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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- Mr. and Mrs. Paul are bringing their daughter Kayla to court for child support. Kayla left her 6 month old son with her parents when he was 1 week old. Kayla has no intentions of being a mother to this "mistake" of a child.
I hope that kid’s valedictorian speech thanks his grandparents for loving him so passionately and unconditionally.
and "Thanks mom for being the B that got me to be the V!"
Involuntary heroes
@@patricklapointe4979 Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them.
-William Shakespeare
@@HuyNguyen-qx8de truth!
honestly wouldnt even phase the mother as all. Once the grandparents are gone. That child if still in HS might end up in the streets & become a product of his enviornment. Hope they stick around for at least college years.
I had a child at 16, was rocking a crying newborn baby in my arms at 2 am doing math assignments online for school. I graduated with a 3.8 GPA and went to college. Took care of my now 6 year old beautiful little boy the ENTIRE journey. Now happily married to my husband who adopted him and are expecting our second child at the age of 23. There is NO excuse. DO BETTER.
She honestly should have just had an abortion. Some people should never be mothers
awe! i love that for u mama!! keep going no matter how hard it gets, ur doing amazing!!! 💓💓💓
Congratulations mama!!!
Literally proud asf of you ❤
I'm proud of you! That's the way to do it!!
That lady really said, “ If I’m paying child support, I’m not coming to see him”. You have to be a sick individual to abandon your 1 week old baby
This entitled woman ... that baby is better off without her. God bless those grandparents.
Yes, she's selfish.
@@NellieKAdaba very much
Some people should not be parents. Unfortunately it almost always seem like those people are the least likely to take steps to avoid having a child.
I’m 34 I’m begging god to give a baby & I never get it. But women like her get pregnant everyday 💔💔💔
"OUR GRANDSON WAS NOT A MISTAKE!" That got me teared up
Me too!😢
Me too 😭 my kids dad says all the time he wants to give up his rights when he’s mad and it breaks my heart
That girl is so blessed to even have parents that care.
Correct I would of been so Happy to have a parents like this like die
I’ve been in that same boat for the last almost 20 years and you would think that I’ve done nothing. I pray that their grands are more appreciative than mine.
Very true, too bad she doesn't know it
But look at the way she turned out. She has a sister who is messed up also. Will they be able to do any better with the grandbaby?
Right
I hope the baby never knows she called him a mistake. That’s so sad.
Unfortunate.
People can change
Did you See the abortion rate nowadays...
Unfortunately he will. And I wouldn’t be surprised if she tells him herself
Eh the vast majority of kids are mistakes so I honestly don't see that as a big deal, but maybe I'm just weird like that.
It was everything else that was fucked up in my opinion.
“I had something in my throat”
The father: “I bet you did”
😂😂😂😂 savage!!!
That was classic
Got me rolling outta bed 😂😂
Even her mom laughed 😂
Savage, especially coming from the father🤣
On God😂
Grandparents like this are a blessing. They already had their own children, brought them up, no doubt struggled themselves. And now their children just say things like "you're retired you have nothing but time". Yes, time to relax, time to travel, time to rest after working their whole lives. They must be so disappointed in their own children.
God bless you! 🙏
My daughter went through a very bad time in her life. Her and her husband weren't in a good place. We adopted her children. I will say this. She paid off her back child support quickly. Got her life together pretty quickly. She has her child back in her life. Her husband has taken 23 years and many court challenges, and he is finally paying back the money I am owed. It is a small percentage of what he owes. I am very very proud of my daughter. It took awhile, but she is a hard working, a caring, productive person today.
@@shirleebryant2740 Good on your daughter for turning her life around! I can absolutely sympathise with her situation - it's easy to happen to almost anyone - and having to give up her children was possibly the hardest thing she had to do, given she worked so hard to turn things around so quickly. Sounds to me like she just needed those helping hands you were able to provide BUT she wasn't taking it for granted and put the work in. Gold star human in my books ❤
So disappointed.
Wish mi parents was this helpful I'm all alone with 3 children
What a selfish, cruel woman! God give these grandparents long, and healthy lives to protect this child.
Amen...
Yes
Revoke her parental rights IMMEDIATELY!
Right or those kinds D's don't stand a chance
@@bohemoth1 not yet…… she needs to pay out the nose first. Then when the child is an adult, the child can tell this beast where to go!
Judge Vonda B always handles these cases with such grace & pettiness 😂😂
I'm so here for the pettiness! Lawd!
@@JWOriginals yesss she does it so gracefully lol
HELLO!!! I'm here for the accountability.
😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@Emceeseenyour Thank you. I don't think she's being petty at all making people take responsibility for their actions.
"The baby was a mistake"
Judge: "Sure ok well I'm not going to mistake these child support numbers."😂😂😂
😂😂
😂😂😂😂💀 you took me out just now
Lmao
How can she say that about her child? I'm sure her parents can say she herself was a mistake after hearing everything she says
I screamed to the top of my lungs 😂😂😂😂😂
I get so mad when I see these people that just treat their kids like trash and an inconvenience, when so many people struggle to have children.
Life is not fair :(
Exactly I can't carry kids and dream of having one of my own so it breaks my heart seeing stuff like this.😢😢
Right I can't have children so this saddens me and breaks my heart in the worse way.
@ashleyhill9619 completely understand. I have yet to have children, and a family member of mine got cancer and now cannot have children.
I am so pissed off!! I am still trying to have kids and this little shit calls this poor child a mistake. I hate her so much!!
This baby has awesome grandparents who love him. No words for the mother.
Incubator. Stop calling deadbeats like this "mothers".
Thankfully he has them or who knows where he would be. If he was even alive. That’s the sad truth.
On the other hand they raised her and her sister, records not looking the greatest. Hopefully the babies don’t turn out like their parents.
This women didn’t learn this bad behavior out of thin air
I want to know where the baby daddy at
I’ve raised my granddaughter with no support from either parent she just turned 18 still lives with been working for two years and saved and bought her own car and pays her own car insurance and phone I feel blessed
Great raising thanks grandparents
Good on you!
Thanks I really feel thankful
im about to turn 18 and i went through the same thing except it’s just my grandma. she doesn’t have a good job because of health so i’ve learned how to budget and take responsibility. grandparents are such a blessing and i am so thankful i have my grandma to prepare me for my own adult life. i guarantee your granddaughter will always love appreciate how you impacted her life ❤️
@@reaghanmartin6018 thank you so much, I know she does she takes care of her Nana and I’m so proud of her and I’m proud of you for taking care of your grandma Good luck and God Bless
I work in social services. The amount of grandparents who care for their grandkids in situations like this is crazy. It’s amazing but it’s craZy.
Where I grew up almost half the kids I grew up with were raised by their grandparents or aunts.
That cycle has to be broken. My kids know that they cycle will break with their mom and I. We are raising all four of them and when the last one moves out, the world will by my wife and I’s for the taking.
My aunt did social services work…. You are appreciated… she would come home and cry and tell us about all the kids in bad homes and how the only thing she could was remove them and then they would just go back or that even though they knew the state wouldn’t really give them enough support or resources… she was always so sad… she wanted to adopted all the kids… it’s not easy work…
I always wondered how that happens so often. After watching lots of Judge Vonda B, I'm starting to see.
its their fault for ruining their own children's childhoods.
A 6-month-old baby boy that she dumped at 1 week old and considers him a mistake? The ego and entitlement are on an unbelievable scale.
I'm speechless of her dumbest. So many grandparents raising their grandchildren
a week old baby should be breast fed, right? genuine question. how are they raising the baby? by formulas?
“Did u have something to say? I heard u mumbling”
“Oh no I had something in my throat”
“I bet you do”
😂😂😂😂 how can i put myself in the audience?!!!! I love this show!!
😭😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
That’s why she said that’s not appropriate I had missed it omg 😂
Do I need to say it louder??!!🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Right! I want to sit in the front row😁
I’m 18 years old. My mom had me at 14 while at school walking the track at P.E, raised me throughout high school, graduated, raised me to be a Division 1 football recruit and became a licensed pharmacy technician on her own. Also is doing a fabulous with my sister. Watching this made me appreciate my mother 30x more.
Please tell her while you still have her 🥲
14 year olds having babies is insane!
Your mom is my age. I couldn’t even image how tough that was for her. She’s awesome
@BearsEatBeetz it happens. You have no right to judge. She persevered through her circumstances and didn't let them mess up her life. What have you done lately? Smh🤦♀️
I don’t care what I go through in life I will NEVER deny my children my time or my love!
Your awesome mom
My daughter is my life! The only one I carried after 3 miscarriages. It would be a blessing if she could not carry another child she is to selfish! Our child grew to be a talented and loving person. Her first was stillborn. That young lady doesn’t how fortunate she is to be able to carry a child with a healthy delivery. Thank God that little boy has Grandparents!!!!
@@prettybabyelephant6161 I'm so happy that you finally got a daughter got really blessed you. I hope that your daughter will give you the respect that you deserve
Agreed! I WOULD NEVER EVER DENY MY CHILDREN FOR NOTHING. I love my kids more than my own life and I will do anything for my kids. Lord Jesus… this girl needs serious prayers. I feel so sorry for her child. She’s lucky she has good grandparents who cares.
@@mikeenyart I’m truly blessed as my daughter does appreciate anything and everything she is blessed with!
I cant and never will understand how people have children and throw them away a child is such a blessing no matter how bad a day you've had when you get home and see that precious smile it makes you forget about all your problems
While a child would be a blessing for someone who *wants to have a child*, it is not for everyone. I would hold a grudge against a kid I would have. I’m gender non conforming, and the amount of gender dysmorphia I would have being pregnant would never be worth it. Plus I do not want kids. Add to that that I struggle to financially and mentally care for myself sufficiently. I would never be able to care for a kid.
However, I have a 7 year old nephew that I would move heaven and earth for to make sure he is healthy, happy, and safe. Still doesn’t change my mind about kids.
Children are just as much a burden as they are a blessing. Not everyone wants to be a parent. If you believe this, you understand why we need safe and legal abortion and a society that supports terminating a pregnancy over raising a child you hate.
I’m kinda glad this shows that it’s not just the fathers who are deadbeats. The moms can be deadbeats too and sometimes worse. God bless these grandparents.
Grandparents are a blessing, I can’t believe that “mother” calling her son a mistake, that’s just shameful.
Yes, you literally took the words right out of my mouth.
Totally agree!
Many many many deadbeat women! And many many more abused men…. The problem is who is going to believe them.. even when the child is with them most people don’t see the mom as a bad mom they see her as overworked…. Just such a double standard
I really like this judge. She never loses her temper even when dealing with some of these “entitled” moms.
She is a good judge!!
My husband and I fought for 10 years to have a baby. 10 years in hospital and out of hospital. I am watching this while my healthy 6 month old baby girl is sleeping. This episode breaks my heart.
Congratulations, seriously🙌🏼
I am so happy you got your baby-finally. Congratulations!! That must be very frustrating seeing someone like this piece of trash procreating!!!!!
Congratulations !
Congratulations. Years of love and joy ahead for your family. ❤
Took us seven years to have our first
Grandparents are incredible never take them for granted
I never wanted kids, but once I had my daughter, I’ve never loved someone as much as I love her. I can’t IMAGINE calling her a mistake or not being in her life
They ALL say that 😂
@@LilMiszNikki808 it’s true
Same here, I cried when I found out my ex was pregnant, I thought my life was over. But as soon as I saw her heartbeat on the ultrasound I never went back, I even had another with her
My relationship failed, my career in the navy ended over that, she took them to another state with her new partner and it’s crazy hard seeing them, I’ve struggled badly over all the fallout related to my kids but nothing would ever make me say I regret them, they’re just so amazing, the best thing that ever happened to me
What is wrong with the mother?
@@johnnytower6169 wow I’m sorry that happened. I don’t know her side of everything but no one should keep their kids from their parent of either sex, unless there is abuse. I hope you have some kind of visitation. If not, fight for it. My husband went through a lot with his sons in NY because we are in GA, but now they they’re old enough to leave when they want, they know it wasn’t their dads fault that they could see them. I hope things get better for you and the kids.
@@lanalovesjesus6133 I try and fly them over during school holidays and make multiple phone calls every week. It’s heartbreaking when families split but we can only do the best we can. I really appreciate the kind words though, thank you
What a horrible example of a mother. She didn't show a shred of love or care for that child. More power to the grandparents who willingly took him in. As sad as it is to say, I believe he will be better off without someone like her in his life.
This chick - children = my sister’s attitude.
@@patricia1333 if this woman never had a kid then her attitude wouldn't have been a problem, granted she's an entitled narcissist. But she decided to carry that child to term and then abandon it. That is the real problem.
These women out here catching babies n not taking care of them. If they didn't want the responsibility they should take precautions or keep their legs closed all together.
@@aaliyahmarshalleck5536 yeah birth control is too common nowadays to have any excuse. Granted nothing is 100% effective, but if you're on the pill and use a condom there is almost no chance of anything unwanted happening. But she was messing around with a married man anyway, so I imagine neither of them had any sense.
So everyone here knows these are all actors right?
I feel like father of the year after watching this. I'm gonna hug my little boys for an extra second or two tonight. Little boys need their mommies and daddies.
me too, i feel like after watching how kids can be so unloved... it makes me hug my sons a little tighter.
Same here my son is a blessing, I can admit I had him by the wrong man but I would never regret my child EVER, I love him with everything in me
Wow and ur proud of that this makes u feel like father of the year thats a pretty low bar
Amazing grandparents. Beautiful and kind and so caring. Shame on their daughter!
She just said her son was a mistake, and the judge knows that her son will one day see this! SMH!
Unfortunately
I declare myself addicted to this show...and I don't even have children...Ms Vonda is the best and mega carismatic...
Me too. I wish I had found it sooner.
I struggled with infertility for years and was never able to have children, it’s heartbreaking to see situations like this!
I so relate. Our first took seven years and multiple rounds of IVF
Same here ladies. Im exactly 40 and am being talked into IVF. No thank you, the good Lord didn’t want me to have any and it’s partly my fault but I see this and think 🤔 why don’t I adopt?
@@deemart7397 it’s not a fault issue. Only you can decide what you want to do. It took multiple rounds of IVF for me and it’s not fun. Adoption is also difficult though. We have friends who did foster adopt. One if the kids recovered well from the trauma. The other one is going to need therapy for life. I suggest looking at orphanages in south or Central America. That way nobody will come back later and take your kid away. That happened to a couple in Missouri and we decided we couldn’t adopt in the USA. The judge overturned the finalized adoption. They had her from newborn to age two. Mom lied and had not told bio dad. After that - I would never advise someone to adopt in the United States
@tillytoad804: That is tragedy of life: People who are well educated, mentally, socially and emotionally fit can’t physically have children whereas people who can breed like cats are unfit to be parents.
She could’ve given that baby to somebody who wanted one
“ well, if I have to pay y’all, I’m not coming to see him no more you can pick time or money” was probably the saddest sentence I’ve ever heard of Parent say. She felt like going to see her baby was such a chore that it was as good as giving them cash..
This is a great example of how you can't always blame the parents. These grandparents are clearly great, wonderful and caring people. I'm sure they did the best in raising their children. But those girls were negatively influenced by other people or factors.
You can blame the grandparents, they went soft on a whore daughter
That's what the parents are there for to make sure that othere factors don't effect there kids especially at 16. Parents are there to teach and protect their kids to be contributing memeber of society.
They could have been great now but maybe they weren't when they where raising there own kids.
The internet
Theyre the kind of parents that never let them feel the consequences hence why their daughters are like this
This can’t be real, can it? I just can’t imagine anyone responding the way she’s responding. The audacity. Both their daughters are wild af
Dad is that you? Finally back from the store for cigarettes?
It's not usual, but yeah people like this exist.
The Entitled Generation...
@@waltercoleman7250 The same generation your kind raised?
@@codysmith1915 I'm back for good this time buddy
Her mom isn't jealous of her, the daughter is jealous of her sibling.
Okay !
The entire family is disfunctional, to include the parents. It wouldn't surprise me that these parents allowed or condoned a family environment where respect and accountability were in short supply, as were fairness and equal treatment and punishment between the now adult sibling daughter's.
I can tell just from this brief interaction and the cattyness that the wife here has a sister-daughter dynamic relationship with her kids, and the husband either couldn't or wouldn't regulate and enforce proper discipline in that household for both his daughters AND his wife. My ex-wife has the same issue with her kids, my now adult stepdaughter's; they speak with complete irreverence to and about their mother as well, and have the same sense of entitlement that momma should carry all their baggage, because momma has always shown them and told them she would do so most of their life. Now that she's hit middle age, she thinks they should suddenly detach from the teet she's allowed them to remain on for far too long, and respect her as a mother. It doesn't work that way.
I'm dumbfounded with the lack of respect and manners of the people coming to this court....😮
Yes, it always leaves me absolutely speechless every time.
“It’s my name on the check, they don’t need to know how much money I get”
GIRL!! It’s your name on the birth certificate too! They don’t need to raise your kid either.
I’ve never been so disgusted with a human
I had my 1st daughter at 19 and was 1 year into college. You make it work. I didn’t really have any help because both of my parents passed away by 18. My husband’s parents were always “busy”. But I made it work and my husband was my support. I know many single moms that have busted their butt to support their children
Exactly. I had my 1 and only child at 21. I worked and went to school while pregnant with her. Jumped right back into school full time when she was 4 months. I'm currently working full time, doing school and running a business all while attending to my now 6 year old daughter. I graduate with my Bachelors next year and then I'm off to medical school. I didn't make excuses, I just did it. And congrats to you, I'm proud of you.💜
@@TheScienceNerddAkemi that’s absolutely amazing! Congratulations on your accomplishments as well. Your doing amazing and I’m proud of you !!!
@@Sweetpeakc627 Thank you so much!! I wasn't expecting such a fast reply, lol.😅 You're awesome!
@@TheScienceNerddAkemi I happened to be on UA-cam lol
@@Sweetpeakc627 Good timing then, lol!
I just got chills of pure hatred for the daughter after calling her baby a mistake and saying if she could take it back she would. As a result of the system, I was lucky enough to be born and have a happy and well-earned life due to hard work and perseverance. Hearing what she said makes me weep for her child.
I had my daughter right after highschool, in the middle of my first year of college. I never thought of her as a mistake. She is my joy and my inspiration to be a better person. She is my everything. This woman made me cry. But you know what, if a woman says these kind of things she is probably going to do more damage than good for her kid so best that she stays away.
As someone who works with kids and wants kids of my own, seeing people who call their own children a mistake, or say they're too much work hurt me deeply.
Yesssss Judge! "I'm not going to mistake these child support numbers." Lol
Hahaha....That was so on point...
my favorite part😭
I just about died laughing LMAOOO
DOFL.. I almost spit out my blunt lol
Judge Vonda B. knows how to stay on top of things in the most delightful way. "Slow and steady wins the race."
"I had something in my throat."
"Mmhmm, I bet you did.."
*Lmfoooo*
Yes, I was rolling. The. look on his face when he said it! 🤣🤣🤣
Oh yes im dying while laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If she was taking things in" her throat "! She would not be in this situation......
savage lmfaoooooo
I hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I got pregnant with my child a few weeks after I turned 18, his dad turned out to be a deadbeat and I have never had help from him physically nor financially other than the rare occasional visit in the first 5 years and a small amount of forced child support that he did not pay consistently(maybe 500 total over 13 years). I had already graduated high school and unfortunately had to drop out of college. Everything was a hard struggle with minimum-wage jobs, being young, and no help but never had I ever regretted having my child. He is my reason for living, my entire world. I don't understand ppl who regret their babies or abandon them. Makes me sick, get your tubes tied or a vasectomy if you don't want to be responsible for a life that you created.
Good for you on what you did and making it. I do admit that there are people who are not ready and to keep the child would be a mistake (and getting pregnant is often unplanned and could be considered a mistake). I have no problem with that.
What bothers me is why she did not contact any of the adoption agencies. They all have people waiting for the chance to adopt and care for and raise a baby into adulthood. No reason to burden the grandparents. That child could have been legally adopted in days and the mothers parental rights and responsibilities legally over; and someday the mother could tell the child that she made the best decision for the child that she could at the time with total honesty.
There are many stories of adoptive children meeting their birth mothers years later and both parties are very happy about how it turned out.
Thank god my parents were grateful. I was taken at 3/4 due to their drug issues and have lived with my nana ever since. Grandparents have ZERO legal obligation for their grandchildren anything they decide to do is a blessing. I’m not even religious but god bless these grandparents and others like them
She said she left her child with her parents because they did such a good job raising her yet she’s sitting there so disrespectful forwards them LMAOOO
That's the bitter irony. She was being sarcastic with that comment, it just sounded like a zinger to her to claim that as a lame justification to pawn off her newborn baby to them. The adult daughter's disrespect and behavior as well as the only other adult daughter of the couple are prime examples that they did not do a good job of raising their own children who grew to have children who they are doing an even worse job raising.
The wife's hair & weave flicking and cattiness with this daughter in the courtroom are telltale signs of the poor relationship and discipline exhibited in that household.
This is the common young blk women.
@@michaelsnipper6336 Don’t Bring Race Into This
ago
@ Monica Parker why not?? You seem like you on that ratchet FNF sh💩 ttt…if that’s your profile picture. I feel for the black boys looking for blk women bc young women like yourself are for the pookies and ray rays. Once you’re done having your 304 phase then can’t find a man then say ain’t no good blk men out here. This is the typical masculine energy that most blk women Bring to the table. Nobody can tell blk women Nothing
I believe that was sarcasm 🤣
“Oh did you not hear me??? Want me to say it a little louder????”
God I love this judge! No nonsense and give these entitled people what they need to hear!
Shameless!!! The audacity of that woman doing that to her parents as if it's their responsibility.
My mother always reminded me how much she regretted having me and my sister, it took over a decade of therapy with my husband to stop believing it. I hope that baby gets all the love he deserves.
@osama bin laden thank you very much
So sorry . 😢😢😢. You are not a mistake, and you are valuable.
You are not a mistake nor a regret, you are worthy of love
I am glad you are a part of this world.
I really love how the judge always takes a sip of her "tea" when tea is getting spilled. Hahahaha
That’s what i thought.
The moment of shock on that womans face, realizing she will have to pay back the parents... Priceless
"If it ain't got that swing, it don't mean a thing."
It’s people like her that never needed a child 💯
I went to nursing school, raised 2 kids, worked and handled my business as a single mom and now they are grown and living their best lives.
Except the no father thing, huh?
@@Retro_Fan And you having one yet makes you act like you ain't got one with this behavior?
@@Retro_Fan shut it with your terrible attitude
What my grandmother did. She worked for a Dr who was willing to pay for his employees to go to college and she became a nurse and raised 3 kids. Eventually worked for a big hospital after he retired. One day years after she retired the hospital called to ask her what she wanted to do with her $35,000 401K. She repaired her home, replaced her roof, and paid off her debts. She lived comfortably the rest of her days. I miss her. She was always my champion.
Same here
She had the nerve to say, "Be grateful" at the end🤨. I can't help but wonder if they made things way too easy for their kids growing up. This looks like a perfect example of what happens when kids are admitted to grow up without any accountability
Yep!
The grandparents were saying sum out of poket stuff too they need to fix there relationship
I would never call a child a mistake. I've had 2 miscarriages and now I have a 3 month son. I love him with all my heart, and I never let him out of my sight. He means the world to me. I can't believe women like her exist.
Horrible that they do .My mother, despite a judge being present would have jumped over my dad to get to me , to slap me in the head for my behavior! I wouldn't let her anywhere near that baby .
Hey, some kids are mistakes.
That doesn't mean they are bad mistakes.
I was never meant to be, but having me saved my father's life. A mistake isn't a bad thing.
With that being said, this woman should absolutely NOT be allowed around that child, and the child shouldn't even know she exists.
Oh, and THANK YOU to the grandparents for loving that baby!❤️❤️
Her first statement calling her baby a mistake put me in tears
“It was a mistake”
Some women don’t deserve to have children.
Give this women child support. If not, get CPS on the line 🤦🏾♂️ This makes me sad
Woman like me having fertility issues😓😓 not able to have children unless I get Ivf and she says this about her child
@@nicolejayy it’s very sad. Both of their children think they can just drop their children off. How is that ok? I’m very sorry to hear about your situation.
I feel like the parents didn’t ask for back pay, Vonda had to make an example of this horrible mother
You made a mistake by calling her a mother, she just bred.
They did request it. It has to be requested in the petition paperwork otherwise she can’t bring it up
They definitely didn't ask before hand 😩😂
Love you judge. Fair verdict. These kids who call themselves grown-up need to really grow up and take responsibility
I was a single mom at 18, full time in college, and living on my own. She needs to be responsible for her son. She was old enough to know what could have come from her actions. That poor baby boy.
GrandParents: We want to Travel.
The so called mother: well Take him with you ....OMG HER AUDACITY😡
Children are NEVER mistakes. They are a gift from God. Kudos to these grandparents for loving this child and raising them.
Hmmm maybe
Absolutely love this judge. Sipping on her tea and keeping it 💯 all the time
Much love for these grandparents
I hope that kid grows up with people that love him and that he prospers through life
“What you made was a mistake, the baby is not a mistake.” Grandmother said great sentence
How do you treat the people you love like this? I'm 63 my mother died 3 years ago and I am still devastated by it. My mom helped me a lot when I was injured and a single mother. When she asked me to move 250 miles to help her as she aged, I did. I made sure my children were okay with it and I moved up there when my youngest went to college. Did I do it because I owed her? No did I do it because I loved her and would do anything I could to help her? Yes, because that's what you do with family. I had family that was within 20 miles of her and more financially secure than I am but helping her was too much for them. Because of my own health issues I did not see my mother for the last two and a half years of her life. I got to the hospital in time to hold her hand for the last 5 minutes of her life. She was unconscious.
Even when I was injured and a single parent I did not PAWN my children off to my parents. My parents are my family and if I needed their help I would have asked for it. No one should just abandon their child and call that child a mistake.
What angers me the most is that there are so many people desperate to have a child and Miss Paul just pretty much throws her own child away. I’m so happy to see the grandparents step up but it’s not fair to them.
At least she didn't abortion him.
I wish I could have my kids I raised my son as a single mom he's grown I couldn't have kids after him and see her acting like this
@@ninaappelt9001 abort
Imagine the heartbreak that kid will have after watching this vid years later. I wish the best for that kid with his grandparents
My oldest sister did this to me when I was 12. She left my 2 week old nephew with me and my mom before disappearing for years (still don’t really see her), and it was really hard at first, but we’re honestly so happy about it now. Like it wasn’t a great situation, but I wouldn’t trade it for a million doll hairs. I now have the best little brother in the world, and I just know he’s going to do awesome things in life.
AMEN
A million doll hairs😂😂😂😂😂😂
How can the grandparents be such great people, and have kids like this.
Judge Vonda is always so classy and doesn’t cuss at all but I haven’t seen her THIS mad…I love her
This makes me feel like I'm great dad. Im broke asf but I'm always here for my son. He tells me how thankful he is all the time but I feel so bad I can't provide enough for him but damn. I give him my time and try to be the best father I can. This makes me so sick
God bless you brother
Big props to you keep up the good work
@@babygirl92683 thank you so much and I hope you have a merry Christmas 🌲
Love and time are far more important than material stuff.
@@wl660 you are so right
Could the grandparents serve the father as well? I’d like to see that play out lol
They don't even know who the father is she said he was married
I would like to see that too... actually think her husband might end up paying child support too in some states 😳
Ik in South Carolina you can serve both parents but that would be really good to seeee
Well if they did that the father would have the option to take custody of the child from the grandparents.
Me too. Bring the wife!
“I had something in my throat” “I bet you did” had me dead😂💀
i didn't catch it at first!
No Diddy....or...... nevermind
Not ok for a father to say that, even if it's true.
@@kez755 there's no filter when a father knows her daughter is trifling.
In private fine, public shaming and laughing at her is cruel, and a good indicator as to why the parents and daughter don't get along. Don't get me wrong, the daughter needs to woman up and take care of her own baby.@@Fleezy81
I hope her son becomes a great man despite his mom's lack of love for him. I hope that he becomes successful and shows his gratitude towards his grandparents and when his mom slithers her way back into his life, I hope that he is wise enough to know how to deal with her.
I really like the temperament you bring to the courtroom and how you handle these outrageous people while keeping an accurate account of the important details of each case. It is also refreshing to see those deadbeats have to pay up and take responsibility for their own actions. I don't usually watch courtroom videos, but when I do, I really enjoy watching people get their just rewards. Your a great 👍 judge!
I am so glad I get to see my kids every single day. I could not imagine not being in their lives and having influence on the people they grow up to be.
That's why every kid deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a kid.
the amount of respect i have for you in insane. you ARE truly out there for true justice and everything is in the interest of the kids
You could hear the hurt in that grandmama voice when she said her baby was a mistake. These are the greatest grandparents those kids could ever have
Grandma playing with those curls is crazy making!
That was getting on my last nerves too
@@NoNonsense1 How does someone do their hair like that, look in the mirror and go “Damn! I look great!”?
@@MrsEJV the way she kept messing with it, she probably was like "I can't believe I came on camera looking like this"😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Exactly I tried to tell her through my tv to stop playing with that new doo.But she not hearing me.🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol leave grandma alone she feeling her self in her red hair gone granny with the curls
I hope that this baby knows how much his grandparents have done for him!
Oh my goodness, I am so shocked that anyone would leave their new born baby like that. regardless of whether it was a mistake or not.
Not all parents are attached to thier child. This is how some of them can give birth and never see the baby.
And this is why abortion should be cheaper and more legal, luckily this baby is taken care of by grandparents who love him, but for the thousands of babies stuck in the system for years just to turn out as dysfunctional adults should be a crime in itself because they never chose that life awe I’m adopted into a loving family and I’ve met my biological family and I would never survive that type of home environment omg so crazy to see though!
Ostrich they bury their eggs in the sand..forget where and step on them..And kill their eggs some females nowadays..sad
If I ever spoke to my parents like that even at that age, I would be going to an orthodontist for new teeth and a priest for last rites!!
I'm 63 and if I spoke to my 85 year old mom like that I'd be smacked into the next time zone.
@@szqsk8 Facts.
Great day to say, adoption is wonderful choice in these situations. Speaking as an adoptee and birth mom.
I knew I couldn't raise my kid, so I chose open adoption. My parents get to act like grandparents because of this. It's the best choice I've ever made.
I commend you. It can’t be an easy decision. There’s a huge difference in giving your child a better life through adoption vs. abandoning your child out of convenience. One is selfless, the other is selfish.
I was abandoned by my birth mother and then adopted as a kid by my first step dad's parents. giving your kid up for adoption really ain't that different than just straight up abandoning them. and you're fooling yourself thinking otherwise. you should have manned up and taken care of your responsibilities. not foisted it upon someone else. now you've got a kid out there. a life you brought into this world. and one day they're gonna know you gave them away. and that's gonna mess with that kid. I ain't saying it wasn't the best choice for the baby though. people like you shouldn't be raising kids. you'd do better to just keep your legs closed.
@@Copeandseethe822 She could have aborted the child or given him/her an even more f-d up life even if she tried. I’m a single mother that decided to keep mine/not receiving assistance. I don’t regret my decision and as someone that “manned up” it’s hard AF to rise to the occasion of providing the life I feel he deserves alone but that was MY decision. I hear your frustration and it’s likely valid for your situation but to take it out on this woman for sharing her story respectfully just shows you need more healing about YOUR situation. She blessed that family with a child that they may have prayed for and the child is in contact with her and her family (open adoption) Families come in different forms; this child’s family is just extended. Heal dear.
@@angeleyes3386 at least with an abortion the only person that suffers is the woman. But nah, you'd rather the kid suffer. And she can now live guilt free and make as many selfish choices she wants. Love the logic. I've got four kids. I couldn't imagine just giving them away or defending someone who makes the choice to abandon their children. But I guess morality is subjective like that.
Every freaking day for the last 22yrs I have lived n saddened and regret that my daughter was not only kept from me and given back to my lord I see things like this really gets to me because these people get to love on a child that is newly discovering what the lord has made and refuse to careless about it if I ever get blessed to be a father again I would give my life to make sure they live theirs your honor I love that you can keep your composure with some of these people because I would scream their skin off their bodies lol I applaud you greatly
I had my kid at 18 years old idc how old you are or how hard things are you dont abandon your children. You brought a life into the world that cant defend itself cant feed itself you need to be responsible for your actions and your family
Preach girl. I had my first at 19 now I’m 32 with 5 kids and they are my whole life.
I pray that her child doesn’t see this when he is older… imagine how unloved and how heartbreaking it would be to hear your own mother say that you were a mistake…
That’s no mother. Kudos Judge for your incredible professionalism. I can’t imagine holding back lighting into garbage a**.
I wanted a baby soooo bad, and after many hospital and doctor visits and various medical procedures, we were blessed with a sweet little girl! but due to many physical problems during pregnancy, we were assured that it would definitely be better for my body not to want to have a second child. but of course our hearts really wanted another child. So I would have taken her baby from her...in a heartbeat! How ungrateful to treat her child, the most precious thing you can have in your life, this way. The three of us are very happy, and we are grateful for the blessing. Without a doubt, God has had His plan, and that is good!
Just What a lovely couple of grandparents they have heart for miles and we know they still love their daughters. You can see that’s just the way they are ! Good people
The total disregard for any responsibility for her actions and disregard for her parents! These grandparents are to sweet!
“congrats on graduating high school”
grand mama: a year later 🥱😴😩😭😭😭
I’m sorry but the granny had me absolutely rolling this episode, please Judge V make her a co judge or something 😂😂
I love this judge!!!!! YOUR ARE AMAZING YOUR HONOR😁😁😁😌💪👍
These are getting longer, I like that. Just started watching though.
I listen to each of you wanting longer episodes so it’s all for you guys!😁❤️
@@JudgeVondaB These are starting to hit too close to home for me cause my mom bailed for good when I was 5.
You are going to love it. I never miss an episode seen one time and was hooked. Wish it were 30 mins
@@foramoreperfectamerica8490 I’m sorry to hear that.😔
@@JudgeVondaB please sign to be on tv your a great judge
I’m speechless and I’m never speechless…..thank goodness this baby has the grandparents….🙏🏽
@@Joel-pg4yi I want to laugh at your comment but I’m not sure I should! 🤦🏽♀️
@@crystalyana9533 yeah you laugh if you heartless and evil it was not meant to be a joke
@@Joel-pg4yi I apologize!! I wasn’t sure!! The last time someone said something similar to your comment it was a joke!! I’m truly sorry!!
@@crystalyana9533 its fine. Don't worry about it
This girl really said if I could take it back I would people make mistakes. I’m getting teary-eyed because her kids gonna grow up one day and find this. What a sad human being
How can you call a little baby boy a mistake and just leave? And then expect no consequences for your actions? Bless those grandparents that jumped into that role when they didn’t have to.