Fear - what holds you back | Zoya Nasir | TEDxGCULahore

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  • @Zoaartistry
    @Zoaartistry 3 роки тому +37

    I was also bullied 😞💔when i was just 9........ I went through almost 6 years depression and now i am 16........and thanxxxx to Allah that alhamdudillah now my life is superbbbbb.................. 😊...........

  • @Mumsiken
    @Mumsiken 4 роки тому +57

    I don’t do people pleasing anymore. I ask my self what would my Prophet S.A.W. Would advise me to do and that’s what I do.

  • @coming_out_97
    @coming_out_97 2 роки тому +9

    Her voice is something very powerful

  • @kikiki6302
    @kikiki6302 2 роки тому +10

    It happens to everyone. It is satisfying to know that we are not the only one who are going through it 👍🏻

  • @saizeb
    @saizeb 4 роки тому +463

    If you have depression or anxiety .. pray .. Namaz is everything. Since I’ve started all is sorted it’s amazing .
    There was azaan happening in background you should listen and try not to talk thru this.
    I wish you all happiness and success with Allah!!

    • @dramasreviewer6158
      @dramasreviewer6158 4 роки тому +4

      Aisa kch ni btayen gy Ye lOG

    • @mostlydesi8449
      @mostlydesi8449 4 роки тому +5

      Usney mic k sath sath headphones rakhey huye hain maybe she can’t hear it :)

    • @ashshk9105
      @ashshk9105 4 роки тому +29

      Depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain! Reading namaz and Quran will help some but not all! So please don't throw this about! People with depression need help

    • @saizeb
      @saizeb 4 роки тому +15

      Ash Sheikh throw about . I know what depression is . I have suffered it many years alongside studied in the field. I have been on medication had councilling but from my personal experience reading Namaz 5 x which I never did and reading the Quran with meaning has been uplifting. So not throwing nothing about . Telling it from my perspective and personal experience of dealing with this disease . Meds were only a temp solution. Thank you for your comment .

    • @ashshk9105
      @ashshk9105 4 роки тому +5

      Sarah JZ once again you have said the same thing! It's the likes of you they make people with depression go into hiding! You make a big stigma about it and say thing like it's just cause you are not close to Allah swt this is why you are feeling like this! If you have suffered yourself you should know yourself that saying only praying will help is not the solution! The reason suicide is high in the Asian community!!!! An someone who has studied in this field will never say what you have said, someone really needs to check your credentials

  • @talab642
    @talab642 4 роки тому +49

    I am so glad i watched this, because i am 22 and now i realized that even i have this people pleasing behavior, out of insecurity.

  • @gagankatariaakagaganastic1180
    @gagankatariaakagaganastic1180 4 роки тому +36

    WOOOWWWW, Loved every single word what she said. Who else thinks she has things figured out for herself?

  • @SAMREEN717
    @SAMREEN717 3 роки тому +239

    She got Chris now . I hope they both will remain happy forever now

    • @alinakhan9341
      @alinakhan9341 3 роки тому +3

      Aameen♥

    • @natureandme_
      @natureandme_ 3 роки тому +7

      He got Muslim...so I hope they will remain happy...

    • @3dworld617
      @3dworld617 3 роки тому

      Chris ye toh chirstian name lag rha 😳 so she married with non muslim 🤔

    • @SAMREEN717
      @SAMREEN717 3 роки тому

      @@3dworld617 he was but now he is Muslim

    • @sumaiyaqureshi809
      @sumaiyaqureshi809 3 роки тому

      She changed her religion?

  • @ayeshashahzadi9730
    @ayeshashahzadi9730 4 роки тому +1308

    Who's here after seeing Zoya in shahveer's video during quarantine!

  • @ghulamasghar6257
    @ghulamasghar6257 4 роки тому +98

    This was totally relatable.I hope these 15 mins will help me a lot in my life.Massive Respect zoya

    • @ressingnipha5738
      @ressingnipha5738 4 роки тому +2

      Same here...before these video I never realized what's happening with me but when I came here I realized each n part of my life what exactly it was going

  • @alishakashif4550
    @alishakashif4550 4 роки тому +11

    She is an inspiration for all the people who still live in fear and she is a great woman.

  • @alefiyavohra3395
    @alefiyavohra3395 2 роки тому +3

    I saw this on my recommendation. Instantly clicked it cuz i saw one interview of her and she spoke so much of wisdom there that i had to click. She shows us reality of ourselves. Also i had a same past like her

  • @faizanbagalkot6837
    @faizanbagalkot6837 3 роки тому +120

    Whos here after chris reverting to islam

    • @mirzafaizan4366
      @mirzafaizan4366 3 роки тому +4

      shhe is muslim but her dressig is just like non muslims

    • @mirzafaizan4366
      @mirzafaizan4366 3 роки тому +3

      @Mister Perfect
      I am talking about islam
      Because our religion does not allow us to wear such clothes in public
      I know it's her choice
      But it's haram
      And That's it.......

    • @mirzafaizan4366
      @mirzafaizan4366 3 роки тому +1

      @mirza arshad No one is talking about character

    • @eumnatehseen8557
      @eumnatehseen8557 3 роки тому

      Me

    • @mirzafaizan4366
      @mirzafaizan4366 3 роки тому

      @@Flashbackpika exactly u r right no one can force her
      I

  • @aishfamstyles139
    @aishfamstyles139 3 роки тому +24

    Amazing.....ik ladki hona itna asan nhi hota Allah har ladki ke naseeb ko bada kare

  • @rabidvayani6381
    @rabidvayani6381 2 роки тому +2

    I really relate to every word of zoya right now cause i feel the same right now that she been through and i think know should feel this may allah help all of us ameen

  • @barbieas1
    @barbieas1 4 роки тому +54

    I don't know who is she, never seen her coz i don't watch tv and don't follow celebrities, but what she said is true, m glad for her she get herself out of this.

    • @faisalghummanvlogs14
      @faisalghummanvlogs14 4 роки тому +1

      She has played a role in drama serial DEEWANGI. watch on youtube

    • @adeensyed
      @adeensyed 4 роки тому

      Famous movie maker Nasir abeebz daughter

  • @embraceyourself-
    @embraceyourself- 4 роки тому +9

    Thank you so much zoya. This speech has done something good inside me. I am literally facing all these fears and also some other fears. But after listening this i am now able to understand that what i want someone to do for me is actually what i have to do to for myself.

  • @nasrineable
    @nasrineable 4 роки тому +3

    Zoya I used not to love you in Zebash but you’ve changed my mind today. Respect ✊ to you my dear from Uk 🇬🇧

  • @zohrasaadia8218
    @zohrasaadia8218 3 роки тому +6

    You had supporting family. Ppl like me are left aline even by family in any failure . You were lucky

    • @crewmate7829
      @crewmate7829 3 роки тому

      i wish and pray for your future... never get disappointed please inshaAllah you will have good days soon ✨ my best wishes are with you sister 💫

  • @jibranmalik2680
    @jibranmalik2680 4 роки тому +88

    You are lucky ap kay parents bohot supporting thay many don’t have such parents in life

  • @Fairy_11-w6g
    @Fairy_11-w6g 4 роки тому +8

    Thank TED for letting her speak ..and sharing ur platform

  • @bismazahid1158
    @bismazahid1158 4 роки тому +570

    I saw you first time in Shahveer’s vlog and had a feeling there’s something about this girl. Just came across this video and now I know!

  • @verycute1174
    @verycute1174 2 роки тому +3

    Her words of motivation are as beautiful as herself 🙂

  • @ayansultan3548
    @ayansultan3548 4 роки тому +440

    Who is seeing Zoya after shaveer's vlog😃

  • @pricessuda5778
    @pricessuda5778 4 роки тому +4

    Right ! Never change yourself for someone else happiness because when they're not happy with that it really hurts I suffer from that feeling !...

  • @SaveraNaeem-vb5nr
    @SaveraNaeem-vb5nr 27 днів тому

    She is so beautiful by heart ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    May Allah succeed her in every walk of her life.
    She spoke honest about her to help those who are suffering from it
    May she get many many more blessings & happiness in her life & the hereafter🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤
    .....
    Aameen 🙏

  • @iqraamin1001
    @iqraamin1001 4 роки тому +1

    Zoya Mam I love u because ma boht inspire hui hu apko batoon sy keu k ma bhi apki trha sochti hu but ab nai sochu gi. Thanku Thanku so much apni life hmary sath share krny k liy

  • @rimshamaqbool1269
    @rimshamaqbool1269 3 роки тому +5

    Somehow its a great motivation for many girls around like me. Zoya's parents support her in every moment of life but not all the girls have courage to tell all the failures as well as struggles of their life to anyone because their parents didn't taught them to do so. Still now many girls around need a hand to take just one step of their own choice so that they can live as her own self. May Allah help them all, Allah give them a supportive hand in any way.

  • @saniakhan6455
    @saniakhan6455 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you Zoya for sharing your tough time with us it really really helps so many people who are suffering the same fear and self doubt in their lifes.

  • @amnaali3858
    @amnaali3858 4 роки тому +15

    Soo sad, may Allah keep you happy and safe
    Ameen😔😔

  • @easyhairstyles9766
    @easyhairstyles9766 4 роки тому +243

    BIVIA TO ADULTS HOTI HY BACHIYE TO NEHI that hit me hard 💔💔😞

  • @saminacadeiwala5492
    @saminacadeiwala5492 10 місяців тому

    She is absolutely right. You are inspiration for other.Thank you

  • @safiakhan3434
    @safiakhan3434 3 роки тому +8

    I never knew her story before. Much respect ❤️

  • @AnasKhan-fp2sx
    @AnasKhan-fp2sx 3 роки тому +21

    Who are here after Zoya and betzman breakup 💔

  • @ambermalik3146
    @ambermalik3146 3 роки тому +15

    Remember Zara Noor Abbas also came here and told a same story and in their other interviews they never mention their marriages. Even zara now says that its her first marriage with Asad

    • @Priyankamarwadi9
      @Priyankamarwadi9 3 роки тому

      It’s second we’ve heard it so many times she married someone just because her ex husband allowed her to work in dramas.

  • @fatmafarhat2090
    @fatmafarhat2090 4 роки тому +192

    *Log itni sari jangon k bech Allah Ko kaisy bhul jaty hain*
    *Always remember one thing*
    *K tum chah bhi nhi skty ,agar Allah na chahe*
    *He has control over everything*

    • @misshappy2384
      @misshappy2384 4 роки тому

      Believe in karma

    • @Hani-sj2yx
      @Hani-sj2yx 4 роки тому +1

      exactly whom is your comment directed towards?????

    • @naqshnaz3811
      @naqshnaz3811 2 роки тому

      @@misshappy2384 believe in Allah and follow his orders only if you care for your hereafter life

  • @seemafarheen4024
    @seemafarheen4024 4 роки тому +4

    Really am feeling like u r saying abt me.. thanks dear..I got motivated frm ur words..May ALLAH bless u dear.. n every girl out there in this world who r facing such kind of problems n suffering alott.. bcz of one thing ''LOG KYA KAHENGE" log kuch nahi kahenge.. akhri me Innalillahi wainnailaihi raajiun.. kahenge.. so let them bark..jz pray hard.. n believe in urself.. jz move on..Rest ALLAH will take care

  • @fatimaazhar3421
    @fatimaazhar3421 4 роки тому +40

    Love you soya how confident you are telling about you're life I was but you still smiling
    I watch you're dramas you're youtube in shahveer vlogs you're my inspiration till last day of my life love you💖💖👍👍👏👏👌👌😇😇😊😊❤❤😘😘😍😍💯💯 zoya nasir

  • @Bhavyaxoxo
    @Bhavyaxoxo 2 роки тому +2

    Have seen and liked you in a few dramas. Even more impressed after listening to this talk.

  • @shabubakar7661
    @shabubakar7661 4 роки тому +15

    Inspirational....🔥Just Outstanding for youth...please Spread this message 🖤👍👍

  • @hashim7821
    @hashim7821 4 роки тому +21

    Tbank you TED for letting her come and talk in your platform ❤️

  • @diykhan
    @diykhan 3 роки тому +2

    Mashallah very strong lady
    I agree with your lovely speech
    What a legend
    Stay blessed
    Aameen

  • @alizain460
    @alizain460 4 роки тому +9

    Ye jo sab gane bne hen,ye sab pyar ki waja se ni anxiety ki wajah se hota he.true

  • @amnahussain5921
    @amnahussain5921 4 роки тому +45

    At least you should have paused while Azan . its just Muslims respect..

  • @nabiajunaid868
    @nabiajunaid868 3 роки тому +4

    This really hit me hard immense respect towards you Zoya ALLAH bless you 😇

  • @sarahyousaf5141
    @sarahyousaf5141 3 роки тому +30

    I love how she's with Chris now😍

  • @shahzaibmemon6930
    @shahzaibmemon6930 4 роки тому +40

    Zabardast her talk was so inspiring I also saw her in shahveer vlogs but she is incredible hats off 😍 strong girl who made changes and accepted and converted into success.

    • @muntaharajpoot8808
      @muntaharajpoot8808 4 роки тому

      Itsjust bcz of her family. Family sport is must to be backup ur self

  • @Ghoomo_Phiro855
    @Ghoomo_Phiro855 4 роки тому +6

    She is really soo pretty n her talking style is soo expressive...i really love her ❣️❤️

  • @muhammadadilkhan9187
    @muhammadadilkhan9187 4 роки тому +10

    More POWER to you zoya....we love you...❤

  • @Zulekhazubair999
    @Zulekhazubair999 4 роки тому +28

    I never knew that she was married 👀

  • @hiba.soomro
    @hiba.soomro 3 роки тому +1

    Muje yeh TED talk urdu zaban me sun kr itnaa maza araha hai aur story bhi achi hai boht ❤

  • @namanoberoi5474
    @namanoberoi5474 5 років тому +15

    Yahi Haal hai Sabka. Allah thik rakhey sabko

  • @khizarmumtaz8448
    @khizarmumtaz8448 4 роки тому +88

    She's intelligent & cute 💗🇵🇰
    I didn't see attitude in her personality 💚
    Dewangi mein bohat achi acting ki 💕💔

    • @silentsoulgaming3346
      @silentsoulgaming3346 4 роки тому

      Tum bhosdiwaalo english mat bola karo

    • @khizarmumtaz8448
      @khizarmumtaz8448 4 роки тому

      @@silentsoulgaming3346 Teri trah English jeans nhi Hyn na merey... Q k historically Tm logo ny Nehru ki bv Mont batten ko dya karty thy bister garm krny k lye... Tery lye NHi boli nikal ***k

  • @docmukadas3436
    @docmukadas3436 4 роки тому +18

    Once she has no friend and now she has the world's bestest friends 💙🌈💋🤗

  • @sukhwantbuttar1896
    @sukhwantbuttar1896 4 роки тому +2

    She spoke exactly my story.

  • @darcyiix9296
    @darcyiix9296 4 роки тому +4

    Basic instinct of mind is to follow the path of least resistence, people spend their whole lives choosing what is "easy" rather choosing the "hard way" cause why not? It's easy right?
    I had an epiphany that in order get out of comfort zone, be fearless and not give a sh*t about what other thinks, we need to choose the "hard way", it can be as simple as taking a cold shower in winters not hot, socially anxious? Go say hi to cashier next time you go shopping.
    "Do what you fear and the death of fear is certain."

  • @emanfarrukh1892
    @emanfarrukh1892 4 роки тому +2

    yes u r right there will be people who wont like u or hate u....i agree with u

  • @gulbzu876
    @gulbzu876 2 роки тому

    Zoya ap k experience Jo share un se es situation me Jo lig hn unhy Boht khuch sikhny ko Mila he. Apki baten Boht Achi hn

  • @farahnaz4092
    @farahnaz4092 4 роки тому +9

    I love u Zoya u are such a motivation💜💜

  • @fareesaatif6939
    @fareesaatif6939 4 роки тому +100

    I had to look closely to tell if she was Zoya from Shahveer's vlogs!!!

    • @rafaqat4359
      @rafaqat4359 4 роки тому

      Exactly I just came to know by Seeing the comments..Otherwise I was so confuse that either she is that zoya which is in shahveer vlog or any other Indian girl.

  • @nayeemakhter353
    @nayeemakhter353 4 роки тому +1

    All pakistani girlz r very sensitive .........I luv her all ......like muniba mazari and zoya nasir. ...........also talented nd fearless

  • @saimakhan9668
    @saimakhan9668 4 роки тому +6

    Amazing journey.. worth watching ❤️

  • @arveen4762
    @arveen4762 4 роки тому +6

    12:20-12:25 (CORRECT)

  • @fiddah
    @fiddah 2 роки тому +1

    If ALLAH LOVES a person then that person doesn’t need to feel sad if all or many people seem to hate the person.
    Always focus on obeying ALLAH and stay away from things that ALLAH dislikes.
    ALLAH CREATED us. ALLAH KNOWS WHAT IS BETTER FOR US. ALLAH WANTS good for us.

  • @mariebhatti00
    @mariebhatti00 4 роки тому +16

    I am struggling actor i go through this fear and insecurities alot but this is inspiring

  • @sambayanzai
    @sambayanzai 3 роки тому +6

    I can relate to everything and this was so emotional to hear.

  • @emmymalak8386
    @emmymalak8386 4 роки тому +4

    Inspirational speech she is amazing

  • @zarshalhaiderkhan9452
    @zarshalhaiderkhan9452 4 роки тому +16

    I saw her first time in a drama called hania

  • @319dollykhan
    @319dollykhan 4 роки тому +233

    I love to see zoya when I saw first time in shahveer vlog.I really love to see as a divorce girl doesn't get respect when people may know about it.

  • @javariatv1666
    @javariatv1666 2 роки тому

    I resonate with every word she is saying

  • @umerarathod9214
    @umerarathod9214 2 роки тому +1

    The main fear that every one should have is the fear of ALLAH and the main purpose of life should be pleasing ALLAH not the people and ourselves ..then everything will be alright☺️

  • @aribaanjum5429
    @aribaanjum5429 4 роки тому +4

    I saw Zoya first in pakistani drama deewangi my fav❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @syedasalbahajab2129
    @syedasalbahajab2129 2 місяці тому

    I agree with Zoya, forces schools are so conservative, and they depressed to students badly. Etna pressure dete hain , k bachy ko ajeeb khouf dete hain. Aur teachers extra insult krty hain aur bs marks marks , zyada marks vaaloun ko respect dete Hain. And confidence loose kr dete hain............... I really hate all schools of forces , like fazaia degree college PAF Base Faisal Karachi... Unfortunately

  • @zesohayt3837
    @zesohayt3837 4 роки тому +1

    I listened to this like 9 times in the previous 2-3 hours. I first saw her in Shahveer's vlogs then I saw her on some other channels and now I saw this video and Im so reliefed after watching this video.

  • @mubisoft95
    @mubisoft95 3 роки тому +1

    Such a wonderful inspirational speech.

  • @ummeruqayyah3588
    @ummeruqayyah3588 3 роки тому +2

    Wowww this is soo realisticc👏👏👏hats of this girl MashaAllahh

  • @FashionUpdate183
    @FashionUpdate183 3 роки тому +2

    May your next life filled with love ☺️💞 Ameen

  • @ayeshafaiz1114
    @ayeshafaiz1114 4 роки тому +26

    ARE YOU HERE AFTER WATCHING SHAHVEER'S VLOGS, SO GIVE A THUMBS UP TO LET ME KNOW.
    ALSO HER GREAT UA-cam CHANNELS, LOVE HER TUTORIALS.

  • @msanne8972
    @msanne8972 3 роки тому +2

    Good analysis of fears and how to overcome 👌🏻 love from india 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @319dollykhan
    @319dollykhan 4 роки тому +17

    People treat very bad Ma Shaa Allah you had family support now Alhumulillaj you have achieved you goal of life become a success person masha Allah .but those who had not family support or are not able to do some thing.Those people don't success even though they can't fulfill their desires and dream.

    • @nidamuzammil9658
      @nidamuzammil9658 4 роки тому +2

      Very true...zoya is lucky that she has a supportive family ...for a girl need to be have a supportive parents

  • @emanfarrukh1892
    @emanfarrukh1892 4 роки тому +127

    i think we need to talk fair skin in pakistan. its a very less talked topic in pakistan...like can anyone talk about it...cz i have seen so much racism in pakistan in terms of skin color

    • @realitylover2149
      @realitylover2149 4 роки тому +7

      People believe that whiteness or glowing skin is beauty.😑

    • @emanfarrukh1892
      @emanfarrukh1892 4 роки тому +2

      @@realitylover2149 Yes exactly thats why i think this needs to be highlighted in Pakistan. In europe or other countries color doesnt matter to them but facial features does which is not true in Pakistan
      AND glowing skin and fairness are two different topic. Glowing skin means healthy skin which is good. but fairness relates to ur natural skin tone and is not something that is in ur control

    • @humzasalman
      @humzasalman 4 роки тому +2

      So what are you going to do about it?
      You have a plan?
      If yes let's work on it cuz I like doing such things

    • @realitylover2149
      @realitylover2149 4 роки тому

      @@humzasalman what do you like to do?
      Be more specific.
      What you want do?😐

    • @humzasalman
      @humzasalman 4 роки тому +1

      @@realitylover2149 raise awareness like to talk about these kinda subjects

  • @ijlalrzv814
    @ijlalrzv814 4 роки тому +3

    Best of luck zoya for your future endeavors.

  • @diarana1368
    @diarana1368 3 роки тому

    I’m watching this video again after her breakup with CHRIS ...!
    And really feeling bad for Zoya.....😭😭😢I literally cried ....finally she was happy and moved on with life and again ek or betrayal !!
    Zoya did Allah for Chris 😭😭😢but .....
    Anyway I know ....zoya you are a brave girl and inshallah Allah ne apke Liye bohat Acha socha huwa hei ....
    I’m proud of you girl ...!
    Go girl ....!
    You can do it ....! It will take time to move on ....soooo take your time and Allah give you strength Ameen 🤲lots of love and hugs for your zoya ... Allah apko sabar de Ameen

  • @nkam4311
    @nkam4311 4 роки тому +13

    After having 2 loyal friends she realised she is good enough and just a reminder not everyone is lucky enough to get those 2 friends so just saying it's sometimes better to just understand we all don't have courage to come out of it right away and its OK

  • @lightofgod1130
    @lightofgod1130 4 роки тому +27

    First time I saw you with Chris ♥️ And I am in love wiTh U. Lots of love frOm nOor to zOya ❤️💖

  • @GlobetrotterUptown
    @GlobetrotterUptown 2 роки тому +1

    Zoya bhot achi larkk he 👍
    .
    More power to you 💖💗

  • @abcd-jc5fx
    @abcd-jc5fx 2 роки тому +1

    I like her role in mere humsafar

  • @arfabasharat3643
    @arfabasharat3643 3 роки тому

    Every successful person have a horrible story ....may ALLAH protect all ov us from depression... ameen

  • @sanafarooq6997
    @sanafarooq6997 4 роки тому +5

    Loved the talk. Keep it up Zoya!

  • @quickmeal8513
    @quickmeal8513 4 роки тому +1

    yes how can anybody forget Allah in their life changing phenomena

  • @muhammadashfaq9977
    @muhammadashfaq9977 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you zoya for this message your acting is amazing 😘😘 you are my favourite actress

  • @MuhammedYasir
    @MuhammedYasir 4 роки тому +16

    I am here after seeing her in Voice Over Man 😁
    Who else? 😜

  • @mdvayil6751
    @mdvayil6751 4 роки тому +2

    ALLMIGHTY BLESS U

  • @sammir1257
    @sammir1257 3 роки тому +2

    Anyone here after zoya n chris breakup?

  • @sevenskies7708
    @sevenskies7708 3 роки тому +1

    love you girl... loved your journey n how strong you came out to be ! inspiration♥️ I really needed to hear this 😊

  • @rbbr7293
    @rbbr7293 4 роки тому +4

    Man, she has become my ideal

  • @bonshelabs
    @bonshelabs 4 роки тому +2

    Plzz also invite shahveer jafry I think he also have a story he told a little about his past and it seemed interesting but he didn't tell the entire thing about his past and also about how he started this career and what struggles he came through

  • @surabhis924
    @surabhis924 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video ma'am

  • @abolishkhg-uh
    @abolishkhg-uh Рік тому

    So inspiring

  • @abolishkhg-uh
    @abolishkhg-uh Рік тому

    May Allah gave you more happiness