Bonkers bonking: three stories of strange sex | Alix Fox | TEDxEastEnd

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  • @racheldavis2582
    @racheldavis2582 Рік тому +2

    Awe her little speech at the end got me in tears!

  • @wolf1066
    @wolf1066 4 роки тому +26

    Put this one on the Required Viewing list for all people.
    Excellent, witty, clever and a great message.

  • @leratomotlhakane2629
    @leratomotlhakane2629 3 роки тому +2

    I respect people who dress up in a correct manner when giving talks. You look absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for sharing. It was so educational, funny, motivating and inspirational.

  • @hipocampelofantocame
    @hipocampelofantocame 4 роки тому +43

    I am an old and long retired physician, and just learned a huge amount. It won't help
    me, but it's good to know.

    • @avelinomike
      @avelinomike 4 роки тому +5

      I too, found it informative. I actually came across this on autoplay while I was on a different tab.

  • @TheEroticMovieReview
    @TheEroticMovieReview 7 років тому +23

    Alix is a great speaker, love her podcasts, hope I'm seen in the same regard one day

  • @davidschmidt6013
    @davidschmidt6013 3 роки тому +6

    I love when a lady freely speaks about "lady parts"...with humor, insight, very carefully disguised research-acquired intelligence, and, most of all, genuine love. Never heard of this lady before, but she's great!

  • @karindowne9209
    @karindowne9209 7 років тому +52

    Loved it. So nice to hear sexuality and sex , even so called 'weird' sex (hmm, frozen worms), talked about in a way that is not smutty or judgemental , but shows that we all as individuals should enjoy it in a way that suits us, not other people's perceptions and expectations of what is acceptable or 'normal' . Bravo Alix, keep on keeping on educating .

    • @thohangst
      @thohangst 2 роки тому

      Let's all go ahead and judge worm guy. Get him some help.

  • @sabrinnamena9607
    @sabrinnamena9607 4 роки тому +12

    this is one of the most underrated tedx talks I've seen

  • @JudithJongewaard
    @JudithJongewaard 4 роки тому +49

    I'm impressed with your talk. My grandmother had 2 complete sets of female organs. At least 1 of her 11 kids did also. Write a book, I'll buy it!

    • @e.priest8937
      @e.priest8937 4 роки тому +2

      I also have a friend who has 2 vaginas.

    • @gagslovedotcom
      @gagslovedotcom 4 роки тому +2

      Wait, so she could have kids normally?? I would have guessed this would hamper child-bearing capabilities.

    • @UndergroundPrimate
      @UndergroundPrimate 4 роки тому

      Where would I find a girl with two vaginas?

  • @tobymaltby6036
    @tobymaltby6036 4 роки тому +38

    4:50 - Hubert left no stone unturned when it came to getting his rocks off...
    ...
    literally.

  • @verycaring2387
    @verycaring2387 2 роки тому

    That was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you‼️💗🎶🙃

  • @satyrenkidu8721
    @satyrenkidu8721 4 роки тому +46

    Dear Ms. Fox, Although this lecture was posted three + years ago, it came to my attention only today, so I 1) have no idea whether you'll read this note, and 2) wish I wasn't posting this note to you in such a public forum. Many years ago, during my late teens and early twenties, and once in my thirties, I, too, had the experience - like your client, "Harriet," of having "visions" during orgasm. While I have mentioned this on rare occasions to others, mostly therapists, I've never felt those experiences were taken seriously, and so I learned not to talk about them-except to allow those experiences to seep into my writing (I compose both poetry and fiction). Your lecture is the first and-with one exception-only confirmation I've ever received that I'm not alone. With my first "real" girlfriend, in college, it was most common, just a year or two later, with my first wife, it happened only once, but in a most life-affecting way; since then, the only like experience was with another woman, who was my neighbor, but never my lover (to my great regret!). I have never heard of synaesthesia until today, except as connected to hallucinogens, but I do have two distinct memories from childhood of striking my head so hard I was "out" for a few minutes-barrelling head-first into a tree on a sled I'd lost control of, and being tripped by another boy in gym class, so that I struck, head-first, a huge iron beam that supported the gym roof. Until this lecture, I had never regarded those experiences as having a physiological cause behind them; rather, I've always tended to attribute those experiences to some sort of "tapping in" or "opening" to the Jungian collective unconscious, most particularly the anima. Now that I am 60, those experiences are well behind me, but I honestly miss them. And I've never felt the intensity or purity of love with any woman since that "ability" or "condition" left me. But it means something important to learn that I am not alone, and I hope you will read this, because I thank you.

  • @carlosmoura2235
    @carlosmoura2235 4 роки тому +11

    Easily one of the most entertaining TED talks ever! Thank you Ms Fox!

  • @juneelle370
    @juneelle370 3 роки тому +3

    Holy sh**... I had “synesthesia” after brain injury in military and then very intensely during a long illness. I reported it to doctors and they acted like they didn’t have any idea what I was talking about.... so I stopped talking about it. It was awful but eventually went away. It was where certain common sounds triggered the horrible feeling you get in your brain when there’s screeching on a chalkboard. I got it with the slightest of sounds like socks on carpet. So glad it’s gone because from what she’s saying, for some people it sticks around.

  • @doncarrleon
    @doncarrleon 4 роки тому

    Captivating visuals, intriguing, informative and well delivered talk. I truly enjoyed it and feel smarter for having watched it.

  • @Dizzy_Lulu
    @Dizzy_Lulu 2 роки тому

    I DO NOT regret watching this video 🎉

  • @samray397
    @samray397 4 роки тому +1

    What an eye-opener, ear-popping Presentation! I needed that to stretch open my human knowledge!

  • @Yosetime
    @Yosetime 4 роки тому +6

    That was by far the most unexpected and oddest Ted Talk I've heard to date. Well done! When human behaviour is stranger than fiction, then we are just perfect! I will, of course, be forever empathetic towards earthworms though!! Poor little guys!

  • @jeffgraham436
    @jeffgraham436 3 роки тому +2

    God bless her. A voice of sanity. Now how does this dad pass this information on to his two 20 something year old daughters without freaking them out?

  • @PHOTOGRASPER
    @PHOTOGRASPER 4 роки тому +6

    What a great speaker.

  • @Caddy666
    @Caddy666 4 роки тому +49

    This lady is hilarious, and i like that she is dressed like a sci fi villain.

  • @TheCcponyboy
    @TheCcponyboy 7 років тому +5

    As always sheer class and style. I learn more everytime so thank you.X

  • @jeanmorin3247
    @jeanmorin3247 4 роки тому +5

    Wonderful talk! What an eye-opener on human experience. And it's only the tip of the iceberg???

  • @YTEdy
    @YTEdy 4 роки тому +2

    That's a great talk. She should have more views.

  • @RaivoltG
    @RaivoltG 4 роки тому +3

    Great talk and message! She managed to loosen up the audience. They were a bit stuffy in the beginning! Great job!!

  • @dallassukerkin6878
    @dallassukerkin6878 4 роки тому +3

    What a splendid conclusion :applause:.

  • @mysticsparkles6145
    @mysticsparkles6145 4 роки тому +24

    I'm not sure super fetation is the right term, those babies come from the same womb.
    I was pregnant with one in each womb, unfortunately the younger one, younger by almost 4 weeks, didn't make it, I miscarried him. Thankfully his brother is alive and well.

  • @njlauren
    @njlauren 4 роки тому +1

    Synethesia comes about bc all our senses are processed by the brain, what we experience is interpreted by the brain. Some people hearing music see colors with it, for some it can be really really distracting, Oliver Sachs in his book Musicophelia had a garage mechanic who had to constantly listen to heavy metal music bc it was the only music that didn't drive her nuts.
    With S/m play, sensation play, your mind changes what is normally pain into pleasure. Best description I heard of the difference. Pain is going to the bathroom in the middle of the night and stubbing your toe on a doorstop,that pain; sensation play is just that.

  • @mikusguitarius
    @mikusguitarius 7 років тому +12

    Brilliant talk! Great delivery (oo-er, obviously) and so funny! Hopefully we can all go down/up the foxhole again soon 😉😊

  • @adrianemerson2295
    @adrianemerson2295 4 роки тому +3

    Now I'm crushing. Lovely talk. Thank you

  • @dominiccrawfordcollins
    @dominiccrawfordcollins 6 років тому +12

    a brilliantly impassioned speech with a beautiful sentiment as a conclusion

  • @whitchwyman2064
    @whitchwyman2064 3 роки тому

    I love your talk.

  • @langolier9
    @langolier9 3 роки тому +1

    That was the most interesting way I’ve ever learned a life lesson that I already knew but many people need to know I’ve ever heard

  • @ix-Xafra
    @ix-Xafra 4 роки тому +83

    I'm a straight middle-aged guy and even I have to wonder what possessed her to wear those shoes with that dress

    • @tonioshea9870
      @tonioshea9870 4 роки тому +1

      😄😁👍

    • @b.bd00m77
      @b.bd00m77 4 роки тому +11

      I actually kinda like those bold shoes lol

    • @justchaz.
      @justchaz. 4 роки тому +12

      I thought it was a great choice, in or out of keeping with the lesson she was giving. The entire outfit was bold

    • @Hopscotch_24
      @Hopscotch_24 4 роки тому +2

      😂

    • @johncaccioppo1142
      @johncaccioppo1142 4 роки тому +6

      british

  • @howieghana1648
    @howieghana1648 4 роки тому +6

    Well done!!!

  • @Chupilunatico
    @Chupilunatico 4 роки тому +2

    Excellent!!

  • @leslie-tolman
    @leslie-tolman 4 роки тому +3

    Fascinating

  • @naineshjore
    @naineshjore 4 роки тому

    Communication skills 💯👏🏻

  • @kevinrickey3925
    @kevinrickey3925 4 роки тому +3

    good talk...

  • @whitchwyman2064
    @whitchwyman2064 3 роки тому

    Ali’s, so love 💕 your dress. Where can I buy one like your’s?

  • @NLOneOfNone
    @NLOneOfNone 4 роки тому +37

    I always liked how the word fetish sounds like the whipping of a whip. Fffff-tsshhh!

    • @DUDUDISCH
      @DUDUDISCH 2 роки тому +1

      Hahahahah omg true

  • @szarbaba
    @szarbaba 4 роки тому +12

    i wish she would have at least worn red colored shoes - just as an aesthetic choice. Or else, those gloves could be blue?! by the end of the video however.. it grew on me.

    • @dbmail545
      @dbmail545 4 роки тому +1

      Almost any color would have been than powder blue. She looks like she was dressed by someone who hated her.

    • @omstout
      @omstout 3 роки тому

      Red shoes; she would melt into stage. Maybe Canary Yellow or Yum Yum Yellow would have worked?

  • @balticstain7150
    @balticstain7150 4 роки тому +3

    A most interesting talk and how society would like us too live within it's boundaries and not diverse from that and we supposed too be happy with that !!

  • @kayem3824
    @kayem3824 4 роки тому +22

    Hubert had too much time on his hands.

    • @bezerkar5365
      @bezerkar5365 4 роки тому +3

      No.... he had gloves on his hands full of nettles.

    • @MarkGregoryatBoH
      @MarkGregoryatBoH 4 роки тому +5

      Thyme

    • @okdk7
      @okdk7 4 роки тому +1

      @@MarkGregoryatBoH lol ;)

  • @kennethatkins9250
    @kennethatkins9250 4 роки тому +2

    Well Said

  • @conniearias9763
    @conniearias9763 4 роки тому +5

    Very interesting.

  • @sofiedouglas757
    @sofiedouglas757 4 роки тому +3

    love the audience straight face to laugh!

  • @avrevs
    @avrevs 4 роки тому +12

    so hazel has two periods... im so sorry for her!

    • @holeshothunter5544
      @holeshothunter5544 4 роки тому +1

      What Hazel really need is 2 guys with open minds. long narrow cocks, and access to a strong bed.
      It would be a whole different kind of 3 way. With attention to timing, I bet it could be done.

  • @jeffreyoneill6439
    @jeffreyoneill6439 4 роки тому +7

    In my world making love, to one you love, to me is not bonking.

    • @MattOGormanSmith
      @MattOGormanSmith 4 роки тому +5

      Keep practising >:)

    • @juneelle370
      @juneelle370 3 роки тому

      Agree... it requires a much more special word than that.

    • @jeffreyoneill6439
      @jeffreyoneill6439 3 роки тому

      @@juneelle370 thank you for a bit of support. My wife would agree, I will show her.

  • @jimbidwell2594
    @jimbidwell2594 4 роки тому +4

    I love her gloves!

  • @Bubbalum
    @Bubbalum 7 років тому +4

    That was awesome. 😊

  • @hkentw
    @hkentw 4 роки тому +4

    When we finally free ourselves of ourselves, will we truly live.

  • @rdlykryk4384
    @rdlykryk4384 4 роки тому +10

    What's with the Michelin tarp ?

    • @arnoldmaraj3827
      @arnoldmaraj3827 4 роки тому

      A lesson on thinking outside the box...go beyond your old obsessions

  • @Eldritchdancer
    @Eldritchdancer 4 роки тому +9

    Hubert sounds like a garden variety masochist. :)

  • @ericworley4361
    @ericworley4361 3 роки тому +1

    What a convenient particular variety of synesthesia this lady has! Many people with synesthesia report that their disorder frequently presents in inconvenient, unpleasant, and unfortunate ways. Some of the most common complaints are of a randomness between the stimulus and the resulting sensation, a mismatch between anomalous sensation and the tone of the situation that gave rise to it, or unpleasant/odd sensations making it difficult to enjoy otherwise pleasant experiences.

  • @shumeister1059
    @shumeister1059 4 роки тому +4

    Hah! Great talk! I think this is an opportunity to build a synesthesia map. I can imagine there's a whole rich language waiting to be mapped out.

  • @avelinomike
    @avelinomike 4 роки тому +2

    very cool.

  • @maokee
    @maokee 3 роки тому

    I'm sad that I don't see any of the things she's talking about. I've got a wife, I've got two wonderful boys. I still miss things things that she is so passionately talking about.

  • @zsaccount999
    @zsaccount999 Рік тому

    I think people like Hazel, who can carry 2 children at the same time that are different ages, should be worshipped. What an incredible body!

  • @sofiedouglas757
    @sofiedouglas757 4 роки тому +3

    jaw dropped to laugh actually

  • @jayfredrickson8632
    @jayfredrickson8632 4 роки тому +3

    I find the superfetation thing hard to believe. Wouldn't the hormones of pregnancy prevent ovulation?

  • @BigSmoke-bu6ib
    @BigSmoke-bu6ib 3 роки тому

    Intellectual progress right here. Humans are going to do great things I'm sure

  • @DavidFMayerPhD
    @DavidFMayerPhD 4 роки тому +3

    The paired uteri are a vestige of humanities evolutionary past. Certain primitive mammals have them as a normal feature today. Marsupials have twin uteri.

  • @brianmorton4989
    @brianmorton4989 4 роки тому +6

    How many people see colours when they close their eyes? I do and use the swirls of colour (usually purple) for self hypnosis. It may be connected to my having Parkinson's disease which is a neurological condition.

    • @PatchouliPenny
      @PatchouliPenny 4 роки тому +1

      No, I've always seen the colours when I close my eyes. I too used it from toddler age to sooth myself to sleep. I can tell the colours to do what I want or ask for more of this colour then the next. An opthalmologist was very fascinated and told me I can actually affect my visual cortex! I also have synesthesia but my youngest has it much stronger

    • @brianmorton4989
      @brianmorton4989 4 роки тому +1

      @@PatchouliPenny I've had the same as long as I can remember, but I have to wait for the purple to show then make it grow. I didn't realise until a short time ago that this wasn't universal. I had a few sessions of hypnotherapy to help with sleeping as it's good for PD. I told the hypnotherapist and she used it during sessions to reinforce the hypno. I use it for self hypno sessions now. She recorded a session I use for self hypno when I feel I need it.

  • @jamistarbrite
    @jamistarbrite 4 роки тому +2

    YEA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well Said !!!

  • @LM-doodle
    @LM-doodle 4 роки тому +4

    Her puns are more painful than her stories.....

  • @umarabdullah5510
    @umarabdullah5510 4 роки тому +3

    I wish I could unhear this

  • @booliens7146
    @booliens7146 4 роки тому +4

    Hubert should start a UA-cam channel and an only fans. He seems like a really cool guy.

    • @fionafiona1146
      @fionafiona1146 4 роки тому

      He wasn't young in the 60s, was he?

    • @booliens7146
      @booliens7146 4 роки тому

      @@fionafiona1146 have you met him?

  • @carolynfranklin1447
    @carolynfranklin1447 3 роки тому

    I need subtitles. I got most of it...

  • @hunzilah
    @hunzilah 3 роки тому

    any tips on how to get synesthesia

  • @matthewbittenbender9191
    @matthewbittenbender9191 4 роки тому +2

    99.99% of orchids do not smell.

  • @davidson46100
    @davidson46100 4 роки тому +3

    Why do TED talk women mostly wear stiletto heals? They look very uncomfortable.

    • @bingo1232
      @bingo1232 4 роки тому +1

      The better to step on me!!!

    • @melissajaimes9010
      @melissajaimes9010 4 роки тому +1

      Good shoes don’t hurt your feet, even if they’re stilettos.

  • @annamaegold
    @annamaegold 3 роки тому

    🔥🔥🔥💖

  • @nandadulalbakshi3121
    @nandadulalbakshi3121 Рік тому

    Get in. Jenefer

  • @jackmaehoph4822
    @jackmaehoph4822 4 роки тому +1

    I heard of getting off on worms up the bum, but never a worm in the wang! Humans are SO weird!

  • @lordtrollalot8707
    @lordtrollalot8707 4 роки тому

    I had this too "created a pea green tower made of building blocks" .. minecraft is awesome !

  • @Pouquiloury
    @Pouquiloury 7 місяців тому

    I see colors when climaxing, psychedelic blobs of pulsating color. Turkois, purple, gold. I am now wondering if I might in fact have some brain damage. I was in a car accident as a baby and I fell down a stone stairs when I was 4 (had a heavy concussion).

  • @rainjar
    @rainjar 5 років тому +8

    Why is this a Ted talk?

    • @makeamericakateagain
      @makeamericakateagain 4 роки тому +1

      My thoughts exactly. 🙄🙄🙄

    • @gerhardvaneeden5615
      @gerhardvaneeden5615 4 роки тому

      Because it's informative? Ideas worth sharing with other curious and like-minded people?

  • @angelsheart85
    @angelsheart85 4 роки тому +2

    Applause, woman!

  • @expressoevangelism80
    @expressoevangelism80 4 роки тому

    As an artist I can empathise with understanding of synergy. I only get it with tastes responding to certain colours, and numbers with weight. I’d love to know how to develop it in some way to such great effect when enjoying my orgasms, but without damaging my brain as some of your clients seem to have done.
    Thank you for the interesting presentation.

  • @rickevans3959
    @rickevans3959 4 роки тому

    ECT works!

  • @ericworley4361
    @ericworley4361 3 роки тому

    Formicaphilia and masochism aren't particularly strongly correlated or comparable whatsoever.

  • @holeshothunter5544
    @holeshothunter5544 4 роки тому +1

    Was that HowArd or How Weird?

  • @okdk7
    @okdk7 4 роки тому +2

    So... animals, corpses , children.... unwilling partners... smh... idk about her last few sentences...

  • @teddyraffudeen7056
    @teddyraffudeen7056 4 роки тому +2

    An extrovert, obviously. With a stage andr audience. I suppose the aim is to engage, inforrm and shock. She has succeeded eloquently in her blue shoes.

  • @doccasca3940
    @doccasca3940 5 років тому +3

    strange

  • @ottobhan725
    @ottobhan725 3 роки тому

    Gees US. I came here with an open mind.

  • @kevinshort3483
    @kevinshort3483 4 роки тому +7

    And Hazel still couldn't give two f**ks :0)

  • @DougKoper
    @DougKoper 4 роки тому +3

    I wonder if she's available for a date.

    • @sean9177
      @sean9177 4 роки тому +2

      Me too. I must Google her and be 1 of a million fans

    • @TinyGiantLifeStyle
      @TinyGiantLifeStyle 4 роки тому +1

      Bring lemon 🍋 oil!

  • @stevenunua2118
    @stevenunua2118 4 роки тому +2

    so how many actually enjoy play with animals?

  • @goodflowh
    @goodflowh 4 роки тому +1

    Would it be dangerous for the lady with having children in different ovaries?

  • @anuroop345
    @anuroop345 4 роки тому +4

    Wow

  • @rchokelal
    @rchokelal 4 роки тому +1

    Wow! How do you get paid for job?

  • @mcoram3486
    @mcoram3486 3 роки тому

    Hi Alix loved your Ted Talk, and you have some pretty toes!

  • @mjhawkins1990
    @mjhawkins1990 4 роки тому +1

    I think i have that olfactory syndrome, when i get laid it smells of ............ success!👍😂

  • @lezliederek
    @lezliederek 4 роки тому

    Trust me I tried to laugh. Pushed myself to 6:50 but ..ok bye

    • @xaviag1
      @xaviag1 4 роки тому

      You got to 6:50? 3:37 was far enough for me.

    • @gerhardvaneeden5615
      @gerhardvaneeden5615 4 роки тому

      @srry im mentally ill u wont get a reply Don't be judgemental, but rather thankful that you are more open minded than them.

  • @chitchatsandfruitbats7541
    @chitchatsandfruitbats7541 4 роки тому +1

    Whoo synesthesia! I was born with mine

  • @anthonyfalante5613
    @anthonyfalante5613 4 роки тому +2

    Why that dress tho?

    • @sofiedouglas757
      @sofiedouglas757 4 роки тому +1

      cos it made you question.. it looks like a nerd comic dominatrix outfit .. suits her!

    • @peterpyke1213
      @peterpyke1213 4 роки тому +2

      why not

    • @PatchouliPenny
      @PatchouliPenny 4 роки тому +1

      Hideous outfit!

    • @amylebeau2490
      @amylebeau2490 3 роки тому

      What does your opinion of her clothes have to do with anything?!?

  • @k2young999
    @k2young999 4 роки тому +1

    (Oct5, 915pm) 🧮 House of Cards
    🌧 🌈

  • @nicholepsaintvil887
    @nicholepsaintvil887 3 роки тому

    Imagine two wombs lord 😦