HOW WOMEN SHOULD SPOT RED FLAGS IN MEN?
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As a guy, if i ever get to the point where I feel the need to cheat on my SO and I didn't work this out with her before it got there, I deserve to lose any respect as a decent human being from everyone I know. Personally, infidelity is not something I feel should be justified in any way.
Yes thank you. I’m tired of the excuses like it makes it ok now. No, because we are adults and should be able to act like one or loose all relationships! It’s just a dirty way to live life.
You are one in a million to admit that. Most men. 99% will cheat, drag their SO's name through the dirt, and blame them whr5its never her fault it is ALWAYS! the cheaters fault. If you're not happy and content, man up and speak up
Tell that to all the women in today’s world. Women are thirsty for attention on Snapchat and Instagram.
@@peggythomas4346women cheat more and hoe around and have BPD
You are beautifull exception i was writing about in other coment.
Sadia once again you have nailed it , this is exactly what happened to me in our relationship, (being a male I completely agree, we need to be asked once in while . Are we ok? Do we need something else ? Are we happy ? I had a very careless wife , who I thought was very attractive, but very frivolous(we only had 1 daughter, I was the sole provider) ,after 25 years . I called it quits … and when I told her all the reasons… she was shocked but still did nothing about it… so now here I am single once more… but with hope in my eyes…🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼I believe you can save many marriages…keep up the great work.God bless.
Did u marry her for her looks or her soul. Men r so visual but after awhile soul is more important.
Duties!!!!! So basically women irrelevant of being tired, overwhelmed, and hormonal etc have a duty to ‘mother’ a guy who can’t communicate and thinks it’s ok to stray! We need to stop seeing our relationship as being duties, we are not stepford wives. And a lot of the time we as women are expected to turn on like light switches and are don’t get our needs met. If we ask we are told we’re nagging. Relationships are two way!
LOVE this video .Yes, “red flags can be tolerated”, now deal breakers is something else . First time cheaters their fault , you forgive yet second time cheat is your fault . Be aware and don’t self sabotage yourself .
3:34 okay so I understand what’s she’s trying to say….However, any healthy adult (woman or man) in a healthy relationship should be able to and feel comfortable to communicate their needs otherwise that relationship is not ever going to work. Because I don’t get how they can justify cheating because they don’t want to “trouble” or hurt the person but then go cheat and hurt them anyways? I just think people sometimes want to avoid difficult conversations and have the easy way out.
Yes. I agree.
Your thoughts if you have the time: I am dating a decent guy who is to what extent he can be "is into me" and wants to have a monogamous relationship. However, he does not have the ability to stop interrupting, talking over me and ask questions to learn my opinion. Is there a way that I can ignore these few annoying habits and appreciate that he is healthy, does not have dangerous habits and affectionate?
@@dlwilliamson5644 hey I’m no expert but have you ever pointed this out to him and how it really hurts you when he does this? If not I would start there. I think it’s always worth fighting for if the person is good 😊. Also does he have ADHD because I do and I use to do this a lot with my fiancé but he just pointed it out multiple times too me and made me more self aware of it and now I’m able to control it way better :). Ofc always give grace no one is perfect and they will/can mess up from time to time.
@@dlwilliamson5644tell him that he does that and to please try to stop it
I totally assume the worst as well! But I had to work on my boundaries.
Um.... How do I fix this? We bonded on grounds that are unacceptable to society. But he healed my broken inner child. The 2 yr old who was molested by her father and grandfather yes the rest of the family knew.... I was shuned, thrown away( CPS). But in healing, loving and supporting me...... He has lost himself. Compared himself to other ppl that I needed for drugs. I now know and accept better in areas of maturity where I knew no better. He has fallen out of love with me. I'm still in love with him and even more. I am stronger, building boundaries back, sitting still and ready for the love we had in the beginning. I'm so afraid it's to late.
Sorry for your childhood😢
I’m so sorry you had to go through that, no one deserved this
Once a cheater always a cheater point blank
Wow, so many points both women provided in this video, glad I took the time to watch and process my reactions to it. This is valuable content that can help many people, men and women alike.
You are such an incredibly intellectual woman. Thank you Sadia. Priceless knowledge.
And I agree… men are not good at communicating. So I understand that part. Thats why as a couple you need to be honest and blunt and not get offended. Some women are uncomfortable when talking about sex and also asking their husbands what they like or dont like and the same for women to say what they like or dont like.
SHOULD YOU TELL MEN YOUR DEAL BREAKERS?? Because I didn't, I gave a slight hint to it, then they failed. So I cut them off.
I think so because you are warning them of your boundary and that there will be a consequence. Boils down to respect whether they listen or not.
Really resonates with me. Stay positive and embrace all these teachings
She forgot that some people cheat for the thrill of it - they may have a great relationship where their needs are met but they cheat because they think they can get away with it and what their partner doesn’t know won’t hurt them.
I love this interviewer! She’s so good.
I am sorry, but I don't like her. She said that men outsource their needs because they don't want to tell their partner what their needs are. Yet, when they have an affair imagine the amount of energy they need to put into keeping the other woman interested?
Not only interested but hide the fact they’re living a double life lol
You don’t like her because you disagree with her on this one point?? Says a lot about your relationships 😂
@@nickyb7266 No, I actually never been cheated on ( not that it shame or anything) I just think that she is more into herself than helping people. Cheating is a choice and she describes a men that chose to talk to a strangers rather than their wifes.
It happens all the time. You’d be surprised the amount of energy men will put into this when they are feeling unwanted or just want the change of a new woman.
I actually love her 😂😂
I believe a grown up man will talk to his wife about his needs. I also believe that a grown up woman will not forget his needs after she’s became a mother. They will meet each other half way through. She doesn’t need to mother him asking him if he’s misses sex or wants or because she will be aware of it. They will talk to each other. End of.
Pick your suffering? What a sad episode
Ok agreed that’s the way Men operate. Then the same applies to women she should be able to cheat and the Man needs to forgive and forget about the whole affair
Just be real people cheat because of their elevated sense of self ... EGO.
wheather someone handles their emotions in a disordered fashion has very little if anything to with their partner.
And thrn from there working on those red flags with one another or pointing them out as friends befpre hand but everyone has theor desires wether they admit it or not.
I have the same red flag: i'm so worried my partner is going to leave me so i push him away - self-fulfilling prophecy lol.
We all have needs men and women so I won’t accept a poor excuse like that to justify his lack of respect and compromise for me and the relationship.
Lisa, at 1:28
That is NOT a brilliant way of breaking it down.
She just illustrated the mental gymnastics men use to excuse their bad behavior.
Why do we try to put all these labels on cheating? Men will cheat, women will cheat. End of story. It takes discipline not to stray or a feeling that the person you are with is so high value it isn’t worth it (hence why men tend to remain committed to the younger wife they marry in their old age). Life is hard and unfortunately we are not entitled to anyone’s enduring love even if we read a couple of lines before our family and friends.
Gosh this women is very smart, is not that I don’t like this kind of women is that I don’t trust them cause in a second they know what is going on with you in your life if your a man that is
I’m the wife and actually Im the one that has to remind my husband that I need more sex and I tell him if its boring. Communication is key and we have kids but I am the more sexual one in the relationship. He should be more worried but he ends up being clueless.
you gotta telle heim hiw good it makes you feel to have more sex ! easy as that . because men are simple and clear so maybe if u suggest him how often you want it and you then aske for him to make more time for you , and when he does it one time you appreciate him and thank him , this way works with men ! I wish the best for for u
As much as she is trying to help - her advice only applies to couples that live the traditional roles. Why is she claiming a mother is preoccupied with the children and the man goes to football? It is a mutual responsibility and it is exactly because of this kind of point of view and these traditional roles that women are exhausted, depleted, feel left alone and if your cup is empty you cannot fill someone else's cup. A man first has to attend to a woman's emotional and romantic needs before making a list of expectations. Justifying affairs in this way is just confirming men in their wrongdoing and ignorance. I think it is sad that we give platforms to women like this and devalue ourselves as women in this way. It is like saying: "Well she cheated because she found a man that earns more money and spends more money on her and is a better provider so it is justified and understandable"
She refers to traditional roles because she lives in the Middle East in Dubai . Culture impacts one’s perspective . What makes me uneasy about her perspective is that she mentions that she has a massive fear of abandonment and that fear makes her keep her man in check and prevents him from cheating . That is toxic behaviour in itself . Controlling another person is fear based and leads to codependency
Men this women talks is very very smart I am too but thing is my smart goes down litttle by little and her smart stay the same because I’m not experience enough about adult situations
So either they are committed, or "self absorbed" and incapable of practicing reciprocity means: HE CAN ALWAYS dress up as a victim and cheat due to X, Y, Z... HE doesn't meet her needs... How about she gets her needs met elsewhere... And "it's not personal either"...👺 Congrats let's hope your SO "MODERN AND DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL" philosophy ends up in a "a lifelong relationship OF commitment, kindness, reciprocity"... Again please don't take it personal!! 🤗👺No wonder you assume the worst!! 👺🤗
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Many women first spot the men with red flags lol
This beautiful.
Woman has been duped by all men.😂
Women can also love their husbands and still cheat.
No
@@carlel121 Yes. They 100% can. I've been on both sides of this ;)
@@carlel121 you’re wrong. Prove otherwise
@@isolafitness they don’t love them they need them, it’s different!
@@carlel121 and from what anecdotal point of view are you deriving this from?
Lol she is funny
Sickening
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YEP!! Sure is
Its called being a human number 1 and do their red flags match yours? Haha
No really!
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The interviewer, however 😬. Hope they axe her after seeing the charismatic intellect, of Sadia