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  • A recent study shows that the number of men and women having extramarital affairs is on the rise. Could your spouse be cheating on you? Dr. Phil’s guests are struggling with the aftermath of infidelity. (From Dr. Phil Season 7)
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  • @drphil
    @drphil  16 днів тому +2

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  • @alexiscreates
    @alexiscreates 3 місяці тому +344

    LMAO the first guy is so full of it. He's stuttering and at a loss for words every time he talks.

    • @TheDrew4288
      @TheDrew4288 3 місяці тому +23

      He has to be one of the top 3 cowards to ever be on this show 😂

    • @fabiwilliams4644
      @fabiwilliams4644 3 місяці тому +10

      That's cos he lies, lies, lies

    • @teedeed5390
      @teedeed5390 3 місяці тому

      @@fabiwilliams4644it’s the perfuse sweating dripping off him wee tell tale 😂😂 guy lost a stone on that day 🤡🤡🤡💜🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🧟‍♀️

    • @J.BK23
      @J.BK23 Місяць тому

      Even if he is lying stuttering doesn't mean a lot of things I stutter my words all the time because I have disability who knows if he has any type of disability maybe not but we don't know

    • @mawmawvee
      @mawmawvee 28 днів тому

      Guess he has trouble remembering and keeping all of his lies straight. Living in the truth is so much more simple and one doesn't have to keep looking over one's shoulder all the time to see what's running up behind you

  • @kazzakoala
    @kazzakoala 3 місяці тому +702

    That wasn’t a one time affair. His ex is telling the truth. He’s stuttering. He’s avoiding eye contact. He’s a liar.

  • @moniqueengleman873
    @moniqueengleman873 3 місяці тому +443

    He can not even look at her.
    What a liar.

    • @HonRevPTB
      @HonRevPTB 2 місяці тому

      This guy is a weasel, he's totally lying, he's spineless!!!!!!!

  • @amyanndiamond13
    @amyanndiamond13 3 місяці тому +257

    It's the 80/20 rule. You'll have someone who provides you with 80% of your wants,needs & desires but you'll still go looking for that other missing 20% until you find it.. the catcher is, you're trading that 80% for 20% & now all you're left with is 20% while missing your 80%.

    • @silly_hammy1
      @silly_hammy1 3 місяці тому +6

      The whole thing is dumb. No one can fullfill everyone. I have a healthy open relationship... and just the way it should be. We're all just animals ❤

    • @Kaos_Magazine
      @Kaos_Magazine 3 місяці тому +17

      There is only one rule: Love yourself. With that, there is no way you would have anything to go look for, and no one to make you feel like anything is missing when THEY mess up.

    • @shrutefarms4741
      @shrutefarms4741 2 місяці тому +12

      Over simplified reasoning. No one provides everything we need. You have to be mature and have enough integrity to supply what you need within yourself. Once a cheat usually always a cheat.

    • @sdavis5001
      @sdavis5001 2 місяці тому +2

      @@shrutefarms4741You’re right up until always a cheat. There are reforms out there. Aside, yes you must be totally good in your own skin.

    • @hhp2932
      @hhp2932 2 місяці тому +1

      "If you want to fix your marriage, tell your wife you cheated 60 times, not 1" 😂

  • @ng3069
    @ng3069 3 місяці тому +269

    Both of these husbands are cheaters and jerks! The wives need to run!

    • @MmM20978
      @MmM20978 3 місяці тому +6

      Yep!

    • @OICU2
      @OICU2 2 місяці тому

      They are cheaters and liars. They do what cheaters do, deny deny deny.

  • @PatriceButler49
    @PatriceButler49 3 місяці тому +153

    He is definitely lying and she is crazy for staying with him because he don’t even love her enough to tell the truth

    • @helltookkevinsamuelsoutoff1546
      @helltookkevinsamuelsoutoff1546 2 місяці тому +2

      For real! You might as well be single rather than babysit.

    • @cynthiablanchard1617
      @cynthiablanchard1617 2 місяці тому +1

      There's always an excuse my ex husband has an affair she was 16 and he was 27. We both were pregnant at the same time. I left. Then to find out he took her to my OBGYN for her first appointment. His excuse was he liked this doctor because he delivered our other child previously. I wanted to co parent but kept getting calls from her friends at all hours of the night. Had to get restraining order. He gave up . Finally ended him paying only 33.00 a week in child support never paid. For two kids.

    • @cynthiablanchard1617
      @cynthiablanchard1617 2 місяці тому +1

      The new wife can't put rules on him regarding the child these rules will have to change as the child grows. How is it going to work when the child start school activities or games. Or school function birthdays. Basically the affair is becoming a part of your life always. There is no trust.

  • @AnneGriffin-j1v
    @AnneGriffin-j1v Місяць тому +31

    Anyone else here in 2024 wondering if these people are still together?? 😂😂😂

    • @brielliott04
      @brielliott04 9 днів тому +4

      Yes!
      We 👏 need 👏 updates 👏

    • @Randysgirl
      @Randysgirl 4 дні тому +1

      I doubt it. She should have left his sorry butt.

  • @lindaensley3201
    @lindaensley3201 3 місяці тому +480

    Oh, poor little baby had an affair because his wife didn't wait on him hand and foot. Good grief. What a tool.

    • @midnightmadness5307
      @midnightmadness5307 3 місяці тому +8

      'tool' love it LMAO!!!!!!!!

    • @heikki1623
      @heikki1623 3 місяці тому +10

      Well had it been the woman cheating for the same reasons, people would be blaming the husband for not fulfilling her emotinal needs.

    • @Ninnjette-
      @Ninnjette- 3 місяці тому +18

      @@heikki1623Oh BS.. don’t deflect, and try to change the subject..

    • @jimmymoore8081
      @jimmymoore8081 3 місяці тому +5

      He gave the same answer women always give. It’s different though right!

    • @jimmymoore8081
      @jimmymoore8081 3 місяці тому +2

      @@heikki1623100%

  • @meaka1979
    @meaka1979 2 місяці тому +88

    The wife is in denial. At this point she is no longer a victim. She is choosing to ignore her women's intuition.

  • @troubleinthevalley5884
    @troubleinthevalley5884 3 місяці тому +322

    Daniel: "Nobody is gonna love me like you do, nobody is gonna be there for me like you." All I hear from Daniel is "ME, ME, ME, ME, ME"

    • @Lauren-i8i
      @Lauren-i8i 3 місяці тому +29

      Affairs are always 100% selfish.
      NO exceptions!

    • @TP-jt2cm
      @TP-jt2cm 3 місяці тому +22

      His wife is his backup insurance…

    • @brandyb2931
      @brandyb2931 3 місяці тому +17

      What Daniel meant to say was "Nobody os going to let me sleep with who I want and still stay with me."

    • @troubleinthevalley5884
      @troubleinthevalley5884 3 місяці тому +8

      @@brandyb2931 exactly, though sadly he already found two women to do that so I'm sure there's more out there

    • @florenbaron7111
      @florenbaron7111 2 місяці тому +3

      And he is his wife's financial backup insurance.

  • @ShariHoldal
    @ShariHoldal 3 місяці тому +492

    Stop babysitting your cheating husband and divorce him.

    • @andreajones886
      @andreajones886 3 місяці тому +10

      Iktr! save your gd energy!💯

    • @MmM20978
      @MmM20978 3 місяці тому +5

      Wow lots of trauma here!

    • @silly_hammy1
      @silly_hammy1 3 місяці тому +2

      But maybe if he dressed up as a baby... that could be hot 😂😂

    • @1927su
      @1927su 3 місяці тому +2

      Well said

    • @triamaria
      @triamaria 3 місяці тому

      ​@@silly_hammy1WHAT?!! 😂😂😂😂 For you 😜!!

  • @amyanndiamond13
    @amyanndiamond13 3 місяці тому +185

    1 time = divorce 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @kittykat69791
      @kittykat69791 2 місяці тому +11

      JUST LIKE THAT AND THAT SIMPLE, THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN.

    • @jacqueline8559
      @jacqueline8559 2 місяці тому +5

      Absolutely !! Only a fool gives second chances. I couldn't stay with a cheat, once that Trust has gone. Cheat once, and get away with it, why won't the person cheat again?

    • @florenbaron7111
      @florenbaron7111 2 місяці тому

      Because of the large number of women who cheat, marry and divorce for profit, use men, are not loyal, have no shame in taking men's money during divorce and so on, most men made an informed choice to never marry. These days it's a man trap. Especially for men with wealth. Many women pray after men with money, marry, and divorce for profit.

    • @allgrapes4352
      @allgrapes4352 2 місяці тому +1

      @@amyanndiamond13 annnnnnd happily may I add if I do say so myself.

    • @Jcislord1860
      @Jcislord1860 Місяць тому +2

      100%!!

  • @deborahshallin5843
    @deborahshallin5843 3 місяці тому +211

    Absolutely! Once trust is lost. It’s is done.

    • @nadiabrstak5646
      @nadiabrstak5646 3 місяці тому +6

      Exactly...It will never ever be the same..I don't care what anyone says...

    • @rachel4339
      @rachel4339 3 місяці тому +6

      By that logic, if you’ve ever lied nobody should ever believe you ever again. Once a liar, always a liar.

    • @lynnemorgan4926
      @lynnemorgan4926 2 місяці тому +2

      So you're a cheater huh? 😬🙄

    • @mandyblakeway2710
      @mandyblakeway2710 Місяць тому +2

      Definitely, my ex husband cheated on me and trust was broken and could never be fixed.

    • @mawmawvee
      @mawmawvee 28 днів тому

      @@rachel4339 That's correct.

  • @KShugyo
    @KShugyo 3 місяці тому +430

    he is lying. it's soooooo clear

    • @kjblundell
      @kjblundell 3 місяці тому +20

      My ex used to lie to me like this. Gaslighting F'er would stick to his guns for days with me telling him like I KNOW. ANd inevitabley every time he would finally admit he lied but only after days of trauma

    • @cheryleaston6820
      @cheryleaston6820 3 місяці тому +7

      Both of them are lying

    • @RenaAgee
      @RenaAgee 3 місяці тому +10

      Ryan keeps his head down looking at the floor when he answers. No eye contact, very telling.

    • @gwen08g
      @gwen08g 2 місяці тому +3

      @@RenaAgeeOh I can tell he’s lying. Looking at the floor and back up at his ex. He’s NOT going to change his story, & she’s not going to say what she believes. “Honestly idk what to believe” whatever, if you are STILL saying that after you got back from backstage, girlfriend, we know who you believe!

    • @gwen08g
      @gwen08g 2 місяці тому +2

      @@kjblundellhe’s so lying. This was an annoying case!

  • @terribelle3
    @terribelle3 3 місяці тому +141

    😮 Daniel's 26?! He looks 46!

    • @sushelarajkumar367
      @sushelarajkumar367 3 місяці тому +8

      Yez true she looks old 2 😮 but i feel for her big time

    • @aisoaification
      @aisoaification 2 місяці тому +8

      He does!! 😂

    • @nb-user25
      @nb-user25 Місяць тому +2

      Not 46 😂😂. I think 35 at the oldest.

    • @aisoaification
      @aisoaification Місяць тому +7

      @@nb-user25girl nah he definitely looks like mid 40s, and one that didn't take the best care themselves 😂

    • @patriciagurwitz509
      @patriciagurwitz509 Місяць тому +4

      I know. He looks much older😮

  • @erinnicole3170
    @erinnicole3170 3 місяці тому +108

    That first husband is so full of it

  • @deedranicolehooks
    @deedranicolehooks 3 місяці тому +43

    That first guy was LYING THROUGH HIS TEETH. He will never admit the truth to her. I hope his wife leaves his sorry butt, because she KNOWS. Deep down she knows it was more than once. She just isn't ready to deal with all that comes with admitting it. I hope she gets there. She deserves better.

  • @bethechange8889
    @bethechange8889 3 місяці тому +350

    Her husband is lying. He did it at least 60X.

    • @Ireallywantedthatuniquehandle
      @Ireallywantedthatuniquehandle 2 місяці тому +10

      He did it every time they arranged the drop off or pick up of the kid. He may as well go back to her IMO

    • @KG-bliss
      @KG-bliss 2 місяці тому +4

      Of course... ex-wife was sure he wanted to come back and that's why it happened too may times to count.

  • @mariasobey1107
    @mariasobey1107 3 місяці тому +71

    Once a cheater will always be a cheater! He is still lying on her face. Let him go. Move on. Once a man cheats on his wife, no more second chances because it will be a cycle. Move forward while you’re still young and able to find a true man. 😂

    • @God-Love-Freedom
      @God-Love-Freedom 2 місяці тому

      Yep! It’s a social pathology. The thrill and enjoyment of getting over on and deceiving people. They feel smart.

  • @Lunar_lunaa
    @Lunar_lunaa 3 місяці тому +73

    You gotta admit, the first guy is consistent and stedfast in his lie lol

    • @shrutefarms4741
      @shrutefarms4741 2 місяці тому +8

      Most liars are 100% committed that’s why there is no way to work it out with them.

    • @nanalove1211
      @nanalove1211 2 місяці тому +6

      The worst kind of liar!

    • @cindyhoomalu1566
      @cindyhoomalu1566 2 місяці тому +4

      I told my ex that getting answers felt like I had to dig the bottom of the ocean, hunt for a shark, and after I found the shark I still had to fight with it to pull a tooth out. It was torture!

    • @God-Love-Freedom
      @God-Love-Freedom 2 місяці тому +1

      He doesn’t want to admit it on national television.

  • @vintagebeliever5023
    @vintagebeliever5023 3 місяці тому +268

    The first guy is seriously lying.

    • @moniqueengleman873
      @moniqueengleman873 3 місяці тому +14

      So is the second guy.

    • @inkdemon64mclemore57
      @inkdemon64mclemore57 2 місяці тому +2

      Yeah he is.. Absolutely disgusting behavior.

    • @inkdemon64mclemore57
      @inkdemon64mclemore57 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@moniqueengleman873 Yeah he is, big time. Sleeping with strange women unprotected and then his wife. These women need to run not walk to a divorce attorney office.

  • @debbiejohnson3860
    @debbiejohnson3860 3 місяці тому +226

    I always said i would NEVER get involved with any man that had either been married or had kids with another woman. To much drama.

    • @laurenmiller9517
      @laurenmiller9517 3 місяці тому +27

      It's not usually like this though. It has nothing to do with anyone who was married or not, it's if they're a cheater or not. If you're going to cheat...you're going to cheat no matter who it's with.

    • @marycreagh9786
      @marycreagh9786 3 місяці тому +8

      I agree 100%..

    • @jes6161
      @jes6161 3 місяці тому +23

      A man with kids is dealbreaker for me too. It’s not an issue I want to inherit.

    • @sarahalderman3126
      @sarahalderman3126 3 місяці тому +21

      Yup! No baby daddies in my life either. If you have kids and did not have the courage, self respect, or strength to be a husband to the mother of your children you’re not worth my time or love, certainly not by body.

    • @pauladouglas9891
      @pauladouglas9891 3 місяці тому +12

      Kinda hard if you are over 30 and the divorce rate is 50 percent.

  • @Themacintheroni
    @Themacintheroni 3 місяці тому +36

    His LIPS are sweating 😂

  • @tiger1976
    @tiger1976 3 місяці тому +75

    So the second one is a big baby who can't handle reality and that's why he cheats... he's not gonna change. When he feels he doesn't get enough attention he will do the same thing.

    • @artn2950
      @artn2950 3 місяці тому +8

      Run!!!

    • @tiger1976
      @tiger1976 3 місяці тому +2

      @@artn2950 exactly!!!

    • @lizzymac1958
      @lizzymac1958 2 місяці тому +3

      The second guy was really so nauseating. His rehearsed comments about how much he loved her. Blah blah blah.

    • @tiger1976
      @tiger1976 2 місяці тому +2

      @@lizzymac1958 he is totally fake! Tells her what shewants to hear so she will take him back.

  • @pharvalleyaussies6215
    @pharvalleyaussies6215 2 місяці тому +87

    A honorable married man does not spend any time alone with another woman.

    • @ashimchatterjee8557
      @ashimchatterjee8557 2 місяці тому +2

      In Mars, perhaps !

    • @Lynn16-rg8cf
      @Lynn16-rg8cf 2 місяці тому

      @@ashimchatterjee8557 ON EARTH!

    • @quickchris10
      @quickchris10 2 місяці тому +2

      @@ashimchatterjee8557 Well, it's a guideline. Obvs, you're going to get thrown together sometimes. But if it can be avoided. When picking up his son, why can't she bring him out to his car, while the man waits outside within full view of the neighbors.

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 3 місяці тому +135

    How can you be married to someone that you distrust that person so so much?😢 these people are delusional 🤦🏼‍♀️💔

    • @midnightmadness5307
      @midnightmadness5307 3 місяці тому +7

      'touche'...it's not about 'love' an over utilized word in our society it's about RESPECT...with respect comes love, honesty, trust and faith. Period.

    • @silly_hammy1
      @silly_hammy1 3 місяці тому

      Marriage is an outdated concept

  • @Mouthofasailor80
    @Mouthofasailor80 3 місяці тому +91

    My ex cheated when I was pregnant. 18 yrs later, I would never get back with him

    • @onelifedontwasteit8568
      @onelifedontwasteit8568 2 місяці тому +3

      As you shouldn’t

    • @florenbaron7111
      @florenbaron7111 2 місяці тому +1

      That is so selfish of him. When women are pregnant, they are in a vulnerable state. That is when us men have a moral obligation to be extra vigilant with protecting, nurturing, and being there. There are good men. I turned down every opportunity I had to cheat. It's not just the principle, actions affect others. I hate it when people say all men cheat. It's an insult to the ethical men.

  • @charlie_says3841
    @charlie_says3841 3 місяці тому +48

    The trust is broken and, in this case, cannot be repaired. She will never be able to trust him again and the stress & anxiety will make her ill. They'll both end up miserable. She deserves way better than living with so much insecurity.

  • @artn2950
    @artn2950 3 місяці тому +73

    Great advice Dr Phil!!! Right on . This guys looks so guilty!!

  • @Buildyourinheritance
    @Buildyourinheritance 3 місяці тому +155

    26 years old looking 40! Sin will take you further than you ever want to go!

    • @lastlaugherboss
      @lastlaugherboss 3 місяці тому +7

      AMEN!!

    • @ReRe-kr1ht
      @ReRe-kr1ht 3 місяці тому +24

      I was shocked when he said 26. I'm 46 and my husband is 45 and he def looks our age.

    • @lydiaawuor5170
      @lydiaawuor5170 3 місяці тому +1

      So true😂

    • @merlenehendry-silver7741
      @merlenehendry-silver7741 3 місяці тому +6

      Guilty conscience makes him look older than 26 😅

    • @Monae6890
      @Monae6890 3 місяці тому +6

      Im 27 almost 28, I was shocked I thought he was for sure 35+ haha

  • @kristenlange7074
    @kristenlange7074 3 місяці тому +53

    "One time or 50 times, doesn't make a difference." It actually does make a difference, if he's lying about the 49 times.

    • @GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend
      @GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend 2 місяці тому +4

      Correct, the dishonesty is the biggest problem of the situation.

    • @PrinceKima_12
      @PrinceKima_12 2 місяці тому +2

      Also a one night stand is different from an ongoing affair, over and over. It all matters.

  • @Booker-wy1ef
    @Booker-wy1ef 3 місяці тому +67

    A love triangle, always makes a WRECK-TANGLE out of you.

    • @KiyBlackmoon
      @KiyBlackmoon 3 місяці тому

      Whew !!!!

    • @RenaAgee
      @RenaAgee 3 місяці тому +3

      Great reply 😂🎉🎉😂

    • @kaybee4132
      @kaybee4132 2 місяці тому +2

      I see what you did there.
      👏 👏 😂

  • @cherokeecindyreed1205
    @cherokeecindyreed1205 3 місяці тому +98

    He should have never left his first wife

    • @mstara5866
      @mstara5866 3 місяці тому +11

      He was still interested/in love with her.

    • @Lauren-i8i
      @Lauren-i8i 3 місяці тому +30

      He doesn’t actually want her -
      he’s just using her!

    • @BlackStump172
      @BlackStump172 3 місяці тому

      @@Lauren-i8iHe wants both . He is just greedy and spoilt .

    • @mstara5866
      @mstara5866 2 місяці тому

      Doesn't matter how you look at it or try to degrade the ex to just being "used". He was still "interested " in her. The wife is an even bigger fool for staying. Crazy part? This guy will Never let his BABYMOMMA FULLY GO. He knows he has an 18+ year tie to her. 😂 Definitely not husband material. All He's going to do is pretend to hate his ex and feen for her secretly. @user-ex3mx7hk4l

    • @shiolenrene826
      @shiolenrene826 2 місяці тому

      @@Lauren-i8ihe’s actually using his current wife. He can’t even look at his wife in her eyes & be honest

  • @christibarrick1768
    @christibarrick1768 3 місяці тому +37

    Women who have husbands that cheat get mad at the wrong person!!!! That other woman owes you nothing. Your husband took vows. He’s the one that owes you. He is who you should be mad at.

    • @sdavis5001
      @sdavis5001 2 місяці тому +1

      👍🏼👍🏼

    • @PrinceKima_12
      @PrinceKima_12 2 місяці тому

      Yep

    • @virginiasoskin9082
      @virginiasoskin9082 2 місяці тому

      Between teens and parents, or between husband and wife, trust is like a bank account. When you trust one another the account is several million dollars. But these husbands squandered their entire accounts and spent it ALL on whoring, and now they have to start refilling that account of trust and it is going to take hard effort, with total transparency. Lotsa luck guys. I would kick them both to the curb and get as much alimony as I could get. It is very hard to trust a cheater, and nobody likes to be made a fool of. Nobody likes being lied to, nobody who takes their marriage vows seriously likes it when the other person cheats. It is breaking a promise before God, and before one another and all the people who witnessed your wedding. In the scheme of things, that is pretty damn bad spiritually, emotionally and psychologically.

    • @beautymellz5600
      @beautymellz5600 Місяць тому

      Yes

  • @NotASnowflake
    @NotASnowflake 3 місяці тому +364

    My sister slept with my husband the night after I had our son by c-section. I had bought tickets to see Nelly but went into labor 2 days before the concert so as a great sister and wife I told my sister and husband to go. Found out weeks later they had taken full advantage of the hotel I paid for. Fast forward to my son being 13 and then my mother took her turn and she and my ex husband have been together 12 years now. Best part is they live together and tell everyone that they are "financial partners!!"

    • @taesoolovely6495
      @taesoolovely6495 3 місяці тому +160

      Damn...I'm sorry the ppl that were suppose to love and respect you betrayed you like that...I pray that genuine love and care finds you ❤️

    • @Megan-1017
      @Megan-1017 3 місяці тому +92

      Omg! Sister and mom

    • @trickortrump3292
      @trickortrump3292 3 місяці тому +79

      Wtf?? Do you still talk to your mom and sister?

    • @karenries8960
      @karenries8960 3 місяці тому +39

      Next time I'll go to the concert with you. I want to go to Bruno Mars! My husband, when I took him out for supper, at my age-60, wanted to do the pretty 20 year old waitress. He, as usual, disrespected me so bad, but in his defense, said he was just watching her vacuum the carpet. He wouldn't stop drooling and gawking and I have zero respect for him, but to not argue, try not to tell him I have zero respect.

    • @karenries8960
      @karenries8960 3 місяці тому +9

      I just got a potable cd player, and my favorite cd starts with Nelly, it's hot in here. Then I run for an hour and listen to it repeatedly. Bruno Mars Leave the door open is what I'm gonna order next

  • @leorasotto9587
    @leorasotto9587 3 місяці тому +16

    First man is lying. It's clear. Leave this marriage woman!!!

  • @ibjensen8626
    @ibjensen8626 3 місяці тому +28

    Their kids are now adults and probably watching this

    • @allgrapes4352
      @allgrapes4352 2 місяці тому +2

      And that’s the sad part they are EXPLOITED for the actions/lack of their parents. Sad. Really sad.

  • @BlackStump172
    @BlackStump172 3 місяці тому +22

    The second guy is emotionless , really vile and scary . Kayla needs to not play games and boot him out .

  • @chelsjo4315
    @chelsjo4315 3 місяці тому +26

    Once a cheater... ALWAYS A CHEATER 🤥

    • @courtneyjones-laweka1716
      @courtneyjones-laweka1716 2 місяці тому +5

      Once a liar, always a liar???
      Once a stealer, always a thief???
      Your logic is flawed. People have the ability to start and stop behaviors. Past doesn't 100% indicate someone's future behavior.

    • @sdavis5001
      @sdavis5001 2 місяці тому +1

      Not true.

    • @maryolivia930
      @maryolivia930 2 місяці тому +1

      @@courtneyjones-laweka1716let me guess, youre a cheater 😂

    • @courtneyjones-laweka1716
      @courtneyjones-laweka1716 2 місяці тому +3

      @@maryolivia930 No, I'm a clinical psychotherapist lol

    • @firelady118
      @firelady118 2 місяці тому +1

      Definitely not true, it depends on the person and the circumstances, some are serial cheaters and when your with one of those, things can get out of control. I also have bipolar disorder, which means I have an incredibly difficult time in managing impulse control. Before I got a handle on how to manage it (which took years of therapy) I would give into impulses, my ex husband was a serial cheater, I cheated on him after I found out he had cheated multiple time's (again, poor impulse control especially when enraged & hurt). The whole tit for tat behavior. However, years later I have much better control and management of my disorder & impulse control, I'm engaged to a different wonderful man who understands my disorder and helps me with it, I would never do anything like that to him but of course he would never do it to me either. I'm not saying what I did back then was right in anyway and all it did was make the situation worse. I owned it and worked on myself.

  • @coveredcovered20
    @coveredcovered20 3 місяці тому +70

    ADULTERY IS AWFUL

    • @sdavis5001
      @sdavis5001 2 місяці тому +2

      It hurts more people than just the ones directly involved as well.

    • @jutabursey4504
      @jutabursey4504 2 місяці тому

      Adultery is a sin stated in the word of God!

  • @ginnyhillyer
    @ginnyhillyer 3 місяці тому +45

    1 time or 50 times doesn’t make a difference? It sure would to me!

    • @meredithcoleman446
      @meredithcoleman446 3 місяці тому +1

      Same here.

    • @lynnemorgan4926
      @lynnemorgan4926 2 місяці тому +1

      So once is ok? 🙄

    • @Mrs.Currie
      @Mrs.Currie 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@lynnemorgan4926 There is something wrong with your reading comprehension.

    • @AnnaLam-y8w
      @AnnaLam-y8w Місяць тому +1

      Either way, he dipped his wick into another candle and it's over.

  • @lauragavin9923
    @lauragavin9923 3 місяці тому +10

    On Ryan’s cheating issue Dr Phil asks the audience “If you think Ryan is telling the truth .. if you think that this is a one time thing .. please stand up?” NOT ONE PERSON in the audience stood up.

  • @SUN-it6rf
    @SUN-it6rf 2 місяці тому +8

    I was divorced and co - parented with my ex. Our fingers have not touched. These are pure cheaters and blaming everyone except themselves. Shame on them.

    • @MARYREED-nh7gb
      @MARYREED-nh7gb 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes! they are venerable narcissist, always the victim. Never taken ownership! You nailed it!

  • @Lovelikeness
    @Lovelikeness 3 місяці тому +37

    THIS HUSBAND IS LYING THROUGH ALL HIS FREAKING TEETH!!!!!!!!! WORTHLESS 😮

  • @colleengilmartin5115
    @colleengilmartin5115 2 місяці тому +4

    IF IF IF he was telling the truth (and we all know he was lying) when his ex said "It was closer to 60 times" he would have jumped out of the chair with something like "OMG HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT!!!! THAT IS SUCH A BOLD FACED LIE!!!" I know if someone was lying about me like that I wouldn't sit back passively and not stick up for the truth.

  • @tbusman1
    @tbusman1 3 місяці тому +90

    This is why I will never remarry if divorced.

    • @CountessOlaf
      @CountessOlaf 3 місяці тому +22

      I’m divorced over 15 years now and I’ve dated enough to know what’s out there. Not only will I never remarry, I’m done dating as well.

    • @tbusman1
      @tbusman1 3 місяці тому +6

      @@CountessOlaf I will never remarry because it’s against my religion to remarry.

    • @F.A.Q835
      @F.A.Q835 3 місяці тому +12

      I will never remarry because no one will ever hold a candle to my husband

    • @ellamayoxoxo9510
      @ellamayoxoxo9510 3 місяці тому

      @@F.A.Q835yup!!!

    • @jernisharichard5032
      @jernisharichard5032 3 місяці тому

      ​@@tbusman1God calls us to peace, Kevin la Ewing has teachings in this, look into it. You can't help if someone doesn't want you.

  • @Fluffybunnyear
    @Fluffybunnyear 3 місяці тому +15

    I'm so scared to get in a relationship and I'm 26. I've had to distance myself from many male acquaintances that tried to hit on me while being with their girlfriends. It hurts to never get asked out respectfully, but then recieve attention I never asked for from taken guys. It makes me so sick how common it seems.

    • @virginiasoskin9082
      @virginiasoskin9082 2 місяці тому +1

      It is sickening when guys hit on other girls when they already have girlfriends. Those guys are not worthy of you. Try to find activities where you can find honest, trustworthy, kind, compassionate, funny guys. Bars are probably not the best places. Church, animal shelters, hiking or photography clubs, amateur theater, any activity where people mingle as they do things that are fun or helpful or charitable. Be CHOOSY! Get to know the person before jumping into bed. Value yourself.

  • @Snoops510
    @Snoops510 3 місяці тому +33

    It's not the cheating. It's the lying.

  • @InstantLightening
    @InstantLightening 3 місяці тому +17

    My partner cheated on me, I'm sure he'd rather die a million fiery deaths before he listened to me talk about what his cheating did to me. Nor do I want to talk about it and relive those feelings. Man, life.

    • @Lauren-i8i
      @Lauren-i8i 3 місяці тому +2

      💔😢❤

    • @lynnemorgan4926
      @lynnemorgan4926 2 місяці тому

      Are you drunk or just stupid? Both? If he cheated....you leave. If you don't, you're a fool

  • @ayandakhumalo8692
    @ayandakhumalo8692 3 місяці тому +18

    This guy is 26 😮. He looks very much over 40😅

  • @moirabaker458
    @moirabaker458 3 місяці тому +25

    No successful marriage can be based on mistrust. Once the trust is gone, it's over!

  • @judithmiller7308
    @judithmiller7308 3 місяці тому +12

    Experts agree that,,the only way to rebuild trust after cheating is that the cheater must come completely clean. The cheater must be willing to answer every question, and the wife says, everytime she brings it up, he walks away. Don't trust.
    He's not trustworthy.

    • @phyllis9750
      @phyllis9750 2 місяці тому

      We had a beautiful dog once. We got him fixed, but he continued to run to females. I finally had to turn him in. Some behaviors just run too deep.

  • @xoswatson351
    @xoswatson351 3 місяці тому +52

    Yay for dr Phil posting on UA-cam?!?

    • @Jen_l_g
      @Jen_l_g 3 місяці тому

      Are you not subscribed to his page?❤ take a look he has a lot of really good videos. Also check out the Maury page 2:35

  • @nairobismith8114
    @nairobismith8114 3 місяці тому +18

    He is a liar liar pants on fire 🔥

  • @katryan889
    @katryan889 2 місяці тому +6

    Dude is such a liar! He's even sweating 😂

  • @honestandfair1572
    @honestandfair1572 3 місяці тому +73

    Blame your husband not the woman

    • @kirox34
      @kirox34 2 місяці тому +12

      Yes I agree. But if she knew he was married then she is just as guilty

    • @maemarcil149
      @maemarcil149 2 місяці тому +3

      I never tried to find out who the women (plural!)were. He chose what he did,he not only cheated on me but my children as well.

    • @dennisspencer324
      @dennisspencer324 2 місяці тому +5

      Why blame the husband not the women? They're both to blame. It takes two to tango. She's just as much to blame as he is.
      Doris Spencer replying

    • @sdavis5001
      @sdavis5001 2 місяці тому +2

      Unless the woman is someone you know, and/or she knows your deal.
      Many stranger women don’t care. Don’t waste the extra energy being angry over her. Save that energy for getting out of the ‘relationship’, and moving forward.

    • @cindyhoomalu1566
      @cindyhoomalu1566 2 місяці тому +4

      Believe me, the husband gets blamed! But if the woman knows he is married, she gets blamed, too! The woman might get a lot of hate, but the husband has to carry the weight of it because the connection remains until everything is separate, and if there are kids involved he has to deal with it forever.

  • @Maddawg326
    @Maddawg326 3 місяці тому +15

    Dude definitely did it more than once with the ex wife.

  • @morolakeaduloju9096
    @morolakeaduloju9096 3 місяці тому +9

    No self control, no inner strength to resist the devil, so satan is just having a field day in their lives! What a pity!

    • @LadyAtheOnly
      @LadyAtheOnly Місяць тому

      💯🎯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @mariasobey1107
    @mariasobey1107 3 місяці тому +16

    Of course Kyla won’t scream at you or let you do stuff because you only have sexual relationship, nothing more … try living together dude, you’ll see 😅

  • @karenmacomber5692
    @karenmacomber5692 3 місяці тому +16

    My husband cheated on me and left an 11 month old and a 4 year old behind, told me he was going Christmas shopping for me and never came home

    • @Snoodles294
      @Snoodles294 3 місяці тому +18

      That is so sad. I wish you nothing but the best and hope that life is finding you better than ever

    • @uniniversalstar1974
      @uniniversalstar1974 2 місяці тому +3

      That’s insane! You can have him declared dead after 5 years

    • @deborahpintwala9155
      @deborahpintwala9155 2 місяці тому +1

      So sorry! I hope karma got him and you are doing just fine!

    • @karenmacomber5692
      @karenmacomber5692 2 місяці тому

      @@deborahpintwala9155 Thank-you

    • @MARYREED-nh7gb
      @MARYREED-nh7gb 2 місяці тому +1

      I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope that you fill us in if/when you divorced, or whatever happened.
      What kind of thing would have hurt your heart forever. And how are the kids?

  • @boog927
    @boog927 3 місяці тому +12

    These men got greedy and got caught, period.

  • @EllysaE
    @EllysaE 2 місяці тому +5

    Dr Phil’s expressions. He is SO done with them 😂

  • @the1andobli417
    @the1andobli417 3 місяці тому +18

    Dude is sweating, literally.

    • @s.k.m.8756
      @s.k.m.8756 3 місяці тому +1

      Yep liars sweat like that!

  • @fifilafleur5555
    @fifilafleur5555 3 місяці тому +6

    Watching this just reaffirms my decision to no longer date and get into another relationship. Life is so peaceful with much less worry now.

  • @silivenusivutikalulu7633
    @silivenusivutikalulu7633 3 місяці тому +12

    Always love doctor phil shows

  • @user-tv7un4bt9e
    @user-tv7un4bt9e 3 місяці тому +48

    Omg Dr Phil about infidelity I remain single after my husband died he was so nice but I can’t trust men they are cheaters
    I was traumatized by father’s infidelity that took decades started when I was 13 saw my mom cried so much but they remained married till death did they part
    With me I can’t do that infidelity has no room in my life no way no how
    I’m a Christian I can forgive but I’m not a saint I can’t forget period.
    Trust and honesty are the best to make matured marriages work you have to build it together
    I’m happy to be single thank God for the blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @masalamasand2259
      @masalamasand2259 2 місяці тому +1

      😊

    • @pollydickinson4789
      @pollydickinson4789 Місяць тому +1

      Forgive by all means but if you forget then you haven’t learned that particular lesson.

    • @user-tv7un4bt9e
      @user-tv7un4bt9e Місяць тому

      @@pollydickinson4789 you sure right because marriage is our only hope to have kids I did not love my husband forgive me but it takes two to tango my late husband knew that before I got married to him I never loved him I just love children two boys I raised them as a single mom sent them to college no loans one was 4 the other was 11 they are older now and have very good high paying jobs and families I think I did well thanks for Gods blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jillgott6567
    @jillgott6567 3 місяці тому +13

    Married 2 .5 years with 2 kids and another one from his first marriage and he is cheating ? Oh, the amt of child support he is going to have to pay !
    He and the ex can meet in public to exchange rheir child and then keep their hands to themselves ! First guy lying you can tell by his demeanor.

  • @Suzi64grad
    @Suzi64grad 3 місяці тому +24

    You knew he cheated with your mom before you married him? Did I misunderstand you? If you knew why did you marry him? If you didn’t know I bet you were devastated and you should have immediately dropped both out of your life! Hugs!❤️❤️

    • @BlackStump172
      @BlackStump172 3 місяці тому

      I doubt it . She no doubt found out later .

    • @joannekuzborski491
      @joannekuzborski491 2 місяці тому

      ?????

    • @allgrapes4352
      @allgrapes4352 2 місяці тому

      Right!?!?

    • @Suzi64grad
      @Suzi64grad 2 місяці тому

      @@BlackStump172 Thanks..I was a bit confused! My heart goes out to her….❤

  • @bridgetharris8399
    @bridgetharris8399 3 місяці тому +10

    Husband is lying! You can look at his body language and tell.😮😮😮

  • @Lavender-blue80
    @Lavender-blue80 2 місяці тому +2

    There’s no such thing as “an emotional affair.” Cheating is cheating no matter what terms you use to avoid the issue. If you’ve thought about it, effectively you’ve done the deed.

  • @heathereast7499
    @heathereast7499 3 місяці тому +7

    Both of these men are full of it!😂

  • @artn2950
    @artn2950 2 місяці тому +3

    The men don't want to lose!!! Who will shop, cook all meals , do laundry etc

  • @malklewin4055
    @malklewin4055 3 місяці тому +305

    My husband cheated with my mother, before our marriage, and on the beginning of our marriage. And everything she confessed to me when I was depressed because my marriage was disaster.

    • @nightsky3981
      @nightsky3981 3 місяці тому +210

      I hope you cut ties with your mother. That is not a mother!

    • @sportlegend4444
      @sportlegend4444 3 місяці тому +101

      That’s crazy I feel so bad for you
      I will pray for you. That is wrong in so many ways

    • @calpolyca
      @calpolyca 3 місяці тому +121

      That's no mother and definitely not a husband worth keeping. So sorry this happened to you.

    • @goldengram3865
      @goldengram3865 3 місяці тому +73

      It's not you. You don't deserve that. 💔🙏💕

    • @artn2950
      @artn2950 3 місяці тому +82

      Run run run from these sick people. You cannot change them. Find a church find new honorable mature friends. Grow achieve and never look back over your shoulder!!
      God bless

  • @ninikshoemaker8628
    @ninikshoemaker8628 3 місяці тому +6

    There is no man worth that much to be so miserable.

  • @shoshoiLLindividual
    @shoshoiLLindividual 2 місяці тому +6

    I'd love an update on these couples!

  • @rulesforthee7215
    @rulesforthee7215 Місяць тому +1

    22:05 When Dr. Phil asked his age, and he said 26 ... out loud I go TWENTY-SIX??! He looks 40!! 😂

  • @GreatWhiteBud420.
    @GreatWhiteBud420. 3 місяці тому +11

    100% thats a hairpeice i cant stop looking at it hahaha

  • @shilohbell1573
    @shilohbell1573 2 місяці тому +4

    They’ve been together more than ONCE! I call BS

  • @bdowiemama3310
    @bdowiemama3310 3 місяці тому +5

    Once a cheater always a cheater. I grew up watching it in my family. It's a psychological disorder.

  • @sharayafugate6053
    @sharayafugate6053 3 місяці тому +6

    The puppy dog eyes are screaming "I'm the victim even tho I cheated."

  • @traciway5729
    @traciway5729 3 місяці тому +11

    Sounds like too much work... for what? Him? Lmao why tho?

  • @1983zoe
    @1983zoe 3 місяці тому +6

    Jeez when it has to be that difficult to love someone it’s just not worth it, it shouldn’t be that hard!

  • @ceciliaaznaran3317
    @ceciliaaznaran3317 2 місяці тому +4

    Once a cheater , always a cheater. People who cheat don't love their partners. I can't even imagine cheating on my boyfriend. That is just cruel, to betray another person, especially someone who says they love you.

  • @artofface.iwishiwasamua8127
    @artofface.iwishiwasamua8127 2 місяці тому +2

    This is a wrecking ball to anyone's nervous system. When I see these shows, I am so grateful I'm single!

  • @khoenack
    @khoenack 3 місяці тому +13

    He’s so full of s&:t! They all need therapy!

  • @shea5287
    @shea5287 3 місяці тому +20

    Tell the truth is you start to fix your marriage.. I sont believe it was once. He's saying whatever he thinks he needs to say on that stage to save the marriage even if its not true

  • @freecountry3544
    @freecountry3544 3 місяці тому +12

    This guy is nothing special. I don't understand.

  • @alexanderdumais2911
    @alexanderdumais2911 3 місяці тому +12

    Why did he bother? They're practically identical.

  • @Vegasbaby115
    @Vegasbaby115 3 місяці тому +7

    He said one time but shook his head NO. Meaninggggg girl he lying

  • @glittergirlgang242
    @glittergirlgang242 2 місяці тому +4

    Boy that man is sweating profusely! He’s a cheater. I wish they took a lie detector test

  • @FOAMS67
    @FOAMS67 3 місяці тому +6

    Phil should play that Shaggy song "Wasnt me" in the back ground. 😅
    Anyway,,,,Limerance folks,,,all affairs start in the brain. And this guy saying 1 time is compartmentalize his own shame and trying to steamroll her mind.

  • @kathymunsee6468
    @kathymunsee6468 3 місяці тому +6

    He got caught! Hes lying His wife should never trust him. His exwife has no reason to lie. He has every reason to lie.

  • @happinessinheart5340
    @happinessinheart5340 3 місяці тому +6

    The first Husband.
    He still wants his first wife.
    He does not really want the second wife. The second wife looks similar to the first wife; so he is still with his first wife.
    There is something about the first wife that keeps drawing him back to her.

  • @straightforward
    @straightforward 3 місяці тому +8

    Once that hurt is done, there has to be SO much rebuild! There's no "until", many times that injury has to be healed by accountability by the one who cheated. Hedges/boundaries in your marriage are a real necessity. Agreed on by both, in the marriage.

  • @pollycebula605
    @pollycebula605 3 місяці тому +6

    Why do these women blame the other woman??????

  • @trishh9823
    @trishh9823 3 місяці тому +9

    Liar...ugh she should leave him

  • @KittyCatDonut
    @KittyCatDonut 3 місяці тому +5

    He for sure cheated multiple times with his ex and only stopped because his current wife has him on a tight leash after catching it

  • @thankyou5093
    @thankyou5093 3 місяці тому +8

    Bill Clinton in the Making!😂

  • @CountessOlaf
    @CountessOlaf 3 місяці тому +7

    Omg I’m speechless. I’m so sorry that happened to you. I can not even imagine!
    I was unhappy with my elderly mother for awhile…. I’ve been divorced for many years but my mom continued sending him cards and gifts. I didn’t love it but I let it go…. we had been married for 15 years and I understand that everyone can’t just cut the ex spouse off just because the marriage didn’t work. Well, my mom is 90 now and sometimes says things…. She confessed that she always had a crush on my ex husband. I mostly let it pass with a laugh but then started remembering all the times she’d come visit and stay with us for a week and how she would get so involved in conversation with my ex while I’m running after the kids. My sister thought it was hilarious and brought up my mom’s crush. My mom said “I didnt have a crush on him, he had a crush on me! He was always looking at my butt!”
    I’m going to tell you that there is no way that I believe that. She is delusional and the fact that she would say that in front of me really really bothered me. But I realized she’s a sad old woman who unfortunately always chose terrible men so I guess she enjoyed the fantasy.

    • @Lauren-i8i
      @Lauren-i8i 3 місяці тому +3

      That’s so sick for a Parent to do that.
      GROCE!
      That is nothing short of cold hearted and completely disgusting. 🤢
      You deserved a better Mom who would respect your marriage.
      As a Mother she should have protected you.
      Shame on her!

    • @kennedystarr8094
      @kennedystarr8094 3 місяці тому +1

      That is not normal, you know that right?