What's It Like To Get Bottom Surgery? (6 Months Post-Op)
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- Опубліковано 22 тра 2024
- It's been six months, how am I doing?
First Surgery Video: • What's It Like to Get ...
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Just wanted to add here that I can’t make any recommendations on choosing a surgeon just yet! I won’t be able to until I’ve had my revision surgery.
new camera cool
As a Canadian, I can say only glowing words of praise for Dr Pierre Brassard in Montreal. And his hospital.
What is a revision surgery and does everybody need it?
@@mmm-zr3dy revision surgery, is to my understanding, what you get, when you wish to get what are best described as yer petals of your flower :) I didn't bother, looks like a vagina all the same.
@@mmm-zr3dyit is a ln additional procedure you can undergo to "fix" things you didn't like. With such a big surgery, it is not uncommon to have a little too much tissue somewhere, not enough elsewhere, etc.
This is entirely up to you: some (most, I think) people never do a revision. Whatsoever, it is a much lighter procedure.
Some surgeons such as Suporn do plan for you to have a revision at some point. From what I've heard, Suporn actually keeps more tissue than needed specifically for that, as it is easier to remove stuff than to add.
I’m glad that Alice was so confident that she’s a bottom that she got surgery to commemorate her way of life.
Lmao
Real
i envy her
for gods sake
@@aliceinwonder1and * for jods sake
KITTY CAT :33333 ORANGE BABY :33333333 SQUEEGY CART
He cute
he do be tho
I thought this was the discord leaking out again
car :33333
i am fully convinced this is a powerful majestic lion
there's a joke in the "thanks to my members" line but i am not coherent enough to make it right now
XD
thanks to my members, i’ll only ever ban one of you
I think the member ship bit has sailed
My gf just had her surgery and I’m sending her this so she sees the light at the end of the tunnel!
I hope she’s recovering well!
Not even ten seconds in and already 10/10 for visual gag, well done Alice
heheh thank you
The wings behind your head is a hell of a shot
I know 😎
I'm also at the six month mark post op. There are so many lessons to be learned, but if there's one bit if advice to pass down, it would be to give yourself lots of slack in regards to your recovery. Progress isn't measured in days or weeks, but MONTHS. Patience and acceptance of the process are very important tools .
Absolutely
not me sat here taking notes like ill ever be able to afford bottom surgery
It is painfully expensivr
@@aliceinwonder1and free in Canada :3
It's covered by insurance here in Germany. :3
@@tovarischlunanothing is free. I live in Canada and taxes are out of control. Why get this surgery? It’s so painful and can take away the ability to orgasm. And men like the part left on the woman if they are into trans women. That’s what is exciting about it’.
How nice to hear someone talk about bottom surgery like something other than a mysterious and spooky crime against humanity if not an attempt to destroy the universe.
That does sound rather metal though
@@chrissy9997 :-)
When your B-roll features such a magnificent ginger fluff it's always the best kind of bonus
😎
I'm not even halfway through this video and you've already addressed much of my fear about this surgery. Thank you so much.
You’re welcome!
I have my surgery scheduled in just over 2 months now. Hearing how well you're doing at this point of your recovery makes me so hopeful for the future 💜
Good luck you got this
I just got bottom surgery 2 weeks and ago 🎉🎉. I definitely second that having a support person or support options is a must. I traveled to oregon for the surgwry from the midwest and didnt have a support person with me cause my family and friends all have their own shit going on and plane tickets are expensive. But one of my friends mother was not okay with my being without support and reached out on a facebook group of supportive parents of queer kiddos to see if anyone could help me oyt if needed in oregon. So i had a few amazing people come and visit and help me with transportation at discharge from hospital and help with getting me groceries after surgery. Not being alone during recovery is a big pluss, even video calls are a god send.
I wish you a speedy recovery! Can't even imagine, how it is your way. I had my partner with me daily through that time. All the best to you and greetings from Switzerland!!
That story of the euphoria of slipping into the water
The b-role and editing in this video was so fucking cool/good wtf. This makes me want to get off my ass and make content of my own. Loved it idk if you edit your own videos alice but the music and camera work was so tranquil and beautiful
Aww hahah thank you so much
Glad to hear you're doing well 6 months post surgery
Thanks xx
Thank you for sharing how your recovery has been, it means so much for be to be able to hear what it is like for recovery. As someone who will have the surgery in the next year it means so much to have you talk about how it has been.
Thank you Alice
You’re welcome!
Good luck when you have the surgery!
Dear gods I can be dense.
My brain was so occupied with "cute fluffy cat" that I didn't get the joke until you explicitly said it.
My own surgery is planned for a month from now, got me feeling all kinds of feelings. Glad to hear that you're recovering.
Chester is very majestic, thanks for putting him on camera ❤
Best of luck okay? You got this
Good luck!
Mine's in a month too! We've got this!
The B Roll footage has such pretty colors. Very cinematic, also your kitties look very cute
Hehe thank you 🥰
a bottom getting bottom surgery. standard procedure
no
@@aliceinwonder1and yes
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Thank you for continuing to share your journey with us Alice, keep living your best life! The new camera gear is crazy, the video quality is amazing.
Thank you! Will do!
I dont plan on getting the surgery myself (that part of my body isn't very dysphoric for me), but I'm so happy for Alice and anyone else who goes through with it. We all deserve to feel happy in our bodies 💖
Thank you xx
As a fellow kiwi trans girl and thank you for your videos!
Best of luck with the surgeries! You are such an inspiration for lots of trans folks, so keep on doing ur best ❤
Thank you!!
I’m about 3 months post-op from that state on your wall (Ohio). Similar to you, dilation has gone well for me and I’ll likely need an aesthetic revision down the road. But, honestly, I’m kinda amazed at how happy I am now. I’m a trans person who doesn’t like change (lol), and even though I wanted SRS long before I knew I was trans, I was kinda expecting to wake up from surgery and have regret wash over me. That didn’t happen, and at around the 6 week mark after a lot of pain, swelling, and scabbing had subsided, I just felt happy. I think I’ve literally been smiling everyday since, I feel so much lighter.
On the flip side, during a session with my physical therapist, she mentioned that she just saw someone who had completely closed up and was unable to dilate. So I do consider myself very fortunate in how well it has gone for me, even though it wasn’t always easy.
ive been reading through the comments and its amazing to see im not the only one so profoubdly inpacted by this content.
Even thinking about bottom surgery is scary and exciting. The idea of wearing tight swimsuits and not having to tuck or fear my buldge showing is incredible.
Ive said it alot before and im sure i will say it more in the future but thank you so much for sharing your journey with us alice, and other commenters or discord members. Ive found acceptance understanding and community like nowhere else. Im tearing up writing this and whatching the video ive never found a resource like these surgery videos anywhere else. And they have made me so much more comfortable with the idea and excited to one day go through with it.
Happy day after your bday alice and once again thank you❤️
It’s pretty awesome!
Chaotic as always!
Also, the cat shots are AWESOME!
Glad you like them!
Ay, welcome to the aro/ace club even if just a temporary thing. Also you are looking gorgeous as usual Alice ❤️
I saw your surgery video, my Ex had bottom surgery, we waited for almost a year before she was up for it? 🤣 too much information, idk? Point is, I don't think it's too hard to find a partner with a lot of patience and understanding. Personally I love everything about you Alice, you're beautiful, funny & edgy, there is no doubt in my mind that you'll get married one day. 👍
I don't start my new job until the 3rd of June but I promise I'll sub and support. 🙂
Aw thank you xx
Thanks for making this. I'm probably going to get my bottom surgery in a couple years and have my consultation in August, and I am hoping to go with peritoneal pullthrough myself. Even with all you've been through, it seems so worth it to me.
Best of luck with your revision.
You’re welcome girl
Got my bottom surgery coming up in Thailand next month 😃Can't wait to officially join the club! 👍
Good luck!
@@aliceinwonder1and Thanks Alice! Love your stuff, it really helped me come out to my parents ❤
Are the doctors good in Thailand? Also, can they make it look good( im talking about the quality of their work)?
@@mmm-zr3dy The place I'm going to is VERY pricey but it's supposed to be the best Transsexual surgery in the eastern hemisphere. As for how it looks, here's to hoping 😅
@aprilruledearth How much does it cost and will the insurance cover it?
Shout out to my older brother Tim. He's my hero. Totally supports me. Was my long ride from Montreal to Toronto for extended recovery. Looks after me. Yes, you want a key human being part of your GRS. Funny side detail, I was born in Montreal twice :)
What you are doing is very important work. This level of transparency and honest firsthand experiences with surgeries such as these are crucial for anyone looking into making such a decision.
I wanted to thank you for sharing this part of your journey I am 37 and just came out as Trans last year and while I'm not sure how far I'll go on my journey the information is very much appreciated 😊
The first ten seconds made my brain go down to only one thought: I wanna be that cat lol
love watching your videos! I'm going for my consult at the end of August for my surgery :) many wishes for a safe recovery for you!
Thank you for documenting your journey for everybody! I myself getting bottom surgery next February in New York. I'm also getting a peritoneal pull through done and I'm really excited, but also very scared. Keep living your best life!
I don't plan on getting bottom surgery myself, but I think it's really cool that it's something that's medically possible - and videos like this, of people like you giving firsthand accounts of their experiences, are very valuable!
(also, there's just something I find quite compelling about the idea of _hand-crafted bespoke pussy,_ lol)
This video has been very helpful to me. Even though im not going through this any time soon, its still very useful and I appreciate you and your story a lot.
Thank you so much.
Yes please more info on dilation, research is all well and good but hearing peoples personal experience and knowledge (if freely given) is so helpful when it comes to understanding
I will when I can!
Congrats on your surgery!
I'm 3 months post-op and agree with everything you've said. Thankfully my recovery has been incredibly smooth and right now I don't think I need to get a revision (fingers crossed). Everyone is different, but the most pain I've had during this entire process was when I accidentally re cathed myself with the douching tube when I was being taught how to dilate 😵💫
I got the peritoneal pull through and my biggest recommendation there is if you can get that one robotic assisted, you should absolutely go that route. I didn't have one of the common symptoms, abdominal weakness, and I attribute that to the robot making the cuts.
Im so glad your recovery is going well, Alice, you're a huge inspiration! 😸
Thank you so much!
Thanks for sharing your story, Been following you since you first came on to social media, I'm one of the old school Gen 1 YT trans folks :)
Really happy to see you have a following and achieve your goals and dreams & provide resources for the community! You rock!
Thank you so much xx
As a fellow trans girl you are such an inspiration for me Alice! Please keep being you and making videos!!!
Aw thank you
I just got a job Alice, and once I have a couple paychecks under my belt, I am so excited to be able to support you. You are such a light on this platform and always make my day better :) You rock girl!
Aw thank you so much
@@aliceinwonder1and 🫵🪨
I'm so glad you were able to do it, thank you for sharing the post-op experience. Here in Brazil I'm in line to get surgery trough our public healthcare system next year and your vids helped me to understand a lot!
Thank you, long live the queer army general queen :3c
Wooo!!
quanto tempo dura a fila?
@@henriquemelchiorgomes8750 ! olha, eu entrei na fila com 17, dizem que é espera de 5 á 10 anos, porém meu médico disse que provavelmente ano que vem já vai ter uma vaga pra mim (eu tenho 21 anos)
it's really nice to hear that you're doing welll and so nice see the new gear coming to good use too! keep it up
Thank you so much!
great Video and i especially liiike the B-roll. Your Cats are very majestic
Thank you so much!
I really like your energy. So keep it going!
Good job on the camera work! The smile at the end made me smile!
thanks!
I believe, you'll keep improving regardless of any monetary investments. Keep working toward your best self! Also all the Broll in this video was amazing!
Thank you!!
Great video! Thanks for the Chester beauty shots as well ❤
Any time!
ohh... the image quality is amazing Alice! You can count the cat's individual hairs!! Good investment! :D
oh and the camera as well
LOL
I heading for bottom surgery at the end of mext month! Your videos are always a pick-me-up in my days!
Aw thank you
Thank you for the B roll, I need more of you Chester and Spice in my life (also you're Beautiful)
They’re so cute!
Just wanted to say that this sort of content is why I subscribed: to learn and understand more. $$ is a bit hard to come by right now, but I'll give it a shot.
Happy to see that things are ok and that you seem happy
Thank you xx
@@aliceinwonder1and
THANK U FOR MAKING ANOTHER ONE OF THESE :))))
I am glad the surgery is going well!! Also this gives me some ideas of what I can expect. Or possibilities I can potentially expect.
Thank you
@@aliceinwonder1andyour welcome! And I hope it continues to go smoothly
thank you for sharing💞💞 i cant wait to get my surgery in the future🥰
Hey Alice, ran passed your page and OMG i love your personality as well as I think you very beautiful both inside and out. I have a couple friends that are going through the "change" and its kind of hard to support them when I live in Oregon and they live in Arizona beside "spiritual and over the net" persay but I am sharing this and your right after video you have posted to hopefully it will help them understanding things a little more from another butterfly's perspective. Much love from Oregon keep up the great work and give the furry baby a scratch for me
Wild. I don't know how I wasn't already subscribed. Your previous videos on bottom surgery left me feeling a lot more comfortable about moving forward with my own bottom surgery.
A video on dilation would be totally awesome if you're... like... actually able to post that given how whacky UA-cam is with their restrictions.
OH WOAH!!! You can "upgrade" to a peritoneal lining after the fact? That's actually really good to know from my standpoint. I'll likely need to do penile inversion because of what's available with the health system here... but knowing that's an option for later, that's amazing.
Sorry, updating this comment as I watch your video.
I just got randomly gifted a membership :3 I get watch all the member videos *happy trans noises* also happy to hear more about the post op because hopefully I’ll get it too
Thank you for this Alice. So much.
You are so welcome!
I'm so proud of you Alice, for everything 🥺🥰
Thank you
I always thought I'd get vaginoplasty eventually when i was still early on in transitioning but your videos and talking about it with a friend of mine who had it done a few years ago made me realize its just way too involved for what I need as all that I really care about is stopping testosterone and tucking easier so I decided on getting an orchiectomy instead, I don't really have much bottom dysphoria but my balls are the one thing that's keeping me from being able to wear a bikini without anything falling out. Despite your videos not being as relevant to me I do love learning about this stuff even if I don't plan on getting it myself. GL on your revision. :3
If anyone knows any other content creators that have done videos like this about orchiectomy then please link them, I still don't know much about it other than its less involved and most likely cheaper.
Glad to hear you're on top of things and that your energy hasn't bottomed out. Loved the B-Roll shots (you seem to have gotten the hang of that fancy new camera right quick), and I'm only a little sad that I was too late to make the obligatory confirmed bottom jokes. But only a little.
I've forwarded both of your videos to one of my roommates, who is in the process of getting her therapist letters for bottom surgery. She's already got the approval letter for breast augmentation, but she's trying to get bottom surgery before the year ends.
I've passed this along, so she gets a bit of a heads up on what to expect.
omg that's amazing so happy for you :D
Thank you for these videos, Alice. I wasn't sure if I wanted to get bottom surgery, but after watching your videos on the subject I feel like I'm somewhat better informed and am leaning strongly towards having it. I'm really concerned about the recovery period though.
It’s a lot to go through honestly
@@aliceinwonder1and I know, I've been researching bottom surgery, but hearing your experience going through it has been extremely helpful. Like I can read about the recovery time, but you telling us makes it much easier to understand what it will entail. Thank you, Alice.
so happy for you alice! I can't wait until it's my turn to get rid of the tumor!
I know this wasn't the point of this video, but you climbing over your orange cat is so relatable. They will not move for anything.
Thank you for making these videos, I will likely be getting bottom surgery this autumn :3
Glad to hear all is well, though its not over now that the worst is over it can only get better from here
Hahaha would be quite a surprise
@@aliceinwonder1and I mean she did jump you, gotta return the favour right?
it is always the best day when alice posts
😎
editing is so clean
Thanks!
Your cat looks so majestic!
I know!!
Im glad you're happy!
OMG you look so good today!
clicked on the video to support, i dont plan to get bottom surgery (ftm/nonbinary)
im AroAce, but its more so related to trust and past SA (even though it does not cause eachother: its just the combination life gave me) but also people are yucky a lot of the time, in my experience.
my bestie got dilation done as physical therapy cause of a different issue (cis women, i think dilation was made because of the issue she has originally).
have a beautiful day
Just have to say, the new camera is resulting in great shots!
Im genuinly dying on the witing list just to get seen and its ruining me im so happy for u alice x
the increase in quality over time has been amazing to see. I'm so happy for how much you've grown
Thank You for the video!
You have my full respect!
I like this style of video, it’s quite relaxing and also *kitty cat* :3
Glad you enjoyed!
Yeah, I'm going to the surgeon monday afternoon to talk about this. So how could I NOT click on this.
Ooh exciting!!
I need to talk to you, I love your energy. Your vibes are just tangible based in wisdom. Im a baby trans in the sense ive been at it for 2 years. Help me sister!!!
Just became a member! It’s just lieutenant but I hope it helps nonetheless :) hope your journey goes smoothly ^^
I'm just glad that you have a map of the US on your wall and Ohio is X'd out for some reason. As a hoosier (Indiana Resident), we typically X out all references to Ohio as well. Cheers!
Valuable information! 💚
Glad it was helpful!
AAAAAH about doing another different one!
I just looked up the different types and they ALL sound EEK. Sigh.😭
Also.😭😭😭😭 you're so pretty!
Thank you very much for your videos they are helping me so much
You are so welcome!
I have my consult for bottom surgery in like... 9-ish months. This is wonderful information. Making notes for things to ask about!
Also hehe... DEPTH about dilation.
Good like!!
Good luck!!
I'm really happy to see stuff about bottom surgery, I wanna know all I can if I end up getting it
I’m glad I could help!
Hope you're doing well 😊
Thank you
Just wanted to say that the camerawork in this video is gorgeous! Those are some magnificent 😺 pics…
Thanku
I lovr your makeup and your shirt is very pretty and this was very informative
I'm so glad!