Hello everyone! One correction: I uploaded this video before realizing that I would not be able to re-open my Etsy shop until next week, so I’m sorry that it says it’s open when I’m still working on orders! Snowstorms over here have restricted my travel as well as affected mail so it’s taking me a while to get re-stocked. Thank you for understanding ❤ sending much love and thank you for being here 😊 my puppy got sick last week so I did not upload a video, but he is doing much better! The mosaic kit of the Crow I made is from an Etsy store Northern Whimsy Art: www.etsy.com/shop/NorthernWhimsyArt?ref=shop-header-name&listing_id=1604309465&from_page=listing They are an awesome company! If you’d like you are welcome to join me on Patreon for daily meditation and journaling sessions! ❤
@@sylviacarlson3561 good question and I think it may come from when we are children. That old poem, Children Learn What They Live has such a powerful message to it. I had it hanging on my fridge when my kids and grandkids were young as a constant reminder that my actions and words would forever write on the slate of who they would be as an adult. Unfortunately if they don’t receive the same message at school, friends, coworkers, etc you can only hope that what you do at least helps to build a strong character. Just my thoughts on it being a grandmother
One of my tricks for self-love was to never say anything to myself that I wouldn't say to a child -- no scolding, no guilt, no shame. I often found myself saying, "It's okay, you're only human." And if I was hurtful to another, I would take responsibility and make apologies. Blessings on your path!
That makes total sense! Not saying anything to yourself you wouldn’t say to a child! Love that and I’m going to borrow and remember that! Heartfelt thanks! ❤
I remember a few years ago advising my grown daughter, who was experiencing a great deal of self doubt, to treat herself as gently and kindly as she would her best friend. 🥰
Staying AUTHENTIC in a world where everyone is trying to be the same, thanks to social media, - is indeed tricky! I've also been navigating this path of self-love and acceptance, just as I am. It feels like a never-ending journey, but we've got this! ❤ ❤ ❤
Just because you are different from others, doesn't mean you are authentic. Even those people who are "same as others" can be authentic. I think that the problem is indeed in this artificial portrayals of authenticity, and putting to shame everyone who is "not" authentic.
Absolutely. If we want to heal we have to be willing to face what's uncomfortable. We have to first identify the negative core beliefs we've been holding on to. Only then we can begin changing. Not changing ourselves but the stories we've been telling ourselves about who we think we are. I often hear people saying: "I don't know who I am. I want to find myself". Perhaps sometimes it's helpful to find out who we're not and start letting go of that. So our true authentic self can re-emerge ❤
Paola, you were indeed the Dancing Winter Fairy outside in the snow ❄️ Lovely to see you, listen to your self-reflection and observe the peace you’re enjoying this season!❤ Until next time, know how much we care for you! 🧚
In the US the idea of independence is shoved down our throats and it is completely unnatural and unrealistic in the ways human beings actually function. We are all dependent on each other not only for our basic material needs but also for emotional well being. This is accepted and honored in so many parts of the world (I learned this once I started to travel and live in different countries.) As a mama it is essential to have community and as many helping hands as possible. Absolutely nothing wrong with that except you don’t need to buy as much stuff so it’s not great for profit and consumerism. It’s up to us to reach out, connect and rebuild the bonds that society has tried to break. Much love to everyone on here in whatever you’re going through; there’s people who care❤
Complete truth stated without compromise here - bravo. I am 80 y.o. and I've tested and lived this truth. I've come through .marriage breakdown, single parenting and now ageing and I'm still functioning well living in this truth. People need people first, things second . My joy is to see more and more people breaking the conditioning. Paolo is such a beautiful inspiration and we are affirming her. BLESSINGS TO ALL.
❤ The cornbread looks perfect. We like ours a little crispy on top and sides. I love home days too....baking, rearranging, creating....love your creativity!!
I know I experience that with my daughter; there are some tough moments in the beginning as any new mom but it's filled with such beautiful lessons. But yes I agree you definitely have a whole new perspective. What a journey❤
This can be true for many but for some there is another side of new motherhood. 'Baby blues' can be quite normal & a quickly passing phase for most new moms. But post partum depression is real. And insidious. It also can wait, sort of in the background, to raise its ugly head when you least expect it. It may never be a problem for you; you are very self aware. Just recognize it if it does so you can get help. This is not meant to be a 'downer' just a reminder to tuck away 'in case'. Your mental & physical health is more important to your son than we are to you. We will be here. ❤
I love your videos so so much. I know soon you will be really busy with your little baby, but please find some time to continue your work here on yt. Your videos are a ray of light in this dark times.
Paola. I just wanted to share my deep gratitude. As much as I’m trying my best to return to my love of getting lost in a good book, instead of avoiding the challenges of life with UA-cam & Netflix, I have, over the past few weeks, fast forwarded through your UA-cam life, from your first video until now. Your videos have helped me reset, & shift my inner world more in the direction of that part of myself that is more grounded & authentic…& created a desire to reclaim my playful, innocent child-self; a part of my life that I very much miss. I have been thoroughly enjoying tapping into my creativity, whilst crafting orange garlands & wreaths for my home!…opening the gateway for more projects. May your pregnancy, birth, motherhood & family-life be full of magic & wonder. Oh, & a few childrens’ books that you might like (if you haven’t already come across them) would be the Milly, Molly, Mandy series, the Fern Hollow books & a gorgeous book by Wendy Froud & Terry Windling called “A Midsummer Night’s Faery Tale”. Much love, Rebecca
I noticed that you are beginning to show. Getting out for fresh air and exercise is so beneficial especially now. It's good to see the animals all cozy and warm. I'm glad puppy is feeling better. I hope you were able to salvage some of the cornbread. Thank you for another great video.
Bless you for this video series about the journey of growing in self-confidence and self-trust. I recently approached someone about how their words and actions about me in front of others bothered me, and they also became upset. I've been beating myself up, trying to think if there was any truth in what they said, doubting myself and my interpretation of events. When I saw your video come up, I said, "Oh, thank heaven." All of your words wrapped themselves around me in a big hug. Thank you and everyone in this lovely community for making me feel like I'm not alone. I still have a lot of work to do...
I have to say, how beautifully pregnancy suits you.❤ You have always been beautiful, inside and out.. but you are exuding a glow and Light now, that is just breathtaking. Thank you for your time with us and I can't wait to see your next video! Love&Light!!🤍🕊✨️
Your lovely curated videos make me appreciate my home like the way you do. You should value yourself more because you’re such a beautiful person. I hope you’ve overcome that incidence with setting boundaries with the friend that didn’t make you feel good about yourself. I’m glad you’re taking the time to feel good about yourself. We all need to feel that way.
May God continue to bestow his belssings upon you and your journey and may He richly bless your family and keep your newborn safe and healthy. Thanks for sharing the peace, love, and joy in your life and home in the forest.
Hi Paola, Simon from Sussex (England) again. You look so wonderfully "blooming"as a "mum to be". For this writer, this is lovely to see, and I concur valuing ourselves is the most important thing we can do; because if we don't value ourselves, we simply cannot value others/environment/nature. BTW, your book is permanently on my night reading pile! Best, Sx
Thank you so very much for non stop video making with so much full of inspiration in this gloomy life. I enjoy each of your video and your simple living I wish I could have. I also love your words of wisdom and your narration and your lovely sweet voice. I do not know you personally but I felt like I’m very close to you. You certainly send in very good vibes and shows us how to live and extend yourself for some deep human connections. Thank you so very much. Shelly
I started watching your videos during Covid, and I just want to tell you that was my saving grace. It gave me something to look forward to when the world seemed to be falling apart, and I would like to say thank you, I wish happiness and joy to you and your growing family. I am also a nature lover and hiking in the snow has become one of favorite times to hike and just wander into the forest. I am a tree bather and nature lover. I have recently been practicing staying still. It is not always easy, but it is so worth it. Thank you!
“You need to live in your value, and just know it’s there” I love this quote and many others in this video! Thank you Paola for being such a source of wisdom and encouragement. Much love 💕
Hello from Australia , Oh wow, I hope you know just how powerful your words are to me 🫶at 67 years old I only just recently discovered my self worth and what I have brought to my family ( gosh it took long enough🫢) I have written your wonderful words in my diary to remind myself when I’m down. I wish I could express myself as well as you, I shall work on that too👍🏻sending you all my good wishes xxx
Absolutely loved the message in this video. I especially loved when you were talking about valuing your soul. Beautiful message and definitely a video I will come back and relisten to! Thank you for sharing with us!
Thanks Paola for another beautiful video! What a wonderful snow forest you have so close by!! So magical! Thank you for telling about the Gotthard sisters. I've looked them up and watched a video where they tell about themselves. The music is wonderful, reminds me of Riverdance!! That touches my heart every time and makes me cry, because i love it so much! Love to see you dancing outside and jumping on a rock. Take care when you do that sweetie, you've got a little baby inside you 🧡🥰
Wonderful wisdom-sharing video - as always -TY. I was writing a comment to your last video, when someone had to use my iPad, so it never got sent. I guess sharing those thoughts remains important to me, b/c here I am again. When you told us you had taken a step in a relationship that was hard, but important for your personal growth, I started to think about a few times in my life when I have tried to do that. It has never gone well, and almost always, our friendship or relationship ends. The difference, though, is that I am quite sure you approached the task of “clearing the air,” with a sweetness and tone that is so … you. I very much appreciate you sharing that, as I will try to learn from you and do better … if ever in that place again. Blessings to you, Paola … 😊❤️✝️
Im going thru chemo now and enjoy your videos so much they keep me going. Im using this time to bring more positivity and calmness and heal. Thank you so much😊
I love how you will one day be able to share these videos with your son, if you choose, and show him what mommy did during her pregnancy. How you kept the whimsy flowing and wove his storyline into it. It's really beautiful.
How lucky we are to be able to ‘ hide’ I cannot imagine a life where I was forced to live the harshness which many people have no choice the anxiety the feeling nauseous the panic as the flight to be safely home again after only a little time away ! Iam grateful everyday ! ✨
Your videos are always incredibly timely. We really do gravitate to those on the same frequency. There's a lovely quote "be who you are so that those that are looking for you can find you".💜❤
Ms. Paola, I love your videos so much. ❤ they really provide so much emotional support for me, and I cannot thank you enough for taking the time to make these videos and share your experiences. I relate to so much of what you say. 😊 Prayers for you and your family to stay safe and healthy and warm!🙏 Thank you for your lovely heart.
It’s amazing how you have self doubt, but project such joy and happiness from the simple things in life. I literally look forward to your videos each and every time, and they always inspire me.
Thank you a Paola for another beautiful video. For sharing your journey. You have helped me on mine. You often find words to express just what has been in my heart that I hadn't found words for. Much love to you and your growing family ❤
I discovered your channel this weekend on a whim. Oh my gosh, your videos have single handedly pulled me out of my winter rut and filled me with the inspiration and creativity that I don't usually find until the spring! I spruced up my home with thrift store finds, decorated with flowers, lit candles, baked bread.. mm! And your wise and soothing insights are so unbelievably delightful, like a perfectly steeped cup of tea. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! You really helped me :-)
You are an aspiration for inspiration. Thank you so much for sharing. It has been a blessing in my life. May the Lord continue to bless you and yours also. And if no one has told you lately, I am so proud of you and you are pretty amazing. Sending love and lots of hugs.❤🤗🙏🕊️
What a treat to find a new Cottage Fairy video today. I only discovered this channel quite recently. I have now watched every video right from the first one and I have loved them all. Thank you Paola!
Self-acceptance can make us suddenly braver and more at peace than we ever thought possible. We're also then better able to share our natural gifts, and mentor others to do the same. You are a gentle yet powerful teacher, much needed these days. Sending love, peace, and hugs. ❤️✌️🤗
Sharing your vulnerability is such a gift to all of us. Thank you for giving all of us light and hope as we struggle with the same self-doubts. I am just now learning to reclaim my soul. You give me inspiration. Thank you!
Thank you Paola, for your videos. Many blessings to you and your family. I have recently discovered a health issue that has knocked the wind out of my sails, but I know I will be ok. I am surrounded by love and your videos are what I needed to hear. It's ok to rest and take care of yourself. It's a blessing to know that all the love I have given to others has been magnified back to me. The hardest thing in life is to just be and let others take care of us, but I am learning. Thank you for the gentle reminder.
Paola, it is so true that many people find themselves faced with self doubt that seems quite overwhelming. I love the way you describe the journey as not really being broken, but as an opportunity to form a new, more beautiful relationship with yourself. It made me think of the lovely Japanese art of kintsugi. Broken pottery mended with gold epoxy and transformed into something more beautiful than it was before it shattered. It's an image I value because life will always take a chip here or make a break there, but we are repairable.
I also have trouble standing up in anyway for myself or my needs. I've been really working on that the past many months. I'm very different than my family. I'm creative,sensitive, & have a huge heart for those less fortunate. My family has some very narrow and racist ideas. As a result they don't include me anymore. I am proud of my heart and my care for others who are suffering and it is how we should be. I don't see too much kindness in them towards others who are different. I can say I have reached some peace with knowing there is nothing I can do to change them and i don't have to keep conforming to what they want to see. Your channel has helped me to understand I will not waste what life I have hoping others around me will change. I am now looking out for myself. ❤ I hope you are feeling wonderful during this special time!
I have often thought the isolation thing is nothing to be feared,but simply a way to be stronger so you can use that energy and creativity to add something to others and perhaps be useful helping others to get out of their boxes and try to find themselves. Too often we get lost trying to please others and neglect ourselves.
so much related to these, especially the last two video topic !! I will always practice self love, and put my own needs first, make good rest and health, my growth, my innerchild and my soul with the things I enjoy doing as my first priorities !
Another lovely video. I love snowstorms that keep you inside, there is something so peaceful and even magical about those times - as long as they don't last too long or cause damage! I moved from Chicago to Ireland and the winters are much milder here, which I don't mind but I'll always feel at home in a blizzard!
This was just beautiful Paola…..the snow, your home, your cooking….I love to see what you cook and bake. And you had some wonderful wisdom to share. I loved it all. Thank you ❤
Enjoyed your dance in the snow! Your self-worth is who you are, and you Paola are an angelic light in this world. God knows it and so do all of your subscribers!
I really love watching your videos whenever I'm going through stressful days it helps me calm down & relax so much. Thank you for always sharing such comforting content!
I love your videos. They are so real and can be applied to everyday life. Don't worry about wearing the same dress. Comfort is what counts now. Take care, and get some rest, and enjoy this cozy time of year.
Paola! WHAT! a beautiful snowfall! So picturesque! Your insight to viewing our low points as the beginning and not the end, resonated with me! It's casting off old ideas, thoughts, behaviors, which is cleansing, to being open to new and exciting things! Cleansing and purging!! Out with the old, in with the new! New thoughts, ideas, behaviors,. I struggle with depression, and this time of year - wow! Really have to think and be positive more and to stsy focused on the positive. You are such a blessing to so many! We all love and cherish you! Enjoy your gorgeous weather!! xcoo
I think you will learn to love yourself as soon as you stop thinking too much about it. I spent over a decade in self improvement, it hardly worked. Then I let go, I have never felt better. I am what I am, like it or not and life is too short to worry too much about it. :-) I think you are wonderful and I wish you could realize it. Hugs.
It did my heart so much good to see you dancing in the snow ❤️ You just continue being you....cause you are enough and you bless me. Sending blessings to you!!
Hi lovely Paola! Thank you for your wonderful videos, the visual beauty and the genuine heart-felt wisdom! You are such a beautiful soul, humble, gentle. Sending you love!
Paola, you are truly a beautiful, inspiring soul. I am so very grateful to have come across your UA-cam channel. You have the most lovely, precious home. ❤
I just love all of the nature you bring in to your home. You inspire me to be authentic in what I want and what I need in my life. You have such a beautiful soul. I am so glad you were brave enough to share your struggles. You help so many of us who have been in the same place.
Paola as I’ve commented in the past I’m Puerto Rican and we are proud people who don’t like to ask for help. I’m the same way and hearing you say this made me realize I also need to ask for help. I’m always helping others (nothing wrong with that) and putting them first and forgetting about myself. Thank you Paola! Btw I love the music and have been following them. Sending you a big hug!
Beautiful soul❤ I'm on the same journey. The outdoors mean everything to me. Letting God guide me through my own insecurities and doubts and old pdajn, revert part of nature and crafting with it is one of biggest anchors. Truly, I feel the kindred spirit you impart to me as I watch h oh ur channel🤗
I am so enjoying your videos these days. I am soaking up all that you speak about regarding tending to our mental health. When ever I am faced with struggles that have been placed in my path I tend go to inward and get real meditative with my thoughts. It's at times like these that I crave be alone with my thoughts, journaling, walks in nature and reading anything by Pema Chodron. Her books have helped guide me thru many hills and valleys in my life. I also noticed in this video how sweetly you have decorated your home. It reminds me of a cottage that I once lived in that was decorated with treasured items dear to my heart. Glad to hear that your pup is doing much better. Stay well & happy until next time...
I understand having a low point and feeling like something is ending. I had spine surgery a year and a half ago. It was the hardest thing physically and emotionally I have ever been through. I have to learn to walk again. Now I look back and I feel I have gained so many wisdom and strength through my journey. It realized I am a strong person and I have a strong will to survive and rise above adversity. Keep moving forward always have hope.
Your videos are always so comforting and great reminders to listen to the inner child that wants to dance in the snow or create or just take time to rest and enjoy creative endeavors. I agree that listening to ambient room videos or uplifting soundtracks can make a woodsy walk feel so much more magical!
I so enjoyed this video, so much in it stood out for me. So many don’t understand why I simply like being home and not always going places, being with people and busy. At 65 I love being home, my cozy, peaceful place where I can be me and do things in my space that I love. I want to claim my own story after years of caring for everyone else. I so needed your messages and thoughts…you get it, thank you❤. I’m a winter person, always have been and love the tranquility, beauty of glistening snow, shorter days and less “noise”. No one has ever understood that as we live in upstate New York with long beautiful winters that I so love and crave as much as they need sunshine and warmth. I don’t understand why we can’t just be who we are with criticism.
I want to say sincerely Thank you for sharing with us about this intense work on self help I am keeping now my Soul , Mind , Body together and learning more to love myself first 💕🥰🙏🥰☃️I love ❄️ snow
Sending you love as well. I see that you have that beautiful pregnancy glow!! May you continue to frolic in your winter wonderland. Que Dios te bendiga💖
I'm following you from iraq from middle east and i love you so much, in my region there is a war and alot of problems that storms in our region . I'm just looking for the quite life and live in peace so pls your prayers for another civilizationes that lives in terror situations ❤🥺
Sweet girl, I love your videos. I can tell you this…when you first gaze upon that little face that is you (both), you will never again ponder your love for yourself🙏🏼✌🏽❤️all my best.
I currently suffer from both depression and burned out so this video really spoke to me about self love and boundaries and such. Kindest regards from Sweden
Happy winter! I value your videos so much! You help me connect with the seasons and appreciate what *is* in my life. You inspire me to create beauty and whimsy in my own home. I'm incredibly impressed by the poise and wisdom you possess at such a young age. ❤
It feels like you were speaking directly to me. This is exactly where I'm at right with feeling overwhelmed, depressed, anxious and broken. After reaching a point of crisis, I had to reach out for help and am beginning a process of facing the past pain and trauma to heal while moving forward. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us all.
I used to love the gothard sisters when I was about 14!❤ (I'm 23 now) I used to dance to them too. That just made me so happy to see you enjoy them like I do. Such a talented group of sisters 😊❤
It sounds like "a dark night of the soul". And it is something that can happen more than once. I think I might be there now.....Loved your video and your dance in the snow with the Gothard Sisters 💖
It doesn't snow where I live, but through your videos, I can see its beauty, including the warm scenes inside your house. Thank you for bringing viewers wonderful scenes of life ❤❤❤
There is this old desk I have once used as a computer desk, but now I use it mainly for writing poetry and things and sitting at the table for a snack every now and then.
I just love your videos so, so much. Been following you for a couple of years now and every single video resonates with me, my gosh. I so get the self doubt you're talking about, and how your perspective has changed as you look back on it now. Such a beautiful outlook. ❤ Thank you for inspiring, always. 🥰
Oh Lord, I don't know what it us like to not love yourself, to treat yourself kindly. I feel so sorry for those who don't know who they really are. You are the physical manifestation of The Source energy.....of all that is. You have a spark of God in you. Please, everyone, treat yourself accordingly ❤❤❤
Hello everyone! One correction: I uploaded this video before realizing that I would not be able to re-open my Etsy shop until next week, so I’m sorry that it says it’s open when I’m still working on orders! Snowstorms over here have restricted my travel as well as affected mail so it’s taking me a while to get re-stocked. Thank you for understanding ❤ sending much love and thank you for being here 😊 my puppy got sick last week so I did not upload a video, but he is doing much better!
The mosaic kit of the Crow I made is from an Etsy store Northern Whimsy Art: www.etsy.com/shop/NorthernWhimsyArt?ref=shop-header-name&listing_id=1604309465&from_page=listing They are an awesome company!
If you’d like you are welcome to join me on Patreon for daily meditation and journaling sessions! ❤
I’ll be waiting. But I can be patient. 😃
Paola, could you point me towards the crow shop? It's the perfect gift for someone I love dearly. Thank you!
@@nerissa7657It is linked in the description ❤
Glad he's doing better
The crow mosaic is beautiful
One of my favourite birds ❤
Did you get a crow on this site or the ravens?
“You need know your own value. Don’t rely on others to affirm you”. I am 66 years old and still learning such an important lesson.
YES! This exact sentence stood out to me so!
Appreciate ❤ your 66 year old
65 and feel the same, such a powerful message
The question I have is where do you get that if you are not relying on others to affirm you. How do children do that?
@@sylviacarlson3561 good question and I think it may come from when we are children. That old poem, Children Learn What They Live has such a powerful message to it. I had it hanging on my fridge when my kids and grandkids were young as a constant reminder that my actions and words would forever write on the slate of who they would be as an adult. Unfortunately if they don’t receive the same message at school, friends, coworkers, etc you can only hope that what you do at least helps to build a strong character. Just my thoughts on it being a grandmother
One of my tricks for self-love was to never say anything to myself that I wouldn't say to a child -- no scolding, no guilt, no shame. I often found myself saying, "It's okay, you're only human." And if I was hurtful to another, I would take responsibility and make apologies. Blessings on your path!
What sound advice!
That makes total sense! Not saying anything to yourself you wouldn’t say to a child! Love that and I’m going to borrow and remember that! Heartfelt thanks! ❤
@@lindasteinbrenner8065 Thank you!
That’s beautiful. Thank you.❤
I remember a few years ago advising my grown daughter, who was experiencing a great deal of self doubt, to treat herself as gently and kindly as she would her best friend. 🥰
Staying AUTHENTIC in a world where everyone is trying to be the same, thanks to social media, - is indeed tricky! I've also been navigating this path of self-love and acceptance, just as I am. It feels like a never-ending journey, but we've got this! ❤ ❤ ❤
I love the raven you made, was that a kit? You are glowing and looking beautiful… and your cornbread didn’t look burnt to me.
Just because you are different from others, doesn't mean you are authentic. Even those people who are "same as others" can be authentic. I think that the problem is indeed in this artificial portrayals of authenticity, and putting to shame everyone who is "not" authentic.
Absolutely. If we want to heal we have to be willing to face what's uncomfortable. We have to first identify the negative core beliefs we've been holding on to. Only then we can begin changing. Not changing ourselves but the stories we've been telling ourselves about who we think we are.
I often hear people saying: "I don't know who I am. I want to find myself". Perhaps sometimes it's helpful to find out who we're not and start letting go of that. So our true authentic self can re-emerge ❤
Paola, you were indeed the Dancing Winter Fairy outside in the snow ❄️ Lovely to see you, listen to your self-reflection and observe the peace you’re enjoying this season!❤ Until next time, know how much we care for you! 🧚
In the US the idea of independence is shoved down our throats and it is completely unnatural and unrealistic in the ways human beings actually function. We are all dependent on each other not only for our basic material needs but also for emotional well being. This is accepted and honored in so many parts of the world (I learned this once I started to travel and live in different countries.) As a mama it is essential to have community and as many helping hands as possible. Absolutely nothing wrong with that except you don’t need to buy as much stuff so it’s not great for profit and consumerism. It’s up to us to reach out, connect and rebuild the bonds that society has tried to break. Much love to everyone on here in whatever you’re going through; there’s people who care❤
Complete truth stated without compromise here - bravo. I am 80 y.o. and I've tested and lived this truth. I've come through .marriage breakdown, single parenting and now ageing and I'm still functioning well living in this truth. People need people first, things second . My joy is to see more and more people breaking the conditioning. Paolo is such a beautiful inspiration and we are affirming her. BLESSINGS TO ALL.
❤ The cornbread looks perfect. We like ours a little crispy on top and sides. I love home days too....baking, rearranging, creating....love your creativity!!
I like cornbread just like that. Brown and crispy around the softness in the center. It looked good to me ❤
Same here! Looked perfect! Now I’m hungry for cornbread, might bake some myself! 😋
When your little son is here, you will feel so tenderly toward him that it will help you feel the same love and compassion for yourself. ❤️
I know I experience that with my daughter; there are some tough moments in the beginning as any new mom but it's filled with such beautiful lessons. But yes I agree you definitely have a whole new perspective. What a journey❤
This can be true for many but for some there is another side of new motherhood. 'Baby blues' can be quite normal & a quickly passing phase for most new moms. But post partum depression is real. And insidious. It also can wait, sort of in the background, to raise its ugly head when you least expect it. It may never be a problem for you; you are very self aware. Just recognize it if it does so you can get help. This is not meant to be a 'downer' just a reminder to tuck away 'in case'. Your mental & physical health is more important to your son than we are to you. We will be here. ❤
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." -Anais Nin
This quote impressed my mind so much... I can't describe my feelings in words.. My friend, Thanks a lot for sharing, 🙏
I love your videos so so much. I know soon you will be really busy with your little baby, but please find some time to continue your work here on yt. Your videos are a ray of light in this dark times.
Your child is so blessed to have you as a mother. A person who knows who you are. And Luke, as a father, is someone who lets you be free to be you.
Paola. I just wanted to share my deep gratitude. As much as I’m trying my best to return to my love of getting lost in a good book, instead of avoiding the challenges of life with UA-cam & Netflix, I have, over the past few weeks, fast forwarded through your UA-cam life, from your first video until now. Your videos have helped me reset, & shift my inner world more in the direction of that part of myself that is more grounded & authentic…& created a desire to reclaim my playful, innocent child-self; a part of my life that I very much miss. I have been thoroughly enjoying tapping into my creativity, whilst crafting orange garlands & wreaths for my home!…opening the gateway for more projects. May your pregnancy, birth, motherhood & family-life be full of magic & wonder. Oh, & a few childrens’ books that you might like (if you haven’t already come across them) would be the Milly, Molly, Mandy series, the Fern Hollow books & a gorgeous book by Wendy Froud & Terry Windling called “A Midsummer Night’s Faery Tale”. Much love, Rebecca
I noticed that you are beginning to show. Getting out for fresh air and exercise is so beneficial especially now. It's good to see the animals all cozy and warm. I'm glad puppy is feeling better. I hope you were able to salvage some of the cornbread. Thank you for another great video.
Bless you for this video series about the journey of growing in self-confidence and self-trust. I recently approached someone about how their words and actions about me in front of others bothered me, and they also became upset. I've been beating myself up, trying to think if there was any truth in what they said, doubting myself and my interpretation of events.
When I saw your video come up, I said, "Oh, thank heaven." All of your words wrapped themselves around me in a big hug. Thank you and everyone in this lovely community for making me feel like I'm not alone. I still have a lot of work to do...
I can so relate to what you said…
The landscape outside your home is truly beautiful!
I have to say, how beautifully pregnancy suits you.❤ You have always been beautiful, inside and out.. but you are exuding a glow and Light now, that is just breathtaking. Thank you for your time with us and I can't wait to see your next video!
Love&Light!!🤍🕊✨️
Your lovely curated videos make me appreciate my home like the way you do. You should value yourself more because you’re such a beautiful person. I hope you’ve overcome that incidence with setting boundaries with the friend that didn’t make you feel good about yourself. I’m glad you’re taking the time to feel good about yourself. We all need to feel that way.
May God continue to bestow his belssings upon you and your journey and may He richly bless your family and keep your newborn safe and healthy. Thanks for sharing the peace, love, and joy in your life and home in the forest.
Beautiful video, Paola. Nesting in the winter during the storm…..growing a sweet human baby within……..just lovely.
Hi Paola, Simon from Sussex (England) again. You look so wonderfully "blooming"as a "mum to be". For this writer, this is lovely to see, and I concur valuing ourselves is the most important thing we can do; because if we don't value ourselves, we simply cannot value others/environment/nature. BTW, your book is permanently on my night reading pile! Best, Sx
Thank you so very much for non stop video making with so much full of inspiration in this gloomy life. I enjoy each of your video and your simple living I wish I could have. I also love your words of wisdom and your narration and your lovely sweet voice. I do not know you personally but I felt like I’m very close to you. You certainly send in very good vibes and shows us how to live and extend yourself for some deep human connections. Thank you so very much. Shelly
beautifully worded, Shelley, just what I feel about Paola and her sharing
I started watching your videos during Covid, and I just want to tell you that was my saving grace. It gave me something to look forward to when the world seemed to be falling apart, and I would like to say thank you, I wish happiness and joy to you and your growing family. I am also a nature lover and hiking in the snow has become one of favorite times to hike and just wander into the forest. I am a tree bather and nature lover. I have recently been practicing staying still. It is not always easy, but it is so worth it. Thank you!
“You need to live in your value, and just know it’s there” I love this quote and many others in this video! Thank you Paola for being such a source of wisdom and encouragement. Much love 💕
Hello from Australia , Oh wow, I hope you know just how powerful your words are to me 🫶at 67 years old I only just recently discovered my self worth and what I have brought to my family ( gosh it took long enough🫢) I have written your wonderful words in my diary to remind myself when I’m down. I wish I could express myself as well as you, I shall work on that too👍🏻sending you all my good wishes xxx
Absolutely loved the message in this video. I especially loved when you were talking about valuing your soul. Beautiful message and definitely a video I will come back and relisten to! Thank you for sharing with us!
A beautiful soul, in a beautiful land, listening to some beautiful music♥
Thanks Paola for another beautiful video! What a wonderful snow forest you have so close by!! So magical! Thank you for telling about the Gotthard sisters. I've looked them up and watched a video where they tell about themselves. The music is wonderful, reminds me of Riverdance!! That touches my heart every time and makes me cry, because i love it so much! Love to see you dancing outside and jumping on a rock. Take care when you do that sweetie, you've got a little baby inside you 🧡🥰
Wonderful wisdom-sharing video - as always -TY. I was writing a comment to your last video, when someone had to use my iPad, so it never got sent. I guess sharing those thoughts remains important to me, b/c here I am again. When you told us you had taken a step in a relationship that was hard, but important for your personal growth, I started to think about a few times in my life when I have tried to do that. It has never gone well, and almost always, our friendship or relationship ends. The difference, though, is that I am quite sure you approached the task of “clearing the air,” with a sweetness and tone that is so … you. I very much appreciate you sharing that, as I will try to learn from you and do better … if ever in that place again. Blessings to you, Paola … 😊❤️✝️
Im going thru chemo now and enjoy your videos so much they keep me going. Im using this time to bring more positivity and calmness and heal. Thank you so much😊
I love how you will one day be able to share these videos with your son, if you choose, and show him what mommy did during her pregnancy. How you kept the whimsy flowing and wove his storyline into it. It's really beautiful.
Well said Paola - I’m 61 and trying to reinvent myself while unemployed on all levels - you’re such an inspiration 😊
How lucky we are to be able to ‘ hide’ I cannot imagine a life where I was forced to live the harshness which many people have no choice the anxiety the feeling nauseous the panic as the flight to be safely home again after only a little time away ! Iam grateful everyday ! ✨
Thank you for your encouraging and honest thoughts. It is not always easy to face yourself and accept your current or changing ways. 🙂❤️
Your videos are always incredibly timely. We really do gravitate to those on the same frequency. There's a lovely quote "be who you are so that those that are looking for you can find you".💜❤
Ms. Paola, I love your videos so much. ❤ they really provide so much emotional support for me, and I cannot thank you enough for taking the time to make these videos and share your experiences. I relate to so much of what you say. 😊 Prayers for you and your family to stay safe and healthy and warm!🙏 Thank you for your lovely heart.
It’s amazing how you have self doubt, but project such joy and happiness from the simple things in life. I literally look forward to your videos each and every time, and they always inspire me.
Thank you a Paola for another beautiful video. For sharing your journey. You have helped me on mine. You often find words to express just what has been in my heart that I hadn't found words for. Much love to you and your growing family ❤
I discovered your channel this weekend on a whim. Oh my gosh, your videos have single handedly pulled me out of my winter rut and filled me with the inspiration and creativity that I don't usually find until the spring! I spruced up my home with thrift store finds, decorated with flowers, lit candles, baked bread.. mm! And your wise and soothing insights are so unbelievably delightful, like a perfectly steeped cup of tea. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! You really helped me :-)
You are an aspiration for inspiration. Thank you so much for sharing. It has been a blessing in my life. May the Lord continue to bless you and yours also. And if no one has told you lately, I am so proud of you and you are pretty amazing. Sending love and lots of hugs.❤🤗🙏🕊️
What a treat to find a new Cottage Fairy video today. I only discovered this channel quite recently. I have now watched every video right from the first one and I have loved them all. Thank you Paola!
Self-acceptance can make us suddenly braver and more at peace than we ever thought possible. We're also then better able to share our natural gifts, and mentor others to do the same. You are a gentle yet powerful teacher, much needed these days. Sending love, peace, and hugs. ❤️✌️🤗
Thank you for sharing The Gothard’s Sister’s music. My parents are from Ireland and hearing this music brings me back to beautiful Ireland.
Sharing your vulnerability is such a gift to all of us. Thank you for giving all of us light and hope as we struggle with the same self-doubts. I am just now learning to reclaim my soul. You give me inspiration. Thank you!
Such a beautiful place where you live..looks so peaceful there…wise words you share with us …didn’t realize bunnies can be such close pets 🙂
Your laughter and smothering the burdt cornbread was sooo sweet! She who laughs, lasts!
Thank you to generously share your inner world with us! 💫🥰🙏💖✨
Thank you Paola, for your videos. Many blessings to you and your family. I have recently discovered a health issue that has knocked the wind out of my sails, but I know I will be ok. I am surrounded by love and your videos are what I needed to hear. It's ok to rest and take care of yourself.
It's a blessing to know that all the love I have given to others has been magnified back to me.
The hardest thing in life is to just be and let others take care of us, but I am learning. Thank you for the gentle reminder.
Paola, it is so true that many people find themselves faced with self doubt that seems quite overwhelming. I love the way you describe the journey as not really being broken, but as an opportunity to form a new, more beautiful relationship with yourself. It made me think of the lovely Japanese art of kintsugi. Broken pottery mended with gold epoxy and transformed into something more beautiful than it was before it shattered. It's an image I value because life will always take a chip here or make a break there, but we are repairable.
I also have trouble standing up in anyway for myself or my needs. I've been really working on that the past many months. I'm very different than my family. I'm creative,sensitive, & have a huge heart for those less fortunate. My family has some very narrow and racist ideas. As a result they don't include me anymore. I am proud of my heart and my care for others who are suffering and it is how we should be. I don't see too much kindness in them towards others who are different. I can say I have reached some peace with knowing there is nothing I can do to change them and i don't have to keep conforming to what they want to see. Your channel has helped me to understand I will not waste what life I have hoping others around me will change. I am now looking out for myself. ❤ I hope you are feeling wonderful during this special time!
I have often thought the isolation thing is nothing to be feared,but simply a way to be stronger so you can use that energy and creativity to add something to others and perhaps be useful helping others to get out of their boxes and try to find themselves. Too often we get lost trying to please others and neglect ourselves.
so much related to these, especially the last two video topic !! I will always practice self love, and put my own needs first, make good rest and health, my growth, my innerchild and my soul with the things I enjoy doing as my first priorities !
Another lovely video. I love snowstorms that keep you inside, there is something so peaceful and even magical about those times - as long as they don't last too long or cause damage! I moved from Chicago to Ireland and the winters are much milder here, which I don't mind but I'll always feel at home in a blizzard!
Your videos are like a big warm hug for my soul
Thank you 💕
Paola you are a treasure and I think all the work you put on yourself will benefit your child to come. You are doing great.
This was just beautiful Paola…..the snow, your home, your cooking….I love to see what you cook and bake. And you had some wonderful wisdom to share. I loved it all. Thank you ❤
Enjoyed your dance in the snow! Your self-worth is who you are, and you Paola are an angelic light in this world. God knows it and so do all of your subscribers!
Your video made me cry Paola. I have never seen snow in my life, It is so beautiful.. Thank you for bringing your world to us. ❤❤❤
Thank you ....I very much enjoyed the package with your very lovingly packaged gifts God bless you with much love sent back to you.💕
I really love watching your videos whenever I'm going through stressful days it helps me calm down & relax so much. Thank you for always sharing such comforting content!
I love your videos. They are so real and can be applied to everyday life. Don't worry about wearing the same dress. Comfort is what counts now. Take care, and get some rest, and enjoy this cozy time of year.
You are a true inspiration. Thank you for such amazing videos. Sending Love from SanDiego. 😊
I don’t live by the snow and so I am fascinated with it! 🌨
You are so creatively, talented and adorable ❤ Thank you for the dance and the music 💚☘
Paola! WHAT! a beautiful snowfall! So picturesque!
Your insight to viewing our low points as the beginning and not the end, resonated with me! It's casting off old ideas, thoughts, behaviors, which is cleansing, to being open to new and exciting things! Cleansing and purging!! Out with the old, in with the new! New thoughts, ideas, behaviors,. I struggle with depression, and this time of year - wow! Really have to think and be positive more and to stsy focused on the positive.
You are such a blessing to so many! We all love and cherish you! Enjoy your gorgeous weather!!
xcoo
I think you will learn to love yourself as soon as you stop thinking too much about it. I spent over a decade in self improvement, it hardly worked. Then I let go, I have never felt better. I am what I am, like it or not and life is too short to worry too much about it. :-) I think you are wonderful and I wish you could realize it. Hugs.
It did my heart so much good to see you dancing in the snow ❤️ You just continue being you....cause you are enough and you bless me. Sending blessings to you!!
Hi lovely Paola! Thank you for your wonderful videos, the visual beauty and the genuine heart-felt wisdom! You are such a beautiful soul, humble, gentle. Sending you love!
Paola, you are truly a beautiful, inspiring soul. I am so very grateful to have come across your UA-cam channel. You have the most lovely, precious home. ❤
I so needed to hear this. It's been a difficult week, but I know that as long as I'm authentic and true to myself, that's all that matters
I just love all of the nature you bring in to your home. You inspire me to be authentic in what I want and what I need in my life. You have such a beautiful soul. I am so glad you were brave enough to share your struggles. You help so many of us who have been in the same place.
Paola as I’ve commented in the past I’m Puerto Rican and we are proud people who don’t like to ask for help. I’m the same way and hearing you say this made me realize I also need to ask for help. I’m always helping others (nothing wrong with that) and putting them first and forgetting about myself. Thank you Paola! Btw I love the music and have been following them. Sending you a big hug!
Beautiful soul❤ I'm on the same journey. The outdoors mean everything to me. Letting God guide me through my own insecurities and doubts and old pdajn, revert part of nature and crafting with it is one of biggest anchors. Truly, I feel the kindred spirit you impart to me as I watch h oh ur channel🤗
I am so enjoying your videos these days. I am soaking up all that you speak about regarding tending to our mental health. When ever I am faced with struggles that have been placed in my path I tend go to inward and get real meditative with my thoughts. It's at times like these that I crave be alone with my thoughts, journaling, walks in nature and reading anything by Pema Chodron. Her books have helped guide me thru many hills and valleys in my life. I also noticed in this video how sweetly you have decorated your home. It reminds me of a cottage that I once lived in that was decorated with treasured items dear to my heart. Glad to hear that your pup is doing much better. Stay well & happy until next time...
I understand having a low point and feeling like something is ending. I had spine surgery a year and a half ago. It was the hardest thing physically and emotionally I have ever been through. I have to learn to walk again. Now I look back and I feel I have gained so many wisdom and strength through my journey. It realized I am a strong person and I have a strong will to survive and rise above adversity. Keep moving forward always have hope.
Your videos are always so comforting and great reminders to listen to the inner child that wants to dance in the snow or create or just take time to rest and enjoy creative endeavors. I agree that listening to ambient room videos or uplifting soundtracks can make a woodsy walk feel so much more magical!
I so enjoyed this video, so much in it stood out for me. So many don’t understand why I simply like being home and not always going places, being with people and busy. At 65 I love being home, my cozy, peaceful place where I can be me and do things in my space that I love. I want to claim my own story after years of caring for everyone else. I so needed your messages and thoughts…you get it, thank you❤.
I’m a winter person, always have been and love the tranquility, beauty of glistening snow, shorter days and less “noise”. No one has ever understood that as we live in upstate New York with long beautiful winters that I so love and crave as much as they need sunshine and warmth. I don’t understand why we can’t just be who we are with criticism.
I'm getting so many new ideas for fun things to do in the snow. Candle prayer from your last video, dancing in snow! Love it! Thanks for sharing!
I want to say sincerely Thank you for sharing with us about this intense work on self help I am keeping now my Soul , Mind , Body together and learning more to love myself first 💕🥰🙏🥰☃️I love ❄️ snow
Sending you love as well. I see that you have that beautiful pregnancy glow!! May you continue to frolic in your winter wonderland. Que Dios te bendiga💖
I love that bird! You are so creative!
I'm following you from iraq from middle east and i love you so much, in my region there is a war and alot of problems that storms in our region . I'm just looking for the quite life and live in peace so pls your prayers for another civilizationes that lives in terror situations ❤🥺
A furry cat and a blanket of snow is one of the best things 🥰
Watching this at midnight in winter from a distant part... So refreshing. Love from Bangladesh.
Sweet girl, I love your videos. I can tell you this…when you first gaze upon that little face that is you (both), you will never again ponder your love for yourself🙏🏼✌🏽❤️all my best.
Such a thoughtful, kind & Gentle Soul.....
Your words forever connect and resonate in our hearts
Stay Safe as Always 🎶🫶✨️☯️🕊☮️🧡🙌🌟🧿
Lovely video, well said. Keep thinking wonderful thoughts. You are a beautiful soul. God bless you, your baby and your husband.
I currently suffer from both depression and burned out so this video really spoke to me about self love and boundaries and such. Kindest regards from Sweden
This is the best video to start off a friday morning🫶 wishing everyone a beautiful rest of your day
Happy winter! I value your videos so much! You help me connect with the seasons and appreciate what *is* in my life. You inspire me to create beauty and whimsy in my own home. I'm incredibly impressed by the poise and wisdom you possess at such a young age. ❤
It feels like you were speaking directly to me. This is exactly where I'm at right with feeling overwhelmed, depressed, anxious and broken. After reaching a point of crisis, I had to reach out for help and am beginning a process of facing the past pain and trauma to heal while moving forward. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us all.
I used to love the gothard sisters when I was about 14!❤ (I'm 23 now) I used to dance to them too. That just made me so happy to see you enjoy them like I do. Such a talented group of sisters 😊❤
I just love all your sweet touches in your home.💕. Great video, self respect is so important. You are so talented with your art.
It sounds like "a dark night of the soul". And it is something that can happen more than once. I think I might be there now.....Loved your video and your dance in the snow with the Gothard Sisters 💖
Pretty winter coat on kitty.
It doesn't snow where I live, but through your videos, I can see its beauty, including the warm scenes inside your house. Thank you for bringing viewers wonderful scenes of life ❤❤❤
There is this old desk I have once used as a computer desk, but now I use it mainly for writing poetry and things and sitting at the table for a snack every now and then.
I just love your videos so, so much. Been following you for a couple of years now and every single video resonates with me, my gosh. I so get the self doubt you're talking about, and how your perspective has changed as you look back on it now. Such a beautiful outlook. ❤ Thank you for inspiring, always. 🥰
I love your channel.
Your approach to how you manage your life is so on track for being peaceful
Thank you
Oh Lord, I don't know what it us like to not love yourself, to treat yourself kindly. I feel so sorry for those who don't know who they really are. You are the physical manifestation of The Source energy.....of all that is. You have a spark of God in you. Please, everyone, treat yourself accordingly ❤❤❤