I Never Thought This Would Happen After 6 Years of Marriage | My Divorce Story & Faith
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- Опубліковано 22 вер 2024
- Life can change in an instant. Just days after celebrating our 6th wedding anniversary, my wife decided to leave me, and my world was shattered. In this raw and personal video, I share my journey of healing after heartbreak, how God has met me in the darkest moments, and how I’m learning to rebuild my life with faith, one day at a time. The divorce will be final in February.
If you’ve ever experienced pain, loss, or felt completely broken, this video is for you. You’re not alone, and there is hope even in the deepest valleys. I pray my story can encourage anyone struggling right now, and I want to remind you that God is with you, even in the storm.
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In this video, I cover:
- My personal testimony of divorce and heartbreak 💔
- How I’m healing through faith and trusting God’s plan 🙏
- Bible verses for comfort and strength during tough times 📖
- Encouragement for anyone feeling lost or broken 💡
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If you’ve been through heartbreak, loss, or are struggling with life right now, share your story. Let’s support each other and build a community of faith and hope ❤🩹
I honestly don't understand how someone can left out of the blue without any big reason...m honestly speachless. Sounds u were surprised too. But normally a girl has here reasons and so I believe Jenna has. U can't control what happens to u, but u can control how u react to it. I can hear ur pain in ur voice 💔 and I feel like that I don't know what kind of words would make u smile a little bit more. It sounds like u are in a very challenging situation over and over again. How long will u be able to stand that? Take care of yourself Leonardo! Sounds like at one point ur parents, friends and ur wife failed u and u felt left for a long episode in ur life. Experiencing lonelyness is such an awful feeling but I do believe a lot of young ppl know this. Maybe u haven't found ur right ppl yet? It takes so much time and effort to build real trust with ppl but it is worth it! Michelle Obama has a really beautiful podcast with Jay Shetty once (it's on yt) and she said in the time while being in the white house a lot of fake friends were there and normally ppl would close up after this experience. But she and her husband always stayed open bc only when u are open u can receive. And they build a very strong circle of friends and feel secure now.
Everyone needs to have this tribe. But sometimes ppl feel so lonely they choose wrong ppl instead of being alone. So make sure to have the good hearted and honest ppl around u! I wish we could be friends, u seem like a person I would love to be friends with. Ur believing in god, ur good heart, ur funny behavior, deep thoughts...like many other ppl! Maybe u should choose to move to a bigger city where u can meet more ppl? I don't know where u live beside that it is somewhere in finnland. Ahhh remember now u were born in australia right? Maybe u miss the sun and open minded ppl from there? God gifted u a free will so u can choose what u wanna do with ur life. But I feel like life is teaching u a lesson now. Listen. Adapt. And then come back. Take ur time ❤️🩹🫂 I would love some updates on how u are.
I experienced heartbreak too and now u experience it for the first time. What helped me was: Don't stop doing things that make u happy. Do ur sport, ur hobbys, stay active, allow urself to lough and to cry. Timothée Chalamét was once in a relationship with the daughter of johnny depp. He described her as his first real love. He once said u are doing it right [heartbreak] when u go down the road and just feel whatever it takes and push u out of it.
U will make it ❤️🩹
May Almighty Allah make it easy for you. Surely, with difficulty, comes ease.
Straighten your crown young man for your father is the king. Heaven is your home, and you are reaching souls, you are in his favor. God bless you while you morn for what is lost . I’ll be praying 🙏 for you.
Over 20 years ago I was where you are now. I was lost, broken and felt ugly and useless. But I didn't know in that time that God had a purpose for me. During that darkness, He was my only light. He was my strength. And he molded me into who I am now. He also sent me a new love, a partner who saw me the way God made me. 20 years later, I know that time served purpose. God always has a plan and knows what is right. I have been with my husband now over 20 years, and I am so blessed. In hindsight, I now know I could have never become who I am now had I stayed on that other path. The Lord even allowed His son to hurt and suffer, it was part of His plan. ❤🙏
Leonardo, I just prayed for you. The Lord is with you. I know what you are going through! (I'm 61)
The one piece of advice I would like to give you is don’t rush into another relationship. You’ve been in a relationship your entire adult life. You need to find out who you are without someone. ❤
This 💯💯💯 I didn’t give much time between my first two & then was single for 2 years before walking into a game shop & meeting my now husband of 10 years who treats me like gold & doesn’t abuse me in any way shape or form.
Das ist so wahr!
No Band Aid relationships, I 100% agree! I am taking my time. There is no rush even if it sometimes feels lonely because I know this will to pass…
I want to find and know who I am with without someone else. It’s just me and God.
Thank you ❤️🩹
@@LeonardoDeValen you can do it ❤
@@LeonardoDeValenYou can’t put the key to your own happiness in someone else’s pocket. Outside objects, or relationships cannot MAKE you happy. They can only add the happiness that you have from within
I'm highly inspired.
Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.
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Wow 😱 I know her too
Miss Christina Ann Tucker is a remarkable individual whom has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.
I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH!
< I know that woman(Christina Ann Tucker)
If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!
I admire your faithfulness to run into God rather than blaming him and running away from him. You truly are a witness of his love.
PLEASE….
DO NOT EVER LOOSE HOPE!!!
EVERY TIME GOD CLOSES A DOOR, HE WILL ALSO ALWAYS OPENS A WINDOW 👍🏻👌🏻
You WILL smile again!!! You WILL find LOVE again….The RIGHT LOVE FOR YOU!!!
HOLD ON TO YOUR FAITH🙏🙏🙏🙏
Leonardo, I am so sorry that you are having to endure this pain. I understand. My "high school sweetheart" and I married young and had a child. The day after our 10 year anniversary, I was served with divorce papers. I was devasted and blindsided. My world as I knew it felt like it was irrevacably shattered. I had to lean in to Jesus more than I ever had before. You said that you prayed for your marriage, and as difficult as it is to understand, your prayers were answered in ways that you don't understand now but you will in time. It is hard to understand God's plan as it is happening but it becomes more clear as time goes on. My divorce was almost 30 years ago now. I din't think that I would survive the pain and heartache, but I did. And so will you. Hold tight to your faith and trust God's plan. And soon you will feel happiness, joy, and love again, stronger and deeper than ever before. Never give up. Never lose faith. I am praying for you and Jenna. Love and hugs to you both ❤❤❤️
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Amen, you articulated what I went through beautifully. Hugs ❤
On November 1, 2020, my boyfriend committed suicide in front of me. I can promise you that He will send peace that surpasses all understanding. He truly is close to the brokenhearted, and He will never leave you or forsake you. I will pray for you sweet brother. There will be beauty from ashes.
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I'm so sorry❤
Thank you for sharing. I feel you. I'm a 28 year old mum of 3 living on Åland. I come from Scotland and my ex comes from Sweden. All I have wanted to do since he left was move myself and my children back to Scotland where my family and and great support system is. Their father will not allow this but at least I have my beautiful children living here with me always. I am greatful. ❤
I married my high school sweetheart. He became abusive to me and our two sons. I ended the marriage as I needed to save my boys. I'm remarried for 14 years. I have my soul mate, my best friend, my lover. I remember telling my Mum after leaving my husband...'I'm happy to be alone and have my peace' only a few weeks later, I met my now husband. What I've learned in the past 18 years. Everyone deserves peace, happiness and to be treated well. I will also say, that although I ended the marriage, I was completely and utterly devastated. From the ashes, you will rise as well. You have my love and understanding. Peace be with you. ❤❤❤
I’ve been there. It hurts man…
On a good note, you’ll look back one day and see why this happened . God has other plans for you. I thought my life was over when my husband left me. I could not afford my apartment since he paid most of the bills and I was crushed with depression. I completely surrendered myself to God and just allowed things to happen in my life. I said yes to opportunities I never would have considered before.
To make a long story short I am happily married with a beautiful family and run my own successful business. You are younger now than I was when this happened to me, you have so much ahead of you just led God lead you my friend. You’ll see eventually just why this had to happen. ❤
Hang in there. There is a plan for you that u don’t know yet. I been there, the hurt is raw but one day my life changed a few years later and I thank God for that experience because he sent me my soul mate and for the past 25 years I’ve been so very happy and very loved. You are a good person and the best is waiting for you. 🌻💕
This has happened to my husband with his 1st marriage. He was shattered and left with two children in their early teens. And then he met me. He was a psychological mess and I encouraged him to go through therapy. We started dating 6 months later and a year later we married. We will have out 37th anniversary next month. We are devoted to each other. God will send the right one to you. Keep your faith, He is truly a healer.
Leonardo, what a courageous young man you are! My 24 year marriage ended due to the fact that my husband had another family throughout our marriage. It was so hard for me as we had 2 sons. It devastated us. I leaned on the Lord for strength to carry me through. Thank you for being so willing to share your story and your faith! I am praying 🙏 for you.
oh wow, what a horrible betrayal. I hope you are doing ok now.
I'm so sorry that happened to you
The one thing I would say, being through a similar situation myself- Allow yourself to truly grieve, including letting your anger out. You won't really be able to move forward until you grieve. It is wonderful that you have a strong foundation in your faith , it will carry you through. Research the five stages of grief. It isn't just about death, it is about devastating loss. It may help you understand your feelings, and journal everyday whether it is writing or drawing or painting, whatever form. Then in 6 mos. or a year go back and read it from the first thing journaled and you will see how far you have come. It is something tangible that you can actually see and hug to your chest. It really helped me to do these things when my husband of ten years left me after 10 years of marriage. Losing 5 babies ( I am 57 now and was never able to have children} and almost dying in the process. He had an affair with a 19 year old and got her pregnant. it was devastating, but I am still here... and happy. Praying for you.
You are a beautiful soul, and this is great advice. If no one has told you today that you are wonderful...let me be the one. Take care 🌹🤍
Healing isn’t linear. Wishing you comfort and peace in this difficult time 💕
This feeling is only temporary, I promise you will eventually meet the woman you are meant to be with..
But if you think,that another marriage will be different, you are totally wrong ,unfortunately. 😇
@@BatElohimthe devil is a liar! You give life to your thoughts by constantly watering them like you are just proudly stating nonsence. Thats what you have chosen to believe and will never change for you if thats what you are watering. Keep that negativity to yourself please
@amandal1450 just ask me,what I exactly thought. If you will stay in the same shoes,and go into another marriage, you will get the same result-divorce. 😉 you have to work with yourself, that's what Jesus said,and he said it in general , so better to understand how to work with yourself, your thoughts and so on. 😉 I'm divorced person, by the way,and after that I understand, that there was also my fault too, and I have to find the way to change myself. Jesus helped me 😉 That's what I thought in my comment
Your wife and you had so much growing to do when you married so young. Sometimes, you just 'grow' apart. She and you still have much to discover about the world. It will take time and you both will find what you are looking for. Wish the best and happiness for each other. Learn from your mistakes and live for the future, learn from the past.
Oh Leonardo, I am so sorry for both of you. You are hurting and trust me so is she. And then you are brave enough to encourage all of us who have felt the exact same emotions with your words. For that I thank you. And of course I will pray for you both. Time really does heal, be patient, your faith is your strength.❤❤ ps would love to hear more from you, you are a beautiful teacher of faith.
I know, he's been selfless and I admire his relationship with the Lord. It encouraged me. This is difficult to put out there, yet he described his feelings articulately.
Leo, I’m a mom and a grandma and watching you just now broke my heart. My arms ache to hug you and let you cry on my shoulder. I too have been thru your kind of pain when I was younger, more than once. I'm so sorry this has happened but I am so happy you have kept your close relationship with God. He will lead you thru the darkness and back into the light. One day, when you're old like me, you will look back and understand why things happened. Blessings to you dear one. Close you eyes, concentrate and I'm sure you will feel the arms of many grandma's around you offering comfort. ❤
It will pass. Embrace the pain, respect yourself because God is always working, even when you can't see it yet. Thank you for sharing. It must've been hard.
I pray for you to have peace🥰 Sending love and hugs from a mum from Singapore. Pls stay strong and have faith. Good things will happen once the rain is over. Life is full of surprises and struggles, but it will pass soon. I have my fair shares so pls don't give up hopes 🙏 hugs
I've been through this. The pain is something else. But I believe everything happens for a reason. We will not see the reason right away, it takes time.
You can lean on my shoulder. My son has done it many times and has come through the other side stronger. God Bless you young man. You are not alone.
Different scenario, but as a cancer patient I know how hard it is to struggle when you are thrown a curve ball. I am so sorry, may God continue to guide, comfort, heal and hide you and Jenna. From Toowoomba, Australia
So sorry to hear this sad news. Can tell how devastated you are feeling, take your time and heal one day at a time in your own way. Take care. 🙏🙏
I’m so sorry Leonardo. Much love and prayers during your difficult time
So sorry for your loss. It is like a death to lose someone from your life. As you said, "It's in God's hands."
God bless you both.
Sending prayers and hugs!🙏💕
Believe me I went thru a divorce after 24 years and it is true God will get you thru and there’s always a reason. Stay strong and turn to God, praying for you.
The same devastating thing just happened to our youngest son. As we have reminded him in the midst of his heartbreak, “For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” - Jeremiah 29:11.
That scripture has taken me through so many storms in my life. It is one of scriptures I cling to. Life is hard. And there are so many lessons to learn. But God is faithful. And, he who began a good work in you, shall bring it to the day of completion. Yay!!
In our darkest days and our longest nights are our greatest lessons, God is with you biggest hugs from New Zealand
It's a rough life event that no one predicts. I know this isn't something you want to hear, but it will stop hurting. For now the only thing to do is bear the pain, take it easy on yourself, and try not to let it destroy you.
Wow! I'm shocked. I have never thought that this would happen. I'm so sorry. Please stay strong.
Omg I'm so sorry. I've been through this,and it's hard. I can say that as each day passes it becomes easier to live with hon. I'm thinking of you and praying it becomes easier for you to cope with. ❤ U have a long life,remind yourself each day that it will become easier! Happier! A Day at a time ok. U are not alone.
I'm a viewer of your Australian family. This is heartbreaking for you. I'm an older woman. I've experienced your pain and it's a physical one unlike anything else you'll ever feel and it does literally feel like your heart it breaking in two. The pain is real now. In time it fades and it's the old saying...life goes on. Your faith will see you through. Stay strong.
Oh Leonardo, my heart breaks for you. You’re never alone, ever, even if the darkest times. We go through things in life that even when we don’t understand why, it builds us and we grow. It’s inspiring that you keep your faith, something a lot of us lose sight of. Keep your faith, God will always be with you walking by your side. Take it one day at a time❤️
Stay strong everything happens for a reason. A year from now you will feel that it was all for the better because without love and truth in a marriage you have nothing. You are doing the right thing you have to move forward and your faith will make you stronger. I have been a subscriber and have been watching since your wedding day hope everything works out for you soon
You are a beautiful soul. Even at the bottom Jesus is always with you. Remember the poem "Footprints in the sand". We may not feel God with us in our darkest moments but that is because at those times he carried us😇🙏. You will transform through this darkness as we all do who have created a life of transformation. Hold on, as we all hold each other! Remember it is always darkest before the dawn. You are not alone.
Here’s the thing.
God gave you the breath of life,
Once I said, I can’t live without that person.
I heard the Holy Spirit say, Don’t YOU DARE. It was the Lord saying put God first.
I’m breathing because of God.
I later married and had a beautiful daughter.
God is awesome.
Your testimony for Jesus is so beautiful. Thank you. My daughter & I have been following you for years. We are committing to pray for you from here in Canada. Bless you, Leonardo. The Lord will bring you through this 🙏🏻❤️
Leonardo, I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. Remember that you are valuable. You are precious. Please take care of yourself. I will pray that God will send you strength and comfort. It will take time, but it WILL get better.
I've been following you since I started following your mother and I have always been amazed by the way you put your relationship with God first. I am going to pray for you and your wife, I also went through divorce when I was 24. I wish you the very best.
Leonardo I'm so sorry for the break up of your relationship. I promise you God has a plan for you and he won't let you down. Trust me things will be less painful as time goes by. I'm pleased to hear you have wonderful people who have helped you in different ways. God helped me to cope when my mum died of cancer and thirteen months later I found my Dad after he unexpectedly but peacefully passed away in his sleep. I was given two years at the most to live and it has so far been 14 years. God has a new purpose for me just as he does for you. Stay strong you are in my prayers.
I am truly sorry to hear this and it shocks me as well. I wish you God's comfort and guidance through what you are going through now. This is definitely so hard for you to share with the public. My heart feels so heavy watching and listening to you. You have many people praying for you. Also, I pray for your wife too. May you both have healing.
I know of your pain. And I also know that faith, surrendering to our Heavenly Father and staying open to God’s Will is what opens doors. I’m sending prayers for healing, and a gentle hug. Know that you ALWAYS have purpose. Be it to show others that they are not alone or be it to inspire others to stay in faith no matter what. Your greatest purpose is spreading Gods love.
Young love is a beautiful thing. We learn so much from each other, speaking listening understanding and true love. We also have to learn many lessons. And sometimes we need to go on our lives separately to learn these lessons that others can teach us. Growing and believe in ourselves that we will go on to a more beautiful life than we thought was possible. You will get through this because your love for God is always with you. Believe in yourself. 💙💙
Leonardo God is very close to the broken hearted.. I too am divorced, 2 kids.. be very kind to yourself, you Lean on the unchanging hands of God.. God will not fail you.. some days will be better than others.. it is through these tough times you truly learn yourself and you understand how near and dear God truly is to you..
I’m so sorry for the pain you’ve been through. When we are in the depths of heartbreak it seems impossible to imagine a future where the pain you are experiencing will have dulled to a distant ache. Or a future where you will have the happiest and most fulfilling days of your life. But I promise you that future is coming and it will be so worth the wait. I lift up my prayers for you to the most high God, for your healing, comfort, and direction.
Leonardo, I followed your family a long time ago, and just now have come across this post. You😢are so, so very mature for your age. God will see you through & brighter days are to follow, as the Holy Spirit leads you. I am sorry for your circumstances. You have many of us who love you so. And, God loves you more than anyone else could. I know you have a strong upbringing in the Lord and that helps. Reading your Bible & prayer are crucial. May God bless you as you seek Him daily.
Debbie in Texas✝️🙏
So sad to see you hurting so very much, Leonardo. Thank God for Jesus and your trust in Him. He hasn't abandoned you and is always with you. I have been through the hugest of losses and at the time it seemed impossible to know His plan yet many years later it became very clear. Promising you my prayers. You will find love and family again, I have absolutely no doubt of that.
My last breakup what I found helpful was getting out with people. Don't stay home and mope and sink in to a dark hole. Get out even if you don't feel like it. Meet up with people, go for a walk in beautiful nature. Pack away the stuff that reminds you of Jenna. Try to avoid places where you have memories with her and seek out new places to enjoy.
Somehow, this showed up in my feed, I am grateful it did. It showed me exactly where I was, a few years ago; sitting broken. I don't see my healing and recovery, as it comes slowly, day by day. Both my heart and prayers go out to you, young man. Time (an awful word, when you are going through it) and the Lord, truly do "heal all wounds". With your strong faith and support system, I have zero doubt you will get through this, a day at a time. You will never be the person you once were; believe it or not the changes will be for the better, with gained compassion, humility and maturity (although you see very mature!). I see all of this now, through the gift of time, healing and introspection, giving me hindsight. I subscribed as I love your message. God speed and be kind to yourself. 🙏❤
Dear Leonardo, I was just praying about feelings similar to yours. I felt as though I was the loneliest person with no purpose in the world. Went to circumstances that left me feeling like that. Then your Video popped up on my feed. I took it as a calling to comment and give you and every other person in the comments who experience heartbreak at the moment a heartfelt internet-hug. Whilst we suffer we suffer together, not just with each other on the internet but most importantly with the Lord. As you said, he has a purpose for us. And he loves us more than we can imagine ❤ Please never forget!
I'm so sorry to hear this. I was really rooting for both of you. May God guide you both through this trying time.
I am praying for you both! Hang on to God’s promises. He has never and will never fail you. I recently lost my mom and my dad 19 moths prior to that. The loss was so hard and overwhelming. But God was always there. Seek wise counsel and stay in the Word of God. Praying for you, my brother.
I'm so, so sorry to hear this. I can only imagine how you feel. I must admit I'm shocked. And very broken-hearted for you. I will pray for you + for Jenna too. 🙏
I went through this as well 10 years ago. I know exactly how you feel. I will pray for you and Jenna. Hold strong to your faith and remember God will never give you more than you can handle. He is right there with you.
God is always with you, just kept relying on him.
I am so very sorry, I don't know how your video popped up in my feed. I ages older than you but the pain of this experience never fades. I was married for 25 years and my husband left me for someone he met on line who was 25 years younger than him. I felt ever bit of the broken you are talking about and even now thinking of it many years later I see that Jesus was so near me all the time. I pray that you'll see that out of your hurt Gods light shines to the world. God Bless!
10 yrs together plus 5 yrs of married life...15 in total, and now separated... im lost too.. but prayers kept me going.. and my faith that everything has a purpose... we can get through this...
Wow you are glorifying God in the midth of your pain . Glory is waiting for you .
Jesus is seeing how faithful you are to Him.
He is going to use you in the lives that are passing through what you have passed through.
Bless you dear
With respect 🙏
I’m so sorry that your life journey is in this very difficult time. As you know your faith will see you through. Sending love.
Hi brother, I am only a few minutes in but I just want to let you know you really are not alone. I have a handful of people connected to me going through this right now & in the past year. Sometimes it isn’t as apparent why such a calamity occurs but it can be turned for good. I know that you will grow deeper in God & see his goodness. Much love & praying for you to experience heavenly comfort. I know you will be rewarded for this faith journey since we all are given the choice to continue on with God or not. Thank you for your sincerity and transparency. We are here for you in Christ. Healing alongside you. ❤
“Trough tears I found healing and found a closer relationship with my Lord Jesus”. Praying for you ❤️🙏
I’m proud of you. And sorry for the shock and heart break youve gone through. You made a video that glorifies God and turning to Him and you were very encouraging to others despite your grief.
I am sad for your pain, but also wondering what God’s plan is for you and wonder why He allowed this. I have said a prayer for you both, that you get back together, or God’s will is done, that you are exactly where God wants you to be. I trust God’s plan for you and that the future is bright. You already living in brightness because of how you made this video full of hope and encouragement despite suffering. God is close to the broken hearted.
When my husband left because he didn't want to be Christian, I sat down and said ' I don't know what's happening Lord but I trust you ' . I had 4 children to bring up on my own. The Lord blessed me abundantly. For 16 years, I saw him provide in miraculous ways, but it's very important to live in obedience. I didn't have a plan, but the Lord did. Yes it's dark when it happens but over time it gets lighter and lighter. He's a good God. Trust him 🙏❤️
No one knows the whole story except Leo and Jenna. My heart goes out to both of them. I wonder how comfortable Jenna was being on a public site while Leo grew up with YT. Thinking and praying for both of them.
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I’m so sorry for you Leonardo. That’s so sad. But i keep up faith that you’ll get better soon! Prayers for you❤
There is nothing worse than a broken heart. I pray for strength and comfort for you.
Many of us understand what you're going through, we have been there. You are a very wise young man. Stay connected to people, thats how you will find your way back to an even better life.God bless you.🙏❤
Kindness your way for sure..Privacy is one of the many necessary parts to waking this out where ever it leads. Support to you at this time and the comfort of the many..Kindness your way young fellow..Lochness Scottish Highlands..
Leonardo, you will get through this. Every single day will get easier! I know it feels like your a grieving the loss of the person who was supposed to be there forever. Keep praying, keep studying, and take it a day at a time. A year from now, you are going to be so proud of yourself! I'm here if you need to talk! I've been through many separations. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
God bless you brother. I pray for peace for you. You have a good foundation in God. Just know that He will NEVER leave you. God has a good plan for you.
I'm so sorry for your heartbreak. I think most people understand what you're going through because no one gets through life unscathed. We know what an utterly crushed heart feels like. Hard learning comes from this. While it's hard to appreciate that point at this moment, you will become stronger and more knowing. I am glad you have such strong faith. That is the best comfort and guidance we can hope to receive. Good luck and bless you.
Praying for you and Jenna, Leonardo. The Lord Jesus cover your wounds with his love and bring comfort, healing, and peace to you both. He is always able and willing to work all things together for your good. ❤
In time, turn your pain into purpose. Every single thing we go through in life; good, bad, and the ugly are to lead to something greater. In the moment it feels like you can't see the light. You don't understand why you have to go through some of the hardest trials and tribulations. Remember that your life has meaning. You have purpose. And in time, you will understand why you've been made to face this heartbreak. It will all make sense in the end my friend. Sending you healing energy and love ❤️
It is so hard to go through divorce it's a life altering event. As difficult as it I can see that you will make it through with your faith in God and the understanding of his all-encompassing love I am sorry that the two of you have had to go through this and may God bless the both of you in your future Journeys
Leo, im so sorry. Don’t loose hope. A few years ago I was blindsided by my husband that he wanted to separate. After lots of tears and prayers. We rekindled our marriage and will be going on 19years now. Our relationship with God is Even stronger. With God all things are possible.
I’m worried you will move to Australia and become dependent on your mother because of your fear and loneliness. But you’ve done so much on your own (with Jenna). Relying on your mother would be such a huge regression. Please don’t do that, even though my heart goes out to you, understanding that you feel so alone, hurt, and unconfident right now. You ARE strong and you know in your bones that God is always with you. Maybe He is testing your faith that you can lean on Him. Showing you that you can, that you’re never alone. So that you can truly relate to others going through very, very hard things, and be truly able to help them.
Keep focused on your plans, your goals and keep striving! God will be there with you every step of the way.
@@lisaa3978 Don’t preach. Instead pray.
Very well said! I agree! Leaning in God and growing his confidence will help him grow immensely. I’m unsure of his career path and inability to drive but acquiring confidence in both will guide him in the path of independence. I respect Jenna for staying private during this time and working on herself. Leaning on his mother will be inevitably going backwards as I’m sure his upbringing spills into his lack of confidence.
For a few years I watched your mom and your birth family. They are so lost and confused and messed up. I actually stopped watching them. Please don't move there. The question that I keep asking myself is why? Why did she leave? Had she discussed leaving before? Was this even on the table was there another man? The whys are so loud in my head!
I've been watching Taina since Leonardo married Jenna, and you just kinda sensed he was dying to get away from her and be independent from his parents. So, he probably won't move in with them. They have no ac in that hot h ell anyway!.
And those poor siblings have become baby sitters and you tube prostitutes!. It's sad because they seem smart with a good head on their shoulders. They're even delusional , thinking they are on a musical career path, but they don't give the viewers any reason to believe it is ever going to be realized. But I won't judge. Still watch them, and hope for the best.
Leo, I would stay in beautiful Finland if I were you. Australia is ridiculously expensive. Hard to survive there
You'll be alright.
Just stopped by again to encourage you and let you know my family is praying. You are so articulate during something difficult and you spoke so well despite the pain.
On a lighter note, animations/editing/voice over are so good on this.
Thank you for your vulnerability ❤
You are a light to the world 🌎
Take care of yourself
You are a beautiful person ❤
I can’t tell you how this video has touched my heart. I feel your pain as if it were my own. I have been there a few times, and yes God is good, he gets us through it, it isn’t easy but it takes time, each day is different and some more painful than others. The look in your eyes, the sound of your voice is all too familiar, a path I have walked. Just know we do come out stronger on the other side. My thoughts and prays are with you. Sending you a hug and support 😢
I am so sorry Leonardo :( sending healing and love!
Heartbreak is very difficult. During these times we see how God carries us. ❤
😢 I'm so so sorry Leonardo
You will be okay and you will find love again I promise you that you just have to keep your head up I know it's hard now but it will get better❤❤❤
Lot's of love from me in Wisconsin all the way to you❤❤❤
I am so sorry for your pain Leonardo. I feel with you and I have deep compassion in my heart for both of you. May you be guided through this challenge and find the light again.
Leonardo, I am so sorry for all of the pain you have gone through.
You are in my PRAYERS.
Thank the Lord you have your dear parents & brothers and sisters.
Stay strong.
I send you a great big hug from the UK, these words don’t help much at the moment but things will get better. I have faced the things you are facing now. I thought that was it I was in the deepest depths with no way out but when you least expect you find your coming back from the dark. Take your time there’s no rush and take each day as it comes. Things will get easier.x❤
I am so sorry this has happened may you find the strength to heal. It will get better
Leonardo, I am so sorry to hear this news and my heart is broken for you. Your pain is so evident but so is your faith. We who have watched you grow care about you. I am thankful you have given this burden to God for He will never leave you nor forsake you. We sing a song at my church that says, "the God on the mountain is the God of the valley. He's the God of the good times and the bad times. The God of the day is the God in the night." Praying for you and Jenna. Remember you are loved and we care.❤️🙏
So gutted for you. Stay strong and keep your faith. God will get you through this.
Happened to me after 18 years. Deeply shocking but also forces you to face yourself and ask why you didn't see it coming, why you projected more onto her, and your sense of the 'relationship' than was there...takes time to heal the psyche on all levels.
God got you. Yes, stay with Him. Praying for you 🙏
I send much love. I to have recently been told my 7 year marriage is over. Also shocked and lost. i understand your words so deeply. Im so so sorry for the pain.
I’m so sorry to learn this news. I’m praying for you both and sending love from the U.S.
I am so sorry for your heartbreak. Keep being a man after God's own heart and putting Him first. He will give you the mercy and grace to maneuver through this imperfect life and He will never leave you.
Sending you a huge warm hug. I have been there and you are in the worst of the storm right now. Please know that this time will be incredibly transformational for you and I can assure you it will be in the very best way possible. Take plenty of time, grieve, build your self-esteem, spend plenty of time in nature and you will work through it just fine. ❤
Just know God has a plan and as much as this hurts right now one day you will know the gift of this and see the divinity of what has happened. People cannot fail you, there is no failure in change. Nothing is permanent in this life and accepting this now will serve you in every time of change. "Let go and let God".
Breakups can hurt the most❤
I appreciate the courage it took to make this video. Leonardo, even though we've never met you're one of the strongest people I've ever known, and so is Jenna. Much love to both of you.
Vielä tänään voi tuntua siltä, että koskaan ei tule parempi olo. Samaa minäkin tunsin vuosia sitten, kun koin eron. Nykyään kaikki on hyvin ja vierelläni on minun elämäni rakkaus. Sillä erolla oli silloin tarkoituksensa. Jotain uutta on sinuakin varten, ja uskotaan, että se on pelkkää hyvää 😊
So sorry to hear you are going through such a difficult chapter right now in life. I pray you stay strong and make it through this season.
“‘“May the Lord you
and keep you;
the Lord make his face shine on you
and be gracious to you;
the Lord turn his face toward you
and give you peace.”’
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