5 Signs He Loves You in a Long Distance Relationship | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • @matboggs
    @matboggs  Рік тому +9

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  • @annaconcepcion1249
    @annaconcepcion1249 4 роки тому +3352

    Praying for everyone who's in a long distance relationship including me!

  • @BB-fc5ze
    @BB-fc5ze 3 роки тому +1639

    1•He has a plan for the two of you to be together.
    2•He takes you to his fun childhood memories.
    3•He is apart of your daily life
    4•He includes you in his fun life moments.
    5•Consistent form of communication.

  • @marykharkongor6586
    @marykharkongor6586 4 роки тому +2819

    When will this Corona end??? I am sure many who are in a LDR want this to end. Who wouldn't want to meet the love of their life? I do❣❤❤❤

    • @anapaulacuellarcovarrubias6268
      @anapaulacuellarcovarrubias6268 4 роки тому +78

      Mary I know the feeling I haven’t been able to se my partner do to this COVID thing we try to stay positive but there are days when I feel totally crush and just wish to see him again.... But the saddest part of all is the other people who don’t believe in LDR and just say shit at you instead of being supported. I don’t know if this is just my case but I decided not to tell anyone this because I don’t need more bs so This shall pass Mary you’ll see and you two be together finally🙏🙏🙏

    • @Life_with_Tomike
      @Life_with_Tomike 4 роки тому +10

      Like seriously

    • @marykharkongor6586
      @marykharkongor6586 4 роки тому +17

      @@anapaulacuellarcovarrubias6268 Believe, Hope, Trust❣❤💙

    • @anapaulacuellarcovarrubias6268
      @anapaulacuellarcovarrubias6268 4 роки тому +12

      Mary Kharkongor
      And when ever you want to talk or what ever I’m here Mary
      anapaulacuellarcovarrubias@gmail.com
      Sincerely sometimes we need to click with people who is going through the same situation or that believes in the same things. X.O.X.O 😘

    • @marykharkongor6586
      @marykharkongor6586 4 роки тому +3

      @@anapaulacuellarcovarrubias6268 sure I will. Tc.

  • @cheryljamison629
    @cheryljamison629 3 роки тому +999

    My long distance boyfriend texts me EVERY morning to greet me asks did I have a good night, asks me about my day's activities and shares his plans. He will face chat or call me during the day. He's very considerate of my feelings and doesn't like me to cry if I'm sad - he's actually cried when I cried at one time.
    We're making plans to meet and eventually get married... I'm soooo excited!!

    • @nima3696
      @nima3696 3 роки тому +12

      I m your opposite for now ..

    • @neima8202
      @neima8202 3 роки тому +3

      ❤💫

    • @aparnayum8431
      @aparnayum8431 3 роки тому +9

      Omg me too!! So excited for you two🙏

    • @aparnayum8431
      @aparnayum8431 3 роки тому +28

      But lately i have been having trust issues😭 its so hard to deal with, when the doubt comes up.

    • @keikae6818
      @keikae6818 3 роки тому +1

      Shene ol po

  • @TheTrioGCN
    @TheTrioGCN 5 років тому +1711

    5. Consistent forms of communication.
    4. He includes you in his fun moments
    3. He's a part of your daily life, though you are apart
    2. He takes you to his fun childhood memories
    1. He has a plan for you to be together!

    • @1kmilez
      @1kmilez 5 років тому +8

      SJoseph doesnt love me

    • @TheTrioGCN
      @TheTrioGCN 5 років тому +2

      @@1kmilez Huh? What's that about?

    • @1kmilez
      @1kmilez 5 років тому +1

      SJoseph my boyfriend

    • @TheTrioGCN
      @TheTrioGCN 5 років тому +18

      @@1kmilez I'm sorry to hear that. Stay positive. The best is yet to come. Have faith in the universe to bring you everything that you dream of.

    • @1kmilez
      @1kmilez 5 років тому +3

      SJoseph thanks for the positive advice

  • @olivehiggo
    @olivehiggo 4 роки тому +813

    Those in LDR too, we will get through this - and when we reunite with our partners... it will be absolute BLISS...

    • @layeokoh1630
      @layeokoh1630 3 роки тому +6

      I do hope we will be compatible when we meet

    • @meglucino
      @meglucino 3 роки тому +2

      Relate much. Keep the faith !

    • @beneath7166
      @beneath7166 3 роки тому +6

      So challenging but God's grace in it is enough! All shall be well with us

    • @meglucino
      @meglucino 3 роки тому +7

      I can relate to you girl ..I know it'll be worth the wait . Some days are challenging but I know as I wait God is doing something for us

    • @teresawilson2667
      @teresawilson2667 3 роки тому

      Yes we will

  • @GaelRice
    @GaelRice 4 роки тому +1067

    everything was on point! another one that wasn't mentioned and is also important: he lets you be! he encourages you to have a life, to hang out with friends, family, coworkers, and doesn't demand you to tell him where you are 24/7. he wants you to have an independent life of your own, and trusts you 100%.

    • @timwynn6079
      @timwynn6079 4 роки тому +6

      ok but ,one day one of your friends told you he found your gf on Tinder, that's devastating.

    • @hanniacorena7657
      @hanniacorena7657 3 роки тому +1

      AMÉN!

    • @Lena-wx7hs
      @Lena-wx7hs 3 роки тому

      100% agree on that one! 👍

    • @VickyDong2359697
      @VickyDong2359697 3 роки тому +13

      Sounds like he doesn’t give a f*** 🤣

    • @Abigail-ld5bl
      @Abigail-ld5bl 3 роки тому +13

      damn, this is something he's been doing but i keep taking it the wrong way and thinking that he doesnt care about me or love me just because he isnt always texting about his day regularly (which my friends deem as a "red flag"). we do chat like here and there throughout the day but sometimes it can go up to about 3 hours and ill feel anxious not being able to talk to him which causes all the overthinking...

  • @elinorsantos6621
    @elinorsantos6621 3 роки тому +400

    We should pray harder that this pandemic will end so that we can meet our LDR partners. God bless us all

    • @dexmarcoguibelondo8443
      @dexmarcoguibelondo8443 3 роки тому +3

      Yes, please!!!

    • @kayla20vezeau
      @kayla20vezeau 3 роки тому +4

      I just met mine after 1 year and 4 months of dating long distance. We met online just at the start of the pandemic.

    • @silver853
      @silver853 3 роки тому +1

      l got my help from a powerful relationship restorer he help me to restore my 6 months broken relationship, my ex is back to me and now we are living happily like never before all thanks to Dr. Gabriel 🙏 for helping me fix back my broken relationship

    • @silver853
      @silver853 3 роки тому +1

      Message him on Wasap

    • @silver853
      @silver853 3 роки тому

      ✝2347033962602⏭⏭⏭⏭

  • @maxinegrace
    @maxinegrace 5 років тому +367

    Super love this line:
    "Whatever you love, you prioritize."

  • @xyhanx
    @xyhanx 3 роки тому +172

    No matter what, we make sure to pray together. It may be in the morning or evening. It gives us peace and assurance.

  • @hembadoonalexander6497
    @hembadoonalexander6497 3 роки тому +35

    The passionate thing about him is, he asks everyday what my plans for the day are.
    He doesn't forget to say, take care babe I love u.....

  • @anon_ya
    @anon_ya 2 роки тому +98

    Gotta throw this out there, I’ve also been in a couple of LDRs where my partner checked all of these boxes over a year + long distance, and guess what? He was seeing other women and not being honest with me. This happened in 2 different LDRs, one being very serious (discussing marriage and future plans, traveled to see each other regularly). Always pay attention. 👀
    Sometimes these same men who are perpetually drawn to LDRs are living a double lives, and perhaps you are drawn to LDRs because you are drawn to unavailability in men or this fantasy life you’ve created through virtual experiences (our brains like to fill in the “gaps” about people we don’t know in person).
    The success rate for LDRs is not great (check the data), however, the best point in this video is to look for your partner making plans to end the long distance status. Meaning, LDRs should be temporary and dating should be intentional, for the purpose of determining you want to be together in person. Look for planning, clear & consistent communication, does he include you on social media, does he introduce you to his social circles and family?If you determine you want to be together, are you both moving towards making that a reality (in a reasonable amount of time, not overnight obviously).
    Ladies, please be careful out there. There are a lot of lovebombers and scammers who leverage long distance and our sad online dating culture as a way to lure in lonely women.
    May good fortune & blessings be with you all. ❤️🙏🏽

    • @annefernandez9417
      @annefernandez9417 Рік тому +6

      I’m glad you mentioned the possibility of scammers. I was thinking the same thing

    • @user-wr9lh4ly1n
      @user-wr9lh4ly1n Рік тому +7

      I met a very decent and honest looking man on dating app.. I talked how I don't want a married man or someone hiding a woman in his life as my last 2 exes were hiding their long distance wives and I lost tremendous amount of time in my 30's. Now this guy says his last gf said she's going somewhere and she dumped him. However, by the 3rd date, I felt odd he may have a woman.. but I kept seeing him and now I'm seeing him about 20 times in 5 months, he cooks for me, he's very very affectionate, we have sex, stay over every weekend, but he never asks me to travel with him (found out he was traveling with someone else 2 months ago.. I won't say how I found out here, no, I didn't see his phone), never talks about a future plan with me though I know it's been only 5 months since we met. Most guys I meet, they ask me on the 1st or even by the 2nd date if I wanna travel with them soon, this guy I'm seeing now never asks after 5 months. I know for sure he's traveling with a long distance gf (potentially the woman who dumped him is back with him) or fiance, who knows... He says he likes Arizona and says "oh I need to go to (LA, Vegas) soon, I wanna spend more time there," but he never asks me to go with him.. when he was traveling with the woman he constantly texted me every single day, sending pics, how he misses me, how he has no interest in other woman... It's terrible.. now I like him so much and find out clearly that he has someone else.. I'm scared to further waste my time, but I have no courage to say bye to him..

    • @lovelock1994
      @lovelock1994 Рік тому

      ​@@user-wr9lh4ly1n😮 sorry that happened to you. What's the status now of the situation

    • @watamatafoyu
      @watamatafoyu 6 місяців тому +1

      LDRs don't actually make sense and are simply relationships of convenience. Everyone eventually wants someone local, and if that isn't convenient with the LDR then eventually they're going to go for the local person. Expecting anything less is naive. They stick with the LDR because it's somebody to go to and it's working when the local things aren't. For whatever reason, it's far more difficult trying to make things work locally than with an LDR. There's just more space and flexibility and tolerance with an LDR. Locally people are more afraid of drama being tied to friends and family or their home, so they reject more often. It's tragic that we're in that reality now, but it's not like it used to be. People are far more afraid to take a risk or deal with the consequences when the reward doesn't happen as expected or if there's contention. We've just become weak as a culture.

    • @anon_ya
      @anon_ya 6 місяців тому

      @@watamatafoyu I couldn’t agree with you more!

  • @Black_Goddess91
    @Black_Goddess91 3 роки тому +73

    Reading through the comments and omg we totally need a LDR support group !!

  • @myaugustrush01
    @myaugustrush01 5 років тому +111

    Me and my fiance is in LDR. We communicate every single moment of the day. We leave voice messages when one of us is at work or asleep. We are each other's personal alarm clock 🤗🤗🤗

    • @Changebeginsinnotime
      @Changebeginsinnotime 4 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing this valuable information to everyone. This is exactly what happens in real-life settings. Hopefully, this time you'll find your match!

  • @iamDeniseFelix
    @iamDeniseFelix 3 роки тому +44

    Most of these signs, my bf has already done. First he started to texted and then video calls me everyday, even when he was at work. Even if he had 5 minutes of free time from work he video calls me. He works in the military so it’s abit difficult for him. He then includes me in all his activities like when he goes fishing, he’ll also video calls me and shows me where he is and who he’s with and what’s he is doing which is really sweet and cute. Then when I wasn’t feeling well he calls me to ask me if I was doing okay, he never stopped even when I was feeling better. He shows all his friends and tells them that I’m his gf etc. Lastly he eventually wanted to meet me and planned out a day to see me and take me out on a date. He traveled 8 ours to see me, even when it was only 1 day we got to spend with each other, it was one of the best days ever for me.

    • @missron7164
      @missron7164 3 роки тому

      you must be beautiful girl

  • @MelodyQueen_Pakhi
    @MelodyQueen_Pakhi 3 роки тому +30

    1. He has a plan for u to be together
    2. He takes u to his fun childhood memories
    3. He's a part of ur daily life
    4. He includes u in his fun life moment's
    5.Consistent forms of communication

  • @katiafitzpatrick1896
    @katiafitzpatrick1896 4 роки тому +391

    This so true, my husband showed all these signs while we were dating ( long distance) we are going into 2 years of a happy marriage 🧡🧡🧡🧡

    • @Pzychonoir
      @Pzychonoir 4 роки тому +1

      How long did it take you talking until he decided to visit you first time?

    • @katiafitzpatrick1896
      @katiafitzpatrick1896 4 роки тому +15

      @@Pzychonoir we were online friends since teens. But I was in a relationship that ended after 3 years. And it took him 7 months to come see me for the first time after I ended my previous relationship. My husband always dreamed about meeting me, and I on the other hand never thought I would marry the teen online I used to chat for so long..so total of 10 years chatting... but dated for 2 years long distance till marriage

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 роки тому +1

      I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.

    • @oluchukwumordi2799
      @oluchukwumordi2799 3 роки тому

      Wow. You give me so much hope. I met him 5 months ago online and we're growing very strong and are looking forward to the day we would both meet physically for the first time. I love him so much and I believe he loves me more:(✷‿✷)

    • @simonemclaren7257
      @simonemclaren7257 3 роки тому +3

      I'm in a long distance relationship .. can't wait to be with my partner ..all these things he did while being away ..I'm so thankful for him .. God's blessings

  • @craffiti3245
    @craffiti3245 4 роки тому +991

    It's been 2 years and we haven't met each other yet, but 2020 is the year! I'll see him physically for the first time by April ❤

  • @sarah-io4zg
    @sarah-io4zg 4 роки тому +149

    after watching this, I’m 100% confirm that my man is the one :’) ♥️

    • @Cpepuzani
      @Cpepuzani 4 роки тому

      Amazing happy for you

    • @euphoriasq
      @euphoriasq 4 роки тому

      sarah AS soon as I heard The planning one I really noticed mine is the one.We've been together for nearly a year( we also had a on and off relationship when we were kids) and him and I have officially planned to see each other in 4 years.This is because he wants me to move in with him in then future so I can have access to a university that is close to him.We also planned that he would come to me to see me graduate high school in a few years which is exciting

    • @dreamyyjollyyy6409
      @dreamyyjollyyy6409 4 роки тому

      Me too🤗

    • @amacandie6975
      @amacandie6975 4 роки тому

      Me too❤

  • @bhavanabalchandra6857
    @bhavanabalchandra6857 3 роки тому +77

    Proud to be in healthy long distance relationship where my guy has been doing all these which is above mentioned in the video to keep me happy 😊 Love you Vignesh😊

  • @hazelbells1970
    @hazelbells1970 5 років тому +60

    In long distance relationship just trust to each other and love 101%

  • @_iamleonilaasi
    @_iamleonilaasi 4 роки тому +19

    I'm in a long distance relationship and it's checks out all the signs that he really loves me. So lucky to have him

  • @ratukatak
    @ratukatak 4 роки тому +20

    The time difference between me and my partner is 7 hours. We both have busy work schedules but we make time to talk and text almost everyday. He always makes sure that he calls either before midnight or at dawn my time so I can get enough rest before work the next day. In return, I send him love notes and voice recordings or me singing love songs for him because he loves them to bits. We are planning to be together and possibly get married as soon as the travelling restrictions are lifted so do wish us the best with everything. I hope everyone here is also blessed with the best outcomes in their LDR. Stay positive and strong and let’s cherish our loved ones to the best that we can despite the distance or anything that comes in between. God bless ❤️

  • @SkyyRadio
    @SkyyRadio 3 роки тому +11

    Met my ldr a year ago...we finally met 2 weeks ago...was everything I hoped..now she's moving in one month! Fuxk what anyone says, those of you who have a real one stay focused.....it can definitely happen!!!!

  • @nancybuscemi6933
    @nancybuscemi6933 5 років тому +65

    He calls me every night before he goes to sleep! I love that he does this each and every day without fail. In almost a year, we have only missed a night or two. He shares pictures of nights out with the guys at times and other fun times I have to miss. He's a keeper.

  • @DeeDee04rr
    @DeeDee04rr 3 роки тому +180

    He does all these things and now I realize that “I” am the person who don’t put enough effort💔... gotta change that!❤️

    • @imlearning5903
      @imlearning5903 3 роки тому

      I broke up with him thinking he is not loving me) And i regret it he is ghosting me from everywhere 😏

    • @salmabe9318
      @salmabe9318 3 роки тому +2

      I just felt the same way

    • @DeeDee04rr
      @DeeDee04rr 3 роки тому +1

      @@imlearning5903 hope he’ll change his mind🥲

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 роки тому

      I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.

    • @salmabe9318
      @salmabe9318 3 роки тому +17

      Brian Hardwick no offense but I think this is really toxic, I wouldn’t do that to my husband even if I had insecurities. You should deal with your trust issues by having a conversation with your wife and not hack into her phone, this is invades her privacy. It’s my honest opinion no offense.

  • @adantaray8652
    @adantaray8652 5 років тому +28

    Regardless of the hardship, obstacles and issues he has never given up on us.

  • @lakwatsierra3014
    @lakwatsierra3014 3 роки тому +15

    Whenever he is having a group videocall with his family, he includes me. He let me have conversations with his mom always.🥰

  • @foreveryoungpisces7426
    @foreveryoungpisces7426 4 роки тому +42

    I developed an LDR with a much younger man on a FB film page nearly 3 yrs ago. He's in Cape Town and I'm in NYC. I'm not a cougar and never cared for younger men (he's an old 48, and I'm a young 71). We just clicked. We spent 7 months yakking away about books, films, music before we became intimate. I flew to meet him in person last Nov and we were shy but had a great time touring his beautiful city. When I returned to NYC it hurt to be apart so he had a flight to me in June, canceled due to Covid. We're in daily contact, waiting. His lockdown was particularly rough and he's been quite miserable but somehow we manage to keep it light. This is a test of patience like no other for me.

    • @Realmotogurl
      @Realmotogurl 3 роки тому +1

      Bless

    • @foreveryoungpisces7426
      @foreveryoungpisces7426 3 роки тому

      @@Realmotogurl Since a year ago, life has become more stressful for he and I. His flight to me Jan 29 was cancelled due to travel ban against S. Africans. It's still in place and could be for quite some time. We're still hopeful, but patience required is extraordinary. Thank you.

    • @ugandantigress8739
      @ugandantigress8739 3 роки тому +1

      Pandemic has done more harm than good I last saw my boy friend last year in February but thank God last week he flew to uganda to visit me and it was as if I was seeing him for the first time I was really excited I hope to join him soon.

    • @foreveryoungpisces7426
      @foreveryoungpisces7426 3 роки тому +1

      @@ugandantigress8739 I may fly again to see him. It's expensive and the 28 hr flight exhausting. Good luck to you and I! 🙏💐🌺

    • @ugandantigress8739
      @ugandantigress8739 3 роки тому +1

      @@foreveryoungpisces7426 thanks dear and trust me travelling has become much more expensive

  • @kimheangly5096
    @kimheangly5096 4 роки тому +11

    I'm in LDR... I keep smiling while I'm watching this video. Yes, that's him ❤️

  • @jnywhat
    @jnywhat 4 роки тому +281

    5. ✔️
    4.✔️
    3.✔️
    2. Not meeting him yet
    1. Haven’t talk about it clearly
    Talk to him from early 2019, and suppose to meet him in 2020 May, but damn virus ruin everything.

    • @tej...1514
      @tej...1514 4 роки тому +4

      Daum same😶

    • @travelregina
      @travelregina 4 роки тому +4

      Absolutely the same situation😔

    • @YissellRGomez
      @YissellRGomez 4 роки тому +3

      Same situation 😭😢

    • @Ladykhalifakhalif
      @Ladykhalifakhalif 4 роки тому +2

      🥰🤣🤣😭😱same here

    • @jnywhat
      @jnywhat 4 роки тому +3

      @@tej...1514 i feel sorry for you.. i hope this virus end soon, so you guys can meet up

  • @djdiannee1454
    @djdiannee1454 2 роки тому +3

    praying for everyone in a long distance relationship. it is honestly very tough...but prayer, understanding and trust are fundamentals while waiting for the moment where both will clise the distance.

  • @sanchiBify
    @sanchiBify 5 років тому +26

    I married my 3 year long distance boyfriend. We unknowingly did every thing he said.

  • @ShwetaSharma-hq7vq
    @ShwetaSharma-hq7vq 4 роки тому +6

    He includes me in every important moment of his life, he always say that u r family, he calls me his wife though we're nt married yet....i don't need any video to judge him or our relationship.....he is one in a million ❤️

  • @celiwekhumalo8381
    @celiwekhumalo8381 4 роки тому +12

    He flew me out in just 3 weeks of talking . Took me to meet his brother , took me to his friends and it’s only been like 1 month . Next flight booked and this time I’m to meet his kids 😍😍😍 LDR 🔥🔥❤️❤️

    • @susanvantuyl7726
      @susanvantuyl7726 3 роки тому +1

      I hope you still have a relationship with this person. Sounds wonderful...

  • @yemich4488
    @yemich4488 2 роки тому +15

    To be honest I am overthinker but hearing this made me so happy because my boyfriend literally does all of this. And sometimes its easy to focus on the bad but damn this really made me smile.

  • @melodytan3471
    @melodytan3471 5 років тому +29

    He always make me calm after a argument or fight. He will explain to me what going on ❤️

  • @silhouetteminimalist1190
    @silhouetteminimalist1190 5 років тому +16

    Since the day that i met him i knew that we have some sparks between us. Most of the day he would make me laugh by singing some funny songs or make himself more funny. I never realized that he’s going to get serious because the time when he asked me to be his gf it sounds like a casual. Then things got more serious when he introduced me to his parents and his bff. He involved me to his hobbies and his memory lane. He’s always there for me and when I’m sad i just saw him caressing the screen as if he was touching my face. I love my bf deeply and I’m blessed that i had him. He always include me with his future plans ♥️

  • @judygraessle1442
    @judygraessle1442 3 роки тому +177

    He uses songs to express his thoughts and feelings.

  • @marybless_0riginals
    @marybless_0riginals 3 роки тому +36

    I just started with a long distance relationship and it’s been a month. So far he carries all those characteristics and I am trying too as well. Hoping this will be consistent. Praying we get to see each other next year as we planned.

    • @kkappes03
      @kkappes03 3 роки тому +4

      Same here. Mine just started literally. But he has been doing these things since day one and pray it keeps up. He just mentioned today about setting plans for him to come and meet. We are truly world's apart me in the USA and him in the UK. He stole my heart.

    • @luciandinda9455
      @luciandinda9455 3 роки тому

      Mine ticking 3 months😘

    • @vivianijoseph9119
      @vivianijoseph9119 3 роки тому

      Same phicy .... I ve been a month , he's in US, , im in indonesia

    • @rosemarywacera2576
      @rosemarywacera2576 2 роки тому

      How long did it take for a face chat?

    • @lovelock1994
      @lovelock1994 Рік тому

      ​@@kkappes03how's things going now

  • @lusindat2129
    @lusindat2129 5 років тому +157

    I'm in a long distance relationship for about 5 years now , we loved each other so much but to be honest it's getting harder for us but we still trying to make it work.

    • @lhengskieee8002
      @lhengskieee8002 5 років тому +5

      Hi really 5yrs? No meet up?

    • @khinwaiwai7590
      @khinwaiwai7590 5 років тому +9

      Same here but don’t give up on someone you loved.

    • @liana748
      @liana748 5 років тому +6

      Wow same here
      We met online in 2014 and until now never meet in person .. We make plans to visit him or he will visit me next year.

    • @turnytomtom8643
      @turnytomtom8643 5 років тому +7

      May I ask why it’s been 5 years?
      I met mine online and we’ve been together 2 years. I visited him for the first time 2 months ago and will be going back in about 4 months time for second visit. I live in Australia and he lives in the US so flights aren’t exactly cheap.

    • @carlalagrimas7530
      @carlalagrimas7530 5 років тому +3

      Me in a longdistance relationship also but i dont know if he love me we travel a lot but after that he stop chatting if i chat him he reply me after 5 days...mmm😔

  • @ethelanosa7911
    @ethelanosa7911 5 років тому +286

    It's confirmed. He loves me ❤️😁

    • @meelovisa6900
      @meelovisa6900 5 років тому +7

      Same here thank you, you just made me start trusting this man especially point # 5 , 3, 2 & 1

    • @rachelorasan7327
      @rachelorasan7327 5 років тому +2

      Me too 💑❤

    • @anitarai13
      @anitarai13 5 років тому +1

      Yayee!!

    • @linabisarra7041
      @linabisarra7041 5 років тому +1

      Ethel Anosa I agree.He does all these to me.FYI It is our first day to be officially on!Ive some doubts but I want to give it a try.He is annoyed when I dont reply at once.After listening to the tips, i realize he loves me indeed.

    • @girldevil6791
      @girldevil6791 5 років тому +3

      Congratulations !😀

  • @patriciaaunoa730
    @patriciaaunoa730 4 роки тому +282

    I'm in a long distant relationship
    He sings to me
    He leaves me love voicemails
    He writes lovenotes😘😘

  • @mara11333
    @mara11333 2 роки тому +21

    10,000 miles away he messages every time he wakes up. He sends pics of things he’s cooking. 6 months in and we’ve talked and come to know each other better than in the 10 year marriage I had in the past. I found my true love ❤️

  • @emimahserena5303
    @emimahserena5303 3 роки тому +21

    My boyfriend lives in Delhi and I live in Chennai...he is making great effort to relocate to Chennai ASAP ❤️

  • @leotard2536
    @leotard2536 4 роки тому +328

    Just here to make sure I'm doing everything right. I love her so much

    • @luisrivera2349
      @luisrivera2349 4 роки тому +10

      I feel that, same here

    • @CNM2326
      @CNM2326 4 роки тому +17

      Keep it up guys. Its refreshing to see humble guys who want to learn and be better for the one they love. Continue to love her a reciprocate the effort she puts into your relationships. And if you have found your potential life partner marry her. God bless you and congrats on your relationships

    • @katerinazimova547
      @katerinazimova547 3 роки тому +3

      Sweet

    • @sayantikadeb5068
      @sayantikadeb5068 3 роки тому +1

      Bless you too

    • @a.b.creator
      @a.b.creator 3 роки тому +4

      Awwww 🥰 you a good one 👏

  • @meydiaengka
    @meydiaengka 5 років тому +7

    My fiance has all these qualities and we are in LDR now. I kept nodding during this video and it put a smile on my face

  • @evelynehajj1081
    @evelynehajj1081 3 роки тому +86

    2 years next month with my boyfriend, we started in a long distance relationship, everything you said is us, hopefully marriage is soon
    Long distance works guys if you both know what you want and if your love is genuine
    Good luck to all❤️

  • @janabanana7616
    @janabanana7616 5 років тому +341

    When a man truly loves you. He will let you know. And that time you’ll know. No need for signs.

    • @VegasLady81
      @VegasLady81 5 років тому +24

      Unless you're an idiot like me when it comes to knowing if he loves you, because you been played all your life. Yep, that's me, totally stupid to any signs, even red flags.

    • @melodymaeseballos6080
      @melodymaeseballos6080 5 років тому +4

      @@VegasLady81 same😭 and 4yrs. of being in ldr were all sucks, and at the end of the day he played like you are a stuff

    • @sarah.hodophile505.
      @sarah.hodophile505. 5 років тому +6

      Very true. We don't have to wait for signs.

    • @himaniarora4069
      @himaniarora4069 5 років тому +10

      What if the other person isn't very expressive? And shy?

    • @coralconrad3711
      @coralconrad3711 5 років тому +6

      True Himani. Not everyone is comfortable saying 'I love you ' and if they dud, it may be insincere. Signs are actions.

  • @grachelleloubongato8449
    @grachelleloubongato8449 4 роки тому +127

    We are not yet in a relationship yet as we are still getting to know each other. But we are both open to the idea of being in an official relationship. He has done all the things enumerated here and I also know he is truly into me. I just hope this pandemic ends very soon so we could meet.

    • @palabradelsenor7281
      @palabradelsenor7281 3 роки тому

      I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley 💝🌹🥀

    • @palabradelsenor7281
      @palabradelsenor7281 3 роки тому +2

      He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay 🥰💯💯💯💯

    • @palabradelsenor7281
      @palabradelsenor7281 3 роки тому

      Text him on whatsap

    • @palabradelsenor7281
      @palabradelsenor7281 3 роки тому

      +2:3 :4 :9 :0 :5 :6 :7 :3 :1 :5 :3 :4

  • @sonnidelapena996
    @sonnidelapena996 5 років тому +7

    We are now on number 5 ...planning for our future together...we are both excited about us being together finally for life😍

  • @tkittrell9315
    @tkittrell9315 2 роки тому +8

    He’s consistent, he talks about our future and he makes being in a relationship easy even if it’s LDR.

    • @abubakarsani3364
      @abubakarsani3364 2 роки тому

      I no of a great and powerful man who can bring your ex back without delay, text him now for help, WhatsApp him below 👇👇👇

    • @abubakarsani3364
      @abubakarsani3364 2 роки тому

      ±2347082480881⏯⏯⏯⏯

  • @desireewilson1983
    @desireewilson1983 5 років тому +6

    Truth! Everything you applied in this video. My boyfriend is continuously doing, showing, and taking time for me to be apart of his life every day. Just last night, we talked about what he did for that day, actually called and texted me consistently throughout our day, is planning on hanging out with his friends and family.

  • @joannegiron4617
    @joannegiron4617 5 років тому +5

    the most important thing was not mentioned, when one is having a rough time, they help u out and do something for u. not just emotional support, boosting their confidence but they are ready to share financial support

  • @jkruse08
    @jkruse08 4 роки тому +4

    I've been dating my amazing guy long distance for ten years yes he checks all the boxes. Never been happier! We see each other twice a month. I even order his groceries to be delivered when he needs them and send him care packages every so often. I spend every day away from him working to be the best version of me for him.

  • @sharonsherwood1890
    @sharonsherwood1890 Рік тому +1

    He's planning our future together. He tells me every day we're apart how much he misses and loves me. His love gives me strength and joy to meet another day

  • @MJ_-uk4sy
    @MJ_-uk4sy 4 роки тому +401

    After watching this
    Me: teary eye 😭, he doesn't love me 😭

  • @panicphei
    @panicphei 3 роки тому +7

    I rewatch this again just to make sure my 3y long distance relationship man still loves me sooo much...im truly blessed...we got 4 of them except #2 because i never visit him...but he included me when he was with his family via facetime...he would tell me a lot of his childhood stories...

  • @tinars1694
    @tinars1694 5 років тому +24

    I have all those signs from my Man , he tells me I’m his 1st priority in his life he calls me his heartbeat he calls me his wife his queen tells me there is no one else he wants to spend his life with in November he is moving me and my boys into his home in a different state he brags about me to his friends says he can’t wait to show off our love to the world he ask me to marry him on August 23 2019 💕💕 we have a long love story but we are each other’s happiness and joy💗

    • @lorraineakough8267
      @lorraineakough8267 4 роки тому +3

      I tap into this blessings....I decree and declare that this shall be my potion this 2020 in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

  • @sanyarana7205
    @sanyarana7205 Рік тому +1

    the way my guy is fulfilling each and every thing makes me so much happy

  • @nenethtampz9340
    @nenethtampz9340 5 років тому +159

    Wow thank you Math for recognizing my comment😌..i love all your videos and never skip any of your videos..

    • @nenethtampz9340
      @nenethtampz9340 5 років тому +12

      @@matboggs please make more videos about long distance relationship i know alot of women out there who are also waiting about how to make long distance relationship work out and tips to keep the love alive regardless of the distance..thank you so much Math for all your videos it does help us alot..Godbless more power!

    • @ladybugradio1988
      @ladybugradio1988 5 років тому +4

      @@matboggs omg you are amazing because although my sweetheart and I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years in May, the things I consider cute yet very endearing that he does is I love it when he serenades me over the phone, he sends me videos of our favorite songs, and we even give each other sweet and heartwarming nicknames.

    • @artemisarrow3607
      @artemisarrow3607 5 років тому +5

      I'm currently in a long distance relationship and this really helped me

    • @mh-st6vl
      @mh-st6vl 5 років тому

      Thanks for the question and the video. I am currently in a long distance relationship. I know My boyfriend loves me because already he does all these 5 things.....it was just nice to hear the video confirm it again. 😊

  • @barbaramoore209
    @barbaramoore209 3 роки тому +32

    He always encouraging me that I'm stronger than I think to just hang in there

  • @maeannbalilea3005
    @maeannbalilea3005 4 роки тому +70

    I am into a Long Distance Relationship into a guy from Las Vegas and he always sleep very late just to have fun texting with me and talking with me❤️ He already planned our future that we will gonna live together and hopefully it would gonna happen💯

  • @danielgatchell871
    @danielgatchell871 2 роки тому +1

    He is an absolute sweet guy, and what I notice is when I send pictures throughout the day is that he will heart the pictures that include me and the way he smiles and looks up at the ceiling when he sends a selfie shows he is truly knowledgeable of the fact that he is my top interest!

  • @virarizkaa
    @virarizkaa 4 роки тому +424

    After I watch this,
    Me: Oke, he doesn't love me. Only me who love him 🙁

  • @debramiller-kennicker6459
    @debramiller-kennicker6459 4 роки тому +49

    In my long distance relationship my man knows when I'm stressed and always calls 📞 me to relax me.

    • @williamsharman2159
      @williamsharman2159 3 роки тому

      How Debra how are you doing?

    • @palabradelsenor7281
      @palabradelsenor7281 3 роки тому

      I Know Of a Great Relationship Restorer Who Can Bring Back Your Ex Within 2days Without No Daley 💝🌹🥀

    • @palabradelsenor7281
      @palabradelsenor7281 3 роки тому

      He was the one who helped me restored back my broken relationship of three years without stress nor delay 🥰💯💯💯💯

    • @palabradelsenor7281
      @palabradelsenor7281 3 роки тому

      Text him on whatsap

    • @palabradelsenor7281
      @palabradelsenor7281 3 роки тому

      +2:3 :4 :9 :0 :5 :6 :7 :3 :1 :5 :3 :4

  • @Sarailivii
    @Sarailivii 4 роки тому +7

    5.✔
    4.✔
    3.✔
    2.✔
    1.✔
    I love him so much and he treats me better than I ever thought was possible. He is my keeper😍

  • @nayantarasennarayan89
    @nayantarasennarayan89 2 роки тому

    he is committed to you everyday and tells you he will always be there for you and he spoils you like you deserve to be! he calls and messages and he tells you he loves you 30 times a day and supports you and motivates u everyday!

  • @vrajpandya2706
    @vrajpandya2706 4 роки тому +338

    It's been almost 3 years of our long distance relationship and total of 5 years of our relationship. Just because of this Corona thing my flight got cancelled. It really sucks

    • @leilasahnoune1732
      @leilasahnoune1732 4 роки тому +2

      Vraj Pandya after this nightmare u’ll met 🥺🙏🏿

    • @sweetkristinaquino-gibela6548
      @sweetkristinaquino-gibela6548 4 роки тому +3

      I cant meet my husband because of this virus also. The Lord will eradicate this ncov 19. This shall pass in Jesus name

    • @ninakailee1785
      @ninakailee1785 4 роки тому +6

      omg same here.. so sad its our first time to meet physically last febuary but we also cancelled our flight in Hong Kong bcoz of the corona virus. btw we also in LDR for almost 3 years as well.. Hope this covid-19 will end soon..

    • @aivee6181
      @aivee6181 4 роки тому +4

      I know...same here too... Well lets pray for each other sisterhood.

    • @liasandhy
      @liasandhy 4 роки тому +10

      it's sad but it's true, we need to cancelled our plans 😵😵 hope this virus will disappear soon and all people who in long distance relationship will meet their lover ❤

  • @jenniferwebb9281
    @jenniferwebb9281 3 роки тому +14

    I'm in a long distance relationship he is part of my daily life. He wants to make my problems he problems. We always talk for hours every day on vidoe and we watch movies together even thou we are far apart we still do same things. We meeting up one day can't wait to meet him. Good luck everyone 😊😊❤

  • @kingaderzsi7535
    @kingaderzsi7535 5 років тому +92

    He always ask my opinion before decide anything related to us or even to him

  • @dibiya004
    @dibiya004 3 роки тому +2

    Bless all of you who are in a LDR like me I hope you get to move in with them asap and be happy together!

  • @shalinablessed315
    @shalinablessed315 5 років тому +26

    Confirmed!!! ♥
    Last night convo
    He: I'm thinking my future, my future with you, I want us to move on this country, this country is good for us, building our family, building my life with you blah blah...
    That is so sweet! 😅🙏💕

  • @rosiesegarino5776
    @rosiesegarino5776 5 років тому +9

    Watching this video I didn’t know my teardrops fall in my eyes 😥

  • @joannalynadormagno6065
    @joannalynadormagno6065 3 роки тому +7

    This is all correct! I love that I hanged here for few minutes, I thought before ldr doesn't work, I've been with some ldr relationship but all that past relationships don't work except this one I have now. I'm so glad to hear this signs. One thing I am assured that ldr works when you both pray together every day, you both have relationship with the Lord, read the Bible together and give courage to each other.
    This video encouraged me that I am doing the right thing and I am on the right track now. Thanks be to God!

  • @riabandyopadhyay4065
    @riabandyopadhyay4065 3 роки тому +31

    We do virtual dates, like watching something together or eating or listening to music.. and then talk a lot and stay together virtually 😌

    • @multivlogsb1892
      @multivlogsb1892 3 роки тому

      I love Indian girls,basiculy I am from Pakistan...please Ria help me to find out a beautiful soulmate Indian queen...

    • @lonelyobsession
      @lonelyobsession 3 роки тому

      What websites or apps do you use to spend time together virtually? How do you watch things together ?

    • @rahstara
      @rahstara 3 роки тому

      @@lonelyobsession You can use Kast.

    • @rahstara
      @rahstara 3 роки тому

      @@lonelyobsession To watch things together.

    • @rahstara
      @rahstara 3 роки тому

      @@lonelyobsession Or through video-chat you can show your TV screen.

  • @chiecortez2260
    @chiecortez2260 5 років тому +33

    Im so lucky cause i saw all of this to him.This makes me love him more than before..and miss him more😢really,ldr is not easy but im praying and hoping that we'll be together...soon.

  • @shewokeup_exjw7680
    @shewokeup_exjw7680 5 років тому +22

    I am in a LDR. I am so happy you posted this video. I am mature enough to look for good qualities and effort in another person. But as a woman I have been hurt in past. So second guessing myself out of protection is a given. But, I smiled ear to ear knowing my handsome man has been putting all of your 5 points to use since we started to fall in love. He makes constant tremendous effort to make sure I am safe and comforts me even when I have been in hospital. (He completely freaks out when that happened by the way). But he wouldn't even sleep till he new I was home, had all my meds and was resting. He did all of this by texting and video calls. I think he's a keeper, don't you?

    • @TheTrioGCN
      @TheTrioGCN 5 років тому +3

      Completely! Awesome stuff! Try the Heart Meditation by Psalm Isadora for healing past hurt and trusting again. It's gonna work more wonders for you.

    • @shewokeup_exjw7680
      @shewokeup_exjw7680 5 років тому +2

      @@TheTrioGCN thank you👍

  • @chanita403
    @chanita403 5 років тому +12

    I’m currently in a LDR for almost a year & I must say my boyfriend & I have great communication & we both share life moments as well

  • @CPB0408
    @CPB0408 3 роки тому +11

    Afraid of Long Distance Relationship but more afraid to loose the connection with that person. So I give it a try. And every signs you said is exactly what he’s doing. I thought LDR is hard but it turns out to be easy and natural, maybe I’m in the right man💗

    • @guivyac5852
      @guivyac5852 Рік тому

      Same! I met my boyfriend 2 months ago he is from Switzerland and I'm from Haiti he already booked his ticket so we can have our first two weeks of vacation and already plan our lives and all these 5 things sound exactly like my cute boyfriend ❤

  • @yahrajanae2062
    @yahrajanae2062 4 роки тому +20

    I'm in a LDR and yes we do all these 5 things tears came to my eyes as I smiled ofcourse but LDR makes the realationship so much stronger than couples who live in the same city this year 2020 we will finally meet up meet the family and tie the knot of marrige.

  • @marylove5170
    @marylove5170 3 роки тому +7

    He showed all of these signs... and I found out I'm not the only one he talks to.

    • @rafeiamehboob488
      @rafeiamehboob488 3 роки тому

      Same thing happened to me too broke my heart im so sorry to hear that

    • @marietabanao979
      @marietabanao979 3 роки тому

      Same happened to me..😔

  • @rixie2000
    @rixie2000 3 роки тому +4

    We just got our 1st year Long Distance Relationship. 3-7 hours communication (video + text). We never think the mileage between us, we think what's our hearts tell.

  • @marymatthews8978
    @marymatthews8978 Рік тому +9

    I've been in the longest relationship for 3 years I'm embarrassed but I love you channel keep up the good work

  • @takeit4577
    @takeit4577 3 роки тому +3

    My bf those three of the above
    1. He has plans of us living together
    3. He is a part of my daily life
    5. Consistent form of communication
    And I love him so much and I know he loves me so much
    Praying for all those who are in a long distance relationship.

  • @LeewayImperial
    @LeewayImperial 4 роки тому +5

    I miss him much,he is the one who give up in our relationship remember jealousy is the killer of the relationship xx

  • @nindyafrasela44
    @nindyafrasela44 5 років тому +242

    I'm single and watching this video 😂😂

  • @leozellocson3961
    @leozellocson3961 3 роки тому +1

    Currently in LDR for more than a year (yes, because of Corona). Haven't met him yet in person but there are things he said and done that I can prove his love.
    1) Family - he share things about his family. For me information about your family is very private. Yet he was able to share important facts about his family.
    2) Personal Comfort - he goes way beyond his personal comfort just to make me feel that he appreciate and love me.
    I do hope that Corona will end soon. Once boarders are open then we can see each other. And I do hope that he is THE ONE.

  • @shuddhgrg1299
    @shuddhgrg1299 5 років тому +6

    He treats me as if i m the boss. He inspires me to follow my passion. He even let me make plans according to my wish whenever we travel together 😄

    • @tomiwafaith
      @tomiwafaith 4 роки тому

      Yasssss! That’s beautiful

  • @jayhulrs1435
    @jayhulrs1435 5 років тому +8

    It's so helpful to know you were in a long distance relationship. Could you do a video on how to transition from long distance to living together?

  • @FlikkieFloekieFlakkie
    @FlikkieFloekieFlakkie 4 роки тому +35

    I'm in an LDR for about a half year now and already I can see the difficulties that comes along with communicating and sharing experiences which are not being lived through together but seperately. The most important thing so far I've learned is to open up yourself and to be honest about your mood, your situation, your desires, your plans, your actions, your feelings and thoughts. Wether it feels positive or negative, together there is always a way to work it out because you are supposed to be a team after all. Sometimes its hard to move on when there is more dead air in the conversations or when its not really the right moment to try to make eachother laugh/feel happy. But let the mood be what it is and respect eachothers situation Also the sad moments where you want to hold eachother tight are hard because there is the distance in between. But keep telling the other that youre there for her/him in any way you could. Write a little poem, send some chocolates, or a funky letter with some silly jokes. Hold on to positive memories you have created together and re-live them together in chat. Keep naming up the things you like about the other and try to be very tactfull and considerate when talking about the doubts or issues that you have with or about the other.
    Open up your gate towards self-awareness in order to know what your attitude, facial expression, behavior, tone of voice, subject of conversation and even your appearance might have for an effect on the other. Try to do some out of the box thinking and get out of your comfort zone and do a crazy little silly dance or make a date to dress up with a glass of wine and candlelight on the webcam, do naughty stuff when both of you are in the mood for it and make eachother feel sexy and excited about eachother. Try to read the other a little/ or longer story before going to sleep or just during the day when he/she can actively listen to you. Try to look forward to exciting events/happenings or experiences or life goals together or at least try to live positively towards the happy moments of celebration or satisfaction that you can share. Try to sync-watch a movie/video together and pause it together when having a break so that you actually kind off see the movie together. If you go out into the nature, take a little noteblock with you and write down every single thing or moment that makes you think of the other deeply and share it and tell her/him why it made you think of the other. Share pictures, video's of yourself or your daily 'whatever you can think of' stuff. Play any type of online game together that you both like. Talk about the future together and imagine how that would be/look/feel like and let your creativity flow. And so there are many many more things to actually think of to share/do to make your relationship last and feel better for the long distance. Think of romantic ways to share your time together: youtube can actually help you ;)
    But most important: Keep telling that you LOVE the other and explain why! Be creative on that part and think of different ways to tell him/her that you feel love for and appreciate the little things that you both try to do or put effort into.
    For those in an LDR, I wish you goodluck and lots of love because thats what we are all looking for even though it might feel like going up and down a little from time to time. But thats fine. Let it be and celebrate the fact that you have found eachother and live forwards to the exciting moment of meeting again and again untill you finally find the solution/key/way to live together! GO FOR IT!!

  • @aileennavalta5870
    @aileennavalta5870 5 років тому +24

    We're in Long distance relationship for 2 years and 7 months now and we're closing the distance this coming October. My petition was just approved and I'm moving to America to be with him and get married
    #LDRisReal❤️

    • @beinggreen24
      @beinggreen24 5 років тому

      Congratulations

    • @bicsbees1094
      @bicsbees1094 5 років тому

      Aileen Navalta what country are you coming from, and congratulations 🎊

    • @aileennavalta5870
      @aileennavalta5870 5 років тому +1

      @@bicsbees1094 from Philippines 🙂

    • @bicsbees1094
      @bicsbees1094 5 років тому

      Aileen Navalta Ive just got my NOA1 for my Fiancé who is in the Philippines...😀

    • @antrianewsome2463
      @antrianewsome2463 5 років тому

      The Sweetest Congratulations!!!!

  • @natasyagoff24
    @natasyagoff24 4 роки тому +6

    thanks i know he loves me now 😀
    he always calls me routinely, he texts me everyday, he took me to his childhood hometown when i went there, and we are planning to be together in England in the future ❤️

  • @dotties3880
    @dotties3880 5 років тому +10

    He sent me the article the 21 best tips on making a long distance relationship work.

  • @haripriyamamiduru1082
    @haripriyamamiduru1082 Рік тому

    Finally I'm blessed with one who does all the things that has been mentioned here... 😍🥰😊♥️ Hope every one finds one ...

  • @shellanydiano3754
    @shellanydiano3754 4 роки тому +27

    This made me feel very lucky and grateful because all of the things that you said my baby is doing for me. It's an answered prayer.

  • @morenarinjani1474
    @morenarinjani1474 4 роки тому +40

    He introduced me to his mom through a video call. And he talked to my mom as well. He was supposed to be here on May, but Covid ruined the plan. :"( he has to postpone the visit to November.
    He told me he wanted to get a scholarship here in my country so that we can be together, and after that he may wanna work and live in my country. Hope everything goes according to plan.
    I've never been in an LDR before, and neither does he. I never thought this relationship can be the most fulfilling experience in my entire dating life. My boyfriend and I are totally in the same page, we were both betrayed before. We hate this hookup culture thing (we are so done with it). We fulfill each other's emotional needs, and we can't wait to be together.
    To those of you who are in a long distance relationship, whenever you wanna give up, please do remember why you stick to it in the first place. But well, if it's toxical and unhealthy, you'd better leave it and move on. Goodluck!!!!

    • @magueriette
      @magueriette 4 роки тому

      Hope y'aller gonna make it this month

  • @pollyploy2615
    @pollyploy2615 4 роки тому +6

    I’m currently doing long distance relationship and I totally agree with everything you said!

  • @Leila77784
    @Leila77784 Рік тому +4

    I checked every signs you mentioned and decided he doesn’t love me. So thanks so much for this great video Matt. I actually knew that and it’s painful 😢

    • @Leila77784
      @Leila77784 Рік тому

      Please don’t like this comment. It’s heartbreaking 💔