventually bought decent duvet and pillows. The duvet is all seasons. It has 2 separate ones different togs. One for summer, one for spring/autumn, or clip them together for ultra warm cosiness in the winter... game changer!
I may have laughed a bit at the mug one, but then I remembered my work mug. It's handmade and giant (seriously, it's 1.7 liters, basically the size of my head. I can hide 3 pints in it no problem). And while it was expensive, it's definitely a purchase that I got loads of use out of and that I love very dearly. So yeah, mugs are a valid choice!
I used to have one that big!!! But I kept giving myself caffinee trips by filling it up to the brim, so it now lives on my windowsill as a plant pot because I couldn't bare to part!
@@leenanorms I turned its predecessor into a planter too once the glaze cracked too much and it started leaking. Yay for second lives! Oh and nothing caffeinated is allowed in my mug. I'm in no need of a heart attack, thank you very much. Only mint tea, perfect at any temperature ☺
The best purchases I’ve ever made was a really durable water bottle - I’ve had the same type for the past 10 years and only just replaced it. It makes me drink more water and feel better overall. I have it with me everywhere so (mainly pre-covid) it always came in handy for me and my friends, particularly when I was locked up in a Library all day and night during assessment periods.
I was always a "reuses old softdrink bottles" kind of girl until I was gifted my big Klean Kanteen a few years ago. It's awesome and I love that they sell replacement parts for it too
I would add to this - make sure you get a bottle that a) you can fit in a standard cup holder b) you can drink from with one hand and c) has a very simple mechanism that is unlikely to fail and leak. I have had many bottles from reputable brands with fancy contraptions that have sooner or later failed and soaked everything in my bag or floor of the car, I ended up with a simple design from some generic supplier on amazon and it's been going for years and never failed, plus it fits in cupholders and can be opened and drank from easily with one hand :) I also never put anything except water in my water bottle way easier to keep clean - as soon as a bottle needs more than a rinse out, it gets left to one side and I fall out of the habit.
Definitely this. I have had my Sigg water bottle now for 14 years (funny enough, I balked at the $25 price tag at the time) - do your research and try to buy one without any seaming (manufactured from a single metal piece) to reduce risk of leaking, as simple a lid as possible, to reduce risk of breaking. Mine has literally been kicked in classrooms by careless walkers, dropped on buses, and lived to tell the tale.
@@RiverArmada I kno many outdoor professionals who have dropped sigg bottles off the top of climbing crags, down caves and everything in between and barely suffer a dent, plus if I recall, they have a pretty decent warranty in the unlikely event you'd need it!
1. A water bottle I actually liked. I've had fancy metal water bottles that I never used because they squeaked really loudly when I opened them. I had one that had a water filter in it that was near impossible to clean. Likewise, I had another that whistled when I drank too fast. Eventually I got a fairly inexpensive screw cap water bottle and I carry it with me every day for going on four years now. 2. Wool socks. I'm serious, if you get cold feet, if you get cold and sweaty feet, and/or if you are outside a lot: get wool socks. They make *such* a difference, especially in winter. 3. Mattress topper - if your bed isn't great, get one. It makes a massive difference, even the ones that are fairly thin. 4. Wool jumpers - you can get them at charity shops for cheap. Find out the style/thickness you like from the cheap charity shop ones before you get the £100 ones brand new. 5. A mattress warmer. Now this one is luxury, but especially if you deal with back pain or your flat is cold, it is the best feeling to slide into the warm bed and feel your back relax under the heat.
What a fun question to brighten up a dreary Monday night! (sounds like a habit I should adopt, focusing on the things I do not regret) Things I loved investing in my twenties : Sunscreen. Replaced moisturizer and any other face creams with SPF years ago, and my skin loves me for it. Supple, dewy, less spots (maskne excluded) and the extra bonus of a sense of accomplishment, of doing something good for myself. Dresses. I hesitated, but dresses are really the way to go. I have summer and autumn ones, and I am covered also with thick tights / thermals and jumpers for winter. Absolutely no comparison with pants. Microfibre towels. Took almost all of the edge off from washing hair, you leave it in there and it dries almost completely without your head going cold. Haircutting scissors. Combined with tutorials, they saved me from the nightmare of salon visits and I shall remain grateful forever! Neck pillow. For traveling and camping. Game changer. A large power bank. One that I did not have to charge often. All of the hobby subscriptions. It was a lot of money, but I do not regret anything, I danced and worked out with people from the caribbean to south korea, amazing experiences. Bike. Sustainable, workout and so much fun! And last but not least... hair bows, rings and earrings. I avoided having them as I deemed them 'unnecessary clutter' for a lot of years, but I realized they do make me feel more like myself, and cheer me up, so I am quite happy to have a little collection now.
I think my best purchase so far in my twenties has been my big wool coat, it was second hand, it’s sooo warm and comes down to my knees so I don’t get a cold bum sitting on benches and it’s a mans jacket so it has HUGE pockets. So practical!
I'm not in my twenties but I've been at uni for about a year and a half and I have to say the best purchase I made before coming to uni was a dimmable lamp. I use it pretty much everyday and its something I will have until it literally breaks. I hate overhead lighting so being able to have the option of a brightlight but also a super dim one is so incredibly helpful. Honestly everyone should get one.
Yes to all of these! I will also add paying to go to the dentist. Definitely do not regretting buying my teeth grinding guard even though I really resented spending the money at the time
Yes! I agree with you. As a child, I had a terrible and frightening dentist, so I resented going there for a long time. Just before a long trip to Mongolia, the general advice was to go and get my teeth checked (which I hadn't done on years due to that dentist). I hated the effort and the money, but how did I need it and how does life taste better now ^^ I can finally enjoy ice cream properly.
I absolutely adore my Bluetooth headphones too! I have the Sennheiser 350BT. The battery life is insane and they're shockingly durable for the price range (I have a habit of destroying electronics). I definitely recommend them. I know you put furniture on your regret list, but personally one of my favorite purchases of my 20's is a fairly pricy and ridiculously comfortable couch. Taking afternoon naps on it while snuggling with my cat is literally one of my favorite things in the world and it brings me so much peace.
Seconded! I've had the Sennheiser HD 450NT for 3 years and use them all the time. I haven't noticed any diminished battery life (which is already super long). Like T M I also huck mine around everywhere and they've stood up to the challenge. The only thing I've noticed is that the ear pads have opened at the seams recently (same for my friend who has had the same headphones for the same amount of time), but they're easily replaceable. In fact, Sennheiser includes instructions on how to replace them (we love not encouraging planned obsolescence).
@@alexsetchell5148 omg I love the fact that Sennheiser ear cuffs can be replaced. I've had another pair for 10+ years that have had 3 sets of cuffs. They're definitely my go-to for sound tech. Lovely to meet another Sennheiser fan in the wild!
I love these headphones though I can’t agree about their durability, since I’m now on the 4th pair .( 2 broke, lost 1) But They’re amazing for noise isolation ( without the noise cancellation tech which can be weird).
This I’m so glad I bought in my 20s (in no particular order): Rice cooker Dutch Oven Wet brand hair brush Menstrual cup Extra thick hair ties/elastics Shirts with UPF built in (I live in FL and need all the sun protection basically all the time) Fluoride rich mouthwash Espresso machine and bean grinder Vanilla beans to make my own homemade vanilla coffee syrup and stop buying flavored coffee creamer Nintendo Switch with ACNH and Pokémon Sword Stardew Valley I’m sure there’s more but these have been huge for me. Happy responsible shopping everyone! 💖
This is so funny to me because mine are mostly furniture. I’m in the US and a car heavy Midwest city so buying thrifted furniture that was good quality when I found it has now made me able to furnish my house. Otherwise it’s my fancy cook pans and cast iron (it was inherited not bought though)
Same! I bought a $100 Craigslist couch when I moved to where I am now 5 years ago; I am about to buy a $300 Craigslist couch, so we're moving on up! Haha
1. thermal leggins is something i wear daily during the colder half of the year! they come into my wardrobe sometime in october and go into hibernation again sometime in march. once i realized how nice it is to stay warm i regret not realizing earlier. ALSO the benefit of wool is that it stays warm even when wet/damp. meaning sweating in it doesn't mean you'll get cold which can be a game changer especially for woolen socks!! 2. my aunt is retired and she also doesn't have a handbag. she has a backpack. so honestly i want us all to forget "age-appropriate" when choosing what bags we want to use. whatever works for you works 3. the thing i'm most happy with purchasing (apart from the noise-cancelling headphones that everyone seems to agree upon) is an armchair and a reading lamp. not too big so not too hard to move but made aaaall the difference when i couldn't have a couch but needed a comfy place that wasn't my bed. i've spent countless hours reading for uni or relaxing with a book or a show (or youtube vids tbh) in it so it's been worth every penny!
Best thing I’ve bought is a water flosser (it’s a handheld device that shoots out little jets of water)! Flossing my teeth with dental floss was such a hassle that I’d only do it like once a month but now I do it every day
I would add a proper espresso machine/coffee maker (not one with pods!!) if coffee is your jam. I recently got a rather expensive espresso maker on Black Friday after eyeing it for many years, and when I actually crunched the numbers it paid for itself in about 8 months. I didn't realize how much I was spending on getting coffee out until I actually did the math, and now I'm mad I didn't invest sooner
I bought a cold brew maker jug and I'll put it in a metal drink bottle the morning after I've made it so I have lovely iced coffee. Best $12 purchase for me. Also a pour over set up will make pretty good coffee if an espresso machine isn't in the cards yet
I’ve never regretted money I spent travelling to other countries. I think coming from a small island nation, travel is important to broaden your horizons so you meet people with different experiences to you! I’m also really grateful that I didn’t put it off till I had more money, because the pandy would have royally f***ed it up for me if had!
A wearable blanket is amazing for cold accommodation, definitely a step up from regular blankets/hot water bottles. On top of that: Decent pillows, thick towels, a good flask, and good kitchen knives
A wheelie shopping bag, which I lovingly refer to as my granny bag! Can do near wnough to a month's worth of shopping in one go and walk home it's been an absolute life saver especially as someone who deals with chronic pain & fatigue it's saved my back and my bank balance from having to make weekly shops ^^
I recommend one of those aqua vacuums! It's basically a small handheld hoover for condensation in places that get wet, usually the bathroom (can be used on mirrors, shower walls, bath edges, windows) Once you've sucked up all the water you pour it away and voila! Has prevented our bathroom from going moldy for years :)
As a Scandinavian we use a lot of fjellraven and I would recommend the one for laptops as it has extra padding and a pocket for a laptop which also helps the rest of the bag keep its shape. 😊
I've had my menstrual cup for five years now and seriously, it changed my life for the better. When I first heard about menstrual cups, I found the idea really weird and kind of off-putting, but when I tried it, I immediately loved it and got used to it super quickly. I know this doesn't work for everyone who menstruates, but I whole heartedly recommend at least thinking about getting one!
100% agree about the mattress! It affects your sleep and body so it was a super important purchase for me. Also a computer that worked for me and all the software I needed for work and school.
Love the video, as usual! New headphones: maybe look second-hand, but unused? There are so many, who get gifted tech they never use. That's how I buy 90 % of my stuff, not only sustainable- but of course also a money-saver.
Yes! Or refurbished, especially by the original seller/brand. Then it’s been used but the brand is worried about selling you a product that stinks. This is according to my professional photographer dad who told me that the average user of a camera should get refurbished not new.
BLACK OUT CURTAINS - rented accommodation sometimes have semi transparent or short curtains leaving light coming through, black out curtains only cost up to £20 and make you sleep (and lie in!) so much easier!
Basic sewing supplies. As in, needles and a decent selection of thread. A tea strainer. Good hiking boots, unless you really hate hiking. A decent knife that's going to hold an edge for a while, and then you can get it resharpened, or do it yourself. Def agree with the menstrual cup. A pillow that doesn't hurt your neck.
I second a good thermos! I've used mine to bring tea to work, lectures and study halls for almost a decade now and it makes everyday life so much comfier. Also it has probably saved me a lot of money on tea and coffees which are (as everything else) quite expensive here in Norway. All my other favourite stuff I have accumulated through my twenties by picking up some here and there every time I moved: Do you still want that drying rack? Are you attached to that plant, cause I am! Do you need that heater? - I COMPLETELY understand where you are coming from regarding furniture, it's a lot to move around. But now that I have bought a place and will stay here for a while, it is really nice to be surrounded with objects from my whole moving journey.
My best purchases have been in the active wear/ running shoes/ running headphones category, running directly improves my physical and mental health and anything that lessens the pain/inconvenience and increases enjoyment for exercise is a great investment. Eg, paying the extra fiver for phone pockets in yoga pants, wireless waterproof headphones, no adds Spotify, and getting running shoes that fit my foot/leg/body type have made it easier to run and sooooo much cheaper than a gym membership
Best purchase - Smart lightbulbs!! It makes my home so cozy to be able to change the light color according to my mood, season, each room, etc and it never gets boring. You can put them in your existing light fixtures, so you don’t need to buy new lamps. I don’t need fluorescent lightbulb negativity in my life 😄
Thanks for the video! I’m in my 30s (bye bye railcard) and just got the ‘two together’ railcard for long train trips with my partner. Game changer tbh. Also I don’t know why it never occurred to me to buy rucksacks on Depop?? The doc martens one does look super smart!
1.Depiller tool to make my clothes last longer 2. High quality materials for the hobbies I actually do, makes me so much more inclined to do them 3. Shoes that are actually comfortable! 4. Travel when that was a thing😭
I second the depiller/fabric shaver! A crucial tool for a journey towards sustainable fashion. It's incredible how many sweaters -- and even linens/blankets -- I've saved. In the past I would've just gotten rid of them for being "worn out" but now they literally look and feel brand new.
Some other purchases for me was good quality Pyrex glass tupperwear that can also be used as mixing bowls too, period underwear, leather care items to keep shoes and bags looking their best and a good quality feather duvet.
Some of these were gifts but best products I acquired in my 20s were: a really good travel backpack that fits well, good quality pillow and comforter, period underwear, long underwear made of wool blend, comfortable shoes I like and wear every day, a good bicycle that I love to ride, a good quality coat.
I really like how flexible you are with the patreon tiers! I love supporting my fav creators but I’m poor and it can be so hard when there’s a set rate that’s not affordable for everyone. Thanks for always appreciating us and making fab content! 💕
My lil sister is a kitchen genius and she has introduced me to wholegrain mustard. Add a small amount to pasta sauce/ratatouille/anything and it cranks it up level and I'm not much of a mustard fan
Really love this topic. Coming in firstly to recommend Uniqlo thermals (also their body warmer that fits into a tiny bag - perfect for the British pub garden). Things I've loved and regularly feel really grateful for - soup maker, metal double-lined french press, period pants, electric blanket, Bluetooth headphones, linen bedding and lastly a decent battery pack for phone charging.
Love the video - and yes omg glasses are so expensive but so important. To be honest even when I was under 18 the NHS vouchers didn't cover the full cost of my complex prescription, I remember begging my mum as a kid not to spend any money on presents for me at my birthday or Christmas because my glasses were so expensive already. I will say in my 20s I changed opticians from the main high street chains to the local small store that all the pensioners go to and have never regretted it - the optician was a hospital specialist who also did shifts there and the prices were still expensive but far more reasonable! (I says, having recently shelled out for new normal and sunglasses to the tune of a month's wages...) Things I don't regret buying: A master's degree (via distance learning) A mortgage (I know crazy right? , but believe me it was only my savings from work that got it for us and the fact I live in the North and it got me and my mum out of an intolerable living situation with an evil neigbbour) A WiFi extender this was a game changer!
you can buy replacement ear pads for headphones when the leather bits peel away! i have replaced them on my over-ear headphones twice and feel so savvy and sustainable every time
moot if the headphones themselves are at the end of their life, but if it's just an aesthetic, don't want shards of leather falling around the home concern, there is a solution at least
Just on the spice train, a twenties food hack I've learned is 🌟Seasoning🌟 Your 🌟Toast 🌟 Want garlic bread but don't have any in / you're vegan and it's hard to find? Garlic granules on buttered toast. *chefs kiss* actually scratch that! *chefs snog*
I've been thinking about getting prescription sunglasses for about 5 years and just needed that little push of validation to tell me it's worth the splurge
I would like to add: propper hair pins of good quality (if you use that for your hair). I found out about them on a vintage hair course (which was a great investment as well if that is your thing). The difference is incredible!
Sounds silly but my sandwich press. I use it for SO MUCH. I'll cook nuggets on it, eggs, burritos, wraps, sweet potato and potato slices, toast, reheat pizza on it, literally anything that can be fried or toasted, works on the press. I LOVE IT!
For me it's definitely period underwear, my sweet shelter dog, and a nice kitchen knife! I literally only have one kitchen knife and it does pretty much everything I need. And my puppy has been a miracle for my mental health.
Some of the best things I bought in my twenties: - A u-shaped pillow that hugs my torso and a weighted blanket. Those two were complete game changers for me and I wish I would have switched to them about ten years ago! Those two together feel super comfy, like my bed is hugging me. With them I sleep so much better, am more relaxed, and have less neck and back pain. I will never go back to a regular pillow and blanket! - Fairy lights that give off a warm, yellow-y light. I hung them over my bed and they make my little apartment so much more cosy. - A floor-length black coat with a gigantic hood and corset lacing in the back. I always yearn for the day it’s eventually cold enough to wear it again. It makes me feel like a witch queen straight out of a dark fairytale, like I’m invincible, and can conquer the world in it. It just adds a little magic to my everyday life. - Hiking boots. I’m not the most sure-footed person and having a pair of well-fitted, comfortable sturdy shoes actually gave me the courage to go out and explore more uneven territory without constantly fearing I’ll end up with a pulled or even torn ligament. - Concert tickets. Some of my happiest moments and most precious memories are tied to concert trips and they are the reason I got to know some of my closest friends.
I also nearly exclusively use backpacks, and I found one that doubles as a crossbody bag (nice in crowded spaces etc) - i have not looked back! (Brand is German, Sperling bags, if anyone is interested! 😊)
Yesss so excited for this video idea! Also the gumption club thread of these on fb was so helpful to me 😊 My best purchase has definitely been a dehumidifier for damp, cold rental properties!! Hope you all have a good start to your week 💞
Being 27 and having all of these things makes me feel like I'm winning the 20s game for once 😆 But rather than a pot lid with a built-in colander, I have a clip-on colander that you can attach to ANY pot and it's absolutely brilliant. Another couple of favorite purchases are my Dyson stick vacuum and Tushy bidet. Also, speaking of tactile objects that make you happy, my baby elephant-shaped watering can has to be one of my personal favorite buys of all time!
It’s so interesting!! I’m 28 and I agree with you 100%! Warm jacket, good pack pack, my pocketbook e-reader, clothing that actually works for me and I like!!!!! And good tech that actually works and helps me with my job and my daily life!! (Nose cancelling headphones 😍)
100% agree on the ANC headphones. I bought myself a nice pair from Bose a couple of years ago and they truly help so much with public transport, loud neighbors, social anxiety in public, getting out and enjoying long walks, keeping calm and focused while studying and you can listen to your favourite band or book while hoovering your place or cleaning like you mentioned
A phone with a good camera, if you enjoy photography and/or are the designated photographer at loved ones' events, but aren't interested in or cannot buy a proper camera. I've bought 2 or 3 cellphones throughout my 20's and for all I've put more money because of the good quality camera and they have served me extremely well (I've been lucky and have taken care of them so they last as long as possible). Not getting into the "get the newer version" frenzy is also super important (also if you do, you will never win, and will always chase unsatisfaction 🧙♀️).
along the lines of spending on things you actually use often - one thing I have found is so worth splurging on for me is nice pajamas. you wear them every night! and only have like 3 sets, so the cost per wear is going to be very good
This is such a fun video!! I would agree with the Bluetooth headphones, decent shoes (although I went for Timberland), and period products that work for you (I'm a period pants girl). But also I would say my decent food processor (I use it every day), the low turtle necks that I bought in four different colours and wear constantly throughout the winter and at work, splurging on glasses I like and actually enjoy wearing (and having more than one pair so I can mix and match). And then the final one is a bit extravagant and expensive but I think completely worth it, and that is investing in a decent desktop computer. I was at a point where my laptop had reached the end of its life, and so had my ancient Xbox 360. I was frustrated at so much of the waste that comes with electronics and so I built myself a PC from scratch that was good enough for gaming and everything I used to use my laptop for and I love it. Plus if part of it breaks or becomes outdated, I can replace that part instead of the whole thing, which I feel is way less wasteful!
Decent shoes! You are so right. I am so picky about shoes and they can be so expensive but literal game changer. When I was starting out in college I didn't have a car or a bike and I hadn't figured out the bus yet, so I just walked *everywhere*. Getting a good pair of hiking boots was key. Last year I got a job working outside and I had to buy safety toe boots. The ones I got were so expensive but totally worth it: they are waterproof, have a good tread, and support my ankles. Every time I tripped or stepped in mud I thought to myself "I'm so glad I bought these boots!"
3 things I can think of off the top of my head: a humidifier (I live in a very cold and dry climate and I have eczema), a cover for my steering wheel (again, helps with the cold) and a bidet. Definitely agree on the menstrual cup and would add period panties.
I second an ereader. My Kobo is nearly 10 years old, so it doesn't have the backlight that newer models have, but it's such a comfort to read "heavy" books without the weight. I mostly read in bed, burried under the covers, and I only need one hand to hold my device/turn the page, which is marvelous for the ice cube that I am. And nowadays, you can subscribe monthly for ebooks instead of buying individual titles.
Electric kettle… if you drink tea in the morning it is so much better than microwaving the water (plus then you can microwave breakfast while you make tea) Also switch to cushion inserts (Ikea has some good ones) and covers, it makes it easy to have a rotation of things going on so you can have “new” looks without shopping
A great upgrade for the fjallraven is the shoulder pads! They’re pricy but worth it (coming from a fellow elderly person in her 30s 😅), or look for the 13” laptop model (not much bigger than the standard one and has padded shoulder straps as well as a separate laptop compartment).
I’m so glad you spoke about bluetooth headphones as the first thing, because I didn’t get to comment in time when you asked The Gumption Club! That and a menstrual cup, yesss! Also, I’m probably a bit opposite Leena here, because I regretted not buying durable furniture that I’d love. My interiors were so bland and life sucking when I lived in dorms. Invest in your surroundings is my advice. I enjoy my home so much more now it’s well-decorated in my style and with plants (instead of with the lightest, cheapest stuff from Ikea which was always white). Can be done secondhand!
Something I definitely could have regretted but absolutely don't is the smart wool winter coat I asked for for my 18th. I've had it through 5 winters now and absolutely love it. It's smart enough for formal events but not too smart that I can't wear for everyday use as well. I think finding a good coat can be as important as finding a good pair of shoes.
Mine are band merch, souvenirs on trips, a memory foam mattress, a side table that has built in charging ports, a lift top coffee table, a quality coffee machine and coffee grounds or teas and your favorite flavorings or milks (I don’t have a need to visit coffee shops much anymore), hair cutting scissors, and my own nail polish/gel nail kit. I really value furniture with double purposes, some objects with sentimental value that are either DIY fun or bringing art into your home, and being able to get an expensive or luxury experience/product done for cheap at home.
It’s a bit difficult to remember my twenties, actually…. I agree with all you mentioned for sure. One thing I do not regret though is holding onto pieces that have passed down through my family. I have a huge board table that weighs so dang much and I’ve taken it everywhere- much to my husbands dismay. I tend to not regret quality furniture purchases. I love old heavy as heck furniture. My back doesn’t but what can I say- we bought a furniture dolly. 😅
Recently I bought a fountain pen and I'm loving it. It doesn't make my hand cramp when I write the same way that ballpoint pens always have and my handwriting is nicer. It actually makes me want to write in my journal which helps with my overall anxiety.
Omg I'm laughing over the Fjallraven part! I also side-eyed the brand for years like do I wanna be one of *those* students lol but after blasting thru 3 backpacks in 2 years, which got holes from daily wear, I finally caved and have had my Fjallraven going on 4 years now! The best part about it is it buckles to close so I'm less concerned abt ppl stealing from it on public transport
I inhereted a cast iron pan from my grandma and I use it every day, it works so well, isn't coated in Teflon that flakes off and can already tell it will last forever!
Yesss for the noise cancelling headphones!! Once the pastrami started I thought the noise around my apartment was going to drive me insane until I got a pair. Now I do everything with them. Another equivalent to the mug point: socks! Fun socks that make you somewhat happier to get dressed for the day.
I had a beautiful messenger bag through 6th form and uni. Loved it to bits. My spine's still bent. Fjallraven Kanken baggie all the way now!! Best thing I spent my money on was a month long course in Reykjavik. Very expensive but has changed my whole life path
1. Smart home enabled outlets!!! Total game changer. And a smart home device to control them with. I plug in all my lamps, string lights, etc. and then I don't have to get out of bed at night to turn them all off, just ask whats-her-face to do it :) 2. Nail polish - or whatever small luxury that you use a lot and brings you joy; could be something like art supplies or makeup. I probably have more than I "need", but I use it all the time and it makes me so happy to have so many different colors and options to choose from when I paint my nails every week (and it doesn't take up much space anyways)
A notion about Kånken - if you end up with rips or tears, throw Fjällräven an email and ask if they have fabrics for you to use patch. I've had my Kånken Big since 2010...? I use it pretty much every single day, for daily commutes, day hikes, groceries, you know the deal. It's been machine washed against good advice and the bottom of it has been torn out and patched. I emailed them for fabric and they sent me about a square meter matched to my bag.
It took me many more years than you to learn that I'm a rucksack girl - my current fave (in my 60's) looks like a bumblebee and cost $5 from the children's clearance section at Walmart because it's an everyday thing that brings me joy 😀
I love this
Pro tip: If you live in a western country, go to an Indian store and buy the equivalent of a spice rack. It's a metal circular tub like thing with a lid that's clear. Instead of buying your spices in these expensive containers, you can just take out the individual components from the tub and fill them up yourself from bagged spices. I find it saves money on spices in the long run. I'm of South Indian descent so my brain calls it a dubbuh and my mother gave me mine, but seriously, it's so convenient.
Things for me that are not included in the video
- scarves long and wide enough to be blankets
- suitcases with 4 wheels for travel, moving and storage
- under the bed rolling storage containers
- A set of different colours of pens to do revision notes
- Wall hanging art - easy to roll up move and put back up for decoration
Big yes to the blanket scarves (preferably high quality and 100% wool) and four wheel suitcases! I mean, all of these are great
all of these are great but yasssss especially those 4 wheels!!!!
I will never regret the art I have purchased over the years. The joy it brings me on a daily basis is well worth every penny I've spent on my collection
I just turned 25 so my Top 5 purchases so far in my twenties have been:
1. My grocery cart (yes, like the little rolling ones grandma's tend to use) So helpful for being able to big stock-up trips to the grocery store without a car
2. My sweet cat
3. Blundstones
4. A comfy desk chair good for my back.
5. My prescription drugs that help regulate my mental health and ADHD
I love my grandma trolley! Bought one as soon as a new supermarket opened up walking distance from my place, it's a game changer! I can haul a 12 pack of lacroix plus week worth of groceries no problem.
Ooooh I need to get a cart I'm always trying to avoid using too many bags when I grocery shop and a cart would be amazing
ooh i have one of those grandma trollies too! its a gamechanger for me, especially now i shop for myself and my partner instead of just for myself
I'm literally in the process of saving for a pair of blundstones rn 👍🏻👍🏻
An official autism diagnosis opened so many doors and helped me understand myself and feel less alone in the world. Sadly to talk to someone to get this officially can be super expensive but for me the knowing for sure was with it
This one is boring but a little handheld vacuum, especially living in a house with pets! I wish I’d bought one sooner, it makes getting all that hair that gets everywhere so much easier and quicker.
I'm really thinking of getting a second smaller vacuum just for daily stuff, and because I have a cat. My big ass vacuum is too big and clunky for everyday cleaning, lol
I totally agree I bought one a few years back and it's been so useful for pet hair but I also use it for things like windowsills, hoovering crumbs off the coffee table etc. I never dust, just whizz over my bookshelves with the brush nozzle on occasion. Plus having health issues I can't use the big hoover very easily so it's perfect for doing the stairs, tiny bathroom and smaller areas. I was pleasantly surprised how useful it's been.
Just looking forward to buy one! Which one did you get ?
Yes!!! I love mine!
@@ThatgirlINTP I got the Bissell Pet Hair Eraser. It’s worked pretty well for us and has some nice attachments
This one might seem a bit racey but a pulsating sex toy! When I was suffering badly with depression my medication gave me the lovely side effect of anorgasmia. When I came off my medication this side effect stuck around for much longer than I was happy with. Swapping from normal vibrators to pulsating/sucky ones suddenly cured this issue and I haven't struggled since. Also while we're on the subject of sexy things, try out different brands of condoms if you're not enjoying using them. I figured out I had a latex sensitivty and that's what was causing my recurrent thrush and cystitis!
Investing in a good sex toy is such s game changer tbh i can't believe I suffered through cheap vibrators for so long
@@selfcompassionate well that wouldn't have been fun for anyone involved.
My grandpa always said it’s worth spending money on things that go under you (comfortable shoes that don’t mess up your feet, nice non-scratchy sheets, and a good mattress) and now that I’ve bought a good mattress and some shoes that cost more than £15 and don’t mangle my feet - I agree!
Also, invest in one good chefs knife - it will make cooking so much quicker, easier and safer!
I'm not even half way into my twenties, but my best purchase so far is my wool blanket. It keeps me warm without having to put the heater on and, like Leena said about jumpers, is vastly superior to polyester blankets which would give me the cold sweats after a while.
The colander lid made me laugh - can't be the only that just uses the regular lid and holds it so there's a small opening to pour the water out of the pan? Also hate washing up colanders!
same here :D
@@findingagain the types of pasta (and rice of unknown origin) I would need help with straining aren't staying in colanders either 😅
Doc martens, my cat and medical gender transition 😅 all solid investments that continue to give me much joy.
Also my slow cooker (which I got by swapping my housemate for a blender) that gets used every week!
FR glad my mom taught me shoes and mattresses are the two things to spend all your money on. So easy to skimp on and there have been times in my life I've had no choice, but when you're able, they pay for themselves quick. Animal company and medical procedures also very much worth it of course
still in my 20s but so far:
- mobility aids (obviously not applicable to everyone)
- a cast iron pan
- spices (didn't think about it as *a thing* but I season my food)
- *not technically bought because I'm poor* but better health insurance (I hate the US 🙃)
- some soft glowing lamps for my room
- THERAPY
- comfy shoes
- comfy pillows
- art and hobby supplies
- nice soaps which are a pretty inexpensive luxury but makes me feel nice
- skincare, specifically rosehip oil and glycolic acid
- fuzzy socks
This is a great list! I also am very happy with my cast iron pans. And you are so right, having comfy/cozy things makes life so nice.
My chest freezer haha. I don't know why I bought it originally, I think I was just like "hm yes this is very adult". Anyway, when we moved internationally and had to get rid of it I realised how much time and money the chest freezer saved me. We could stock up on discounted food, I could make a lot of stuff ahead when I had time and energy for when I didn't have time or energy. Not having one was awful, having to constantly go to the supermarket or not buying stuff because we didn't have room. We got a new recently, order is restored haha
The joy my dressing gown and slippers have brought me is unmatched. And a coffee subscription! Lovely vid as usual pal x
You know allspice is actually one spice but the mixes you get mimic the flavour of it but it's not actually the allspice one - both are delicious though definitely make everything Christmassy!!
I was just gonna comment that 👍
Teehee yeah it's also called Pimento I think. Mixed Spice is the one that I think tastes and smells like Christmas and is used a lot in Christmas foods, and it also contains Allspice/pimento. Love these tips!!! xxx
The day I came across an allspice tree at a botanic gardens was a day of revelation - it’s a plant?! One plant, not a mix of different ones?! Wild 😂
In my late twenties now, and best purchases so far:
- bed and bedding - being able to be in MY bed, is nice after so many rented homes
- glass nail file - cheap and will last a lifetime!
- rose gold hangers - they make my wardrobe look pretty no matter what :-P
My grandma gave me a glass file a few years ago, best file I ever had and then I sat on it and broke it by accident! I've been trying to fund a replacement ever since, where did you get your?
@@audreygilmore7408 Oh what a shame! Yes, the brand is Zao, and I got it through The Earth Shop UK, for only £7.25!
In my 20s I used to travel to London regularly to go to the theatre. We used to make a day of it, so by the time we had paid for train tickets, theatre tickets, lunch and dinner, shopping and regular stops for a glass of fizz, it became quite expensive. No regrets at all! I loved every minute of it! Now I am 37 with 2 young kids and I don't have the time or money to do it. So pleased I did it when I could.
No regrets for me on tattoos, concerts, and travel. Experiences are of immeasurable value to me and even though there were travel mistakes that cost me a lot of money at the time, I don't dwell on them at all and only remember the truly amazing times I had. Also glad that I did a bunch of traveling when I was perfectly happy sleeping in 15 bed rooms in hostels. 30 year old me would never.
Such a great video! Will be silly to most people, but I have a tea kettle that allows me to heat water to different temperature, and being able to "boil" my water specifically for green, white, or black tea has been such a pleasure and makes any tea I buy taste better because I'm preparing it correctly!
ohh that's neat !!
I've thought about getting one of these! when this kettle breaks I think I will
My partner and I bought one of those at the beginning of the pandemic and it has brought us soo much joy!
My mother in law just got me an electric kettle for Christmas and it's changed my life. Not a lot, but enough that I'm not forgetting about a pot and boiling out water everytime I want ramen (which also means I'm feeding myself more often)
A cordless vacuum! I used to vacuum almost never, but a rechargeable cordless makes it so easy to pop on even for a tiny mess.
As someone with ADHD, the ONLY way I can clean/do house chores is with my wireless bluetooth earphones in, listening to a podcast. Greatest life hack I ever discovered.
A woollen skirt is a perfectly acceptable way to wear a blanket out and about. I only recently realised this (late 20's viewer here) and it has been a game changer.
I made a knee-length wool circle skirt, and now I just tuck my legs under when I'm cold, but still look smart most of the time. 100% would recommend.
This is actually genius I'm planning on copying you once I can sew well enough
For me, the no regret purchases of my 20s are:
- spending on experiences (whether that’s travel, or classes, or hobbies).
- investing in fewer but better quality clothing - thrifted or new.
- ereader: became a necessary space saver when moving. I also read more frequently. I also invested in an eink note-taker which is amazing.
- Paid library memberships: some US libraries allow people (including those based internationally) annual access by becoming a fee paying member. My local library’s digital selection isn’t great, so subscribed to one.
- spending on gifts and experiences for/with family.
- also, a mug warmer (not a usb one, but plugs into the mains). I’m a slow tea drinker so this is a quality of life upgrade.
I eventually bought decent duvet and pillows. The duvet is all seasons. It has 2 separate ones different togs. One for summer, one for spring/autumn, or clip them together for ultra warm cosiness in the winter... game changer!
I may have laughed a bit at the mug one, but then I remembered my work mug. It's handmade and giant (seriously, it's 1.7 liters, basically the size of my head. I can hide 3 pints in it no problem). And while it was expensive, it's definitely a purchase that I got loads of use out of and that I love very dearly. So yeah, mugs are a valid choice!
I used to have one that big!!! But I kept giving myself caffinee trips by filling it up to the brim, so it now lives on my windowsill as a plant pot because I couldn't bare to part!
@@leenanorms I turned its predecessor into a planter too once the glaze cracked too much and it started leaking. Yay for second lives!
Oh and nothing caffeinated is allowed in my mug. I'm in no need of a heart attack, thank you very much. Only mint tea, perfect at any temperature ☺
The best purchases I’ve ever made was a really durable water bottle - I’ve had the same type for the past 10 years and only just replaced it. It makes me drink more water and feel better overall. I have it with me everywhere so (mainly pre-covid) it always came in handy for me and my friends, particularly when I was locked up in a Library all day and night during assessment periods.
I was always a "reuses old softdrink bottles" kind of girl until I was gifted my big Klean Kanteen a few years ago. It's awesome and I love that they sell replacement parts for it too
I would add to this - make sure you get a bottle that a) you can fit in a standard cup holder b) you can drink from with one hand and c) has a very simple mechanism that is unlikely to fail and leak.
I have had many bottles from reputable brands with fancy contraptions that have sooner or later failed and soaked everything in my bag or floor of the car, I ended up with a simple design from some generic supplier on amazon and it's been going for years and never failed, plus it fits in cupholders and can be opened and drank from easily with one hand :)
I also never put anything except water in my water bottle way easier to keep clean - as soon as a bottle needs more than a rinse out, it gets left to one side and I fall out of the habit.
Definitely this. I have had my Sigg water bottle now for 14 years (funny enough, I balked at the $25 price tag at the time) - do your research and try to buy one without any seaming (manufactured from a single metal piece) to reduce risk of leaking, as simple a lid as possible, to reduce risk of breaking. Mine has literally been kicked in classrooms by careless walkers, dropped on buses, and lived to tell the tale.
@@RiverArmada I kno many outdoor professionals who have dropped sigg bottles off the top of climbing crags, down caves and everything in between and barely suffer a dent, plus if I recall, they have a pretty decent warranty in the unlikely event you'd need it!
See, thing is I’m constantly losing water bottles so I can’t make that investment haha
1. A water bottle I actually liked. I've had fancy metal water bottles that I never used because they squeaked really loudly when I opened them. I had one that had a water filter in it that was near impossible to clean. Likewise, I had another that whistled when I drank too fast. Eventually I got a fairly inexpensive screw cap water bottle and I carry it with me every day for going on four years now.
2. Wool socks. I'm serious, if you get cold feet, if you get cold and sweaty feet, and/or if you are outside a lot: get wool socks. They make *such* a difference, especially in winter.
3. Mattress topper - if your bed isn't great, get one. It makes a massive difference, even the ones that are fairly thin.
4. Wool jumpers - you can get them at charity shops for cheap. Find out the style/thickness you like from the cheap charity shop ones before you get the £100 ones brand new.
5. A mattress warmer. Now this one is luxury, but especially if you deal with back pain or your flat is cold, it is the best feeling to slide into the warm bed and feel your back relax under the heat.
What a fun question to brighten up a dreary Monday night! (sounds like a habit I should adopt, focusing on the things I do not regret) Things I loved investing in my twenties :
Sunscreen. Replaced moisturizer and any other face creams with SPF years ago, and my skin loves me for it. Supple, dewy, less spots (maskne excluded) and the extra bonus of a sense of accomplishment, of doing something good for myself.
Dresses. I hesitated, but dresses are really the way to go. I have summer and autumn ones, and I am covered also with thick tights / thermals and jumpers for winter. Absolutely no comparison with pants.
Microfibre towels. Took almost all of the edge off from washing hair, you leave it in there and it dries almost completely without your head going cold.
Haircutting scissors. Combined with tutorials, they saved me from the nightmare of salon visits and I shall remain grateful forever!
Neck pillow. For traveling and camping. Game changer.
A large power bank. One that I did not have to charge often.
All of the hobby subscriptions. It was a lot of money, but I do not regret anything, I danced and worked out with people from the caribbean to south korea, amazing experiences.
Bike. Sustainable, workout and so much fun!
And last but not least... hair bows, rings and earrings. I avoided having them as I deemed them 'unnecessary clutter' for a lot of years, but I realized they do make me feel more like myself, and cheer me up, so I am quite happy to have a little collection now.
I think my best purchase so far in my twenties has been my big wool coat, it was second hand, it’s sooo warm and comes down to my knees so I don’t get a cold bum sitting on benches and it’s a mans jacket so it has HUGE pockets. So practical!
I love huge coats, I have a big tweed coat that goes down past my knees that I adore
I'm not in my twenties but I've been at uni for about a year and a half and I have to say the best purchase I made before coming to uni was a dimmable lamp. I use it pretty much everyday and its something I will have until it literally breaks. I hate overhead lighting so being able to have the option of a brightlight but also a super dim one is so incredibly helpful. Honestly everyone should get one.
These videos fill the older sibling shaped hole in my heart I love them
Yes to all of these! I will also add paying to go to the dentist. Definitely do not regretting buying my teeth grinding guard even though I really resented spending the money at the time
Yes! I agree with you. As a child, I had a terrible and frightening dentist, so I resented going there for a long time. Just before a long trip to Mongolia, the general advice was to go and get my teeth checked (which I hadn't done on years due to that dentist). I hated the effort and the money, but how did I need it and how does life taste better now ^^ I can finally enjoy ice cream properly.
So sad to hear about people having such budget issues
I absolutely adore my Bluetooth headphones too! I have the Sennheiser 350BT. The battery life is insane and they're shockingly durable for the price range (I have a habit of destroying electronics). I definitely recommend them.
I know you put furniture on your regret list, but personally one of my favorite purchases of my 20's is a fairly pricy and ridiculously comfortable couch. Taking afternoon naps on it while snuggling with my cat is literally one of my favorite things in the world and it brings me so much peace.
Seconded! I've had the Sennheiser HD 450NT for 3 years and use them all the time. I haven't noticed any diminished battery life (which is already super long). Like T M I also huck mine around everywhere and they've stood up to the challenge. The only thing I've noticed is that the ear pads have opened at the seams recently (same for my friend who has had the same headphones for the same amount of time), but they're easily replaceable. In fact, Sennheiser includes instructions on how to replace them (we love not encouraging planned obsolescence).
@@alexsetchell5148 omg I love the fact that Sennheiser ear cuffs can be replaced. I've had another pair for 10+ years that have had 3 sets of cuffs. They're definitely my go-to for sound tech. Lovely to meet another Sennheiser fan in the wild!
I love these headphones though I can’t agree about their durability, since I’m now on the 4th pair .( 2 broke, lost 1)
But They’re amazing for noise isolation ( without the noise cancellation tech which can be weird).
This I’m so glad I bought in my 20s (in no particular order):
Rice cooker
Dutch Oven
Wet brand hair brush
Menstrual cup
Extra thick hair ties/elastics
Shirts with UPF built in (I live in FL and need all the sun protection basically all the time)
Fluoride rich mouthwash
Espresso machine and bean grinder
Vanilla beans to make my own homemade vanilla coffee syrup and stop buying flavored coffee creamer
Nintendo Switch with ACNH and Pokémon Sword
Stardew Valley
I’m sure there’s more but these have been huge for me. Happy responsible shopping everyone! 💖
I enjoy cooking supplies a lot
wow now i wanna buy vanilla beans
@@qtbaba Got my recipe for homemade vanilla coffee syrup from the blog "My Baking Addiction" if you want to give it a shot
This is so funny to me because mine are mostly furniture. I’m in the US and a car heavy Midwest city so buying thrifted furniture that was good quality when I found it has now made me able to furnish my house. Otherwise it’s my fancy cook pans and cast iron (it was inherited not bought though)
Same! I bought a $100 Craigslist couch when I moved to where I am now 5 years ago; I am about to buy a $300 Craigslist couch, so we're moving on up! Haha
1. thermal leggins is something i wear daily during the colder half of the year! they come into my wardrobe sometime in october and go into hibernation again sometime in march. once i realized how nice it is to stay warm i regret not realizing earlier. ALSO the benefit of wool is that it stays warm even when wet/damp. meaning sweating in it doesn't mean you'll get cold which can be a game changer especially for woolen socks!!
2. my aunt is retired and she also doesn't have a handbag. she has a backpack. so honestly i want us all to forget "age-appropriate" when choosing what bags we want to use. whatever works for you works
3. the thing i'm most happy with purchasing (apart from the noise-cancelling headphones that everyone seems to agree upon) is an armchair and a reading lamp. not too big so not too hard to move but made aaaall the difference when i couldn't have a couch but needed a comfy place that wasn't my bed. i've spent countless hours reading for uni or relaxing with a book or a show (or youtube vids tbh) in it so it's been worth every penny!
Best thing I’ve bought is a water flosser (it’s a handheld device that shoots out little jets of water)! Flossing my teeth with dental floss was such a hassle that I’d only do it like once a month but now I do it every day
I would add a proper espresso machine/coffee maker (not one with pods!!) if coffee is your jam. I recently got a rather expensive espresso maker on Black Friday after eyeing it for many years, and when I actually crunched the numbers it paid for itself in about 8 months. I didn't realize how much I was spending on getting coffee out until I actually did the math, and now I'm mad I didn't invest sooner
Yesss buying coffee out is actually a joke when you do the numbers isn't it? £3 for some hot water over a couple grams of beans!? No thank you 😂
I agree. I'm 22 and I paid 150 euro about 2 years ago. It's a bit of money but I use it every day and I'm so grateful I own it
I bought a cold brew maker jug and I'll put it in a metal drink bottle the morning after I've made it so I have lovely iced coffee. Best $12 purchase for me.
Also a pour over set up will make pretty good coffee if an espresso machine isn't in the cards yet
I’ve never regretted money I spent travelling to other countries. I think coming from a small island nation, travel is important to broaden your horizons so you meet people with different experiences to you! I’m also really grateful that I didn’t put it off till I had more money, because the pandy would have royally f***ed it up for me if had!
Yes!
A wearable blanket is amazing for cold accommodation, definitely a step up from regular blankets/hot water bottles.
On top of that: Decent pillows, thick towels, a good flask, and good kitchen knives
A wheelie shopping bag, which I lovingly refer to as my granny bag! Can do near wnough to a month's worth of shopping in one go and walk home it's been an absolute life saver especially as someone who deals with chronic pain & fatigue it's saved my back and my bank balance from having to make weekly shops ^^
I recommend one of those aqua vacuums! It's basically a small handheld hoover for condensation in places that get wet, usually the bathroom (can be used on mirrors, shower walls, bath edges, windows) Once you've sucked up all the water you pour it away and voila! Has prevented our bathroom from going moldy for years :)
As a Scandinavian we use a lot of fjellraven and I would recommend the one for laptops as it has extra padding and a pocket for a laptop which also helps the rest of the bag keep its shape. 😊
Yes! I have that one and love it!
And the padding safes your back.
My grandma managed to fall onto a object in her backpack while ice skating and hurt her self by the sharp impact
I've had my menstrual cup for five years now and seriously, it changed my life for the better. When I first heard about menstrual cups, I found the idea really weird and kind of off-putting, but when I tried it, I immediately loved it and got used to it super quickly. I know this doesn't work for everyone who menstruates, but I whole heartedly recommend at least thinking about getting one!
100% agree about the mattress! It affects your sleep and body so it was a super important purchase for me. Also a computer that worked for me and all the software I needed for work and school.
Love the video, as usual! New headphones: maybe look second-hand, but unused? There are so many, who get gifted tech they never use. That's how I buy 90 % of my stuff, not only sustainable- but of course also a money-saver.
Yes! Or refurbished, especially by the original seller/brand. Then it’s been used but the brand is worried about selling you a product that stinks. This is according to my professional photographer dad who told me that the average user of a camera should get refurbished not new.
BLACK OUT CURTAINS - rented accommodation sometimes have semi transparent or short curtains leaving light coming through, black out curtains only cost up to £20 and make you sleep (and lie in!) so much easier!
Yes! It's also so nice to be able to block out all light if you get migraines
I love this series! I hope you'll continue this with a Thirties Toolkit? Still need big sister Leena when I turn thirty later this year 🥲
Basic sewing supplies. As in, needles and a decent selection of thread.
A tea strainer.
Good hiking boots, unless you really hate hiking.
A decent knife that's going to hold an edge for a while, and then you can get it resharpened, or do it yourself.
Def agree with the menstrual cup.
A pillow that doesn't hurt your neck.
I second a good thermos! I've used mine to bring tea to work, lectures and study halls for almost a decade now and it makes everyday life so much comfier. Also it has probably saved me a lot of money on tea and coffees which are (as everything else) quite expensive here in Norway.
All my other favourite stuff I have accumulated through my twenties by picking up some here and there every time I moved: Do you still want that drying rack? Are you attached to that plant, cause I am! Do you need that heater? - I COMPLETELY understand where you are coming from regarding furniture, it's a lot to move around. But now that I have bought a place and will stay here for a while, it is really nice to be surrounded with objects from my whole moving journey.
My best purchases have been in the active wear/ running shoes/ running headphones category, running directly improves my physical and mental health and anything that lessens the pain/inconvenience and increases enjoyment for exercise is a great investment. Eg, paying the extra fiver for phone pockets in yoga pants, wireless waterproof headphones, no adds Spotify, and getting running shoes that fit my foot/leg/body type have made it easier to run and sooooo much cheaper than a gym membership
Best purchase - Smart lightbulbs!! It makes my home so cozy to be able to change the light color according to my mood, season, each room, etc and it never gets boring. You can put them in your existing light fixtures, so you don’t need to buy new lamps. I don’t need fluorescent lightbulb negativity in my life 😄
I agree with the Gumption club member that said the heated clothes dryer, it's a game changer for flat renters!
Thanks for the video! I’m in my 30s (bye bye railcard) and just got the ‘two together’ railcard for long train trips with my partner. Game changer tbh.
Also I don’t know why it never occurred to me to buy rucksacks on Depop?? The doc martens one does look super smart!
1.Depiller tool to make my clothes last longer
2. High quality materials for the hobbies I actually do, makes me so much more inclined to do them
3. Shoes that are actually comfortable!
4. Travel when that was a thing😭
I second the depiller/fabric shaver! A crucial tool for a journey towards sustainable fashion. It's incredible how many sweaters -- and even linens/blankets -- I've saved. In the past I would've just gotten rid of them for being "worn out" but now they literally look and feel brand new.
Some other purchases for me was good quality Pyrex glass tupperwear that can also be used as mixing bowls too, period underwear, leather care items to keep shoes and bags looking their best and a good quality feather duvet.
Some of these were gifts but best products I acquired in my 20s were: a really good travel backpack that fits well, good quality pillow and comforter, period underwear, long underwear made of wool blend, comfortable shoes I like and wear every day, a good bicycle that I love to ride, a good quality coat.
I really like how flexible you are with the patreon tiers! I love supporting my fav creators but I’m poor and it can be so hard when there’s a set rate that’s not affordable for everyone.
Thanks for always appreciating us and making fab content! 💕
My lil sister is a kitchen genius and she has introduced me to wholegrain mustard. Add a small amount to pasta sauce/ratatouille/anything and it cranks it up level and I'm not much of a mustard fan
Really love this topic. Coming in firstly to recommend Uniqlo thermals (also their body warmer that fits into a tiny bag - perfect for the British pub garden). Things I've loved and regularly feel really grateful for - soup maker, metal double-lined french press, period pants, electric blanket, Bluetooth headphones, linen bedding and lastly a decent battery pack for phone charging.
Love the video - and yes omg glasses are so expensive but so important. To be honest even when I was under 18 the NHS vouchers didn't cover the full cost of my complex prescription, I remember begging my mum as a kid not to spend any money on presents for me at my birthday or Christmas because my glasses were so expensive already. I will say in my 20s I changed opticians from the main high street chains to the local small store that all the pensioners go to and have never regretted it - the optician was a hospital specialist who also did shifts there and the prices were still expensive but far more reasonable! (I says, having recently shelled out for new normal and sunglasses to the tune of a month's wages...)
Things I don't regret buying:
A master's degree (via distance learning)
A mortgage (I know crazy right? , but believe me it was only my savings from work that got it for us and the fact I live in the North and it got me and my mum out of an intolerable living situation with an evil neigbbour)
A WiFi extender this was a game changer!
you can buy replacement ear pads for headphones when the leather bits peel away! i have replaced them on my over-ear headphones twice and feel so savvy and sustainable every time
moot if the headphones themselves are at the end of their life, but if it's just an aesthetic, don't want shards of leather falling around the home concern, there is a solution at least
Just on the spice train, a twenties food hack I've learned is 🌟Seasoning🌟 Your 🌟Toast 🌟
Want garlic bread but don't have any in / you're vegan and it's hard to find? Garlic granules on buttered toast. *chefs kiss* actually scratch that! *chefs snog*
I've been thinking about getting prescription sunglasses for about 5 years and just needed that little push of validation to tell me it's worth the splurge
I would like to add: propper hair pins of good quality (if you use that for your hair). I found out about them on a vintage hair course (which was a great investment as well if that is your thing). The difference is incredible!
Sounds silly but my sandwich press. I use it for SO MUCH. I'll cook nuggets on it, eggs, burritos, wraps, sweet potato and potato slices, toast, reheat pizza on it, literally anything that can be fried or toasted, works on the press. I LOVE IT!
For me it's definitely period underwear, my sweet shelter dog, and a nice kitchen knife! I literally only have one kitchen knife and it does pretty much everything I need. And my puppy has been a miracle for my mental health.
Some of the best things I bought in my twenties:
- A u-shaped pillow that hugs my torso and a weighted blanket. Those two were complete game changers for me and I wish I would have switched to them about ten years ago! Those two together feel super comfy, like my bed is hugging me. With them I sleep so much better, am more relaxed, and have less neck and back pain. I will never go back to a regular pillow and blanket!
- Fairy lights that give off a warm, yellow-y light. I hung them over my bed and they make my little apartment so much more cosy.
- A floor-length black coat with a gigantic hood and corset lacing in the back.
I always yearn for the day it’s eventually cold enough to wear it again. It makes me feel like a witch queen straight out of a dark fairytale, like I’m invincible, and can conquer the world in it. It just adds a little magic to my everyday life.
- Hiking boots. I’m not the most sure-footed person and having a pair of well-fitted, comfortable sturdy shoes actually gave me the courage to go out and explore more uneven territory without constantly fearing I’ll end up with a pulled or even torn ligament.
- Concert tickets. Some of my happiest moments and most precious memories are tied to concert trips and they are the reason I got to know some of my closest friends.
Where did you get your coat from?
@@veronicaortolan7826 I got it from EMP.
I also nearly exclusively use backpacks, and I found one that doubles as a crossbody bag (nice in crowded spaces etc) - i have not looked back! (Brand is German, Sperling bags, if anyone is interested! 😊)
Yesss so excited for this video idea! Also the gumption club thread of these on fb was so helpful to me 😊 My best purchase has definitely been a dehumidifier for damp, cold rental properties!! Hope you all have a good start to your week 💞
Yes! Love my dehumidifier! Cheaper to run than a heated clothes rack but can also dry your clothes quicker in a damp flat
Being 27 and having all of these things makes me feel like I'm winning the 20s game for once 😆 But rather than a pot lid with a built-in colander, I have a clip-on colander that you can attach to ANY pot and it's absolutely brilliant. Another couple of favorite purchases are my Dyson stick vacuum and Tushy bidet.
Also, speaking of tactile objects that make you happy, my baby elephant-shaped watering can has to be one of my personal favorite buys of all time!
"new meaning to the word pansexual' LOL my sister just sent in her pot with a colander after 2 decades because WARRANTY--can you imagine?
It’s so interesting!! I’m 28 and I agree with you 100%! Warm jacket, good pack pack, my pocketbook e-reader, clothing that actually works for me and I like!!!!! And good tech that actually works and helps me with my job and my daily life!! (Nose cancelling headphones 😍)
100% agree on the ANC headphones. I bought myself a nice pair from Bose a couple of years ago and they truly help so much with public transport, loud neighbors, social anxiety in public, getting out and enjoying long walks, keeping calm and focused while studying and you can listen to your favourite band or book while hoovering your place or cleaning like you mentioned
A phone with a good camera, if you enjoy photography and/or are the designated photographer at loved ones' events, but aren't interested in or cannot buy a proper camera. I've bought 2 or 3 cellphones throughout my 20's and for all I've put more money because of the good quality camera and they have served me extremely well (I've been lucky and have taken care of them so they last as long as possible). Not getting into the "get the newer version" frenzy is also super important (also if you do, you will never win, and will always chase unsatisfaction 🧙♀️).
along the lines of spending on things you actually use often - one thing I have found is so worth splurging on for me is nice pajamas. you wear them every night! and only have like 3 sets, so the cost per wear is going to be very good
Headphones recommendation: the house of Marley. They use metal and wood where they can, and it's a black owned business. I LOVE mine
This is such a fun video!! I would agree with the Bluetooth headphones, decent shoes (although I went for Timberland), and period products that work for you (I'm a period pants girl).
But also I would say my decent food processor (I use it every day), the low turtle necks that I bought in four different colours and wear constantly throughout the winter and at work, splurging on glasses I like and actually enjoy wearing (and having more than one pair so I can mix and match).
And then the final one is a bit extravagant and expensive but I think completely worth it, and that is investing in a decent desktop computer. I was at a point where my laptop had reached the end of its life, and so had my ancient Xbox 360. I was frustrated at so much of the waste that comes with electronics and so I built myself a PC from scratch that was good enough for gaming and everything I used to use my laptop for and I love it. Plus if part of it breaks or becomes outdated, I can replace that part instead of the whole thing, which I feel is way less wasteful!
Decent shoes! You are so right. I am so picky about shoes and they can be so expensive but literal game changer. When I was starting out in college I didn't have a car or a bike and I hadn't figured out the bus yet, so I just walked *everywhere*. Getting a good pair of hiking boots was key. Last year I got a job working outside and I had to buy safety toe boots. The ones I got were so expensive but totally worth it: they are waterproof, have a good tread, and support my ankles. Every time I tripped or stepped in mud I thought to myself "I'm so glad I bought these boots!"
3 things I can think of off the top of my head: a humidifier (I live in a very cold and dry climate and I have eczema), a cover for my steering wheel (again, helps with the cold) and a bidet. Definitely agree on the menstrual cup and would add period panties.
I'd add a good pillow to the list. Especially when you think about throwing out multiple flattened ones
I second an ereader. My Kobo is nearly 10 years old, so it doesn't have the backlight that newer models have, but it's such a comfort to read "heavy" books without the weight. I mostly read in bed, burried under the covers, and I only need one hand to hold my device/turn the page, which is marvelous for the ice cube that I am. And nowadays, you can subscribe monthly for ebooks instead of buying individual titles.
Electric kettle… if you drink tea in the morning it is so much better than microwaving the water (plus then you can microwave breakfast while you make tea)
Also switch to cushion inserts (Ikea has some good ones) and covers, it makes it easy to have a rotation of things going on so you can have “new” looks without shopping
A great upgrade for the fjallraven is the shoulder pads! They’re pricy but worth it (coming from a fellow elderly person in her 30s 😅), or look for the 13” laptop model (not much bigger than the standard one and has padded shoulder straps as well as a separate laptop compartment).
"I don't- I wear dusters, but I don't dust" made me laugh out loud!
I’m so glad you spoke about bluetooth headphones as the first thing, because I didn’t get to comment in time when you asked The Gumption Club! That and a menstrual cup, yesss!
Also, I’m probably a bit opposite Leena here, because I regretted not buying durable furniture that I’d love. My interiors were so bland and life sucking when I lived in dorms. Invest in your surroundings is my advice. I enjoy my home so much more now it’s well-decorated in my style and with plants (instead of with the lightest, cheapest stuff from Ikea which was always white). Can be done secondhand!
Something I definitely could have regretted but absolutely don't is the smart wool winter coat I asked for for my 18th. I've had it through 5 winters now and absolutely love it. It's smart enough for formal events but not too smart that I can't wear for everyday use as well. I think finding a good coat can be as important as finding a good pair of shoes.
Mine are band merch, souvenirs on trips, a memory foam mattress, a side table that has built in charging ports, a lift top coffee table, a quality coffee machine and coffee grounds or teas and your favorite flavorings or milks (I don’t have a need to visit coffee shops much anymore), hair cutting scissors, and my own nail polish/gel nail kit. I really value furniture with double purposes, some objects with sentimental value that are either DIY fun or bringing art into your home, and being able to get an expensive or luxury experience/product done for cheap at home.
It’s a bit difficult to remember my twenties, actually…. I agree with all you mentioned for sure. One thing I do not regret though is holding onto pieces that have passed down through my family. I have a huge board table that weighs so dang much and I’ve taken it everywhere- much to my husbands dismay. I tend to not regret quality furniture purchases. I love old heavy as heck furniture. My back doesn’t but what can I say- we bought a furniture dolly. 😅
Recently I bought a fountain pen and I'm loving it. It doesn't make my hand cramp when I write the same way that ballpoint pens always have and my handwriting is nicer. It actually makes me want to write in my journal which helps with my overall anxiety.
Omg I'm laughing over the Fjallraven part! I also side-eyed the brand for years like do I wanna be one of *those* students lol but after blasting thru 3 backpacks in 2 years, which got holes from daily wear, I finally caved and have had my Fjallraven going on 4 years now! The best part about it is it buckles to close so I'm less concerned abt ppl stealing from it on public transport
I inhereted a cast iron pan from my grandma and I use it every day, it works so well, isn't coated in Teflon that flakes off and can already tell it will last forever!
Yesss for the noise cancelling headphones!! Once the pastrami started I thought the noise around my apartment was going to drive me insane until I got a pair. Now I do everything with them. Another equivalent to the mug point: socks! Fun socks that make you somewhat happier to get dressed for the day.
I had a beautiful messenger bag through 6th form and uni. Loved it to bits. My spine's still bent.
Fjallraven Kanken baggie all the way now!!
Best thing I spent my money on was a month long course in Reykjavik. Very expensive but has changed my whole life path
A really good vacuum cleaner. Makes vacuuming so satisfying.
Everytime I see this jumper, I want it! I have two in my depop saves 😅 Enjoying this!
I just turned 20 last week 😄might rewatch some of the twenties toolkits!
1. Smart home enabled outlets!!! Total game changer. And a smart home device to control them with. I plug in all my lamps, string lights, etc. and then I don't have to get out of bed at night to turn them all off, just ask whats-her-face to do it :)
2. Nail polish - or whatever small luxury that you use a lot and brings you joy; could be something like art supplies or makeup. I probably have more than I "need", but I use it all the time and it makes me so happy to have so many different colors and options to choose from when I paint my nails every week (and it doesn't take up much space anyways)
Relating to the spicerack fandom: smoked paprika for president!
omg yes my roommate got me a spice rack for my birthday and its my most prized possession nothing makes you feel more Adult than that lol
@@StrawberryBats67 haha yesss... congrats on this adult benchmark!
A notion about Kånken - if you end up with rips or tears, throw Fjällräven an email and ask if they have fabrics for you to use patch. I've had my Kånken Big since 2010...? I use it pretty much every single day, for daily commutes, day hikes, groceries, you know the deal. It's been machine washed against good advice and the bottom of it has been torn out and patched. I emailed them for fabric and they sent me about a square meter matched to my bag.