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  • @Jammidodger
    @Jammidodger  4 роки тому +731

    Install Raid for Free ✅ IOS: clcr.me/6S44mp ✅ ANDROID: clcr.me/Fq8HjX ✅ PC: clcr.me/aYyBC6 and get a special starter pack 💥Available only for the next 30 days

  • @genevievehenderson9045
    @genevievehenderson9045 4 роки тому +7614

    when my parents and I are out together sometimes my dad will whisper to me “I have a crush on your mother”

  • @Trekkifulshay
    @Trekkifulshay 4 роки тому +4545

    Being a parent is almost entirely saying things you didn't think you'd ever say.

    • @arospacecase
      @arospacecase 4 роки тому +353

      when i was little one of my parents' rules was, no joke, "don't use your butt as a weapon."

    • @skyisherelol3492
      @skyisherelol3492 4 роки тому +71

      @@arospacecase context?

    • @arospacecase
      @arospacecase 4 роки тому +243

      @@skyisherelol3492 basically means the same thing as "do not fart of your sister's face" but with weird wording

    • @transsexual_void_fairy
      @transsexual_void_fairy 4 роки тому +15

      i can totally see that Trekki

    • @NoName-ld7gg
      @NoName-ld7gg 4 роки тому +53

      Wait-
      UA-cam says that this video was posted 2 hours ago, yet all of this thread says that your comments were 3 hours ago,
      _Are ya’ll some kinda time-travelers or smthn?_

  • @zee570
    @zee570 4 роки тому +880

    society: *separates boys and girls all the time*
    also society when people like their own gender: 👁👄👁

    • @ajuntapall6193
      @ajuntapall6193 3 роки тому +35

      It's obviously that love was the problem all along! :P

    • @Ashefault
      @Ashefault 8 місяців тому +1

      It's funny that Jamie does show both transphobes and normal straights while transphobes only show the bad people in the lgbtq to prove their point

    • @boss-fh6oz
      @boss-fh6oz 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Ashefault Actually transphobes mostly show the good people that they consider bad. At the same time, they don't fully support the people they consider good, that aren't that good eg. Blaire White.

  • @clashingswordsproductions
    @clashingswordsproductions 4 роки тому +4605

    "Not been creative enough with eggs"
    Your wall is white and your chair is yellow
    Jammi
    You SIT IN AN EGG

    • @wondering.why.
      @wondering.why. 4 роки тому +34

      Clashing Swords Productions-CSP :0

    • @cyancybershock719
      @cyancybershock719 4 роки тому +35

      im pretty sure its spelled Jamie

    • @faeossia7842
      @faeossia7842 4 роки тому +61

      i never noticed that and now i cant unsee it

    • @orfeassiozos1575
      @orfeassiozos1575 4 роки тому +42

      If the wall and the chair are an egg and Jamie is sitting on the chair, what does that make Jamie?

    • @pihla6350
      @pihla6350 4 роки тому +59

      @@orfeassiozos1575 He has a white shirt so salt.

  • @lilyminer9164
    @lilyminer9164 4 роки тому +4316

    Raid shadow legends says trans rights? Ok I’ll give the kind of annoying youtube sponsor another chance.

    • @synonymous_
      @synonymous_ 4 роки тому +287

      The game is shit, the company is shady af, they're dishonest about their finances; in short, don't
      Edit: I'm still happy for jamie and any other creator who manages to land a sponsorship deal though. Get that dough, for sure.

    • @transsexual_void_fairy
      @transsexual_void_fairy 4 роки тому +55

      @@synonymous_ why should we expect anything better from a mobile game developer =D

    • @aks799
      @aks799 4 роки тому +61

      Syno Nymous yes to the edit. Like I’m not gonna blame Jamie, we would all do the same thing to get $$$

    • @Junosensei
      @Junosensei 4 роки тому +85

      Raid SL will say trans rights for paying customers and attention. It also sponsors anti-trans youtubers, too. It baaaasically isn't sponsoring anyone for their message. Just to make its name big.

    • @Myce_Mycologic
      @Myce_Mycologic 4 роки тому +11

      nah, they just want money. shite game

  • @schuhschrank947
    @schuhschrank947 4 роки тому +1970

    A straight cis friend of mine told me that his six year old son asked him if he will be a woman when he's grown up. So I ask him (the father) what he thinks about it and he said: I think I save money for a gender change operation! (I hope I've got the words right, I am German...)
    Isn't that adorable?

    • @lightblueboi
      @lightblueboi 4 роки тому +425

      The correct term is "gender confirmation surgery" (it used to be called sex reassignment surgery, but the official term was changed to that recently). You were close though, and your English sounds great. I approve of this father, 10/10.

    • @schuhschrank947
      @schuhschrank947 4 роки тому +259

      @@lightblueboi Thank you!
      And thank you for explaining the right words! I learned English only at school ages ago and by watching English movies and on UA-cam, I have never been to an English-speaking-country!

    • @schuhschrank947
      @schuhschrank947 4 роки тому +105

      @Lizbeth V. Me, too! But I have no worries about them - I think my friend and his wife would do anything possible to support their children!

    • @t.martin51
      @t.martin51 4 роки тому +23

      That is adorable but why would he have to pay for it?

    • @schuhschrank947
      @schuhschrank947 4 роки тому +96

      @@t.martin51 I researched it, the health insurance will pay for it. I think, he doesn't know that, just like I didn't!

  • @lmc2696
    @lmc2696 4 роки тому +5981

    Never did I ever think I would hear Jamie, the wholesome bean, talk about Raid: Shadow Legends

  • @bobross4275
    @bobross4275 4 роки тому +1620

    I feel like the “don’t fart in your sister face” thing is quite normal to say. I can’t count how many times my mom have yelled that to my brother when we were younger

    • @muspell612
      @muspell612 4 роки тому +65

      it was a common thing for my older brother to fart in the elevator as soon as the door closes; the only reason he stopped was because we both moved out of the city and into houses. No elevators.

    • @omlette
      @omlette 4 роки тому +21

      I have a little brother, can confirm

    • @artema.
      @artema. 4 роки тому +9

      I am so sorry to hear that-

    • @livinginadaydream1
      @livinginadaydream1 4 роки тому +29

      I was babysitting my younger brothers once and when I was in another room they threw oranges on the CEILING and got orange juice stains on the ceiling that is still there to this day. Kids do wierd stuff.

    • @kiarrasayshi
      @kiarrasayshi 4 роки тому +12

      My older sister used to roll up and lock all the windows in the car and turn on the heater and just let them rip. She was a gassy menace.

  • @valerie9265
    @valerie9265 4 роки тому +2479

    The straights are ok? 2020 keeps getting stranger and stranger

    • @cryptid1697
      @cryptid1697 4 роки тому +58

      Can confirm, we are still not ok

    • @ghostcandoit
      @ghostcandoit 4 роки тому +64

      Trying our best... Those of us who try ofc

    • @NoName-ld7gg
      @NoName-ld7gg 4 роки тому +29

      @zowie castillo & @Kelsey Starkey
      _Ah.... good, some allies_

    • @MJAY-N7129
      @MJAY-N7129 4 роки тому +4

      Hahaha, bizarre events are occurring this year.

    • @NoName-ld7gg
      @NoName-ld7gg 4 роки тому +32

      @M. No.
      It honestly feels like life is being narrated by a 4th grader rn.
      “Once upon a time, there was this virus! And there was no school! Then... uh, the USA became what could easily be described as a piece of sh-

  • @z.l.l.z.7567
    @z.l.l.z.7567 4 роки тому +978

    This straight is doing more than ok. My LGBT child has gotten their degree, and is going for another one! They are first in my family to do this! They have overcome so many bereavements, bullying, the list goes on. I am a very very proud straight. You and Shabba are both fantastic role models. Xxx

    • @michelles7601
      @michelles7601 4 роки тому +108

      Omg congratulations! Please tell your child that even though I don't know them I am extremely proud of them🥺

    • @hylianexpected1171
      @hylianexpected1171 4 роки тому +51

      That's so awesome! I wish the best of luck to you and yours :)

    • @NaiveDJack
      @NaiveDJack 4 роки тому +36

      OHYEAHSUREBECAUSE the video did not make me cry enough

    • @z.l.l.z.7567
      @z.l.l.z.7567 4 роки тому +36

      Thanks everyone! I can't tell you how much this means to me! I love you all for this. 😘😘

    • @talithaleman708
      @talithaleman708 4 роки тому +25

      Congratulations to your child! You are a great parent! Have a lovely day! :D

  • @river446
    @river446 4 роки тому +910

    I think my parents might belong on r/straightsbeingok? Consider: on their first date, in the line for the movie theater in the science museum, reading Tolkien to each other.

  • @xxbatmanb3y0ndxx56
    @xxbatmanb3y0ndxx56 4 роки тому +1928

    Strange, the straights being ok...

  • @chacharealsmooth8719
    @chacharealsmooth8719 4 роки тому +132

    The dad being respectful of his wife’s boundaries and teaching his kid was just YES. RESPECT BOUNDARIES MY DUDES.

    • @remusteahan3521
      @remusteahan3521 3 роки тому +9

      The comic artist is called lunarbaboon, theyre on insta and have so many adorable sweet comics id 1000% reccomend them theyre brilliant

  • @wondering.why.
    @wondering.why. 4 роки тому +581

    Any UA-camr mentioning Raid Shadow Legend:
    Me: **Skip skip skip**
    Jamie mentioning Raid Shadow Legend:
    Me: Doesn’t skip because Jamie is an adorable wholesome bean

    • @thestalwartinefromstalwart4126
      @thestalwartinefromstalwart4126 4 роки тому +27

      Me: I can't stand it when UA-cam videos advertise that game
      Also Me: I can't just skip part of a Jammidodger video! He's too precious!

    • @NoName-ld7gg
      @NoName-ld7gg 4 роки тому +6

      And it’s strange for me because I usually skip all the sponsors (because, most of the time, the sponsor is either something I haven’t heard of, or something that I could care less about.), yet when Jamie does it-

    • @steadgotthetime2017
      @steadgotthetime2017 3 роки тому +3

      I skip it, even when it is Jamie. Still love his channel though lol.

  • @_anxietea_8720
    @_anxietea_8720 4 роки тому +518

    UA-camr: *exists*
    Raid shadow legends: *ALLOW ME TO INTRODUCE MYSELF.*

    • @yukinofairytail7137
      @yukinofairytail7137 4 роки тому +9

      yeah but jamie is the first one that actually convinced me that i might like this game 😅

    • @_anxietea_8720
      @_anxietea_8720 4 роки тому +5

      Yukino Fairytail same dude.. same.

    • @macaronweasley8100
      @macaronweasley8100 3 роки тому +2

      WE'RE NEIGHBOURS, ME MOVED IN DOWN THE STREET 😃😃

  • @pure_anxiety8079
    @pure_anxiety8079 4 роки тому +782

    I just want I say one thing. I know this won’t get read or seen but. I was going through a rough time in my life. My dad was away and my mom was in the hospital. I was with my grandparents and they were extremely homophobic. My girlfriend dumped me and I told them and I was grounded and was told to think like a normal person. I felt so depressed and sad. I then found your videos and you gave me hope. My mom got better and my dads back now but you are a big reason I did not cut myself so thanks Jamie. Lots of love.

    • @mabelsan1133
      @mabelsan1133 4 роки тому +57

      👊😔 I feel you on the "getting told to think like a normal person" thing boo. Glad you didn't hurt yourself!

    • @Merel-fb2uu
      @Merel-fb2uu 4 роки тому +37

      Hi Blue Moon, I'm responding especially because you started your comment with 'I know this won't get read or seen...' but please know that it is being read and seen, there were 10 likes before I saw it!
      I just want to say I think you're very strong, and you'll grow stronger still, a little bit each day, even when there will also be days where you might feel utterly invisible. Hang in there, you are worthy and everything you're feeling and thinking is absolutely valid. Anyone's ignorance does not take away from that fact! Lots of love,
      Merelle

    • @robinrichards920
      @robinrichards920 4 роки тому +18

      I’m so proud of you for finding A different coping mechanism and not cutting! I know from personal experience how hard that is. I hope you get the in person support that you need. There are a lot of “warm lines“ that you can call to talk to someone who will be supportive and understand. Try to remember, you are a wonderful, strong, normal human being and you don’t have to change a bit. This is coming from a 54-year-old straight cis woman who has not been in the same situation but has felt the same despair. You are worthy and you are loved.

    • @miraaa19
      @miraaa19 4 роки тому +10

      Good to hear that you're better now! I went through a tough time in the beginning of the year and Jamie's videos were always a ray of sunshine and a distraction for a little while. And there are always lovely people in the comments! Keep doing you're thing and you'll find your people irl too 💛

    • @pure_anxiety8079
      @pure_anxiety8079 4 роки тому +10

      Thank you for the support guys. I’ve been better

  • @user-gi4qd6dc3z
    @user-gi4qd6dc3z 4 роки тому +678

    Raid shadow legends actually is still alive? And sponsoring such good people? Wow

    • @Detective_Grav
      @Detective_Grav 4 роки тому +28

      Yeah, I'm really surprised that he got sponsored by them

    • @syph3r_63
      @syph3r_63 4 роки тому

      Wow

  • @erilassila409
    @erilassila409 4 роки тому +386

    As a person who actually worships the old Norse gods, I can tell the person who got wingmanned by Thor that that's what he does. He and the other gods also do nice things like remove my gender dysphoria when I'm around my partner, so that I can enjoy my time with her (and the sexytimes and everything) without constantly hating myself.

    • @hideakisorachi3953
      @hideakisorachi3953 4 роки тому +109

      thor is that one ultra masculine cis/straight person that you're initially nervous around but ends up being a huge ally

    • @erilassila409
      @erilassila409 4 роки тому +72

      @@hideakisorachi3953 yeah the gods in general are huge trans allies. Probably the only reason why they didn't smite my transphobic parents off the face of the planet is because I need parental support for practical reasons.

    • @hideakisorachi3953
      @hideakisorachi3953 4 роки тому +41

      @@erilassila409 we stan the gods ✊🏼😔

    • @olivetreewhimsy2016
      @olivetreewhimsy2016 4 роки тому +46

      “Someone complaining about non-cis rep in a norse gods based story, probably doesn’t know much about the norse gods”

    • @star2705
      @star2705 4 роки тому +8

      awww, shoutout to Thor and co.

  • @kat.665_2
    @kat.665_2 4 роки тому +427

    We need weekly check-ins to make sure the straights are doing alright. They need supervision.

  • @marcelinecorbin1257
    @marcelinecorbin1257 4 роки тому +244

    Jamie: Let's dive straight in.
    me: aaaAAAAHH i see what you did there

  • @jennyxvastra5650
    @jennyxvastra5650 4 роки тому +409

    The story about the Thor is so cute... Thor is the god of LGBTQ+

    • @EliannaEldari24
      @EliannaEldari24 4 роки тому +12

      No, that really wouldn't be Thor. Loki, or one of the vanir, maybe

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 4 роки тому +22

      @@EliannaEldari24 why not Thor tho? He's protector of mankind so I bet he'd protect LGBT people too.

    • @goldengryphon
      @goldengryphon 4 роки тому +15

      @@lunawolfheart336 Plus, I've been told his brother (whom, like every Big Bro ever, he wants to protect) is a symbol/mascot/adorable if troubled dumpling is the very definition of LGBTQ+ God.

    • @gferraro2916
      @gferraro2916 4 роки тому +20

      @@EliannaEldari24 what do you think the T in lgbt means???

    • @estellesmith4118
      @estellesmith4118 3 роки тому +7

      @@lunawolfheart336
      Because Loki is (correct me if I’m wrong) kind of genderfluid. That’s why.

  • @LiamRichie825
    @LiamRichie825 4 роки тому +191

    I got confirmation from several straights about two weeks ago that they are not ok.

  • @keelanmorningstar7800
    @keelanmorningstar7800 4 роки тому +614

    I clicked so fast lol.
    And that story about the Deaf wedding.... AAAAAH! As an ASL (American Sign Language) major I’m excited whenever I see stuff about signed languages. Also, pro tip: it’s not actually “sign language”, there’s a heck of a lot more than one! Probably as many as spoken languages! It would be like saying “Oh you know voice language?” instead of “Oh you know Japanese?”.
    Also I have a funny story about farts. So my family and I pet sit and my brother was watching this one dog (german shepherd mix I think?) who is like ridiculously smart. He was watching something and the dog backs up and farts directly in my brother’s face and he swears it was done on purpose and the dog looked like he was laughing after.
    Also I’d love for there to be a scene in the Avengers where Thor is a wingman lol.

    • @Detective_Grav
      @Detective_Grav 4 роки тому +3

      I got a notification also cool stories

    • @aaliyahbudd9775
      @aaliyahbudd9775 4 роки тому +5

      @@Detective_Grav i love your user name

    • @Detective_Grav
      @Detective_Grav 4 роки тому +2

      @@aaliyahbudd9775 thanks, I like yours too

    • @elianna_catlady3658
      @elianna_catlady3658 4 роки тому +6

      Same!! I have been learning ASL for 3 years now and I love seeing wholesome stories that involve it!! My heart just melts❤️

    • @MJAY-N7129
      @MJAY-N7129 4 роки тому +7

      VOICE LANGUAGE hahaha

  • @sophiaquinn1742
    @sophiaquinn1742 3 роки тому +10

    I have a sweet little story! I was in line at a restaurant and the bathrooms were recently renovated to be gender neutral but the sign would say “used to be men’s room” and there was a mother and her two little boys and one boy said “we are not going in the girls bathroom!” And the mom said “Whatever bathroom opens up we will use it’s just a bathroom”

  • @lmc2696
    @lmc2696 4 роки тому +160

    Can we change the calendar to say “egg day”

  • @meepmoopiethe3rd
    @meepmoopiethe3rd 4 роки тому +137

    Jamie's positive attitude is so refreshing considering all that's going on in the world. His smile cheers me up.

  • @river3104
    @river3104 4 роки тому +210

    omg last time I was this early I thought I was cis

  • @waterking4116
    @waterking4116 4 роки тому +39

    2 days ago my mom and I were painting our toenails. My 2 older sons, 4 and 2, asked to have their toenails painted. So my mom and I painted those boys toenails!! They have purple toenails now 😁

    • @cbpd89
      @cbpd89 4 роки тому +9

      My boys always want me to paint their toenails when I do mine! They accidentally wipe it off before it dries every time...kids can't hold still to let it dry!

  • @rainbowpride6505
    @rainbowpride6505 4 роки тому +130

    I just wanted to say thank you. Because of you and your channel I was brave enough to come out to my family as trans (ftm).

    • @hawkins8665
      @hawkins8665 4 роки тому +9

      Congrats dude

    • @ivelissefournier6137
      @ivelissefournier6137 4 роки тому +3

      We’re so proud!!! I’m glad you could ☺️✨

    • @hawkins8665
      @hawkins8665 3 роки тому

      @Brett Wagland actaully no, you can hide it, pretend you’re fine then let all you emotions in private

    • @n0va860
      @n0va860 3 роки тому +1

      congrats ✨
      is ur pfp the beatles because i love them-

    • @Mushrm-pg3yg
      @Mushrm-pg3yg 3 роки тому +1

      Awe yay congrats!

  • @salcdaniel4240
    @salcdaniel4240 4 роки тому +501

    I love your wholesome videos, they're the best, espically on a bad day

    • @mightbeavampire
      @mightbeavampire 4 роки тому +8

      how are you doing today?
      how is everyone doing today?

    • @Detective_Grav
      @Detective_Grav 4 роки тому +8

      You doing good bud?

    • @thatswhatshesaid-3997
      @thatswhatshesaid-3997 4 роки тому +6

      Wait a sec...this video was posted 3 minutes ago and this comment was posted 4 minutes ago?! Duh duh dunnnn!!!!

    • @salcdaniel4240
      @salcdaniel4240 4 роки тому +2

      I'm good y'all! How are you? Been a rough couple of days but I'm pullin through ☺️☺️

    • @salcdaniel4240
      @salcdaniel4240 4 роки тому +1

      @@thatswhatshesaid-3997 The magic of drunk UA-cam right?

  • @sarahstardust
    @sarahstardust 4 роки тому +36

    My parents have sweet moments like this sometimes too. My mom has an autoimmune disorder and has been keeping my dad at arms length because she's afraid of the virus (understandably so). Their anniversary was in May, so to celebrate they put on rain ponchos to hug. He was absolutely floored because she came out in the poncho...over her wedding dress. 😍 I saw pictures and it was too adorable.

  • @kindpunk420
    @kindpunk420 4 роки тому +39

    "I just need to be sad for a minute"... 😄 "I CANT DO IT" was absolutely adorable 🥰 I love your content so much, especially when it's wholesome. You make my day 💖

  • @Eco_Hiko
    @Eco_Hiko 4 роки тому +79

    Jamie the wholesome trans "let me take you to the dungeons. "
    My brain: wait what? Oh...wrong dungeons. Bad brain. 😂

  • @kateemma22
    @kateemma22 4 роки тому +86

    The Straights: okay. Raid Shadow Legends: okay. This is a wild turn of events for 2020 and I am loving it!

    • @Kino_Cartoon
      @Kino_Cartoon 4 роки тому

      Omg we are close to neutrality! Never have we seen such an improvement in 2020.
      Now nothing can stop us from having an ok year =D
      2nd wave Corona around the corner
      My exams coming up
      USA and German elections coming up
      .....
      We are all doomed 😶

  • @p4st3l_gh0st3
    @p4st3l_gh0st3 3 роки тому +4

    the one about the story with the boy who wanted to be a princess reminded me of a book I found at a book fair in grade 4 called George. its a super adorable book about a young trans girl and it helped me with figuring out my own gender stuff. I 100% recommend it and it's good for explaining what being trans is to kids!

  • @Kai-hi2ii
    @Kai-hi2ii 4 роки тому +23

    that "wow" montage at the end made my day more than the subreddit did and that's saying something

  • @thefunnyman8073
    @thefunnyman8073 4 роки тому +81

    Hey you! Yes you, person reading this! I hope you have a wonderful day/night, and I want you to know there is always someone who loves you and cares for you.

    • @petrfedor1851
      @petrfedor1851 4 роки тому +4

      All my plants whose didn´t die yet: Yes :D :D
      Thanks.

    • @sationalsen
      @sationalsen 4 роки тому +3

      Thanks, nice stranger!

    • @einindividuum5428
      @einindividuum5428 4 роки тому +2

    • @khushik3899
      @khushik3899 4 роки тому +2

      Right back at ya

    • @springrollsprout3775
      @springrollsprout3775 3 роки тому

      Thank you random guy somewhere in the world I needed that! There is always somewhere there for you as well!
      -Undisclosed rando in Germany

  • @iChristyD
    @iChristyD 4 роки тому +8

    I had 2 really bad marriages and swore off ever trying again till I met my current husband 18 years ago. He literally is my soulmate. We’ve never had a fight ever, he does so much for me without me having to ask. When we found out I was sick and my doctor told me to work on my bucket list, he has done everything to help me make those things happen. He’s just so amazing.

  • @phrogtime1513
    @phrogtime1513 4 роки тому +54

    My “best friend” (actually gf) and I got couple tshirts but our parents are so deep in r/sapphoandherfriend they didn’t even say anything about it. Like yeah. Just gal pals. Having contact names of “pumpkin:)” and “love💕” as best friends.

    • @emmath5226
      @emmath5226 4 роки тому +7

      People force themselves to think me and my gf are sisters..
      No sir. Get over it

    • @Redjd2098
      @Redjd2098 2 роки тому +1

      Live your preferred life, push aside anyone trying to drag you down to their levels, and don't give up.

  • @vhimeras8030
    @vhimeras8030 4 роки тому +2

    I am so happy that my parents fit in the "straights being okay" label. They're just adorable and they raised me to accepting other's diversities. The first time I went to a Pride parade it was with my mum while my dad was playing with his orchestra in the streets for the event. Just beautiful.

  • @bluechord2928
    @bluechord2928 4 роки тому +43

    I have a couple of straight friends and I wish I was joking when I say that I fully just don't understand ho they exist the way they do. But sometime, just sometimes, theres a ray of light!

    • @SwissMissss
      @SwissMissss 4 роки тому +3

      I feel the same way about my gay friends. But at the same time they can be wonderful so there's that🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @ada.3880
      @ada.3880 3 роки тому

      Love is ew in general and is a foreign concept to many, but I am not ace so I am doomed with these hormones and the need to be held probably forever. Send help.

    • @Alina_Schmidt
      @Alina_Schmidt 2 роки тому

      @@ada.3880 love and sex are not the same, at least to very many people.
      Some people who don‘t get love and feel it to be a foreign concept are aromantic.

  • @p0tty_m0uth5
    @p0tty_m0uth5 4 роки тому +11

    “I’m Jamie. My name is Jamie if you didn’t know that. I-I am a trans man, and I am not straight”
    Why the hell did I feel so wholesome when he said that? I’m not sure...but it’s also 1am so that might be a component
    Love you Jamie 💕 ✨

  • @dannyvladi1199
    @dannyvladi1199 4 роки тому +44

    It's nice to know that some straight people can vibe well.

  • @akio5250
    @akio5250 4 роки тому +14

    Gays : “are you ok”
    Straights : “yeah”

  • @thatchaoticqueertheatrekid5870
    @thatchaoticqueertheatrekid5870 4 роки тому +15

    My whole family is straight, and they’re mostly okay. I still love ‘em. 😄❤️

  • @dien3745
    @dien3745 4 роки тому +10

    3:01
    Dive STRAIGHT in
    hahaha
    why am I laughing
    help

  • @effynity
    @effynity 4 роки тому +5

    There's something about Jammi that's just so wholesome and innocent and I love it about him 😂
    Shabba is hella lucky :)

  • @royalblueanimations
    @royalblueanimations 4 роки тому +73

    I really like you’re videos! I’m still in the closet, mostly because I’m questioning again. Like I have absolutely 0 idea what I am both gender and sexuality wise. Sometimes it makes me sad but your videos really make me happy!!! So thank you for that!!! 💖
    Edit: I’ve finally realized that I’m a lesbian enby :DDD

    • @RubixPsyche
      @RubixPsyche 4 роки тому +8

      It takes a bit but you'll get there :D

    • @peytonbopper
      @peytonbopper 4 роки тому +3

      take all the time you need!!

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 4 роки тому +2

      I have faint idea here, but yeah, same here! I love jammies videos! They make me smile :)

    • @lenat7397
      @lenat7397 4 роки тому +4

      Maybe try to get away from the idea that you need a label. Just try to live in a way that makes you happy and if you feel the need to talk to your parents and come out than just do that. Say that you are trying to figure out your identity and talk about how you feel. And last but not least: I assume you're a teenager so I want you to know that it's perfectly normal not to know who you are and who you want to be at that time. There are always people here for you that care about you a lot.

    • @edmundscycles1
      @edmundscycles1 4 роки тому +2

      @@lenat7397 this absolutely this . Before I decided to transition I had people ask me if is was straight ect. My reply was .........mostly straight but I like to fool about .
      To me I still find it hard to describe what I am sexuality wise because I don't feel I ever fit everyone's preconceptions on what is Bi , gay or straight and Pan i just find ........ pompous , though it does describe me best i suppose . Though I'm more attracted to personalities than physiological things .
      Though bosoms are nice to cuddle up to .

  • @minxianlee
    @minxianlee 3 роки тому +4

    I’ve been watching all of your ‘straights being okay’ bc I’m having a crisis, regarding my attraction towards men. They do suck sometimes but these videos always remind me that there are actually some men out there who are nice, loving and accepting, which is making me happy, considering that I’m bi💜

    • @Redjd2098
      @Redjd2098 2 роки тому

      Live your preferred life, push aside anyone trying to drag you down to their levels, and don't give up.

  • @EmmatheGaymer
    @EmmatheGaymer 4 роки тому +39

    jamie: "eggs benedict"
    me: "welcom, eggs benedict"
    if you know, you know

    • @Jaybird196
      @Jaybird196 4 роки тому +5

      Exotic butters.

    • @ALEXA-fv5hk
      @ALEXA-fv5hk 3 роки тому +4

      I was looking for this comment. Thank you.

    • @hopemoshermustdie
      @hopemoshermustdie 2 роки тому +1

      I know this is late and my profile pic kind of embodies it BUT...
      Dibs on angsty teen!

  • @PunkRatSoda
    @PunkRatSoda 3 роки тому +2

    My step-dad once came to me and said
    " Im a very tall midget "
    He won all my eternal respect.

  • @rachsmith9747
    @rachsmith9747 3 роки тому +2

    My Nan and Pa have been married for 65yrs. My Pa has dementia and has forgotten almost everyone and everything. He hasn’t forgetter my Nan though. He still calls her Blondie (she was blonde before she went grey), and he’ll say to her “do you know I love you” multiple times a day! It’s sad that he doesn’t remember us, but in his little world he has everything and that makes us all so happy.

  • @fifim4869
    @fifim4869 3 роки тому +3

    Jamie: says "wooooooow" as his reaction to a meme and the camera zooms in
    Me: Yes. Amazing. My Soul Is Restored

  • @rattyrattus6535
    @rattyrattus6535 4 роки тому +23

    I'm having a not so great day but this is cheering me up

  • @localcryptid740
    @localcryptid740 3 роки тому +5

    Me, a straight person who's never had a healthy romantic relationship in her life, sitting here wondering how a person could possibly love another person as unconditionally as these people do

    • @Alina_Schmidt
      @Alina_Schmidt 2 роки тому

      Just because one can find them cute in this posts it doesn‘t mean they don‘t have problems. I believe straights are human, too, after all 😉

  • @taylorjohnson3077
    @taylorjohnson3077 3 роки тому +1

    When he went "hes-hes-hes the chairrrrrrr🥰" love that

  • @acidic_acid
    @acidic_acid 4 роки тому +17

    i initially thought the raid shadow legends sponsorship was ironic

    • @petrfedor1851
      @petrfedor1851 4 роки тому +2

      Maybe the ironic part is he say it so, ehm *straight* .

  • @jatyamxx
    @jatyamxx 4 роки тому +91

    Straight reddit is possibly the most terrifying thing ever

    • @RagingBisexua1
      @RagingBisexua1 4 роки тому +30

      No. Straight Tictok is

    • @user-zk8le1bf4m
      @user-zk8le1bf4m 4 роки тому +17

      I think straight women scare me the most out of anything, like why would you give up all these AMAZING FUNNY WONDERFUL people for..... the men?

    • @Detective_Grav
      @Detective_Grav 4 роки тому +2

      @@RagingBisexua1 agreed

    • @emile.728
      @emile.728 4 роки тому +4

      @@RagingBisexua1 another fander!!!

    • @RagingBisexua1
      @RagingBisexua1 4 роки тому +3

      @@emile.728 Yess!!

  • @Spalonga
    @Spalonga 4 роки тому +2

    Jamie, you are literally the dad everyone needs. Though I'm afraid I need to call naevity on the not needing to tell kids to fart in each other's faces. You have conversations you wouldn't BELIEVE when you have kids!!

  • @WynnEngel
    @WynnEngel 4 роки тому +6

    only ppl that stayed for the "wow" segment can like

  • @duckyisaclown69
    @duckyisaclown69 4 роки тому +83

    I need advice.
    So, I have two friends let's call them "B" and "C" who are kinda transphobic. (I'm not particularly close with C but we're in the same friend group) I genuinely believe that B's transphobia comes from ignorance and is completely unintentional. He definitely wouldn't consider himself transphobic. I can't really say what the cause behind C's behavior is but I assume that it is just ignorance as well.
    So we all have another friend "K" (male) who has dated a few trans women. The other day B was calling K gay for "sucking d*ck". Because of the way that B had phrased it I thought that K had been dating men. So I jokingly joined it a bit (I am a trans, gay man). Then I realized that B had been referring to trans women the whole time. I was pissed and honestly really hurt. It was pretty clear that B didn't view these trans women as women.
    Separately C posted something in our group chat the other day about how "f***ing a trap is only 2.19% homosexual" because the average penis only makes up 2.19% of the average "man's" body.
    I don't know how to address these issues or how to educate them without making get defensive. Idk about C but I know that B would immediately get defensive if I confronted him about this.
    This all hurts really deeply because I genuinely thought that my friend group had accepted me for who I am. But if they don't see trans women as women then how can they possibly accept me as a man? I always felt like a bit of an outsider to the group but I always figured that it was just because I was last to join. Now it feels like they only accept me because they're friends with my fiancee.
    I'm hurt and angry and I don't know how to deal with this without burning bridges. I am open to any suggestions. Thanks for reading my ridiculously long rant.🌈♥️
    EDIT: I have made the decision to just ignore C as we are not particularly close and I don't see him as being open to being educated. I still haven't talked to B but it's important to me that I try to keep him as a friend as we are pretty close(we have been friends for a few years) and he is also one of my fiance's best friends.

    • @Mausimausporn
      @Mausimausporn 4 роки тому +16

      I usually never comment but reading this just really upset me. So I wanted to just say... you're probably right and they're just ignorant or maybe they're doing that weird thing a lot of phobes do, where they disapprove of some group in general "but xyz is different, I like him". Who knows, we can't look inside their heads.
      Your situation sounds more intense then what I usually deal with but I'll just tell you what I think might work.
      The way I try to deal with this kind of thing is by not necessarily calling out the bad behaviour when they do it and instead just state my opinions on other occasions (it's never a bad idea to mention a reason for why you have an opinion). Or point out the same kind of bad behaviour when people outside of the group are doing it. And a really good strategy is to just talk about your experience or that of people you personally know when these topics come up. It is very hard to dismiss personal accounts as not valid when the person is right there in front of you.
      None of these things are overly confrontational (so hopefully B and C won't get super defensive) but they also make clear where you stand (and just by raising the topics yourself you make it clear that you are NOT indifferent about them).
      In the best case scenario B and C will put two nd two together on their own and feel slightly bad about themselves. And if they actually ever say something to you that signals remorse you will get to be very generous and tell them that nobody is born educated.
      I hope this is of some help to you... these things sometimes take time and for me it's always helpful to remind myself that most people think of themselves as nice and that they usually don't want to actually hurt anyone, they just don't always know better.
      All the best to you and sorry if my English sounds a bit odd I haven't been writing in English for a while :/

    • @duckyisaclown69
      @duckyisaclown69 4 роки тому +4

      @@Mausimausporn thanks so much for your response. I really appreciate your input. You made some really good points that I find very helpful. I definitely still have some things to think about concerning how I want to approach it but you definitely gave me a new perspective on how I could go about it and I really appreciate it! Thanks again

    • @duckyisaclown69
      @duckyisaclown69 4 роки тому +3

      @@Mausimausporn Also your English is better than that of most people in the UA-cam comment section

    • @tealrose3248
      @tealrose3248 4 роки тому +6

      Daniel Drown hey - I don't have any useful suggestions, I usually just stop talking to people who get toxic enough to be hurtful and I realise that isn't a valid solution for many people's situations. But I'm sending hugs, anyway, because this is a difficult situation for you to be in on a whole lot of levels, and you're dealing with it better than I would.
      Stay strong.

    • @Mausimausporn
      @Mausimausporn 4 роки тому +2

      @@duckyisaclown69 I'm glad my input might be of some use to you. You'll figure something out, I'm sure ;). I just hope there are other people in your new friend group who are a bit more educated (which I'm guessing there are, probably at least your friend K and your fiancee) and who will back you up in the future. It's too bad that being challenged in their views is so painful for people which means they will usually get defensive instead of cooperative. But everyone can grow (let's be honest, we all used to have some bullshit views and probably still do - I know I had to overcome some internalised biphobia of my own, for example). That doesn't make their current behaviour less painful of course. I'm really sorry you have to go through this. But you have allies and they are growing in numers everyday

  • @M_56612
    @M_56612 4 роки тому +35

    A wholesome video...thanks I’ve been getting misgendered all day and even though I’m not out it still bothers me, Usually I avoid it by staying in my room but I couldn’t today 😢

    • @paris5410
      @paris5410 4 роки тому +7

      Awww. I'm so sorry. I'll just do a gender-correct compilation to make up for it.
      The person who just commented above is seriously wonderful. They are really the best.
      Seriously. A really wonderful person. A doupleplusgood person. Do not misgender them. This beautiful person who just commented is very brave and cool. They are also extremely handsome.
      There. Hope it makes you feel better.

    • @paris5410
      @paris5410 4 роки тому +4

      Me literally only trying to be sweet to random internet strangers and dogs-

    • @Redjd2098
      @Redjd2098 2 роки тому

      Live your preferred life, push aside anyone trying to drag you down to their levels, and don't give up.

  • @bekthompson583
    @bekthompson583 3 роки тому +2

    This is just Jamie being an utter precious bean for 11 minutes and restoring my faith in humanity

    • @Alina_Schmidt
      @Alina_Schmidt 2 роки тому

      Humanity? Well, I guess we could agree straights are humans, but humanity? That‘s some very heavy luggage on the shoulders of this very modern minority in human history.

  • @jesseml4303
    @jesseml4303 3 роки тому +2

    My parents have the dream relationship of straights being ok. They met at a festival and within a month they were getting married (my mum proposed naked on a roof to my dad) and they have been best friends ever since

  • @artsybeedle4662
    @artsybeedle4662 4 роки тому +3

    Jamie gushing over Shaaba is just so wholesome :)

  • @leonolan5409
    @leonolan5409 4 роки тому +36

    I didn’t realize straights could be okay...

    • @schuhschrank947
      @schuhschrank947 4 роки тому +5

      I am straight and I am okay!

    • @paris5410
      @paris5410 4 роки тому +3

      @schuhschrank I'm glad. I was starting to get a little worried with straight Tiktok, because if 90% of the world population is like that we are in a fix. But then I realised it's just because I haven't really been close to any straight people or any other kind of person nearly (roommates, sometimes family- and let me tell you those last ones are not ok) since quarantine so not-ok straight people are probably over-represented in my brain right now.

    • @ada.3880
      @ada.3880 3 роки тому

      I'm straight and I'm ok in the sense that I just want people to do what they want and for everyone to be ok with each other but I do question existence and absolutely hate living sometimes especially having to deal with depressive episodes, extreme anxiety, OCD and all of that bullshit. I am ok but I am not ok.

    • @schuhschrank947
      @schuhschrank947 3 роки тому

      @@ada.3880 I feel sorry for you. Never had to fight with those issues and I can't imagine how it feels but it must be horrible. Did you find some help? I wish you all the best.

    • @ada.3880
      @ada.3880 3 роки тому

      @@schuhschrank947 honestly no, but I'm trying to get better and it is proving itself to be really difficult. Like I survived before and it was hard, but now that I'm actually trying, I thought my life would immediately be better or something. That was a stupid thing to assume. Anyway, I'm projecting, I'll leave it at that, because trust me I could talk about my problems for hours.

  • @journeytoyggdrasil9994
    @journeytoyggdrasil9994 4 роки тому +5

    Sending this as proof to my soon to be mother in law that gays don't hate straights. We just hate their...hate....toward us.

  • @TeganThrussell
    @TeganThrussell 3 роки тому +3

    8:00 on that note, I just wanted to give applause to my parents for the way they raised me in regards to tolerance. My siblings and I were homeschooled, because my sister is very ADHD, and my brother is Autistic, so my mum left her job and my dad took on extra work so that they could give us the right kind of education based on our individual needs. As the neurotypical youngest I just tagged along with it.
    But anyway, we were not raised in a very diverse environment, at all. The majority of people in the town's we lived in where white and straight. But not by choice, we just went where dad had to for work. But my parents made sure that we were aware of people who are gay, we knew that other ethnicities were all around the world, and they raised us to not care. I just saw dark skin as a feature, like my blonde hair. It was just a characteristic, and no indication of them as a person. Same with someone being gay. When I started going to a real highschool and I met my first homophobe, I was so confused, because to me, anyone could love anyone. The fact that people treated eachother differently because of their religion, romantic preferences, accent, skin colour, whatever, did not comprehend in my brain for YEARS! I just couldn't understand it, and I really wish that everyone was raised with the same ideas in regards to diversity. People are people. Who cares how they sound, what they look like or who they love? A person is a person no matter what. No one deserves to be kicked out of a group because they don't conform to someone else's standards.
    I'm willing to bet that very few people will read this, but at least it's out there. I love my parents, and I hope to be able to teach my kids the same thing some day.
    Just because my parents are straight, white and neurotypical, did not stop them from raising their kids to be kind and well adjusted adults. Them being a majority population, or my siblings having disabilities, was not an excuse for allowing us to grow up cruel or ignorant. I love my parents so much.

  • @platypustale8980
    @platypustale8980 4 роки тому +8

    That wedding story made me cry, it warmed my little bi heart, they're so CUTE!!!!

    • @Redjd2098
      @Redjd2098 2 роки тому

      Live your preferred life, push aside anyone trying to drag you down to their levels, and don't give up.

  • @donnamcgregor1443
    @donnamcgregor1443 4 роки тому +3

    I may be putting myself out there for criticism but I am trying to be brave like you. I am a 51 year old cis female with a 2 year old granddaughter. I love your videos. I am learning so much. My philosophy is "you do you boo". Don't tell me I am wrong because I am heterosexual. I would never tell you that you are wrong for being LGBTQ. I consider myself understanding and tolerant. But for reals, if my granddaughter would tell me that she thought she was transgender, I would privately mourn then with all my faith and power be her number one cheerleader. I hope that you can understand.

    • @donnamcgregor1443
      @donnamcgregor1443 4 роки тому +3

      The mourning is because I would never want any person to live in misery with gender dysphoria. Secondly and honestly I would mourn for what I thought I wanted for my family. I hope people equate honesty and tolerance.

  • @NeonBeansYT
    @NeonBeansYT 3 роки тому +2

    My dad is a 49 year old straight man and raised me on „you can be anything you want as long as you’re not hurting yourself or anyone else”
    That’s how I’ve been living my life thanks to him
    Extra: when I was born, my dad told my mom that he hopes I’m a lesbian when I grow up, so i don’t have to deal with stupid boys.
    My mom got really angry with him. I guess both of them got what they wanted considering I’m Pansexual now.

  • @sarahgoesvroom
    @sarahgoesvroom 3 роки тому +2

    Jamie:
    100% Fluffy Perfect Hair
    100% Perfect Voice
    100% Perfect Hair
    10000% player of a character with "badass nipels"

  • @yourneighborhoodana4584
    @yourneighborhoodana4584 3 роки тому +4

    3:30
    This is something you DEFINITELY need to say. I have a little brother and I have to say it. And so do my parents.

  • @quinnnightadder598
    @quinnnightadder598 4 роки тому +5

    Just in case you want to skip Jamie talking about Raid, the timestamp for where it ends is 2:52 just in case

  • @prichhagiri7526
    @prichhagiri7526 4 роки тому +2

    Okay-dokey 🤣🤣
    Oh my god Jamie, your expressions are so cute. The way you react is so innocent and childlike, its too adorable. Shaba and you are damn too lucky to have each other.❤

  • @aibohpphobia6246
    @aibohpphobia6246 4 роки тому +11

    8:27 I can’t believe they missed the opportunity to say
    *I found the missing pizza me*
    smh

  • @amprice2727
    @amprice2727 4 роки тому +5

    No....the one channel I thought I could escape Raid on ;-;
    But yay wholesomeness

  • @jessicabader5594
    @jessicabader5594 3 роки тому +3

    9:04 he's the chaaaair
    This is adorable

  • @nerdywolverine8640
    @nerdywolverine8640 4 роки тому +1

    The "I have everything I need//I am everything" tshirts are so great because they'd even work own their own as just,, confident tshirts? Like imagine walking around with a tshirt saying "i am everything" itd make you feel so *powerful*

  • @martenmaarten
    @martenmaarten 3 роки тому +1

    this subreddit makes me sentimental because it reminds me of my grandparents.
    in the '70s their farm burned down and my grandpa got a severe phobia of fire from it. my grandma has always loved all sorts of candles but since she loved and respected my grandpa and his fear so much she only ever used electronic candles, the only real candles she had were placed in pretty glass candle cages (no idea what those are called haha) outside the house.
    the day she died of cancer my grandpa placed candles thoughout the whole house and lit them for her. it was 5 years ago and i still get shivers thinking about it. he really loved her.

  • @erikacornet9594
    @erikacornet9594 4 роки тому +11

    I want this, but I'll probibly never get this cuteness

    • @schuhschrank947
      @schuhschrank947 4 роки тому +1

      Follow your heart and don't forget to use your brain and you will find this cuteness!

  • @DanaDays
    @DanaDays 4 роки тому +7

    Agh the "Listening and Respecting" comic. My heart 💛💛

    • @sarahstardust
      @sarahstardust 4 роки тому +3

      Ikr? My husband is like this. I get a lot of body aches and stiffness due to illness, so he always asks first for hugs and cuddles. I never feel guilty for telling him no because he's so understanding and cool about it. 😊

    • @DanaDays
      @DanaDays 4 роки тому +2

      @@sarahstardust that's absolutely beautiful 💛💛

  • @kimzee59
    @kimzee59 3 роки тому +2

    So I have never watched this guy before in my life. But his energy is just amazing. He gets so excited for everything and I am living for this. I can't wait to binge more of his videos later

  • @amelieg246
    @amelieg246 3 роки тому +1

    My friend bought Elsa and Anna costumes for her daughter and son. It's the sweetest thing

  • @randomperson-xx5iv
    @randomperson-xx5iv 4 роки тому +5

    Never thought I would see this title 😂

  • @enbyunus
    @enbyunus 4 роки тому +23

    Partner: my legs are tired
    Me: dont worry, I identify as a chair

  • @frankparent463
    @frankparent463 4 роки тому +1

    Fun fact I thought I’d drop here. On 23-12-2020, my parents will have been together for 33 years. And on 26-08-2020, it will be their 25th wedding anniversary.

  • @mslightbulb
    @mslightbulb 4 роки тому +1

    8:15 oh, I remember. My mom bought this super cute book where a girl wanted to dress up as a pirate and her best friend as a ballerina. And their parents made them a play where they could dress up however they wanted.
    The illustrations were really cute.

  • @anyamathur645
    @anyamathur645 3 роки тому +3

    I saw the title as “the straights being gay” and I was like wtf

  • @MCFiFi99
    @MCFiFi99 4 роки тому +3

    I highly appreciated the "wow" compilation at the end. It almost rivals with Owen Wilson.

  • @justkindahere9100
    @justkindahere9100 3 роки тому +2

    Can I just say ur like perfect u voice is the best thing to listen to on a bad day and also ur really funny and you just make my days better!! I love ur channel and keep being ur awesome self!!!

  • @partysuvius
    @partysuvius 3 роки тому +2

    Every time I see a Raid ad:
    Ugh no •skip•
    Every time I see a Raid “sponsorship”:
    Noooo they’re not gonna get paaaaid 😟

  • @CapCochCosplay
    @CapCochCosplay 4 роки тому +8

    I often wonder if the weird ones who have to label everything are okay and looking at these they probably aren't most of the time but these are wholesome

  • @toastandbutter7367
    @toastandbutter7367 4 роки тому +6

    Are you stalking me? I was just watching Shaaba lol Also, I love this subreddit, it’s so wholesome, and even more wholesome when you do it, so thanks for doing this!

  • @amiracaroandyeeeeet.2779
    @amiracaroandyeeeeet.2779 4 роки тому

    Jamie correcting sentences and turning them into dad jokes makes me smile. If you plan on having kids you're gonna be a good father :')

  • @rayloux2468
    @rayloux2468 4 роки тому +1

    The part about smiling too much is really relatable though, my cheeks get so sore... I smile a lot

  • @soyildraws9095
    @soyildraws9095 4 роки тому +9

    Hello. My mom and I have started watching the new she-ra, we haven’t gotten to the lesbian parts yet, but wish me luck!

    • @rgbf23
      @rgbf23 4 роки тому +3

      Good luck!

    • @felixettos
      @felixettos 4 роки тому +2

      Please tell us how she reacts when you get to the gay parts

    • @ada.3880
      @ada.3880 3 роки тому

      Just reminding you that you commented this, and maybe, no pressure, please, but no pressure say what the reaction was cuz I'm really curious but no pressure?

    • @soyildraws9095
      @soyildraws9095 3 роки тому

      @@ada.3880 she quit the show after the princess prom

    • @ada.3880
      @ada.3880 3 роки тому

      @@soyildraws9095 wow that was quick I didnt expect that after 2 months-
      And ah. I see.

  • @Omniscient87
    @Omniscient87 4 роки тому +3

    "Missing pizza me"
    You're not even a dad yet, and you're already telling dad jokes. :p

  • @Jay-wf4ms
    @Jay-wf4ms 4 роки тому +1

    Jamie is too pure for this world.