How to Deal with Character Assassination |
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They hate you because they cannot use you.
Narcissists that knows , you know
So many horrible people. It's demoralizing.
Its 3:50am, I just came by your video, it help me so much, I'm a older female who is dealing with wicked people in my, mostly family. Listening to your video has help me out so much and thank you.
"Good people will recognize good people." Amen to that, sir. Trolls gonna troll. The right people will know the difference.
I was character assassinated by my ex. I caught him cheating on me and then we broke up. Once the other girl dumped his ass he came back to me but I refused. Guess what happened after that? Rumors, lies, rumors about my virginity, sexual preferences he stopped at nothing. Everyday a new rumor about me popped up. Everyone I knew, except two friends, believed him and stopped talking to me. That time was hard but well I kept my head down and went about my life in the best way possible. That was 14 years ago. Since then I have moved to a different country, have a great career, happily married and now I have a wonderful little baby boy. Most of the people who ignored me at that time tried apologizing. I accept their apologies but the trust is broken so I keep my distance from them. 6 years ago my ex tried to Facebook friend me 😮. I blocked him and honestly really felt good while doing that.
Yup happened to me...and the sheeple group of people feed into the gossip and I have been bullied
But I stay strong 💪
I lost someone I thought I had a soul connection with, because people were slandering me and they happened to be friends with him. He believed them. From one day to another he turned against me for apparently no reason. So did another 30 acquaintances, friends, mates, potential colleagues, cafe owners, church goers, grocery store staff… because the slanderers made up lies about me. The slanderer wrote me that he was attracted to me and he asked me 6 times if I want to go for coffee. I said okay. Only as friends, nothing else. He didn’t show up. But He kept asking. He didn’t show up again. He kept asking. Like a lunatic. Eventually I blocked him. After that he told everyone lies about me. It seemed like he said I’m a stalker. A stalker!!!! He was the one writing me!! I had zero interest in him. So I lost the ONE person I have EVER felt a real connection with. And I’m no spring chicken. I lost my education, income and home because of this because I chose to leave the place due to harassment. It had consequences that trickled down and made life….. not what I’d wished for. Like having a family. A job. Friends. I’m living on a prayer. I feel I should be grateful though. Maybe god finds a way. Maybe life finds a way. Like someone said; “the right relationship is not brittle”. The right relationship is not brittle. God bless you all.
I understand so completely!!! 😭
You are my spiritual doppelganger! I am going through the exact same thing! Person pursued me I befriended them but wasn't interested in a romantic relationship and I HAVE BEEN BASHED horribly. What's crazier is how easily feeble minded people believe the nonsense... I actually tried to squash the situation and the person told me "I don't want anyone else to have you" 😳 so I'm grateful my character is the only thing they assassinated because with that thinking it could have been much worse! Plus, I believe whoever stays away because of what has been said is actually God protecting me! I am now looking to relocate 😢
@@bonnieyuse5876 Same.
You will make it. God did not want you to build a life with those people in an environment that coexists with them. I lost everything too, I went back to my parents and took a break and things are better… so please rest assured you didn’t lose anything or anyone… you were removed! Hope you are making ways to build yourself back up. No one ever realises how much damage a lie can do to one’s life. It completely ruins it. I will say though that the perpetrator got their karma. They went through divorce, lost a job that they worked very long time at. So yes, GOD will fight your battles. Pray and keep your head high. So what’s good for you. Dont let em get away with the last of you. Give it to Christ 🙏🏾 May God be with you.
If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat;
And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink;
For so you will heap coals of fire on his head,
And the Lord will reward you.
Proverbs 25:21-22
Enemies of the lord will flee is holy face, but the Lord will laugh as he knows their days are numbered.
Psalm 37:13, Psalm 68:1
Amen... I've Read That Scripture Myself!!! 👍👍👍
100%
This is a WORD. Well said. I've had lots of flying monkeys over the years. One time my only "crime" was diffusing a situation where folks tried to bully someone. Since I wasn't on-board...the ring-leader slandered my name. Made up bogus accusations & next thing I know, months later I have one of her unknowing followers try to fight me at the grocery store?!?! 🙄 I'm talking grown adults all over 30 yrs old.
I am WHISTLEBLOWERS in Louisiana and I took in HORRIFIC GRUESOME DOCUMENTS on my formal supervisor RAY LAMONICA LSU law PROFESSOR government officials murder rape children pornography pedophile molestation child trafficking human trafficking prostitution BILLIONAIRE criminal empire organization. I worked for these MONSTERS for almost three decades until I took in these DOCUMENTS I was fired/BLACKLISTED arrested and they put a target on my back. In Louisiana CITIZENS are compensated with incentives to DESTROY me innocent people lives. These government officials spread lies slander discredit me political smear CAMPAIGN infiltrated bribe blackmail recruited compensated family members to ASSASSINATE my character. Even my husband who I have been with for almost three decades infiltrated compensated abandoned me moved out gaslight slander discredit me while we coparent. My daughter gaslight me so that she doesn't get target anymore by family members friends neighbors community coworkers and to keep her job.
Some people just need someone to hate. I don't try to rationalize irrational behavior. Great advice and very true!
Jealousy is rottenness to the bones. Very destructive. Thank you for your insights. Great video.
“Trying to understand where it comes from will drive you crazy.” I wish someone told me this years ago. I went through a deep suicidal depression. The gaslighting and manipulation was crazy that I couldn’t take it anymore. I know better now.
Someone that character assassinates you at work is jealous of you, and is trying to control how other people see you to undermine your reputation. They cannot undermine your competence if you refuse to let it impact your work. On top of that they are displaying their weakness to you - jealousy.
Normally psychopaths like to torture others, but today you are going to learn to be a torturer with the following three steps:
1. No Contact - You have to interact with them on work matters, but limit it to this. Do not engage in any way, shape, or form beyond this. Back out of any other conversations they try to start with you using lines such as sorry, I`m busy at the moment.
2. Emotional Regulation - Deal with your own issues that they may be trying to target. Learn not to get angry or upset if they go for your weaknesses. With weaknesses you have and they haven`t spotted yet, hide them. Tell no one about them.
3. Torture - Be the best humanly possible at your job. You know their weakness, so use it. Brag, talk about all your achievements, all your positive traits. And when you run out of them, make more up. You want to be the best performer in history, and be perceived by them as the brightest most positive shining example of the greatest human being known to man. That will send their jealousy into orbit.
Initially they will get worse, a lot worse. Especially at number 3. But it usually goes one of two ways quickly from there:
1. In an attempt to be the best they will start cheating at their work, take risks, or rush through as much as possible leaving mistakes all over the place. They will usually have left within a month.
2. They with their hyper-sensitive to envy problem, are going to have a meltdown at number 3 if you keep it up. As that negative emotional state of theirs gets stronger their true nature will come out. Whether it be shouting threats or insults as soon as they flare up you have them. They will character assassinate themselves as a whack job. With the shouting of threats and insults dont forget to help them out the door by getting them a warning for it.
Hey question I’ve had this happen to me and I’ve done this and now I have stalkers didn’t know I had them until it became obvious sent me into shock how many I had I get death threats everyday about the police sniping me Muslims or Hispanics or white devils going to kill me my reputation has been destroyed through word of mouth come to find out my family was behind it. I’m cutting off all contact but the things said about me are insidious I’m called a pedophile I exposed pedophilia through religion and other people I’ve seen along with racism I’m confused so confused I know I’m safe it’s just hot air, but there’s rumors about me reaching different states me being called a pedo fag psycho pussy I can’t fight everyone any advice would be greatly appreciated
There hasn't ever been ONE female that has ever been a REAL friend to me due to jealously...it's pathetic...I'm going threw this
You put it nicely explained pretty closely what I am going through in my small 5:31 little hate town I live in and I’ve been doing what you said for years people know more about me than I do what a way to go through life
I do believe the combatiness is what they desire. I think moving normal & solid & being positive is the key.
Stay on your square ⬜
Best advice ever. I heard about these things and always thought it was not that common until it happened to me.
So true sir...I am dealing with same thing and can't share with anyone Boone believes and I don't know how to get away from it ...it feels horrible ..one of school person ( girl) she was jealous to a point that my school life went horrible since she got admitted she was doing bloody castism then I faced it in graduate college after getting dropped out I am not sure but I feel there were some bad rumours and also after dropping out I'm Soo embarrassed to face them they are also friends on FB..it's very disturbing...saddest part is this school girl is now ahead of me roaming like a bloody pig as if nothing has happened ..how .???how such people are happy why don't karma hit them the bloody same way
Amen!!
Leave it at the altar...
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I once defused an argument between a couple... The man was grateful and the woman looked at me with hatred.
That's an awesome commentary! You said a mouthful there. That should be mandatory curriculum in every school in the country.
Thanks man. This genuinely made me feel better and I’m gonna visit this video many more times because this is reality and I can’t let those people get to my head.
Also watch David Diga Hernandez on how to handle slander soooooo helpful
Thanks my parents are arguing about this upstairs.
Great message man.. don’t fight fire with fire.
Thank you some crooks tried that on me. Not ok ! Won't happen !
All I heard was Facts brother. Thanks for this.
Perfectly said!
Excellent and timely advice for me! Thank you 😊
Wow, thank you! I have liked and subscribed!
Thank you very much.
Great video. Wish there was more ppl like you in the world
Great video. Needed to hear this.
Thanks bro, your a healer❤
Thank You... I Needed to Hear That, After Breaking Up with This Guy. He'd Called Me Out of the Blue, Saying... Why Did You Take that Out of My Box!!! I'm Like... What Are You Talking About??? What Have I Suppose to Have Taken From You??? Then He Just Hung up!!! WTF... CHARACTER ASSASSINATION IS REAL!!!
I'm Not Going... I've Block His Number Period!!! 👍
Well said .I needed to hear it. Love ur content and topics u come up with.keep going
Mother speaks alot of lies about me with my third sister who is her favourite child
Same
I needed this today thank you
This is great. Thanks so much. Now if only the person they reported the lies to believes what you are saying too.
Thanks. I needed this.
Thank you. Great advice and knowledge
A group of people in school are trying to teamup on me and backbite me, like they teamed up w themselves to tackle me in a soccer match purposely and it happened and they laughed at it. What should I do, they keep trying to tease me and say stuff too make me look weak and stupid, is there any advice?
I was slandered in front of 30 people at a recovery meeting. I made a new, pretty girl smile, and laugh. A woman spoke up and started calling me a 13 stepper which is the same as calling me a predator, I didn't respond. I've talked about it and what it does to a person but people think I'm full of shit. So I haven't mentioned it at the following same meetings. I'll try to keep my mouth shut tomorrow, very difficult when you are called a predator.
Spot on!
BRAVO!!! EXCELLENT ACCURATE ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I have experienced this
So much insightful
Thank you for this.
Great video. 👍you talk well
This girl has been slandering me for 2 years. I turned her sex advance down. A month ago, at a mutual recovery meeting this pretty young new girl decided to sit next to me. During the meeting I gave her instruction as to how the meeting proceeds. The girl thought I was funny for some reason and laughed and giggled throughout the meeting, and this pissed off all the guys and the girls there. At the end of the meeting this woman spoke up and started accusing me a being a 13 stepper which is a man who preys on new girls, she went on about this in front of all 30 people there for about five minutes. She just knows she knows my heart and mind. I've never seduced nor attempted to seduce any girl in the meetings I attend, not once in 4.5 years. There is nothing I can do so I attempt to deal with it. I've lost both female and male friends because they just know.
This is happening to my favorite musician right now.
defamation…how to deal wth those people posing my private photo how to make that website reported so they can delete those pictures of mine
Brilliant ✨💖🙏🏻🥰
This video made me subscribe to u g thanks a ton yo
Your a Great Man Tiger.
Thank you
Truth
Question: How do you handle it when the character assassination is on social media and it’s about your hygiene?
Anybody who gets on social media or anywhere else and smears someone, assassinates someone's character about their "hygiene" or anything else so personal- regardless of whether it's true or not - is evil and toxic, pure and simple. These people are saying more about themselves than you, and most people see straight through them whether they admit it or not. You have done nothing wrong, and at the end of the day you have only your conscience to deal with.
I love this guy he seems legit like a man of God🙏🙏✨♾️❤️🩹 and he’s right never GIVE THE DEVIL A REACTION. Stay still and know that God is God. When evil digs a hole to make you fall in. God says they shall fall in their own evil hole. 🙏❤️🩹 ever since I started following Jesus Iv been treated with the most ever loving and hating nonsense and harassment. FAITH OVER FEAR
New subscriber on DECK....
Going through this right now
How i dont have to in unjust enrichment and prohibit of the free exercise of religion.
Oŕ you can Sue Them
Hi, is this applicable to a narcissist ex trying to ruin my name? Legit questions.
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Hello! Dont know whom to share with but listen my roommate and her boyfriend were close to me ..her boyfriend became good friend with me he used to ask her photos and i used to help him also by giving ideas of different dating places has a suggestion to take her and then one sudden day in the night i started crying remember some old shits and then he asked me what happened intitally i denied later he forced and said think i am ur friend and it will remain has a secret forever u can share with me then i just said i remember my ex and i didn't lag i ended the conv there only and then gradually he became close everything was normal i trusted him that he us good person and he was also really a good brother and then one day his girlfriend my so called friend miss understood all these things and blamed me that im bad person....im feeling very bad that y did i even became friend with them
I pay them no mind. I just work, stay in the house and enjoy god and my money.
This man has never met an alcoholic