Stop Asking Women On Dates - Do This Instead
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I don’t even ask girls out on dates, it’s either let’s chill or I’m good, I’ve had girls ask me out and to hang etc, if the girl is REALLY into you, you won’t have to take them anywhere, they’ll just show up, experiencing all this really opened my eyes to just how much women really play games, you’ll never want to deal with a low interest girl again after being with women who truly desire you.
It's true. I drove across boarders for my BF to get with him, heck, many years later now and I still jump through hoops foe him. He got lucky with me though, he's just "it" for me. He didn't have much luck with women before me.
Facts, every girl I smashed I got to them draws without dating at all. If they like you they do so much rule breaking for you.
@@mel-el5862 not only will they break rules, but they’ll literally lie to themselves and be delusional to be with you, I’ve had a girl travel to my city, pay for the hotel, food, rental car etc, just to spend a week with me, Reality kicked in HARD after that crazy experience.
@@adday.You're the lucky one, not him
@@ForceField9 I'll remember that when I cook and clean for him while he plays pool, thanks 😅
If she’s sending you pics you’re just part of the distribution list
Not gonna lie, I do the same stuff to them. When you’re single you might as well play the field.
And if you’re just “dating” someone, you’re single.
@@LFA What an insanely Manly take, Sir. A Man like you deserves variety anyhow!
Example: instead of "I'd like to take you on a date"
Use this: "My cousin is having a bbq this sunday afternoon, since you said you didn't have plans that day you should stop by.. it's going to be a lot of fun... I'll send you the details later tonight..."
The emphasis is on the tempo and the communication. Regardless of whether you want a one nighter, or a rest of your lifer.
Hello, my cousin is having a BBQ this weekend. If you don't have plans this weekend. You should stop by.
To further add to this, women love this stuff because “stop by” tells her she is free to leave soon after if she decides she isn’t feeling you. Women feel more comfortable meeting up if they know there’s an easy way out. Also to be more cynical, more people there means if she knows I’d doesn’t like you maybe she’ll go for your cousin instead LOL
You are not the only bloke that your chicks seeing. When you are making a chicks cheeks clap and she says " i dont usually do this on a first date."YEAH RIGHT!
She will drop those pants for Chad thunderc#%k
Or they never drink or go to the bar
They probably don’t-unless they actually are attracted to the guy
That’s just gross
Cheeks clap😂
I am a Muslim man and this CRAP IS REAL… I noticed women being shocked when they realized how “real” I am… it is as if they expected me to behave like ‘other’ men. My sister even called me a “Unicorn” in modern society. One woman even accused me of “hiding” something the hell?
Are you hiding something? 😂
@@JAMES_IS_COOL1227 thing is I am not. Like I told her who I am, my hobbies, but this woman already knew me for YEARS. SHE was the one originally making moves on me for quite sometime, then when I became direct she started freaking out lol when I asked her out. Now I am dating another woman and this one HAS CONFIDENCE. Dating can still happen if there is some "spark" somewhat. I do admit it is quite chaotic
Hey I wish you the best brother. Im a baptist, but at this point it don't matter to the enemy. My dating life stopped when I stopped committing fornication
@@rodan2852 it is quite taxing... funny thing is, Islam does not allow dating lol. But at the same time, I don't want to get married to someone who I clearly do not know. Usually families of both parties talk if marriage is on the table... I am not sure if that is STILL the practice today.
same here. I had a coworker literally put her number into my phone and I never messaged her once. Later at work she said "guys now are using PlayStation too much" she assumed I'm playing video games instead of dating women LOOOL
I still have a old school mentality but reality is that the world is different now.
Ya bad apples and STDs are rampant.
Whats the old school mentality?
@@prettyboishah2898 "Old school" covers a lot of territory.
My man texted me after we met through mutual friends and asked how my day was going. I was having a bad day and said that, so he said, “Well hey, I’m out fishing if you’d like to join me.” Fresh air is always a good thing, and he seemed like a kind person, so I joined him. We’ve been together eight years. No “date” required.
Perfectly done. 👍
Most of the men on here talking tough are 100 percent wishing they could act the way they claim they act with women.
Lol true
You know this from experience
most likely true
Actually true, what I see out there and what men say on here are two completely different things
possible when u get burned too many times. complete calm
Tell her to come over. If she says no, find another girl to ask, and stop talking to the one who refused. If you waste time and money, she knows you’re to be taken advantage of….
Relax
@@TheOlzee ?
@@TimezUp23 don’t just invite them over with trying to create attraction / comfort etc and there’s nothing wrong with a date. Keep it cheap and simple where you can get to know each other. Chat her up then invite her back.
@@TheOlzee I’m just talking from personal experience. I met a girl. She gave me her number. We chatted a short period. I asked her to hang out, she said yes. Every time I asked her to hang out, she said yes. When I first asked her to come over, i thought to myself, I’m not wasting any time. She can say yea or I’m out. We are still together. The point is, if she is down for the man, she will make it easy.
So to do instead is: asking her to come over to my place even if we for example just met on the street and exchanges numbers?
If you just hangout, you are not on a date so therefore you should not be expected of paying for anything either, like most men do on a date. This is actually brilliant!!
I have found this to be 100 true and it took me forever to figure it out. After I got divorced and started talking to women again I would meet women that would seem interested, they would give me their numbers, but then when I tried to set up a date they would completely flake. I eventually realized that women today don't really even like going on dates. Now I just invite them along to do whatever I am going to do anyway or I just have them come straight over to my place.
Does that actually work? I usually can't even get a reply when I hit them up after getting their number.
@@fuzzypanda1684 All bs you get very low value women does drugs, tattoos, single mom, drinks and smokes heavily. No thank you. 80% All trash out there.
@@fuzzypanda1684 give them yours. those that txt are interested.
@@fuzzypanda1684see if she actually choosing on you before getting their info. Will save you a lot of time
@@fuzzypanda1684 If you're good looking enough, yeah, it works.
"The wild wild West", it is so hard for older men in their 40's (maybe mid 30's) and up to grasp all of this because we actually grew up and was raised with the old way of courtship/dating whatever you want to call it. So if your in your 40's and single, especially if you were married the last decade or two, it is a strange new world out there to navigate now.
I totally agree with you, though I was never married, I nearly got engaged because of love but I didn't have the finances. Looking back I'm glad I didn't marry the woman. In present day if we replicate the courtship aspect though the woman might appreciate it and may even perceive you as a low-key beta and she's not likely to reciprocate the kind gesture
You are right! I was married for 20 years. I am 40, single, successful and it’s HARD to date. My dating game is way OFF.
47M. I never dated the old way anyway. Even to me that was something kids did in the 1960s. In the 80s and 90s I heard kids talking about house parties. Or they just got together after talking on the phone all night. When I did start hanging out with girls at age 18 in the late 90s it was a hook up thing. Get some food then hook up. And that's all I've ever known.
I dated a girl which looked like my "soulmate" : from the same country, born one day after me. We had amazing time during our first date, she said she wanted to see me again and I've done everything to not overwhelm her ( not texting since that day ; letting HER message me ) One day before my birthday, she reacted to my story saying " good luck :) " and blocked me a few hours later. I had the worst birthday of my life. I'm not doing this anymore. I quit. Acted tough : got destroyed..
Holy crap man, I also met a girl, she actually even wrote on a nice piece of paper a very nice message about me saying that she wanted to see me again and even draw a heart and everything, we met in a week-end camping trip. After that we started talking, exchanging videos and selfies, and she was so into me and I was into her. And even planned for a date at the beach that was very good actually, the only thing she started feeling bad at the end (stomach pain and headache) so she went home. And that was it. We kept talking trough the weeks following but she started taking more and more time to answer back, slowly loosing interest. Then she would only answer like 3/4 days later. Eventually she stopped talking to me completely and blocked me.
I think what happened is that, you know with social media she was constantly getting attention from unlimited men, and with that it's just a matter of time till someone "apparently more interesting than you" comes along...
I didn't feel that bad afterwards because you know this is Satan's world and these types of things are happening more and more.
But still don't let these things get to you like that, and remember that you have value, honesty and integrity. Something that these females that do things like these don't have.
So be proud of yourself and arm yourself with the Armour of God and keep moving forward.
@@vvsreupload5130 just remember, their day is coming... right now they can have their cake and eat it too but one day, when they start to hit around 40... ALL of this will disappear from them ALL of it. Only thing they will be left with is simps. Not trying to be mean, just pointing out facts and women know it. As shallow as it is, once their beauty fades they are nothing to men anymore, Chad is with that 25 year old THEY used to be.
Don't act tough, be tough
She was talking to another guy, hence why she blocked you. None of these girls are in your owner ship bro, don’t let it heart break you.
You didn't give news during days so she thought you were not interested in her or had someone else. That's why she sent this message. Put yourself in her shoes : she had a first date and then no news anymore.
If you are interested in her you should contact her again saying you had a great time and don't know why you still didn't meet for a second date. Maybe it is not dead yet. Be honest, that's manly.
Relationships = drama and depression every time EVEYTIME !!!!
The world. What's happening is the evil is being exposed. It will get worse this year before it gets better than anyone alive has seen.
Preach
It all comes back to the fact that they shouldn't be taken seriously." Shall we?-Yes.- Good."; "Shall we?-No.-Okay, bye."
So it's ok when men treat your daugther like a thing they can use and dicard?
@@maijensen3317 It depends on how old she is.
@@BobbyRock710 treat people how you want them to treat you
@@maijensen3317 Really? I'm going to treat them well when they treat me badly. It means not having self respect.
“It ain’t nooooo funnnnn if the homies can’t haveeeee none”
now that’s a good song
There's nobody worth dating now
100% the truth! Most are NPC's.
Completely agree
They’re either too masculine or the f*minism indoctrination has ruined them.
So, out of hundreds of millions of people, p there's not one good one? C'mon.
@@nomadman5288 2-3 % have some potential to be trained, maybe.
Love the videos LFA
Thank you for the video LFA ❤🔥
35 old male, Im fit and ripped, I speak 5 languages, I like the intelectual side of stuff and that led me to Roman Catholicism. Thats the only and true only path I see to Go by. The degeneration Just gets worse. I dont Hook up, from time to time I was weak and I did It and It did nothing for me. Some girls I have on my social media that are hot but they started to disgust me, because I know what they are doing. Population collapse is a reality, its all over the world and its well explained on this vídeo. Accountability have been removed from society and Thats no good.
i kinda feel the same brother
As a 68 year old ex catholic who also values the intellectual aspect, I'm curious as to how you see Catholicism as Intellectual? I was an altar boy for 9 years, was the outstanding student in Catholic studies from 8th to 10th grade, knew the Latin mass and was recruited by the seminary in Cincinnati. Perhaps I might know some things you don't. Study the Bible, not read but study. Now that is intellectual.
That disgust is why I don't do much with women, including those who try to latch on to me. I'd be stunned if I met one who didn't make me feel nauseous through her behaviour around me or from what I know about her life.
@@clintdavis7434 Long story short, I have degree in both economics and then literature. I felt something was very wrong througout my studies, and I found that the college system in most of the west is very corrupted and biased, but it kind of always been that way. What really changed me was Thomas Aquina, Saint Augustine, Plato and Aristotle. Of course, the Bible as well. This was after I graduated. But not only the college system, everything is intellectually corrupted, this is one of the root problems. You wouldnt believe what France and Europe has been "producing" over the last century or so. Actualy ever since the Iluminism. What Ive come to realize is that intellectuality, ideas, have a profound impact on society. This is a very very short answer
@JonJon-pj9ly I agree with what you said. I think IMHO that the more you study the Bible and compare it with Catholicism , you will find a host of inconsistencies that a person with your intellect should have no problem identifying.
Who’s asking women out? The only ones are the simps at this point but these 304’s are realizing the sinp economy is dying off as well
What’s wrong with asking women on dates? What should guys do instead?
Asking women out is not simping. You’re more of a loser not talking to women
@@james---b self invest! be the one she wants to take out!
@@hotmiclegend that sounds good.
believe it or not, most girls won't sleep with a complete stranger
This is definitely what I needed to hear - the thought of having to go on a date, is not only what has prevented me from going on a date, but has also prevented me from getting with girls period. Everyone around me seems to be hooking up, but for some reason, perhaps being a "nice guy", I felt that I had to go on dates with girls (the whole thought of booking somewhere, dressing up, just seemed cringeworthy/corny, and especially knowing that this same girl would happily hook up with with a Chad or Tyrone for a pump and dump...
Video hits at the perfect time! 💯🔥
Moral of story is be CHAD THUNDERCOCK at all times
Just be born with a 10 inch D bro...SIMPLE.
youre born chad ie. looks. you cannot become him,
@@WhiteGhost21 well that’s funny I did. I had zits all over face up till 20, bad environments at home and school, awkward all the time, coke bottle glasses. I looks maxed in gym and became a “male stripper” type of look or “Ken Doll”. Got myself into fitness magazines and I was swimming in 🐱 I wanted my type as a challenge by mostly had women throwing themselves at me. Any man can become Chad in some form. I am also got an insane work ethic which is the key to 📦 in the long run in my opinion.
8:23 😂😂😂 I love the Nate Dogg impression!! Thanks for the latest vid dude!!
Short term gain, long term loss. For both parties involved.
I personally think that dating is the number one reason why the majority of people are single nowadays.
When I met my ex, we exchanged phone numbers, talked on the phone for a couple of weeks, and our first meeting was at the lake with her family on a holiday weekend. Our second time meeting ended up being her going shopping with my sister and my mom. And then me and my sister’s husband met with them that evening, and we got dinner. After that we just expected to hang out with each other routinely.
About a year later, we moved in together, And shortly after that, we started going on dates every Friday night.
Had we spent our first six months going on dinner dates or out for drinks, I don’t think we would’ve even taken each other seriously.
Not really, by the time my divorce will be finished. She will get 50% plus of all assets and I will come out with about 30%. I would say she won. Never again.
@@LFAI never got with anyone through dating, or after having been on dates with her. It's typically been after an ONS and we continue to see each other, then slowly get introduced to each other's family and friends, and then go out on dates with each other. The other way is to hang out in groups, you get to know her part of the grouo and she yours, then start spending time alone together.
@@LFA Sounds like your situation is the exception to the rule. So you’re saying that you and I could meet for the first time.. talk on the phone a couple weeks-not take the time to hang out/date and see how you interact.. and then you just get complete access to my family? I dunno… sounds a little backwards. Meeting the friends is level 10 in relationships, meeting the family is level 42. Just the same as meeting somebody’s kids-you don’t expose them to someone you haven’t vetted first. BUT.. I think for a young lady introducing a new suitor to her father before advancing into dating him later.. letting the father vet the suitor out on her behalf.. okay, I can see that angle a little more.
Or even more so if you started off as friends in a social circle first.. that makes sense too. But not if I just met somebody.
Let’s test the theory and submit the results. I’m sure my father would think you’re awesome. I’m kidding.. I’m kidding… 😏
@@the_raging_tomato relax
Very informative.
The last few minutes was pretty deep man. And I totally agree!
💯 SPOT ON TRUTH....THE GAME HAS CHANGED...
You make a good point at around the 3:30 mark. I met a girl in a bar one night and was able to take her home that night, little did i know she was out on a date earlier in the night and the man had spent £200 on her and she was saying she wasn't feeling it, so she went to this bar to find his replacement off the bat , which eventually was me that night
Your contents just keep getting better! Keep up the great work!
Spot on keep it casual with the hypergemista. Get in the flow no drama just fun.
Been on hundreds of dates..usually its something i want to do or go..so im ok with it...but second dates are rare cause i didnt feel chemistry or they dont communicate back..
Youve been too many free meals man
@@garnetdavey8776nothing worse than that, 😆
Not all meals...drinks only
@@SuperQdaddy Never buy food, until u have gotten some kind of sex,lol
So true I've been walking on slow motion, im so glad i found your channel. Im going to be more direct from now on.
This Dudes Awesome.Right on the money Guy. Keep it goin.
Thank you sir 🙏🏽
Thank you Brother! 🍺👍
Pure facts!
Love the Doggystyle album! Some great lyrics like you said
What you describe in the video rarely if ever happens. Over 99.9% of women will never ever go to a guys house who they just matched up with on a dating app without first meeting them in person in a public place first. If a guy matches up with a women on an app and tells her come over to my house for any reason I guarantee you 99% of women are not going to do it.
During Covid they came straight to my place, I just kept it going after that.
@@CDRFINANCE Congratulations on your success. 99% of men do not have it so easy.
@@rygarzz7650 looking back it still sucked, only thing I got from it is to stay away and that I can do it again in a more hospitable environment. I had to learn it and earn it, admittedly my genes co operated with my optimisation efforts as previously I was part of the 99%. The was from age 45-50, previous married, previous to that I had probably below average man’s experience. There were reasons for that I had to solve.
Great talking point
Interesting takes
You never fail to blow my mind with your insights
Thankyou brother for the advices , idk where imma end up but you give me hope not not to be stupid great, but just enough 🙏
How is good points from the man with goood vibes👌🏼✌🏼😂💯
"I wanna take you to Los Cabos" could become a meme template lol
Truth. Ty for sharing this it’s about time a real man said something about this sh*t show. Everything is all messed up. Men are leveling up. Time to go to the grocery stores church ect not clubs either.
Sounds like it’s better to just be single I think I’ll just stay away from them all together
What’s up LFA, good to see you again
I'm 59 yrs old, and I think your right. I gave up relationships and even dating a long time go.
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The "first meet" conundrum is what discourages me from approaching women in the first place. Alot of women from a dating app want to 1) meet me in public and 2) expect dinner or drinks for their time. This implies that not only does she not trust me, but is expecting compensation for her time. Already from the get go, i am in the hole and fighting an uphill battle. If I don't spend money on her, she thinks I am being weird or cheap. It's too bad because all the best relationships i ever had started out when the woman came over to my house sooner rather than later and without monetary enticement to do so. I almost always met these women through work where they got to know me first.
Dude you have to view it from their perspective. It’s a safety thing on meeting in public for them. You’d do the same thing. As far as the drinks thing, it’s a cost of doing business. If you don’t want to then don’t but it’s not going to help your case. I usually go for drinks or a cheap meal for first dates. Always pay.
@@leewill3036 Skyrockets your chances of getting ghosted. Good luck with that approach.
@@JoeBrown-bt4qg I’ll let you know when that happens.
@@leewill3036 let me clarify - that approach of buying drinks and dinner for a woman on the first date actually can work, but with women that are at least one point beneath the guy. So if you as a guy are an 8, you will be able to hook a 7 about 65% of the time.
This guy gives good advice. 🤙
100% this is your best video yet that I have seen! I had no idea about the dates thing, I literally have had the last two girls flake out on me as soon as I said let's meetup and go to X. X being the place of the date.. I thought they just weren't interested but I also thought it was strange because ALL of the other guys on here claim girls just want a free dinner blah blah blah yet that is NOT what I am seeing. I think the shift has been made and like you said they would rather go out and have fun than go on some boring date with a stranger. Thanks for the advice!!
You are better than the guys that handout free dinners. Just don't force *anything*, let your relationships be spontaneous, tell your girl where you plan to go and if she follows, cool, but if not, you have nothing to worry about, after all, you want to go where you want to go.
This is one of the most helpful videos i've watched on this topic so far. I'm having the issue of my old friend group either being dead or alcoholics/i don't want to associate with them. And since i don't meet women naturally because of this, I've had it in my head i need to date, and start focusing on dating. I'm just gonna do this, once i get a number, i'll chat for a bit, then invite them over. I seriously don't have time for it. It takes so much effort and time, either she likes me, or she doesn't. Also, feels weird to go on a date in public with someone i haven't been intimate with or hung out with or anything.
first dates are basically blind dates now, esp dating app dates. You are right though, dates suck.. so much time and money just to get rejected LOL
What's up brothers !
The American version of James Bond. I like you bro, you're like the kind of father I would've loved to have. Subscribed.
Appreciate the Snoop and Nate Dog reference!
Whole lot of red pill for y’all 💯
He completely overwhelmed my beta bluepill senses
What’s up brothers😎
This is very true guys. I have been on both ends
I agree 100%
"Leave yo number on the cabinet,
And I promise babe , I 'll give you a call " 😂😂😂
Good advice, so easy to fall into the illusion spending money on dates is a good ROI. I fell into that last year and thought, wtf am I doing? Back to hanging out.
Respect
She doesn't belong to anyone. She belongs to everybody. It's only "your" turn to pass her on to the next guy once you are finished with her. =D
Men deserve variety anyhow.
So real
What’s up brotherssss
☝️
My spirit, bro
This man speaking facts
Chest is looking Buff LFA
The fatherly advise every son should have
As a traveler I enjoy meeting and hanging with women in different places around the country.
Another good video LFA. I rarely took women on dates as what most would consider a good looking guy, but i can tell ya. The ones i did, rarely ever worked out or ended with sex. However, my very best experience with a woman and GF of 3 years did start with a dinner date. I had sex with alot of women before and after her, but i have yet to find a woman with the amount of sexual chemistry we had together. The point is, if you do decide to go on a date make your intentions clear and go for a kiss at the end of the night if you're feeling her. It lets her know from the jump, what you want. You get a hug or a soft rejection, walk away and move on to the next.
Welcome to the wild Wild West baby!
I love this! True! All relationships should start out as a friendship or however the piss you'd want to call it. That's where getting to know each other starts and it evolves into something if the friendship will last. I just love the way you put it. Ask a girl if she wants to go bowling. If she says no, ask another girl. If she says no, call your brother up and say, "Hey, bro! We going bowling tonight." 🤣
I didnt want to hear this.
This doesn’t apply to all women. The problem is when you’re trying to date a girl who is obviously a sl*t.
All the really hot girls that show off their body are doing crazy things to other dudes. If you want em, treat em like a h03.
The point about pro stitution is true and scary. Once it gets legalized at this current social climate its probably going to be the end of society and relationships as we knew it.
What’s up, brothers 😂
All I have to say is if you are not chad it’s over for you 🙏💯
6:57 i instantly followed your order, Alpha
Hlo brotha!💪
I’ll still ask every now and then. Just a drink is a good place to start. Still works fine.
Inviting someone to a local pub isn't exactly a date. That's chilling.
So meeting for coffee is also not a date? It’s still a date it’s just a matter of investment.
Not if you’re just inviting her to do what you were already about to do.
Gotcha, I see the distinction you’re making there, but I’d still argue a drink or coffee or something low key is still a date. It’s just matter of execution.
there's a big difference between inviting someone into your frame and trying to impress them with a date.
You're right, there's no way to make that sound cool
LFA ft. a torch on a porch. LFG.
I’m a single woman from Africa, a citizen in USA . I watch you to understand men but also be a good partner. I enjoy your content
Bwuahahahahahaha😂 I died at 6:58 💯💯💯
Just work on yourself put yourself first and the rest will fall into place.
Woop woop
LFA I understand that men need to start taking accontabilty but we need to start having a talk about many of these young woman's diet and lifestyles. I see so many woman my age almost unable to continue a conversation with a guy. It is like they want the dude to do everything. I can't be a care taker to the point I have to teach someone how to talk. I did my part to improve my social skills and motivation.
Bro facts, happens to me too even to befriend a young modern woman and not date you have to do everything.
@@MrJames-eb6rp I have a theory about this. I think all these younger women are on the internet all day watching dating horror stories or unrealistic expectations. So now when they see a dude in person their brain freezes up. They believed all the BS they watched online and now they cannot comprehend guys are just minding their own buisness.
When it is at the point some men in their mid 20's workout, show direct communication mixed with flirting, has a stable job and the woman freezes up, I cannot take responsibility anymore beating myself up about it. You approach a women they are a nervous wreck and can't talk, you look at them from a distance they get so embarassed they are glued to an I phone.
@@BigG6179 Great theory brother! I am in my mid 30's tho but ppl think I'm 28 or something. I usually also try to approach girls that "look like good girls" if you catch my drift.
@@BigG6179 Your theory is so spot on, there's this new chick at work about 21 but looks younger. So after two months of just saying hi and that's it I manned up. I approached her and asked her for her name, even though I knew it I pretended I didn't know. I asked her what her age is where she's from etc, and then I gave her a compliment and she blushed and said thank you. She seems shy and very nice not the typical modern woman she's only been here for 8 months from Central America. When I saw her two days later she still doesn't say hi unless I say hi. I told myself I did great I cold approached and gave a compliment, I planted my seed. I don't know what else to do other than to conversate a bit more. Like you said we have to do everything nowadays as the man which is fine in the beginning to court the girl but man even to just "befriend" one not even flirt you have to do everything. I also notice older women like over 40 and up are far more friendly and strike up conversation especially the grandma figures.
My respects Brother, something I don't understand why when I ask a single lady for a date, I get rejected, on the other hand, I attract lots of married women, and that makes my frustrations grow bigger, why is that happening? Greetings from Texas!
I recall he did touch on that subject some time ago. Basically, married woman just want to get validation, want to confirm they still got it.
The reason they’re doing that is because deep down inside they’re all 304s.
I'm in the UK. Greetings to you in great TX! I'm in my early 50s, the vast majority of the attention I get is from married or taken women. The hilatious thing is that if a woman is with a guy, she'll chase me and proposition me but won't do it if she becomes single. If I had no morals and I lived in a big city, you can guess what I'd be doing. Out here in the countryside it's a different ball game. One thing you don't do is have affairs with married women who live in the same small town. These married women in my locality are VERY persistent.
Why does it happen? Boredom, basically. They want the thrill of novelty, so if they see a guy they perceive to be an improvement on what they've got at home, they'll give him signals. Whether or not they scare themselves off when they realise what an affair would entail is another matter, because wanting an affair with a confident guy who dresses well and is in shape is very much different to the practicalities of doing it without getting caught. And that bit is hard.
The sad thing is how widespread it is. I can guarantee that if I've gone out and spent some time among people, like in shops, stores a cafe, or even just walking around town, I'll get attention from at least one - typically several - much younger woman who's out with her man because when she spots me, in that instant she wants me rather than be with that guy she's with.
sang that shit bro!
Hang out, have fun, hook up
A woman is not worth my time if she does not display the same genuine interest, intelligent conversation and good personality.
Without the dating aspect you also don't get screwed over because you don't have to pay for anything.
Man, you gotta ask in order to get some of that tight cookies
But the ONLY place to meet hot girls now is as an absolute stranger in public during the DAY. So we get the number and follow up with an immediate "come over tonight"? Seems like damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Yup
Soundin pretty Red Pill 💊 now there "Brutherr"
9:22 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They’re always asking if I’m free 🤣
On god 😭😂
The man has switched roles with the woman... Wow... Just wow...
@@emmanueldavis1872 weird thing to say, but it gets old after a while. Time for monk mode 😎
@@StrongBodyandMind33 Weird thing to say, yes. But I'm telling the truth. It is indeed time for crunk mode. 😎🤜🤛