My Wife Spent $5,000 Without Telling Me!
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This woman just proved she should absolutely NOT be giving any sort of advice, motivational or not, to anyone!
Cancel the transaction, and break the news to your wife like this…. “Don’t be mad but…..”
🤣🤣🤣 so perfect. ☕
Perfect 🤣
😆
Call thr card company asap and say it was a mistake haha
Oh, I think she's going to be really mad!
She can be a motivational speaker on UA-cam for free. People do it everyday.
Tik-Tok and Tide Pods!
She wants to be a motivational speaker that gives people life advice, and she gets suckered into spending $5k over the phone for services she doesn't need? Yikes!
Clearly the salesman was very motivational haha
Listen to the guys voice. You can tell why the wife did it. Guy has no spine and she knew he would just end up taking it with no major consequences for her actions.
One can become a Ramsey financial coach by taking a training that costs 2k. I remember the call that a Ramsey financial coach made to the show to ask a really simple question…
Hahha said the same thing to myself SMH
A lesson in what not to do.
You think this is bad, just imagine what this woman is going to be like when she’s 75 and Nigerian princes start leaving her huge inheritances.
I sometimes bemoan that I'm still single at my age, then I hear stories like this and I perk back up.
I feel you, the grass isnt always greener on the other side lol
@@SkyThoughtss when it come to certain things that is 100% false
Imagine not being able to spend 30 dollars on a nice dinner after work because, mArRiAgE.
We better off! !
Not worth it to be married! !
Matt Foley didn't spend $5000 to become a motivational speaker. He just lives in a van down by the river.
GOOD ONE
Plot twist: George is so confident he can make the refund because the motivational speaking business is his own secret side hustle.
That's how it sounds lol
Lets not
I would be mad, I would cancel the transaction, but I would forgive her. She did tell him about it right away and did not try to hide it...she just got snowed by a sales pitch. It happens...some people are too agreeable and susceptible to sales pitches.
It's so strange that people who haven't done anything want to be motivational speakers. Smh
I think she led the Allied forces in WW2?
I think one of the biggest things here besides her going behind her husbands back is the fact that she wants to be a "motivational speaker". That's not something you just "Do". If you aren't speaking from experience or speaking on a specific subject that you also have years of experiance in you can't be a motivational speaker. It's not something you just "get in to".
Agreed: most people I know who are motivational speakers are ones on a specific topic (for example we had one when I was in high school who talked to us about not making silly mistakes like he did as a teenager, he was amazing and I still remember him to this day) and most have a full time job and that is either something they do for their employer in addition to their other job duties or as a side gig.
@@littlesongbird1 good points, but what the other person who posted may not realize, nothing in the video says she doesn't have any experience. Maybe she has experience, and is just nervous talking in front of people. Plus, lots of people have the gift of speaking and can talk to people without hardly any experience, but because they sound good, they can sell people. Used car sales people do it all the time. Politicians. Etc
The best speakers have something to unique and inspiring to say. Based on this phone call I question what that would be.
She picked motivational speaking, which is crazy. That is something done on a subject someone has done successfully for years.
It would be like me being a motivational speaker for golf, when I have actually picked up a golf club once in my life.
Motivational speaking is a secondary 'career' AFTER you have done something else successfully. Sounds like cart before the horse situation.
"Don't be mad" is the "with all due respect" of relationships.
“Having said that…”
LOL, she wants to be a motivational speaker, but she can't be motivated to stick with a plan?!
"Don't throw a grenade over the fence and say 'don't be mad' " Great Dave Ramsay quote.
Sounds like a pyramid scheme to me.
George pulling rank on other companies! "Tell them we said to refund it, I know those guys."
BOSS PLAYA
Usually you need to have achieved something to be a motivational speaker. The vanity of this woman
Her first "Ted Talk" could be titled:
"Lessons learned. How my selfish self destroyed a marriage"
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Financial infidelity is one of the worst things ever! I know a couple that got divorced when he found out his wife built up 100k in CC Debt! Of course he was looking the other way all along!
What is it she’s planning to motivate within others?….betrayal?…irresponsibility?…entitlement?…
exactly.
Cancel, cancel cancel.
It sounds like Dave took it more personally than the caller did.
Holy Cow....life rule...if it's over $50, we discuss it...I even let him know how much groceries cost each week. He tells me how much his fuel expense etc was. NO way, would I spend that without talking to my husband about it. She is impulsive. The worst kind of spender.
I would agree if it's outside of the agreed upon budget. My wife spends $200+ on clothes at a time without checking in with me, because it's already been budgeted.
That's a good rule. It's also a check on impulse spending when you have to discuss it with your spouse first.
$50 seems really low
I get my motivation speaking in the UA-cam comments 😉🤣😁😅😂
She did it because she has no respect towards her husband. If she did she would at least talk to him first
If she had any common sense, she would have hung up the phone.
They don’t have money issues( they can’t communicate and he is too much of a simp to be in control of what’s happening under his roof
“All about me” wife 🙂
George is a great face for future of the Ramsey show
Totally agree.
George is a simp in training
Way better than Rachel.
@@kurtjames9487 he’s just a drone, Rachel thinks for herself
@@Wealth_Wisdom_Discernment there's no need to Simp around here. George will be a better heir.
Get her to make the call to cancel. It will save you many heartbreaks!
Lol "motivational speaker" there's no such thing like that. The people who go around talking and motivating are people who achieved something exceptional in their lives, not people who set out to be "motivational speakers," you can't be taught that. She fell for contrepreneurs using high pressure sales pitch tactics to close on her for a $4,997 upsell package BS something like that.
Not necessarily, anyone who has the gift of talking can sell people without a lot of experience.
She really stressed him out you can hear it in his voice.
I’m so sorry Cody some partners just ain’t sh%t at times.
Call the CC company & cancel the transaction immediately. Tell them that you did not authorize it. You also have a "cooling off" period that allows you a certain period of time to do this without any repercussions.
Guess you done this before, huh lol
@@truegrizzlesfan2292 I just know the rules. Dave will tell you the same.
Start off by offering her speaking at local mom's groups, churches, women's clubs, school auditorium ( if speeches apply there)
George came in clutch in this segment.
@4:40 Papa Dave's "don't be mad" impression 🤣
George's best segment. Nice one
Agree very cool of George 💯💯
If she keeps this up they will be living in a van down by the river while working as a motivational speaker.
Wife needs a wake up call, this is grounds for divorce.
I don't think this is necessarily the end of this marriage, but this is the kind of thing you spend months or years rebuilding from.
Yeah if this happens once then it will happen again if not handled correctly. It turns into "I dont care if youre mad, I spent 10k on another course because you dont trust me, and i can make my own decisions."
Actually only infidelity is grounds for divorce..money comes and goes.
@@KjtheGreatPro What are you talking about? This IS infidelity
@@arga400 5k isnt grounds for divorce. I do not agree with that.
@@KjtheGreatPro This is financial infidelity.
Local colleges do that for free! Or you can take a course for a lot lower!
When you're married and you are an extremely nice person and ever find yourself cornered by a sales person, best way to turn down the offer is to say '' well, I really I appreciate this offer but I need to talk to my wife/husband about it first. We will keep in touch".. my wife and I use it a lot. It works
I use that a lot too. I straight tell them I don’t make financial decisions without discussing it with my husband first. They go on to try and push that boundary, buts still a nope.
why would you say that your wife would be mad if you went behind her back? She went behind your back by hiding that she spent $5000 when she knew she was supposed to be on the plan.
Its like when you hear an accountant thats behind on their personal bills.
Who wants to bet is an MLM?
Nice one George 👍
He is afraid of his wife it sounds like..She wanted it no matter what..Bad situation to be in..
Throw away the whole wife
She needs to start by motivating herself to not get suckered out of money she does not have to spend. I agree with asking for a refund of what has already paid.
My wife and I, 19 years married, agreed on $50 was the limit we could spend without telling each other. I did it once. And I can fully trust her.
We have the same $ limit around here. 38 year married tomorrow.
@@theirmom4723 happy anniversary!!
Sounds like she got scammed into MLM.
Absolutely ridiculous that she would do this…I would never! What’s up with this entitlement mentality?
She might be mad if you try to cancel. Shell probably have to make the call ,and be mad about it.
She wants to be a motivational speaker but the wife can even motivate herself to save money!
What’s her name? So I don’t have to listen to her on UA-cam
That's a pipe dream.
If your wife spends 5k without telling you, shame on you for not being a man and being the head of the house. Take responsibility because you allowed this to happen
Wow Dave didn't simp out and somehow blame the caller for this.
Consider learning the difference between being blamed for something and being held accountable for your own reaction to something.
@@b.1162 I have, that's whyI wrote this comment. Perhaps you should watch a few of these videos and see him simping out for yourself so that your next opinion would be an _informed_ opinion.
@@stephenshelton4267 I don't know why you'd assume I haven't watched just as many or more Ramsey/Deloney videos than you have. It's because I've watched responses to hundreds of different people that I know there's no "simping" -- a word that says far more about you than the hosts.
I'm thriced divorced and I live in a van down by the river 😁
Smart human
ILOVE YOU GEORGE :D!!!!!! AND DAVE :-) AND RACHEL AND ALL THE RAMSEY PEOPLE LOL
I d be mad, and she is not even my wife, to be fair the caller did acknowledge that they are only Davish which leads to gray lines.
Something something combined finances....smh
Bigger problems for them in their future.
Thank you George for calming the waters and giving professional tactful in a respectable manner.
Dave needs to chill and not jump on folks. I tend to see this more and more often. Thanks George!
However after George talked to the caller and came up with a solution...Dave did chill out a bit.
Some folks need to be jumped on!!
I think that’s what makes Dave’s show entertaining, is that he says it like it is . Snowflakes should not call if they can’t handle the truth .
I think the callers know what they're getting into when they call Dave. He's a no-nonsense kind of guy.
If you want to be treated nicely, you dont call this show when dave is on the air 😂
I kind of want to see her now because she sounds like she'd be terrible. Most motivational speakers are wildly successful or survived something life-threatening. She sounds like she picked this on career day because the job sounded cool.
George doesn’t know people. People know George.
She is delusional! !!
Thats why i dont get married. I dont want to share my money with an another woman who can spend my money divorce me and take half of my money and pension
I was listening to a video that said Ronald reagan was actually the one who signed no fault divorce into law. Before that , it was taken more seriously and someone couldn't let spouse go for a selfish reason
A motivational speaker. Lol with your own personal life in shambles. Um no thanks.
usually..... you become a speaker after accomplishing something amazing lol
Well at least she is a motivation for me . Not to this kind of stupid stuff 😅😅
Make the wife cancel the transaction or get the refund. Clean up her own mess.
Good call George🐫 😅!
And I want to be a cowboy. This is someone spending too much time on tiktok
This woman needs to get into counselling, she sounds like she's having some serious issues.
She could pay me $500. I’ll take her to 10 open mics. Simple.
Some really bad feedback in the comments. Fix this, forgive, and grow.
Ask for a refund there will be pushey.
Wonder what will happen if I cancel the sale on any of Dave’s products.
Is it 6 o’clock in Boise Idaho?
Well it is 8 o'clock in Boise Idaho, the limo driver........
My wife an I’s rule is under $100 we just buy it 100-300 we give a heads up and anything more we sit down and discuss
That what UA-cam & podcast are for 😂
At this moment: I'm glad I'm not married! I make my financial decisions all by myself!
Me too. My finances are so much better.
Seen a lot of this happen with coworkers through the years.
Even emptying out the 401k without husband knowing.
A 401k legally belongs to the individual, not the couple, so there’s not much that can be done about that.
That’s grounds for divorce.
@@rachelharrison7961
I know my 401k belongs to me because I'm not married.
But not good knowing you have less in your 401k and/or a loan and not know it because of a spouse.
@@rachelharrison7961 marriage..it belongs to both spouses. In divorce the individual 401k is split 50/50
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People will literally do anything to not have a job and go to work. Motivational speaker, really? You need a job lady.
she got scammed.
I thought I heard Dave say she spent it on a car or was it for some motivational speaking class
Guys you need balls. If your wife does this you have every right to be mad. It’s disrespectful. If she doesn’t respect you she doesn’t love you imo
You cannot have balls if all your $ is stripped from you and you are on the streets. She can also throw you in jail for verbal abuse and she does not even have to prove it.
What she did was totally wrong. I wonder does she always have great ideas but can't implement them. Quick rich schemes are so tempting. If she needs help to get started what she going to do when she has to take of the business by herself.
I am in this situation.. i am to get experience 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺.
cancel and close your CC"s dude, that would solve that
Live as a simp, get into debt as a simp.
Good luck getting that money back with a debit card. Oh my God the irony!
Holy yikes.
Dave hired his secret son and no one can tell me otherwise
Sings “We come together cause I’m, dressed like, a cat.” No, just me?
What happened with Kelly?
Wonder what else she doing without telling you
She wants to be a motivational, but cannot motivate herself to save money 🙄
She wants to be a motivational speaker, too bad they are already motivated salesmen.
If anything this say something about the man, you're not in control of your wife and marriage. If she had respect for you at the very least she would asked you what you think.
Men lead woman follow.
Lol. There’s no control but self control. Sounds like you want a child, not a spouse.
@@V.Hansen. it seem like we got a triggered single cat lady karen here 🤣
No we Don’t !
@@diahill1945 facts don’t care about your feelings hun, its been like that since the beginning of humanity and will keep being like that. Its in our DNA
Proverbs 31