I transitioned, and here’s what happened.. (my detransition story)
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- Опубліковано 8 сер 2023
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This is a very condensed version of my transition and detransition story. As my channel grows, I’m looking forward to sharing more of this journey with you!
If you have any questions, feel free to ask them in the comments and I’ll do my best to get back with you.
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The “girly girl-look” is just something society has created. We, women don’t have to look a certain way in order to feel like a real woman. Everyone is different.
Exactly
Obviously not. It represents femininity for women.
MAN but that stereotype is so ingrained tho. i think the difference with maybe nonbinary vs trans is just.... if you consider yourself in a society that's DIFFERENT, maybe diff standards or stereotypes, do you *still* feel like your gender is wrong, personally?
i think a lot of people would say no. and that trans is a smaller percentage of people. and that these days for some reason a lot of people are being led to think almost anything divergent IS trans, and that's not the case.
is it a fad? idk. it kinda looks that way and seems bizarre. trans i'd almost say is the roughest road, esp because surgery can be involved. so it's like.......... why skip over the evaluation of other conditions aside from trans, just based on invasiveness and struggle. my dudes, take the time to EVALUATE! :( it's so hard to watch people try to reverse. it's a struggle. esp if certain surgeries are done. hurts to watch.
Yesss🎉
I wear all clothes made for males and have since I was a child , still a woman , but I don’t feel like a woman ( how does one feel like a woman?)
What teenagers today aren’t being allowed to do is understand that almost all teenagers girls and boys, go through a difficult period when we are ‘transforming’ into adults! Some girls will never be ‘feminine’ in some ways and the same goes with boys and masculinity. That’s fine we figure it out as we go, as a teen I wasn’t a real tomboy but I wasn’t a ‘girly girl’ either but as the years went on I embraced my feminine traits. It takes years, decades to figure out who we are! I am 60 and still am 🤔.
I think I start to get this madness. So instead of fighting stereotypes we are destroying kids to reinforce the stereotypes.
Bc unmaking stereotypes is free. But some ppl make big money on transisioners. And will for the rest of their life.
Moms don't realise the damage they inflict on their daughters when they chastise them for not being "girly" enough. It plants seeds of doubt in a young mind... Please parents - just love you kids for who they are - not who you want them to be. Praying for you, Maddy. Thank you for sharing your story.
I found you on IG last year. I’ve watched you becoming a beautiful mama bear. I’m also a follower of Jesus Christ, as you are. You’ve blessed me beyond belief with your courage and love. God bless you.
Thank you so much!! God bless you sister❤️
I’m currently transitioning and I’m being told to stop/de-transition. Thanks for sharing your story Maddy.
Please stop. You will grow into yourself. It’s timing. I had 4 brothers and felt lesser, rubbish, hated being a girl growing up. The future as a woman felt daunting. 22 I fell in love. A life time later good career moves, seen as strong an formidable woman. I now see that strength I wanted became mental strength. But dear friend I’m now in the menopause and the changes I’m am experiencing is what young transitioners will force their bodies into, sterility, oestoporosis, increased risk of stroke, atrophy and linked to bladder issues. If you are a female don’t do this.
Years of therapy you need (Yoda voice)
A familiarly sad story. I'm glad you have realised that it is fine to be a female with masculine characteristics. Your story needs sharing. All detransitioner stories are helping to put this message out. I am not anti-trans as it works for some but for the majority it is not the answer as you have realised.
“For the majority it is not the answer”? Can you back that up with data?
being a tomboy does not mean that a girl wants to be a boy. Hearing you talk about your childhood is a similar story many girls have without ever wanting to occupy a man's body.
Exactly
There is no one 'correct' way to be a girl or woman. There is no one 'correct' way to be a boy or a man. There is nothing wrong with being a 'tomboy' or 'butch' girl. There is nothing wrong with being a 'camp' boy. There is nothing wrong with being L, G or B.
Amén.🙏🏿
I'm glad that I grew up when there was no such concept in society as transgender or ability to switch genders. I was also a tom boy type girl. I'm basically still a tom boy adult as an old married lady now. -- I hope young women learn they can just be themselves & not feel they need to conform to gender stereotypes. I don't think we can change our sex.
I hate it when "Christians" try to force you to be somebody you aren't. This is why it's so important to just accept boys playing with dolls and girls playing with action figures instead of having them think that could mean they aren't really boys or girls at all.
I don’t think Christianity supports transitioning kids?
@@DealthTheGreatbeing forced into a gender role that is very uncomfortable though, or shamed for liking the wrong genders clothing or toys can create stronger feelings in a child wanting to be the opposite sex though. A sensitive child can notice when the adults are bothered by this. So you are right, but so is the op.
Christians??? You are so prejudiced.
I think all people do that to some extent.
I remember the first time my then young daughter came inside with tears as she had been called a "tomboy" and knew it was an insult but didn't know what it meant. That she hated dresses, dolls and "girly" things never occurred to me to reflect her gender identity. Instead, I explained to her that being a "tomboy" meant she was as fearless as a boy, unafraid of adventure. She went back outside and proudly proclaimed that "yes, she WAS a 'tomboy' and there was nothing they could do about it!" She's a grown woman now with children of her own and she STILL likes to fish, hunt, explore nature (bugs, critters, etc.)!
This is exactly how everyone around us raised their children. No one made a big deal about it . Children have Thier very own interests and it's up to parents to quide and support. It's not all black and white. One extreme or another. Let kids learn and approach their world on their own accord . Help facilitate good self esteem by uplifting them . Up
I'm from Eastern Europe raised in the 90'. I world never consider myself a tomboy, rather I always felt kind of girly, etc. And yet I LOVED and DID climb trees, play in woods, run around in nature, etc. I always find it so strange that so many Americans consider girls liking climbing trees tomboyish 😳. Is this a cultural thing? Can't girls in America climb trees and play in nature? To me, activities like that are absolutely genderless. 🤷♀️
VERY SIMPLE, you can be as you described, being girly yet climbing trees and masculine activities, thats a Tomboy. no insult no problem. Knew many Tomboys , no one cared.
@@stridersmythe8860 Where I'm from a 'tomboy' would be a girl who had a more masculine behavior/'energy', just more masculine ways of acting.
Climbing trees or just playing in nature was for both genders, girls were running around or climbing trees, and no one would ever consider that a 'masculine' activity.
Soccer or playing guns/war, things like that, it would be masculine, but nature, never.
Dear gawd, I am so grateful this craze was not around when I was growing up a tomboy. Today at 61, I am thankful. I would have poisoned and mutilated my body too
Me too- 59 years old now.
I was a tomboy growing up and my best friend was a boy and I always wanted to do boy things and hated wearing dresses but not once did I even think of transitioning to a boy. Girls should not think they have to be a feminine girly girl yo be a woman. I loved being a tomboy but never wanted to be anything else. And I was very okay with it.
I’ve never had gender dysphoria issues and have always been traditionally girly girl but still find these stories fascinating
I was a tomboy. Trying to keep up with my older brother. I actually have always enjoyed playing with boys. Less drama. More adventures. I’m 64 now. Been married for over 40 years, birthed 5 children, adopted 5 more, 17 grandchildren. So glad transitioning was not an option.
Don't know u but proud of you
Same, I grew up with all brothers. Wanted nothing more than to be exactly like them. I'm glad we didn't have Google or pharmaceutical companies telling us we were men just bc we liked to play in the dirt and not wear dresses. Today I absolutely LOVE everything about being a woman and cherish the memories I had and continue to have with my brothers. If my childhood were today, Dr's would tell my mom that I should be a boy. They gotta make that $$. Women don't walk around in dresses, high heels, full make up, hair done everyday. Women are here in many forms. It depends on where your looking.
I love how you kept bringing your questions to God and listening to hear the response. That's a good lesson to take to heart.
When I was five, I prayed to be turned into a boy. I was sick of dresses and being ladylike and having long hair. I didn’t really get along well with girls. Most of my best friends were boys, throughout my entire life.
I wasn’t turned into a boy, of course. I grew out of wanting to change, though I didn’t embrace everything girly. Until I was probably 13 or so, I wore baggy clothes. When I was 16, I pretty much stopped wearing dresses to church. Dresses just aren’t my thing. I have been judged for that, but I don’t care. I’ve had people call up my mother-in-law and ask if I needed a dress so I could dress up for church. That probably wasn’t meant to be insulting, but it felt insulting at the time. I would have made a terrible man. As I recall, I never wanted to be a man. I just wanted to be a boy.
It wasn’t until I was grown that I found out that I have autism. That helped to explain why I couldn’t easily make friends, and why I’d had all sorts of trouble throughout the years. I am glad to be who I am, and I also know that I don’t have to live up to anyone else’s idea of what I should be as a woman. Now, I will never be a girly girl, but I do take pleasure in showing off my curves sometimes. Not to a disgusting extent, but tastefully so. I don’t normally do anything with makeup (not even cover up). I don’t do much with my hair. I’m much more likely to wear t-shirts and jeans than a skirt and blouse. My husband doesn’t mind, my cats don’t mind, and my little boy doesn’t mind. They all like me the way I am. That’s more than can be said for some other relatives.
I’m glad you had the courage to do the right thing. God bless you!
Wow, what a powerful and encouraging story! Thank you for sharing your experience. Would love to hear more. ❤️
Thank you for having the courage to tell your powerful story. I know there are people out there who want to silence detransitioners, especially those who found God. Keep standing strong, with the help of Christ. God bless you!! 🙏❤️
It is because pure souls like yours exist in this quarantine that we call Earth that makes the whole rollercoaster trip worth making. Keep being you little sister. Do your best. Shepherd the weak through this valley of darkness and remember to smell the flowers as you ride out this test. Nice job. Happy Trails!
Jesus delivered me from addiction, childhood trauma and so much more! He is a deliverer of anything and everything that encompasses chaos.. I’m so happy to hear He left the 99 to find you, his one lost sheep. So happy for you, friend
Jesus didn’t do anything. You did the work.
@@jonpoulda3362 no my friend. He did everything and continues to strengthen me and reveal himself to me. Give him a chance and you’ll see what I mean.
@@jonpoulda3362 Go away, troll. You seem to take a perverse delight in bashing the beliefs of others. If you were that secure in YOURS, you wouldn't be continually bashing theirs.
@@jonpoulda3362
Being a nuisance must be your job description….stop forcing your unbelief down the throats of others.
Thanks for sharing your story. You are so right. There is no one way to be a boy or to be a girl. There is nothing wrong with a woman with masculine traits or a man with feminine traits. This message needs to be shared, but unfortunately the activists have louder voices. US President Biden calls the activists parading around naked on the White House lawn “brave.” No, YOU are brave, and I pray that you and your daughter have a wonderful life. God bless you both.
I’m glad you’re finding yourself. I’m tired of the push to make young women think they should be men just because they don’t fit the mould of typical female.
A.I. just tried to write a reply for me. Beware, everyone. A.I. is experimenting with deep fake commentary.
Being a tomboy was so much fun!
(( 👋🏼. )). I LOVE HOW YOU SAID ‘GOD. LOVES YOU THE WAY HE CREATED YOU’ ,,, NEED WE SAY NOOO MORE ❗️
I’m a detrans woman myself and I see
similarities for ALOT of other detrans women … especially with the part of being more masculine then the traditional woman, thanks for sharing your story… I’m also considering on making a video sharing my own but not sure yet 👍
We are not cookie-cutter we are beautiful individually wrapped.
Being a women is not about the exterior presentation.. it's not pink clothes high heals or a passive personality.. it's most definitely not others expectation of us.... being a female born woman is not duplicatable its a "essence an energy and connection to a higher realm of spirituality" it's the ability to maintain balance in a storm... when centered in our core it's the ability see into the future, its humanity ... the essence of nurture...
Seeing and hearing Abuse can create the necessity to withdraw our essence even become opposite to protect our selves.. feeling unsafe requires a persona of masculinity if there is no one to protect our hearts and bodies,. Because we all arrive with the ability to lean into masculinity, or femininity as a tool we use it.
On a subconscious level, we are all just trying to survive in this world.
We are designed perfectly in a ravenous world.
Yup. I've seen many and always say "I was tomboy" sad shit.
Beautifully powerful, thank you so much.
Maddy, thank you for sharing your testimony! I am so grateful for you.
my tomboy childhood sounded like yours, we’re KIDS. it’s so normal to feel this way/have these thoughts. and puberty sucksss for everyone. they lied to and preyed on you and put you down a destructive path
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. May others be inspired to have these courageous conversations. Much love to you, Maddy. God bless 🧡
Hi Maddy. That was interesting because you were exactly the same kind of young girl that i was. Not girly at all but feeling pressure to be feminine and lady-like.
The difference between us is that I had these problems over 40 years ago! There were no options, no solutions, and of course no internet to help me feel less alone.
In one way, I'm glad. If I had been faced with the opportunity to transition, I think I would also have chosen to do that. And it would have been the wrong option for me too.
I'm 57 now, I have 4 kids (some probably older than you!)
It's taken me my whole adult life to be ok with the kind of woman I am - a rather masculine one.
But the best part of my life has been having my kids, I would have been lost so many times without them.
Keep speaking out, please. Your courage and honesty is what some people need to hear right now.
I started crying when you said, "I gave them the spirit of Love". That's EXACTLY what happened to me, except I was given the spirit of love. We are Christians and taught our children what the Bible says about homosexuals. When my daughter was in their Junior year of college, they either texted me or announced it on FB. It broke my heart because they had just been home two days earlier and didn't tell me face to face, even after I had told them while they were here that I would never stop loving them, no matter what, because I kind of suspected something like that. I cried so hard when I saw the text, that my youngest child thought that my mom had died or something like that. As a Christian, I didn't know what to do, so I cried out to God and asked Him what I should do because I couldn't see myself rejecting them in any way. I have a relationship with God and have had a relationship with God for at least 30+ years at that time, so I know His voice. And He said "As much as you love Hannah, I love her more." He had to say that to me twice because a week later I cried out to Him again regarding this (I don't know, maybe I thought He would give me a different answer?") and He said the same thing "Jennifer, as much as you love Hannah, I love her more." That TOTALLY set me free. It was like a huge weight was taken off my shoulders. I realized it is NOT my job to judge people, it IS my job to LOVE people. So God has given me a Spirit of Love and, I know a LOT of ministers of God, who truly love God, and have a relationship with God, and they have at least one child who is a homosexual. And they ALL have responded with that same Spirit of Love. And have accepted their children plus their partners in love. I still don't understand it, but we don't get to understand everything - we just get to obey and follow His leading. THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR TESTIMONY - I'm still loving and believing this for my children.
This was so beautiful 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾 my mom welcomed me and my now ex partner with LOVE and although we are not together and my lifestyle remains the same, I KNOW that God LOVES me too. 😊
@@missjhia
God does not love sin….let’s stop fooling around okay..
If you lots are determined to do what you want to do then keep God out of it cos His laws are the same yesterday,today and tomorrow.
Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed by God for that same lifestyle!
@@ngoziokafor5682 You’re an idiot. First, prove to me the Bible is the word of god and not simply a book, written by men, to control weaker men. Can you do that? Of course you can’t. Second, Sodom and Gomorrah was about RAPE, which was a common war tactic in Biblical times… a form of ultimate humiliation. It had nothing to do with same sex people loving one another. The way you nuts twist things, to excuse your own bigotry, while ignoring the parts of the Bible you dislike, is disgusting. Get back under your rock.
@@ngoziokafor5682 make sure you aren’t cursing, lying, fornicating, backstabbing, or being a hypocrite. Make sure you have never held grudges or most important cast judgment. lol. Make sure you aren’t out here being a jezebel sleeping with other women’s husbands missy. God blesses me, everyday all day. I can also guarantee that my tick marks on heavens chart far above exceed yours. 😉
@@missjhia
I acknowledge that when I do all all you’ve listed,I am SINNING and have to repent ASP.
The question to you and your ilk is when you indulge in sexual pension do you realize they are sins you need to repent of….or do you justify and deceive yourself with buzz-words like “love is love”,”do not Judge” et al while continuing in that sin and encouraging others in your misplaced sense of “love” to continue?
The day of reckoning is at hand and unfortunately many will be caught napping and unaware.
We all go through things when we are younger and just trying to find ourselves. It's not easy and I'm glad you found the spiritual guidance that helped you in the moment and going forward to enable you to be happy.
Maddy, your story/testimony is so encouraging! God is faithful and I am so happy that you and He have such a strong relationship together. Jesus changed my whole life back in 2005 when I got born again. I didn't struggle with the same issues that you did, but Jesus took away all my strongholds immediately and I have NOT fallen back into any of them since! Thank you for sharing your story and I pray that your bond with the Lord grows deeper daily. God bless you sweet girl.
Hi Maddy, this was beautiful to watch ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your story and your testimony. This filled my heart up and I’m so warm inside. That love and peace from Christ that you speak of!!!! ❤❤❤
Thank you for touching my spirit today.
Thank you so much for your story. I am so very, deeply happy for you, for knowing the love of Jesus, and also for finding out that you don't have to be anybody else's idea of a woman, that you can be your own, true self as a woman. I have your same, almost exact story (tomboy, deeply, painfully wanting to be a boy) but never transitioned and I did not take hormones because I'm a 70-year-old grandmother who did not live in an age when physical transitioning was available although a few famous people had surgically transitioned but they were practically unheard of, and almost freakish. So I lived my secret real identity only in my very real daydreams and fantasies my entire life, while outwardly walking through the motions of being a girl and then woman. But I became used to being that female because it became second nature (because I was acting that way all the time). And that female came to know Jesus in the hippy culture, got married to a wonderful guy, had three kids and many grandkids, all the while very attached secretly to my hidden boy world, until one day out of the blue, God lifted that boy part of me out of me, so gently and delicately that I didn't know it happened. I realized it days later, that I had not engaged in my secret boy world (deep, intense fantasy) or (even more shocking) I had not even thought of my secret boy self! It was truly a miracle! I don't know why God chose to do that when he did, just 10 years ago. I'd become a Christian when I was 19-years-old, so I'd been living that secret life all through my Christian life, and could not stop. I'm thankful for all God has done in my life, and so thankful for what he has done for you.
”Tom boy” is such a weird expression in english! I live in Europe and speak 6 languages, but there’s no similar expression in any of them. It ’s also so sad that real, wild and absolutely normal women feel ”wrong” if they aren’t interested in makeup and showing of their bodies - I think it’s partly an effect of media etc. brainwashing about how women should look like and behave all sexy.
Interesting story of self discovery, you are amazing! All the best 🙌
thats amazing you speak 6 languages! Im struggling just to learn Japanese 😭
Wow. Thanks for your honesty, vulnerabilities, introspection and sharing it for the world. ❤
Just found your channel last night and am sharing the love and redemption you rediscovered and the joy you now have with others. Bless you Maddy and family ❤
What an amazing story. One great thing about being a parent and ongoing sanctification, is that you can identify the mistakes your parents made and do your best to do better for your kids, with all the humble hope that they will do better for their kids as well. Thanks for sharing a part of your story. And remember: parenting is building and creating. It has always done a better job for me at satisfying that creative urge that music, the arts or in your case: androgyny and trans may have temporarily have filled. You are able to build the culture within your own home and give the very best parts of you to your children. I wish you all the best.
Maddy, you''r'e a beautiful girl, and I'm so glad you feel comfortable now in your own body. Your little girl is so lucky to have a mom like you! Thank you so much for sharing your story. It will help other girls in the same situation.
I pretty much had the same experience. I stumbled upon a trans video in 2016 and I also binged them. I was 10 years old at the time. I ended up dressing the way I wanted to and it’s not like I suddenly didn’t want to transition anymore, but I ended growing out of the life goal of becoming a guy. I’m very happy now actually and I don’t regret anything. I’m not feminine and I’ll probably never be very feminine but I like the way I am now and I did it by myself. No pronouns can make me happier
Thank you for sharing your story. There is nothing wrong with wearing boys clothes and competing with boys. I think it's awesome. Happy for you that you found your way in the end! 😊
You’re absolutely right! You were made just the way God wanted you. God doesn’t make mistakes and he doesn’t make garbage! You are a beautiful person and you absolutely don’t have to be “girly” to be a girl. Girls can do anything they want, be anything that want and act the way they want. If you’re into things that are more “boyish”, so what. That doesn’t make you any less of a girl. I’m very happy for you! The love of God and Jesus Christ is an amazing thing isn’t it? You are indeed perfect just the way you are! Don’t ever let anything or anyone make you feel like you are less than or not good enough, because that is just plain wrong! You do you and live your life, if anyone has a problem with who you are, that’s their issue, not yours.
God healed me when I was an alcoholic. One day I just stopped. I totally understand His power and ability to make us new instantly. Praise God that you recognized the blessing He was bestowing upon you. Stay strong in His word and thank you for sharing your miracle and praying you continue to bless others through your testimony.
wow! Amazing!! You explain everything so articulately and Im so happy you are out there.
Thank you for your honesty, and your willingness to share your story! I hope and pray that this reaches many more people out there who are struggling with the same issue and can find the love of Jesus like you did!💕
I just watched your birth story and I am so happy for you. Thanks be to God! I pray you continue to have a wonderful, fulfilling life.
Sooooo powerful! Thanks for your courage in sharing!!
Lord bless you Maddy for your courage and honesty to say the things that people are not ready to hear. Ik with every view this video has impact on people and begins the renewal of ones view on the world. I hope all is well with you and your baby. Praying for both of you good health and the Lords favor upon you. God bless
7:40 Is so powerful.
That is what everyone needs to hear. Not just people with gender dysphoria. Everyone. We all need this. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. That very brief statement sums it all up.
God be with you and keep you strong and at peace, Maddy.
You have a child. Amazing! You should be happy and proud. And I'm so sorry for your other family. They shunned you and shamed you and kept you away from your siblings because of their beliefs. They made your life so much worse and so much more difficult. I'm so sorry for that. But as time goes on, never forget...you can transition again. You can be who you want to be. You can raise your children how you want to. You don't have to be hateful like your parents (I'm not saying you are). But don't let the hate of others stop you from being you. You are strong. You are beautiful. Just be your authentic self and that makes the world a better place for you and for all :)
I don’t know why this came up in my feed but I’m so glad it did. I’m a 50ish Christian homeschool mom. Can I just say how brave you are to tell your story? Thank you. It helps me understand the younger generation and issues my kids could face. I’m so glad you had that encounter with God. He loves you so much, no matter where you are in life. You are a blessing to this world. Keep speaking out. You’re a good speaker and could bring others to Christ!
We use to call this being a Tomboy!!! I’m in my 50’s and I was a major tomboy including wearing button down shirts and pants.. We were taught you didn’t care about what people thought so no big deal, sticks and stones
I was first female to play on boys city basketball and so on.. Lots of fist fights.. But I always knew God did not make mistakes so if he made me this way it was for a purpose!!! He needed me to be a strong female.. think about the pioneer women or female police officers..
As it turns out I produce too much testosterone and my daughter has the same thing.. I never considered it a problem but rather apart of who I am.. You have a purpose!! He created you specifically this was so you could handle what he has for you.. Hang in there.. Focus on the strengths he gave you.. My daughter turned out to be a police officer and she is Great at it ..
I’m proud of you for stopping and listening to God.. Hang in there and your path will become clear..
Thank you for sharing your story. Your voice matters and your faith is inspiring! I'm subscribing.
same
All of this is so sad. Let kids be kids and discover who they are at different stages of their lives. These should Not be decisions children make.
We need more detransitoin videos. There is two sides to it that needs to be told
maybe you don’t see many detransition videos because it’s very uncommon, and the vast majority of people who transition medically are happier?
Thank you for your honesty. Please continue to tell your story!
You have an amazing testimony!!! You hit the nail on the head. God made you perfect the way you were born. I wish more kids would hear this truth over the rhetoric the devil is putting in activist's minds to spread over social media and in schools. I was a tomboy in the 60's and 70's. HATED being a girl. In today's environment they would have brainwashed me into thinking I needed to transition. I do feel like Christians get a bad reputation regarding acceptance of Trans, Gays and Lesbians because some do not know how to separate their love for the person from the person's actions. There is a way to demonstrate your love for someone without embracing or condoning their lifestyle. It doesn't have to be all or nothing.
Did you want a cock and balls? Perhaps a hairy chest?
I think a lot of tomboy type girls go through that. I remember puberty hitting me early when I was 10 and my mom giving me a bra and I hated it. Getting my period was a nightmare to me. I felt awkward and I didn’t like it. I’m thankful it was the 80’s and I didn’t have anyone in my ear trying to convince me I was really a boy. I got over that feeling and I’m definitely a woman. With so many detransitioners we see a lot of them just needed some time or therapy. Not medication and surgery.
@@raimeyewens7518 Yes! I waited as long as possible before being forced to wear a bra. I never developed much over an "A" cup anyway. My mom didn't even tell me about periods! I was at school (7th grade) when I started and FREAKED OUT that I was bleeding. Fortunately I had friends who knew what was happening and calmed me down.
@@raimeyewens7518 Did you want balls and a cock? How about a hairy chest and deep voice?
I was male and borderline precocious as well but didn't grow out of it. And thankfully I was smart enough to be mild anorexic and curtail the growth spurt. If I didn't, I wouldn't have a transition to come back to and that's what all of you "wait it outers" want. I can just hear them. "Why would a grown-ass man want to be a woman? Who does he think he's foolin?" I male but I don't mourn the man I didn't become. Yes, there is discomfort but your not behind the door with the patient, therapist, and family. The point is that some of us are so uncomfortable with it that we can't function even after a few years or a decade or so. It shut me down as I'm not into penetrative sex in any capacity so I'm out. I had a rough early part of my life, want a romantic relationship, and now get shut out because I don't want to wank a load, or pop a cherry, or get buggered, or do the buggering. You think talking about this is vile; now you know how I feel. Perhaps I can't compartmentalize but I've talked and tried a dozen different psychologists with about half telling me not to mention what I mentioned in this paragraph. I guess I offended or perhaps hit an Achilles heel.
Anyways I present as I always wanted which is as my youthful male self even at 47. I've had an orchiectomy and take estrogen as HRT and about as close to a modern day eunuch as you could get. Let psychologists do their job and don't tie their hands behind their back by legally removing the option of transgender medicine.
I’m so happy for you that you have found peace within yourself. I think that that is the goal for all of us. Well done.
You can do so much good with sharing your story and talking to younger people, helping those to give themselves time to work through their concerns while they figure things out without going through the physical and medical changes which can be irreversible. Bless you going forward being your authentic self.
What a beautiful testimony! Thank you for sharing your story. 💖
What a great testimony. Praise God for what He has done for you. God bless.
I don’t know why this video popped up into my feed but for some reason I decided to watch it. You are absolutely precious and I know that you are going to touch a lot of souls with your videos. In whatever way that is, I know it’s going to be good. For you and for them💖
So glad you’re telling your story! I remember seeing your video on tik tok a few years ago! God bless you ❤
Wow I had to stop and comment that your story is beautiful and you can help so many people who felt the way you did but won’t try to figure out why. I pray they find your videos. God is amazing that he took you from this and has now blessed you with a child! God bless you and your family. What you went through was difficult but you were made perfectly even in having this experience because now you can help other people get through it. Much Love to you Mandy 💗💗💗💗💗
You are very well spoken. Thanks for sharing your story ❤
What a beautiful testimony Matt.
I pray that God will continue to work in your life, that He will guide you, protect you and keep you under His loving wing.
God is already using you on such a huge scale... just by bringing everyone your story. Continue on this beautiful path.
Be the change you want to see in the world, just as Jesus led by example, so too are you. The more WE live good lives and treat ppl the way we want to be treated the more they will follow suit.
You are beautiful, you are worthy and above all else... YOU ARE LOVED!
Sending you so much love and keeping you in my prayers, all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤
I'm sorry for the commenters trying to bash your religion, people are forgetting how to respect others' views. Don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't believe in. I'm glad you're happy.
Welcome back girl, you look beautiful. Thank you for your bravery, know that this will reach and save at least one person 🙏 blessings
i freaking love you and support you i know it’s hard to go back after you denied and denied for years but you are doing amazing. the roads not perfect but neither is the person walking on it.
I was 13 with a cellphone that's the problem
Exactly!! Isn’t that the truth !!
Best comment for this subject.
I’d say I had much of the same preferences as a kid and a teenager. however, I never thought I had to conform to the ‘girly-girl’ style or interests. I felt it a challenge to present myself as I felt natural to me and that as I was a female, it was up to others to accept me as I was. Still do. Like everyone, I have had mixed acceptance throughout life. Who hasn’t? No surgery, no pharmaceuticals, no alterations of any sort. Stay away from experts. Be yourself.
Thank you for sharing your story with us! :)
WELCOME BACK!!!!! Love from your human sister! Xxxxoooo
Thank you for sharing your story. The Lord has brought me a long way as well. I also had an encounter that changed my life.
May the Lord bless and keep you
Thank you for sharing your story, and for letting others know what God has done in your life. I'm rooting for you, Maddy!
Wow! What an awesome testimony of God working in and through you!! The Lord is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story!!!
I came over from Tiktok. I love your story. Thank you for continuing to share it.
Congrats on your little one. 💕
Thank you for your story. God bless🙏
I'm happy for you. I look forward to following your journey.
You have a beautiful soul I wish that we could see those kinds of things in ourselves or other ppl could when we’re younger and how much it matters, obviously your skin hair and eyes are all healthy lustrous beautiful whatever but more importantly your ability to reach ppl on an emotional level and ur empathic nature far surpasses any man/women double ur age, that is what the world needs more than anything else, thanks for sharing ur story
Thank you for your video. I’m trying to talk to my daughter about self love but she insists I’m transphobic , it’s been really hard , I missed my kid and I’m really afraid I’ve lost her to gender ideology.
Bless you and may you get your child back. People don’t usually address how this fractures family bonds. 🙏🏾
I think you have to love her the way she is now, whether she ends up transitioning or not. Going against her/him is only going to strain the relationship.
What a beautiful testimony. God bless you, your story will bless many people❤
So beautiful 🤩 wonderful path you’ve been through ❤️🔥🙌🏼🥰💖 thank you for sharing, such deep, profund revelations you have received🎶 wow🙌🏼
You have a wonderful testimony. Thank you SO much for sharing this!!! The Lord is real and He does answer our prayers. May He keep blessing your life!!
I’m trying to figure out how you managed to escape social media and the new friends in your life at the time from trying to convince you that your family were evil, bigoted transphobes, which is what normally happens anytime someone tries to leave the trans cult. Thank you for sharing your story.
I’m really sorry they blatantly just told you you needed to go on T instead of getting you therapy first… that’s where it really screws people up, especially when they already are hella dysphoric and/or have trauma.
I was born in the 80s. I always felt like a tomboy. I scrapped with the boys, i played football, I belched and found it hilarious, I played with cars, I used to have mostly male friends. I only wore boy clothes including boxer shorts. I hated make up, the colour pink and barbies. When I had to wear a dress to my communion I was so unhappy, in every photo I have a face like a smacked arse. I looked in the mirror and saw a boy. I always wondered what it would be like to pee standing up. I was terried when my breats started developing and started menstruating. I'm sure if I was a teen nowadays I would be pressured into transitioning. But now I'm almost 40, I'm comfortable in my own skin. I now have a 12 year old and couldn't imagine a life without him. I still wear boxers, don't wear dresses or make up. I don't enjoy "girly nights out" (I'd rather sit at home and have a beer and play my console. I still enjoy football and rough with my son. 90% of teens go through a phase where they question their gender. It is a normal part of growing up. Our bodies are changing and it's scary. I'm not saying gender dysphoria doesn't exist. It does. But transsexuals and transgender to me mean to different things. Transsexuals do everything they can to blend into society as the opposite sex and most of the time they are successful. But it seems the transgender movement just scream for acceptance without acknowledging the fact that acceptance and respect swing boths ways. Swings and roundabouts. They demand but are unwilling to accept that other views and feelings are just as valid. Just live your life as you wish, you don't need to holla to the world about it.
Also the movement scares me. They are mutilating and sterilising some of the most vulnerable people in society. Let them mature first so they can make informed decisions for themselves
Thank you for posting. I accept you no matter how you want to present yourself.
Thanks for sharing your story. I went through a phase of thinking maybe I was trans MtF. I lived as a woman for 2 years, took estrogen, ect. But I realized what I really was is lonely and not dysphoria. I since detransitioned.
You are perfect the way god made you. My 13yr old daughter is struggling with this and I had to pull her out is school. Thank you for sharing
You’re beautiful ! Thank God for what he has done in your life. Be blessed 🙏🏻
Amen sister so happy to hear this❤
God bless
Wow. So powerful to hear how you made such a decision and then allowed God to show you love in a way you did not expect. God is Love! Glad to see that you really know who you are and that you can still be a protector, not want to wear dresses as other woman and know that you are still a beautiful woman that God created!
Thank you for sharing.
I'm so happy for you, God will continue to bless and guide you.
So brave sweetie. Blessings to you.
I loved your story. Thank you for sharing. God bless.