Affairs of the Heart | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil
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- Can married people be friends with someone of the opposite sex without sex getting in the way? At what point does a friendly relationship become an affair of the heart or emotional infidelity? Meet Randy, who says his wife, Amanda, has crossed that line. (From Dr. Phil Season 7)
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This poor guy is stuck in an abusive marrige. He needs more help than she does, he does not think he is worthy of good treatment. Its heartbreaking
Absolutely. 💔
Poor gay? He is an idiot!
Gotta say, that's dude's friend is a real one. Instead of accepting her advances and her love letter, he told his friend. A lot of "friends" would have been all about an affair.
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He is married to an immature child. She should have lost her state license for her behavior with a patient in her care!
She's only a cna...not a nurse.
@@karenwhite4141 CNA’s in every state are licensed! They must fulfill educational hours and renew their licenses annually. They are required to abide by the same ethics rules as nurses.
@karenwhite4141 you still need a license.
@@karenwhite4141 All states require a CNA to have a license! They must fulfill educational requirements and annual licensing. They must adhere to all ethics rules like nurses do!
Immature, stuck at 16, and raising 3 more just like her by her horrible, abusive example.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
She respects no one, including herself. This will not change. He should move on asap.
She is feeling unattractive and needs attention. He has lost jobs because of his behaviour, putting their financial security in danger and he is stalking her. She isnt that attractive and getting older, what does he think she is, Venus. The man has lost his mind, he was in military, Typical controlling. She should get out .
It seems like she is proud of it. Narcissistic.
Lack of accountability. She is an example of why millions of men choose to never get married. Many choose to not even commit.
Move on, save the children!
Lol.i think the exact same thing about men. Can't trust them. @florenbaron7111
My heart hurts for Randy. He’s a great guy & she is horrible. He needs to leave her, she’s never going to change. He deserves so much better.
She is unfaithful by all of her actions. She does not love him and he does not deserve to be treated this way. No self-respecting man would accept this behavior from his wife. It needs to end, they do not have a marriage.
You are absolutely right.
I don’t believe her when she says it’s just emotional. I bet you she had her cheeks clapped with multiple guys.
But she stays to leacch resources off of him. Viile.
When you love someone as much as he seems to love her, walking away is really hard.
"Fun and flirting" with others, do not belong in a marriage.
Doing oral on a patient in her care is not flirting. I believe she was lying when she said she didn't do it.
OMG, who in the world would put up with her. He should have left the the minute he found out about her trying to seduce his friend.
Thats just a new low 😅😂 like wtf was that about.
Or giving oral to a patient in her care. If she was working in a psyc ward she would know how to push Randy's buttons to breaking point. I think that this is exactly what she has been doing and making him believe that it is all his fault. Never hers. Imagine how she can mess with her daughters heads if she even get visitation if he gets the kids.
She should never work with patients. He needs to leave her, take the children and move far away. He needs to respect himself. She is a narcissist
She screamed “I don’t love you. Go away” and he STILL doesn’t understand that? BELIEVE WHAT THEY TELL YOU WHEN THEY TELL YOU.
He's a simp...yuck
Yepp don’t let someone tell you they don’t love you twice🙁 I hope he finds someone who loves him back
But then she says she doesn't want to replace him. It's the money only he brings in that keeps her with him. She's for the damn streets.
@@thecongenital3035💯💯💯
Right?!? When people snow you who they are, believe them!
She's a psychopath or sociopath... she needs help. Husband needs help too... he's suffering from PTSD and low self esteem. He needs to separate from her to get this help
I agree. This poor guy thinks everything is his fault.
@@sarahcomerford4607the poor guy? We all have choices as well. He lost jobs because he is following her around - when is enough, enough?
She has no respect for her husband.
NONE
And she is Ms McNasty
She has no respect for herself too.
And no respect for herself too, shame on her.
Unfortunately, these days, there are MANY women like her, which is one of the reasons I will NEVER marry.
Dr Phil is DESTROYING her and I'm loving every second of it.
What a waste of energy being worried, anxious, and hurt 24/7. Get rid of toxic people who have no loyalty and respect for you or the marriage. Absolutely gross. Leave and get happy. Find a new horizon.
Poor man, she is destroying his mental health
He's letting her. He needs to leave.
And as she is working as a psyc nurse, she would know how to do it. Imagine if he leaves and she takes the kids. If she can't mess with his head, she will mess with theirs....
Poor Randy , what a good man
She got a good husband. Be thankful for him, because one day you are going to regret it.
She is such a horrible wife. She doesn’t love him, she doesn’t like him, she doesn’t want to be with him AT ALL! Wake up dude
And she pulls away when he tries physical contact
@@laura-annebauer7747 Because his physical contact is controlling. Not that I blame him.
She likes her lifestyle ……
@@BlueyKindthat too
Dump her dude now. Your young and handsome. Take the kids, 🏃♀️
He deserves so much better
Many women spend our lives looking for a man like Randy. A man able to commit. To connect! A man with intelligence, integrity and empathy.
Amanda will rue the day she doesn’t do everything necessary to keep this marriage alive.
There are beautiful strong women out there with extremely high standards who would snap Randy up in an instant. Yet he’s devoted to you and the kids, Amanda!
I totally agree
Women don't like nice guy. In womens eyes a nice guy is a weak man and women hate weak man. It is always better when the women is more into you than you are into her. If a woman knows your are not walking a way she will keep doing bullish
Yeah, but men like Randy end up with women like her, and good women end up with men that do that too, and thats why the best of em are unavailable
@@nathalievienneau6864 Randy picks a woman like that to fulfill his (dysfunctional) need to make him feel the way he actually feels about himself inside.
I would love a date with him! 😍
This man be a dream come true to the right woman. What a shame. He’s an attractive with such good character….. she doesn’t deserve him!!!! Wow!
Careful, there is a reason he has tolerated this. He is not healthy either or this would repulse him and leave.
@@shrutefarms4741true
God to have a husband who is so determined to stay and work things out and is so protective of his family and shows his weakness and breaking point. She has no idea how lucky she is. Her husband is such a sweet attractive and wonderful man I’d love to have someone like him in my life
he is in denial. I was there. He thinks maybe he is at fault here when he said ' I am afraid of being too controlling'. He is doubting himself.
Tell me!!! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻😊
He is lovely. He would make someone a wonderful husband and deserves a wonderful wife. I would love to have someone like him to call mine. Such a good man. She needs someone who enjoys an open marriage or just be single and join a swingers club. That’s okay too. Do you Boo, but don’t drag your loving husband through this grief.
I agree. I have a lovely daughter, widowed young, who would love to find a man like this.
She is just using him for resources, the double dating strategy many unethical women commit these days.
watching this i kept thinking she reminds me of someone.and about 20 minutes later i realised who.jodi arias. the way she talk acts her mannerisms.and always playing the victim.everyone else is the problem except her.
He must leave her, he deserves better
He knows He would have to pay a fortune in child support and alimony.
He does deserve so much better!
Agreed. Worth every penny. Tragic she's so unloyal and he's too loyal. I could only dream of dating a man like this. I'm so sorry brother
@@olegal just show this tape to the judge. PRESTO
now she pays child support -no alimony after what she does
to the family!
@@skibee421 If they live in a no-fault state, that would not be relevant.
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Lolo ! …”the Scarlett Ohara school of management??”I’ll just think about that tomorrow!
Good one doc ..
RANDY, GET RID OF HER
Yes , bye bye to her ,
And get full custody of his kids and she gets supervised visitation.
Hes so handsome and seems like a well level guy , and that voice!!! its sad that he is trying trying and doesnt accept the fact that she doesnt love him the way he deserve
How painful for the husband!! She doesn't deserve him at all!! What in the world is WRONG with this woman?! I hate all the excuses and lies coming out from her mouth.
that's actually one of the first times i really admired Dr phil s knowledge and ability to speak right to the point - it was really good
The problem is that he can't give her the attention she needs because it has to come from other men and it has to feel forbidden. She likes to feel desired and excited because she gets validation from external sources and not from internally. Shes a sociopath narcissist or has borderline personality disorder who places her desires over her own husband, her kids, a psych patient, her job. Look at her talking all nonchalantly and sweet as if shes being honest and open. Shes a raging sociopath. The other problem is that emailing and flirting and having lunch may be innocent, but doing those things brings someone closer to doing things that are inappropriate. We covet what we see every day, and she's a predator of sorts. Sadly, there's nothing her husband can do. She is the problem. No matter who she's with, they won't be enough. Shes using her husband, and every other dude she messes around with to feed her ego.
You couldn’t have said it any better😢
Her cold dead eyes give her away
Perfectly articulated. I completely agree with your perception of her.
yes, even the tendency towards alcoholism/substance abuse - is an attribute of sociopaths...this is so unfortunate. How many women would love to be a stay at home mom with 3 kids, a husband former military, who is willing to do everything to take care of you and your kids and provide a stable life? She's shockingly ungrateful.
She is only still with him to use him for his resources. She most likely married for profit.
Amanda doesn't seem remorseful whatsoever. I don't think she wants to change. I don't appreciate her personality: marriage is not a joke.
WHY TF is he still with her? This is no way to live!
When he told about his childhood it all made sense...
When he told about his childhood it all made sense...
He still with her, cause he's madly in love with her. To him, she's the most amazing beautiful woman ever. He doesn't see her the way the rest of us do, as a no good for nothing trifling hoe
He is feminine 😂😂😂😂😂
I had the same issues. I was always lusting prating for the next. Used to even had sexual dreams and didn’t have any control over then. It was tormenting me so much! I was delivered through prayer from a friend by the holly spirit. The desires disappeared overnight and haven been since a new man with a new heart and new and pure desires. Thank you Lord!!
Emotional affairs are far worse than sexual ones.
I agree. I was able to get over my ex husband’s infidelity sexually but not the telling her I love you and looking for ways to talk to her. Sorry, that was two different women.
Bible says otherwise. Adultery is intercourse not hot best friends your mate doesn’t want you to have
I think so, too. However, I think men think sexual affairs are worse. At least my husband does. Duh 🙄🥴🤣🤣🤣
@@tammieschaffer4818 For the record, I am a man, but I definitely agree: Most of us think sexual affairs are worse. I'm not sure why lol
@@purgatoriprytania5382I think it's the perception, because sexual intercourse is viewed differently by men and women.
A woman is allowing something to be done to her. A man is giving and a female is receiving. That's how I see it.
Adultery is repulsive either way. Emotionally or physically, doesn't matter. They're both considered cheating, imo.
This chic had no empathy toward her husband and children when Dr. Phil told her she is about to lose EVERYTHING. She just shook her head.
She cares NOTHING about you man. Lifes too short.
But she stays to leacch his resources.
A King cannot build his kingdom, with a woman who loves her attention and validation from the village.
This man tried everything except leaving her, which is probably the only thing that would have worked. I imagine her side-flings were only compelling because of their forbidden-ness, and because she felt secure in her marriage. Taking away the relationship probably would have ruined the whole experience for her.
100%. When, (if he ever can get the self esteem to do this)he leaves her, she will cry and beg for him to come back and it’ll start all over again. Leave for good guy.
WELL SAID !!
She is just with him to use him for his resources. Many women do this. It's called the double mating strategy, which only pertains to women. They find a man to leachh off of and then other men for sssexual satisfaction. I have seen this too many times which is one of the reasons I choose to never marry.
She has the mindset of a child. She is not going to change and she has definitely been physically intimate with others 😅
You're absolutely right. There wouldn't have been an accusation of oral with her patient, which led to her dismissal, if it didn't happen! If she was innocent, she'd have fought it surely. Definitely been intimate with other guys.
I was very truthful, except when I wasn’t
It's very simple, they got together young. She hasn't had relationships before him , and now she's sewing her wild oats the wrong way.
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"They didn't have any proof" Freudian slip there 😂
What do they need a video recording? A hotel company in Australia has just gotten into trouble as they played video recordings of such goings on in the hotel's elavators at a company function to employees. Signs all over the properties saying video recording in progress.....
He needs a big hug and lots of love
This hero deserves so much better. He must have low self esteem, he is clinging on to her still. He even is doubting himself. He has to leave before she destroys him.
He’s a very attractive man. Imagine how she’d feel if the roles were reversed.
She clearly finds pleasure in his pain. Sociopathhh.
He does have low self-esteem due to his horrible childhood. So he is trying to hold this marriage all together by himself because he really wants it to work -- it has been his dream to have a fulfilling marriage. But she is afraid of intimacy as Dr. Phil says. It is impossible for her to accept love from a man who wants a deep bond. Instead, she seeks risky behavior because it does not require of her any in-depth long-term intimacy except possible quickies here and there with lots of exciting eye-contact and finally talking to a guy she has had her eye on for weeks. Very much like middle schoolers -- riding the surface of relationships with no commitment, no lasting requirements. Both need therapy -- he to deal with the PTSD he has from his horrible childhood with sicko parents and she to find out why she is so afraid of intimacy and marital commitment. I hope he divorced her to save himself, and got custody of the kids. No kid needs a mother who can't keep her hands off the town's men.
This lady has an answer and an excuse for everything. And so does he, for her!
Yikes. What a mess! Sometimes when i am considering dating, i watch stuff like this and feel blessed i am celibate and safe❤
stay strong,sister ~*
Dating is just using each other up until one gets sick of the other and finds a new one to use up. Find someone with the same morals,beliefs and life goals as yourself for the long run to be fruitful. Look at their actions,not their words.
That's sad, that woman is sick, not all women are that way, you will find a good woman just pray about it 🇿🇦
Yeah, I don't trust women. I will never get married. These days it's a man trap.
As a sexologist we see that a lot in couple therapy. Emotionnal infidelity is even worst then a simple physical one... It last for years and make a lot of damage.
Sexologist? Is that actually a thing?
@@nicoleweiler1105 for you to know : In the field of human sexuality, sexologists are experts who have specialized training and expertise. To better the lives of those they work with, they do research on their clients' sexual behaviors, feelings, and interactions and help them resolve any conflicts they may have with their sexual histories.
The question is, Do they have a chance if they seek counseling//?
@@joseroldan2924 hey thanks for the question! Sorry for my english...not perfect yet ;)
Couples can absolutly fix the relationship but it depend how willing they are to let it go. When There is an emotionnal affair like that, trust is a big issue and even after therapy some absolutly cant put the "mistake" in the box, Closed it and move on. They keep coming back to it everytime There is an argument or a confrontation even if not AT all related.
Its a constant Loop because you keep bring back the past that your suppose to be "done" with. Older couple have more chances then younger one. They are in that relationship for 20 years so they normally work harder in therapy.
That Said, young couple Seem to communicate a Little more. They learn new ways to understand each others wich very old couple dont because they dont speak the same langage for years now! They are "used" to their old "ways" wich is, most of the Time, not really effective.
So yes and know. A simple physical love affair that happend one Time Will be easier to put aside then a long emotionnal affair or a repeated one. It depend on the type of affair, how long it been running and Also how invested they are as individual into the relationship.
Sadly 1 on 3 infidelity Will move one together and the other 2 goes for divorce or seperation.
Love from QC, Canada ;) xxx
@@joseroldan2924 yes they Do... Emotionnal affairs are hard to forget but with a good couple therapist they could eventually be able to move on.
Sometimes tho, even with the best conselor, its hard to not bring the subject of infidelity everytime There is an argument. And the couple cant heal.
So yes and no... Depend only on Much they are willing to trully forgive and move on.
She's too H orny to be loyal. She even initiates the moves. She's always got an excuse for her actions--He should move on. Not a good example to their daughters.
He deserves SO much better!
He seems like he fits most women’s idea of a perfect partner. AND he looks like Keanu Reeves!
Swoon! I hope he leaves her in the dust.
I have to kind of side with this. Dude. I think she will cheat on him.
She already has. She's lying through her damn teeth. AND she's predatory performing sexual acts on her psychiatric patients... Smmfh
She already cheated on him.
She already cheated but stays with him for his resources. Shame on her and all of the many other women who do this.
I've been married to my best friend for 35 years. Without trust, there is no foundation.
Amanda do the right thing and let Randy find someone that will be satisfied with what he can give. It's not right to hurt him this way.
When she has a husband who looks like a young Keanu Reeves from Bill & Ted movies, but wants to explore "The Matrix" with someone else.
Omg I wrote the same thing! He totally looks AND sounds like Keanu!
She will never be Satisfied! He needs to leave her asap!
I have a couple male friends I grew up with, now 56 yrs old. They have spouses and I do too. There was never any intimacy with my buddies. We speak on Facebook, messenger and meet up occasionally for dinner but its all of us together. I'm not going to toss away 40 yrs of friendship over someone else's insecurities. The key is to be transparent and inclusive. Also, respect boundaries and your partner. Keep control of your hormones.
Agree. I see someone else here talking about her husbands "best" (female) friend. Where did people ever get the idea that is appropriate / workable in a relationship. Human nature just doesn't work that way and it's either extremely naive or arrogant to ignore this reality
Amazing how many people are married but not in love?
Many
millions
Many women marry for prodit/resources.
Why is it that good men get stuck with women whom dont want them?.
She’s incredibly immature & he’s hopelessly devoted to her; a recipe for DISASTER 😂🚮
That’s what divorce for! 😂
she is creepy af, the way she talks quickly and emotionless and smiling with dupers delight
Wow that’s a great observation 😅
😂 you are so right, serial killer vibes all day
Exactly!
And Dr Phil is not fooled by this woman.
An emotional affair is no big deal for her. This woman is sick in head and has no respect for her husband.
What's wrong with this guy? he will never trust her again. Their marriage is over!
Yeah, he's rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic. It's over. She can't grow up,
They are both odd. What’s he thinking? Is this even real? Come on guyyyyyy😅
@@BabyLettuce70lol that’s a good one 😂
He is trapped. By her. She is being disrespectful. Awful.
He is trapping himself, as Dr Phil said, he has to be ready to leave to save his kids and himself (his sanity.) He won't leave her I bet.
She’s got that Jodi Arias psychopath voice.
Omg, yesssss!!!!
thats exactly who she reminded me of
yes!!!
YESSS she does 😮
I heard it too!
She left her father’s house and immediately went with this guy who is 9 years older than her…she has 3 children by him, she clearly did not live a life where she was able to explore and meet other people. This was a recipe for disaster and the fact that people think he’s the victim is insane - he finds out she wants to have an affair with his best friend and that makes him want to control her even more!? He argues in front of their children and has no self control. They are both AWFUL, and should not be together.
Perhaps Randy wouldn't be "controlling" if he didn't want to protect their marriage i.e. she and him both. Untrustworthy behavior is always a threat to what you should be building together.
His best friend has more loyalty 😢
She is so immature, its hard to understand how she got to the age she is. She is a 16 year old as Dr. Phil said
This poor man is so self-aware and self analytical that it makes me wanna cry. He is literally finding faults in himself that don’t even exist. Raising his voice asking, how do I let go of the past made me want to scream the problem is you can’t let go of the past if it isn’t the past. She is asking him to trust her while the poor guy is still coughing up water from the last time she let him sink.
Amanda is very selfish and immature…would question early child sexual experiences.
99 percentage of women don’t do this. I understand you, my ex partner was exactly the same and it makes you constantly on alert and suspicious. The best thing I ever did for my soul, my belief in others, was to leave him. Do the same and heal ❤
You can't stay with a serial cheater and wonder why they cheat.
That was me....running AWAY instead of toward. So true!!!! Luckily I wasn't in that long and found the person and ran to and stayed with now for 38 years!
She will not change!! Get away from her.
You deserve more, somebody that loves you with all their heart, one's a cheater, always a cheater.... It's mentally exhausting to stress what moves she makes every day... You only got one life, and that is to be happy
Isn't that the exact same thing that MANY men do when they go out to bars to pick up women and they pick up women at their jobs and they walk into a room and scan the room for the woman they will play that "flirty" game that so many womanizers do? I had that kind of a husband years ago and he is in his 70s now and is STILL doing it! And there are LOTS of men just like that!
Yes.
What’s good for the gander is good for the goose 😅 Both sexes are full of people just like this woman because feminism has made it possible.
What's your point? That doesn't make it right for HER to do it. And THIS man is certainly not doing that.
How in the world do you watch this video and make it about men? What is wrong with your brain.
He's too good for her. She's plain, she's lucky he even wants her. I think I've seen this episode before. Hope this guy moved on and found someone to truly love him.
This woman does not want or need to be married! He needs to move on...
She has zeroooooooooo respect for him. His self esteem is so in the toilet.
I’m a Professional, and I have been working with situations like this for over 30 years. The woman is lying through her teeth. Every single one of these “emotional” affairs are not just emotional but physical. This woman is seriously mentally ill. I honestly don’t know why he’s still there. He needs to divorce her as soon as possible. He needs to get a good attorney and get custody of his kids.
2:28 SHES A CHEATER, She's not worth it. 22:32 She's still talking like she can't control herself.When in fact she can she chooses not to therefore she does not care what she's doing to him or her children. The fact that he thinks that he's doing something wrong breaks my heart for this man , Because he is not doing anything wrong here It's all her She's selfish. 30:14 They are both making excuses how is this ever gonna change!
It won’t. Codependency and immaturity can go on forever and ever. They don’t want this to change. He is the one that needs to change behavior, she never will.
It should have been over when it came out that she gave oral to a patient and she lost her job at the hospital. Buddy, the hospital must have had some proof of some sort.
Sounds like a serial cheater to me!! She needs to be single. She has him for security, a roof over her head and a man at home between boyfriends.
I do not believe Amanda whatsoever. If she thinks there's nothing wrong with emotional cheating I don't see why she would draw the line at physical. Also this dude needs to just leave her. She's dragging the kids into it. She thinks that she wouldn't be doing this if he trusted her more. Literally what reason have you given your husband to trust you in the first place? She's clearly checked out of this marriage and he deserves better
I was in a relationship just like this. We went to councing, and I tried to work on our marriage. After 6 months i knew i would be looking over my shoulder the rest of my life. I divorced him and moved on. It will hurt but you will be a peace in the end.
He looks like Keanu Reeves’s brother.
You stole my comment
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OMG, That's what i thought so too!! 😂
Yup, my immediate reaction was why is Winona treating Keanu so badly 😢
This woman is disgusting. Soooooo selfish. Randy should leave her. He deserves someone so much better
She might care for him but she doesn’t love him. “ I want to feel tingly for him” my guy… SMH and to top it off she doesn’t even take accountability for anything acting like it’s his fault 🙄
He deserves so much better. No mention of what their children might be going through.
Solution is He needs to leave her. She may get help but she knows she is pretty and she knows many men would stare at her, she luvs the attention and it turns her on seeing good looking guys haha! she is who she is you cant change her . She may try and change for a while but those temptations of hers WILL come back.
That's no kind of life. I can't see how anyone would want to live in misery. Get a divorce if there's no trust.
She's a LYING CHEATER;
just like my wife was.
ABSOLUTELY SICKENING.
I’m sorry.
I would be gone ,gone,gone so fast...those other guys are around looking for free meat ,not their fault....
My husbands best friend is a woman. I truly like her so much, but there’s that little part of me that always worries he will accidentally fall for her 😢
Your husband should NOT have a best female friend. However did people get the idea this is workable or acceptable. Do you / him think you can overcome human nature and the human condition ??
@@Echidna7095 saying that is insinuating men have no self control.
Or, that it night lapse if he is put in a sweet shop full of sweeties
@@ShilasSpellboundCreationsdon’t fool yourself they don’t….I was in the same position…I fell for my best friend…and it ended with him gone…that’s gotta happen here
I was like her at one time. It's selfish and shallow. She can change, I did.
But she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong so she won't stop
@@perfectlyimperfect9129 ur so right, she's so open about it like she's entitled
What made you change?
@lynette599 Fortunately, I fell in love with a really good man. He made me aware that my "innocent" flirting with other men was hurting him, hurting us, and he gave me a choice. I chose to love and respect him and our relationship. We have been married for 13 years now, and we haven't had an argument in years. I don't need attention from others anymore. I'm so grateful that he helped give me the awareness I needed to respect and love myself so I could love him without fear. This lady knows she's hurting her man and selfishly doesn't care. She's using him.
Doctor Phil is so right.
Most people who are married and looking for exhilaration or excitement go skydiving or take a vacation out of their comfort zone they don’t have emotional affairs me thinks she needs to find a new hobby 😢😮
I wish I had seen this around the ages 17-19. I hope this man found peace.
I have a weird feeling that if her husband started responding appropriately, like “Good Bye”
she might start reassessing her behavior
Men and women can be friends. By leading your show and ending it with questioning this and lumping all male and female friendship is what continues this stigma. Unreal. I am beyond disappointed with the statements and advice from Dr.Phil! You can't paint everyone with the same brush!
She’s abusing her husband and her children! Wondering why he had to sale stuff?