This was a problem with my ex wife until I walked in on her, then it wasn't much of a problem. Besides, it's deeper then just that or if it needs to be simplified then logically not everyone has the same sex drive. Would you rather your man rub one out or find a side piece?
2:20 it depends though, how often they are intimate. If she is saying she doesn't feel comfortable with him tugging it but they haven't had relations in 3 months, she has to get over it.
This is a great topic Roma 👍🏽 I don't think masterbation is wrong in a relationship either; as long as your partner knows about you doing it and it's not something you use against them or do behind their back. It's a form of stress release.
Yeah - preach it to the man whose Wife refuses to touch him, kiss him or have sex for years or decades. Sexless marriages are torture and abusive. Women simply refuse to care or understand the effect it has on a man or their relationship.
@@melkernerI’m sorry, I didn’t mean to insult you. I wasn’t talking about you when I said that a man child is a turn off in marriage. But that was on me, so I’m sorry.
I'd say it's better to take care of it yourself than to make your partner feel obligated to have sex with you. Granted, if someone is ALWAYS feeling like it's an obligation, that's a bigger problem and should be addressed.
The problem is that most, if not all women need to feel special. They need to feel that they are good enough. This complicates that. It’s similar for men, but we aren’t allowed to be fragile.
@larrylongprong5219 lol; I never said I wanted to be with her. I said She's an amazing woman. I'm happily married. Thank you. She is a lot like my wife which to me is the most amazing person on this earth.
I struggled with a compulsion for years. Even though I had no intention of hurting my wife I changed how she sees me. It’s not harmless and it’s not just your personal problem.
The truth is...if you're not sexual energy onto your partner, you're robbing them. They get subpar you when we all know you wouldn't accept subpar them. This typically happens to people that are addicted or used to be addicted to masturbation.
Miss Roma, I reached out a little while ago. I was in a bad place and didn't want to carry on and I'm not really better but I'm trying to get there. Don't know why I'm saying this but something is compelling me to let you know I'm still kicking or rather wheeling around.
Proverbs 5 is full of wisdom on this. "Why would you drink from anothers cistern?" Plz plz read it all!!Potiphar's wife was left unnamed for some reason. Pause...Jesus ensures a spotless bride to present to himself,however.
Is this actually a question? Are people going to remain in preschool forever? This is but one of many reasons I no longer have sex. I don't have sex with "children."
Save your energy? I don’t know how this guy is doing it but it doesn’t take that much energy. Even if my partner comes home 30 minutes later and wants to do it, I’m good to go. If anything I’ll last longer, making it better for her.
These dudes caping! 😂 you know damn well they’ve watched corn and or did the deed while in a relationship. Even once counts. Theres no issues if ur partner is doing that every now and then just to relieve it. But if its an issue like too much and it’s disrupting the relationship in terms of not giving the attention to the other persons when it’s wanted. Or if you’re doing that to hurt or abuse the power dynamics of the relationship. But nothing wrong with it if your just in the mood and want to relieve it quickly without having to go thru the whole steps of getting ur partner, making hints, foreplay and all that.
I think you should be into your partner, but you should also be able to take care of things yourself. It's the basis of Kevin Smith's Spokane amendment.
Some of these guys talking based off their relationships and not what is actually happening out there, how you deal with things in your maybe isn't how most do, and your views don't represent everyone. There are a lot of sexless marriages out there and saving it for when you get some ain't worth it, or medical cases where your partner can't do it. Them masturbating or cheating you choose
Masturbation is as natural as breathing. Women and men should be able to say to their significant other that they do it, to what, when, and even share the experience. AND NOT BE JUDGED NEGATIVELY FOR DOING IT. Buy your Partner some toys to enjoy when you're not around or in the mood. The same toys can be used during time together. STOP BEING SO REPRESSED.
I mean just because something becomes accepted doesn't mean. It's natural. What is the natural function to it? Is it for survival or reproduction? Your body will get rid of old sperm with wet dreams, there's no need for it. I'm not biased sure I pound my pud every once in a while when my girl isn't around, but it's always with her in mind. Natural indicates necessary in some biological context. The desire for sex is natural, its a natures trick to get us to reproduce. But it's not a necessity four our biology, therefore not natural. I think it's very dangerous to become acclimated to other faces and bodies during sexual activity. The high dopamine release causes a desire to repeat behavior, and the tolerance to it can lead to more extreme measures, such as acting on that desire with someone else, not yourself and partner.
And I realize this comment can be misconstrued as being against forms of sex that don't lead to reproduction and its not, just saying we have drives naturally, but the aren't always acted out in the way biology dictates. Now we live in a society where that doesn't matter, not in nature. So it hardly matters what is natural.
Not clue all I'm not too sure how the relationship would be but if I had a lady most likely she would never let me watch any type of dirty films or do nothing most likely if you want to sleep with multiple men everyday anyways oh well how is my life
I don't think rubbing 1 out while in a relationship is a problem you have needs if the other half is busy or not around its definitely better then finding that need met somewhere else and so what your watching a video some people can't if they don't hear moaning grow up and enjoy the drive your partner has and the loyalty they give you by not finding it somewhere else
@@Cheezwizzz i'm sure cave men would've been painting boobies on cave paintings if it werent for insecure karen cave women, which would probably be a little more dangerous than our karens. They have found carved stone figurines with exaggerated physical attributes from those days, and they've literally found stone dildo's in archeological cave sites.
@@Cheezwizzzi'm sure cave men would've been painting "corn" on cave paintings if it werent for insecure karen cave women, which would probably be a little more dangerous than our karens. They have found carved stone figurines with exaggerated physical attributes from those days, and they've literally found stone dildo's in archeological cave sites.
Please Explain.... I mean, what if your partner has gone on a business trip for a month. Is it wrong then? What if they are on meds and can't be intimate. Is it wrong then? What if they have had an accident (non life threatening) and its weeks or months till they are able to be intimate. Is it wrong then. Lots of questions arise if you say its wrong. Though I do get that all thing being fine and your not getting the sex and intimacy you need. Then yes... maybe there's something up there.
@@michaeltaylor4817 you are using isolated incidents as your examples... we are speaking in generalities here... there is always an exception to every rule... are you always this pedantic?
I want to just have nice weekends , but no strings ,, it's hard to say that now a days .... Spoiled for a weekend.. romantic, dinner dancing blaablaa you ,, know .. then see how goes ..
Well if everyone found their twin flame freak. It would be okay. Just dont do it all the time. Please spare me. Yall do all that chit your talking anout behind closed doors.
I watch short HINT vid. And yup. I could be in the car outside MY house think what's gonna happen. Nice to go home or where the hack have yoove been . I'm I gonna get shot or stabbed or is me doing rrrr that.???? MEN. just wanna warm meal ,warm woman and warm kids and home home ,,,,pets too .. that's all I want
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This was a problem with my ex wife until I walked in on her, then it wasn't much of a problem.
Besides, it's deeper then just that or if it needs to be simplified then logically not everyone has the same sex drive. Would you rather your man rub one out or find a side piece?
"If it's only 2 days" man half these women in relationships put out once every couple months.
If a woman has an issue with this then she needs to never say no to sex.
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2:20 it depends though, how often they are intimate. If she is saying she doesn't feel comfortable with him tugging it but they haven't had relations in 3 months, she has to get over it.
This is a great topic Roma 👍🏽 I don't think masterbation is wrong in a relationship either; as long as your partner knows about you doing it and it's not something you use against them or do behind their back. It's a form of stress release.
Whynot especially when the spouse is not interested in sex anymore.
Yeah - preach it to the man whose Wife refuses to touch him, kiss him or have sex for years or decades. Sexless marriages are torture and abusive. Women simply refuse to care or understand the effect it has on a man or their relationship.
or there are problems that need to be resolved. I’ve heard stories about being in a marriage with a man child. that’s usually a turn off.
@@RandomPersonLol366 Yeah - that's it - insult me instead of look at it form a dysfunction perspective.
@@melkernerI’m sorry, I didn’t mean to insult you. I wasn’t talking about you when I said that a man child is a turn off in marriage. But that was on me, so I’m sorry.
I'd say it's better to take care of it yourself than to make your partner feel obligated to have sex with you. Granted, if someone is ALWAYS feeling like it's an obligation, that's a bigger problem and should be addressed.
The problem is that most, if not all women need to feel special. They need to feel that they are good enough. This complicates that. It’s similar for men, but we aren’t allowed to be fragile.
Wrong? I'm married. That's as close as I get to sex.
Roma is fucking awesome! I think she's such an amazing woman!!
And you have no chance with her. Ever. But she will happily take your money.
@larrylongprong5219 lol; I never said I wanted to be with her. I said She's an amazing woman. I'm happily married. Thank you. She is a lot like my wife which to me is the most amazing person on this earth.
@@larrylongprong5219 Get a life incel
@@larrylongprong5219 Loser
@@brentjohnson8057let me crack myself it's not OF it's Patreon but on a highers tears she offers well the OF experience so it's the same thing
I love her attitude, personality and especially that she's looking very healthy. 110% thumbs up for this sweet lady that I have loved for so long.
I work away, now it's only 7/7 but before it was 14/7. Nothing works to get to sleep after a 13 hour shift like a busting.
The only thing good about the hand, is when it's somebody else's hand.
So you never took care of it yourself when you were a teen? I'm gonna need multiple heads for all the caps I need to wear for that one.
Just turn your hand the opposite direction, it'll feel like someone else
@@nickemanouil114 Doesn't make sense
@@NativeBloodWolf it was a joke...... that went over your head
@@nickemanouil114 Still no
I struggled with a compulsion for years. Even though I had no intention of hurting my wife I changed how she sees me. It’s not harmless and it’s not just your personal problem.
Low libido and absentmindedness is different than high libido and mitigation of worse temptation. Its different per situation.
2:24 my man suddenly starts stuttering...when he is clearly LYING.
The truth is...if you're not sexual energy onto your partner, you're robbing them. They get subpar you when we all know you wouldn't accept subpar them. This typically happens to people that are addicted or used to be addicted to masturbation.
Miss Roma, I reached out a little while ago. I was in a bad place and didn't want to carry on and I'm not really better but I'm trying to get there. Don't know why I'm saying this but something is compelling me to let you know I'm still kicking or rather wheeling around.
Excellent video.
A Great Debate!! 🤪
Wow. Very interesting!
I never came back home empty handed ..it's other a trailer full of Xmas presents or short bundle of flowers for me misses. It was always something
Proverbs 5 is full of wisdom on this.
"Why would you drink from anothers cistern?"
Plz plz read it all!!Potiphar's wife was left unnamed for some reason. Pause...Jesus ensures a spotless bride to present to himself,however.
nasty...smh the last dude is a true King for his views and morality....
Fuck no. Its great when both share with eachother.
It's fulfilling a need better than cheating
2 days 😂 he is a VERY lucky man indeed.
Is this actually a question? Are people going to remain in preschool forever? This is but one of many reasons I no longer have sex. I don't have sex with "children."
Save your energy? I don’t know how this guy is doing it but it doesn’t take that much energy. Even if my partner comes home 30 minutes later and wants to do it, I’m good to go. If anything I’ll last longer, making it better for her.
These dudes caping! 😂 you know damn well they’ve watched corn and or did the deed while in a relationship.
Even once counts.
Theres no issues if ur partner is doing that every now and then just to relieve it. But if its an issue like too much and it’s disrupting the relationship in terms of not giving the attention to the other persons when it’s wanted. Or if you’re doing that to hurt or abuse the power dynamics of the relationship. But nothing wrong with it if your just in the mood and want to relieve it quickly without having to go thru the whole steps of getting ur partner, making hints, foreplay and all that.
You don't know if they're lying
I think you should be into your partner, but you should also be able to take care of things yourself. It's the basis of Kevin Smith's Spokane amendment.
As much as the churchy people might try and shame a person for these behaviors, they'll never spank you as much as you spank yourself.
OMG..... Never seen you wear glasses before.😂
You look hotter in these videos
It's like changing the oil. It must be done.
now im thinking about Roma rubbing one out
Some of these guys talking based off their relationships and not what is actually happening out there, how you deal with things in your maybe isn't how most do, and your views don't represent everyone. There are a lot of sexless marriages out there and saving it for when you get some ain't worth it, or medical cases where your partner can't do it. Them masturbating or cheating you choose
I genuinely disagree
Bout what.. Can't say you "disagree" but not say why
How about 3-4 years?
It’s only wrong if your partner isn’t there watching
No it's not
Y is that so bad like date normal and be normal 😂 lmao watch corn together 😂lol
Roma rules! Masterbation is normal!
It is
What if the wait is 16+ months
Masturbation is as natural as breathing. Women and men should be able to say to their significant other that they do it, to what, when, and even share the experience. AND NOT BE JUDGED NEGATIVELY FOR DOING IT. Buy your Partner some toys to enjoy when you're not around or in the mood. The same toys can be used during time together. STOP BEING SO REPRESSED.
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I mean just because something becomes accepted doesn't mean. It's natural. What is the natural function to it? Is it for survival or reproduction? Your body will get rid of old sperm with wet dreams, there's no need for it. I'm not biased sure I pound my pud every once in a while when my girl isn't around, but it's always with her in mind. Natural indicates necessary in some biological context. The desire for sex is natural, its a natures trick to get us to reproduce. But it's not a necessity four our biology, therefore not natural. I think it's very dangerous to become acclimated to other faces and bodies during sexual activity. The high dopamine release causes a desire to repeat behavior, and the tolerance to it can lead to more extreme measures, such as acting on that desire with someone else, not yourself and partner.
And I realize this comment can be misconstrued as being against forms of sex that don't lead to reproduction and its not, just saying we have drives naturally, but the aren't always acted out in the way biology dictates. Now we live in a society where that doesn't matter, not in nature. So it hardly matters what is natural.
Not clue all I'm not too sure how the relationship would be but if I had a lady most likely she would never let me watch any type of dirty films or do nothing most likely if you want to sleep with multiple men everyday anyways oh well how is my life
Is this actually you ,or some comp ai thingy ..Yup I know I need help ,mentally ,ummm teferencsees
In Calgary??
My worst was ,,,I need shower and shave ,and get those pizza and wings bread all the fixings a coming
Can you recommend any good therapist ss
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Looney 😂
Young dude be talking crap
He wasn't
I don't think rubbing 1 out while in a relationship is a problem you have needs if the other half is busy or not around its definitely better then finding that need met somewhere else and so what your watching a video some people can't if they don't hear moaning grow up and enjoy the drive your partner has and the loyalty they give you by not finding it somewhere else
Are morals a thing of the past? Dignity sure is!
No, its just really popular to take things that are normal and natural and treat them as if it were shameful and immoral.
@@Sarcasmarkus Masturbation is natural and normal, pornography is neither natural nor normal
@@Cheezwizzz 🙄
@@Cheezwizzz i'm sure cave men would've been painting boobies on cave paintings if it werent for insecure karen cave women, which would probably be a little more dangerous than our karens. They have found carved stone figurines with exaggerated physical attributes from those days, and they've literally found stone dildo's in archeological cave sites.
@@Cheezwizzzi'm sure cave men would've been painting "corn" on cave paintings if it werent for insecure karen cave women, which would probably be a little more dangerous than our karens. They have found carved stone figurines with exaggerated physical attributes from those days, and they've literally found stone dildo's in archeological cave sites.
if you are doing that, then the relationship is wrong..
Please Explain.... I mean, what if your partner has gone on a business trip for a month. Is it wrong then? What if they are on meds and can't be intimate. Is it wrong then? What if they have had an accident (non life threatening) and its weeks or months till they are able to be intimate. Is it wrong then. Lots of questions arise if you say its wrong. Though I do get that all thing being fine and your not getting the sex and intimacy you need. Then yes... maybe there's something up there.
@@michaeltaylor4817 you are using isolated incidents as your examples... we are speaking in generalities here... there is always an exception to every rule... are you always this pedantic?
@@bikinglikebecker Doesn't matter
I guess if she messes up it's my fault but it's hard to find space she can create her own decisions on design ..I submit
Ive had hundreds thousand s stolen. I'm never marring again I DONT TRUST woman.. I love too many but don't trust ...
I'm allowing my niece to tattoo me ,,,,do you think it's appropriate??? I'm good with it ,for now?
I want to just have nice weekends , but no strings ,, it's hard to say that now a days .... Spoiled for a weekend.. romantic, dinner dancing blaablaa you ,, know .. then see how goes ..
Typing on this thing is difficult
Well if everyone found their twin flame freak. It would be okay. Just dont do it all the time. Please spare me. Yall do all that chit your talking anout behind closed doors.
References?? I can't. Shiink fingers. k
I watch short HINT vid. And yup. I could be in the car outside MY house think what's gonna happen. Nice to go home or where the hack have yoove been . I'm I gonna get shot or stabbed or is me doing rrrr that.???? MEN. just wanna warm meal ,warm woman and warm kids and home home ,,,,pets too .. that's all I want