Power of a single decision | Zara Noor Abbas | TEDxGCULahore
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- Опубліковано 19 чер 2018
- Have you ever come across a situation when a single decision changed your entire life? Zara has been, and so have many other people. In this talk given at TEDxGCULahore, Zara Noor Abbas who is a model and an actress tells us about the decision that completely changed her life. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
I just got inspired of one thing that dont marry a man to fulfill ur dreams marry a man just to be you🔥💯
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Don't marry a man to fulfill ur dream marry a man just to be you
Same situation I'm going through. My parents r forcing me to marry a govt professor but my heart doesn't want it .🙏 Plz pray for me
@@jaibhagwa3444ayyo it's very painful...don't marry
best line *"the biggest nightmare for a girl is to be married or divorce"*
Yes...or ye bas ek ladki hi samajh saqti h
Sahi bole heart attack jaisa feel hota hai
Ys
Dmn
@@Shikshika980 h
Her voice was so fragile. I was feeling all the while that she might cry very next second. She kept me captivated.
She is actress because
Same here
She is in a fair and lovely commercial
ALLAH is true source of hope !! MashaAllah
Ofcourse
Beshak
Her voice is so mesmerizing.. and her experiences built her.. of what she is proud today 👏
Jbh
WW
kahania bana rahi hai jhooti kahi k
Hmm check muniba Mazari...
Allah Khush rekha
I loved the fact that she gave her talk in Urdu, props to her❤️
she is so graceful and her pronunciation is so elegant...😍
@WASI No I don't...it just came in recommendations but found her so elegant and real....🙂😍
You r an inspiration for women she thinks that she have nothing.😞.!.. love from INDIA...❣️❤️
I can understand that her problems are too small for many people but we can never understand what she has been through. Sometimes even the smallest problems can tear us apart.
I really didn't care whether she was from a middle class family or upper class and nor I care where she studied she just made me realize that no matter how hard it is never ever give up
Do you think never ever give up is her line? No it's line of any successful person but it is said by Winston churchil
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Her voice, way to present and poise to carry herself is so graceful!
The only massage i understand from this story is :do not marry someone to escape from some situation .
It would only end up in in divorce (the same thing happened to me)😫
Have faith dear
Even the same thing happened with me
@@sabreen4561 Allah bless u
@@madihachangazi3699 stay strong ..Allah bless u ..Ameen ya Rabulalameen
Also same to me
She is just telling her story guys just relax !!! It takes alot of courage to share ur life story
Very true. But it should make sense. This talk clearly does not. Smacks of being fabricated very cutely.
Purely idiotic and time wasting story...
Bakhtiar Saleem coz ur probably idiotic everyone else understands it
@@farhan3519 escuchar musica
@@bakhtiarsaleem5060 exactly
I belong to a middle class family and now I am going for a conference with Bill Gates (Microsoft owner) ;-)
why?
How ?
MashaAllah , how did you get this
Best of luck
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Such an adorable actress.....her acting has really improved over the years...
I just listened this coz of her attractive mesmerizing voice.. otherwise my experiences and skills are far beyond :)
Why ppl are criticizing her about her middle or ellite class... Problems are same for all people...
kyuo k wo jhoot bol rhi hai ek tu middel class say ni es ki baki family may kafi log TV film kerty hain father army may achi post pay thy or BNU may study ki tu middel bol k ghlati ki na us nay baki sb story ko teek man layain no issue
Yeah and actually she say she was middle class earlier
lol you live in a imaginary world if you say that
Outstanding words👍
U r brave very nice
Such a sweet lady and a powerful speech regarding being yourself and being labelled as a divorcee. Lovely to see that you married a man who loves and respects you for who you are are. All the best from the U.K.
Awesome courage, faith, guts, standing tall in the dark days !! Worth watching it like literally !!
This really was an inspirational story.🖤♥️
Ignore haters zara.♥️🖤
No words can explain, what I'm feeling now. Just I wanna thank her for such a positive vibes, thank you so much ma'am ❤️🥀
Why is everybody criticising her? I found her ted talk so real and inspiring.
Lady you made me understand something which I didn't even knew I lacked... Thank you so much for putting your story out there.
Bohat openly or khul k apna life ki experience Bata Dia that really makes us motivated...very good ma'am
This is an extremely emotional story,that is based on the moral values of life and our so.called"society"which is always trying to pressurize us down in every aspect of our life,her message to make the right decision on time by the help of your family and it's importance is shown here,Zara has given us a meaning and told us our power of decision,that it's our life and we have the right to make our own choices on free will and privacy from the society and people in it😊😊😊
I like your boldness to accept your life's truth
Zara noor Abbas is one of the best actress in Pakistan
She is gorgeous
You are lucky that u managed to turn your life around by making a difficult decision while still being in the middle of the biggest turmoil of your life.....
Not everyone is that lucky
Allah pak bless u all the way
I just love the meditation part..... I also want myself lock in the room and want to cry and think what I want....but I think it is also impossible fr me to lock myself alone in a room....
Never do it . Talk to someone who understands you this will help you alot .
I Wwatch and rewatch this talk so many times...Zara's voice is so frail and expressive..her expressions and her personality is equally graceful...and this experience of hers is really eye-opening and inspiring..always feel like showing this to my family
me too❤
I needed this badly i dunno y i m watching one after one these inspiring talks..seeking for piece of mind
After your drama Ehad e Wafa really i love u sis , after listening these things really proud of you 💖💓
I much inspired for u that never giveup in any bad situation.We have to face the situations.May god bless u aapi 👍👍👍
She is very strong girl👍👍
Very talented 💕💕💕
She is the girl who thought me something very special which I should do in my life
Hatts off you zara noor abbas ❤️
Thank you 😊
She went to America and iran bt still she was frm the middle-class family 😂,mujhe abhi aaisa middleclass bnna hai
Just drama Na Mami was actress father was army man😏
Me too kirty jangral
You can be middle class and rich enough to go to another country. Stop spreading hate
tum bhi america apni dy
@@islamicpage476 well in order for me to understand, you do need to speak a language we both know.
I love you sweetheart . N you are so humble to call your self middle class. It makes me feel like we are sisters.😊
Aik bat to hai she is
pretty
Gorgeous
Talented
Actress
Mein ne jab Ehd e wafa drama dekha
Muje laga mein Indian kajol ko dekh rha hon
Bht mazay ka character hai zara ka.
ALLAH bless us all.
"Aik bat to hai she is
pretty
Gorgeous
Talented
Actress"
Your'e such a creep
Exactly this happens to me the same enxiety ,the same depression , the same cry ,I am going through the same phase now
She is daughter of a professional actress and she had to struggle for becoming an actress. That’s odd.
Yes yes yes same as my point she is only giving speech because its her job
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Precisely what I was thinking 👍 Her mom decided to live for herself and be happy however when it came to her daughter marrying a stranger was a solution. So cooked uo stuff. .all of it
bcs. by grace of God there's no Karan Johar there😂
exactly made up same bhi zoya
Agar yeh log middle class hai toh phir hum toh bohat he ghareeb hai.
🤣🤣
😂😂
Ageee
Hahahaha
first listen carefully for what someone is saying , she said i was a middle class girl,
مڈل کلاس لڑکی یا لڑکا کہہ کر اب ہر کامیاب انسان بہت زیادہ ہمدردیاں سمیٹ لیتا ہے۔
یہ ایک success symbol بن گیا ہے۔
Wow I so like how she makes everyone understand to stand for themselves with the consent of our families
I really appreciate her thoughts that is amazing ku k hr koi yha negative log bht hn but positivity bht km hain....
Hats Off to you ZARA NOOR ABBASS ASAD...
A WOMAN WORLD SHOULD BE PROUD OF.
There is so much to learn from her simple speech, which was as good as story telling!!
Stay blessed Zara!!
Amin
Thank you so much for giving us an amazing character in *Ehd e Wafa* ❣
That proves how amazing girl u r..❣
From 13.30 min and onwards... Life changing prospective...🙏🙏
In the entire speech, she projected herself as a character of a play.. A lot of self made stories she added in this speech with a smiling gesture...
Love it! Haters gonna hate but Zara you are an inspiration. Totally relatable
It is quite amazing to see that she is so casual about her divorce.
Amazing speech. Everyone need to understand her concept behind it to make her joke that what she was trying to make us understand. As per my views first she tried to deliver us to take care of your family respect(brothers, mother & father) & always speak truth with family, second she said that "be your ownself" avoid diplomacy or buttering to get the good things. Get every things with efforts and belief in God.
Absolutely loved this conversation from the heart, resonating the right chords!
See the smile when it came to her talking about her now husband.... That's love😍😍
Hmmmm
Who I am and what I want to be... Really a good question should be ask to our self daily and blessingly I got my answer 😊
This shows whatever we provide our kids in their childhood they naturally get attracted to that as she also told that her mother used to keep them busy in songs & music & this led her interest in media industry ....
Awesome & motivational speech by Zara Noor
Learning things :
• No one can become responsible by birth. His responsibilities and his failures make him like that.
•Mariage is a crucial part of our life journey. So chose it wisely not in influence of present needs .
•We most of the youngsters think that we want freedom , we want to goo out from the house . Just to escape from various things we r facing in present. Bt if u can't solve our things in present situation then we will not able in future too. So just try to make ourself more better in present and enjoy present 😊😊
Exactly
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Sach me salute hai apki himmat ko ....... Ab lgta hai dunia q itni khubsurt hai ...... Aap jaic beti hi nam Roshan kr Sakti hai.....
M speechless. I randomly click on the vedio nd feeling better after watch this ❤️
she got a place in our heart ♥
Daughter of Asma Abbas a well known actress, niece of Bushra Ansari the most influential actress of Pakistan. Still she is saying she had to struggle to get permission for acting. She studied in BNU, where one semester's fee is more then fee of a whole degree in a Public university.
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Point h boss
Kenjer family kehte hain!
Attention seeker ha kya yeh
God bless u ...keep moving in life..dont care about people who lets u down..u cannot please everyone in life..u enjoy ur life
Salam.e.khair..
i am also facing many problems ,like you
now i feel so much different after listening you...
JAZAKALLAH...
to motivate the silent courge in the present women.that they do all things in the World but after knowing herself.. and after understanding our family..
Either she is not middle class or we all are just really poor💀😂😂
Hahah😅.. Right
you can say this upper middle class
Middle class never ever thought to go or wants to marry in America... hilarious
Per her mother in a TV interview, her father was from FEUDAL background! They love to play underdog!
Dude...... Listen properly......Wo middle class family se belong krti hai....avi wo actor hai, to obviously wo avi achchi halaat me hai
Amaaazzingg I totally agree with you because being you and knowing who you really are is what matters, and who can accept you the way you are is the one meant for you
Lots of love from Germany to Zara Noor ❤️
Absolutely love this woman 🙌🙌 Much love ❤️
I had to open the TEDx page yo see whether this vid was coming from official TED or someone relukata. Tedx, ideas of elite class worth spreading.
I am.following you since one year and i really inspire after watching this video.
Thanks
Wow how strong lady she is !!☺️
Time to realize as a society that it is okay to be a divorcee, and it is okay to make tough decisions and chase your dreams. Absolutely loved your talk, ZNA. Keep being yourself. Cheers!
Very honestly told- I’m glad she spoke Urdu
وه تو ہے ۔۔۔۔۔
Tom Ford she’s at Pakistani tv actress and she’s talking about making poor choices that lead to her getting divorced which is taboo in her culture
Tom Ford divorce is taboo in culture. Culture and religion are two different concepts. I’m not getting into multiple marriages it’s a lengthy discussion
Tom Ford 👍🏽
She nicely explained everything ❤️ much love from India🇮🇳 🙏💕
A great motivation for us...
She was very sad inside still...
Wow...zara u r a good motivational speaker as well..
Zara I love you so much and respect your words. I never ever write any comment and say k “Urdu main bol lain English zarori hai kia” etc but to be honest I feel so connect with your words. I connected emotions with language. Now beside that I want to say it’s so sad that hamare zindagi mardon k ird gird he ghumti hai. First father, brother and then husband. Won’t it be so liberating if we can choose whoever we want to be... so happy that you got your calling. Much love ♥️
Niny Niny please subscribe my channel
Creative Oblivion ok I will see, if I like it than I will subscribe. Don’t force others for subscription. Make your work speak for yourself. 🙂
Niny Niny There is no such work even if they are creative,you tube won't let them go ahead..Then faced copyright issue most of the time!
Very encouraging and inspirational
Everyone has problems in life ...
So we should not compare our problems with her....
Just motivate from her and we should strong our will problem...
As according to some comments...should cancer is little cute problem?🤔
Zara is soo much amazingg person....just love her🤩🤩🤩
Zara ki awaaz bhot pyari h😍
بولنے کا انداز اس سے بھی اچھا
Lose weight now ask me how 9782899880
@@deepakbadaya2060 yelo🤦🏻♀️
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Superb its give me positive strength to start my life again without think about past bad experience 👍👏
Jazakallah khair
Allah aapki tarah har ladki ko strong bnaye..
sharam Karo aap uski baat suno acting k liye talaq li.
More power to you ma’am❤️❤️❤️❤️you are an inspiration
Please guys encourage her for her decision that she want to live her own life with her dreams.
Shanza Shai hahaha yes offcourse 👍🏼 she can use her insta for this cute purpose
Jo kbi apne past main na kaam hta hai whi agy jaa kr kamiyab hta hai love ur story ma'm hr ksi k ps hmmat ni hti apna past btane ki 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💔💔😭😭😭😭may Allah bless u many more
She is inspiring ❤️ love from India.
I want your first husband to listen this so he can understan who you are right now...
She is amazing woman ❤️❤️😍 keep going
I truly believe to "know yourself and than to marry"😊😊😊thanku so much didi
it's all means that patience lead success and i really salute to your emotions.
Wonderful... Feeling awesome after hearing you.. Love from India 👍
She says im independent woman i can take care of my passport. But she forgets her passport at home what's a miracle!
Thank you for sharing your exp/decision in life, an inspiration for every one, stay blessed.
Your way of telling your story was really cool 😎 . And the emotions that you face in your life is soo relatable as a girl . And personal relatable part was your careless wala incidence 😛😜😁😁
key things to remember for me from Her life,
Listen to your parents in all case otherwise you will have more chances of mistakes and only your parents will accept you in all your hard times so respect this blessing of God before they leave you.
Life will never give the time back. Take your decision with consultation of expert.
considered all aspects when you take your decision and take them right in time for the first time and than dont regret.
akrakr AliRaza123 we’ll noticed! Same
NOT a middle class family... only now i know that she is asma abbas’s daughter. And the legendary bushra ansari’s niece!!
So basically she was telling her story, so get to know about her through this talk, because she might not tell this story today.
She has prepared her speech very very very very well
It felt good to hear you out:)
Just LOVE the way Zara speaks, lovely!❤️
Love from India🇮🇳
Eshita Sharma Zara Noor very nice l love
Yes she's a greatest of all time
Me too