@@infiniteepoch8He doesn’t really seem confused at all. In fact, he’s actually very clear about his sexuality. He is straight, but if he just so happens to find himself attracted to a man, he wouldn’t deny himself that attraction. That just hasn’t happened as of yet.
He is Dutch. The Dutch are very straight forward. For me it's not a problem (did it many times) to just ask someone who I met if he's straight or gay. I have several straight friends, who join me to gay parties. Actually my best straight friend himself, would say „Let's go to a gay pub" whenever he is bored in a straight venue. So we go there, with his girlfriend. Many straight friends tend gay venues, since there is little to non testosteron (violence). Btw, one doesn't fall in love with a gender but with a personality. During my military a straight crush on me. His first; initiatives were his entirely. Unfortunately later on, he refused to see me for years.
@@ultimatewarrior659You don't say anything, you just smile and nod with varying degrees of enthusiasm and every now and then you say "yeah" and "I know, right".....and they'll just keep going and going.
@@mustlovebooknerdpretty sure he's saying he's straight but if somehow one day he finds a man he actually could fall in love with he would be open to it.
@@Jojoroe You do realize you don't have to be currently in love with someone, dating someone, or literally in the middle of having sex with someone of the same sex to be queer, right? If you're admitting you're open to loving or dating someone of the same sex in the future, you're either not straight or you're saying it for attention.
@@mustlovebooknerd ? I didn't say you couldn't. But he totally just means he's straight but if somehow it happens then it's possible. Otherwise, he would've said he's Bi. Which is not what he said. You don't feel what he feels so you can only go off what he said. Stop saying things based on how you feel or what you think is right. He himself said he's straight whether you believe it or not is another story or whether he was lying or unaware or not is also another story.
@@JojoroeWell then he should've said "I'm straight but I wouldn't care if I realized later in life that I was bi." Why you saying "I'm open to falling for a man in the future" if you're not actually open to falling for a man?
Omg not he’s not “undefined” any more than someone that admits they’re gay or straight is. Saying you’re gay or straight doesn’t “define” you either, if you mean it’s some big cosmic limitation or something. He’s just bisexual and was a bit unsure or thought he was gay and now he considers himself straight. He clearly considers his “time being gay” as just a confused time in his life due to how low he was in his life at the time and that he latched on to some gay friends’ “fabulous” lifestyle, or at least that’s how he’s explaining that time “being gay”. He may change his mind tomorrow again, too. Anyone might.
@@aalvarez2914 exactly. If anything he sounds confused. And by the way he is self defined as ( straight)! I guess he's not open minded after all( according to thomasvanyrsbar)!
As a bi myself, I believe in the theory that there are shades of bisexuality... Some bis are more into women and others are more into men... There are times I feel no attraction to one or another. And that's OK. Maybe it's his case, he just don't consider himself as bi - or pan - and it's OK, it's up to him, you know? The fact that he's open to the possibility to have something with men, with no prejudice... Get my applause
Yep. Living in the Netherlands for so long now that’s then typical mentality of people here/ they waaaaay far from the rest of the world when it comes to feeling comfortable with themselves not with that the norms are.
We are brainwashed into thinking sexuality is black and white but nothing could be further from the truth if you’re really present & allow yourself to be in the present moment with every person anything could happen. But this society wants us to label ourselves and put ourselves into a tiny little box and be anything but present. My 2 cents :)
Sounds like he found love and acceptance in the gay scene and his people which is lovely tbh. He doesn't really identify with being gay or bi. He says I am straight but open minded which means maybe he dabbles haha. But yeah ask him sober 😂😂😂
I love that he says he’s straight but open minded to says he could fall in love with a man. I’ve known many lgbtq couples where one was straight and said their partner was the exception.
100% true and there is alot of Indigenous stories like this where one is Straight and the other one is Gay or even Bi. I think people put Sexuality too much in a Box, Let people be if they are straight then they are straight let's not label people who don't want to have another label than that or don't want one in general sometimes love breaks boundaries including Sexual Orientations and that's simply it.
I know that I am a man who is strictly attracted to men period. This was eye opening, to see how some people arrive at being attracted to both men and women.
He’s not rly saying that he is attracted to both tho? He’s saying he’s straight - but that life sometimes has a way of turning out to be so different from what we sometimes expect to be possible… and that for all he knows, maybe he could end up in love with a guy, even though he believes he’s straight That’s diff from being bi… I’ve met ppl who think like this, but I’m more in your way of thinking - I would expect space ships to land on my building tomorrow before I could expect my orientation to change!
❤ I'm a straight girl but when I was 12 I fell in love with my friend who was a girl. And now I only have sexual attraction towards men. People have called me bisexual for that but I don't feel that term suits me because it just happened once in my life and I've never experienced sexual attraction towards women only towards men. So I just consider myself straight.
Haha! Actually, it is problematic to have someone like him. As friends, no problem but when it comes to intimate relationship, he will just give you disappointment. You need sureness in that aspect.
That is very possible even if people laugh. In some moment in my life i thought i was gay (still don't know if i was🙂) and that just ruinned my life till now. My terapist made me realise i probably never were (i even prayed not to be) but my mind tricked me into thinking that. I probably just lack some social skills with girls😅.
So, you define yourself as a "non-labeler" which is a label in itself. Ay ay ay. If you are a man, and you like men, that is homosexuality which comes from the word "homo" as in "homogeneous." It's not a label, it's a classification. At the grocery store, we group milk, cheese, and yogurt in the DAIRY section. The breads, pastries, and deli in the BAKERY and DELI section. The canned goods in the CANNED goods section. The FRUITS in the FRUIT section. So...sweety. Go away
@@MrFunkadeIicOhhhg you're so f*cking funny... calling all gay people fruits whether they're flamboyant or effeminate or not. I guess that makes heter-os vegetables. Go to the coma patient ward, then.
He was straight to begin with. Thought he was gay but realized that he’s straight after all. You usually know as a kid if you’re gonna be straight or gay can’t change it
I don't what he is either. Lol! He didn't say that he's sexually attracted to men or women. So that doesn't make him bi. He doesn't know. He mentioned he's straight and open minded. So be it. Maybe he's asexual? 🤔🤫🫡
@@chloedubois2697yeah straight to gay? I don't know about that! BUT some do go straight to bisexual back to straight OR any combination of sexualities/identities... I see why it's endless with the "gender" (in quotes because it's also a sexuality movement too then?) movement majority are straight for sure. I guess there might be straight to gay. some older men leave their wives because they're gay or were gay all along
@@latinsho11That is not how it works though. He could be fluid/bisexual. Sexuality is on a spectrum. There isn't an on and off switch. He's most likely bisexual leaning more towards women, but still open to men.
Nope, he said he’s str8, that means he’s attracted to girls normally, but he made the reassurance that if he is in love doesnt matter if its girl or a boy, that’s not being bi, it is more like a pansexual that identifies as a str8 guy, but i think he dont want to label himself, he just goes with the vibe
@bizzer1145 str8 means you're attracted to opposite sex (girls in his case) only. Otherwise, he's bisexual or pansexual. Straight doesn't mean he could fall in love with his own sex.
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What matters is, he found a community that accepted him unconditionally for his authentic self.
Isn’t that what the gay community has fought for all of these years?!
I love The Netherlands!
That's total BS. The Gays were probably calling him the biggest mess behind his back. Dont be naive lol.
@@eddietucker7005 let's respect people and their own pace.
Exactly!!! 💯💯💯💯
Yeah the gay community really does welcome anyone unconditionally especially if they are a tall handsome white guy
I think he literally gave us the definition of bisexual.
Of open-minded.
@@htimsidIf you're "open-minded" about your sexuality you're either bi or haven't figured it out yet. I think he hasn't figured it out yet...
Why always pushing people to be classified? He is he!
@@enriqueprivado3269he's also classifying himself as open-minded....and even said straight too.... He did it to himself
@@htimsidyes
He's not gay, he's european
😂👏🏼👏🏼
Large facts 😂
European doesn't exist, it's all bullshit, every country has a different culture and language.
was it an offense though?
Ikr 😂
This guy gets it. No labels, no I want a girl or a guy. He is open to the person he falls in love with to come in any form. Truly Love is Love
@@infiniteepoch8He doesn’t really seem confused at all. In fact, he’s actually very clear about his sexuality. He is straight, but if he just so happens to find himself attracted to a man, he wouldn’t deny himself that attraction. That just hasn’t happened as of yet.
It's not just about love, it's about phisical attraction. Sexual interest it's not a a bad impure thing.
@@infiniteepoch8Is that the way you would describe yourself? Are you all about lust, not love?
@@infiniteepoch8 I'd agree with that. Love, to me, is far deeper.
@@raywright8226 Cause you are sexuophobic like everyone saying "they love someone not their gender".
Okay but can we talk about how kind this guy is?! He’s the type of person just talk to about anything and they won’t judge you. What a rare human!
He is Dutch. The Dutch are very straight forward. For me it's not a problem (did it many times) to just ask someone who I met if he's straight or gay. I have several straight friends, who join me to gay parties.
Actually my best straight friend himself, would say „Let's go to a gay pub" whenever he is bored in a straight venue. So we go there, with his girlfriend. Many straight friends tend gay venues, since there is little to non testosteron (violence).
Btw, one doesn't fall in love with a gender but with a personality.
During my military a straight crush on me. His first; initiatives were his entirely. Unfortunately later on, he refused to see me for years.
Yeah, we need more people like him
he just said he became straight after he got his mental health corrected. that means he says being gay is the inverse of good mental health
Come to the Netherlands, a lot of people here are like him. Also with the bad english accent 😂
@@ArthurHale I love his accent! Plus he's super cute!
what a beautiful man
You look like king julian of madagascar.
@@leae3750that's quite specific
Bro really said “I thought I was gay but turns out I was just mentally unwell” 💀💀
....is that what he said?
🤣 might as well be
@@mr1m020 Lesson: Are the Straights™️ OK? No.
And there in is the truth of the matter.
That guy is bisexual. He was straight, then gay, then straight and now he's 'open'. He said he can fall in love with a guy or girl.
The type of person you could talk with for hours and not notice the hours flying by.
What would you talk to him about?
@@ultimatewarrior659You don't say anything, you just smile and nod with varying degrees of enthusiasm and every now and then you say "yeah" and "I know, right".....and they'll just keep going and going.
Now let’s have him answer the same question when he is sober.
Literally 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
He’s definitely super awake !!
Let's just let him live his life. He seems like an awesome person.
😂😂😂 he lived it fully
chaotic bi homie gets help by gay bros.
But on a serious note, stuff like that happen all the time.
He seems genuine and I'm guessing he's saying he's into the person and not the gender. Good for him!
Which would make him...not straight, though. LOL!
@@mustlovebooknerdpretty sure he's saying he's straight but if somehow one day he finds a man he actually could fall in love with he would be open to it.
@@Jojoroe You do realize you don't have to be currently in love with someone, dating someone, or literally in the middle of having sex with someone of the same sex to be queer, right? If you're admitting you're open to loving or dating someone of the same sex in the future, you're either not straight or you're saying it for attention.
@@mustlovebooknerd ? I didn't say you couldn't. But he totally just means he's straight but if somehow it happens then it's possible. Otherwise, he would've said he's Bi. Which is not what he said. You don't feel what he feels so you can only go off what he said. Stop saying things based on how you feel or what you think is right. He himself said he's straight whether you believe it or not is another story or whether he was lying or unaware or not is also another story.
@@JojoroeWell then he should've said "I'm straight but I wouldn't care if I realized later in life that I was bi." Why you saying "I'm open to falling for a man in the future" if you're not actually open to falling for a man?
He is neither straight nor gay he is just high af 😂😂😂 this guy is definitely on something 😅
he is undefined and open minded beautiful
So are gay or straight people not open minded! 😢 Lol
Quite the opposite actually (ugly)
Omg not he’s not “undefined” any more than someone that admits they’re gay or straight is. Saying you’re gay or straight doesn’t “define” you either, if you mean it’s some big cosmic limitation or something. He’s just bisexual and was a bit unsure or thought he was gay and now he considers himself straight. He clearly considers his “time being gay” as just a confused time in his life due to how low he was in his life at the time and that he latched on to some gay friends’ “fabulous” lifestyle, or at least that’s how he’s explaining that time “being gay”. He may change his mind tomorrow again, too. Anyone might.
@@aalvarez2914 exactly. If anything he sounds confused. And by the way he is self defined as ( straight)! I guess he's not open minded after all( according to thomasvanyrsbar)!
As a bi myself, I believe in the theory that there are shades of bisexuality... Some bis are more into women and others are more into men... There are times I feel no attraction to one or another. And that's OK. Maybe it's his case, he just don't consider himself as bi - or pan - and it's OK, it's up to him, you know? The fact that he's open to the possibility to have something with men, with no prejudice... Get my applause
Making stuff up
Confused but straight 😂
The body language is telling another story. I wish him we in his journey
What a marvelous human being.
Yep. Living in the Netherlands for so long now that’s then typical mentality of people here/ they waaaaay far from the rest of the world when it comes to feeling comfortable with themselves not with that the norms are.
And my luck I had to be born in the Appalachian mountains.
He is the definition of a random drunk guy
God bless him every body should be like that. Who cares who you love as long as they’re consenting adults. Love his mind set it’s beautiful
he pretty much said “fuck labels”
What have 'labels' to do with anything. Surely we want an accurate description of the facts - not wilful obscurantism.
We are brainwashed into thinking sexuality is black and white but nothing could be further from the truth if you’re really present & allow yourself to be in the present moment with every person anything could happen. But this society wants us to label ourselves and put ourselves into a tiny little box and be anything but present. My 2 cents :)
Sounds like he found love and acceptance in the gay scene and his people which is lovely tbh. He doesn't really identify with being gay or bi. He says I am straight but open minded which means maybe he dabbles haha. But yeah ask him sober 😂😂😂
The Hand movement is giving
Back-door entry 😂😂😂
To sum it up, he still figuring it out 💀
I need to surround myself with more people like him.
The positive vibes ✨️- awesome 👌!
Jaaa jij wel hè x
Dutch men are stereotypical tall and have long salami sausages.
Lmfao, ich keuche
OMG true 😂😛
Yes but their personality is amazing too
If this is true I'm moving to Amsterdam.
@@JeffRebornNow Jeff, Why do you think both Mike? Chris, and Art are going there?
I know he's really cute and I could listen to him talk all day ❤ love you Art 😊
So basically he's straight but soo special and very annoying about it
Love his open mind
He can open my prune chute in return
open bussy too
So open until it falls to the ground
@@Jahid_nfall onto his bum
@@Jahid_nopen minded people ❤
He is screaming bisexual haha 😆
What an awesome human. We need more like him❣️
He's a nice guy ❤. Been through a lot. Never giving up. Always positive.
I love that he says he’s straight but open minded to says he could fall in love with a man.
I’ve known many lgbtq couples where one was straight and said their partner was the exception.
100% true and there is alot of Indigenous stories like this where one is Straight and the other one is Gay or even Bi. I think people put Sexuality too much in a Box, Let people be if they are straight then they are straight let's not label people who don't want to have another label than that or don't want one in general sometimes love breaks boundaries including Sexual Orientations and that's simply it.
I know that I am a man who is strictly attracted to men period.
This was eye opening, to see how some people arrive at being attracted to both men and women.
He’s not rly saying that he is attracted to both tho? He’s saying he’s straight - but that life sometimes has a way of turning out to be so different from what we sometimes expect to be possible… and that for all he knows, maybe he could end up in love with a guy, even though he believes he’s straight
That’s diff from being bi… I’ve met ppl who think like this, but I’m more in your way of thinking - I would expect space ships to land on my building tomorrow before I could expect my orientation to change!
@@r.j.3040 That was already understood before I wrote my comment, thank you.
❤ I'm a straight girl but when I was 12 I fell in love with my friend who was a girl. And now I only have sexual attraction towards men. People have called me bisexual for that but I don't feel that term suits me because it just happened once in my life and I've never experienced sexual attraction towards women only towards men. So I just consider myself straight.
He's a good guy. 💯
I know him personally…. It’s a no from me babes
Okay. That's a good answer - being open-minded; I like and respect that. 🎉
Didn't have to say he was straight
Great interview, with a good and kind person. With the way he moves his hands and upper body, he could be a stand-in for Captain Jack Sparrow.
He gives Johnny Depp vibes indeed. I noticed that straight away. Lol.
Or Captain Jack Harkness!
i love how he says it right to the camera, "NO, I am *actually straight*" ... okay we believe you.
I want to be his friend ! He seems so kind !!
Oh goodness he’s confused…😂
Haha! Actually, it is problematic to have someone like him. As friends, no problem but when it comes to intimate relationship, he will just give you disappointment. You need sureness in that aspect.
Awe, that’s actually really beautiful. Maybe it’s just the music in the background, but I feel some way about it 🤧
He seems so friendly and welcoming I’m glad he found himself
Dutch people are great!
No
Great interview! He has a bright future, due to his open, and good heart.😎
What a cool guy !! I hope he continues making people smile !
That's sweet. Nice to hear an honest answer.
I think he's still figuring himself out. What he truly is
He learned to open up!
Yes, it is a learned skill. Best to relax...... and use lots of lube. 😁👍😱
Open up his behind.
@@ReducePlastic😂
He is open minded to love ❤ 🎉
Honestly I can really appreciate this, people are always trying to put a label on things. Just let people live their lives
Respect for this man
So him being in a bad mental state made him think he was gay lol
Sounds accurate
That's... Not what he said.
Probably HOCD.
@@onmysecondjourney5510what’s that?
That is very possible even if people laugh. In some moment in my life i thought i was gay (still don't know if i was🙂) and that just ruinned my life till now. My terapist made me realise i probably never were (i even prayed not to be) but my mind tricked me into thinking that. I probably just lack some social skills with girls😅.
He really is just a guy living thru life one day at a time and I respect that.
His tale of his needing help with his mental health is inspiring. ❤😂🎉😊
Then I met some gay friends, so I joined them.😂😂😂😂
Bro really met some gay friends, and said, GANG GANG!! I'm in the LGBTQIA+ Mafia now.😂😂😂😂
Labels, right?
Open minded, and straight is also a label ... People try to forget that
So, you define yourself as a "non-labeler" which is a label in itself.
Ay ay ay. If you are a man, and you like men, that is homosexuality which comes from the word "homo" as in "homogeneous." It's not a label, it's a classification.
At the grocery store, we group milk, cheese, and yogurt in the DAIRY section. The breads, pastries, and deli in the BAKERY and DELI section. The canned goods in the CANNED goods section.
The FRUITS in the FRUIT section. So...sweety. Go away
@@MrFunkadeIic WoW! You got all that about me from 2 words? I'd label you as judgmental.
@@MrFunkadeIicOhhhg you're so f*cking funny... calling all gay people fruits whether they're flamboyant or effeminate or not. I guess that makes heter-os vegetables.
Go to the coma patient ward, then.
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This is why i like being dutch
Were so open
He worked on his mental health and realize he was straight🤣🤣
Nobody is talking about how he said he was gay, then fixed his mental health, and is straight now. Let’s back track
I really don't think thats what he meant. Sounds like a misinterpretation to me.
Yeah it almost sounded like a social experiment. I m confused actually.
So maybe, confused sum it up!
He was straight to begin with. Thought he was gay but realized that he’s straight after all. You usually know as a kid if you’re gonna be straight or gay can’t change it
He said he was in a dark place at first before he found the gay scene.. He worked on his mental health and got of out of the dark place
All European men are just so beautiful..😊🌈👍🏼🔥♥️
You should get out more.
I'm not gay ...that's my boyfriend's job!
His mouth says one thing, his hands are telling me a whole different story.
When you naturally dance on every syllable you speak...yeeeaaaahhh 😂
I don't what he is either. Lol! He didn't say that he's sexually attracted to men or women. So that doesn't make him bi. He doesn't know. He mentioned he's straight and open minded. So be it. Maybe he's asexual? 🤔🤫🫡
I love your whispering! Its so good and relaxing to me
We need more of him!!
What a sweetheart❤
Lovely One!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely People!!!!
He’s gorgeous. Like, absolutely stunning
He worked on his mental health in the gay scene - well good luck with that, we’re not exactly a stable bunch
Nah cap 🧢 the way he talk with his hands, he's not a Dutch, he's Italian
Stop stereotypes
Aww bless him and hope for the best on his journey 😊
Oh Gosh, what do you have in your glass!😂
He seems so sweet.
Nothing wrong with being Bi🏳️🌈
He is probably bisexual and must see heartstopper, nice guy anyways
The way he talk with hands is literally gay thing 😊
He is adorable 🥰
So he is a plant. 🪴
"worked on Mental health now I'm straight" naahhh 😭 this sexual confused dude definitely giving bullet to the homophobe
The right is predictable they're definitely using this line as their excuse to revive gay transition camp
Yeah, but i don't think he did it intentionally. But yeah, people like Ben Shapiro would take this clip and run with it.
Open minded people are the best 😊❤😍
So beautiful. That’s awesome he opened himself up to explore something new and came out the other side connecting with us
i’m gay 😿 then i’m suddenly straight 😸
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Well it's up to the person to decide who they want to be with. Some people change from being gay to straight and it's not for us to judge them.
@@latinsho11 but curiously no changement from straight to gay ? 😒😒
@@chloedubois2697yeah straight to gay? I don't know about that! BUT some do go straight to bisexual back to straight OR any combination of sexualities/identities... I see why it's endless with the "gender" (in quotes because it's also a sexuality movement too then?) movement
majority are straight for sure. I guess there might be straight to gay. some older men leave their wives because they're gay or were gay all along
@@latinsho11That is not how it works though. He could be fluid/bisexual. Sexuality is on a spectrum. There isn't an on and off switch. He's most likely bisexual leaning more towards women, but still open to men.
thats weird
We need more open mindedness in the world! 👏🏽
The most dutch accent i ever heard
Ich glaube, er ist bisexuell, bin mir aber nicht sicher. Außerdem ist er so hübsch ❤
Nope, he said he’s str8, that means he’s attracted to girls normally, but he made the reassurance that if he is in love doesnt matter if its girl or a boy, that’s not being bi, it is more like a pansexual that identifies as a str8 guy, but i think he dont want to label himself, he just goes with the vibe
@bizzer1145 str8 means you're attracted to opposite sex (girls in his case) only. Otherwise, he's bisexual or pansexual. Straight doesn't mean he could fall in love with his own sex.
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He was all over the place lol
Lmao he talked in a whole circle 💀
Lol too funny when I was mental I was gay then once I regained my sanity I was straight
We could have met yet another metrosexual 😂😅
If he says he's straight, he's straight. I think he's just kinda bi curious
It's none of your business.
Ah a typical Dutch. How I admire their openness
see never assume every straight man is macho or masculine. Ladies go after this one. You won't have to worry about another girl coming for him lol
He learned to open up, okay gurl we feel u
Or did he feel us? 💀😂
Open up alright. Ahaha
What an interesting man
He'll sleep with anything, depending upon how many cocktails he's consumed.
he's gorgeous ugh 🥹