Alpha Males need to get a grip

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  • @amber._.
    @amber._. 2 роки тому +2613

    the pure irony of this guy saying "no television" while sitting in front of a camera with a tv mounted on the wall in the background is so fucking funny

    • @camrynpham635
      @camrynpham635 2 роки тому +159

      i'd bet my life savings that he just either 1. finished watching a college sports game or 2. finished watching his own videos b4 filming this one.

    • @slurvtrutl526
      @slurvtrutl526 2 роки тому +31

      Listening to this guy micromanaging I think he's rich because he's obsessive about getting rich. Everything else just details. "Mmk"

    • @giordanodsouza9563
      @giordanodsouza9563 2 роки тому +32

      The guy is the beta he's talking about

    • @CourtneyDixonDesigns
      @CourtneyDixonDesigns 2 роки тому +4

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @cheeseisherelive753
      @cheeseisherelive753 2 роки тому +37

      ALSO ALSO, says “don’t get emotionally invested to the screen” and is a FUCKING UA-camR who relies on people becoming emotionally or at least simply invested in his content…

  • @bradthemusicduck4895
    @bradthemusicduck4895 2 роки тому +2066

    Thank God this guy is turning people away from the black hole that is television, by doing a UA-cam podcast that requires people to stare at a different type of screen for a lengthy amount of time. This guy is a truly deep thinker...

    • @froggy3203
      @froggy3203 2 роки тому +192

      Not to mention the TV in the background like bruh 💀

    • @Crybabys_exe
      @Crybabys_exe 2 роки тому +64

      If he believed what he’s spouting he’d write a book instead 😅

    • @pinkmoonrabbit2072
      @pinkmoonrabbit2072 2 роки тому +26

      i guess if you deny reality over again so many times, reality looks like your delusion.
      Must be hard to live that way.
      Unless he knows what hes doing and is just a grifter.

    • @miloart850
      @miloart850 2 роки тому +20

      This is how I felt as a child when I would see commercials between cartoons that said "go outside and play...... after this"

    • @Scr4mbledM3ggs
      @Scr4mbledM3ggs 2 роки тому +7

      @@froggy3203 No fr that TV the background had major hypocrite energy

  • @gray1344
    @gray1344 2 роки тому +1470

    "be the person you want to be" he says while explaining how to change yourself to get women 💀

    • @otakio.9735
      @otakio.9735 2 роки тому

      you'll most likely wanna be the kind of person that pulls women, just my thought though

    • @phosspatharios9680
      @phosspatharios9680 2 роки тому +9

      inb4 some "alpha" male says that you can be an alpha to feel good about yourself

    • @sfwelles2712
      @sfwelles2712 2 роки тому +11

      BE who you wanna BE,
      BAAARRBIE GIRL

    • @KalisShort
      @KalisShort 2 роки тому

      Be the person who gets bitches not yourself

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 2 роки тому +1

      If it’s right, you won’t have to change who you are as a person for it to work out with a woman. Sure, you can improve your grooming habits or social skills if you need to, but these ‘alphas’ (who don’t exist) are encouraging people to fundamentally change who they are, because they assume those people are fundamentally not good enough as they are. Which just really underlines the biggest underlying insecurity within all these coaches

  • @ladygaygay94
    @ladygaygay94 2 роки тому +302

    “Bro, listen bro, you can’t watch Space Jam with your girl. Because in the back of her mind, she’s thinking, ‘Man, if I could, I’d totally get with an alpha like Bugs Bunny.’”

    • @Gerben0
      @Gerben0 2 роки тому +12

      I can confirm that that is, is fact, what I am thinking.

    • @harmonycollier7209
      @harmonycollier7209 2 роки тому +18

      Heck yeah, Bugs can get it.

    • @elizahamilton6265
      @elizahamilton6265 2 роки тому +14

      Yea, Bugs has game, but what about Lola?

    • @phosspatharios9680
      @phosspatharios9680 2 роки тому +25

      Can't blame her. Bugs Bunny is far more attractive and emotionally mature than this dude.

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 2 роки тому +12

      He might be right in that ONE instance. Except we want Lola.

  • @leahrogers1967
    @leahrogers1967 2 роки тому +1268

    I am a doctor and I’ve learned the only way you can possibly become the 1% you simply have to throw up a 🤙 sign and stick out your tongue. Nobody will know you were chill like that and you’ll be top alpha

  • @kitsune9797
    @kitsune9797 2 роки тому +545

    As a women, the whole "As soon as a girl sees your putting your time into things that don't help you in the long run, she'll lose respect for you" Is literally not even true lol. I love it when people I'm dating have passtions and things that make them happy

    • @katt.1787
      @katt.1787 2 роки тому +82

      Honestly, this is the funniest thing to me. Every time someone is telling men what women are into, it's another man, and he couldn't be further from the truth.

    • @kateIaw
      @kateIaw 2 роки тому +38

      Exactly! Imagine if no one had hobbies and everyone just did the same things every day 🤢

    • @phosspatharios9680
      @phosspatharios9680 2 роки тому +35

      Even if it was true, does anyone would want to be the kind of person that is always stressing over whether anything they do, have, get and give is "beneficial in the long run"? This seems like such a miserable life. And all this misery just to get women? Talk about pedestalizing women so hard you put their supposed preferences over your own happiness and individuality. Such a beta thing to do.

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 2 роки тому +26

      Nothing more attractive than passion. I love hearing my bf fanboy over a new game or comic. And he loves me rambling about my games or what I’ve been learning with my art.

    • @2-d_in_a_bag
      @2-d_in_a_bag 2 роки тому +7

      i love when men have hobbies and passions that aren't just "alpha" crap. them painting a beautiful picture of a dream. getting excited over that new videogame they've been saving up for. infodumping to you about their favourite comic since childhood. they get so happy and relaxed, the thought of it melts my heart.
      besides, they'd make for some killer date nights.

  • @parkerpeachy7770
    @parkerpeachy7770 2 роки тому +483

    No because there’s no way you could be an alpha male but also be so insecure in your relationship you can’t even watch TV without fearing that she will want to sleep with the guys on tv instead of you 💀💀

    • @tatiana4050
      @tatiana4050 2 роки тому +24

      I'm more of an alpha male than him. And I'm like omega female.

    • @29jgirl92
      @29jgirl92 2 роки тому +42

      It's kinda sad that he cannot even fathom the thought of someone actually liking him for him and not for his money and status.

    • @phosspatharios9680
      @phosspatharios9680 2 роки тому +35

      Alpha masculinity is pure insecurity all around, because it's competitive. There's no end to the anxiety and insecurity caused by wanting to always be on top.

    • @29jgirl92
      @29jgirl92 2 роки тому +5

      @@phosspatharios9680 Yes, well said!!

    • @justriley8149
      @justriley8149 2 роки тому +7

      "I'm the best man, better than any other guy 😎"
      *Other men exist*
      "oH NO"

  • @kaitlynskarda1422
    @kaitlynskarda1422 2 роки тому +533

    Haven't watched through the whole video yet, but just about my favorite part so far is that there's a TV in the background as he talks about why you need to stop watching TV because it's making you a beta.

    • @SupraMan38
      @SupraMan38  2 роки тому +154

      LMFAOOO

    • @shinydiamonds0458
      @shinydiamonds0458 2 роки тому +62

      He probably just has it for “aesthetic purposes”

    • @Tadpole_Plyrr2
      @Tadpole_Plyrr2 2 роки тому +29

      @@shinydiamonds0458 it definitely can’t be for his wife.. last time an alpha male opened his mouth he said women shouldn’t watch tv because he wants her to cook and clean all day because it’s only fair if he works all day and it’s not fair if she gets to have a break when she finishes cause he can’t just come home when he finishes or something like sir stfu 💀💀💀

    • @Strawberries1994
      @Strawberries1994 2 роки тому +14

      I came here to comment the same.. he even complained about buying and mounting the tv.. like

    • @E_508
      @E_508 2 роки тому

      I mean this "alpha male" is more stupid than a fricking toaster

  • @itzautumn8986
    @itzautumn8986 2 роки тому +353

    "Give up your tv" he says, with a TV visible in the background.
    "Don't waste your time" he says, ranting to himself in front of a camera.
    "I'm extremely fashionable" he says, wearing a black hat inside with a white nike t-shirt.
    "I positively influence people" the walking red flag says, scaring me, a lesbian, and my sister who isn't even watching this video.
    "I am helping people to be happy with themselves" he says, while telling people to be miserable because it "wont make you money".
    "People live good lives because of me" he thinks, telling people to not have hobbies and things they enjoy other than money because they "will not be happy with them".
    "Enjoy life" he says, stripping you of the things you genuinely enjoy and what makes you happy.
    "I care about you" he says, trying to convince you to be miserable, unhealthy, and avoid anything that sparks joy.

    • @roguestowl2280
      @roguestowl2280 2 роки тому +23

      He forgot to say “hypocrisy? Don’t waste your time with that.”

    • @kamiiato
      @kamiiato 2 роки тому +7

      @@roguestowl2280 mm the first fact in the comment..

    • @darcy230
      @darcy230 Рік тому +2

      I started reading the comments before watching the video and thought every one was talking about Sam... Lmaooo they were talking about this guy

    • @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos
      @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos Рік тому +2

      Smegma-male slimeset

  • @Kai_The_Kai
    @Kai_The_Kai 2 роки тому +326

    People who call others "snowflakes" are usually snowflakes is what I have learned in my almost 14 year's of life

    • @luciadreaming9
      @luciadreaming9 2 роки тому +52

      The kids are okay

    • @WolfgangDoW
      @WolfgangDoW 2 роки тому +65

      Fun fact: "snowflakes" is from Fight Club and was used to describe exactly these kinds of easily triggered macho men

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 2 роки тому +23

      @@WolfgangDoW I can’t get over how the dudes that need to understand Fight Club are the same dudes that take it super literally instead. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @BeGlamourlicious
      @BeGlamourlicious 2 роки тому +12

      You kids are awesome 👏🏻. I think very highly of the next generation.

    • @Kai_The_Kai
      @Kai_The_Kai 2 роки тому

      @biblically accurate angel with internet access I'm not 14 yet lol, birthday is september

  • @saltedbuttercups
    @saltedbuttercups 2 роки тому +105

    This just sounds like insecurity. "I can't watch tv with my girlfriend because what if she thinks the sports guy is more attractive than me :( :( :("

    • @ibreathefiction
      @ibreathefiction 2 роки тому +17

      Right? I thought the same thing. Especially when saying that it'll deplete your worth before that. Like implying that she'll see you sitting with her to watch TV as a not worthwhile use of your time...
      Wtf? Last I checked, most people enjoy when their partners spend time with them doing a shared activity together?

  • @lily16059
    @lily16059 2 роки тому +468

    are we not going to talk about the fact that this guy is like “Just become Leonardo DiCaprio already” and then turns around and says “You can’t be like those people who make money off of video games. You’re not good enough.”

    • @payayaa
      @payayaa 2 роки тому +11

      i was thinking just that

    • @feykingjulian
      @feykingjulian 2 роки тому +6

      right that was my thought too 🤣

    • @undeadknight01
      @undeadknight01 2 роки тому +12

      He basically told people to not have hobbies. Yes, hobbies cost money, but it's healthy to have interests that you can save up for outside of what you actually do for work.

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 2 роки тому +7

      @@undeadknight01 Hell, some people make money with their hobbies! My bf is one of those people that makes money playing games and he started because he felt useless and “not good enough” after a surgery left him unable to work for months.
      (Of course, one doesn’t have to profit off of your hobbies. It’s healthy for your mind to have enjoyment.)

    • @kamiiato
      @kamiiato 2 роки тому +6

      Him forgetting football started as a hobby and so did video games Leonardo made a living doing what he enjoys, football but NO NO NO U CANNOT MAKE A LIVING DOING WHAT U CAN ENJOY!!!11!!!💀💀

  • @kjqueen2582
    @kjqueen2582 2 роки тому +139

    "How I became a millionare at the age of 29"
    First step: be born rich

    • @iturnoffreplyupdatestorema7216
      @iturnoffreplyupdatestorema7216 2 роки тому +21

      Exactly half of these "alpHa" malEs are already born w a silver spoon !

    • @slurvtrutl526
      @slurvtrutl526 2 роки тому +1

      I was believing his incredibly complicated long winded "try doing stuff" until link to his program. "It's all about competition so come compete against me" maybe he's lonely up top 😂

    • @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342
      @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 2 роки тому +3

      @@iturnoffreplyupdatestorema7216 Half? It's like 90% of them lol. And they were all born in countries that are not africa...

  • @pandaslemonade9449
    @pandaslemonade9449 2 роки тому +432

    Him: "These things don't serve you, eventually would rob you"
    Also him: proceed to convince his audience to join his program

    • @pluto3194
      @pluto3194 2 роки тому +43

      "Don't let other people rob you, let ME rob you"

    • @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos
      @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos Рік тому +2

      C u l t p r o g r a m m i n g ?

  • @aaidenclark165
    @aaidenclark165 2 роки тому +179

    Also, being emotionally distant does NOT help you get relationships. I’ve ruined the two chances I’ve had at a relationship because I wasn’t expressing my feelings enough.
    I didn’t do it because I wanted to be alpha, I just had and still have a lot of issues 😅

    • @Toxihex
      @Toxihex 2 роки тому +21

      I typically abandon ship very early on if the other person shows no solid interest. If we don't click, I'm moving on. "Clicking" happens way more often and faster than one might think. I'm surprised these guys never tell anyone to act quickly because of the "alphas" that are coming her way to snatch her away from you.

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 2 роки тому +12

      @@Toxihex right? I mean, relationships evolve at their own pace from person to person. But you hit the nail on the head; if one person isn’t showing interest at all early on, don’t even bother with them anymore

    • @2-d_in_a_bag
      @2-d_in_a_bag 2 роки тому +1

      i hated my past relationships because they weren't emotionally close enough with me. they couldn't even do the bare minimum and it caused me a lot of distress. i dumped the first guy after giving him hundreds of chances. second guy dumped me right as i was calling him out on the same behaviour. they said "i love you" and they called me beautiful, but none of it meant anything when they acted like i'm nothing but a trophy to show off and leave on the shelf to collect dust. marry your best friend who you can be yourself with. and no games. maybe i'm autistic so i don't fully understand neurotypicals, but lying and mind games serve no good purpose, especially in a relationship. what's the point? they'll just find out you're bullshitting anyway. should you really be with someone you can't trust? it just sounds like unnecessary heartache. and conversely, if you have to change yourself for someone else's approval, then they don't like you. and only loving someone's potential and persona is a terrible foundation for a relationship. i only liked my first ex's potential and can admit that that's where i was toxic. thank you for coming to my ted talk.

    • @aaidenclark165
      @aaidenclark165 Рік тому +1

      @@2-d_in_a_bag couldn’t have said it better. I knew that I wasn’t making them feel happy with my lack of affection so I called things off myself. We’re actually still friends now which is cool, but I still beat myself up for letting a relationship slip through my fingers because of my own issues.

    • @2-d_in_a_bag
      @2-d_in_a_bag Рік тому

      @@aaidenclark165 it's okay, healthy even. this is what life is all about! i'm proud of you for realizing these things. self-reflection is vital to growth and healing as a person, so i'm proud of you for seeing what was up. that takes intelligence, inner strength, and humility. people who can self-reflect and let themselves heal will always be stronger than any alpha or sigma or whatever they call themselves.
      if you're ready and you find someone, maybe even your ex, you can try again using the wisdom you've collected. i believe in you! :)

  • @WormTime
    @WormTime 2 роки тому +92

    I love that he refuses to acknowledge that sports stars and actors probably were inspired to be on that path BECAUSE they watched tv. Same with game devs and video games. Like what

    • @katiedid6835
      @katiedid6835 2 роки тому +4

      Yes and they also have strong support systems with people who they love that help them achieve their goals

  • @ericgeneric135
    @ericgeneric135 2 роки тому +232

    At least some of the "alpha male" life coach guys have a cocky, self-assured personality. This guy comes across so awkward and unsure of himself. It's like watching the minor leagues for "alpha male" influencers (not that I know what the "minor leagues" are, because I'm too busy being a 1%er to follow sports).

    • @slurvtrutl526
      @slurvtrutl526 2 роки тому +11

      He called himself a nerd he thinks everybody is going to leave him unless he has fat stacks and abs. I do like his abs his sterile apartment not so much

    • @jcardboard
      @jcardboard 2 роки тому

      Yeah seriously, I'm a short chubby nerdy guy pushing 40 and have way more confidence than this chud 😂
      The alpha shrinking violet!

    • @Itri_Vega
      @Itri_Vega 2 роки тому +21

      @@slurvtrutl526 I'm upset that thin wall on the side of his little TV couch corner doesn't align with the ceiling properly. Beta architecture right there lmao

    • @Toxihex
      @Toxihex 2 роки тому +16

      He's SO insecure. His every sentence is formulated in a "I'm not like the other guys" way. Of course, he could be trolling and the TV behind him could be up there on purpose just to scam people while low-key making fun of them, but we'll never know.

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket 2 роки тому +5

      Yeah, he seems... upset? Not like he's having fun.

  • @inkblot.s
    @inkblot.s 2 роки тому +146

    i just love that he called game designers "alphas smarter than you" like honey u wish ❤️ we are dumb as bricks

    • @tidepodpadthai2633
      @tidepodpadthai2633 2 роки тому +6

      I mean if we're talking about them being smarter than the people who actually listen to this stuff, that's not a very high bar

  • @lizzythequeer3065
    @lizzythequeer3065 2 роки тому +59

    i feel like his girlfriend left his ass and now he's just upset all the time

    • @strawberryj3lly
      @strawberryj3lly 2 роки тому +21

      Nah his ex left him when we was sixteen for a football player who went pro and now he’s mad that’s why he stopped watching sports

  • @thenomad9230
    @thenomad9230 2 роки тому +101

    I love how he says you're not going to be one of those small percentage of people that make money from video games but somehow you'll be like Leonardo DiCaprio or Michael Phelps or a football player if you stop watching TV and playing video games as if making money from playing sports or acting is any easier to do

    • @SincerelyHannah
      @SincerelyHannah 2 роки тому +3

      I was just gonna say this...complete hypocrisy!

    • @phosspatharios9680
      @phosspatharios9680 2 роки тому +1

      This reminds me of a time when I saw a Manosphere blog promoting NoFap, and the dude said something along the lines of "Do you think a man that can get any woman he wants ever beats his meat?".
      These people actually idealize this image of an "alpha male" to the point they think he has no sex drive to make him want to wank, but somehow has enough sex drive to make him go after women so many times he becomes extremely good at it.
      They mistake the consequence of "alphaness" for the causes of "alphaness".

    • @alesh.4520
      @alesh.4520 2 роки тому

      Exactly, I was just gonna comment that

  • @GoldRoger22
    @GoldRoger22 2 роки тому +103

    My uncle has a well playing job, plays the stock market, and has a stable, long term relationship. He also watches movies and enjoys sports. Be like my uncle, not this “alpha”.

    • @slurvtrutl526
      @slurvtrutl526 2 роки тому +3

      I don't mind this guy's general "be active" advice as I watch my 3rd hour of UA-cam but I think your uncle would call it common sense

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому +239

    I love how this person’s advice is going Amish but they’re literally in the lap of immense privilege.

    • @Itri_Vega
      @Itri_Vega 2 роки тому +26

      I always wonder what guys like that would tell poor, non-white, disabled, trans, neurodivergent or otherwise marginalised groups who inherently have to leap over so many more obstacles than some cishet white boy who likely had relatively wealthy parents to begin with. Probably "stop playing the victim and join my webinar" or something.

  • @jamesjudy6906
    @jamesjudy6906 2 роки тому +18

    I'm fine with being a beta if it means I get to enjoy emotional literacy, wholesome attachments, and a love of the arts

  • @GayGothPirate
    @GayGothPirate 2 роки тому +27

    Reminds me of the kids in school who would say something completely irrevelant trying to annoy you and then be like "You're so offended! You're gonna cry!" when you haven't even reacted.

  • @notanactualhuman522
    @notanactualhuman522 2 роки тому +161

    The fact that he basically calls all game devs alphas is so funny to me.

    • @elaexplorer
      @elaexplorer 2 роки тому +31

      As a programmer this makes me laugh hysterically.

    • @lenajk2004
      @lenajk2004 2 роки тому +14

      programming socks: “am i a joke to you”

    • @phosspatharios9680
      @phosspatharios9680 2 роки тому +8

      I'm a Gigachad according to this guy

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket 2 роки тому +2

      @@elaexplorer I mean, we're making decent money not hurting anyone and doing something we're actually interested in. (I'm not a game dev, I work in ML; idk yr exact subfield but you wouldn't be doing it if it bored you)

    • @dickmisery8587
      @dickmisery8587 2 роки тому +7

      When he said that, I just pictured Hideo Kojima laughing at me from atop a bed of money with three beautiful women while my dumb lazy unloveable ass wastes away playing games all day.

  • @29jgirl92
    @29jgirl92 2 роки тому +24

    It's kinda sad that he cannot even fathom the thought of someone actually liking him for him and not for his money and status.

  • @Bespeon
    @Bespeon 2 роки тому +25

    It's actually true!
    My ex and I watched a lot of animated movies and I realised he didn't have layers, a swamp, or a donkey bff like the guy on screen :/ so I left him for Shrek. Don't tell me you wouldn't do the same.

  • @GrayTimber
    @GrayTimber 2 роки тому +12

    God I'm so sick of hearing people use the word triggered to mean "angry." It's the #1 thing that tells me that you are a bad person to be around

  • @millenniumkitten4107
    @millenniumkitten4107 2 роки тому +38

    this has that trying to meet word count on an essay vibe. he has money because people watch his long winded ass videos, not because he works hard.

  • @ameliaw7482
    @ameliaw7482 2 роки тому +47

    I love that he chose exactly the frame in which you can see the tv when he could have any other background

  • @howdydoody4979
    @howdydoody4979 2 роки тому +77

    Yea well i can totally say that stanning sam collins is very alpha

  • @Succubus_shortcake
    @Succubus_shortcake 2 роки тому +33

    Never would I have thought that Sam would get a sponsor from Project Makeover😭

    • @galacticrainestorm8546
      @galacticrainestorm8546 2 роки тому +9

      I hate that game so much even tho I haven't played it, JUST because of the horrendous infuriating ads. The ads might not be super downright problematic but wow, they boil my blood.

    • @Soph-si6jr
      @Soph-si6jr 2 роки тому +3

      @@galacticrainestorm8546 For real. The ads for that game scare me

  • @dawnstar6727
    @dawnstar6727 2 роки тому +58

    12:47 - If a woman loses interest or respect for you the second she sees that you've gotten a bit lazy or don't have the same level of ambition she expects of you, then she ain't the one, bro.
    A woman who actually cares about you and your relationship won't be so quick to dip out over something so petty. Same goes for any romantic partner. A true partner will treat you with respect as long as they are also treated with the same level of respect. A true partner will talk to you if they have concerns about your lack of ambition or laziness and will try to help inspire you again, not abandon you.
    It's actually very sad that this guy believes that being dumped is a *normal* and *acceptable* response to being lazy. Obviously, all things in moderation, but it's certainly not a sign that you should leave your partner if they start to get a little lazy. SMH.
    Bottom line: Find someone who will be a PARTNER to you and will love you no matter how lazy you get. Besides, there's a sort of beauty in that little bit of laziness where relationships are concerned. It implies that you feel comfortable and happy around the person you're with. And at the end of the day, that's what really matters.

    • @twiggledowntown3564
      @twiggledowntown3564 2 роки тому +1

      This. I've known couples like this, who work on their stuff and communicate, tend to enjoy themselves more, rather than just cutting someone off that one time.

    • @phosspatharios9680
      @phosspatharios9680 2 роки тому +5

      They think that women are "hypergamous" and are always wanting to get a better man.
      They think women think about their men so much they are constantly scanning for weaknesses.
      The mentality of always thinking you're being scrutinized by people is called "extreme insecurity, with some psychotic paranoia".
      And they think women love extremely insecure men.

    • @dawnstar6727
      @dawnstar6727 2 роки тому +4

      @@phosspatharios9680 You’re so right. And it’s basically a self-fulfilling prophecy. The things that push women away are the things they think are attractive.

    • @michaelk.jensen1611
      @michaelk.jensen1611 2 роки тому +3

      Nah, im investing all my time in bettering my self, to keep me and my woman happy, i never even leave my office, that would be timewasting that could be used to optimize my value to her, heck i haven been home for 12 years straight and she didnt take my calls for the last 6, but when i get home i just KNOW she will be so happy for the great entrepeneur and awesome human i have become, all the the work i have DONE FOR US, she will be stoked when we see each other again, standing in the hallway, greeting me, with a delicous dinner ready for me, i mean us!

    • @davidnissim589
      @davidnissim589 Рік тому +2

      @@phosspatharios9680 yeah, it's such a depressing, self-spiraling mindset to have.

  • @damonlorenzoheart
    @damonlorenzoheart 2 роки тому +97

    Strength means having the courage to be yourself fully, and to support others. The literal opposite of everything that “doodbruh” says. Well said, Sam! Thank you for pointing out the BS! Also, my wife taught me time spent having fun isn’t time wasted. All we have is time, so enjoy it. All things in moderation.
    😉🖤🥰

    • @sarahmoore6183
      @sarahmoore6183 2 роки тому +2

      Yes! You and your wife are wise to recognize the value of time spent enjoying yourselves! I know personally if someone doesn't know how to take time to relax, I don't really want to be close to them. I want to be around people who try to have a reasonable work/life balance. Obviously perfection isn't necessary there, but if a person is a workaholic, how are they going to have time to invest in me and give me the chance to invest in them?

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket 2 роки тому

      My partner also tries to chill me out about that, ha. It took exactly the right person for me to not be like "yeah cause yr trying to sabotage me".

    • @sejalb725
      @sejalb725 Рік тому

      ​@@sarahmoore6183 My dad's a workaholic and let me tell you it's miserable to be with a workaholic even if they're not necessarily a bad person. It's just that the connection between us is so empty because he doesn't know how to enjoy

    • @sarahmoore6183
      @sarahmoore6183 Рік тому

      @@sejalb725 I'm so sorry to hear you have to deal with that. Definitely agree that being a workaholic doesn't mean that person is a bad person, but connecting is so much more difficult when there's no time or energy left to invest in the relationship. I wish you and your father the best.

  • @simransimran9339
    @simransimran9339 2 роки тому +32

    I think that the "cold emotionless alpha is the peak of man" comes from romance novels and stories.
    Which, are written for and usually by women.
    What these people miss is that the MC (who's usually a stand-in for the reader) falls for the "alpha" when he stops being cold emotionless alpha. It's when he's caring and kind and makes her the priority. She absolutely loved when he's vulnerable infront of her as that shows trust.
    If he stayed the "alpha"... they'd never get the girl, respect or success. Bring alpha is just to exaggerate the contradiction between the outer shell and the inner reality. It's an old but solid cliche.
    Also.... I've recently discovered what omegaverse is....so all this alpha, beta talk just makes me laugh.

    • @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos
      @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos Рік тому +1

      It'd be surprising that this has gone over the heads of the omeglers if it wasn't a well-known fact that none of them have ever stopped to consider what an actual woman might be thinking.

  • @thatqueerkid6586
    @thatqueerkid6586 2 роки тому +81

    Hello from South Africa Sam!!!! Love the content so much, brought me up from some hard times! :)

    • @yurimori34
      @yurimori34 2 роки тому +5

      @Ville TF?

    • @SupraMan38
      @SupraMan38  2 роки тому +20

      thank you so much!

    • @stoleyourroll5325
      @stoleyourroll5325 2 роки тому +2

      @@yurimori34 he's a loser, who Spams hate comments.

    • @yurimori34
      @yurimori34 2 роки тому +1

      @@stoleyourroll5325 Damn...Thanks for the info.

  • @E_508
    @E_508 2 роки тому +32

    How to be an alpha male 2022 (working):
    1. See everyone as people that are more worthless than you even if you are more garbage than a dumpster.
    2. Work and do NOTHING ELSE (otherwise you will end up staring at that hypnotising screen of yours).
    3. Waste your time on a fucking camera telling people that everything they do are meaningless things and make them join your program for their kidney.
    4. Lastly don't do ANY FORM OF ENTERTAINMENT or be invested into anything cause that's a stupid thing to do.
    guys it works so well that even my father left to go get some milk so we can celebrate my success in life!

    • @WolfgangDoW
      @WolfgangDoW 2 роки тому +1

      @Real Ray Defo ticks the "behaviour control" and "emotional control" parts of the BITE model for testing if something's a cult

  • @OpticalArxenal
    @OpticalArxenal 2 роки тому +26

    "Influence people in a positive way" ....yeah making your presence alone insufferable is very not the way to do that my guy.

  • @Strawberries1994
    @Strawberries1994 2 роки тому +17

    Well I'm going to agree with him in one little thing... if you scream, shout insults, punch things and get extremely angry just bc a sport show.. that's a turn off for a lot of women... is not passion, it show some problems with anger control...

  • @cjrose2624
    @cjrose2624 2 роки тому +11

    If my partner stopped doing the things they love in order to be more "alpha" I'd call that a total red flag and go find someone who knows how to love themself.

  • @29jgirl92
    @29jgirl92 2 роки тому +6

    This guy is projecting so much!! Just because you don't have a personality, doesn't mean no one else does!

  • @vidya5732
    @vidya5732 2 роки тому +9

    “dont be passionate about anything” he says as he is very passionate about people turning alpha

  • @absinthe-crow
    @absinthe-crow 2 роки тому +14

    If some millionaire or some "high value" man asked me to marry them, Id laugh in their fucking face. I love my boyfriend, therefore I will stay with him- poor or not. I wouldnt love him if I would leave him for someone else. Maybe women just left this guy for other people because they realized he was a piece of shit

  • @shadefrench_
    @shadefrench_ 2 роки тому +11

    I built my body then miraculously became a billionaire the next day

  • @2di0pictures10
    @2di0pictures10 2 роки тому +4

    I like how this man implies that the only reason your girl loves you is cause of your status, not because they genuinely love you.

  • @zootzbootz
    @zootzbootz 2 роки тому +4

    I have a personal headcanon that every "alpha male" who tells their audience to remain "emotionally detached" actually sob uncontrollably and eat ice cream by the gallon every single time they go through a break up.

  • @shannonb4011
    @shannonb4011 2 роки тому +4

    As a frequent reader of omegaverse fanfiction.. whenever a guy calls himself an alpha or talks about betas I just kind of giggle.

  • @niamhcorrigan3972
    @niamhcorrigan3972 2 роки тому +6

    Can I just say that as someone with diagnosed ptsd, people continuing to use "triggered" to mean "easily offended or upset" is just insufferable

  • @Desimere
    @Desimere 2 роки тому +18

    I want a guy who is being the person they want to be, but in a compatible way. Someone who enjoys watching tv shows and is confident about it, not feeling like it's a "quilty" pleasure.
    To me all that "hustle" is a sign of insecurity. No matter what these guys do, they will never be who they want to be until they stop being so judgmental of human limitations, whether in themselves or in others.

    • @Desimere
      @Desimere 2 роки тому +1

      ​@The Werewolf Of Tasmania Somehow this comment is making me so happy. It's very rewarding to see someone assuming i'm social enough to be part of some group (which one though? What do you mean by "you people"?).
      Although i have many flaws, social inadequacy among them, insecurity is fortunately not one of them. Not to say that insecurity is objectively worse, just that it's not for me (although i'm very fond of other socially inadequate people). Especially when it comes out as someone trying to put me down because they extend their negative worldview not only to themselves but to the world at large. Like "i'm shit, but you're no better". It's pretty disrespectful. If i can't have mutual respect with someone, to me it doesn't make sense to have them in my life.

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 2 роки тому +1

      Amen. Well said. You NEED those moments of relaxation and ‘laziness’ (so to speak) every now and then to both reward yourself for your hard work, and also to recharge so you can continue doing that work to your best ability the next day

  • @elizabethsimpson900
    @elizabethsimpson900 2 роки тому +4

    The guy talking about how bad tvs are
    The tv behind him: 👁👄👁

  • @remwastaken
    @remwastaken 2 роки тому +13

    as soon as i started working out and watching workout tips and shit i INSTANTLY started getting these videos of these guys preaching about blackpill/redpill, sexual market value, looksmaxxing, women suck because 20%/80% and all this shit and i'm so happy i got weird vibes from them and fucked off

  • @Succubus_shortcake
    @Succubus_shortcake 2 роки тому +5

    Alpha males keep getting crazier and crazier every month

  • @Sky-ms2us
    @Sky-ms2us 2 роки тому +7

    a thing that bothered me a LOT in this video is the guy getting closer to the camera thinking he sounded cool

    • @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342
      @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 2 роки тому

      I'm sure he's been slapped or punched for being soo creepy. Problem is he's brainless so he hasn't learned about boundries lol.

  • @IndellableHatesHandles
    @IndellableHatesHandles 2 роки тому +18

    As a game-dev, my game is _absolutely_ made by a person far smarter than this "alpha" to hook him.

  • @ChaoticCottonClover
    @ChaoticCottonClover 2 роки тому +7

    Assigning value to a person, especially in a relationship, has always been such a weird thing to me

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 2 роки тому

      That’s because you are a normal person

  • @sydnieves5813
    @sydnieves5813 2 роки тому +9

    Every time I hear the term alpha/beta I can’t help but think of omegaverse 💀

  • @The.Lion.Prince
    @The.Lion.Prince 2 роки тому +3

    Jokes on him, watching TV and playing video games actually helps with my goal. Getting to see different types of characters and plot lines is good to learn what works, what's overused, and what I need to do when writing.

  • @mateeeeeo
    @mateeeeeo 2 роки тому +15

    I thought the title said "Alpha males need to get drip" and honestly it's still right

  • @jackriver8385
    @jackriver8385 2 роки тому +2

    The fact that he's saying all this with a mounted TV in the background is hilarious

  • @srram703
    @srram703 2 роки тому +5

    lotta people who get emotionally invested in other people that don't know them eg fans of musicians actually do themselves a lotta good even if it's a parasocial connection, coming from experience it can be really helpful to people - give them advice, cheer them up, help them keep going etc. it can be very helpful in helping you see value in yourself too.

  • @Lionfrog13
    @Lionfrog13 2 роки тому +6

    The implication that professional athletes don’t watch spectator sports is genuinely insane

  • @Miipmiip
    @Miipmiip 2 роки тому +5

    I don’t know but I don’t think he understands not everyone wants to be an alpha with a billion dollars. I personally never want to start my own business really (unless it’s something I’m very passionate about) and I’m happy with a medium wage job where I can live a good life, travel sometimes, own my own house and still have time for my hobbies

    • @29jgirl92
      @29jgirl92 2 роки тому +4

      Sounds like you're a Beta!!! Nah, I'm kidding, same, being an "Alpha" sounds exhausting, who wants to do that!!

  • @kawaiimika7974
    @kawaiimika7974 2 роки тому +14

    What does this guy even do in his life
    He is litteraly like, DON'T BREATHE, THAT'S BETA, YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME

  • @aaronp9112
    @aaronp9112 2 роки тому +13

    This dude has definitely had full blown fits when his team losses

  • @nickheilman4166
    @nickheilman4166 2 роки тому +5

    Funny how this dude says don’t watch TV in his TV room 😂😂😂😂

    • @tott9698
      @tott9698 2 роки тому

      Right, mans got a TV right behind him

  • @iheartchaos
    @iheartchaos 2 роки тому +8

    i feel like you have a better chance making money playing video games than becoming a millionaire off this guys advice

  • @yourmother6103
    @yourmother6103 2 роки тому +2

    Lmao he has a TV behind him

  • @MuskanSharma-qe4kv
    @MuskanSharma-qe4kv 2 роки тому +4

    blushing and giggling and kicking my feet watching sam ngl

  • @Succubus_shortcake
    @Succubus_shortcake 2 роки тому +11

    We all know Sam is the Ultimate Alpha male

  • @ollieeegrace
    @ollieeegrace 2 роки тому +3

    The slow zooming in on the television is the funniest thing I've seen this YEAR and I mean that fully

  • @Gambito99100
    @Gambito99100 2 роки тому +9

    I would totally leave my significant other for a rich athlete in the blink of an eye...
    ...as a plan to enjoy the athlete's money with my significant other, whom I'm still dating but now in secrecy 🤫

  • @jadedjade4938
    @jadedjade4938 2 роки тому +2

    “You little fucking liar..you watch TV” LMFAO

  • @remwastaken
    @remwastaken 2 роки тому +4

    You heard it here folks, if you are emotionally invested in sports, you legally cannot be emotionally invested in anything else in life.

  • @rileysmileyriley
    @rileysmileyriley 2 роки тому +4

    Him *talks about the little probability of being a famous gamer and why you shouldn’t bother*
    Also him: “Here’s how you can be the 1% of millionaires”

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому +2

    So happy to see a new video on the channel! 👏🏽

  • @unusurmomus
    @unusurmomus 2 роки тому +1

    Hey Sam! Ik you won’t see this, but I just want to say how happy I am to see you again. It’s been like two years since I’ve watched your videos, I was banned from the internet. The reason I was was due to the fact my parents found out I was bi and trans masc. i was gaslighted by my mom into thinking I was still a cis straight female. She said she supported me, then wouldn’t let me into the internet or see my friends the entire summer. I became depressed, anxious and suicidal. I recently got a phone, so I’ll be able to go back online!! It’s good to be back ❤️❤️❤️

  • @esperanzavillasenor8691
    @esperanzavillasenor8691 2 роки тому +8

    YESSSS SAM POSTED!!!

    • @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342
      @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 2 роки тому +2

      @Ville What's it like to constantly like your own comments? That whole "What I said was funny right???? RIGHT???" vibe...
      Do you need a hug or something? Or perhaps a friend for the first time in your life?

  • @minecraft_flowerpot810
    @minecraft_flowerpot810 2 роки тому +3

    I just wanted too say I been watching you for a while now and every time you post it shear me up!!! So thank you!

  • @user-ly2cm6zk5l
    @user-ly2cm6zk5l 2 роки тому +3

    So become emotionally unattached to things you like and become emotionally attached to what you don’t?? And constantly worry about how others drag you and your “value down” to an unobtainable goal?

  • @davidnissim589
    @davidnissim589 11 місяців тому +1

    I love how he says not to watch TV, while there's a giant TV mounted on the wall in the background

  • @Succubus_shortcake
    @Succubus_shortcake 2 роки тому +14

    I love you Sam🥺 You’re so damn handsome and I love your content, I’m so happy I stumbled upon your account💕

    • @elbagonzalez5712
      @elbagonzalez5712 2 роки тому +7

      @Ville what the fuck dude

    • @nooneinparticular7076
      @nooneinparticular7076 2 роки тому +6

      @@elbagonzalez5712 Don’t waste your time on Ville, Ville has been basically stalking another content creator on UA-cam, another trans person called Summer Luk, commenting first on all of her videos and saying transphobic stuff about her… he has been following her for months now

    • @Succubus_shortcake
      @Succubus_shortcake 2 роки тому

      @@nooneinparticular7076 that’s disgusting, I wish I could remove the comment, it’s one thing I hate about certain platforms

    • @elbagonzalez5712
      @elbagonzalez5712 2 роки тому

      @no one in particular Wow imagine being so miserable to live your life hating on everyone else, 😭😭😭

  • @No-zl7kr
    @No-zl7kr 2 роки тому +5

    bro he says that shit with a tv mounted to the wall behind him-

  • @Hollow_Noises
    @Hollow_Noises 2 роки тому +13

    Has he actually been successful in getting women?
    Because I doubt it. The personality he has just *reeks* of 'I've never touched a woman'

    • @captaincaspian42
      @captaincaspian42 2 роки тому +3

      Ah, but you see, he has felt a woman's touch! The day he was born and not a single day after 💀

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 2 роки тому +1

      The last girl I know of that he dated, he literally hired her for a video of his to make it LOOK like he gets women, and outwardly admitted that he just thought he’d look credible by hiring a random woman off the street to be his girlfriend. Therefore, he rendered all of whatever his toxic advice was gonna be useless

    • @Hollow_Noises
      @Hollow_Noises 2 роки тому

      @@Overseer2579 What a fucking saddo haha

  • @MintyFreshCupcakes
    @MintyFreshCupcakes 2 роки тому +3

    You know what’s attractive? Passion! People are most interesting when they are emotionally invested in something and in their element. Playing video games? Awesome! You love baseball? Sweet let’s get tickets and go to a game! Passion =personality. And if you enjoyed your time it isn’t time wasted

    • @davidtaylor142
      @davidtaylor142 2 роки тому +3

      Well he's passionate about scamming people. Does that count?

    • @MintyFreshCupcakes
      @MintyFreshCupcakes 2 роки тому +1

      @@davidtaylor142 He loses points for being tacky

  • @amaris3848
    @amaris3848 2 роки тому +6

    This man is teaching insecure men to become even more insecure. Do this or your girlfriend will leave you for the alpha!

  • @Yes_this_is_my_cat
    @Yes_this_is_my_cat 2 роки тому +3

    I saw a girl wearing a shirt that said 'alpha female'
    I died a little on the inside💀💀

  • @jer2dabear
    @jer2dabear 2 роки тому +8

    I love your vids Sam! Keep at it my guy.

    • @hopesanddreams2998
      @hopesanddreams2998 2 роки тому +3

      @Ville nah they had it right. Think you need to go back to kindergarten English lessons buddy

    • @Commentingstuff
      @Commentingstuff 2 роки тому +1

      @Ville he’s a guy?

    • @anoria6739
      @anoria6739 2 роки тому

      @Ville Shut uppp

  • @Itri_Vega
    @Itri_Vega 2 роки тому +3

    There is a German saying that translates into "the final shirt has no pockets", meaning when you die your money becomes meaningless. I'd rather do things that I enjoy.

  • @jaketaylor2775
    @jaketaylor2775 2 роки тому +20

    "All these things will make chicks lose respect and interest in you so fast."
    Faster than calling women "chicks" and insisting she would leave you for literally any famous guy if she got the chance? While also insinuating that she only watches sports with you to gawke over the players and compare you to them? Because that seems like a plenty fast enough way to make someone lose interest in you, dude

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 2 роки тому +1

      If my girlfriend gets turned off by my watching She-Ra and the Princesses of Power for a little bit every now and then and taking a break from working on shit (I’m a dude btw, and proud to be a She-Ra fan), then she ain’t the one. Good riddance, lol. This is all hypothetical by the way, I do not have a girlfriend currently

  • @ForsakenPoet
    @ForsakenPoet 2 роки тому +3

    These dudes seem to always think women will run to guys like that's all they think about and want. Plus, they're always down to cheat or leave dudes for superficial reasons.

  • @lamedragon3323
    @lamedragon3323 2 роки тому +2

    This is about his personal beef with a hockey player who stole his girl

  • @Strawberries1994
    @Strawberries1994 2 роки тому +2

    He complained about buying and mounting a tv while having one in the background...
    I love how he makes mounting a tv sound like the most difficult and time consuming thing in the word.. like, I put mine in 15 minutes and I'm a woman(? hahaha or put it in a table if you don't want to mount it...
    "you HAVE to sit there and watch it".. no, you don't have to.. I always have it on while doing a lot of things.. wtf.. this men knows how a normal human lives??

    • @strawberryj3lly
      @strawberryj3lly 2 роки тому

      And if he doesn’t watch tv he still has a phone or a laptop so likeee

  • @aurelie4644
    @aurelie4644 2 роки тому +4

    yay! it makes my day when you post :))

  • @jenniferwaidelich642
    @jenniferwaidelich642 2 роки тому +4

    Imagine what his friends would be like if he had the time for them. Wait, this guy probably doesn't sleep with a pillow or blanket cuz that's what everyone else does.

  • @faeish_
    @faeish_ 2 роки тому

    right off the bat, the title made me cackle. thank you so much sam! i loved your reaction!

  • @lothcatskilledthesith6903
    @lothcatskilledthesith6903 2 роки тому

    I love the slow zoom in on the background TV

  • @bojo2142
    @bojo2142 2 роки тому +7

    This guy really called himself an alpha male when he’s out here built like an insecurity 😭😭😭

  • @callmeal5362
    @callmeal5362 2 роки тому +8

    Amazing as always Sam!❤️

    • @callmeal5362
      @callmeal5362 2 роки тому +2

      @Ville huh? His content is good, the person he is talking about is not. Idkwym?

  • @gaybowser
    @gaybowser 2 роки тому

    Good to see you on my feed again Sam!

  • @BenStimpsonAuthor
    @BenStimpsonAuthor 2 роки тому +2

    Imagine what it must be like to be so focussed on other people to give you a sense of direction in your life. Surely the most 'beta' thing to do in life is listen to advice from these types of snake oil sellers. He says he wants to make himself a 'man of value' by 'influencing people in a positive way' but all he is doing is playing to deep seated insecurities and making others who would be so low on themselves hate themselves even more. Here is a pro-tip to feeling confident and succesful: love yourself as you are.