Narcissism and Responsibility
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- A standard person takes responsibility for their mistakes, while a narcissist does not. But this can also come down to personality. Some people take responsibility for everything, even things that are out of their control while others do the opposite.
The reason why they don’t take responsibility is the important part to question.
A narcissist is not taking blame, because they generally don’t see any issues with what they’ve done. They will make it your fault instead.
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Exactly he ran away with one of his harem line and dumped me and our children with nothing. I had to work 6 days a week to support the family and keep a home. The marriage was ugly the raising of the family completely alone was suffering. The only thing that kept me together was God he was by my side and gave me male strength to carry on alone with the children. I’m so grateful for u-tube and professionals like you that confirmed all we suffered by our narcissist husband and family members that were narcissists also. Now I’m fully healed thank you 🙏
Does it really matter if someone is a narcissist or if they are just an A hole Jerk? Ive learned that the labels dont necessarily matter. If something feels off, trust your instincts.
most of the times it doesn't matter but if its a person you constantly have to deal with( boss, spouse, brother, mother...) then it's helpful to know
No it doesn't matter, but labels help fit the pieces of the puzzle together
There was an endless refrain early on of, "You are putting it on me." Then it morphed to, "You are blaming me." 30 years later I still dont know what that was about. There was an anecdote about the spouse getting blamed for things he didnt do when he was 4. Once in 30 years spouse said "I take responsibility for that." I almost fell over at the time.
Megalomaniacal Disorder/Persecutory Delusion Disorder....
Yes exactly 💯 i have evidence of his cheating philandering Way's, He completely turned it around on me which was a way of him reflecting his wrong doing " Gaslighting "
Ah but this is just what they learnt from their parents. Let's find and hear solutions that help both.
Neither one of my husband's parents are a narcissist. Narcissism can pop up in anyone
My mother, unfortunately, and her gang, my siblings.
My husband drained $700 out of our account and went on a drug binge one night. Apparently it was all my fault because I didn't text him back correctly that afternoon. When he came home he went on and on lecturing me about how terrible I am because I don't send him good enough texts and I was ruining our marriage because of it. But I couldn't say one thing about him taking all that money and doing drugs and taking my car.
He has been gone for 4 months now and I'm just now pulling out of the financial hole he put me in.
I would leave particularly if this is IV drug use… You have to protect your health
@@thecure3982 I did. Once he got on drugs I gave him one chance to straighten up and get sober. He did for some weeks then went right back to it. So I kicked him out for good. It's been a little over a year and I'm happy and free.
I 100% agree with you about the IV drugs. I even got checked for all diseases after I kicked him out just to be safe and certain. He got offended that I did. Saying that it was unnecessary because he never did anything with drugs to warrant me needing to do. But I know he lies and I needed to take care of myself
So, what can be done about this??? I live in a household with someone who exhibits nearly every behavior attributed to NPD, but has never been evaluated or diagnosed. Regardless, the behaviors are there. How do you deal with a person like that? Do you just suck it up and cope with it, while you die on the inside a little more each day? What are some solutions?
I feel like people talk to death about the behaviors - we KNOW about the behaviors!! What we need are solutions and/or suggestions on how to cope!
Separate yourself. Leave
Yeah. Like a parent who adopted a child with an emotional disorder and took no responsibility for how serious his condition was getting. To the point of physical abuse. There are always other options, but it's the parent's job to stop denying that they were the one in charge and not the mental illness. Or the innocent siblings' responsibility to help the situation. Be careful with mental illnesses. They are nothing to take lightly and the abused will become the abuser if a mental illness is not aken seriously. With other childrens minds. They can and do affect the whole family system. I know. And it's not just "the way it is".