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As a black man with a Filipino wife for 5 year you are 1000% right yes we do have disagreements sometimes but we are always respectful to each other and yes she will still continue to cook and clean and she will never deprive me in the 😼 bedroom because we understand that having problems is a part of any relationship and we are married forever so we will quickly fix our problems and continue the care of our children together❤
@@Kelvin-ih6mf But they say they are happy being a beached whale. Well I think they are discusting and being extremally fat means she is also extremally lazy.
Very good points Maya. Western women are the polar opposite of Filipinas. Western women have found themselves repelling Western men. Their entitled attitude has programmed themselves into thinking they don't need to change. With the danger of divorce being so high here, most men find it risky to subject themselves to financial ruin due to divorce. A man wants a woman to be his peace. Not as an everyday living nightmare on many levels. Thank you for bringing light to the great things about the Philippines and awesome Filipinas.
Don't spend another minute worrying about Western women and their griping. They may claim that we're their rejects, but truth be known, we're *here* because we have rejected *them.*
I didn't go to the Philippines to find a wife. My future wife contacted me online on Facebook Messenger. We weren't even on a dating site. We were just on Facebook. It took her three attempts to contact me before I finally answered her. Thank God I did. We have had a great relationship, and I wouldn't trade her for anything. She is caring, loving, appreciative, and respectful. She has treated me like a person . She is very considerate and understanding. Attributes that are often lacking among people here.
I’ve been in a LDR with my Filipino sweetheart for four months now and she’s beyond amazing. I once ask her if we was to marry one day, would you submit to me? And she said “yes i would” (which totally shocked me) and i said why? Then she said “because thats what the Bible says!” ….a western woman (especially American women) WOULD NEVER SAY THAT. I bought my ticket two weeks ago and ill be flying out to the Philippines for my first visit at the end of this month to see her! I cant wait 🙂
In the west you can find women like that in more rural areas. Also, at church not bars and clubs lol. The problem is the anti-man attitude is making its way through every part of America. So you might find a woman who is perfect now but 5-10 years from now she will leave with 1/2 your stuff.
The feminist movement in the US ruined it for for women. They are now in their 30's, 40's and 50's that have no hope of getting married because of their attitude's
I can honestly say that you nailed it. I've heard a lot of reasons why we gentlemen are seeking love in other countries and you laid it out concisely. It's videos like this that earn my subscription.
What came to my mind as I listened to you Maya was how the situation seems reversed in your country. For the same reasons some western men want to find a partner in SE Asia, the Philipina woman looks for a Western man and doesn't want a certain Philippino man. Why is that? Nobody wants to talk about it, but here it is. Some Philippino men may be saying the same thing, that they want a certain type of woman and that the women who go with foreigners is not what they want. Especially if the man is educated and well off. I don't know why this is all so fascinating but it is. It's like a social experiment. I watched a famous Philippino's wedding the other day, a very wealthy person, same age as his wife, she is from the Philippines and they are totally in love. No talk of going with someone from another country, just loving each other normally from their own culture. So maybe I still don't get it, but I'm trying to understand. Still don't understand the older man thing. But I will never judge. Everyone has a right to happiness.
Love it Maya ... all points correct ... thats why I went to the Philippines in 2011 and now I have a Filipina wife. She is the best. I have had many American relationships and one marriage that went south. I felt I needed to go overseas to get a real woman and I found her. Thank you for this video. It is the truest take on the Filipina.
Hi Maya, new sub from the USA here. I started talking to Filipinas on social media and dating apps during the pandemic. I am just now getting accustomed to how sweet, agreeable and feminine they all are! Seriously, not one Filipina has been rude to me. I'm M66, had a terrible marriage, and retired. I'm considering selling everything and moving to the Philippines to start fresh.
You might first go on UA-cam watching expat bloggers in several areas of the Philippines. Personally I have 0 zero interest in being anywhere near Manila, Cebu city or any other big city on these islands. That being said I do like being 10 kilometers from Dauin , 25 kilometers from Dumaguete. Most of us expats will gladly point you in the direction you want to try or travel. Second when you have decided where you want to try, buy you a round trip ticket to the Philippines and come see what it is like. Only rent a room for a few nights in advance as there is a good chance you will book a room somewhere once you are here and see the many and very different options available. For me after being here for 2 years going back and forth then almost 4 years with only one trip back (because of the scam-) book no less than 30 days. If you book more than 30 days you will have to get the visa extension, no problem but good to know in advance. Meet people, especially ladies here not on line 😉 and unless you want a westernized local be careful meeting the future miss next in a bar. Not to say there are no good ladies in the bars but just like the rest of the world if the lady comes from the bar ........... Hello. But hey maybe that's what you are looking for so just be sure of what you want before you come over. Enough for now, watch the bloggers 😉 🤔
Nice vlog. I am a six-figure income earner. I know how to treat a woman, am successful in my career, and am an empty-nested grandfather (at 50). I have all the qualities western women want, except I am not tall enough which labels me as a broken down and dusty left-over man. I have already made my exodus to PH and never looked back.
Western women for the most part Maya don't value and appreciate the men they already have there so I don't see why they would insult the guys who leave overseas for a much better woman. It's like a job if you go to a job and it's a toxic environment where you are working with bad co workers and a boss that Bullies you then you leave and find a job or start your own business where you are better appreciated and respected same with relationships and Filipinas are definitely a keeper in all the right ways you're a really good person Maya I hope to meet someone like you someday Gio is one lucky guy. Take care 👍🆒 😎
You are completely right on your opinion and that reflect reality as it is, i.e, completely different from the feminists out there who not even are able to "catch" a man anymore because no man wants to be in a relationship with his "boss"
You're right I'm married to a FILIPINA for 10 years and I'm vary happy and in Love my wife family made me part of their family thank God for my Filipina wife
Wow Maya you nailed it! Western women can even disagree with your choice of how you are happy about wanting to live your own life and they can make their own choices. As always choices lead to certain outcomes. As a man who wants to see if I enjoy living in Asia I don't don't mind Western women criticizing me as I know they don't respect me or my choices so it let's me know I don't need to consider them as a partner. I DO MIND them attacking all the women of a continent or country, this is bigotry and should be called out. As you state they should use this as a learning experience to try and understand why men are doing this not blindly attack everyone for their choices. Again you nailed it by being open and honest about your choices and not attacking all Western women but explaining why this is really happening.
That's the key right there. We can disagree. I need your point of view, your perspective. It makes our final decision better. But let's be respectful as we discuss it. No hate, no fight, no insults but teamwork.
Very well said Maya, I totally agree, my filipina girlfriend is the sweetest and the kindest I ever met in my entire life. Thank you Maya and SALAMAT PHILIPPINES 🇬🇧💙🇵🇭 😃
Hi Maya, I agree with all your points. I am looking forward to going to the Philippines and hopefully meet somebody sweet and nice. I enjoy all your videos with you and Gio. Hopefully I can come visit and meet you guys.
Traditional is changing. I just did 2 weeks on a dating site chatting with Filipinas in the 18-35 year old range and reading profiles. Many are using the exact same terms American women are saying. "Spoil me", "Treat me like a Queen", careers are #1 priority, not interested in getting married and having kids until early 30's. And a lot of delusion like 26-29 year olds saying they're going to travel the world, continue with their career and marry and have kids. I asked them "How?" How do they cram all that into the next 5-10 years? No answer. It's pretty clear they're watching social media and hearing the delusion coming from Western women and they're jumping on board. It sounds great to them. Why not dream of having it all? I'm off the dating site now. I dealt with about 50 Filipinas in various degrees. All kind of the same. A few weeks before I'd searched for 35+ year old Filipinas. There's a lot of them and it was exactly the same as I found in the US...older women are settled and have no intention of moving. They expect a man to move into their life. There are many opportunities to be sure. For guys OK with moving into a Filipina's life and being on her plan it's no problem. But for guys with a plan for themselves getting a Filipina to get on board isn't so easy. For sure I need to be in country and find where I want to live since I will be buying/leasing. And/or I can scout some mountain settlements to see if any of those fit my plan and maybe there'll be a Filipina there we click.
Mr. Water, I have noticed the liberal use of the term "open minded," but I don't think the majority of Filipinas fully understand what that means in western lingo. IMO, if you talk to women from the province, they are far more likely to be friendly, feminine, (biblically) submissive, and fertile. They may lack some of the social skills we are accustomed to, but they seem like willing learners.
Very well said, I have to agree with all your points. I am happy with my Filipina wife of over 23 years. Western women for the most part forgot how to be feminine women and desirable to men.
I think it is a good thing for all the reasons you said. I have even been thinking of coming there just for the reasons you said! Thank you for the video!
This was an excellent video. Pointing out what is going wrong with American women in Western women. Today. If they only examine themselves and what they are doing. Things will change when it comes to men leaving. But until women understand this. Things will continue to go on as they are.
Hi Maya, Love the new direction you're going with your vlogs so I thought I'd request a topic to be covered. I also sent this suggestion to Gio. Here is the situation for many/most Ex Pats thinking of coming over and finding a lovely Filipina to spend the rest of their life with. They are 50+ years old and already had kids or knew they didn't want kids from the start. In the west not having kids is not considered a big deal. However, they would like to find a late 20's to early 40's Filipina that will love them. They don't want to raise someone else's kids and definitely don't want new kids at 50, 60 or 70. So please do a video where you talk to ladies from their late 20's to early 40's, that don't have kids, and see how many of them would be happy to have a loving foreign husband but not have kids. This is the elephant in the room that none of the vloggers are talking about. All the vloggers are talking about how great the Philippines are, and I agree with them, but can we really find that Filipina we're looking for.
Western men want women who are still women and enjoy being women. We don't wan't women that want to be men. So tip for asian women, stop watching American women and wanting to be like them, God created man and women and gave us each our role to play in life, when both are doing what we were created to do it's a match made in heaven. When a woman wants to play the man's role, or the man wants to play the woman's role, it's a recipe for disaster and no good can come from it.
Im a 39 yold black Man from Europe i already found my Filipina and what i most like on her is her smile, positive attitude, and romantic side like me. IN europe i was often criticized by woman for being romantic and thats what my gf most like in me. we just looking the right time to settle and live in barili Cebu near her family 🙂
Yes Mam and thanks for explaining why some prefer Philipino Wemon because they are still traditional,loving,feminine, beautiful, petite Godley Wemon 🙏❤
Maya, they (western women) won't ever self-reflect. Because that would mean that they are wrong. The reason why they complain is that they don't other women (non-western women) to make us happy. We're supposed to wait for them to settle for us (Passport Kings).
I am an Asian guy and I am not ashamed of my back ground…I have been hurt by former girlfriends and it was difficult…I don’t want to go through experience that bad ever again. 😢😊😅
I refuse to date or try to have a family in my country. There is too big a risk of loosing everything here to trust anyone. I would do both in a second in the Philippines though. Plan on going there in about 2 years to check it out for retirement at least which I'm still far away from. From what I've seen so far It looks like I'd love living there.
Ms Maya you are a amazing and great person in gods eyes and many people's eyes. I just don't want you to get caught up in that passport bros battle, I'm saying that based on which I've seen from other channels. I just don't want you and gio to get caught up in that, I thought I would just warn you. "Stay Safe❤️
Speaking as an American male. Here in the U.S, the western women are too self righteous & entitled. A man can work 60-70 hrs per week & be the soul provider for the family,encourage the family to take vacation (even without him) & they still don't respect them ,but continue to act like you owe them more. I am making plans with a Filipina (Jannell) who is not only BEAUTIFUL,but Smart,caring,warm,forgiving,believes in God & is absolutely perfect in my eyes.
Agreed when I was young I told myself that I would never follow the bible I mean I want 50/50 relationship but when I met the person I loved I let him to leads always 😅😂🤣
I live in Los Angeles USA and in my experience with American women, I find them confusing and hard to connect. They're crying for love or someone who cares for them but when I choose to be "Nice" or "Caring" they tend to reject me. And most of them are very defensive and too paranoid toward good men. They think nice guy as weak desperate men and they choose "Bad boys" but then they get fed up with bad boys after awhile and then leave them. I also noticed the more prettier they are they tend to be very cold and standoffish. I also noticed they want me to care for their needs but they don't want to do the same for me.
My Filipina and I have a terrific relationship on all levels. There were only 2 things that we actually had to work on together. 1st was the language difference. Even though she speaks very good English she obviously isn’t a native speaker. This meant she had certain things to learn or understand such as humour and how we westerners will use a word that has a literal meaning and a metaphorical meaning. Context is very important most of the time. As for me I am putting a good effort into learning Tagalog so our conversations don’t always have to be in English. The hardest thing for me is not mixing ilocano and Tagalog words in the same sentence 😅. 2nd was her initial fear of or concern about the size of my “banana” 😮 the first time we spent the night together. We went slow and gentle and I put all of my effort into easing her nervousness and pleasing her with no concern for myself. She saw it as my way of expressing my love for her with my sincere and genuine concern for her comfort and pleasure. It took time but eventually we figured out what worked best for her to experience the maximum pleasure with the least discomfort. Now she expects us to “exercise” at least twice a day 😊 and I haven’t showered alone since that first night with her 😅😊. Not that I’m complaining 😊 A lot of people (women) in the west assume that men come here to somehow take advantage of Filipinas. Nothing could be further from the truth. The truth is she lets me be a man, even expects me to be a man, while she enjoys being a woman/wife/mother. She has 2 children from a Filipino man she was with over a decade ago who abandoned them. I adore her and the way she treats/loves me causes me to want to be the best husband, father, lover, friend for her that I can. She deserves the absolute best from me and that’s what I give her every day (& night) 😅😊 (& morning & shower). I love her beyond measure and I love “our” children as well. I live the most stress free and love filled life I could ever have imagined 😊 I still don’t like Balut 😂😂
I love you and Gio and your thought process. What is logical to most isn’t the most logical for everyone. I too am now in Asia . My strategy to combat this attitude is to just plain , pay no attention ( but here I am ) . Western women, no I should say the “ woke culture “ in the west believes 2 plus 2 equals whatever they say it equals . Take common sense and throw it out the window is the way I think, they look at ANY issue. I am at the point where I just don’t give a rodents anal cavity about anything they have to say. I am here, they are there, enjoy your woke culture, have a nice day, let me be, and see ya……
if you really think about how the term 'woke' was hijacked, being a passport bro or opting out of the american western dating market is actually being 'woke' in itself. And thats not a bad thing...because you woke up to that realization one day
Everything you said about Filipina woman. Beautiful sweet feminine all true. That's why I started dating Filipina at 47 years old. I'm now 54 and I will marry a Filipina one day. Will be going back to Philippines later this year and will be looking for my future wife.
Sounds like Paradise, had a bad divorce and was at the bottom, a pitty thats i maybe have to wait till pension to go to Philphinen but why not then, few years and decide then
collectivist society The Philippines is a collectivist society, in which the needs of the family are prioritized over the needs of the individual. Filipinos value social harmony and maintaining smooth relationships, which means they may often avoid expressing their true opinions or delivering unwanted news.
OK. First, I'm not hating on any women... Asian or Western. But I have witnessed first hand several older men. Travelled to Asia and meet their dream wife. The so-called "traditional women" as you eloquently put it. They get married and relocate these women to the west. And sadly have seen these "traditional women" slowly become westernized. That 'true' love they had for their older husband changes when they start blending into society and seeing their friends (western women) with younger guys. And that "traditional" role is out the window when she realizes she can have the same as western women. Also the fear and stigma of introducing her 'older' husband to her new friends her own age. I've seen this happen so many times to guys here. So, the women in the videos with their claims against Asian women and passport bros are not totally wrong. But also keep in mind I'm not saying ALL Asian women are like that. And yes, I'm from the west and have been to Asia many many times. Conclusion, your video and comments I think is purely your own opinion and experience without any support or proof to back it up.
who wants to stay in a country where the women don't need a man, or so they say and show it? We want a woman that is a woman, feminine, loving. We don't necessarily want a domesticated woman bu twe want to feel important. And honestly, i want a beatiful young woman with long sexy black hair, not cute woman with a bald head and attitude
Maya nailed it on the head. Men are simple creatures, we want to build a family, have children, be respected and work hard for our families, Everything we see online about Filipinas, Shows Western men there are still good woman out there, and this horrible liberal culture hasn't destroyed men's chances to find happiness.
You mention "You want a man who is financially stable". I am a disabled man I don't make enough to be a provider. Should I not go to Philippines to find love? Maybe I'm not lovable even in Philippine....
Every man has different values. As for myself, a self centered party girl is totally uninteresting. Unfortanently, the things I value in a woman - a good heart, interesting thoughts, someone thinking of others, a good future mother, wanting to take care of their partner, and not just getting taken care of themselfs do not seem to be common in the single women over here.
Philippine women are number 1 in the world for being a good wife. There is that 1 percent of Filipina women who are bad so men make sure to properly vet any woman you marry
Me asking to someone why Filipina? (asian) and why don't you date women out there in your country? And replies : Social status means a lot here to people. Being rich is valued by a lot of them. Middle class men aren’t always respected or enough for quite a lot of western women,People appreciate don’t the small things in life it’s always the newest car, technology, house etc Never truly content and always being more greedy for the next thing... Mmmmmm lahi rajud tang Filipina girls oy way mka lupig! Ores jud ang all dzaee😁😌
And yes agreed jud dai maya, very well said 👏 Family oriented indeed ✅ Feminine ✅ And very submissive indeed ✅ (even still in fight) haha relate much😌 Etc. And here's another thing about why mmmm. Bisayaon ra nko para disila kasabot ang mga western girls di daw kaayu kuan sa ilang hygiene dli tanan pero kasagaran 😬 didaw na sila manghugas/maligo everyday jusko ang taler daw dai asimkilig🤗🥴 Oops.
Maya, as your message is sound advice, western females won't see it as that nor will they take it under advisement. you see, they have endoctrined to believe in feminism. it's a cross they are willing to die upon. feminism and conservatism are two completely different ideologies on two completely paths. however, only feminism has lied by saying a woman can be a feminist and still have a traditional relationship. feminism never bothered to ask traditional men if they would even want a feminst female. low and behold, and as history has shown, no tradtional man wants a feminist female. they are not trained to be girlfriends, let alone have been trained to be wives. so, with all this said, your words are falling on deaf ears because they are not listening, sadly. keep up the great content though.
There are good women in America but not as big of a percentage as there are here in the Philippines. With internet and scam dating it won't be long before even here it will get tougher to find a really good women. Everyone here has already seen both types of women here as in the west 😉 🤔 😲 The draw here at least in my opinion is if I treat my lady right (and use the my head instead of other parts of my body to make my choice 👅) I have a really really really good chance of getting a partner here that will help make my life wonderful 👍 not hell. Good luck 🤞
Interesting post , i have a question which is , what are the filippino boys role in each filippino family , ??? , if your role is to provide and take care of the family what is then there role , what does the parents teach them. My question is base on how i see us role as man here in the west...
She says it all. Boys and girls has the same role even after we are married still we look after our parents. All siblings talk together how to solve problems epecially when our parents needs us the most. I'm a province dude from the philippines.
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And I did my darling happily married now to my wonderful Filipina for 11 years and she has blessed me with four wonderful children😊
As a black man with a Filipino wife for 5 year you are 1000% right yes we do have disagreements sometimes but we are always respectful to each other and yes she will still continue to cook and clean and she will never deprive me in the 😼 bedroom because we understand that having problems is a part of any relationship and we are married forever so we will quickly fix our problems and continue the care of our children together❤
Thank you for being so open and honest. Dating as man in his 50s in the USA is a nightmare. Bunch of entitled, woke and unattractive women in the USA.
Yep, lots of fat women in America who refuse to go to the gym
@@Kelvin-ih6mf But they say they are happy being a beached whale. Well I think they are discusting and being extremally fat means she is also extremally lazy.
The so-called "dating pool" in the US is a _sewer_ - and a very shallow one at that.
@@Kelvin-ih6mf maybe they will become something useful.... By getting rendered into biodiesel or something.
Yep, and they're mannish too.
Very good points Maya. Western women are the polar opposite of Filipinas. Western women have found themselves repelling Western men. Their entitled attitude has programmed themselves into thinking they don't need to change. With the danger of divorce being so high here, most men find it risky to subject themselves to financial ruin due to divorce. A man wants a woman to be his peace. Not as an everyday living nightmare on many levels. Thank you for bringing light to the great things about the Philippines and awesome Filipinas.
Don't spend another minute worrying about Western women and their griping.
They may claim that we're their rejects, but truth be known, we're *here* because we have rejected *them.*
I didn't go to the Philippines to find a wife. My future wife contacted me online on Facebook Messenger. We weren't even on a dating site. We were just on Facebook. It took her three attempts to contact me before I finally answered her. Thank God I did. We have had a great relationship, and I wouldn't trade her for anything. She is caring, loving, appreciative, and respectful. She has treated me like a person . She is very considerate and understanding. Attributes that are often lacking among people here.
That is how I met mine. I was not specifically seeking a Filipina, mine simply happened to *be* one!
I’ve been in a LDR with my Filipino sweetheart for four months now and she’s beyond amazing. I once ask her if we was to marry one day, would you submit to me? And she said “yes i would” (which totally shocked me) and i said why? Then she said “because thats what the Bible says!” ….a western woman (especially American women) WOULD NEVER SAY THAT. I bought my ticket two weeks ago and ill be flying out to the Philippines for my first visit at the end of this month to see her! I cant wait 🙂
Best of luck 😊
Good luck Andre, fantastic story buddy!
In the west you can find women like that in more rural areas. Also, at church not bars and clubs lol.
The problem is the anti-man attitude is making its way through every part of America. So you might find a woman who is perfect now but 5-10 years from now she will leave with 1/2 your stuff.
What's do you mean by, "submit to me"?
Don’t get finessed
The feminist movement in the US ruined it for for women. They are now in their 30's, 40's and 50's that have no hope of getting married because of their attitude's
I can honestly say that you nailed it. I've heard a lot of reasons why we gentlemen are seeking love in other countries and you laid it out concisely. It's videos like this that earn my subscription.
What came to my mind as I listened to you Maya was how the situation seems reversed in your country.
For the same reasons some western men want to find a partner in SE Asia, the Philipina woman looks for a Western man and doesn't want a certain Philippino man. Why is that? Nobody wants to talk about it, but here it is.
Some Philippino men may be saying the same thing, that they want a certain type of woman and that the women who go with foreigners is not what they want. Especially if the man is educated and well off.
I don't know why this is all so fascinating but it is. It's like a social experiment.
I watched a famous Philippino's wedding the other day, a very wealthy person, same age as his wife, she is from the Philippines and they are totally in love. No talk of going with someone from another country, just loving each other normally from their own culture.
So maybe I still don't get it, but I'm trying to understand. Still don't understand the older man thing. But I will never judge. Everyone has a right to happiness.
Great video Maya, in my opinion we are just simply tired of dealing with the crazy, selfish bitches!!! 😁
Love it Maya ... all points correct ... thats why I went to the Philippines in 2011 and now I have a Filipina wife. She is the best. I have had many American relationships and one marriage that went south. I felt I needed to go overseas to get a real woman and I found her. Thank you for this video. It is the truest take on the Filipina.
Well said Maya i hope that all women in the west can see this video
Hi Maya, new sub from the USA here. I started talking to Filipinas on social media and dating apps during the pandemic. I am just now getting accustomed to how sweet, agreeable and feminine they all are! Seriously, not one Filipina has been rude to me. I'm M66, had a terrible marriage, and retired. I'm considering selling everything and moving to the Philippines to start fresh.
Hi! Best of luck to you 😊 hope you find your filipina soon
You will safe more. Life is more peaceful and by far cheaper in the Philippines
You might first go on UA-cam watching expat bloggers in several areas of the Philippines. Personally I have 0 zero interest in being anywhere near Manila, Cebu city or any other big city on these islands. That being said I do like being 10 kilometers from Dauin , 25 kilometers from Dumaguete. Most of us expats will gladly point you in the direction you want to try or travel.
Second when you have decided where you want to try, buy you a round trip ticket to the Philippines and come see what it is like. Only rent a room for a few nights in advance as there is a good chance you will book a room somewhere once you are here and see the many and very different options available. For me after being here for 2 years going back and forth then almost 4 years with only one trip back (because of the scam-) book no less than 30 days. If you book more than 30 days you will have to get the visa extension, no problem but good to know in advance. Meet people, especially ladies here not on line 😉 and unless you want a westernized local be careful meeting the future miss next in a bar. Not to say there are no good ladies in the bars but just like the rest of the world if the lady comes from the bar ........... Hello. But hey maybe that's what you are looking for so just be sure of what you want before you come over.
Enough for now, watch the bloggers 😉 🤔
I am in my 40s and when I am ready I will happily be a potential stepfather and husband.
Excellent video! You have a natural talent for this; not many can be relaxed and comfortable on camera.
Filipinas have a belief that for a happy home she should ensure that her husband is happy. Seems kinda smart to me
Exactly! 💯
I like your perspective, and women in the West "should" take notes...
More like this... You and a friend need to do a reaction video to some of the insane women here 😄
Spot on🏋🏻♀️🤟🏋🏻♀️, very good Maya, that made a good impression👍 ( Good sound too☺️)
Well said, Maya ... Appreciate you and Gio's channels.
I'm a pass port Bro. American girls brought it on themselves. Simple as that
Western women have turned their back on traditional roles. The government’s war on divorcing men has not helped the situation.
Nice vlog. I am a six-figure income earner. I know how to treat a woman, am successful in my career, and am an empty-nested grandfather (at 50). I have all the qualities western women want, except I am not tall enough which labels me as a broken down and dusty left-over man. I have already made my exodus to PH and never looked back.
Maya all great points 👍. Some just want to complain
Western women for the most part Maya don't value and appreciate the men they already have there so I don't see why they would insult the guys who leave overseas for a much better woman. It's like a job if you go to a job and it's a toxic environment where you are working with bad co workers and a boss that Bullies you then you leave and find a job or start your own business where you are better appreciated and respected same with relationships and Filipinas are definitely a keeper in all the right ways you're a really good person Maya I hope to meet someone like you someday Gio is one lucky guy. Take care 👍🆒 😎
Thank you :)
1 simple reason why there are passport bros.
Women like you.
Simple 👍☺️
You are completely right on your opinion and that reflect reality as it is, i.e, completely different from the feminists out there who not even are able to "catch" a man anymore because no man wants to be in a relationship with his "boss"
You're right I'm married to a FILIPINA for 10 years and I'm vary happy and in Love my wife family made me part of their family thank God for my Filipina wife
Wow Maya you nailed it!
Western women can even disagree with your choice of how you are happy about wanting to live your own life and they can make their own choices. As always choices lead to certain outcomes. As a man who wants to see if I enjoy living in Asia I don't don't mind Western women criticizing me as I know they don't respect me or my choices so it let's me know I don't need to consider them as a partner. I DO MIND them attacking all the women of a continent or country, this is bigotry and should be called out. As you state they should use this as a learning experience to try and understand why men are doing this not blindly attack everyone for their choices. Again you nailed it by being open and honest about your choices and not attacking all Western women but explaining why this is really happening.
That's the key right there. We can disagree. I need your point of view, your perspective. It makes our final decision better. But let's be respectful as we discuss it. No hate, no fight, no insults but teamwork.
Excellent video, Maya! Wow! You said a mouthful. Great information. Best wishes to you and Gio!
Very well said Maya, I totally agree, my filipina girlfriend is the sweetest and the kindest I ever met in my entire life. Thank you Maya and SALAMAT PHILIPPINES 🇬🇧💙🇵🇭 😃
BRAVO Maya! Great Vlog
I plan to retire to Ph for economic reasons finding a beautiful Pinay is a bonus
Good video, Maya. The cost of living there is so much less expensive then in the west. Take care.
I know right. Take care :)
Hi Maya, I agree with all your points. I am looking forward to going to the Philippines and hopefully meet somebody sweet and nice. I enjoy all your videos with you and Gio. Hopefully I can come visit and meet you guys.
Best of luck! Thank you for watching :)
Happy international women’s day Maya.
Thank you, Frank 😊
Thankyou i will be there in a couple of months .
Gentlemen get your passports😎
You twisted my rubber arm Maya 😁
Traditional is changing. I just did 2 weeks on a dating site chatting with Filipinas in the 18-35 year old range and reading profiles. Many are using the exact same terms American women are saying. "Spoil me", "Treat me like a Queen", careers are #1 priority, not interested in getting married and having kids until early 30's. And a lot of delusion like 26-29 year olds saying they're going to travel the world, continue with their career and marry and have kids. I asked them "How?" How do they cram all that into the next 5-10 years? No answer. It's pretty clear they're watching social media and hearing the delusion coming from Western women and they're jumping on board. It sounds great to them. Why not dream of having it all?
I'm off the dating site now. I dealt with about 50 Filipinas in various degrees. All kind of the same.
A few weeks before I'd searched for 35+ year old Filipinas. There's a lot of them and it was exactly the same as I found in the US...older women are settled and have no intention of moving. They expect a man to move into their life.
There are many opportunities to be sure. For guys OK with moving into a Filipina's life and being on her plan it's no problem. But for guys with a plan for themselves getting a Filipina to get on board isn't so easy. For sure I need to be in country and find where I want to live since I will be buying/leasing. And/or I can scout some mountain settlements to see if any of those fit my plan and maybe there'll be a Filipina there we click.
Mr. Water, I have noticed the liberal use of the term "open minded," but I don't think the majority of Filipinas fully understand what that means in western lingo.
IMO, if you talk to women from the province, they are far more likely to be friendly, feminine, (biblically) submissive, and fertile. They may lack some of the social skills we are accustomed to, but they seem like willing learners.
You shouldn't be on a dating site. A dating site is where all the women that scam are.
Find a province girl,, you will find a real woman,,
You should probably step your game up. Women will give to the men they desire. It’s the law of nature.
Don't use dating app
Very well said, I have to agree with all your points. I am happy with my Filipina wife of over 23 years. Western women for the most part forgot how to be feminine women and desirable to men.
I think it is a good thing for all the reasons you said. I have even been thinking of coming there just for the reasons you said! Thank you for the video!
thank you for sharing the truth
This was an excellent video. Pointing out what is going wrong with American women in Western women. Today. If they only examine themselves and what they are doing. Things will change when it comes to men leaving. But until women understand this. Things will continue to go on as they are.
Great vlog of wisdom 👍 i like your new channel name. Your channel is a lot more then just maya in the Philippines
haha. Super glad you notice my new channel name :)
All truths spoken here.. Love your vlogs!! You and Gio do a great job, Thanks for all your hard work!
Very well said Maya 👍
Hi Maya, Love the new direction you're going with your vlogs so I thought I'd request a topic to be covered. I also sent this suggestion to Gio.
Here is the situation for many/most Ex Pats thinking of coming over and finding a lovely Filipina to spend the rest of their life with. They are 50+ years old and already had kids or knew they didn't want kids from the start. In the west not having kids is not considered a big deal. However, they would like to find a late 20's to early 40's Filipina that will love them.
They don't want to raise someone else's kids and definitely don't want new kids at 50, 60 or 70. So please do a video where you talk to ladies from their late 20's to early 40's, that don't have kids, and see how many of them would be happy to have a loving foreign husband but not have kids.
This is the elephant in the room that none of the vloggers are talking about. All the vloggers are talking about how great the Philippines are, and I agree with them, but can we really find that Filipina we're looking for.
Filipinas marry us passport bros for a better life. What happens is that the Filipina makes life better for us as well.
Western men want women who are still women and enjoy being women. We don't wan't women that want to be men. So tip for asian women, stop watching American women and wanting to be like them, God created man and women and gave us each our role to play in life, when both are doing what we were created to do it's a match made in heaven. When a woman wants to play the man's role, or the man wants to play the woman's role, it's a recipe for disaster and no good can come from it.
Very good video Maya. You covered all the bases.
Thank you so much 🙂
the best move i ever made was meeting my pinay in the PH .
Im a 39 yold black Man from Europe i already found my Filipina and what i most like on her is her smile, positive attitude, and romantic side like me. IN europe i was often criticized by woman for being romantic and thats what my gf most like in me. we just looking the right time to settle and live in barili Cebu near her family 🙂
Congratulations :)
will be relocating to Philippines in the winter 2023. Like your site.
Just subbed to your channel. I love it 🇵🇭💯❤️😚
Yay! Thank you!
Yes Mam and thanks for explaining why some prefer Philipino Wemon because they are still traditional,loving,feminine, beautiful, petite Godley Wemon 🙏❤
[edited] Well said Maya.
Hey Maya my dear friend, you are truly 100% correct. Nothing else need to be said. Thank you for sharing my dear friend.😊 😊 😊 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Yes, thank you :)
Maya, they (western women) won't ever self-reflect. Because that would mean that they are wrong. The reason why they complain is that they don't other women (non-western women) to make us happy. We're supposed to wait for them to settle for us (Passport Kings).
Nice Vlog Ms Maya!
Thank you! 🤗
I am an Asian guy and I am not ashamed of my back ground…I have been hurt by former girlfriends and it was difficult…I don’t want to go through experience that bad ever again. 😢😊😅
Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! 2 everything you said 1000 time Yes! ((Maya))
Well said Miss.
I refuse to date or try to have a family in my country. There is too big a risk of loosing everything here to trust anyone. I would do both in a second in the Philippines though. Plan on going there in about 2 years to check it out for retirement at least which I'm still far away from. From what I've seen so far It looks like I'd love living there.
I agree 100%
You are perfect ❤European women are part snake keep up the great work respect and stay safe out there
Yes your right Filipina are very devoted their husband and kids ,and priority is the family ,so we're big difference from western woman.
Ms Maya you are a amazing and great person in gods eyes and many people's eyes. I just don't want you to get caught up in that passport bros battle, I'm saying that based on which I've seen from other channels. I just don't want you and gio to get caught up in that, I thought I would just warn you. "Stay Safe❤️
Hi! Thank you for your concern
Speaking as an American male. Here in the U.S, the western women are too self righteous & entitled. A man can work 60-70 hrs per week & be the soul provider for the family,encourage the family to take vacation (even without him) & they still don't respect them ,but continue to act like you owe them more. I am making plans with a Filipina (Jannell) who is not only BEAUTIFUL,but Smart,caring,warm,forgiving,believes in God & is absolutely perfect in my eyes.
Agreed when I was young I told myself that I would never follow the bible I mean I want 50/50 relationship but when I met the person I loved I let him to leads always 😅😂🤣
I live in Los Angeles USA and in my experience with American women, I find them confusing and hard to connect. They're crying for love or someone who cares for them but when I choose to be "Nice" or "Caring" they tend to reject me. And most of them are very defensive and too paranoid toward good men. They think nice guy as weak desperate men and they choose "Bad boys" but then they get fed up with bad boys after awhile and then leave them. I also noticed the more prettier they are they tend to be very cold and standoffish. I also noticed they want me to care for their needs but they don't want to do the same for me.
My Filipina and I have a terrific relationship on all levels.
There were only 2 things that we actually had to work on together.
1st was the language difference.
Even though she speaks very good English she obviously isn’t a native speaker.
This meant she had certain things to learn or understand such as humour and how we westerners will use a word that has a literal meaning and a metaphorical meaning. Context is very important most of the time.
As for me I am putting a good effort into learning Tagalog so our conversations don’t always have to be in English.
The hardest thing for me is not mixing ilocano and Tagalog words in the same sentence 😅.
2nd was her initial fear of or concern about the size of my “banana” 😮 the first time we spent the night together.
We went slow and gentle and I put all of my effort into easing her nervousness and pleasing her with no concern for myself.
She saw it as my way of expressing my love for her with my sincere and genuine concern for her comfort and pleasure.
It took time but eventually we figured out what worked best for her to experience the maximum pleasure with the least discomfort.
Now she expects us to “exercise” at least twice a day 😊 and I haven’t showered alone since that first night with her 😅😊.
Not that I’m complaining 😊
A lot of people (women) in the west assume that men come here to somehow take advantage of Filipinas.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
The truth is she lets me be a man, even expects me to be a man, while she enjoys being a woman/wife/mother.
She has 2 children from a Filipino man she was with over a decade ago who abandoned them.
I adore her and the way she treats/loves me causes me to want to be the best husband, father, lover, friend for her that I can.
She deserves the absolute best from me and that’s what I give her every day (& night) 😅😊 (& morning & shower).
I love her beyond measure and I love “our” children as well. I live the most stress free and love filled life I could ever have imagined 😊
I still don’t like Balut 😂😂
I love you and Gio and your thought process. What is logical to most isn’t the most logical for everyone. I too am now in Asia . My strategy to combat this attitude is to just plain , pay no attention ( but here I am ) . Western women, no I should say the “ woke culture “ in the west believes 2 plus 2 equals whatever they say it equals . Take common sense and throw it out the window is the way I think, they look at ANY issue. I am at the point where I just don’t give a rodents anal cavity about anything they have to say. I am here, they are there, enjoy your woke culture, have a nice day, let me be, and see ya……
if you really think about how the term 'woke' was hijacked, being a passport bro or opting out of the american western dating market is actually being 'woke' in itself. And thats not a bad thing...because you woke up to that realization one day
Everything you said about Filipina woman. Beautiful sweet feminine all true. That's why I started dating Filipina at 47 years old. I'm now 54 and I will marry a Filipina one day. Will be going back to Philippines later this year and will be looking for my future wife.
wow, nice video. you might be as good as gio!
I wish 😁
Sounds like Paradise, had a bad divorce and was at the bottom, a pitty thats i maybe have to wait till pension to go to Philphinen but why not then, few years and decide then
collectivist society
The Philippines is a collectivist society, in which the needs of the family are prioritized over the needs of the individual. Filipinos value social harmony and maintaining smooth relationships, which means they may often avoid expressing their true opinions or delivering unwanted news.
OK. First, I'm not hating on any women... Asian or Western. But I have witnessed first hand several older men. Travelled to Asia and meet their dream wife. The so-called "traditional women" as you eloquently put it. They get married and relocate these women to the west. And sadly have seen these "traditional women" slowly become westernized. That 'true' love they had for their older husband changes when they start blending into society and seeing their friends (western women) with younger guys. And that "traditional" role is out the window when she realizes she can have the same as western women. Also the fear and stigma of introducing her 'older' husband to her new friends her own age. I've seen this happen so many times to guys here. So, the women in the videos with their claims against Asian women and passport bros are not totally wrong. But also keep in mind I'm not saying ALL Asian women are like that. And yes, I'm from the west and have been to Asia many many times. Conclusion, your video and comments I think is purely your own opinion and experience without any support or proof to back it up.
Verry well spoken love it let the western ???? Learn from your video
who wants to stay in a country where the women don't need a man, or so they say and show it? We want a woman that is a woman, feminine, loving. We don't necessarily want a domesticated woman bu twe want to feel important. And honestly, i want a beatiful young woman with long sexy black hair, not cute woman with a bald head and attitude
Maya nailed it on the head. Men are simple creatures, we want to build a family, have children, be respected and work hard for our families, Everything we see online about Filipinas, Shows Western men there are still good woman out there, and this horrible liberal culture hasn't destroyed men's chances to find happiness.
You mention "You want a man who is financially stable". I am a disabled man I don't make enough to be a provider. Should I not go to Philippines to find love? Maybe I'm not lovable even in Philippine....
Every man has different values. As for myself, a self centered party girl is totally uninteresting. Unfortanently, the things I value in a woman - a good heart, interesting thoughts, someone thinking of others, a good future mother, wanting to take care of their partner, and not just getting taken care of themselfs do not seem to be common in the single women over here.
I'm glad I'm an older man now. 😅
Philippine women are number 1 in the world for being a good wife. There is that 1 percent of Filipina women who are bad so men make sure to properly vet any woman you marry
What is that dark mark on your right arm?
Me asking to someone why Filipina? (asian) and why don't you date women out there in your country?
And replies :
Social status means a lot here to people. Being rich is valued by a lot of them. Middle class men aren’t always respected or enough for quite a lot of western women,People appreciate don’t the small things in life it’s always the newest car, technology, house etc Never truly content and always being more greedy for the next thing...
Mmmmmm lahi rajud tang Filipina girls oy way mka lupig! Ores jud ang all dzaee😁😌
And yes agreed jud dai maya, very well said 👏
Family oriented indeed ✅
Feminine ✅
And very submissive indeed ✅ (even still in fight) haha relate much😌
Etc.
And here's another thing about why mmmm. Bisayaon ra nko para disila kasabot ang mga western girls di daw kaayu kuan sa ilang hygiene dli tanan pero kasagaran 😬 didaw na sila manghugas/maligo everyday jusko ang taler daw dai asimkilig🤗🥴
Oops.
Maya, as your message is sound advice, western females won't see it as that nor will they take it under advisement. you see, they have endoctrined to believe in feminism. it's a cross they are willing to die upon. feminism and conservatism are two completely different ideologies on two completely paths. however, only feminism has lied by saying a woman can be a feminist and still have a traditional relationship. feminism never bothered to ask traditional men if they would even want a feminst female. low and behold, and as history has shown, no tradtional man wants a feminist female. they are not trained to be girlfriends, let alone have been trained to be wives. so, with all this said, your words are falling on deaf ears because they are not listening, sadly.
keep up the great content though.
There are good women in America but not as big of a percentage as there are here in the Philippines. With internet and scam dating it won't be long before even here it will get tougher to find a really good women. Everyone here has already seen both types of women here as in the west 😉 🤔 😲
The draw here at least in my opinion is if I treat my lady right (and use the my head instead of other parts of my body to make my choice 👅) I have a really really really good chance of getting a partner here that will help make my life wonderful 👍 not hell. Good luck 🤞
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🤎 🩸 🌸 you are right well done 🦋 💕 🔹
Thanks for listening 😊
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Interesting post , i have a question which is , what are the filippino boys role in each filippino family , ??? , if your role is to provide and take care of the family what is then there role , what does the parents teach them. My question is base on how i see us role as man here in the west...
She says it all. Boys and girls has the same role even after we are married still we look after our parents. All siblings talk together how to solve problems epecially when our parents needs us the most. I'm a province dude from the philippines.