I curious if being with a Blamer can bring out Provoking behavior? I have noticed an emerging set of behaviors in myself in relation to my kids, that are not typical of my personality and are very emotionally reactive. I am trying to understand what is contributing my own sudden volatility. My partner is an avoidant Blamer, and when a problem can’t be ignored or deflected, he responds with explosive anger…. I am starting to think that I’m becoming soo resentful and stifled by our inability to communicate effectively; I am snapping at my kids. It’s not good- working on it but it starts with understanding the why.
As one of the many people on UA-cam with ADHD, this would be sooooo much easier to digest and use and appreciate if there were timestamps! Without timestamps and chapters, the block of information feels way too long and dense and intimidating, even though I’m really excited about the topic!
Idk how my gf fits in those, but there's something definitely off about her... She's really explosive, she argues about really small things, claims she complained about something a thousand times when she said something one time or never, never assume her mistakes, talks about things that happened months and months ago frequently even if it's already resolved, if I point she's wrong she gets mad and say I'm calling her a liar or mad...
Another excellent video ❤
awww - thank you. that's so kind of you :)
I'm a personaliser for sure. Although getting better, currently having EMDR
I curious if being with a Blamer can bring out Provoking behavior? I have noticed an emerging set of behaviors in myself in relation to my kids, that are not typical of my personality and are very emotionally reactive. I am trying to understand what is contributing my own sudden volatility.
My partner is an avoidant Blamer, and when a problem can’t be ignored or deflected, he responds with explosive anger…. I am starting to think that I’m becoming soo resentful and stifled by our inability to communicate effectively; I am snapping at my kids.
It’s not good- working on it but it starts with understanding the why.
I belong to the hypersensitive category....
Thank you ❤
As one of the many people on UA-cam with ADHD, this would be sooooo much easier to digest and use and appreciate if there were timestamps! Without timestamps and chapters, the block of information feels way too long and dense and intimidating, even though I’m really excited about the topic!
On it! I think that’s an easy fix - hold please!
Yeah, the pineapple thing is just true anyway.
Nice video! Needs some video editing, for example around minute 16, but it's very concise and informative content. Thank you.
Idk how my gf fits in those, but there's something definitely off about her... She's really explosive, she argues about really small things, claims she complained about something a thousand times when she said something one time or never, never assume her mistakes, talks about things that happened months and months ago frequently even if it's already resolved, if I point she's wrong she gets mad and say I'm calling her a liar or mad...
She sounds extremely immature!!
Sounds like ADHD (ADD)
you sure are describing a lot of things in this video
Is it possible you have selective hearing and/or are not picking up on hints?
Look into borderline personality traits. Cluster b personality traits/disorders are emotional immaturity taken to their ultimate extreme
Is this very different when with autism?
“Their reality is based on what they feel”. So you mean women are by nature emotionally immature?
No.