5 THINGS WOMEN DO THAT ARE THE BIGGEST TURN OFF'S FOR MEN! 👀 YOU WILL BE VERY SURPRISED AT SOME!
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#relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #fumidesaluvold #fashion #beauty #style - Навчання та стиль
Real men aren't controlling, we have standards. We're not gonna say it's ok to
• Wear bonnets in public
• Dress 👗 like a street walker
•Wear 🌈 rainbow colored wigs 👩🏾🦰👱🏿♀️
•Have 🕷 eyelashes
•Ghetto 💅 Fingernails
• Have a male bestfriend
OR
•Talk to us 🤷🏽♀️ any type of way
I love this ❤
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I don't do any of the above but I still can't get a man lol...a good man that is lol...go figure.
Thank you for keeping it so simple and straight forward 🙌 Women tend to overthink things & go overboard with everything you just mentioned. I've always believed that simplicity, self-respect, and being an overall genuine individual goes a long way🙂
Nope. 🤣
haha hahaah I met my husband in a Rite Aid wearing a pink sweatsuit, hair in a ponytail, and no makeup but a clean refreshed face. I also had bright white sneakers and a scent of lavender on me. It was a warm spring afternoon and I felt relaxed and carried a happy smile. He saw me from a distance and he says "I got the nerve to come over to you after following you a few aisles and when I did, you gave me a smile and I was hitched right there on the spot thinking I'm going to make this woman my wife". Celie we married now (giggles).
😂😂😂😂❤
Love it
Fantastic story! Au Naturel! Men love their natural girls! He-saw-YOU! Anything else...he would find that out, but right there...at that moment...you got it right! He knows you were running errands and didn't expect anything other than that you were approciatly dressed for the task at hand.
Hope you remain happily married my darling ❤😊👍🏾
You are beautiful- I don't blame him!
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🌹
I'm a 77 yr old white woman, retired nurse, and I learn something new every day. You, my dear Fumi, are such a smart, beautiful, kind, caring, shining and WISE example to women everywhere. I adore you for making the world a better place. You are a blessing to everyone.
I met my husband taking my child to school one morning! I wasn't looking for anybody. I had no idea his teacher was watching me. He started calling me telling how well my child was doing in his class. One day he brought my child home & asked me out to dinner. He was very nice looking & intelligent. I told him no. He appeared to me to be a man who wasn't used to women saying no. Eventually after about a month I decided to go to a movie with him only because I didn't want to go to the movie alone. It took me a while to truly understand & appreciate him. Now I have his name & ring!!!
I feel the same way about smoking for men. For a non smoker the smell is unbearably. It’s in your clothes, your breath stinks, the hands. Just bad.
I definitely Agree!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Not necessarily 🙄
@@amerokeewiya1320 Yes indeed. If you are a non smoker, you can always tell when someone is a smoker. It clings to your skin and clothes. This is not an 'opinion', the chemicals are in your clothes and your body.
smokers smell bad from the smoking
Yes, yes, yes... unfortunately my guy smokes & he's the first man I've dated who's a smoker. I'm gradually trying to reduce his smoking, the smell is poignant & he doesn't like cologne. I bought him fragrance and I make sure he smells pleasantly arousing for our date nights
I don't want my husband smoking cigarettes and drinking. It's a turn off for me. He is not a husband material I don't want my kids see him smoking and drinking 🤣🤣
To all the sisters what Fumi says is so true. I have male friends that I’ve have know over 30 years and they where super good looking and girls where all falling for them. On day when I was in my 20 I ask them…why guys don’t hit on me… And they both told me at that time: What we are going to tell you is not a bad thing. You are our girl friend and in man life there is 2 types of girls… one type you have fun and sleep with and the other type is the serious type that we want to do our life with!!! And you Chan you are the second type…. I still remember till this day after 23 years. Guys and man they feel us…
The day I met my husband it’s was a day after my work day in hospital. I went out in a restaurant and I had barely make-up on…lip gloss and mascara. I had a t-shirt and a pair of jeans. And he told me I was shining. I told him of all the girls in the restaurant they were better put together. He told me, I see you.
Till this day after 15 years together he prefer me with no or really little make up😂😊
So sisters out there listen to aunt Fumi
Beautiful story ❤
People, you never know what or when to please them. I have list of likes and dislikes toward men. I dressed like a lady, presented myself as proper, I was considered a prude, pretentious, middle class fake. I'm level headed, I'm boring. I made up my mind. I am going to be myself. You are giving good advice, but men are hypocrites, they play a lot of games. They are selfish and competitive and all they want to know is how much money you have.
Woow am lucky i dnt do makeup just lipstick 🥰😍
Thank you ma🙏
Wow😍😍😍
I am a 53 year old Puerto Rican woman who is in love with your channel. Yes, you are crossing over cultural boundaries, and women, like me, are enjoying your advice and videos. We are Fumi Nation! 🥰
These comments are never left for white creators. Congratulations, you see Black women as women.
True that
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Funmi Nation! Did you know there was a genealogy test that showed Puerto Ricans are descendents of the Yoruba tribe in Nigeria?
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I was in Target this weekend and overheard two of the associates, young in their late teens or early twenties, saying how all these women wear so much make up that when they take it off they look like a totally different person. Even our young brothers and sisters know😂.
Great tips!
Yeah cause I’ve seen young girls with so muck makeup you could scrape it off with a putty knife They spend so much time in the sun that they will look lie shoe leather when they are older Them some young thing will be talking crap about them
They say that but their faves are IG models who have it caked on and multiple surgeries. Do what you do, boo.
I do not use make up ,but from what I have observed I think men prefer women who use a lot of make up. Their actions don't seem to match their words.
I have seen some girls with false eyelashes so long that they look like young cows
Smoking is so gross 🤢 I don’t care who it is. Vapes too! Just disgusting.
What of weed?
@@gloriaagatha3237 personally am not a fan of weed either but if you do it at home, sure. I think weed can be consumed in different ways but still am not a fan
Ever kiss someone with smoker's breath? My body shuts down and doesn't respond. Bad odors especially bad breath is a big turnoff
First of all, are we loving that RED BLOUSE😍😍😍😍😍
And Aunty Fumi, smoking for me is a total turn-off from ANYBODY, but it KILLS A LADY'S shine COMPLETELY!! Powerful advices. Thanks.
Men and women should not smoke for all the apparent reasons.
What WISDOM!! I am over 60 and these were the things that my mother and my aunts always told me. These are the things I told my daughter. I still remember what my aunt told me: "There are 3 things that a woman must know--how to think like a man, how to work like a dog, AND HOW TO ACT LIKE A LADY!" Thank you, Fumi, for your wisdom.
please explain what you mean by "work like a dog",i want to learn.
Women should make their own money
Love ur humor
God made me a woman he wants me to have the mind of Christ. If I thought 🤔 like a man I would probably be the biggest whore ever! Men in general should change their way of thinking.
💯 accurate! Take it from a woman who has been married for 32 years, Fumi was speaking the entire truth in this video!
Agree 💯. As a woman who is married 34 years. Everything Fumi said was total truth. School them!!!
Men hate fake nails especially if they are over an inch long.
I've been investing in skincare for almost a month now... it feels liberating not rubbing my face and panicking because I smudging my makeup, when I realize Im not wearing any except for sunscreen and lip balm.
Truly relieving ❤️
Thanks! Thank you for making us feel like we are still in the pool. I'm 58 as of 2 weeks ago and I don't want to be a single old woman. You're giving me hope.
Me too! 10-11-56 here!
I’m in the boat also! 7-11-64
56. I listen. I take notes. I'm in the pool but I'm in the uhm... 💩 pool. This pool is vast. I also only go to work and home.
@@alesiayoung2160 belated birthday greetings girlfriend 🎉❤😊
@@cherylleech785 You're 🔥🔥💎💎🥇🥇💐💐🤸🏼♀🤸🏼♀👏🏾👏🏾
That red looks fabulous on you 😍
Agreed 🥰
Blouse is FIRE!!!
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Love this!!
I'm 16, but I feel like hearing this helps for the future....kinda 😂 ❤️
It sure does, Honey. Great way to becoming a lady.
It does baby girl and even while in high school be selective. Everyone (boys) don't deserve your company and time.....Focus on your education and simply have friends. 😉
It is sweetie. Start from now!
Listen well to Auntie Fumi, young Queen! You have time on your side. A bought (learned) lesson, is an earned lesson; a lesson learned at the expense of another is a gift❤
It will help you because you have a lot of years to live. Listen to wisdom. Be mindful.
Fums you are so right. I think of myself as over weight, dropping eyes that can't wear eye makeup anymore. I recently traveled and I just powdered my face, used a slight pink mild gloss lipstick . A pearl earing and all black pants outfit with leather sandals. My hair in a low bun, shades on top the head. I met a guy about 2 years younger than me and I am almost 63 on the flight and when I took off my mask in the airport he said I like the package. Age, size, no makeup did not really matter. Nails were short clean and natural polished at the fingers and the toes were done in white. I felt lovely with that comment.
Yeeeesssss!
This is so true
I wish every lady can hear this
You look radiant in red. The jewel tone blouse is beautiful. The jewelry and pony tail accentuates the chic glam. Love your content. Thank you.
So true alcohol and cigarettes is not good for ladies in the street period
Yes, yes, Fumi, great content as per usual…..but can we just take a moment to acknowledge how fab that satin sheen red blouse looks on you and your complexion….. it’s just Fumi-lous!!! Representing the sisters🙌🏾🙌🏾
🔥🔥! She looked a million dollar!!!
where did she say it was from again??
Fumi-luminous🌟
Why is no one talking about the fact that we hate when men do the exact same thing? Aunty Fumi can please talk about the things that men do that turn women off?
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Yup.i wouldn't caption this as things men hate.. because I hate these things on a man too as a woman.this is more "things that turn off people"🤷🏿♀️
The list is way too long.
You don’t understand man and women are different - didn’t you have a daddy
Women don’t want husbands, anymore
@@jujubean9598 ANY MAN WEAR ANY MAKEUP ISN'T JUST A TURNED OFF THATS A DEFINITE NO NO HELL TO THE NO .........
Exactly. His lady is a representation for him and his place in society and how he’s portrayed amongst his peers
I agree I cannot stand the smoking. I am married but I just saw a well dressed young man the other day while I was on a walk. I was going to compliment his suit as I passed him but he pulled out a pack of cigarettes, used his mouth to pull one out as he was also on the phone. That cigarette was bouncing back and forth while he was talking and looking for his lighter. I just kept walking I was so disgusted. I will save my compliment for another day.
I agree with you. I was in a long term relationship with a man who smoked. I HATED IT!!! Dirty ashtrays, unsightly cigarette butts, stale air in the house, smoke smell in his hair and clothes and a film all over the house! If I ever date again believe me smoking is non negotiable and a deal breaker….PERIOD!
Likewise @ R Oki , I was in a relationship with this man who I knew he smokes cigarettes but that wasn’t a problem for me, my only problem was he always smoke indoors. One day, he started smoking and then I realised the scent was a big heavy and unusual so I asked him was it was and he told me it was weed.Since then I never stepped in his house again and also stopped talking to him.
Joy Lv Tube fumzywhiskey love the red rich shirt however, these lines of yours sold me out😄" lashes out to here! CLAWS out to there as for the waves , the baby hair and the gel date business I'm screaming hard to mysel!!f 😄😄😄😄😃🖕❤
The earring even came down because it knows that you've speaking the truth fumi 😃❤
@@abenapokuaa3279 Don't ever compromise your standards.
I've always been worried about my weight gain but I have noticed that I attract all types of guys. My age and even younger, I believe it's the way I carry myself. Now I have learned to love myself and I feel so good.
Clicked on this with the hardest punch hahaha. Love you auntie Fume's
Beautiful skin tone, high cheekbones, hearty laugh and attention grabbing accent. You are so regal! Giving me Grace Jones vibes. I humbly bow to you Queen 👸🏾
@@kimkirksey562 yes morer beautiful than Grace Jones. She's in a league of her own 👍🌹💯
@@jameswhitesr4385 I explained why she gave me Grace Jones vibes, I didn’t say she was prettier Fumi. That’s a no brainer🤷🏾♀️
She gives me life 😘😘😘
Cicely Tyson as well
Yes . What you said!!! ❤️
Lipgloss and mascara and I'm good to go😌
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Everything you say is exactly as i see it too. But one thing Fumi, men do NOT want a fat woman. I think primarily because it reflects badly on them and their egos are very tied up in who is hanging off their arm. I am a fat woman and I must change and will.
I don't agree but may be certain types of men because no matter the standard of beauty we all as people men and women have to age and aging comes with alot including health issues and weight gain nothing wrong with losing weight but I rather someone who love me for the way I am and a settle down man who is not into the materialistic way of life.
I COMPLETELY agree!!! Don't even need to ask my guy friends. The raw, honest truth!!!!
I Agree 💯 Fumi. My Caribbean mother would tell me always carry yourself as a lady. I never forget it, now i’m teaching my pre teen the same💕
Fumiiiiiii, omg 😍 THAT RED BLOUSE!!!!! 💣
Looking beautiful in red Queen❤.
I clicked so fast to find out if I know all five turn off's for men.
Spot on!! The smoking, the boozing, language…
Presentation, ladies!
My soul mate and I met in 1980 and I never wore a lot of makeup, I was never loud, I was still pure. I married him pure and we are about to celebrate 43 years married Jan 12! It is refreshing because we watch our grown kids all college graduates, professionals, married raise their kids the same way!
You are speaking the truth! My hubby talks so much smack so do our sons about these women out here who act, wear, everything you say not too! Not to brag but we have good looking son’s!
and daughter’s
#powercouple #powerfamily
#blacklove ppl call us boogie
Not the case! We have high standards and class!
Happy Anniversary 🎉🥳
@@torigrant4639 thank you sooooo much! We have so much fun still! Our home is always Comedy Central! We look forward to many many more years together! I give the credit to my faith! #GodFirst
They shouldn't be talking smack, they should be empathetic and supportive. Many of these manosphere dudes started off laughing at women.
This was so needed. Thank you auntie Fumi.
Spot on Funmi
Beautiful!!! Loved the elderly sister advice. Just in time too. Thanks hun! 😘
Big Sis Fumi.Thanks for thinking outside the box bringing us Content.As always Blessings upon Blessings
Thanks Fumi for your time and effort to get us catchable.
Fumi I'm not dating or looking for someone now but this is really helpful.Its not just about dating but also its basic mannerisms I believe and it would make me feel off if I saw any of these things in a guy. Thank you for inspiring us and guiding us as an older sister😍
Thank you, thank you Fumi. Speaking facts and truth at the same time👏🏾👏🏾
Awesome chat! Truly loved each of the 5, and I'm happy to say, I'm an advocate and truly live each one. Without fail. Thank you, Fumi. 🌺
Very sensible and needed advise. I'm over 60 and learned these things from within my family, my mother, my brothers, father. I grew up in a working class neighborhood and none of the men Black or Hispanic would seriously date an overmade, smoking, scantily clad and foul-mouthed female. (there were very few of that type to begin with) On the other hand we the females also had standards for the males we were looking to marry. There seems to be no standards today on either side the working class or the rich. Hmmph look at all the "housewives" shows. Money does not buy good breeding or class, or produce functioning children. Everything is about indulging in a "good drama-filled time" nowadays. That's fine but hold off on bringing kids into the world cause they need stability and mature parents that are willing to put in the love, time, and patience to raise a good citizen, not hand them over to the streets. I know many will say this is "old-fashioned" stuff. It's common sense - if we want a stable society, cause it doesn't seem to be working real good in the past few decades for men, women or children.
Fumi ! You got something said!!!
No lies told! So much wisdom! I love you Fumi!
This is so timely… 💃💃
Thank you, Fumi for being so honest with it because the first thing that came to my mind was “but you’re the makeup queen.”
You are right FUMI ❤️
Spot on, Lady Fumi, spot on! 👏👏👏
Super thanks big sis!
👏🏾👏🏾Good advice Fumi👏🏾👏🏾
Love the shirt/blouse.
Fumi I agree 100%.
I agree whole heartedly with everything you said and that smoking thing definitely goes both ways.
Great video Fumi. I agree 💯.
Just discovered your channel and I’m Loving it love your energy 😊
Fumi, once again you are fabulous. hair makeup you name it honey .when you and your husband step out. I'm sure he feels like he's the luckiest man on Earth to have a beautiful woman. an intelligent woman on his arm like you.👏🏽👏🏾👏🏻👏👏🏿🥰😇❤️🙏🙏🏻🙏🏾 do we live. do we love? Darlings we love you. Fumi
Thank you so much🥰
As real as real can be. Love your channel. Been such a good guidance. Thank you for being the voice we need in daily work, play and hustle. You are real.
Thanks for the tips fumi! You look beautiful as always ❤️
Well, based on these five, I'm in there! 😁
Thank you for sharing this, Fumi!
You really spoke the truth...I agree with it all..Thanks🙏🏽👍
The fact that I am singing and know your theme / welcome song..means I'm hooked💓🥰
I'm ready to go out there and show my beauty and class which I don't have a problem with..you don't wanna see me step with the handbag 👜💄so I'm grateful for all your tips just in case (it's been years)..looking forward to more
I just got back in the dating world. My ex was very insecure and so it was one sided effort. Im relieved the 6 month rollercoaster is over. Not going back. This video is helpful thank you
Thank you Fumi keep in Fuminizing us waiting for dress code .
Thank you sister, you are the best
I started following after your story on Shanquella..loved your synopsis....love your channel! #FUMIKNOWS!💗💗💗
LOVE LOVE LOVE you and this channel. I first found you when you were talking about Ms. Shanquella Robinson. Your presentation and your openness made me stick around to find out more about your content. And I am so glad I did. Thank you for being so affirming and so inspiring!
Yes Ladies 🙌🏽 Dress how you want to be Addressed 🎉
Super Thankx ❤
Might sound outdated for some out there, BUT you are so right fumi sister! And be educated.
Auntie Fumi, I love you!!! I asked my best friend who’s a man and he totally agreed with everything you said. You’re so right!! I need to tighten up and stop swearing. Thanks for this great video!!
Am agreeing with you 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🌟🌟, it's very true
You speak the truth
I agree with everything you've said
Great learning
I appreciate your honesty about the makeup. I was wondering why now I know and I appreciate it and I agree as well
I’m loving the beat Auntie Fumi!!! ❤ You look gorgeous, love what you’re wearing, OMG!! the colour and material, plus the accessories, I’m living for them🔥♥️😘
You are a genius.....and right on the money !
Thank you so much Sis. This video was extremely helpful.. looking forward to more.
Fumi is your laughter for me 😀 love your inspiration, and you look great.
I understand the guy wouldn't like his lady to smoke especially for health reasons ie future kids etc but the same goes for the man. Health wise he would need to respectfully do the same thing.
More wonderful content! Thank you, Fumi!
I just caught myself watching Fumi's videos and not hitting the Like button or commenting. I really wish UA-cam had something where you automatically Like a video that you watch once you are subscribed. I like her videos so much that I just move on to the next one and forget to interact because I am actually so engrossed in listening to my sister/aunty/friend.
Thanks for the dating tips. It's good to know that my standards are FUMI approved and I'm doing the right things to attract suitable guys to date.
NO LIES DETECTED 😂 Sister Fumi, you ain’t neva lied. I’m 48 and after 5 year hiatus on dating ( and sex), I have learned a thing or two, and YOU have just put me up on game as well 🙏 Sister Fumi would you be able to assess my dating profile, pics and text and give me ( loving 😅 ) critique? I’m not quite getting enough quality interest.
Super-thanks to your advices, darling! Simplicity is class, absolutely true!🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟Just subscribed,I need this kind of women, like a good sister!
All are very true my man friend says he likes natural makeup thanks for the tips once again
My first time watching your channel, Fumi. I’m not in the dating game anymore (too old) but your advice on fashion, make-up, etc. is spot on. I wish you could go to every high school in the US and give young girls and young women these great tips. I love the respect you have for your husband. You’ve gained a new fan, my sista!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I can't wait to see your date outfits Fumi. 😍
This champagne red shirt is popping. I love the subtle makeup you look fantastic
Preach the truth!!!!
Fuminized!!! Love it!
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I love that shirt on you ❤️ another episode of pure truth and wisdom. I can totally agree because my guy friends all have related those same points when looking at future mates. It's funny that us women usually think that body shape is as important to them when in truth and in fact they look at mannerism and unlady like habits. Keep this tips and points coming aunty Fumi 💕
Thanks Fumi, m trying ur tips and they're absolutely out of this world
Enjoying my 55th birthday 🎉
i love this aunty,a mother to the motherless,educating and grooming us young women.
« You’re your own ambassador » This is so true! You’re look FAB as usual😊Merci Madame!❤
Thank You Fumi For Sharing Your Divine Wisdom And Knowledge About Moving Back Into The Dating World 💚💚💚💚
So true to everything you mentioned. Some women may not want to hear it and say, “l don’t care what men like ”. Then they shouldn’t care if men don’t like them.