Men Need To Start Being Honest With Women
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Its beside the point, but never send nudes imo even if its the love of your life. That potential blackmail can ruin your life.
Agree.
I have 9% bodyfat, ridiculously shredded, with a huge cock, so I'm not worried about blackmail lol.
I’m close to your age (graduated 05) young guys on here need to listen to this, all of your vids are spot on. I’m a 5.5-6- I realize this, so early on I had to learn how to talk to women, and I’ve always been able to hit way out of my league because of it. Men.. say what you mean, mean what you say and don’t be afraid to “lose” a girl over it
I have come to this realization. I got so distracted with RP talks and everyone else's opinoin that I forgot my own. I simply am a dude that takes care of myself and wants to drink on the weekends. I am not into these crazy deep talks all the time.
Men are fucking things up for other Men .
It's time to ignore them.
Women dont care about money looks status. Charisma and mouthpiece is best.
@@njkel.8714Facts! Most women only care about how you make them feel. If a man is chasramtic and confident, it's not hard to attract women.
Yes! You are spot on. Just tell us what you’re looking for in a relationship. Do you just want it to be casual or serious etc. You will find a better match this way. There will be women who don’t want a serious relationship and others that do. Be upfront!!! We like that. Weed out the people that are not what you’re looking for.😊
The women have more power in this society, they no longer need a provider, and what gives them all the power is men valuing women more than themselves
You obviously don’t understand the power of masculinity .. a truly masculine man will make most women melt
the algorithm is womens best weapon in todays society
They still need a provider. The providers being either the big brother government or the typical simps.
why is it a bad thing? Women who can chose to be single like myself aren't haters of men. I Have a great father and a awesome relationship with him and other men I respect them and I don't understand why men have problems with my choices in my own life. If I want to stay single and child free then why is that a bad thing. I have always been an independant woman but not in a hateful way. I also have high funcitoning autism and Huntington's Disease, I am beyond sick day to day mentally and physically I am often exhuasted.
Some women are just better off single just like some men are. I just think men get it more ingrained that they have a right to a wife and kids when it's not hte case at all. Women risk so much during pregnancy. Men do not and that is why thy either just do not care or do not understand. If men had to carry babies instead of women do you think they would eagerly sign up?
F@t @@MSBowen-pk6ww
World is sick. Are there normal people out there with old values, healthy self-confidence and dignity?
Nope, the old world is gone, we live in the new age now.
All good things come from God. Maybe you should look there first.
Nope, now the girl next door is selling the 🐱
Old values are especially hard to find
@@paulcolin9071 Could you imagine, that the majority of kids today are normal parents one day? Will they educate them in fundamentals to earn a living, to find a "healthy" way through societys challenges and requierements. I have my problems with this. And i am no pessimist. I see what is going on in schools and so on..
You hit the Nail on the Head with this one, be good to yourself and be good to woman. Honesty is the Best policy!!! Win, lose or draw, the next day you can look into the mirror and Smile! Cheers
Apparently theres some girl on Tiktok thats pretty popular and has alot of viewers and she actually gets more views when she sets the camera down at night and records herself sleeping. Thats her money maker, when dudes and probably women too sit and watch her snore all night. Thats super bizaare. We have guys who prefer to watch a stranger drool and snore then meet actual women. It blows my mind.
That's weird
This society is doomed.
I came to acceptance that people will be people and all I got to do is stick with like minded people and block out the normies.
Pathetic
“And records herself sleeping. That’s her money maker”
Jesus that is beyond sad. It almost hurts my soul to think of the pathetic guys that pay to watch a woman sleep
Truth! Every woman and her grandmother is a "model" nowadays. The word model used to apply to only women that had something unique about them, but not anymore.
That is something I did not think about. The amount of times I hear "this woman is a baddie" and she is just an average woman with filters and makeup is everywhere.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I support and use this tactic. I don't hook up or keep them as friends, but I'm honest about long term or martial intentions. Most will say no, but I wouldn't want them to say yes if that's not what they wanted. No stress, no game required.
@@MewluMoon I do the same. I don't ask out a woman before I've had plenty of time to interact in regular settings, see how they are around me, around others, etc.
The biggest problem with many dudes now a days since 2017 is over thinking. I hear many dudes use fear as a reason to not try at all. The thing is in college I did not know this secret like I know now. Some my most easiest makeouts in college was me litteraly roaming around a backyard and some women would say they were feeling lonely. I then would say something dumb like "I can change that really fast. Let's go play pong or dance" So many women just follow your lead if you convey the right traits and take care of yourself.
i never thought much about myself when i was younger. But sometimes i would be having a few drinks and be talking to an attractive women. I didnt say anything and just started making out with them, not a single one ever pushed me away lol. I'm no chad, just an average 5 8 dude who was scrawny as fuck at the time lol
Yep so many guys in this space overthink the hell out of this stuff. They spend much more time watching content like this and hyper analyzing data than actually pursuing women. They would be so much better off just getting offline more and going out and talking to women .. I’d say half of these guys have completely psyched themselves out if even trying to date and that’s sad
If you are handsome yes
@@zedphotoediting It is very easy to get handsome. Work out, dress nice, and find a good hair style and bald dudes look good to with the right body.
@@brianmeen2158 It is seriously so easy and many men are not even trying. All dudes seriously need to do is go work out, find a group of friends to hang out with and let it happen naturally. You will eventually have a women join your friend group that likes you and her friends that are women will tease her about it. No one needs to be this mythical Chad that I have never met.
I'm so glad I'm past the dating age. It was much nicer in my time.
Mine was hell. But them days are gone thankfully
Same here, I am 59 and single. But I do not fancy women above say 45......................
I live in St. Louis, MO and its definitely a thing here as well. Partly because the obesity rate here is out of control. So the average/cute girls have their pick of anyone they want. Its dog eat dog here but nobody is winning any prizes.
You can get a passport and go to Russia the obese rate is low.
He's right. Stop beating around the bush or you'll continue beating around your own bush.
Follow the lord and treat those how you'd like to be treated!
Amen to that brother!
That’s not going to get you women in 2024 😂.
Dude honestly shut up. Lol. That's goe nothing to do with this
praying for 🐱 is a joke.. Also, christian women are no different than the average woman in 2024.
Wrong channel this is a mans channel not the lord's hour
Sad to say society has fallen😥
Nah, society is fine. Men are too desperate for a hole.
good times create weak men. Hard times creates strong men.
@@Tommy06289blaming men like a woman will get u nowhere in life
Women have been given rights and that's the biggest mistake the men did for the sack of thier daughters
You don't marry a woman, you marry the state. Unfortunately, the state sucks, and never in the good way.
I'm buying a boat to cruise up and down the coast. I'll catch fish, take passengers out for fishing trips and lay anchor in a cove and enjoy the sunrises.
"Never lose your frame" - Absolutely superb advice 👍
Due to a breakup I had gone cold on certain concepts of dating woman. When I got approached by woman I tend to be stoic but first and foremost: honest. Cut to the chase by being direct. If you just looking to have sex, then be open about it! This had led me to have a sexlife with multiple woman without the hardship that goes along with dating. And even if you are looking for a wife or true companionship, this will apply just as well. Be honest, be direct.
What you say ? That did 180 from closed off to open mature
@@AryanHomeland .~perhaps my choice of words "about being open" led you believe I can't be stoic and direct at the same time. Stoicism isn't being shy, immature or closed off. I do not see the value of sharing past hardships. And lastly; I value time, so why waste everybody's time? Be honest be direct. LFA gave good advice.
Sex & companionship.and it has to be both,
Thats about it, but the price has gotten to high imo. I'm in my 40's and I haven't dated or attempted to date at all in the past yr and half since ive been divorced.
Sex companionship and friendship.. words from the late CRP
As ive said before, society just goes deeper and deeper into the toilet. I miss the world pre-OF💔💔
The best time when everyone has a crush. Now you feel everybody is just thinking does she have nudes or selling content. It's a cluster f*ck.
(Hulk Hogan voice) "What's up brothers?" 💀💀💀
Whatcha gonna do when hoeflation runs wild on you
What's up brothers!
Yeah that intro line he does is pretty corny
@@brianmeen2158 no dude he's been doing it for years. We love it
See ya....
To be fair to the simps, the quality of American has fallen such that the supply of good women is low. So it's become in part a supply/demand issue which has created the hoeflation
Many girls giggle when you’re this direct bold. It isn’t boring
We like direct bold.
Men of culture we meet again.
He deals with thots and teach how to be wise…
The main problem with these OF women is something so simple. They have turned men's time into currency for them and now they are addicted to getting the income. They cannot un open Pandoras box and they will be very single for a long time. Granted a google search shows about only 2.1 millions women are on OF as content creators, so they are not around every corner.
@@MewluMoon It is not even that. Pornhub is free, OF you need to spend money to get woman to talk to you.
Superb . I have tried this a couple of times.
It does work.
A man who knows what he wants mostly gets what he wants.
The best thing is ..there is always the next bus.
I said I offered a place to live and financial safety ( I have a lot of money but she is pretty but broke)
I also said I don't pay for $500 designer tennis shoes (e.g she has to pay for her own things)
Of course you can provide her food, being Ronald McDonald
Don't lead with $ you'll attract wrong women types example: goldigers etc. Match values, date at least for 2 years. Ask the right questions, maintain frame.
Thank you for the video LFA❤
The Bible.. Jesus.. it’s all real. He died horrifically to give us the privilege of having a direct relationship with Him.
Ask Him yourself if He is real, I promise He will answer.
Amen! 🙌🏻🙏🏼
I have a buddie that I used to hand out all the time when he lived here but we always went out to sport bars and restaurants and randomly he see a women and be like oh she has a of or somehow sold pic and he pull them out and he got a kick of just buy pics of local girls so he could show he’s buddies if he ever ran into them haha every time man I crack me up how excited he got to show us he had the nudes and also I was surprise that at how many women did this not a lot most didn’t of course but like every night he had the leaks for at least one girl
Nice advice bro be direct with women
I have no idea how this popped into my recommended but i think we need to talk face to face more, like he said be honest, sift out whats for you and what aint, dont get butt hurt about what you havent lost and move on. Rejection is Gods protection.
Cant say this advice is all the way left because being straight up honest is 100% what i prefer even if its hurts my feelings but I am not EVERY woman.
I know we have some sassy queens out here, you may not be her king but you're sure someone elses.
There a many levels to this and i do think alot men get toooo hung up on the obscene evolution of the upcoming generation. Instead of focusing on their own realities, discernment is super important when youre listenting to others also.
Pick sense out of nonsense and all that.
Women appreciate honesty even if it’s a ‘No’.
We don’t mind read and struggle to understand the intention of men
To the point we come to now, pay a woman to look at my pictures and tell me if she even likes me? That is dumber than a rock.
Had Vanna Whites centerfold hidden in the middle of a "Boys Life" magazine when I was like 10 in my nightstand
What he said about 6's is so right on; they think their 12's mixed w/marylyn monroe and "christian" women are the same. Its mainly social media. I should picked up a an actual 8, 10yrs ago who didnt have the ego bc shes priceless now. Hard to find them. But this is excellent advice i believe as well
Yeah its cause they’re apart of chads roster. they would rather be a single mother from chad than to settle with an average man. Then they blame all men for chad pumping and dumping them. When there’s probably 100 average dudes waiting for a chance with her, like a bunch of idiots. Not wanting to accept the reality.
When are you going to do a review of the 'manosphere' and shills like RC that keep repeating the same old trite bs? I'll back you up. P.S. Sigmas do exist.
Keep up the great videos
Guys who blame women should really be blaming simps.
We should have Game of Thrones styled SIMP Shame Walks
It's impacting men in London UK
People keep sleeping on the UK. Were right behind the US in terms of degenerative behaviours. Were in the endgame now this crap cant be reversed 😅
That’s so funny. You know when the guys send her their pics, she’s probably laughing her ass off on top of it! I’m sure they are getting made fun of.
Brutal honesty is what people should receive more
Yes I agree you can move in this manner and have success...but for better odds make sure to get your body right and your paper ☝ then you will magically have a better batting average.
Very sad to hear how young people are interacting with each other. But long term relationships, that last are very rare, life happens and people change if you get involved with anyone know that anything can happen. Watch out for the red flags. My generation were clueless. Your life becomes your choices. I regret my choice. But he did show his true colours early, I just forgave him. Long story short be very wary of who you get involved with any doubts it's over.
Great work!!!
It's insane to send pictures...never a good idea.
Why?
I am honest with women, I let them know how I feel about them & they walk away?
SMV issue
Cant win em all. In fact, most of the time you will probably lose but its better to get at least one win rather than no wins for not trying.
Dont show them your feelings, just let them know what you want from them without feelings implied. I have learned the hard way.
Yeah they love the games, not when you’re real with them. You gotta play the game. Or don’t play at all
Cant live with them can't do most position s without them
Mostly true about women letting men down easy. If they don't like you or you aren't their type they'll just ghost you or not call you back or find excuses not to go on dates. That's how they say no without actually saying it to your face.
PSA
Celebrities, actresses, singers, etc... are regular women too. They're jus known in the media 😂
Don’t tolerate her bs be direct
Hoeflation….im dead
I was direct in my 20-28’s but took some tremendous rejections.. some insane success too though. It took a toll on me though. I never put the bait on the hook to seriously offer commitment and intimacy long term. Ready to try again being super direct and be ok with any possible outcome take it or leave it. “If she wolnt… somebody else will”
Great video be honest and direct and keep your posture
Honest men are very lonely.
Dating truly sucks now as a woman trying to find a life partner I get a lot of men lying in everything not being honest inventing all kinds of stories to get and pretending someone he’s not and promising a relationship it’s not honest
You think you got it hard
That sucks hope ya find the right person
That sucks I cannot believe it is that the average dudes are making up accomplishments. I keep it real with people. I am direct from the start that I want to hang out with them to find out more about them and then we will go from there. I also have a healthy balance of flirting and trying to get to know them.
@@BigG6179 guys will always lie to get laid - it’s in their nature
Yep because we just want to fk thats why. Men selling dreams of relationships but then 80% of men arent getting sex what do you expect. Women be bargaining sex with relationships aswell i.e take me out and dates and you might get it. Then the other side of the parcel is sexless men in marriages and relationships 😅 its brutal out here but were in the endgame
Men have allowed themselves to become devalued by women and it is a race to the bottom.
Business 101, position yourself as a high value high end professional and luxury brand and you will attract fewer customers of high value to have a higher valuation as opposed to going for the low hanging fruit which will but you in a red ocean fighting against all the other sharks.
You want to not only be a shark that’s able to be at the top of the red ocean you want to position yourself in a blue ocean that only you own and dominate (your own energy, passion, value, standards and skills.)
You need to lie to get them. No women will be with you if you tell her you just want sex. They would lie to us all the time if it was reversed
I don’t have to lie and I get what I want.
The lying is the fun part
That’s dumb. All you have to say is you just want to date casually and you’re not interested in anything serious right now. If she’s good with that great and if not then move on to someone who’s on the same page as you.
It is friggin ridiculous out there. !!
Superb . I have tried this a couple of times.
It does work.
A man who knows what he wants mostly gets what he wants.
The best thing is ..there is always the next bus.
I only have oneitis for my stock portfolio 😅😂
I felt the "In What World Does That Make Any Fucking Sense" 😎
Ya’ll can chase these women. I’m staying single
Makes sense in simp world. Lol
no more morals today or true goodness or love
In this day and time . What's normal!?
They’ll be sendin terminators to kill the last of us off soon see G@z@
15:30 Bourbon? If so, what kind? Good vid!
I still say it's far better to live alone and your own thing than to have to compromise with a girlfriend and risking not doing your thing as best you can or not at all.
Please be honest. Not all women are as ruthless and entitled as you think!
Noooo, they never want you to be that direct! Not verbally!
5:15 totally agree that’s the way it works ….
I seriously cannot fathom the whole onlyfans thing, i get the concept but I'm shocked that it works, especially since porn is free these days, I wouldn't give any girl money for pictures or for any kind of Online relationship.
Lonely men are looking for connection, interaction, girlfriend experience.
@birdie.21. and they are gonna get that from a virtual relationship??
I need physical touch. And I wouldn't give an onlyfans girl a penny.
@@birdie.21.
Yup. This is similar to men going to bars and buying women drinks just to sit and talk with them.
Someone to look forward to seeing/talk to.
@@geekiepooh Not exactly. If you buy a woman a drink in person you are probably hanging out with other guys and women. You also get a very good representation of what she looks like, sounds, smells like. On OF like services you get very emotionless texts or pictures. If I gave a women 15$ online to talk to me I am getting bored, but if I buy myself and a woman a drink I feel like I am having fun. They are not the same. One feel rewarding and natural.
The guys aren’t paying just for nudes pictures - they are paying for the attention from women! They are literally paying money so a woman they don’t know nor will ever meet will say hi to them every day. It is beyond sad
Evil time we living now. . COVID screw this up . Can you cook more and tell this simps to stop
The liberal elite who orchestrated the entire Covidian nightmare were behind this crap. There idea of a new world in which women rule, traditional families are no longer respected and anything a man does is looked at as creepy. Good work ladies. Mother nature and time will have the last say in due time. It always does.
Covid didnt screw anything up , peoples reactions to it and their ability to be easily manipulated did
Absolutely. @@JL03241
Trouble was already brewing long before.. that whole charade was just a major breaking point.@@alanm6o9
"What's up brothers?" you should do voice over for WWF
I'll give it a try!
If she can't look at me in person she's not getting no pics
Thank you LFA
Awesome conversation. Thanks big bro
Best channel for men on youtube, bar none!
Clown World!!!
Thank you truly
Mode one? 😂 👮♀️
I was honest with a woman and she blocked me lmao. Women hate being told the truth.
That’s ok though. She was honest with you and obviously not a good match. Now you can look for someone else that may be a match. As they say for women you have to kiss many frogs before you find your prince. The same would apply for men. You have to meet many women before you find the right one. Never stop being honest with them. Helps to weed out the ones that are not a good fit for you.
wow just recently came across this pod cast. well done brother. there are a few others I like but they tend to be over-red pill and sometimes too gamey. This guy just has some balance to his mindset and tells it like it is. I am about to turn 50 and my perspective on hearing the podcasters is they are usually coming from the perspective of being in their 30s. All I have to say for any of you trying to Date in your 20s and 30s is - man I am sorry.
it aint easy in our 40s either but at least a LITTLE less of this seems to apply but still does.
I never knew you are 38. I thought you are 31 or 32 years old. You look very healthy, very young. Good job and keep up the good work.
Also, thank you for the simple and clear message. We need to be honest and direct. We are men, not little boys.
Thanks for all the content man, it has been really helpful throughout some of my struggles with relationships. There is one thing i wish to add, its off-topic but its always on my mind when i listen to some of your videos. Your content is focused on the USA dating scene, i know the ‘dating field’ there as i used to live there during college. However, i come from ukraine, and frankly girls are a lot hotter here, and there are more of them, its easier here to get with 10s, literally supermodel types, and they don’t have an inflated ego as an average fattie from new york would have, and the hoe/feminism culture is not as prevalent here. This has many applications but it’s for a long conversation. Just my 5 cents.
Lol, You can't make a living working at Ross or Target unless you're an upper manager. No wonder they sell pics. Lol
I'm never dishonest, as in I do not lie, and I try to set the tone of respect in the relationship towards her as I expect it back from her as well. But i never just spill the beans about everything I'm looking for in a woman. You are just giving her all the information she needs to put on an act and fool you into believing she is everything you want just to lock you down, then watch her change on you suddenly later. Not a wise way to go about vetting a good woman. Keep her guessing a little while also watching and listening.
3 options to OFFER her and be honest about it... A very good recepy ❤
I am 71 married one tome she passed away loved her with al m my heart I have never paid a woman for anything, I am a sigma male, I am masculine, stay in my frame, I stay cool not thirsty, the womnen come to me if I want them ok if not ok I get free shots even at church hahahaha
Dang brother I didn't know you was a Okie howdy from Wayne okay
If you honest doesn’t mean it always turn out good in my experience. I will never send a picture to a women because privacy and the stupidity.
Onlyfools
I'm single and mid 40s and genX to the core but your talking points are very encouraging and motivational.
I prefer a slightly more romantic experience LFA 😅😂
I feel sorry for those engaging in that. Mutual Interest between a a Man and a Woman is whats its all about. We sure are living in a different time.
Its the perfect video to come into my life.
Be honest with yourself
Be honest with women
Be direct about it ( I wanna hook up with you)
Maintain polite and strong masculine ( I'm standing on what I want and what I said) frame
Makes perfect sense in simp world. A world in which I will never be be a part of.
I was laughing my ass off at the thought of all this going on. I’m thinking the men sending the photos have a very low self worth. The Ho flation term is funny as hell.
This might be the most important and generational video LFA has ever made. Will come back to this gem.
Being direct is a sign of respect 🎉 W Content Big Bro 👍