ETIQUETTE: TABLE MANNERS, THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO EATING AND BEHAVING LIKE A LADY AT A DINNER TABLE! 🍽
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- Ladies, grab your drinks! Time to know what to do and NOT what to do when you go out for dinner! The goody bag has gotta goooooo!
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I was raised with all of the guidance you give us. However, I just love watching you because you remind me of the women in my family! You are an inspiration to us ALL🥰
The both of you sound like my parents growing up....really enjoyed this💋🩷
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Auntie Fumi... thank you for giving us reasons to smile while we learn important stuff! You are really delivering value. Many thanks for the laughs too.🤣
Fumi, you had me CRYIN’ talking about waiting for everyone to be served 😂😂
I laughed too🤣
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Etiquette courses are a lost art. I remember having this before prom with a nun. I never forget. It is a part of being polished. ❤️
I really wish they would do this more, I remember learning it in my social studies class.
It’s so funny how we are brought up like this and do it so naturally, you forget that it’s not something that is, idk…normal? lol
My step kids thought i was raised by a rich family because of my manners. 🤷🏻♀️🤣🤦🏻♀️🤣
It definitely is so lost and vitally needed because we never know where we will end up.
I find myself loving Fumi and Olé too much!
Me too
Exactly
Likewise
Ole is a gem
Me too..really 😂 and informative
💕 FUMI’S ETIQUETTE: TABLE MANNERS, THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO EATING AND BEHAVING LIKE A LADY AT A DINNER TABLE! 💕
1. For Men: Do not lean in or stare at a woman’s cleavage at the dinner table.
2. The gentleman is the host, you should not face only him, but the entire view of the restaurant. He should face only you.
3. Be prepared to be separated from your date to avoid mindless behaviours such as gossiping.
4. Keep your bag on your lap or on the table, NEVER place your bag on the floor.
5. Place your napkin in your lap. You are not Adrian or some other cute baby, so do not tuck it in like a bib.
6. Don’t use your fingers to eat. Regardless of your Country’s traditions. Follow the etiquette of the event you are at.
7. To avoid staining the cutlery and napkin dab your lipstick off, then tuck the napkin in and put it away. Do not rub your lipstick off.
8. Using the soup spoon, take the soup up from the inside to allow the soup to drip back into the bowl or onto the napkin on your lap and not onto your clothing.
9. Graze the soup into your mouth and avoid banging the spoon against your teeth.
10. Speak gently and eat quietly. Don’t slurp the soup or speak in a brawly fashion.
11. Monitor the person’s eating and make your comments or ask questions when their mouth is empty and they can speak comfortably.
12. No elbows on the table except for in between meals. Keep your hands resting on the table in an upward fashion to confirm that they are empty, thus putting others at ease.
13. Accept the seating arrangement and do not attempt to change it for your convenience.
14. Wait until everyone is served before eating. You may eat your hot soup before others are served because it is hot and waiting may cool the soup off. However, when served a salad, wait for everyone’s salad to be served because it is already cold.
15. Break the bread apart and gently spread butter onto each piece and take a bite. Do not dunk the bread into the soup or bite pieces off the roll.
16. Champagne and White Wine Glasses should be held at the stem. Cupping the glass below the flute will heat up the champagne and white wine, changing its taste. Red wine however, may be held cupped above the flute as red wine is served at room temperature.
17. Do not combine the salad with the entrée.
18. Take your fork in your left hand and the knife in your right hand and cut the meat.
19. Do not stab and cut the meat with the fork.
20. Cut bite sized pieces up at a time, placing a small sample of each item on the plate on the back of your fork.
21. Do not drink or talk with food in your mouth.
22. Do not take the glass of water and rinse your mouth.
23. Try the food without adding salt and pepper. Adding salt and pepper communicates to the host that their food is bland.
24. Turn your fork and knife down on the sides of your plate to indicate that you have finished eating.
25. Ask someone to pass the bread basket. Do not reach for the basket. Do not reach for the last bread roll. If there is one roll for each, only take one. DO NOT TAKE A DOGGY BAG FOR YOUR ADRIAN! 😂 🤣
26. Drag your dessert spoon to the right and your fork to the left. Stab your dessert with your fork then use your spoon to scoop up the dessert.
27. Push your cutlery inwards to indicate that you are done.
28. Do not overdrink or become intoxicated.
29. Do not take the decorations from the table as a gift for your home. Please leave them for the host to use for future events. Thanks!
30. For a final touch of class, send flowers or a Thank You text in appreciation for hosting you to a wonderful evening.
Thank you Fumi and Ole! 💕
You’re so welcome everyone. 💜
Wow, thank you for writing out each step, very helpful!
Thanks
Very good.. thank you
Omggggggg I love thisssssss ❤❤❤❤
Every women should have been taught this when they were young! Well for me it's never too late to learn 😅
Me tooooo 😅😅😅😅😅🥰
To be honest everyone should be taught, girls and boys.
Thank you, I really enjoyed this segment. I am not so graceful and would appreciate any other series you may add. From walking to sitting and conversations one should have at a very small to large size dinner or event.
Thank you for always being quite honest, friendly and graceful while being yourself. I always feel like I am with a friend happy and quite comfortable.
Thank you and your husband for letting us in to you lives.
May you have infinite success.
Concur 👏
Your laugh is contagious 😄 What a wonderful spirit. I'm so glad that I found your channel a couple of months ago. May God continue to bless you and your family in the new year 🙏🏻❤ 🇺🇲
Amen❤️🙏
Yes I’m loving this type of content! Staying ready 2023 ladies! 🍸🥂🍾
Me too
I just love how Ole is all up in this tutorial 😂😂😂 you go goddess Fumi🥰❤️
Hi Mr. Ole, thank you for always supporting aunty Fumi.
Fumi you are so funny when you said' oh they have not served you, oh the food is nice we thank god'
You have indeed tasted both sides😅 I'm loving this video
Thank you for your assistance with etiquettes! I'm teaching myself and my children...can you do an etiquette for kids at the table? I know majority of this lesson goes for children.. Gratitude indefinitely Queen Fumi🧡🌻
I was cracking up because i failed this class with a F+ 😂😂😂 definitely taking notes though😘😘
This was hilariously educational and entertaining... Brilliant! Thank you, Fumi and happy New Year!!
I was once invited to lunch by an elderly couple. It was our first time meting, but for their so perceived socioeconomic status, I was so irritated how they threw questions at me, when I had food in my mouth. I had to rush my chewing in order to answer, and that wasn't cool. Thanks for addressing the gentlemen too. Well done, uncle Ole. ❤️❤️❤️
The reason I love you is you always make me laugh 😂😂as we learn 😘❤
I cannot even describe how much I appreciate you! I recently discovered your channel and I can't stop watching your videos. You are the definition of love, light, and positivity. I have a young daughter and I aspire to be like you. You are wise, knowledgeable, humble, and beautiful inside and out. Thank you for being here and sharing with us.
I love these etiquette lessons. I love everything to with social graces. Would you consider a video on what are the best kind of gifts to give for different situations? It is so hard nowadays with people being on various food plans so wine, chocolates, cookies are no longer acceptable. I love getting flowers but I know so many people who don't have vases anymore or want to know all about the supply chain of the flower growers. I am often stumped about what to give. Thank you so much, Fumi.
I opt for live plants because some people don’t like cut flowers. Completely agree guest gifts are sometimes a brain twister.
Ohh my god. You made me laugh so much with this video. I will be watching this before a date.
Fumi you're the best I never miss an episode lol and always shares with my 18 years old daughter. This she will definitely love as she soon beginning to enter the world of going out with friends. a bit funny but when I share the episode that you did about walking in high heels she wouldn't leave my heels shoes alone 😂 now she's always doing housework in heels 👠 to practice
This got me laughing hard...u get your food and straight way begin to eat , and then say ooh they've not served u....while looking around.
While chewing out loudly 😂😸😂 am dead
Fumi is funny.
Your demonstrations on what not to do had me rolling on the floor laughing!! 😂😂😂Unfortunately, I have seen some of the discourteous actions you demonstrated at the dinner table.
I much appreciate the table etiquette lesson.
The way I laughed watching this, knowing that I have to change the way I do things 😂😂
I appreciate all the effort you both made to film this video👍 great advice (new and old), thank you and greetings from🇨🇦
You are so funny Fumi! Love this episode, thank you ❤️
It's always interesting to watch ur videos. The way u present simply attracts our attention. Keep it up mam !!
Marvelous, marvelous! As a child, we had to also wait for everyone to be done with their meal, before asking to be excused from the table...I would assume for a gala, there is some sort of signal for general dismissal from the tables? Can you please comment?
My goodness Fumi, I love this video. I learned some new things. You are hilarious 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣
the what not to do is cracking me up 😂😂😂
How I just Love you Mom Fumi 🤗🤗. Thank you for always being there❤. This is delivering VALUE AT ITS PEAK free of charge 👌. And thank you Dad Olé for the support💪. We love you both🤗❤
Dear Fumi, I had so much fun, watching this episode. I literally laughed out loud at the examples of bad table manners. Thanks for the episode. I liked your beautiful dress and purse. Omg, thank you for including the need to be grateful. People today have forgotten the graceful act of saying thanks. With much gratitude from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹.
Wonderful episode Fumi! You nailed it! Never a dull moment with you.
This was great! I learned some things. Thanks Fumi! I'm excited to go to more events that require this this year.
I love the part you said the chicken is niceoooo & thank God in African way 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I had so much fun watching this episode....Aunt Fumi gave it the panache infused with humor. I am grateful for a wonderful upbringing by my parents on etiquettes. Much love to you Aunt Fumi ❤
I’ve been watching table etiquette videos like this before and never have I understood this much. Thanks Funmi for being a guidons angel
BTW...you look Fabulous Queen Fumi!
Fumi your teaching us alot thank you!! Love you!!
Fumi you’re hilarious when you give an example of what not to do 😂😂
Rubbing lipstick like it’s a rash 🤣
Auntie Fumi, now this your sense of humour is beautiful. Can't stop learning & laughing at the same time.
The insert of Tony had me dead lool
Even me since my birth I have never taken or drink alcohol! Am Christian Protestant and my mom works in church as a Deaconess, so I have to be a good example for others 😊... Big up from DR CONGO 🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩 eloko ya makasi 💪💪💪. But actually am in Kampala Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 the Pearl of Africa. Love you all
Thanking my mom for teaching her girls table manners. She was such a lady 🙏
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😂😂😂Oh my!! I’m trying sooo hard to watch this video without 😂😂but Fumi😂😅…. You are so funny and your husband!!! I’m gonna have to ReWatch this video😆. This is a great video
Thank you Fumi another great lesson in etiquette, thank you for your teachings
This teaching is so good because your giving us live examples of what we should not do.
Fumi, the things you do for love! I could see you struggling when you were trying to explain with a bit of food in your mouth... it was unnatural for you LOL! Thank you so much🥰
Fumi you could be a comedian also I am crying🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 great information great presentation Thank YouvSo Much ❤
Thank you for the lesson l will keep it in my mind when ever lm in a restaurant
Love you🥰🥰🥰I am your big fan
Just laughing throughout 😂😂. Thank u mummy💗
Thanks sis for sharing I really appreciate in and out of your videos i from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱 watching ❤❤❤
I love how your voice rises when you are explaining something we should not do 😂 thank you so much for these videos
Auntie Fumi, I needed this 40yrs ago…. 😢I feel so bad but yet good because now I know better! Thank you and many blessings to you ❤
Oh thank you mum for everything.
Happy New Year to you and your family. Thank you for this video I pride myself on practicing good table manners, as my dad instills in us from a young age to have good table manners. I enjoy your videos, and that laugh is so contagious. Many thanks.
Thank you so much for reviewing my family table manners , i laugh a lot in this video because i see those things happen in my eyes
Heeey fumi I have a suggestion for a topic. Can u please discuss skin bleaching. Please don't use anyone as an example but just express ur take on it and what u love about ur beautiful brown skin mwah!
We love❤❤❤
Absolutely FABULOUS! That was educating and SO entertaining. I cried when you reminded us of how NOT to behave at the table 🤣😂🤣
If you do not have a mainstream or Sky programme by the end of 2023, there is no justice in the world! Love from an avid Fuminator 😍
😂😂😂😂ayaya learnt alot today.
Love your videos as always! Can you cover the TJ Holmes reporter scandal? He and his coworker have no shame in cheating on their spouses at work and are now seen publicly kissing. I would love to hear your take, thanks in advance!
Thank you so much Auntie Fumi for this video.. Excellent beginner’s guide and refresher course. Thank you again ❤
I just texted my bff we need to take etiquette classes! She agreed! Here you are reading our minds! Thank you🥰
Another great video! Fumi you had me laughing so much!!!
Absolutely Not! 🤣🤣🤣 Great presentation on table manners and the rules of etiquette used while eating.
Thank you for the lessons Aunty Fumi, your videos are always helpful. Watching from Liberia, West Africa
But why do People watch videos and they can't subscribe Funmi should have passed this 681k sub since she produces amazing contents.
I can't stop laughing 🤣, this woman is really funny 🤣
As an believer...saying my grace is welcomed?
I’m a believer too and in those cases a silent prayer is necessary
How do you use cutlery for hard fried chicken/ turkey. Pls?
Thank you so much for this Aunty Fums, I love the effort 🌸
Thanks for the table etiquettes Fumi and Ula.😊👏
Love the etiquette videos! Is a purse hook appropriate in that type of environment?
Thank you so much for this my love. You are like an auntie to me and I appreciate it very much 🥰. I love how you say "absolutely NOT!" its adorable
Me, a Ghanaian, who eat with their hands and lick their fingers after finishing 😊 is here
Fumi you're such a 💎
You put the 'ish' on social graces and table etiquette.
I've learnt this a couple of times, practice and teach my sons but your teaching methods are so warm and engaging. Always leaving with something new!
From one Naija girl to another, sis, you are the refinement of beauty, grace ,and class!
Fumi you are such an amazing fun person...I love your vibe... I've learnt a lot from this episode because I really never took etiquettes personal now I feel like I'm a queen lol
It's funny how I know to eat with manners but, was never taught. Love this channel you are such a Gem to us.
But fumi and ur habibi,u make my day wawooo.thanks aton
I am here fumi....awesome!😃
Peace and love always from East Africa kenya.🤗🙏🌿💫
Yes here with you 🇰🇪🇰🇪
So Fumi you can't carry your left overs ☺️
Great video, I learned a lot. I would love for there to be other episodes
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 too funny I enjoyed this and learned a lot thanks Fumi
Here for more insightful knowledge aunty fumi
😁😂your don't do are hilarious . 😇🙏
You’re such a gracious host. I love you guys so much. You all make my day pllllp P.O.
Mama Fumi , How do you feel about rolling the spaghetti on a spoon with a fork to avoid the mess when eating?
Fumi is the epitome of a classy lady🌹.. Love💟 all your advice..tips.. style👗👛👠
Sweet mum, l laugh throughout this video until the end. Thank you, ma
For the bag, you can also buy a bag holder which can be attached to the table.
Thank you auntie Fumi for these videos. Please make more.
Yes never set it on the table. Messes up the decor
I love this lady 😂😂 she makes me laugh
I loved this episode, thank you for taking time to do this!
I love this episode . I would also love for you to talk about phone etiquette while at the table and introducing yourself when sitting among strangers at the table.
Thank you Fumi, i love all the life lessons your teaching. I love you Sis.
Fumiiiiiiiiii, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. You do listen... I'm grateful. Mwaaaaaah
Your channel is by far the best UA-cam channel I have came across in a very long time thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, and for inspiring us every time....... you are rare Dimond and I love and appreciate you.... thank you ❤
Great information Fumi darling