Yes. But… the mentally submission to your boyfriend can also be misused. I experienced this in my own relationship. There was later no love feelings anymore from him, only to satisfy his dominance feelings and to hurt me in my soul.
9:45 - 10:30 YOU NAILED IT! I moved to the gay community five years ago with the best intentions of living openly and authentically, making new friends, and perhaps meeting someone special. The reality is that it can be unfriendly, dismissive, and beyond cliquey. I stopped going out after a while and can honestly say that straight men treat me with more dignity. At 54, I crave friendship and connection the most. Does this mean I'll move? NO. I love the openness and diversity. I love that LGBTQ+ people can walk anywhere here and hold hands and kiss. Add the stunning natural beauty of my town on top of that and I'm still sold. As for these challenges, I'm hoping to work around them with time and keep the door open. Thank you so much, Travis, for the great content!
I have always loved Travis from the very beginning he is so loving and lovable and kind and always exciting to watch him and Jeff have a great time together and enjoy the bromance with Jeff ❤
Travis, I like the way you explained your blend of masculinity and femininity. I’ve only met one person who has that perfect blend. It truly is beautiful seeing it in person. #stayin true to self
TRAVIS - you have such a great insight and a very confident/educated/informative way of presenting yourself -- and answering these questions - BRAVO and Kudos to you .
This is top tier content. Real answers and real queerbaiting. 😂 In a way I actually don't mind! It's adorable seeing what close friends they are that they can be silly and mess around yet so authentic for us with real questions we really appreciate the answers to!
Travis, I've listened to a lot of your wisdom for a long time. You are one smart cookie 🍪! You make me want to be a gay , young, handsome, versatile man. Being rich would be nice too.
In black america that was called code-switching. The different modes (a lot of) black folks would employ depending who they're talking to. The fact that almost never comes up in films/shows is one way you know they don't have black writers. lol
I loved the way you answered everything, and you seem like a very outstanding friend and person. Your response to the question at 9:18-10:45, especially stood out for me. "The culture is so much about 'Love,' and 'Acceptance,' and 'Be Who You Are,' but when you're actually /in/ the culture...." I started snapping right there. That discrimination you speak about, amongst gays, is a very real thing. I can cite moments I was on the receiving end. but I also admittedly have caught myself in moments that I was having at least thoughts that were toxic in a judgmental manner, decided who I would talk to/engage with based on those thoughts, or played on the various labels, identifiers, or qualifiers that gay guys tag on one another in order to categorize and decide who is more "important," more "beautiful," or more qualifying to be someone we are willing to date, or be friends with... But this is all harmful as fuck. And gays need to stop harming other gays. I agree, it can very much be a toxic culture- I'd even venture to say it's rampant, with the online dating communities and our ever-growing capability to dismiss or "next" every person that falls beneath our abstract lines of "acceptable..." We effectively narrow down our social circles to people who all look similar. We un-diversify gays all the time, when what we originally wanted to celebrate was that in itself, "different" is beautiful. And that's how I want to change to be, is someone who is not so angry or dismissive of those who have different perspectives, or different opinions... It's almost like we've stopped wanting others to have thoughts of their own. Just so wrong, so opposite of the progress we've worked towards- toxic, like you said. I suppose I couldn't know what it's like to be a content creator on UA-cam, nor to work with you, so I can't say with certainty how it would go... But but I am invested in being the change I want to see in the world- I hope to always cleanse myself of bitterness, resentment, toxiciity, and I imagine we'd be great friends and work very well together, and I would certainly support your endeavors in creating content and spreading your wisdom. You have valuable things to say!! Thank you for representing, I appreciate you!
Just saying that there are a few of us who don’t have numerous intimate encounters. Me personally I’ve only had 2 and I’m 24. The stereotypes never have applied to me. But I agree with you on what’s commonly known. And some of us are more feminine while also confident in the fact that we are men. I personally don’t desire to change that fact
I have been judged as being a different gay. Like I’m not the type that screams gay. I’m not overly masculine but not feminine either. So I hardly get approached by other gays. Even back when I wanted to be approached. The gay community can be some complexed at time lol.
6:43 hit so hard! I can relate to it all. I am more “masculine” vs when I was younger. 9:51 straights and Bi’s are more accepting of me, while the gay guys aren’t. One guy I was talking to said I wasn’t gay enough. It had me going “what in the actual 🤬uck!” 😂🤣😭 but I get it I guess/I think 🤷♂️
As a gay man who has been out since before Stonewall, I have really enjoyed this because what you feel free to talk about and how you talk about it tells me that our culture is still growing and moving.
Sometimes I feel really embarrassed being gay!! Like you mentioned our community can be very judgmental, condescending, and rude!! As someone else mentioned, it is sad!! This video was well done, Travis!! ❤
I feel so much for Travis about his transition to masculinity. I used to cross dress as a kid.. thanks to bullying i decided to act str8. Now my family thinks am straight and are forcing me to get married. 😢
@sifilore - There are some with Travis and Reno, both on here and elsewhere.😉 Look back a year or more ago on Mario Adrion’s YT channel for a vid called “Real Talk with Reno Gold and Travis Bryant... “. As for “elsewhere”, that one of Reno with Travis is on Travis’s page.
With you on the idea many confuse sex with their actual desire for intimacy. As for femininity, I've come to believe it's, at least in part, an over correction from the toxic aspects of masculinity. Too many lean into femininity for they're clinging to stereotypical definitions of masculinity rather than redefining it into a more emotionally intelligent version. Emotions always have been universally human yet were mistakenly gendered which lead to the toxicity and manhood's multiple issues.
Okay I had to smoke a cig at the 3:30 mark cause I got off.Just kidding.I quit smoking two February's ago.Lol Ok here's the big one.The gays being feminine.I do agree with you it's easier to be feminine if you talk like it.However...I also believe we were pushed into a closet so much that acting feminine is a way to 1).Fight back against the breeders but also 2).It might be to ridicule the straights."You tried to push me into a closet but I'm here.Im queer.Get over it." And porn guys say they douche before a scene so they don't have a poopie dookie. And finally I agree with you about another thing.We do talk to a fellow gay differently than a straight.I had gay freinds that worked at a crossdressing cabaret and almost all lived in the same apt complex.One always used the word biscuit to say/describe he made a mistake."Oh.Muh God!I feel like such a biscuit".You might have a freind that uses a similar term. Anyway,I'm introducing him to my dad and he uses that term.He turned to my dad and said "Oh damn.I feel like such a biscuit." My dad to his credit calmly said "you don't have to feel that way.You didn't know" I was mortified at first but my dad was a trooper. Sorry going on so long.
I think for a lot of men (if they haven't been pressured to be otherwise or have managed to disconnect from that pressure) they may simply be expressing what comes naturally for them, or natural in a certain dynamic, and that gets labelled masculine or feminine because of society always pushing that interpretation on us.
I enjoyed this interesting, informative vid.❤ I know some guys on the bisexual spectrum (they’re between 20 and 70% gay) and they’ve relayed to me that some fully gay guys hate women and some gays also have an issue with bisexual men. It’s really pretty sad that bi men are getting reviled by BOTH straights and gays. There’s no shortage of intolerant, bigoted people on both sides. That said, my own interactions directly with gay men and bi men over the years has thankfully been positive thus far (I’m a het female).
So I’m a gay man and my two best friends are straight…both married and they were part of my wedding to my husband and I was part of their weddings to their wives. I just want to say that of all the videos out there that try to deal with subjects this is the best. I found it respectful and honest and it meant so much to see the closeness you share.
I just happened upon this. It addresses some interesting topics. Its absolutely true that the gay subculture has a very long way to go, if it expects to be taken seriously about not bullying, being inclusive and being empathetic towards people's differences. Try being gay, and not conforming to the preferred body images, lauded and celebrated by gay subculture. You can be shallow, or petty, or mean, or controling or clicquish, but you dare not be overweight!
I have had gay male friends all my adult life (I am a woman) , close friends, but never felt comfortable asking some of these questions. Thanks for the education ❤🌈
JEFF KASSER RETURNS ON MY OTHER PLATFORM TONIGHT! Check us out there! 🔥 linktr.ee/Travisbryant
god I missed u so bad
Love you both!
"And this is a straight heterosexual man" as Jeff literally looks like he wants to devour Travis
Well Travis did take Jeff's virginity on a only fans video.
XD same thought. I was like nahh you sure about that?🤣
he said sort off. So he is not 100% he is heteroflexible he said on Mario
Right... im like my boy is hungry
Lol yeah thought I was the only one who noticed😹
There’s nothing straight about this video. Not even Jeff.
Jeff looks at Travis like he badly wants to top him as if it's their last day on earth. hahah.
Lol right!
@@4cuttime I think its them being playful. The constant touching and looks has to be..
They're queerbaiting us and for once I don't mind queerbaiting lol
I think Jeff is anything but straight and that’s perfectly perfect! 😊
AGREED
Or he is comfortable with his sexuality?
Isn’t there an onlyfans video of Travis f*cking Jeff?
@@ashsummermakaio4756 love to see that
Look the definition for QUEER
I want to find someone who looks at me the way Jeff looks at Travis!
Travis just described bottoming so well and beautiful , the mentally submission and connect to another person.
Yes. But… the mentally submission to your boyfriend can also be misused. I experienced this in my own relationship. There was later no love feelings anymore from him, only to satisfy his dominance feelings and to hurt me in my soul.
@@MGSHM1 I am sorry to heat that. Thank you for sharing this experience.
@@haopowei thank you too for reacting👍. If you think you know your guy… take care
what about the prostate
Bottoming is not necessarily about submission. You can be “bottom” while being on top and actually dominant…
I think Jeff just needs to go for it. He's really curious, or a hell of an actor.
Jeff's heart is racing with desire in a lot of this vid.
Love how comfortable you two are together 😊. You’re right on how toxic the community is though 😢it’s a shame really.
9:45 - 10:30 YOU NAILED IT! I moved to the gay community five years ago with the best intentions of living openly and authentically, making new friends, and perhaps meeting someone special. The reality is that it can be unfriendly, dismissive, and beyond cliquey. I stopped going out after a while and can honestly say that straight men treat me with more dignity. At 54, I crave friendship and connection the most. Does this mean I'll move? NO. I love the openness and diversity. I love that LGBTQ+ people can walk anywhere here and hold hands and kiss. Add the stunning natural beauty of my town on top of that and I'm still sold. As for these challenges, I'm hoping to work around them with time and keep the door open. Thank you so much, Travis, for the great content!
OMG you're describing my experience so well!
Sexuality is such an interesting topic. I am bi, and i far prefer to mix with gays than straights. Gays tend to be independent thinkers which i love.
Comments like yours are so refreshing to hear man😁👍🏻
Hello
How r u
So you're saying that everyone should not be straight
@@VihaanBelani no such thing as should. You are what you are.
I have always loved Travis from the very beginning he is so loving and lovable and kind and always exciting to watch him and Jeff have a great time together and enjoy the bromance with Jeff ❤
@@magicalmomentswithloni4835 me too my name is Mariel
I cannot believe how wise you are, so young…. Very complete inclusive observations. Perhaps there is hope. Good on you…. Very good work. Thank you.
Travis, I like the way you explained your blend of masculinity and femininity. I’ve only met one person who has that perfect blend. It truly is beautiful seeing it in person. #stayin true to self
TRAVIS - you have such a great insight and a very confident/educated/informative way of presenting yourself -- and answering these questions - BRAVO and Kudos to you .
That light green and pink sweater looks beautiful and comforting
So cute the look at each other in the eyes and it's adorable sending love from a new Zealand gay
Thank you for reposting this bro
I am here for all the old content videos being re- uploaded. 😜😂 I love you Travis & Jeffy. ❤ this made my day.
This is top tier content. Real answers and real queerbaiting. 😂 In a way I actually don't mind! It's adorable seeing what close friends they are that they can be silly and mess around yet so authentic for us with real questions we really appreciate the answers to!
One thing Travis neglected to mention was the simple "hurt people will hurt people" in relation to the last question.
The way they look at each other 🔥
You guys are so cute together. I've seen your onlyfans video so I know Jeff is not100% straight and I'm glad he is so open to sexual experiences.
Travis, I've listened to a lot of your wisdom for a long time. You are one smart cookie 🍪! You make me want to be a gay , young, handsome, versatile man. Being rich would be nice too.
Shit happens, mostly, when you're unprepared for some action.
travis is so nice and adorable , thank you guys for making this video , one day i will watch it and tell if it was worth it
Y’all are both still so funny and great!
Awesome and informative vid!! I agree with pretty much all you said!!
Oh my gosh kiss already 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Blonde guy doesn't even try to pretend he's straight. Worst acting ever xD.
LITERALLY
@@kdnu27im sure hes straight they're just queerbaiting so hard looool
Width is more important than length.
Loved this video ❤
I feel the same way as Jeff after that bottom explanation. I think you just convinced me as well.
Love this question and answer session you guys had !
In black america that was called code-switching. The different modes (a lot of) black folks would employ depending who they're talking to. The fact that almost never comes up in films/shows is one way you know they don't have black writers. lol
🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thank you both for being who you are.
Xoxo
Broo, Intro was the best 😂👌
Great video. Thank you both of your honesty.
This discussion is the first time in my 47 on this earth that i can relate to!
I subscribed to Jeff's OF, there's a particular video where I would kinda disagree Jeff is a true "straight" dude lol
You guys are awesome
Love is in the air. The way they look each other😊
I loved the way you answered everything, and you seem like a very outstanding friend and person. Your response to the question at 9:18-10:45, especially stood out for me. "The culture is so much about 'Love,' and 'Acceptance,' and 'Be Who You Are,' but when you're actually /in/ the culture...."
I started snapping right there. That discrimination you speak about, amongst gays, is a very real thing. I can cite moments I was on the receiving end. but I also admittedly have caught myself in moments that I was having at least thoughts that were toxic in a judgmental manner, decided who I would talk to/engage with based on those thoughts, or played on the various labels, identifiers, or qualifiers that gay guys tag on one another in order to categorize and decide who is more "important," more "beautiful," or more qualifying to be someone we are willing to date, or be friends with... But this is all harmful as fuck.
And gays need to stop harming other gays. I agree, it can very much be a toxic culture- I'd even venture to say it's rampant, with the online dating communities and our ever-growing capability to dismiss or "next" every person that falls beneath our abstract lines of "acceptable..."
We effectively narrow down our social circles to people who all look similar. We un-diversify gays all the time, when what we originally wanted to celebrate was that in itself, "different" is beautiful. And that's how I want to change to be, is someone who is not so angry or dismissive of those who have different perspectives, or different opinions... It's almost like we've stopped wanting others to have thoughts of their own. Just so wrong, so opposite of the progress we've worked towards- toxic, like you said.
I suppose I couldn't know what it's like to be a content creator on UA-cam, nor to work with you, so I can't say with certainty how it would go... But but I am invested in being the change I want to see in the world- I hope to always cleanse myself of bitterness, resentment, toxiciity, and I imagine we'd be great friends and work very well together, and I would certainly support your endeavors in creating content and spreading your wisdom.
You have valuable things to say!! Thank you for representing, I appreciate you!
Just saying that there are a few of us who don’t have numerous intimate encounters.
Me personally I’ve only had 2 and I’m 24.
The stereotypes never have applied to me.
But I agree with you on what’s commonly known. And some of us are more feminine while also confident in the fact that we are men. I personally don’t desire to change that fact
They are both so great-looking. It's nice to watch them.
Jeff straight 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he literally just wants to eat u up😄
They want each other
Lovely interview
Well said! And you wear your pride very well!!
# Respect
God hates pride all most people say is God is love but truth is God also has hate don't be fooled with this pride systems the end is destruction
You guys are hilariously honest.
both of them r into each-other, change m mind
My god, Travis is such a cutie! 😍
I have been judged as being a different gay. Like I’m not the type that screams gay. I’m not overly masculine but not feminine either. So I hardly get approached by other gays. Even back when I wanted to be approached. The gay community can be some complexed at time lol.
Your spot on trav! :).
The way he is looking at him
U guys look good together
gay romance is amazing...
That was great, and I agree.
I "love" you two guys ! You need to smash it !
ROCK PAPER SCISSORS 🪨📃✂️ 😂
Thank You!
6:43 hit so hard! I can relate to it all. I am more “masculine” vs when I was younger. 9:51 straights and Bi’s are more accepting of me, while the gay guys aren’t. One guy I was talking to said I wasn’t gay enough. It had me going “what in the actual 🤬uck!” 😂🤣😭 but I get it I guess/I think 🤷♂️
Ehm you sure your friend is straight? XD when you explained bottoming he looked really...intrigued
As a gay man who has been out since before Stonewall, I have really enjoyed this because what you feel free to talk about and how you talk about it tells me that our culture is still growing and moving.
Jeff is straight? Yeah, right...
Sometimes I feel really embarrassed being gay!! Like you mentioned our community can be very judgmental, condescending, and rude!! As someone else mentioned, it is sad!! This video was well done, Travis!! ❤
The top/bottom thing changes with every encounter
My Mr. Blonde hair I doubt your 90% straightness🙄😳🧐🤭
I feel so much for Travis about his transition to masculinity. I used to cross dress as a kid.. thanks to bullying i decided to act str8. Now my family thinks am straight and are forcing me to get married. 😢
Well I think this Jeff guy cannot take his hands and eyes off you...
Jeff is extremely handsome
I like when you introduced him as a straight heterosexual man! He looked at the camera, and shook his hand sideways as he's like maybe HAHAHA
Why is this conversation so sensual between them both 😭
travis is eating down with these answers
These 2 r adorable together, but I would like to c some of Travis and Reno together. I don’t think there r any vids.
@sifilore - There are some with Travis and Reno, both on here and elsewhere.😉 Look back a year or more ago on Mario Adrion’s YT channel for a vid called “Real Talk with Reno Gold and Travis Bryant... “. As for “elsewhere”, that one of Reno with Travis is on Travis’s page.
if they clean noo aha silly!! i like it durtttttttaaaayyyyyyyyy doe !
HAHAHA Travis is SO fucking pretty! 😅😅😅LOVED the Video!! 😁❤😁
I think there's a spark of romance there .
With you on the idea many confuse sex with their actual desire for intimacy.
As for femininity, I've come to believe it's, at least in part, an over correction from the toxic aspects of masculinity. Too many lean into femininity for they're clinging to stereotypical definitions of masculinity rather than redefining it into a more emotionally intelligent version. Emotions always have been universally human yet were mistakenly gendered which lead to the toxicity and manhood's multiple issues.
Hershey’s kiss on that tip
Are we sure the other guy is straight? Errr...
Im not sure if they are together but the way they look at each other and touch other seems very relationshipy
I never thought of that question ❓
Why do I feel like I have seen this already
Completely agreed 💯
Okay I had to smoke a cig at the 3:30 mark cause I got off.Just kidding.I quit smoking two February's ago.Lol
Ok here's the big one.The gays being feminine.I do agree with you it's easier to be feminine if you talk like it.However...I also believe we were pushed into a closet so much that acting feminine is a way to 1).Fight back against the breeders but also 2).It might be to ridicule the straights."You tried to push me into a closet but I'm here.Im queer.Get over it."
And porn guys say they douche before a scene so they don't have a poopie dookie.
And finally I agree with you about another thing.We do talk to a fellow gay differently than a straight.I had gay freinds that worked at a crossdressing cabaret and almost all lived in the same apt complex.One always used the word biscuit to say/describe he made a mistake."Oh.Muh God!I feel like such a biscuit".You might have a freind that uses a similar term.
Anyway,I'm introducing him to my dad and he uses that term.He turned to my dad and said "Oh damn.I feel like such a biscuit."
My dad to his credit calmly said "you don't have to feel that way.You didn't know"
I was mortified at first but my dad was a trooper.
Sorry going on so long.
Be who you arreeeeeee
Wonderful video.
The answers trav gave are so true!! Specially the gays being the bitch. Got so much downs being a chubby gays , frustrating and sad
I think for a lot of men (if they haven't been pressured to be otherwise or have managed to disconnect from that pressure) they may simply be expressing what comes naturally for them, or natural in a certain dynamic, and that gets labelled masculine or feminine because of society always pushing that interpretation on us.
I enjoyed this interesting, informative vid.❤ I know some guys on the bisexual spectrum (they’re between 20 and 70% gay) and they’ve relayed to me that some fully gay guys hate women and some gays also have an issue with bisexual men. It’s really pretty sad that bi men are getting reviled by BOTH straights and gays. There’s no shortage of intolerant, bigoted people on both sides. That said, my own interactions directly with gay men and bi men over the years has thankfully been positive thus far (I’m a het female).
Yep true
Oooo u 2 are so exciting wooop my heart ❤️ and support ♥️ 💓 💗 ❤️ 💖 💙
So I’m a gay man and my two best friends are straight…both married and they were part of my wedding to my husband and I was part of their weddings to their wives. I just want to say that of all the videos out there that try to deal with subjects this is the best. I found it respectful and honest and it meant so much to see the closeness you share.
I am sure they did it after this video 😂
I love watching videos guys 😘🤣
If the zigsaw pieces fit , its a tight , right fit.
Hi 👋 Travis 🎉 I love 💕 your videos
I just happened upon this. It addresses some interesting topics. Its absolutely true that the gay subculture has a very long way to go, if it expects to be taken seriously about not bullying, being inclusive and being empathetic towards people's differences. Try being gay, and not conforming to the preferred body images, lauded and celebrated by gay subculture. You can be shallow, or petty, or mean, or controling or clicquish, but you dare not be overweight!
The queerbaiting between these two 😂😂😂
I have had gay male friends all my adult life (I am a woman) , close friends, but never felt comfortable asking some of these questions. Thanks for the education ❤🌈