Jordan Peterson | Start With the Small Things - Legacy Video -
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- Опубліковано 22 тра 2017
- Dr. Jordan Peterson's advice for those who are looking to sort out their lives - start with the small things.
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One month of listening to this guy:
Going to school
Working out everyday
Wear nice cloths
Eating healthy
Working on my future dream
Getting in touch with friends
AND a clean room
This guy is BOSSSS
working out every day is pointless and unsustainable
ok
Not if you alternate strength training and running.
Working out everyday is not pointless and unsustainable. You are a fool!
Congratulations on that, very impressive. Keep it up
Anyone else struggle with believing and feeling the truth of what Jordan says, but leaving it at “WOW! That’s so true and a great idea to live by.” instead of actually making the change in themselves?
“Imagine your walking down blore street and a guy who’s alcoholic schizophrenic been on the streets for ten years walks up to you incoherently mutters something. That’s a problem. It would be good if you could fix it but you haven’t got a clue about how to fix that. You just walk around that and go find something that you could fix because if you muck about in that not only is it unlikely that you’ll help that person, it’s very likely you’ll get hurt yourself. - Dr.Jordan Peterson”
One more Jordan Peterson video, then I will clean my room.
I clean my room while listening to him!
same
Clean room then listen.
I pause it, clean one thing, play it, think of one more thing, pause it...you should see my kitchen...way more sorted in micro incidents of change LOL...
LeglessTable, HA! That's good....
Im honored to be alive at the same time this guy is.
You arnt alive
True true
Main ideas:
1. There's no difference between your house and your being.
2. Your environment is your field of being, your field of experience.
3. Even if you can't control everything in your field of being, you can do something to improve yourself so you don't suffer more than you have to.
4. You care, even if you don't think so.
5. Sit in your bedroom and meditate for 10 minutes asking yourself:
"If I wanted to do this room better, what would I have to do?" It's a genuine question, not a command.
6. Fix the things you do every day, they're not trivial, they're the most important things.
7. Minimize the traps in which you can step into.
8. Stay within your domain of competence.
9. Setting aims reconfigures your mind around those aims. You see what you aim at, so be careful what you aim at.
10. When you communicate, decide to listen, you may hear something you don't know.
11. All you need to get out of a conversation is 1 thing you don't know.
12. The exchange of truth is curative.
13. Minimum precondition to engage in therapy.
a) You admit something is wrong.
b) You're willing to talk about it truthfully
c) You want it to be better.
14. If it isn't therapeutic, what you have is not a relationship.
spanishlessons.tech thank you
spanishlessons.tech lol thanks for the study guide
thank you
Truth produces health.
I love these summaries below yt vids - it regains my trust in humanity that we will work together to make our lives better.
I learn so much from Dr. Peterson, but I swear that every time I listen to him I feel like I'm trying to drink from a fire hose.
Lol, he does throw a lot of information out at once.
yea i've met him too, that's another peterson
rather slutty
CTFU
Dallas Burns that is SUCH a great analogy! Yes exactly.
Hope you don't mind if I use that ...
I cleaned my room because of this guy.
Me too.
i cleaned my room because it was starting to get messy, why aren't i a rock star psychology professor with loads of sighing 20 year old boys around me?
xd
Sid Arthur because you dont care about getting swoll. Gotta hit da weights, get big!
1234Daan4321: Was it not rather because of the you he reminded you of that you cleaned your room? HE wakes me up to myself and my life, although I am too far down to manage to rise alone. And I don't dare to do things like cleaning my room, because if it doesn't show that I need personal assistence, I may wait another 36 years. I need someone to co-work with or to help, and ppl to socialize with regularly.
No amount of imagination could have made me believe a clinical phycologist could be the equivalent to a comic book hero.
Haha imagine Dr. Peterson as the incredible hulk! He would make short work of that psychological trials of being the hulk.
But serious, well said - Juda M
Dr. Peterson would make a great Dr. House 2.0
and way better....because Dr Pete is real
He's far more sympathetic than House
He's taken some controversial political stances but even if you disagree with his politics I couldn't imagine discounting his expertise in psychology. He's a man who treats everyone with respect and genuinely wants to leave his students with something better or at the very least challenge the way they think.
That's not politics, that's a man doing his damn job.
When I don't know where to start I start looking for garbage to throw away. It gets momentum going.
Been tidying my room for a week and a half now, just a bit by bit, and the amount of little things I have found that I had misplaced and forgotten I had in the first place is surprising. And I will contiue to keep tidying......a bit at a time, as my room is FULL of clutter!
Moved onto my jewellery collection.......which is extensive. This WILL take some time........
Step by step :)... i hope your room is tidy atm!
Pain and desperation either lead to self destruction or unimaginable creativity.
My brain: *"Why not both?"*
@@Niggipoo same
@@Niggipoo take vincent van Gogh, he got both
Ive never been to colledge. I dropped out in 10th grade and got my GED. Still, I never stopped my quest for understanding. Not knowing but actually understanding the human condition, spirituality and the social aspects of life. Dr. Peterson has reached me in a way, that has stirred my soul. I can actually understand him. Im blessed to have found hid lectures online. Its changing my understanding of the three issues that have I could never understand. Im filled with something I lost long ago. The desire to move foward and not give up. To not only learn but understand.
This guy is psycho-educating on a scale never seen before, he is the tribe head, the lost dad and a social media expert in one person.
I NEED TO TAKE A SHIT
"The truth will set you free!"
I actively chose to not go to college..
And here I am, at 1 in the morning, watching this.
Same but hes right swear no bs this lowkey blew my mime im on acid btw
As long as you CLEAN YOUR ROOM..
Well not everyone should.
what do you do?
Well, that's the beauty of putting these lectures up on the internet; it doesn't cost sixty thousand dollars.
This explains why my whole adult life has revolved around romantic relationships, how to make them work most efficiently, because my ultimate goal has been to be a wife and mother. I'm high in agreeableness too, always putting others first, and indeed it's most unfortunately led to my exploitation. Until Dr. Peterson articulated it, I never realised the correlation between agreeableness and the mother-infant relationship. It makes sense.
This reminds me whole lot of the old saying "grant me the serenity to accept things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference". Good stuff.
"Organized room, organized mind."
As someone who is being awakened. As someone who is climbing out of hell, finding ways to make my stay in hell easier he is without a doubt proof of what I can become. He is my mentor and inspiration!!!
I've been doing emdr therapy for over a year. I've quit smoking, drinking, drugs, found good medication for my depression. Like oh my God can't say enough
Hi Roaseanna, I jut started EMDR, its amazing isnt it.
@@roxanecarbery1759 yes it is
Good for you. I’m getting my shit together too lol
If I had teachers like him I can't say that I would be a straight "A" student but I can say for sure that I would always be attending to classes.
Ali İhsan Elmas definitely
I just mopped my whole house and cooked a healthy dinner ❤️❤️
God bless you Jordan! You have given me the tools to survive 50+ years of chaos and darkness! You have no idea how much hope I have!! Going to straighten some pictures now 😉
The amount of knowledge/truth he provides in one video is equal or more than you find in the average best seller book about this topic. You rock JP!
I was in a prison cell for 10yrs & every time I was put in SEG I'd write FREEDOM IS A STATE OF MIND, over the door. I'm now a Free man however still a prisoner until I notice I've been thinking, behaving a certain way. I know how Ignorant I am.
I am breaking a cycle of self destruction-self hatred, addiction to anything that will bring me misery. The inner seeker that wants me to be stupendous is much more audible, so I paint, feed birds & take photos, I know that I put good energy out, but am still self centred, I GET rewards, good pictures, love from a dog I walk & so this is my way forward.
The small things are massive, Thank you. I continue to listen.
Sometimes I watch one of jp videos and I cannot wait to stop watching in order to start living a better life. Magic?
I've got rid of 20 bags (big ones) of rubbish in the last two weeks. (I have my own home, 5 rooms) I am feeling so good! My house is looking so much better than it ever has. My drawers are all neat and tidy. I used the Konmari method which I saw on one of the JBP disscusion groups on FB, It works great - if it doesn't bring you joy, out it goes!
konmari you say? Interesting, will check it out.
Minimalism ⭐️
now get rid of the 5 bedroom house or you're going to end up cluttering it up again. and don't buy so much crap in the first place. next time you see a bargain piece of tat just imagine you owned it for as long as it would have taken for the novelty to wear off and send the money to me, everybody wins. i was cleaning my room and shitting and brushing my teeth every day for years before i'd heard of peterson, you can give me all that adoration as well, don't be shy. i'll show you exactly how to live. you see the fulcrum point of your whole life is in those little black crannies in the wheeps of your car, if you can make those gleam again then you're cured. you can buy my patent pending car wheel cleaning formula from my web site where you'll find all sorts of handy household hints. cure your ocd by dusting. cure depression by hoovering. go out and get a part time job to cure having too much time on your hands
well done you. i know what you did is hard.
Whenever you are tempted, say this to yourself, "I started the day without it, I can end the day without it."
I learnt that 2 days ago, it has already helped me.
"you see what you aim at"
If I had majored in this discipline and had professors like this, I would have actually been excited to go to class.
Same here, but I imagine I would have annoyed him with the questions I'd have after each lecture lol
I've never clicked something so quickly.
Went out with my friends for a night out.. One of the people of your group was talking ver nihilistic.
It´s 4:54 here in Belgium and i am watching this... cleaning up my room.
Fell much better and less overwhelmed now
i feel a "little less stupid" everytime I watch a JP video
I broke off an engagement because my ex liked our house to be chaos. Her excuse was “everyone’s house looks like this”. On weekends instead of spending a little time and helping me organize the house she would go shopping with her parents so she could bring home more chaos. In other words material items that were not required and more importantly not used. It’s terrible to live in chaos in your own home when you don’t want to. I’m still recovering.
i am going through the same :/
I've watched all of personality and maps of meaning and this clip is what hit me the most; I'm glad it's potent for others as well
I just can't listen to this guy without cleaning my room or having the room already clean.
One year of listening to this guy, while looking after my 1 year old, career change to apply as adult student and do nursing, show teenager at home uni is a great possibility and in 3 years qualify to help other single moms to onwards and upwards. Daily dose recommend is as much as you can, then keep repeating till you hear him on your shoulder...hahaaa it works from nz
I can’t get enough from Jordan Peterson
One of his best lectures.
I can share it with SO many people. So wise and logical.
I just started the fix. Was so depressed for years. Now i'm allready making plans. Room cleaned first. now folows the rest. The road is long, and humility is key. Just try not to overextend from start cous you burn out. (as i tried before, way too much at once when my father passed, went even deeper in depression then ever). Just by cleaning my room and start planing to fix my health is an upper allready. Now lets grow the frak up and get our act together ;)
out of your, out of your, out of your.... SOUL
thanks mr peterson, i cant believe how effective your speech is
I furnished my room hastily with little care or attention to aesthetics. Even the size of the room I set very low demands for, I put up no art or personal items. I see it now not simply as a sign or symbol of my apathy and poor self-image but instead as a direct externalization of it.
Yeah my bed was stuck in the corner, no pictures, curtains, etc. Now it looks pretty nice and really does feel better to relax in at bedtime.
He is such a wonderful speaker. U of T is so lucky to have him. And we are so lucky to have bits of him on You Tube.
This is life changing for me. Thank you sir.
Jordan, you have no idea how much impact you have on my family's life. thank you so much for everything. your approach and language are way better than any self improvement shit i have ever listened to. i started to apply your recommendations and i am already seeing changes in my life. cant thank you enough. you will be remembered as a real philosopher of our century.
This makes so much sense.
I love this guy. the things he says makes so much sense and gives me a really understanding of responsibility with how you can change your self in very positive ways.
He's speaking my thoughts again...
Genius in its simplicity.
Listening to this video alone has significantly changed my life.
I wish the whole world could hear this
I really love that guy, it becane my routine to listen to this guy and trying to fix some things
Thanks.
Jeeezus, what a gift this man is!
Thanks for posting
Another beautiful lecture. .. going to spend time cleaning my room now ..
Cleaning my room to this
I wished I came across his videos earlier in my life.. but later is better than never.. also i envy his students ..so lucky !!
I want to swallow up all his wisdom whole, but of course learning doesn't work that way.. Funnily enough this video is relevant to that, you have to carry on doing small things like thinking things through and discussing ideas openly to solve the problem of how to not be a schmuck.
man this guy is full so much useful knowledge.
I gotta make some chances
Brilliant!!!
Thanks for sharing.Jordon your very intelligent.I see a therapist and Doctor.I keep a clean organized house.but the mind is why I see the therapist.Im going to listen to u every week.thanks for taking the time to share your knowledge.
I love this guy. I hope to go to Canadia and sit in on a lecture one day
Mind Blown 🤯
so does that mean the world revolves around me ? Love J.P
Lived with a hoarder. It is their mind. It is their being.
You see what you aim at!!
Thank you for linking to the full video =)
This is a powerful video.
Love this one!
thank you so much for speaking out the truth ! love your videos, they are lifechanging, all this stuff that i think heard by a brillant person, talking without filtering and smoothing the truth ...
This one had me LOL SO HARD 😂 😆... Most precious Ibecause he was actually serious 😝 and he is so right. Thanks 🌹
nice to see you on my live stream yesterday, I will definitely share from your excerpts next time, hope it's OK :)
Sounds good :)
Love it!
Great Insights, sir!
Painfully true.
Ok so basically this guy may be the most honest guy on UA-cam!
Experiences gone through by individuals are not different from their beings. To organize your psyche, you could ask yourself. “What could I do to improve myself?” Why? Because you are willing to reduce unnecessary pain that blocks you. Once you integrate your thoughts and emotion, and decide to act it out, your aim would reconstruct your world. Then, the world manifests itself as the place where you can improve bunch of things. “Am I aiming at the right place, or direction?” That is another good question to ask. You see what you aim at. If negative experiences manifest itself, there’s a possibility that your goal is inappropriate.
11:30 was prime gold facts
"You see what you aim at...be careful what you aim at."
"The exchange of truth is curative ", "truth produces health",
I often start cleaning up parts of my life by cleaning my room and home. it feels cleansing to my soul in a way. like ive done something right and I just need to do another. and its one less thing visually and mentally cluttering me
WOW!!! ....at about 12:20, I realized that the concept of TWO, (or more) people, putting their ideas TOGETHER, and working TOGETHER, toward a Common Goal, even though their on different paths, and different trajectories, with different backgrounds, experiences, resources, etc., etc., is akin to the idea of an Investment portfolio, having more than just one investment vehicle, (perhaps just one stock, or one bond, or one mutual fund, etc.), and by virtue of having multiple, DIVERSIFIED investment vehicles, they can EASILY LOWER their Investment RISKS, while maintaining, and even IMPROVING their RETURNS/PROFITS, at the Same time!!! .... => There's a lot of Wisdom, and GREAT TRUTH in this!!!
It should be mandatory for every teacher and lecturer to watch all his videos. Things would be so different
Shout out to anyone who did the german subtitles. very good!
Good advice.
If we all did this, the world would be a better place.
Sam Harris and the new atheists are smart but this is wisdom and there's a huge difference
Dude, was laughing so hard at first 15 sec of this video. I exactly have those things in my many boxes and I have a lot of them :) And yes, I have OCD.
"What you aim at determines how the world manifests to you"
Wow that was great
Very interesting!
Amen
now that is what self improvement is. other gurus, take notes
Keep Calm, and Watch Jordan Peterson's Lecture.
very Zen, actually.
Wow.
Im cleaning my office while i listen to this.