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I'm 67 and my girlfriend of 6 years is 24. I met her when she was 18 and I was 61. So far, no issues. I take care of her needs ( finacially) and she take of my needs (pysically). No drama or any other expectations. We live a fun and happy life in Subic Bay.
Good is good bad is bad. When looking for someone. You need to see the soul of the partner. Only time will show you who that person for real. Time, circumstances and situations will show you the real person who they are inside and out.
Regardless of age difference. The most important part of the relationships is security. Money provides financial security. Any woman would consider that as a priority for themselves and their children. It shouldn't be based on that as the most important thing but financial security is basic need. I am in relationship with filipina 23 years younger and love and care each other is number one in our lives.
One important question to ask is ...how many couples do you know of a foreigner from a poor country (such as Honduras) and a Filipina in a significant age gap (>16 years) where the foreigner is poor , even by Filipino standards (not just poor by Western standards)...I think the answer would be virtually Zero. We all have to be honest about age gap relationships...the older man provides financial and status security to the woman...the younger woman provides the older man with the pleasure of having a younger , prettier wife for the remainder of his life, hopefully. The thing about money(and a good passport) is similar to when you have a University degree and you are looking for a job, the degree opens the doors for you and gives you more opportunities as compared to someone without a degree...the same way, the older foreigner being relatively wealthy (by Filipino standards)and being from a wealthier country (good passport for immigration purposes)... has more doors open to him when it comes to looking for a "job", that is , a relationship with a younger Filipina. The fact that the money (and passport) helps is an essential truth that cannot be ignored. The thing is , of course there can be true love with an age gap relationship, the older man has many many good qualities, more wisdom, knows how to treat a woman properly, and does not have the energy anymore to go around chasing other women ( a very good quality!)....so once the older man has the door opened to him, that is, the opportunity to court and woo the younger woman, then he has a chance to make her fall in love with him. But if the older man never had that door opened to him, then he would not ever have that opportunity. The key is the opening of the door....the fact that true love can be the result is also an undeniable truth.
Anywhere in the world wealthy men have no difficulty attracting beautiful very young women. Due to economic circumstance a US Social Security pension can easily be 10 times the income of a well employed Filipina.
Hello My Filipina is 23 years younger than me. She always tells me age is just a number. It’s true. Filipinas don’t care your age. But. Foreigners don’t feel old to your Filipina. Lose weight and be active. Be strong. And money ? No need As long as your financially stable they won’t care. Filipinas are looking for love. True love. And let me tell you, your Filipina will love you so much more if she commits to you. You will be in the best times of your life.
Interesting topic. This is my take on the subject. I'm older and in ok health. I've thought about coming to the Philippines to find someone to spend my final years with. (I lost my wife of 39 years to cancer 6 years ago) I would want someone younger than me who would basically care for me until the end. I would want someone totally faithful to me who would treat me like a king because I would treat her like a princess. But, If I was to do that, the onus would be on me to take care of her! I don't know how someone can expect another person to give up their youth and not repay that person with all that is left! Let's face it, while there may be love on the older person's part, it not going to be as strong on the younger person's part. So, yes, large age gap relationships should be about the money! After all, when you die, you can't take it with you! So, you think, why haven't I pulled the plug, moved to a third-world country, and found a younger person to be with! Well, I have a huge home here in the States, over 4000 sq. ft., all on one floor, on a golf course, with every amenity that life can offer, and I find it hard to give all that up.
Why give it up ? Nothing wrong with living part of the year in the states and part of the year in the Philippines. I do just that. This next year we are making plans to live in Germany, Italy, and Spain for 3 months and Japan for another month as well. I normally only go back and live in the states for 2 months a year but after talking to my wife and 2 younger kids we want to see some of Europe so I will be going back to work in the states where I keep my home and work from October to April to pay for our trip. Life's short, make some memories good luck.
As an older man, i don't have a problem with a woman looking for security (money) in a relationship as long as it is not the only reason. Love, respect, life experience, and maturity are also important in a relationship (age gap or not.)
My friend and i are one of the younger foreigners you would say,but we are not players,not interested to go from place to place or from girl to girl,we into settling down,1 location to call home,we thinking longterm. Cant wait for us to get to Cebu,hope it will be by end of this year.
Age is just a number once over the age of 18 a man in his 50's dating or marring a woman in her late 20's or older is ok as long as they love each other and respect each other same as skin color by the way you two are very attractive women.
Physical, emotional, mental psychology, intellectual, spiritual, economic, and interests and hobbies are the ingredients for a good relationship. Those things can shift with the age gap, some things better, some things worse. A large age gap is a very different relationship and requires a different mindset and plans for how the future will play out. It is a case-by-case situation dependent on the people involved as they seek love, stability, and trust. It could be good for some couples or a disaster for others. I would have a difficult time reconciling being with anyone from 18-25. Not that I wouldn't enjoy being with such youthful beauty and energy, but I see those years as the-going-away-party for a young adult. She should be enjoying those years with friends around her own age as they prepare for the serious business of being an adult after 25. Me entering someone else's life at that stage would be like saying "Party's Over! You're an adult now; let's go home." Only person I could handle that young would have to be a naturally mature filipina who feels people her age are silly and want to move on to adulthood. But this is me looking at it from a western perspective. I suspect some filipinas are naturally mature from the responsibilities and situations they face at an early age, but you people who live there know best.
Thursday, July 13, 2023 Thank you Maya and Gelay! 🥰 I like how open and honest you are in this video, while still being nice and ladylike. 🙋♀ And well done with picking the background! All the greenery and the huge tree 🌳in the background are beautiful! 🌾🌳🌴🌴🌴🌳🌾 You must know Leah and her channel - Philippine Family Life with Leah. When Leah met Gary she was only 18, but she lied and said she was 21. Gary was 56. Now they are happily married, and they have a daughter together! 👨👩👧 It's important to point out that Gary has a gym membership, and he works out several times a week! Gary has a lot of muscles and he looks impressive! 🏋 Most men, of any age, do not have an exercise program. So most men just look average. 🙁
Very interested podcast. I noticed that you're very smart women. I'm planning to come very soon in 2 months to the Philippines and wish to meet good Filipina for dating seriously
Not surprised to hear women choosing mates based on genetics. But i must admit, out of all groups in the world at the moment, the filipinas are the most straight forward with it, and it would probably throw many people off guard. Lol. Certain other groups talk no where near this and still get accused of self hate etc etc. I wonder what those people would say after hearing this type of straight forwardness.
Hi Maya! You two provided a great perspective on relationships with an age gap. Your friend is dating an older man so she had first hand experience. What did she like about her man when she first met him?
I have been a daddy for many girls. The key is to let her know at the beginning what her monthly budget will be, trust me on this one. It will ensure their are no hard feelings during your arrangement. Guys, IF and only IF you can afford to be a daddy you should try it at least once. I also realize that a lot of you guys can not afford to be a daddy because your a low budget/poor expat, so don't hate on us that can. Carry on.
Thanks for openly admitting about being a sugar daddy. I see nothing wrong with it and it fits the model of young beautiful Filipinas with well aged older men. It's the same all over the world. Thanks for the advice on how to make it work from the beginning.
It's fun being a daddy. And you got it right tell them straight up what their budget is. I'm getting older now and wand to chill with a good girl. I will take care of her as long as the love is real.
Based just on my own experience, I would argue that you have two types of SD, full time and part time or (step) daddy. Your going to pay one way or another. Guys that live here are not pulling girls from the bar, that I can ensure you. Only the tourist pay bar fines.
There thousands of foreigners whom are daddy to girls and boys as well as husband/boyfriend to their wife/girlfriend! We can afford the the whole family.
The only real reason for age gaps especially 20,30,40, years plus is financial stability there is no attraction with a man who could be your grandfather . Filipinas keep saying lack of maturity in filipino men of course when you compare a young pinoy to an old foreigner here's an idea why not choose an old mature pinoy? Of course not because he probably doesn't have anything to offer materially or financially so here's where the grandfather foreigner comes in handy to provide a better life in return the foreigner gets to enjoy a hot young pinay .✌️✌️👍
I think the way you express yourself and share your feelings especially about masculinity or submissiveness is exactly what makes the Filipina special she still a feminine and she knows it. Any good man will respect and appreciate that. You got it right drinkers are no good and really young guys even Americans I saw them go to Asia and they don't have money then get the girl pregnant and never come back it's very sad. Whereas the older man is already lived and has much valuable experience to teach you and if you are a good student then he is your mentor. I like to teach refined English West Coast American Style. Even little slang makes you seem like American. 🙏😘😘🙏
You should still look at mobility limitations of older gentlemen. How much activities do you want to share? How many ignore that and then say, HEY, I NEED A YOUNGER MAN NOW!,??
It is July 11/2023 @ 5:48 pm. Hello ladies my name is Dean Butler I am in a relationship with the most amazing young lady this side of heaven. Her name is Genevieve/ Genny. She is 43 and living in Lebungan North Cotabato Philippines. I am 66 living in Louisiana USA. We have known each other around 13 years. We have been in a relationship for 4 years now. Our love and respect for each other has set the bar to unreachable heights. There is a 23 year age gap between us. It has not been a problem. Genny feels exactly like Gelay described, she has never had a man treat her, love her , care for her, know her needs even though she never asks, trust her unconditionally and love her unconditionally. All she wants is what I want, for us to have a life together. We are working on it. I will say this about the Philippina ladies, if you find a good one and there are many, you will find a life partner unlike anything you have or will ever know. I subscribed to both of you ladies with my personal UA-cam and this one, I won’t mention because you said no self promoting. Much respect to you both, and thank you for all that you do. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
She is near where I live with my filipina in pigcawayan. I have been here for almost 1 year now. I haven't seen a foreigner since I've been here. Yes province girls are amazing 👏 😍
I've never been there, but one thing I like about Filipinas is they have the well balanced asian beauty, and values, but most of them are still catholics, so they can understand a part of my culture and thoughts. (I'm a catholic from Spain) Anyway, I do think age is a gap, I should have tried to meet a cute filipina when I was 30 (and a little bit goodlooking). Now, with 50, I don't dare.
Father’s love is different from a spouse/bf’s love, some women, like me just found older men hot 😅(kidding). Fact is; most of them are more responsible, and emotionally stable.
@tinoandbrothersandmom2974, You nailed it, a responsible, emotionally stable and I will add financially stable man is a real catch for any women. Only downside is many of those men are much OLDER and not as attractive as a handsome younger man. So I guess it all depends on what you want. If you like the handsome strong man who is an exciting lover, but morally, emotionally and financially bankrupt, go for it. But if you prefer long term love and stability you should over look an older man's physical flaws. Maybe he's bald, fat and missing some teeth! LOL
Could you please make a video to explain what a Filipina mean by "respect"? I am quite sure Filipina's idea of "respect" is different than what we mean in western foreign countries.
Hello ladies here from USA. You have a pretty good attitude towards age difference and sure there's all kinds of people oh, and some even 70 years old still look young yeah sure there might be daddy issues but what's wrong with that my name is hard to say and almost every lady just calls me Daddy. Plus I have a half Filipino teenage son if you see him you'll be asking for a baby. My friends in Thailand always telling me that, but so true mestizo or mixed blood is so beautiful and I am not pure white either. My last girlfriend was 34 and so I was nearly 30 years more, no age issues. I hope to be moving to the Philippines soon. Maybe talk to you later, blessings Daddy. 🙏😘😘🙏
Ladies, to make a long story short. You don't need to apologize for looking for an older guy who can can offer you financial security. It's not like our women, in the Western World, are different. There's nothing wrong about wanting to enhance your life. By picking an Asian woman, at least I get a traditional, conservative female, and not ´another man´ in a relationship, who will be trying to subdue me continuously. Obviously, we fight back, and one form of that fight is, we go to Asia and search for a real woman, that is fun to be with.
well i just found you and your both realy pretty - for me is 28 til 48 cause i want Kids and younger? NOGO cause i feel that Way maybe 27 but already only Comfortable if it realy fit - my first Experience was with 40 years old and she look more as 30
It's strange to hear these girls talk about having "dark skin", as if that is a negative. I doubt many foreign men view you this way - they probably see you as having a "healthy glow" to your skin. You really need to lose this attitude and recognize your Filipina looks as a big plus for most men. 😍
Ah, age gaps. Well, Mother Nature and all the Gods clearly smile approvingly on such unions, and even bless them. How do we know? Nature has given men the ability to father children into their 70s, and even beyond. But she limits women from that ability beyond around the age of 40. Nature has also arranged it that older men seldom like women closer to their own ages. But nature has provided that many a younger lady likes men who are substantially older than they are. It may look as if it's all about money. But women naturally want mature men who can financially support the wife and kids, and who are no longer playing around. And nature doesn't prevent love from developing between those of different ages. Nothing new under the sun❤️❤️
From my observation about 30 years difference is about the maximum. lets say the girl is 25 and the guy is 55 years old but well kept and looks 45. If the guy has good genes has good attitude is relatively handsome looking and has money provides stability yes you can find a good woman but usually it will either be a single mother who may be a hottie, or a negrita with not so many options. Filipinas are very practical usually around the age of 25+ filipinas have a very good idea what they can get and realize that time is passing. Younger girls than 25 still have time to look around and are more likely to pass an older man even if he has money. having money basically shaves about 10 years off your age and raises your sexual market value about 3 points So if you are a 5 you turn into an 8. if you are 55 you look 45. I knew a white guy who is 52 and out of shape and a 3 who married a filipina who was 28 and a strong 6. They guy did not have much money about 25 year difference. Just don't go after women who come from wealthy filipino families they will not have anything to do with you.
The problem lies in immediate judgement of people based on their age. What a sad way to judge someone. It seems like all the you tubers in phils when interviewing someone the first question asked is how old are you. If age doesn't matter then why the question?
If the truth be told any relationship on average with over 10 year age gap could be problematic. Unless lets say we are talking about a 55 year old man with a 45 yr old women. By that time they should both be very mature and it shouldn't make much difference. But if we are talking about a 22 yr old and a 32 year old there will be on average a big maturity difference. That was sure the case with me and many of my friends in that age group. We did a LOT of growing's up from 22 to 32!
Just my opinion but from my perspective, a Filipina that age really doesn’t have any thing to do with the character of the man. Unfortunately the younger foreigners that travel to Philippines have been stereotyped as only going to PHL to play around and a young Filipina that is poor is also looking for a man that will settle down and support her and perhaps her family. A young Filipina in the USA usually has income and support and doesn’t have to choose an older man. Plus they rarely will choose a man who is more than 10-15 years older. The younger Filipina’s that I know, and we have plenty of them living in Los Angeles CA are all choosing young men and are happy to take the chance that these young men have good intentions. If they don’t and they break apart, they still have plenty of opportunities to meet other men. Unfortunately the Filipina in the Philippines doesn’t have as many opportunities and perhaps that’s why they choose old men that worship them lol. How old is too old for a young Filipina, it’s up to her but the fact that he’s closer to death should be a consideration if they’re planning on starting a family because she will be a widow with children and a caregiver if he’s really old.
Regardless of how you reply, justify or try and turn around this girls answer about she doesn't want an older Filipino with her skin tone. She just admitted she is racist on skin tone, as she stated that she wants a foreigner to have lighter skin with. You can try and make excuses out of her comment and she is certainly allowed her own preferences, but Filipina girls will admit even on accident that they prefer light skin, but they believe light skin is better and they actually want white men with blue eyes. Now go ahead and try and make up excuses for it Maya. Trying to turn her answer around will get you no respect. Telling the truth will get you more.
I dont think we should label it as racist tho. Lets not do the dame thing, western women do to men whenever they express their preference. However it was interesting to see her refer to her own akin as dark. When in actuality she's would be in the "light complexion catagory" when it comes to skintones. So, is she racist, no. Does she have dysmorphia going on, possibly.
@@user-wx7rm3nr8r I've been living here for over a year. Most Filipinas don't want a black baby with frizzy hair. They want a white baby. I'm just being direct with objective results from my experiences here. White men have a social advantage with Filipina women. Of course they will settle for a black man or Filipino. Just not their first choice. The family will also become excited with the chance to get a white mixed baby. They really think that it is a better future.
@@user-wx7rm3nr8r Yeah, I found that strange too. I don't see her as dark. I guess she wants to be white. If she is dark, then what is Maya? By the way, I love Maya's skin tone. She's really beautiful... and taken. 😞
@@user-wx7rm3nr8ris she racist I don't know, but I do know she will not date anybody darker than her which includes 90% of black men. Don't worry there are Filipinas that will date black men, it's just not in the Dumaguete area. Go where your wanted.
Poor girl, she has know clue how genetics work. She can use products to lighten her skin, have a baby with a man who is white with blue eyes and the child is still born with dark skin, dark & Filipino looking eyes. I wish her the best of luck with what she wants her child to look like. I will feel sorry for the child if not turn out the way she desires….
Sorry to say even in the Philippines Filipinos look at a man 40 to 50 years age gap the 65 or 70 year old man has nothing in common with an 18 or 19 year old woman. Except Sex. Talking from experience. 5 Filipina girlfriends in 20 years Me 45 her 18 in common SEX. Me 50 her 23 in common SEX. Me 53 her 27 in common SEX. Me 59 her 33 in common her a Nurse and you guessed it SEX. Me 60 my wife 38 life experiences and SEX. Over 40 age gap is looked down upon even here in the Philippines. Good video
Just for your information im 60 looking for younger much younger I'm white man in shape easy to look at nice features all my hair nice teeth and smile financially secure home owner where do I go ? No date sites please maybe you know someone for me? Would love to talk to you
Dumangete Negros The provinces is the best place to go for men your age. The Dark filipinas are not considered desirable among filipinos especially the short and skinny girls. Girls that are under 5 feet tall. At the age of 60 you should realistically be looking for women about 25-28 years old who have stayed single and preferably have no children. If you are looking for a hottie the best option is finding a single mom with 1 baby. Single others is almost impossible to find a local filipino who will treat her seriously for marriage. I have seen many foreigners who are about 50 years old with 25 year old girls who have one baby and are total hotties. A woman who has one baby 25 years old is not much a problem babies are super cheap to take care of you are probably looking at no more than about 1k USD a year in expenses. The children in Phillipines and especially thailand are raised to be much more respectful than in the west. women like foreign men because we have money, Skin color, height, genetics. I knew another broke in Thailand who was 72 and his girlfriend was 40 and total hottie. At your age as long as you not fat and have reasonable money it should be easy find yourself 30-32 year old girlfriend. keep in mind a 32 year old woman in phillipines and thailand would look around 28 in USA. If you going to thailand recommend Hua Hin also target the darker skin girls who are skinny. My opinion dark skinned girls are beautiful.
How old is too old? In the Phil's there is no such thing as to old when it comes to expats and Filipina. At least the age gaps I've seen on UA-cam which have been from 10 year all the way up to 50 year's! If I recall I even saw a 79 yr old with a 22 yr old. Now that's what I call an AGE GAP!!! 🤣
Let’s be honest ..if your looking for love or casual relationship, there is a transactional process. Say your looking for a partner ya need to be honest with wants and needs. And you also need be honest with yourself …where do ya fit on the sliding scale of attraction. Most foreigners are with province girls and as they easily attainable, they usually have less knowledge and less aspirations. Hence they are looking for stability ..ie money and the guy hopefully with a be a nice guy. If you are wanting causal aka pay for play that’s a whole different ball game, as your likely to be a short term fix ..either way, for a younger Filipina..you’ll be taking away her best years(she will need to make the most of these years to find a stable partner) whatever your relationship…why would ya settle for a Skoda if ya can afford a Ferrari…I know what I’d prefer to drive…just make sure ya can afford the ferrari. 😂 GLTA..
Quoted from the internet. Google search on the question. What is color discrimination in the Philippines? Colorism, or the preference of lighter skin over darker skin, is rife in Philippine culture. You see it in the alarming frequency of commercials and billboards advertising whitening creams, whitening pills, and whitening treatments.
Maya did you know that a child’s intelligence is most likely to come from the mother due to the X chromosome. The mother has two and the father one. Medical research on google. This is why some Mothers will yell at their child, why did you do that, you are just like your Dad. 😂 LOL
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I'm 67 and my girlfriend of 6 years is 24. I met her when she was 18 and I was 61. So far, no issues. I take care of her needs ( finacially) and she take of my needs (pysically). No drama or any other expectations. We live a fun and happy life in Subic Bay.
Honesty? Holy wow Batman. YOU are probably the more happy guy with reality than liars. Nice.
Good is good bad is bad. When looking for someone. You need to see the soul of the partner. Only time will show you who that person for real. Time, circumstances and situations will show you the real person who they are inside and out.
indeed. ❣️
Regardless of age difference. The most important part of the relationships is security. Money provides financial security. Any woman would consider that as a priority for themselves and their children. It shouldn't be based on that as the most important thing but financial security is basic need. I am in relationship with filipina 23 years younger and love and care each other is number one in our lives.
One important question to ask is ...how many couples do you know of a foreigner from a poor country (such as Honduras) and a Filipina in a significant age gap (>16 years) where the foreigner is poor , even by Filipino standards (not just poor by Western standards)...I think the answer would be virtually Zero.
We all have to be honest about age gap relationships...the older man provides financial and status security to the woman...the younger woman provides the older man with the pleasure of having a younger , prettier wife for the remainder of his life, hopefully.
The thing about money(and a good passport) is similar to when you have a University degree and you are looking for a job, the degree opens the doors for you and gives you more opportunities as compared to someone without a degree...the same way, the older foreigner being relatively wealthy (by Filipino standards)and being from a wealthier country (good passport for immigration purposes)... has more doors open to him when it comes to looking for a "job", that is , a relationship with a younger Filipina. The fact that the money (and passport) helps is an essential truth that cannot be ignored.
The thing is , of course there can be true love with an age gap relationship, the older man has many many good qualities, more wisdom, knows how to treat a woman properly, and does not have the energy anymore to go around chasing other women ( a very good quality!)....so once the older man has the door opened to him, that is, the opportunity to court and woo the younger woman, then he has a chance to make her fall in love with him. But if the older man never had that door opened to him, then he would not ever have that opportunity. The key is the opening of the door....the fact that true love can be the result is also an undeniable truth.
Anywhere in the world wealthy men have no difficulty attracting beautiful very young women. Due to economic circumstance a US Social Security pension can easily be 10 times the income of a well employed Filipina.
All relationships, everywhere, have money (resources) as an essential component. No woman is marrying a broke guy, anywhere.
On behalf of all men, over 25 is too old
Hello My Filipina is 23 years younger than me. She always tells me age is just a number. It’s true. Filipinas don’t care your age. But. Foreigners don’t feel old to your Filipina. Lose weight and be active. Be strong. And money ? No need As long as your financially stable they won’t care. Filipinas are looking for love. True love. And let me tell you, your Filipina will love you so much more if she commits to you. You will be in the best times of your life.
Ahaha
Im 62 and hope to find my youthful love soon. Preferably (36-46) but I am open, based on her heart and maturity.
Thanks Maya for a great video. Your guest is very nice & smart too. She seems to know what she wants in life.👍
Great video and interview ladies....2 lovely ladies 😎🙏🏽👊🏽
Interesting topic. This is my take on the subject. I'm older and in ok health. I've thought about coming to the Philippines to find someone to spend my final years with. (I lost my wife of 39 years to cancer 6 years ago) I would want someone younger than me who would basically care for me until the end. I would want someone totally faithful to me who would treat me like a king because I would treat her like a princess. But, If I was to do that, the onus would be on me to take care of her! I don't know how someone can expect another person to give up their youth and not repay that person with all that is left! Let's face it, while there may be love on the older person's part, it not going to be as strong on the younger person's part. So, yes, large age gap relationships should be about the money! After all, when you die, you can't take it with you! So, you think, why haven't I pulled the plug, moved to a third-world country, and found a younger person to be with! Well, I have a huge home here in the States, over 4000 sq. ft., all on one floor, on a golf course, with every amenity that life can offer, and I find it hard to give all that up.
Why give it up ?
Nothing wrong with living part of the year in the states and part of the year in the Philippines.
I do just that.
This next year we are making plans to live in Germany, Italy, and Spain for 3 months and Japan for another month as well.
I normally only go back and live in the states for 2 months a year but after talking to my wife and 2 younger kids we want to see some of Europe so I will be going back to work in the states where I keep my home and work from October to April to pay for our trip.
Life's short, make some memories good luck.
It sounds like your stuff owns you, rather than the other way around.
As an older man, i don't have a problem with a woman looking for security (money) in a relationship as long as it is not the only reason. Love, respect, life experience, and maturity are also important in a relationship (age gap or not.)
My friend and i are one of the younger foreigners you would say,but we are not players,not interested to go from place to place or from girl to girl,we into settling down,1 location to call home,we thinking longterm. Cant wait for us to get to Cebu,hope it will be by end of this year.
Gelay is adorable!!
Age is just a number once over the age of 18 a man in his 50's dating or marring a woman in her late 20's or older is ok as long as they love each other and respect each other same as skin color by the way you two are very attractive women.
Physical, emotional, mental psychology, intellectual, spiritual, economic, and interests and hobbies are the ingredients for a good relationship.
Those things can shift with the age gap, some things better, some things worse. A large age gap is a very different relationship and requires a different mindset and plans for how the future will play out. It is a case-by-case situation dependent on the people involved as they seek love, stability, and trust. It could be good for some couples or a disaster for others.
I would have a difficult time reconciling being with anyone from 18-25. Not that I wouldn't enjoy being with such youthful beauty and energy, but I see those years as the-going-away-party for a young adult. She should be enjoying those years with friends around her own age as they prepare for the serious business of being an adult after 25. Me entering someone else's life at that stage would be like saying "Party's Over! You're an adult now; let's go home." Only person I could handle that young would have to be a naturally mature filipina who feels people her age are silly and want to move on to adulthood. But this is me looking at it from a western perspective. I suspect some filipinas are naturally mature from the responsibilities and situations they face at an early age, but you people who live there know best.
DESTINY IS A MATTER OF CHOICE. WE ARE THE PLANNER AND THE ARCHITECH OF OUR OWN LIFE..WHETHER WE SUCCEED OR FAILED.
Hiya Maya! Great guest, great questions, always to the point. You should have her on and delve deeper into her age gap relationship.
Thursday, July 13, 2023
Thank you Maya and Gelay! 🥰 I like how open and honest you are in this video, while still being nice and ladylike. 🙋♀
And well done with picking the background! All the greenery and the huge tree 🌳in the background are beautiful! 🌾🌳🌴🌴🌴🌳🌾
You must know Leah and her channel - Philippine Family Life with Leah. When Leah met Gary she was only 18, but she lied and said she was 21. Gary was 56. Now they are happily married, and they have a daughter together! 👨👩👧
It's important to point out that Gary has a gym membership, and he works out several times a week! Gary has a lot of muscles and he looks impressive! 🏋
Most men, of any age, do not have an exercise program. So most men just look average. 🙁
Hello Maya & Friend 💖💖💖 Very Lovely Video ❣️❣️❣️ Take Care and Stay Safe 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Maya, I appreciate and enjoy your videos. You avoid the sensationalism and cliches others use to get attention grabbing audiences.
Thank you for watching 🙏🏽❣️
Very interested podcast. I noticed that you're very smart women.
I'm planning to come very soon in 2 months to the Philippines and wish to meet good Filipina for dating seriously
thank you for watching. Wow! Goodluck and have a safe trip coming here in the Philippines. 🙏🏽
@@MayaLifeInThePhilippines Thank you
NICE TOPIC MAYA SEE U IN UR NEXT VLOG I LOVE U GUYS INGAT
ive been the daddy to many over 30 yrs. . best wishes
Very good interview! I love the open mind and understanding of both of you! I am 65 and will be looking into Christian Filipina soon!
Very good video Maya, enjoyed it and just subscribed
Awesome, thank you!
Not surprised to hear women choosing mates based on genetics. But i must admit, out of all groups in the world at the moment, the filipinas are the most straight forward with it, and it would probably throw many people off guard. Lol. Certain other groups talk no where near this and still get accused of self hate etc etc. I wonder what those people would say after hearing this type of straight forwardness.
Hi Maya! You two provided a great perspective on relationships with an age gap. Your friend is dating an older man so she had first hand experience. What did she like about her man when she first met him?
I have been a daddy for many girls. The key is to let her know at the beginning what her monthly budget will be, trust me on this one. It will ensure their are no hard feelings during your arrangement. Guys, IF and only IF you can afford to be a daddy you should try it at least once. I also realize that a lot of you guys can not afford to be a daddy because your a low budget/poor expat, so don't hate on us that can. Carry on.
Thanks for openly admitting about being a sugar daddy. I see nothing wrong with it and it fits the model of young beautiful Filipinas with well aged older men. It's the same all over the world. Thanks for the advice on how to make it work from the beginning.
It's fun being a daddy. And you got it right tell them straight up what their budget is.
I'm getting older now and wand to chill with a good girl. I will take care of her as long as the love is real.
Based just on my own experience, I would argue that you have two types of SD, full time and part time or (step) daddy. Your going to pay one way or another. Guys that live here are not pulling girls from the bar, that I can ensure you. Only the tourist pay bar fines.
There thousands of foreigners whom are daddy to girls and boys as well as husband/boyfriend to their wife/girlfriend! We can afford the the whole family.
Haleluyajh praise the Lord God bless all participants of philipianes 👭 ❤
Amen!
realy honest words i would love to have such an Filippina dont drink was never Violent to Woman i loved and would care for Wife and Kids
Good video I like her attitude for relationship good video Maya 👍
Most 25+yrs gap scenarios would be a business transaction
Very good interview, Maya! 🙏🌹💞
What a great interview and wise exchange of opinions and experiences.
It's hard to really 'grow' together if the gap's too large.. just sayin'... 🤔
That being said, the rest is nobody else's business! 🤭
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The only real reason for age gaps especially 20,30,40, years plus is financial stability there is no attraction with a man who could be your grandfather . Filipinas keep saying lack of maturity in filipino men of course when you compare a young pinoy to an old foreigner here's an idea why not choose an old mature pinoy? Of course not because he probably doesn't have anything to offer materially or financially so here's where the grandfather foreigner comes in handy to provide a better life in return the foreigner gets to enjoy a hot young pinay .✌️✌️👍
I think the way you express yourself and share your feelings especially about masculinity or submissiveness is exactly what makes the Filipina special she still a feminine and she knows it. Any good man will respect and appreciate that. You got it right drinkers are no good and really young guys even Americans I saw them go to Asia and they don't have money then get the girl pregnant and never come back it's very sad. Whereas the older man is already lived and has much valuable experience to teach you and if you are a good student then he is your mentor. I like to teach refined English West Coast American Style. Even little slang makes you seem like American. 🙏😘😘🙏
Women should age between 30-40 for me of age
You should still look at mobility limitations of older gentlemen. How much activities do you want to share? How many ignore that and then say, HEY, I NEED A YOUNGER MAN NOW!,??
A WEDDING RING IS THE SMALLEST HANDICAFF EVER MADE, CHOOSE YOUR PRISON MATE CAREFULLY AND SENTENCE YOURSELF WISELY...
@georgeplaxton3067, I put in my 22 years in marriage prison and was paroled 15 years ago and LOVING my FREEDOM! LOL
Both of you are beautiful
It is July 11/2023 @ 5:48 pm. Hello ladies my name is Dean Butler I am in a relationship with the most amazing young lady this side of heaven. Her name is Genevieve/ Genny. She is 43 and living in Lebungan North Cotabato Philippines. I am 66 living in Louisiana USA. We have known each other around 13 years. We have been in a relationship for 4 years now. Our love and respect for each other has set the bar to unreachable heights. There is a 23 year age gap between us. It has not been a problem. Genny feels exactly like Gelay described, she has never had a man treat her, love her , care for her, know her needs even though she never asks, trust her unconditionally and love her unconditionally. All she wants is what I want, for us to have a life together. We are working on it. I will say this about the Philippina ladies, if you find a good one and there are many, you will find a life partner unlike anything you have or will ever know.
I subscribed to both of you ladies with my personal UA-cam and this one, I won’t mention because you said no self promoting. Much respect to you both, and thank you for all that you do. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
She is near where I live with my filipina in pigcawayan. I have been here for almost 1 year now. I haven't seen a foreigner since I've been here. Yes province girls are amazing 👏 😍
You're 66 and still "working on" being together? Have you two actually met and/or lived together at all? Just interested.
I've never been there, but one thing I like about Filipinas is they have the well balanced asian beauty, and values, but most of them are still catholics, so they can understand a part of my culture and thoughts. (I'm a catholic from Spain) Anyway, I do think age is a gap, I should have tried to meet a cute filipina when I was 30 (and a little bit goodlooking). Now, with 50, I don't dare.
@julio you need to go there, you will be pleasantly surprised. You’re certainly not old.
Go there and see, you will be surprise
Father’s love is different from a spouse/bf’s love, some women, like me just found older men hot 😅(kidding). Fact is; most of them are more responsible, and emotionally stable.
@tinoandbrothersandmom2974, You nailed it, a responsible, emotionally stable and I will add financially stable man is a real catch for any women. Only downside is many of those men are much OLDER and not as attractive as a handsome younger man. So I guess it all depends on what you want. If you like the handsome strong man who is an exciting lover, but morally, emotionally and financially bankrupt, go for it. But if you prefer long term love and stability you should over look an older man's physical flaws. Maybe he's bald, fat and missing some teeth! LOL
You were so smart and cute together ! 😋
Could you please make a video to explain what a Filipina mean by "respect"? I am quite sure Filipina's idea of "respect" is different than what we mean in western foreign countries.
Sure.
Hello ladies here from USA. You have a pretty good attitude towards age difference and sure there's all kinds of people oh, and some even 70 years old still look young yeah sure there might be daddy issues but what's wrong with that my name is hard to say and almost every lady just calls me Daddy. Plus I have a half Filipino teenage son if you see him you'll be asking for a baby. My friends in Thailand always telling me that, but so true mestizo or mixed blood is so beautiful and I am not pure white either. My last girlfriend was 34 and so I was nearly 30 years more, no age issues. I hope to be moving to the Philippines soon. Maybe talk to you later, blessings Daddy. 🙏😘😘🙏
Smart girls
Ladies, to make a long story short. You don't need to apologize for looking for an older guy who can can offer you financial security. It's not like our women, in the Western World, are different. There's nothing wrong about wanting to enhance your life. By picking an Asian woman, at least I get a traditional, conservative female, and not ´another man´ in a relationship, who will be trying to subdue me continuously. Obviously, we fight back, and one form of that fight is, we go to Asia and search for a real woman, that is fun to be with.
Great video ladies 😊
I am 70 and will be looking for a woman half my age. Is that posible?❤🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷
well i just found you and your both realy pretty - for me is 28 til 48 cause i want Kids and younger? NOGO cause i feel that Way maybe 27 but already only Comfortable if it realy fit - my first Experience was with 40 years old and she look more as 30
That was a good answer about age gap
It's strange to hear these girls talk about having "dark skin", as if that is a negative. I doubt many foreign men view you this way - they probably see you as having a "healthy glow" to your skin. You really need to lose this attitude and recognize your Filipina looks as a big plus for most men. 😍
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Ah, age gaps. Well, Mother Nature and all the Gods clearly smile approvingly on such unions, and even bless them. How do we know? Nature has given men the ability to father children into their 70s, and even beyond. But she limits women from that ability beyond around the age of 40. Nature has also arranged it that older men seldom like women closer to their own ages. But nature has provided that many a younger lady likes men who are substantially older than they are. It may look as if it's all about money. But women naturally want mature men who can financially support the wife and kids, and who are no longer playing around.
And nature doesn't prevent love from developing between those of different ages. Nothing new under the sun❤️❤️
MY HUSBAND IS 72 AND IM 57 WHEN WE GOT MARRIED.
How old is too old? How much money does he have.....😎
From my observation about 30 years difference is about the maximum. lets say the girl is 25 and the guy is 55 years old but well kept and looks 45. If the guy has good genes has good attitude is relatively handsome looking and has money provides stability yes you can find a good woman but usually it will either be a single mother who may be a hottie, or a negrita with not so many options. Filipinas are very practical usually around the age of 25+ filipinas have a very good idea what they can get and realize that time is passing. Younger girls than 25 still have time to look around and are more likely to pass an older man even if he has money. having money basically shaves about 10 years off your age and raises your sexual market value about 3 points So if you are a 5 you turn into an 8. if you are 55 you look 45. I knew a white guy who is 52 and out of shape and a 3 who married a filipina who was 28 and a strong 6. They guy did not have much money about 25 year difference. Just don't go after women who come from wealthy filipino families they will not have anything to do with you.
If a woman is with an older man it isn’t always about the money. I prefer to think it can be about the stability he has to offer.
Money = stability
Ahaha
The problem lies in immediate judgement of people based on their age. What a sad way to judge someone. It seems like all the you tubers in phils when interviewing someone the first question asked is how old are you. If age doesn't matter then why the question?
If the truth be told any relationship on average with over 10 year age gap could be problematic. Unless lets say we are talking about a 55 year old man with a 45 yr old women. By that time they should both be very mature and it shouldn't make much difference. But if we are talking about a 22 yr old and a 32 year old there will be on average a big maturity difference. That was sure the case with me and many of my friends in that age group. We did a LOT of growing's up from 22 to 32!
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Just my opinion but from my perspective, a Filipina that age really doesn’t have any thing to do with the character of the man. Unfortunately the younger foreigners that travel to Philippines have been stereotyped as only going to PHL to play around and a young Filipina that is poor is also looking for a man that will settle down and support her and perhaps her family. A young Filipina in the USA usually has income and support and doesn’t have to choose an older man. Plus they rarely will choose a man who is more than 10-15 years older. The younger Filipina’s that I know, and we have plenty of them living in Los Angeles CA are all choosing young men and are happy to take the chance that these young men have good intentions. If they don’t and they break apart, they still have plenty of opportunities to meet other men. Unfortunately the Filipina in the Philippines doesn’t have as many opportunities and perhaps that’s why they choose old men that worship them lol. How old is too old for a young Filipina, it’s up to her but the fact that he’s closer to death should be a consideration if they’re planning on starting a family because she will be a widow with children and a caregiver if he’s really old.
Regardless of how you reply, justify or try and turn around this girls answer about she doesn't want an older Filipino with her skin tone. She just admitted she is racist on skin tone, as she stated that she wants a foreigner to have lighter skin with. You can try and make excuses out of her comment and she is certainly allowed her own preferences, but Filipina girls will admit even on accident that they prefer light skin, but they believe light skin is better and they actually want white men with blue eyes. Now go ahead and try and make up excuses for it Maya. Trying to turn her answer around will get you no respect. Telling the truth will get you more.
You heard what you heard. Thank you for watching. 🙏🏽
I dont think we should label it as racist tho. Lets not do the dame thing, western women do to men whenever they express their preference. However it was interesting to see her refer to her own akin as dark. When in actuality she's would be in the "light complexion catagory" when it comes to skintones. So, is she racist, no. Does she have dysmorphia going on, possibly.
@@user-wx7rm3nr8r I've been living here for over a year. Most Filipinas don't want a black baby with frizzy hair. They want a white baby. I'm just being direct with objective results from my experiences here. White men have a social advantage with Filipina women. Of course they will settle for a black man or Filipino. Just not their first choice. The family will also become excited with the chance to get a white mixed baby. They really think that it is a better future.
@@user-wx7rm3nr8r Yeah, I found that strange too. I don't see her as dark. I guess she wants to be white.
If she is dark, then what is Maya? By the way, I love Maya's skin tone. She's really beautiful... and taken. 😞
@@user-wx7rm3nr8ris she racist I don't know, but I do know she will not date anybody darker than her which includes 90% of black men. Don't worry there are Filipinas that will date black men, it's just not in the Dumaguete area. Go where your wanted.
Poor girl, she has know clue how genetics work. She can use products to lighten her skin, have a baby with a man who is white with blue eyes and the child is still born with dark skin, dark & Filipino looking eyes. I wish her the best of luck with what she wants her child to look like. I will feel sorry for the child if not turn out the way she desires….
The operative number is the number in your bank account. Don’t be fooled guys.
Sorry to say even in the Philippines Filipinos look at a man 40 to 50 years age gap the 65 or 70 year old man has nothing in common with an 18 or 19 year old woman.
Except Sex.
Talking from experience.
5 Filipina girlfriends in 20 years
Me 45 her 18 in common SEX.
Me 50 her 23 in common SEX.
Me 53 her 27 in common SEX.
Me 59 her 33 in common her a Nurse and you guessed it SEX.
Me 60 my wife 38 life experiences and SEX.
Over 40 age gap is looked down upon even here in the Philippines.
Good video
Also, there's nothing wrong with DD/LG - Daddy DOM / Little Girl...
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Just for your information im 60 looking for younger much younger I'm white man in shape easy to look at nice features all my hair nice teeth and smile financially secure home owner where do I go ? No date sites please maybe you know someone for me? Would love to talk to you
Dumangete Negros The provinces is the best place to go for men your age. The Dark filipinas are not considered desirable among filipinos especially the short and skinny girls. Girls that are under 5 feet tall. At the age of 60 you should realistically be looking for women about 25-28 years old who have stayed single and preferably have no children. If you are looking for a hottie the best option is finding a single mom with 1 baby. Single others is almost impossible to find a local filipino who will treat her seriously for marriage. I have seen many foreigners who are about 50 years old with 25 year old girls who have one baby and are total hotties. A woman who has one baby 25 years old is not much a problem babies are super cheap to take care of you are probably looking at no more than about 1k USD a year in expenses. The children in Phillipines and especially thailand are raised to be much more respectful than in the west. women like foreign men because we have money, Skin color, height, genetics. I knew another broke in Thailand who was 72 and his girlfriend was 40 and total hottie. At your age as long as you not fat and have reasonable money it should be easy find yourself 30-32 year old girlfriend. keep in mind a 32 year old woman in phillipines and thailand would look around 28 in USA. If you going to thailand recommend Hua Hin also target the darker skin girls who are skinny. My opinion dark skinned girls are beautiful.
@@eduardomaldonado1647 thanks for your lengthy& useful info
How old is too old? In the Phil's there is no such thing as to old when it comes to expats and Filipina. At least the age gaps I've seen on UA-cam which have been from 10 year all the way up to 50 year's! If I recall I even saw a 79 yr old with a 22 yr old. Now that's what I call an AGE GAP!!! 🤣
Stop beating around the bushes, The Wallet is more important than age😂
Let’s be honest ..if your looking for love or casual relationship, there is a transactional process. Say your looking for a partner ya need to be honest with wants and needs. And you also need be honest with yourself …where do ya fit on the sliding scale of attraction. Most foreigners are with province girls and as they easily attainable, they usually have less knowledge and less aspirations. Hence they are looking for stability ..ie money and the guy hopefully with a be a nice guy. If you are wanting causal aka pay for play that’s a whole different ball game, as your likely to be a short term fix ..either way, for a younger Filipina..you’ll be taking away her best years(she will need to make the most of these years to find a stable partner) whatever your relationship…why would ya settle for a Skoda if ya can afford a Ferrari…I know what I’d prefer to drive…just make sure ya can afford the ferrari. 😂 GLTA..
Quoted from the internet. Google search on the question.
What is color discrimination in the Philippines?
Colorism, or the preference of lighter skin over darker skin, is rife in Philippine culture. You see it in the alarming frequency of commercials and billboards advertising whitening creams, whitening pills, and whitening treatments.
Maya did you know that a child’s intelligence is most likely to come from the mother due to the X chromosome. The mother has two and the father one. Medical research on google. This is why some Mothers will yell at their child, why did you do that, you are just like your Dad. 😂 LOL
I've heard. 😆
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I need a wife
Come to the Philippines, you will have one.....😎
What is your monthly bankroll?
Get the money out
Mate no one knows