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I am living in the Phil, and I am an old guy. We, old guys, can thank the Philippine government and their immigration policy for the opportunity that we have here in the Phil to date younger Filipinas. If the Philippine policy was to allow all ages to migrate here for work, It would be a totally different story. We old men would be kicked to the curb, there is no doubt on that. Because of the policy in place, It leaves a certain pool of eligible foreigners, That being us, the older man. So, enjoy this stroke of luck, and relive your youth through the beautiful Filipina. I am sure she adds 10 years to our life span.
How many jobs are there with a western salary?
The policy verifies the man's ability to provide for a Filipina wife. This is common sense in any country. It's not based on his age.
I am 63 and my girlfriend is 35. She has 2 kids 10 and 13. I support the needs of the family and she works for the wants of the family. I do believe that the fact that I am financially stable contributed in a large way to the initial attraction she had for me. As time goes on I think that can be replaced with a genuine love. But you never know it may be “No Money, No Honey”
no, dude you are the beta provider...
63, 35 with two kids and taking care of her family. Basically she did not have a chance and you threw her A life line. You saved her. I hope you become something more later on.
Well there is zero in common. Its the golden nugget all the way
It is always like that! More often initial love attraction always come to "no money=>no honey" relationship
@@AG-so4gl "Well there is zero in common. Its the golden nugget all the way"
Now that is what I mean by an exaggerration ! If they live together of course they have other things in common. Else it would soon become simply unbearable to live together. I would say that young women choose old men BECAUSE they have things in common while they choose young men much due to sexual attraction . The fact that they feel less sexual attraction to older men is compensated by older men´s better financial stability but I am sure the women also consider what they have in common and other noin-financial values in the older guy, like looks, intelligence, social attitudes and more. It´s not ALL about money. To think that is just as stupid as to think it is all about love !
Great content. I think you did everyone a great service by being honest instead of the superficial answers on other UA-cam channels. Thank you
Congratulations, Gio. Maya is obviously intelligent and her english articulation is terrific. Conversational compatibility is key to long term relationship. This video reinforces my feeling about that and I will focus on that quality when I come there in the fall.
Guys, there are lots of Filipinas here living in boarding houses or are sent off to earn money for their parents. They are looking for security and stability. That's what most of us have to offer them. Throw them a life line and they will take the bait and get hooked. They have a slim chance of getting you because the competition for us is heavy.
I have a unique perspective on this because I'm actually a very young adult (Gen Z, early 20s) white guy living and working permanently in the Philippines. I've literally never seen another foreigner of my age who isn't just a tourist. Sometimes I feel like I'm a pioneer and that I'm the first guy to move here such early in life. From what my filipina girlfriend and other people have told me, if there just were any other guys like me, they would pick them instead of going for guys twice their age. I'm really glad to be here and to be with my girlfriend.
philippines women dating old man is all about money and get rid of poverty,if they are rich enough,dont need to find a old man.
Good for you and her, but are guys your age planning to marry them and have kids? Or just see how long it goes?
Money is a big factor but maturity and willingness to settle down also play a role in why filipinas attracted to older men. There is a reason there are young single mothers all over the philippines
I agree with Gio. The good part of the dating situation is it works out well for both people. The older men are very happy to meet someone younger who can make a great life partner and keep them feeling younger too. Many mature aged men are able to give a great lifestyle and security for a lifetime emotionally and financially which complements the relationships for both people. It''s wonderful way to make a good life for both people in the Philippines. Why wouldn't a good man be willing to share the fruits of a lifetime of work with the woman he loves. Can't wait to get back by August.
Gio isn’t that old. I am 64 look 50 early and I have 42-year-old fiancé it’s all about how you take care of yourself I’m healthy and adventurous
Young women want a rich guy and the old rich guy wants a hot young wife with less baggage than an older women
My partner and I are perfect examples of your conversation. The reasons why relationships like ours exist are as diverse as the number of couples. In other words, each relationship has its own story. We like each other. Our conversations last for hours. We enjoy each other's company. We have common goals and expectations. Our story is rather simple ... we like each other and care for each other's well-being. Our 42 year age gap raises eyebrows and questions, but we don't care. We are happy.
I am 46 and will be there in August. Just bought my plane tickets today, Will land in Duma on the 3rd of August. I have been retired for the last two years and have been planning this move for many years.
Might see you in October
Good luck! Retired and young. Any other places besides Duma that you intend to seriously consider as a landing spot.
There's an old saying Maya. ‘The man who at 50 thinks like he’s 20 has wasted 30 years of his life!' Great vlog Maya and Gio. I'll be in the Philippines in July and can't wait. Thanks for sharing!
I don't understand your comment. Why has he wasted his life ?
@@HemiChryslerbecause he has never grown up!
I am 59 and my Filipina is 56. We have been sence 2019 she is OFW and we get each others sence of humor and The love for eachother is same and respectful. I will be back in the PI next year again
Good video guys... I have to admit though the conversation pretty much says what we all think internally... but then when you ask yourselves about the relationship you two have... its basically "Oh no not us, we're real and genuinely attracted to one another." When in reality... its both. If Maya can find attraction to a man 22 years older why is it the conversation states otherwise... even Maya states filipinas would naturally rather date younger... and yet she chose 22 year age gap.
I will end with this.... a man dates a woman for how she looks... a woman dates a man for how he makes her feel. Plenty of young, single mothers dated handsome, young filipinos... only to be devastated and made to feel like the are not enough... left with all the responsibility.
Cue the older foreigner who truly values her, builds her self esteem and self worth, wants to take care of her, is serious and MUCH less likely to cheat and leave her. He also has a steady, dependable income so she believes that financial struggles will never be a part of daily life.
Now tell me... how attractive is the foreigner compared to the young handsome filipino? And more importantly... Who makes her feel better about herself and her future?
That is why a quality filipina chooses an older foreigner.
When you really love someone, age, distance, height, weight, is just a number.
Lol I’ll take my chances with a gorgeous super model ..multimillions in the bank lol 😊…she can love me too 😊
Hey Maya and Gio ! Maya I enjoyed your own answer about why you choose Gio. What you are looking for, in sharing a man's life, is a beautiful description, in my point of view, of a true happy couple life. I totally agree. I would love hearing my own darling saying the same things ! She is thaï and our gap is nine years. Already 18 years together. Good luck to you both ! ❤
Thank you Maya that was a great video. I'm glad You and Gio get along so well and are happy.
Congrats. You both had your priorities straight before getting into the relationship. Take care.
Let's be honest, at first take it's going to be about finances unless you look much younger and more vibrant than your age. After that, its going to be about loyalty as an older guy isn't as likely to leave a much younger Filipina whereas a younger guy would have more options. Lastly, Asian cultures respect their elders much more than in the West so the age gap isn't as glaring an issue.
If i where an old foreigner guy i do same thing.Mas masaya sa pinas dahil pinay is waving 👋 We are very welcoming people and we treat them with high respect.❤ is secondary security is the key sa hirap ng buhay ngayon.Nowadays practical na po ang mga tao. 👍
At the end of the day being happy is important and you both seem to be very happy together - congratulations and just enjoy life.
Some women you can just read their eyes and it says it all. Maya is really in love with this man.
More old men, have assets who come there than younger men with more options. These men and have less time to live before dying and leaving their estates to much younger widow who can now live great affluent lives and start families of their choice, etc.
You do seem like a legitimate couple and a good match.
I enjoy both of your channels. I think this is a winning combination dynamic for either channel. On her channel she can ask you your thoughts and then share her perspective. And do the opposite on Gio's channel. You are both young enough, attractive enough, and articulate enough to attract many more subscribers with this recipe. Best of luck to you both. Cheers🥂
Maya, aside from beauty, you seem intelligent with great social and emotional intelligence. You don’t have a spare twin hanging around by chance?
I am about to turn 70 yet when diving in Brunei last year, the asians on the boat could not believe my age. They asked to see my passport to prove it because they thought I was less than 50. I am a recently retired, successful physician. My wife divorced me in 2003 after a painful year of her affairs. I was always faithful and supported my 3 children well. I have been too busy to search for someone else including 2 young grandchildren to spend time with. I miss female companionship and want to travel with someone adventurous (boating, diving, running and especially music as I sing and play guitar in a band). No 60 to 70 year old is interested in being very active like me. 😂70 seems old to be looking for the love of my life who loves being active with family and a woman I can call my best friend. Is a 30 or 40 year old woman going to have any interest? I need someone who is genuine, faithful and loving. She must be able to care for herself and stays thin. Please advise.
Everyone wants the best person they can get. The more options people have the more choosey they become. There are exceptions to this you could meet someone who you really click with and fall in love but you would have to allow for these exceptions to meet and date. The best advice I have is both people in the relationship need to figure out what is most important to them. They need to communicate this to their partner. I think both people are willing to give up somethings like looks, or age gap, someone being a single parent, or even financial security if they both love each other and they both think the other person is committed and will work on the relationship so both people can be happy. Having a good relationship sometimes takes work.
Sweet Clog, good heart to heart in depth sharing, enjoyed it.....
Hi Maya, i am a new subscriber ,i been following gio for a long time, great video and subject, thank you very much
Great job! Thanks for laying it all out on the table… I appreciate that about you two..
Most younger guys have to work so the majority of those can’t come to the Philippines to stay. Most are still playing the dating game where they are from. Digital Nomads is becoming a big thing but it’s not a easy life for many as work could be great today but not tomorrow. Most younger guys simply don’t even know they could find a good girl abroad as that wasn’t something we talked about with are friends we just talked about the girls we knew. Why older men do it is really a no brainer. Older men still like younger women if they had to start over again. They never chased old women before even if they were married for thirty years she was young when they got married. Just isn’t natural for a guy to dress up go to a senior citizen home with a dozen roses and telling some lady how pretty she is. Filipinas do it for many reasons. Many for money. Some can’t find what they are looking for there. Some think a foreigner makes them more special kinda like there is a fetish for people wanting to marry outside their race. Americans are often said to have yellow fever if they date Asian women but it’s usually not the case they just can’t find what they need around their watering hole so they travel the desert to find another spot hopefully something in bikinis with a bbq going. It’s never really important why others do what they do it’s important you know what you want. If a man is looking for the right girl first thing he needs to do is leave the women alone until he becomes the right man otherwise nothing ever works out.
So true - good advice!
Bikinis and bbq...lol
Very good video Maya. Your videos continue to improve. I also think your English is getting very good. I don't think you and Gio have a large age gap at all by Philippines standards. 21 years would even be acceptable here in the US. You guys have a great relationship, and you're getting a really great guy with Gio. But I'm sure you already know that. However, if your question is why would a 20 something Filipina be interested in a 60 something foreign man with a 40-year age gap of course the only answer is MONEY! COLD HARD CASH for herself, her kids, her parents, and her entire extended family. If something happens to her, her kids, or anyone in her family, he becomes their unlimited ATM machine and insurance policy. Someone to take care of her entire family until he dies in 5 to 15 years. Let be honest and call it what it is.
Great topic, so enjoyed both perspectives.
I’m 41 my Filipina she’s 35 looking forward for that retirement. We are lucky to have each other ❤I’m really blessed to meet this beautiful family in Pangasinan Philippines 🇵🇭 we already own a land and just done construction a small studio apartment for us . Philippines 🇵🇭 great land great people
Real love is always unlikely. If you think of it as an arrangement then you have a good perspective of your situation
Older men usually can provide as they've had time to build wealth
If an older man in his 60s or 70s is in good physical condition and has his money and attitude right, he can pick up any philipina be it rich, educated, young or whatever. No matter what age, women love a man that has it together.
Excellent video you really break down some important topics and explain them
And it’s really nice to hear two points of view for each topic love your channel I have been to the Philippines three times
Love it more each time I go wonderful people and amazing beautiful women
Keep up the great videos
Thank you, Maya & Gio. Good video, with honest questions and answers.
As someone who has researched this retirement option, I will say that I have noticed more Philippine women who enjoy the natural laid back lifestyle rather than the hype of a big city. It's fun to visit the cities for a different mindset over a long weekend, but the home is where the heart is, always. A true Filipina always aspires to make a good home for themselves and their family. If you compare that to the age of a man who wants this, you are looking at an older, wiser, more established man. So you can directly link the age gap to many men who could not find that in their homeland. The stories of great men married to exceptional women and having children who just want to keep up with the Jones or party all the time can go both ways.
Finding the right person is difficult when common goals are overlooked. Love, respect, faith, loyalty, humor, and passion are all needed to succeed; however, when many women are raised within a society of Western culture, it's easier to think twice and make rash decisions because of other options, closer girl bonding, or maybe sympathetic family understanding. The 'fight or flight' avenue of escape in a Western culture mostly ends in 'flight' because it's easier to become happier with someone else than to rebuild what has been damaged. That's not how the Filipino culture lives. They maintain structure, and when it fails, they rebuild.
That's what many men want, me included.
My dad was 30 yrs older than my step mom and they had a good marriage but he died in 1997 at age 75 and she has been alone for the past 26 yrs. She never complained but im sure its been hard on her
It was a different world then. Today life is harder as well as more materialistic.
Its also a lot of competition between the girls.If you are older than 25 and not married there are a lot of younger girls around.
Phinoys looking for young girls.
My friend is a university teacher.She is educated and independent but still not married.
Nice video God bless...Filipinas are very sweet
I routed to the second questions yes Miya you are indeed correct educated Filipina women are actually picky they have a lot of options but most of them went to a wrong guy sometimes they experienced emotional damaged what they looking for is real love but I think it doesn't exist they tried lowering the standard in finding the right one but it's not working old and young man are both the same especially when they have a trust issues it's difficult to handle them. They are keep playing the feeling of others until they will realized their mistakes and another regrets coming.
Maya, you should check your subtitle. "Bare with me" would make a lot of guys happy to get bare with you! But it's not what you meant to say!
Interesting insight, I have heard it said many times about Filipinas being family orientated so if an older foreigner did not want or has lost the ability to produce children, could a younger Filipina accept being childless?
You play your çards. Right you can get a beautiful Philippine and have a good life
Oooo... Shay (from Shay Travels??) Now there is a beautiful lady. I wish she was single. I would move to the Philippines to mary her in a heartbeat. She is very mature and so smart. Her two daughters have been raised right and they both seem to be great too. I would adopt them as my own too if possible. Do you think Shay is single? I'm sure she is not single as she is very beautiful and smart. OH well. Maybe some day she will be single again. 🥰
I honestly think I can date most men’s first choices. And being from the states even still starting at svelte college age, it’s not like I have to come to terms yet. But it doesn’t matter anyway if you’re comfortable within your own confines. That’s what makes one attractive, that and some kind of short or life term goal you can have with or without.
So do you think the reintroduction of a large number of 20 to 30 year old American Military men will displace the age-gap dynamic in the Philippines?
Yes, the dynamic, but not the marige scene as young western men mostly don’t want to marry yet. The dynamic will be more bar-girls around the bases.
In simple terms I would have to say reliability stability and maybe even word of Honor. The older man tends to appreciate the beautiful young Filipina oh, so she already knows this. And normally they just naturally call me Daddy because there's going to be an age Gap. An endearing term and easier to say than my actual name. And in certain cases in public where there's some middle-aged woman making snide remarks about our age difference then we poured on really heavy and Daddy please and Kissy Kissy ...it seems to always be middle-aged or older women that really can't handle it.🙏🙏
Thank you both for your honesty. You two are #relationshipgoals!
Great video Gio and Maya I am finally coming to the Philippines 🇵🇭 in the mountains near lalibertad on July 10th after 2 years LDR we will be staying in Dumaguete
Nice video Maya..❤
Mostly it's transactional, for sure at the beginning - which is only fair - it's a win-win situation. It can turn into real love. You only would know and prove the point if you run out of money yourself. You don't want that to happen though.
Anything beyond 15 years age is rather strange and creepy. I mean, ok there might be some exceptions out there with 20 year age gap but no one can convince me a 20 yo girl will "fall in love " with a 50yo man let alone 60 or more.
I am contemplating moving to the Phillipines. I am 67 but I really don't want to be alone for the rest of my life. How would somebody my age find companionship and maybe love find a good woman
Hi Maya, with regard to well educated socially and economically advantaged upper crust Filipinas. One would not normally want to marry a Foreigner. All things being equal, people for the most partend to marry within their Socioeconomic strata when they are the Upper Crust. Parents expect the Child to marry first of all within their own society where the rules are fully understood and the do's and don'ts are embraced. Older foreign men would not have much to offer that would be attractive to a younger Filipina unless she has deep needs in many areas of life. There is no shame in wanting to live a stable, happy, and productive life. Human nature dictates all areas of our selective lives so when the opportunity presents itself and the pool is shallow in one's home country you do what you must. I would characterize most of the Older men and younger women as a more Transactional relationship that involves the needs of both, that evolves over time into a deeper respectful love with both parties. As long as both parties and their parents are comfortable with the relationship then all is settled and well. I support all that you spoke to and finally supply and demand does matter in the dating pool.
Hello Maya sge kog tag aw sa vlog ninyo.bagay kaayo mong duha.mag visaya rako diring dapita.mangutana rako mag away pod mo.naa ba Moy mga argued kabahin sa mga butang.sana mabasa nimo God bless ninyo
The best video I've ever seen on this topic . . .
Good discussion.
Nice video. My pinay princess is my partner in crime lol also. 10 years difference, she is my heart ❤
Wonderful chat thank you for sharing
Nice, honest appraisals. If the US Navy comes back to the Philippines in any numbers, whatever area they base, I think older ex-pats (let's say 50+?), is going to find their local "well running dry". Now, get very far out from the base, and it wont impact so much. As for the significant age gaps (lets say 30+ years?), even if her attraction to him IS financial, and his attractiuon to her IS her youthful beauty...if each is getting what they seek from the relationship, and each is giving appropriately to the other; nothing says the relationship cant become mutually deep and genuine.
Yes, but soldiers are usually young men that don't wants to marry yet, so the well of bar-girls might dry out.
😀
Older foreigner is more secured financially aside having a pension that goes along the way when they spend it in the Philippines🇵🇭 Marami pong buhay na kapatid natin na naiahon sa kahirapan.Its a package deal po obviously “commitment and security”. Iba ang pinay mag alaga all around po san ka pa.Walang papatol na bata sa US just for your pension kulang yan sa mahal ng cost of living.Pagdito sa pinas may petite na pinay ang bahala sayo at pag aagawan ka pa “Realtalk”!
Its a personal choice yan but best options for single mother na mahirap mag Afam ka na.
Another great video sis
I think the only reason they date older foreigners is that's where the money is. They all have to be retired with money because there is no economic opportunity for a younger man who is not retired to work there. Did I guess correctly?
I also think supply and demand is the main reason.
Western men in their 20ish and 30ish mostly don’t want to start a family yet. The ones in their 40ish and 50ish that are looking for an Asian bride mostly want to take her home to his country, so he can work and support a family and because the large age-gap stigma in the west he is mostly looking for a woman in her 30ish. So left for the Filipina in her 20ish is mostly the 60+ westerner that could move there and live on his pension.
But it’s not the only reason. If you look at Thailand where divorce is legal the competition for the men in their 40ish and 50ish would be even greater and still the 40-50 year age-gap is not so common there. It could be that the young Tai woman marries a young Thai man in her 20ish and later divorce him in her 30ish if she’s has found a western man in his 40ish - 50ish. Prohibition of divorce cold be a part of the answer, also older people has harder time and less interest in learning a new language and poor Thai women don’t speak good English unless they work in a bar.
I Hate to say this but some of your Answers aren't instilling me with a lot of confidence for my own relationship. I've been engaged to my fiance for over a year and chatting with her 4 over 2 years. I do understand there is a financial component with these types of relationships but honestly what woman of any country doesn't want a man who can take care of her? Now my fiance is starting school this year for nursing and even though she's going to school in the Philippines this has opened a whole new level of anxiety for me. Don't get me wrong I believe her intentions are true but there is concern that she may catch feelings for younger man when the new options are open to her. Financially I have been supporting her since Christmas 2021 I have built her house and I do believe that in her heart she really does love me. Now I can't get out to the Philippines probably until I retire so that's a whole nother 5 years and I do have concerns as to whether or not she will be willing to wait that much time.
You shouldn’t bought her a house, at least not before yore married have kids and are living together in that house.
What man buys a house to his western girlfriend? Maybe a billionaire…
I watched many of your videos but somehow I missed the one on how you and Gio met?
If you are struggling supporting yourself and have 1 or more kids to support also, the choice for an easier life is an easy one. Most 62+ men would have at least have SS, which is a lot more than the average Philippine earns.
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Do you think in most cases with age gap both partners love each other as a person over time or fall in love with each other because there is a difference. Curious on your thoughts? Keep up the good work to you
I enjoyed this topic!! I have a question for you Gio. If you had a monthly income of over 6 thousand dollars, where would you live in the Philippines. Thank you!!
So let me get this straight...if the American man takes care of the female financially...like she said...AND takes care of her family financially...she could SOMEDAY learn to "really" care about him and maybe love him? LOL
LOL, I can say from experience. 2 marraiges to Fillipinas. 8 years, 11 years. 2 divorces. I married 2 beautiful loving and caring Fillipinas and divorced 2 Americans. Very pleasurable, but painful experiences. lol My advice to anyone marrying any beautiful foreign woman; take care of her, don't let her work in a job where she will meet other men interested in her, especially if you're not perfect yourself, and live in her country if you can. And for those people who say love is love. lol NO! "The grass can always be greener". lol But, for sure I am addicted, lol, because I will marry a Fillipina again and live in the Philippines, hopefully that works, lol because I'm betting the rest of my life on it, retiring in the Philippines soon. :) I just love Fillipinas and the Philippines. The people there are generally happy, poor or not, and happiness is contageous. I need that in my life. But, agreeing with your husband, foreignors are asholes generally speaking, not excluding myself..lol I hope I have enough life to live to be a better man. Time will tell.
" live in her country if you can. " True. I tried once at an age of only 46 with a russian girl and a 20 years age gap. Our relation went downhill pretty fast after she moved to my country, Sweden.
Most of the girls are looking for a better life for her and her family
In my LDR with a Cebu angel I make her laugh via my mails. I'm mature, but I was not happy until we began mailing each other. My mails include my life experiences and some humor. She knows how much I enjoy her beautiful smile, so instead of writing sexy I send her humor.
She has seen my pictures and thinks I am handsome. I think she is only being polite. I hope to ask her for her hand in marriage this year AFTER meeting her and her family. What are your thoughts on an engagement ring?
Thank you for your thoughts and this video.
Ya know you two are very honest …it’s good stuff…to a level. Suffice to say …we generally find our level, I personally like the finer things in life, I’m that type of guy ..I like restaurants and infrastructure and a women that really looks after herself. I’m in a minority here in the phil’s, with looks ..financially. Ya test your level …hence why I had a wish list for my Filipina ..as long as your happy that’s the main thing. You can see Gio was struggling to find his gf…and you two appear to bounce. I personally would not date Filipina with a kid but it’s swings and roundabouts..as long as you guys are happy that’s all that matters ..no! 😊 GLTA.
Wow, I still young again.
I suppose a Filipina is dating an older foreigner man, not mainly because of money but it's because Filipinas are into matured man. Like from mindset to everything. Though I'd say not all old men out there are matured though, but generally that's that. I'd rather date an older matured guy than to be regretting dating a boastful young guy who only minded about his ego and such who can't even man up to lead a family.
The plain truth of the matter is MATURITY DOES play a big part in why Filipinas date older foreigners. ITs NOT about supply and demand. Why? Becuase no matter where you go in the world men in their 20-230' are never going to be mature and will never have the money to support a woman long term.
MONEY or financial security is what a Filipina also looks for. She doesnt SEE that in her country form other Filipino men. The older, wiser, mature and financial secure man has all that a woman wants and needs.
This is true in every country in the world. Women look for a man to PROTECT, PROVISION and PROVIDE, and ONLYH and older man in his 50's+ can do this. Younger men dont have all three capabilities yet.
Even a younger man, say and a man who is a professional Actor or play professional sports, may have MONEY, can provide and protect but will LACK the maturity, the stability, the RELATIONAL SKILLS to maintain a long term relationship. This is why you see them failing in relationships ALL THE TIME despite the money.
An average man with a steady income who is MATURE, who can LEAD a woman and provision her life is far more valuable. A woman needs to know her family and children are taken care of by a man that knows and understand how to do this.
SO NO, a Filipina woman WOULD NOT choose to date a young foreigner if MORE came to the Philippines. As they would SOON learn that these younger immature boys act JUST LIKE the young Filipino boys.
Note: Another Philippine channel of a woman who is 23 with a foreigner husband of 63 said the exact same thing. She chose him becuase of his maturity and responsibility. NOT becuase of his money as he is a regular guy with an average SS pension. She was attracted to him and liked how he COURTED her. Filipino boys and Foreigners DON'T know how to COURT or DATE, the yare to immature and only want SEX and nothing else!
From what i can see the supply and demand issue is why they should stay in Asia. They bring these
ladies back to where they are from all of a sudden that supply and demand flips in the girls favour and significantly so.
Like I said in another vlog… There are more young Filipinas pairing with older gentlemen. Filipinas in my opinion are more mature for their age the men (on offense gents) because they are expected and are in fact more caring and more responsible for their families. They are reliable, hard working and loyal to their loved one’s and that explains their early maturity. Eventually Filipino males catch up when they have their own family. But it is more unusual for a younger Filipino pairing with older ladies…. Just my observation ‼️ 🇵🇭💋🇵🇭💋❤️❤️❤️
Hi, What city do you live in ? What part of philippines is best for older man to fine a Filipina ?
Hi Maya, I think you made some very good points about what really makes a relationship fulfilling and last long term. I’m a well-educated, mature Canadian man considering moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭. Could you please give me some tips on some of the best ways to meet an intelligent, independent, kind Filipina that I can share intelligent conversation and outdoor activities with? I’m looking for a committed, long-term relationship. Thanks!
The best you can do is an older mature financially set woman from the middle or upper class. Otherwise, you will have to pay for the stability. It’s the same there in Canada or the USA. Philippines is a poor country.
Why Filipino women date older guys is because they are after his cash and not his heart. It’s facts and men fall for it.
First it's the money, secondly it's the money and finally it's the money.
Saying you have met older guys who arent mature is not very accurate. To judge older guys based on an exception or two is deceptive. MOST older guys are much more mature than younger guys, I know I am.
I have a question. Can a canadian man in his mid 60's with 1200 a month canadian pension and 500k in canadian cash be able to live there and find love.
yes
@@MayaLifeInThePhilippines thank you for your reply Maya, we should get together to speak privately on this matter.
lack of options is a terrible reason...so once the woman get more options the older dude is gone
Lovely and beautiful. Love to have!
If it's not about money, it's about more money 😂. This doesn't only apply to Filipinas but most (not all) women.
Maturity is a huge reason why. With maturity comes wisdom, life experiences and financial security. And older men will be less likely to fool around. I see Filipina's throw theselves at young foreigners here.
Is "hopping around" still called "butterfly"? NOT ME!!! js
"The Reason" is the thickness of the foreigner's wallet (and therefore she would have more financial security). Cheers.
I think they like our hairy ears and the smell of arthritis cream....😁
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Wish i could meet a Filipino man. But women dont get that option?
Soon I will meet someone I can call mine