Whoever is reading this i pray for restoration in whatever you had lost whether it's relationships, health, marriage, finances or business. May the lord bless you to be a blessing to those around you.
Deal breakers same religion I am Christian we need to have the same Belief and values we both need to believe in Jesus Christ , we both have to save ourselves for marriage due to respect for God and ourselves , to protect our marriage from any demonic spirits entering in due to lust and fornication, as well as diseases. Encouragement is a must and patient. There has to be forgiveness in the relationship as well to give room to grow our home should be a place of safety and healing I don't play that oh I can go on and on but these are important issues.
Love this! Deal breaker: 1. Not accepting of my children or doesn’t want a relationship with my family 2. Doesn’t recognize my faith as my strength but maybe just a hobby 3. Is not attune you my needs nor providing for them 4. Is not consistent or clear is communication of relationships goals
Deal Breakers 1. If he has cheated in a past relationship 2. If he has ever laid hands on a woman 3. If he has a temper/anger issues 4. If he has a criminal record that would make getting a job hard 5. If he has too much pride to see a therapist if he has issues 6. If he has too much pride to work any job in the event he had been laid off of work 7. If he is emotionally at a younger age 8. If he has ever KNOWINGLY been in an in appropriate relationship with someone who was underage 9. If he gives Junior High responses such as texting "WYD" at 11 pm when he should be in bed for work the next morning
Also let's not forget that being Christian is not everything , sometimes we make a mistake of thinking that just bcos a guy goes to Church and doesn't party or drink you won't experience any challenges. I've seen the worst cheaters or abusers from Church, we should pray that the person is a real Christian and not a fake Christian
i believe pre martial counseling is a must & a blood test taken before marriage, these are things that i will be requiring also, when God blesses me with my husband
You are so spot on. Currently I am in the divorce process because of secrecy , financial secrecy and immaturity. So I do agree it is very important to talk about these things before you get married.
I was engaged to a man for a few months and I recently broke it off because he had no self control. He claims that its not wrong to fornicate if ur engaged even though I showed him several scriptures about it. It got to the point where we fought over us not having sex...I must admit that we did it once and I felt so horrible afterwards, I cried and repented while he just rolled over and went to sleep. When I asked him if he didn't feel convicted in his spirit, he said "for what?" Ur my wife to be. We got along in every other area but that one. I eventually got tired of him pressuring me to sleep with him, so I broke it off. He is supposed to be a Christian by the way. I wish I left right away rather than wait for months. I stuck it out for a few months thinking that he would be able to work on self control but instead of him working on it, it got worse! When I threatened to leave a few times, he said that I give up too easily. We decided to seek premarital counselling and the pastor told him fornication was wrong. Can u believe that he told the pastor that I should be able to give it to him once in a while before marriage? I thank God that I left!
Where have you been all my life😭😭? Thank you so much for what you are doing and may God continue blessing you and your household for you are doing a great thing🤗🤗
I believe BEFORE entering into any type of committed relationship, homeownership, business venture/partnership, etc. we should be praying and fasting for guidance and revelation of unknown/hidden things. Almighty God's Holy Spirit is our BEST advisor in ALL things. Matthew 6:33 (NLT): Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need.
I will add not tithing because money is the only thing that competes with God in our hearts. Don't marry someone consumed with greed. It's just a bad foundation. If s/he doesn't put God first esp in their fiances then you are idolizing marriage by saying yes.
My deal breakers that I wish I knew should be deal breakers is: 1) Pride and how that spirit manifest itself in a person’s character and in how they treat people. Its so subtle but I really wreaks havoc on a lot of different areas in the marriage.
Yes. I agree. It's not worth being in a verbally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically relationship. That's why I have disconnected from relationships. When you choose a healthy relationship with Christ and self first. And you learn to value yourself, seek help and deliverance, and seek counseling prior to marriage. Each individual need to have a healthy relationship with Christ and self prior to marriage.
I know the debt thing can be an issue when it come to completing your taxes. But even with that you can file married, but filing separately. So, I don't think I would really worry about that person's debt in that manner. Also some people end up in debt for various reasons. It don't necessarily mean they are irresponsible, or it will be an issue. The good father/mother is good advice for those that are looking to have kids. And bringing up abuse was good advice as well. Thanks for sharing. Having a blessed and productive day in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
i was dating a lady who literally live on other people's opinion.. for instance, she ll tell me my company driver likes u, my friend said she likes u up until on day i met her friend for the first time and she asked her friend in front of me if she likes me... boom, deal got broken.
May Almighty Most Beautiful, Loving, Sovereign Most Excellent and Praiseworthy Lord Father God continue to Bless you with wisdom and understanding to continue to help His children, in His Most Beautiful, Loving, Powerful, Excellent and Only Saving Son, King Jesus Christ Praiseworthy Name! Amen
Hello I have been really enjoying your channel and video's. You have helped me so much. I do have a question. would this be a deal breaker. If someone you are dating in a long distance relationship, if the person asked to borrow money or needed help with money because he lost his bank cards and he is not in the united states because he is in another country. I know, what I know but even having proof that this person is in the military I still have questions. I have said no and keep saying no, so I just wanted another persons input. Thank you, God bless stay safe and have a wonderful day
Ajamah Amili Yes! Is see masturbation as a lack of self control outside of marriage and stirring up lustful thoughts that will be carried into marriage. Not good.
@@annewamuti3952 You could pray for him that God will convict him, and change his behaviors. Pray that lustful spirits be removed from your husband and home. Sometimes fasting is needed to get breakthroughs. I hope this helps you ❤.
There are marriages between people of different faiths and religious beliefs that last and are healthy. So for number two, instead of religious faith, I'd say values and principles
Thank you so much, iam in love with a guy and his conversations always show he wants me to be his wife, he believes in Christ but we're not of the same religion is does it mean we're not equally yoked??
nakidde allen I noticed that your question hasn't been answered. I'm afraid to tell you, it does mean that you are not equally yoked. In a way, I'm not clear on what you mean by religion. Are you speaking of a sect/domination? If he is saved and has accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior and does not serve any other god, than you are equally yoked. Does he serve Christ and Christ only?
Being Anglican and u a Pentecostal means there are somethings that u will not have fellowship with him. There's a point where both of u will disagree regarding your faith
Pushing someone to do evil.... or having the Spirit that encourages someone to do evil deeds, even as they themselves presents their deeds as an obvious example.
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Whoever is reading this i pray for restoration in whatever you had lost whether it's relationships, health, marriage, finances or business. May the lord bless you to be a blessing to those around you.
Amen and Amen
i received it in Jesus name
Amen.
Amen in Jesus name.Amen
All Glory To God Almighty
Amen
I know 40 and 50 year olds who behave incredibly immature. Age has nothing to do with it.
Deal breakers same religion I am Christian we need to have the same Belief and values we both need to believe in Jesus Christ , we both have to save ourselves for marriage due to respect for God and ourselves , to protect our marriage from any demonic spirits entering in due to lust and fornication, as well as diseases. Encouragement is a must and patient. There has to be forgiveness in the relationship as well to give room to grow our home should be a place of safety and healing I don't play that oh I can go on and on but these are important issues.
Andria Bradford I agree my sister
Exactly
My other deal breaker a man who only listens to his friends or Mama.
That can definitely end up being a problem. This is a good one.
Thank God for saving you from the abusive relationship!
Love this! Deal breaker: 1. Not accepting of my children or doesn’t want a relationship with my family 2. Doesn’t recognize my faith as my strength but maybe just a hobby 3. Is not attune you my needs nor providing for them 4. Is not consistent or clear is communication of relationships goals
Other deal breakers for marriage are when a person hides their health challenges and and addictions that have them bound.
Deal Breakers
1. If he has cheated in a past relationship
2. If he has ever laid hands on a woman
3. If he has a temper/anger issues
4. If he has a criminal record that would make getting a job hard
5. If he has too much pride to see a therapist if he has issues
6. If he has too much pride to work any job in the event he had been laid off of work
7. If he is emotionally at a younger age
8. If he has ever KNOWINGLY been in an in appropriate relationship with someone who was underage
9. If he gives Junior High responses such as texting "WYD" at 11 pm when he should be in bed for work the next morning
Also let's not forget that being Christian is not everything , sometimes we make a mistake of thinking that just bcos a guy goes to Church and doesn't party or drink you won't experience any challenges. I've seen the worst cheaters or abusers from Church, we should pray that the person is a real Christian and not a fake Christian
Very true..we have so many unbelievers in church n we think everyone is a believer
100% agree.
i believe pre martial counseling is a must & a blood test taken before marriage, these are things that i will be requiring also, when God blesses me with my husband
You are so spot on. Currently I am in the divorce process because of secrecy , financial secrecy and immaturity. So I do agree it is very important to talk about these things before you get married.
I was engaged to a man for a few months and I recently broke it off because he had no self control. He claims that its not wrong to fornicate if ur engaged even though I showed him several scriptures about it. It got to the point where we fought over us not having sex...I must admit that we did it once and I felt so horrible afterwards, I cried and repented while he just rolled over and went to sleep. When I asked him if he didn't feel convicted in his spirit, he said "for what?" Ur my wife to be. We got along in every other area but that one. I eventually got tired of him pressuring me to sleep with him, so I broke it off. He is supposed to be a Christian by the way.
I wish I left right away rather than wait for months. I stuck it out for a few months thinking that he would be able to work on self control but instead of him working on it, it got worse! When I threatened to leave a few times, he said that I give up too easily.
We decided to seek premarital counselling and the pastor told him fornication was wrong. Can u believe that he told the pastor that I should be able to give it to him once in a while before marriage? I thank God that I left!
Where have you been all my life😭😭? Thank you so much for what you are doing and may God continue blessing you and your household for you are doing a great thing🤗🤗
Amen
So agree with you Karolyn.....Especially that homosexual lie . Itz a deal breaker.
I also agree maturity is a mentality
I believe BEFORE entering into any type of committed relationship, homeownership, business venture/partnership, etc. we should be praying and fasting for guidance and revelation of unknown/hidden things.
Almighty God's Holy Spirit is our BEST advisor in ALL things.
Matthew 6:33 (NLT): Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need.
I will add not tithing because money is the only thing that competes with God in our hearts. Don't marry someone consumed with greed. It's just a bad foundation. If s/he doesn't put God first esp in their fiances then you are idolizing marriage by saying yes.
You can idolize marriage or that relationship even if each person is paying their tithes.
My deal breakers that I wish I knew should be deal breakers is: 1) Pride and how that spirit manifest itself in a person’s character and in how they treat people. Its so subtle but I really wreaks havoc on a lot of different areas in the marriage.
Karolyne you are an absolute joy! Thank you so much for this video 😭🙏🏻
Amen sis God bless you all the way from Sweden 🙏🏾
Why did I find this page???? 😱 I feel like this was God calling me! Calling me!!!
here from your latest video on signs God is stopping a relationship from progressing further
Great Knowledge! I need to get that book.
Yes. I agree. It's not worth being in a verbally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically relationship. That's why I have disconnected from relationships. When you choose a healthy relationship with Christ and self first. And you learn to value yourself, seek help and deliverance, and seek counseling prior to marriage. Each individual need to have a healthy relationship with Christ and self prior to marriage.
I wish i had this book before i actually said yes i just ended my proposal
I am in your shoes as well....
Left an abusive relationship a few months ago
4 out of 5. is this the sign that I been waiting Lord? 😭
Chelsea Sejane praise him for it! He loves you so much he answered your hearts prayer. ♥️
additional deal breakers: emotionally unstable, not ambitious, not saved or having a growing relationship with Christ, super traditional....
She mentioned the not save basically. When she said if someone don't believe in Jesus. When she talked about unequally yoked.
Very informative information Mrs. Roberts
This young women is very wise for her age.
I know the debt thing can be an issue when it come to completing your taxes. But even with that you can file married, but filing separately. So, I don't think I would really worry about that person's debt in that manner. Also some people end up in debt for various reasons. It don't necessarily mean they are irresponsible, or it will be an issue. The good father/mother is good advice for those that are looking to have kids. And bringing up abuse was good advice as well. Thanks for sharing. Having a blessed and productive day in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
Your videos have been helpful big time. Blessings!!
New subby i love you channel sister i need this im going through alot❤🙏
Whew sis!! THIS was sooo good!
God Bless You...nice content
Thanks for these inspirational messages.
i was dating a lady who literally live on other people's opinion.. for instance, she ll tell me my company driver likes u, my friend said she likes u up until on day i met her friend for the first time and she asked her friend in front of me if she likes me... boom, deal got broken.
Pray for me to get a true love
True love comes within and through Christ. Be so busy in Christ that it comes to you my dear. Like Ruth did with Boaz.
May Almighty Most Beautiful, Loving, Sovereign Most Excellent and Praiseworthy Lord Father God continue to Bless you with wisdom and understanding to continue to help His children, in His Most Beautiful, Loving, Powerful, Excellent and Only Saving Son, King Jesus Christ Praiseworthy Name! Amen
Thanks these points are a blessing.
Your awesome thank you!
Auntie please do a video to ensure us of the protection of Lord from the Coronavirus. Thank You❤
Great video
Wow, God is amazing...he sent that boy a dream? Wow, philippians 4:6!!! We can turn to Him with any problem.
Thank you...it was an amazing lesson
Hello I have been really enjoying your channel and video's. You have helped me so much. I do have a question. would this be a deal breaker. If someone you are dating in a long distance relationship, if the person asked to borrow money or needed help with money because he lost his bank cards and he is not in the united states because he is in another country. I know, what I know but even having proof that this person is in the military I still have questions. I have said no and keep saying no, so I just wanted another persons input. Thank you, God bless stay safe and have a wonderful day
Trust your intuition. Its the holy spirit talking to you. I hope things got better on your side.
@@misssunshine6885 Thank you so much. Things are working out more and more. 😁😁🥰
I wish I took the cues...my husband is a no no
Yeeey definitely 1st
Wonderful message sister🤗
Can bad habits and character like masturbation, anger, pride be deal breakers too?
Ajamah Amili Yes! Is see masturbation as a lack of self control outside of marriage and stirring up lustful thoughts that will be carried into marriage. Not good.
@@janelletaveras Thank you very much for your reply, I really appreciate it. How about pride and anger?
I would not be attracted to a prideful or angry man
How do I deal with a masturbating husband...its killing me
@@annewamuti3952 You could pray for him that God will convict him, and change his behaviors. Pray that lustful spirits be removed from your husband and home. Sometimes fasting is needed to get breakthroughs. I hope this helps you ❤.
Love you video💕💕...pls should porn addiction be a deal breaker?
Hidden secrets..
There are marriages between people of different faiths and religious beliefs that last and are healthy. So for number two, instead of religious faith, I'd say values and principles
this was for me.
Amen!
Amen.
Amen
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Thank you so much, iam in love with a guy and his conversations always show he wants me to be his wife, he believes in Christ but we're not of the same religion is does it mean we're not equally yoked??
nakidde allen I noticed that your question hasn't been answered. I'm afraid to tell you, it does mean that you are not equally yoked. In a way, I'm not clear on what you mean by religion. Are you speaking of a sect/domination? If he is saved and has accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior and does not serve any other god, than you are equally yoked. Does he serve Christ and Christ only?
@@Leonora485 Yes he serves Christ but in this I mean Iam a born again and he's a protestant (Anglican). Does it mean we're not equally yoked??
Being Anglican and u a Pentecostal means there are somethings that u will not have fellowship with him. There's a point where both of u will disagree regarding your faith
Glory b 2 God & thkx & God bless us more Amen
I love you Karo
What is a jezebel spirit??
Pushing someone to do evil.... or having the Spirit that encourages someone to do evil deeds, even as they themselves presents their deeds as an obvious example.
Awesome video
Hidden secrets..