5 Things Women Do In A RELATIONSHIP That Are The Biggest TURN OFFS for Men! You Know You're Guilty!
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I never chase. I don't cling. I don't go through his things. I don't snoop in his phone. If he wants to walk away, then I clear the path for his exit. I am not his keeper. I am not his mother. I don't babysit him. I can be his best friend if he needs me. I can let him be alone of he needs it. I have my things to take care of, and I have work to do.
My feelings are my responsibility. I can be a good listener if he needs a friend. I can keep his secrets to myself. But I know that he is his own person and if he walks away, I will get out of the way, but he better respect my boundaries. I of course will respect his.
The friends you’re sharing details of your relationship with might not even be your friends. They might be waiting to ruin everything and you’re giving them a chance to
That part
Most of them are waiting. Trust me. Even blood sisters.
Exactly!
thank you
This is what I appreciate about being in my 50s coz I have a better insight in how to behave in a relationship and not be so needy. Cant say the same when I was much younger
My motto is: a (real) friend is a friend to the relationship; respect the Union..
So true as my friends got married I started to distance to show understanding that her family is her priority.
😅😅😅😅😅. I laughed all the way THROUGH!!
So true!
I’ve been married 29 yrs next week and although I’m happily married I wish I had known a couple of these at the beginning. Especially he’s not responsible for my happiness. The moment I understood this I freed him and freed myself. Girls listen up!!
I thank GOD for you Fumi! I am 65 and I am like a student that sits at the feet of the teacher. Some things that you say are reminders of what I already know and some things you say are like a punch in the gut! Both of which are needed. Thank you a million times for your representation of a real Queen that makes me so grateful to be a Black Woman! I will share these gems with my granddaughters. Much love and respect. I am a fan for life…Denise from Philadelphia
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I'm with you ladies. I can't even remember how I discovered Fumi, but I'm so glad I did. I'm 65 and been around the block a few times myself so believe me when I tell you that this Queen on point!! Much ❤️ Fumination!!
I’m engaged but there’s no such thing as too much wisdom. Here to learn as much as possible.
My mother told me family & friends will only remember the bad you tell them and harp on it.
Aaahhh as for the complaining forget it. It’s the fastest way to get them out of the door. If you are in your 20’s listening to this and learning from Aunty Fumi, you have hit gold😃❤️❤️
The interesting thing is that these tips will work EVEN IN a marriage! It was on this channel i began to realize how simple men really are. We need women like these to reinforce what our mothers have taught us. No man needs a clingy, busybody woman for a life partner. Lovely episode, Aunty Fumi
How lucky are we that you give us this information for free!
You are the queen
Keeping your business between both of you is all it takes
It’s a complete turn off
The worst is the over caring and over calling
Encroaching into your personal space. Every one needs that special at some point but some people don’t understand because you are in a relationship they think they own you .
The funny part is when you are at work and they keep saying oh you don’t love me. I come first before every thing that’s crazy lol and a losers mind set
Your intro makes me smile each time. That animated bold strutting woman, tickles me much....😊😘
Omg…Auntie Fumi, THIS Video hits this issue right on the Mark. EVERY young Lady turning 18 should be required to watch this video. I mean it.☀️👍💜
I agree Fumi on the essentials. But I always keep in mind that I am me, with my personality and that I have my standards too. it is also a question of compromise.
Agree, have your social life, money and skills.
Men do look for stability, good mothers and character.
Divorce, Death, Job Loss, Illness will come.
Much love from Ghana!😍
I had a man like this, always complaining and it almost drove me crazy!!!! I had to cut him loose. I can't deal with friends like that either, it drives me nuts!!!!!! My father once told me I wear pants😂😂😂😂
You never disappoint big sister Fumi!!! Thank you so much for teaching us how to be high value women ❤❤❤
I had to learn many of these things from experience especially talking to friends. I am glad my man was very patient,, and still is.
Auntie Fumi you're always on point with advice.😇
God bless you mummy Fumi
Every bit is excellent advice that Iv’e always lived by. Congratulations on your 14 years! You look so beautiful and blessed as always. God bless you.
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Yes! You are 1000% right.
I've been married to my husband for 29yrs and that's what works
Very informative, I love when we as women want to lift each other up in a positive, respectful way. Keep sharing Fumi💃👏🤎
My Big Aunt fumigation. I'm learning a lot. My relationship will not be ruined. God bless you.
Aunty Fums!!!
We need a video for the long term relationships... the ones with children, the ones where it appears that everyone is "comfortable". How does one keep growing and keep him on his toes.. It brings the video of Natalie Clarice to mind where she says, "don't let your long term boyfriend keep you from your husband" 😀😃
I like this advice. Especially 😅the 1st one about not mixing our partners and friends. I don’t do it, either. Our relationship is only for us and I’m glad that my friends respect us ☝🏽🥰
Absolutely spot on. Brilliant. Your nation should listen.
I'm your newest fan Aunty Fumi, you always crack me up. Wisdom tips here, thank you
You hit the nail on its head with everything you said Mother Fumi!! You have to set boundaries and you are not responsible for anyone else's happiness! This video is the truth!!! ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 🙌🏾 👏🏽
Subscribing to your channel is one of the best decision that i made this year.
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The way you keep a straight face and a smile I between is lit👌👌👌👌if you are in a relationship then it requires the two of you,don't take your relationship issues outside. All the advices are on point.
Fumi is such a QUEEN.... have really learnt a lot from you since I started watching your videos for the passed few weeks thanks hun
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Yes she is as always
😂😂😂That part when Fumi is taking about her friend Cynthia
Thank you Auntie Fumi 💖💓🥰🕊️ sending love from a Sudanese sister!
Well said Fumi!! And as always ; to the point! Take note fumination, take note!!
Aunt fumi your a blessing to us the fumination.thank u so much dia
Your teaching is top notch 😅❤
Well said Fumi. I agree with your message. My son, slept on my for the first 6 months too 😂
As he is not a therapist 🤣🤣...I love you so much fumi. What you say it's true
I'm guilty of point 3...he even told me im doing too much🙆♀️🤦
new subscriber!! all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦
You hit the nail on the head with this one!
Yes, my sister. Compliment! Stop complaining.
Aunt Fumi we need more of this kind of content😊❤️
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You are brilliant!
Oh my God… aunty Fumi I do all those and now that you mentioned it when we are together he always seems extremely exhausted and out of it almost distant in fact like his bored
You are such a beautiful woman! Thanks Fumz! 🙏😍⚘
Big Sis I’m not dating yet but 😂I will use this advice for future reference 😊
Oh my goodness the first tip about friends is so true and I learned that the hard way…
Let's get Aunty Funmi to 500k subscribers 🥰
Loving your energy Fumi!🥰💖💖💖💖
The "too much complaining" is a turn off indeed😒.
A WOMAN OF CLASS TEACHING SO MUCH CLASS WOW JUST WOW FUMI
Preach Fumi preach♥
Fumi you could make a book of advice based off of your UA-cam videos alone!
Grateful for these lessons...
I'm motivated to do better, to start over, a complete overhaul if need be. You're a true blessing Aunty Fumi.
I'm happy and greatful I found your channel
Love your laugh. It's contagious.
I cherish and appreciate your words of wisdom Fumi 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for the advice Fumi!!!! The top/ dress is beautiful!!!
This episode was FACTS!!!! Loved it!❤
So true💞
Great advice, I tell my girls this all the time!
Thank you so much ma, you are blessed
Like always you never disappoint thank you for sharing Shalom 🕊💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
Love it its only two of u talk things out
That's me sms,what's up all times 😂
Thanks mama bear am learning
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I'm in total agreement with this video. Thanks for making it.
Yes you hit it on the nail again... thank you Fumi 😊
Yesssss I’m in a new relationship too look thanks auntie taking the advice
Thanks Sister Fumi, I always learn something new when you speak. Keep up the good work! 👍
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You're so practical Aunty Fumi.. Thanks a lot. Love from 🇳🇬Nigeria
Thank you so much Fumi 🙏you are my best
Last time you checked he is not a therapist Love it LOL
First to comment: Fumi, you are just sensational
Real men aren't controlling, we have standards. We're not gonna say it's ok to
• Wear bonnets in public
• Dress 👗 like a street walker
•Wear 🌈 rainbow colored wigs 👩🏾🦰👱🏿♀️
•Have 🕷 eyelashes
•Ghetto 💅 Fingernails
• Have a male bestfriend
OR
•Talk to us 🤷🏽♀️ any type of way
Coward Washington, I agree 110%..
Thank you for the tips. 😊❤️
Thank you so much Aunty Fumi!❤
Love it!!! Next video, Tips For married woman Please!!
You are amazing. Love the energy and your videos! Thank you.
Thank you Fumi ! God bless you ❤️
I really love your channel your advice is helping me.
Always a blessing Mrs. Fumi.
I agree everything you are saying 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️
That braid Yasssss
Fummi can you do a video on investing as women having their own money and climbing that ladder
Best coach ever 💙 love you ma ❤
Fumi thanks for all the positive advice you are a great Woman, I do appreciate you.
Thank you Aunty Fumi 💜💜💜 This is an eye opener 🤯🤯🤯
Always dropping gems ❤
Great teaching.
Fumi you are 💯 correct. Absolutely outstanding advise💯. Ladies play this video until you have (and follow) this real advice down pat. Been there: This is absolutely is solid and full proof advice.. It also allows you to learn about yourself and have a positive sense of self. I told girlfriends re Fumi advice. They didn't listen and lost every time.
Wow you looking amazing.❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥 I enjoy the wisdom nuggets you drop!!!
“You’re doing the most” , I feel so attacked 😭