It’s unfortunate but true that unfulfilled dreams and regrets can sometimes transform into envy, leading to the downfall of others and hindering their success. This can even come from those who are supposed to be your biggest supporters! Throughout my healing journey, I’ve observed that encouragement can often come from unexpected places, sometimes even more from strangers than from those closest to you. Keep radiating positivity, Paula!
Truer words were never spoken. I never realized how far gone I was until I left. Four decades of doom and gloom. A disproportionate expense that I will likely pay until I die. Thank you for saving lives. Now that we have this education...apply it!
Thank you for sharing Leslie and yes I realized in can delay your life best to cut these negative people early. Well you still have life left and enjoy the journey now that you have left and have that light. Thank you I hope I'm helping others with my message thats the goal :)
I just had to completely cut off my mom & my cousin this past spring. I was surrounded by them and kept getting hoovered back in to these same types of succubus types of exchanges... and you know what I realized that I also had to remove another so called 'best friend' from college who most recently began to displays 'weird' energy and starting arguments w/me since i've started to make progress as I've broken away from Chicago and started to move abroad. I've just literally had to cut off 'frens' whose energy for me is not congruent with my vision for me ✌💯
omg I love how you say "Be selfish in your healing journey. Be selfish with your time. - this resonates with me so much! Because these people, these "relationships" have taken so much from us, for so long. Thank you for your video, thank you for your channel
Please just hit the subscribe button as it helps more of us like minded people find us and being apart of our nana journey community is so we don't feel alone in our journeys and our healing towards peace :)
Have you ever thought about freezing your eggs at CNY Fertility in the U.S.? I know that you do not live in the U.S. However, CNY Fertility is a fertility clinic in the U.S. that tries to make egg freezing affordable for everyone. They have multiple locations in the U.S. They also have a payment plan for people who cannot afford to pay a one-time payment. I would imagine that even if you were to pay for a flight and hotel to come to one of the CNY Fertility clinics locations in the U.S. to freeze your eggs the cost of the flight and hotel, plus with down payment and the monthly payment to freeze your eggs at CNY Fertility, it would be a lot more affordable than paying to freeze your eggs for 15,000 pounds. BTW I would recommend for you to pay for 3 cycles if you are going to freeze your eggs because 3 cycles will make you more likely to have enough eggs. Most women are usually recommended to have multiple egg cycles. Here is a link to the CNY Fertility clinic website, www.cnyfertility.com/egg-freezing/ Also if you ever decide to freeze your eggs, I would recommend that you watch the video below to find out things you can do for your reproductive health which can be beneficial if you decide to freeze your eggs one day. The woman in the video is an OB/GYN. ua-cam.com/video/HVkQOHiYYks/v-deo.html
Thank you for being open and vulnerable in your videos. It'll help many people in the same or similar situation. I resonate with you a lot as I've endured hell and narcissist abuse by my mother too. You're absolutely right that in order to heal we need to cut off all negative people even if they're family and even if you end up alone. Do you have an email address or a way of getting in touch with you? I would love to chat with you. Actually I'd love a friend like you but we probably live far away. I'm in Scotland.
My daughter is a narcissist and treated me very badly and spread terrible stories about me and said she would destroy my name so after years of being treated I had to walk away from her ! It’s not always parents to blame for narcissists behaviour it can be your own family! I’m so much happier now and it was a hard decision but after I ended up in hospital because of the stress I had to leave her behind ! She was so spoiled and given everything she had wanted ! I never had nice things and I wanted best for her and no appreciation she just continued the abuse her father gave me and
It's like you are telling my story. If I had known that wanting to give my now deceased son a sibling would result in him deleting himself and causing me so much stress, I would had just ab0rted her, took myself and my son and never looked back. I love my children but I wished that I picked a better father for them. Not only was I abused by my family, also bullied in school, coworkers and members of my neighborhood. Like when does it stop?
I have cut out all negative people . I am spending lots of time with myself . Truly learning the value of “time” and the value of protecting my peace .
I'm really not sure what it is but all my life I've attracted a certain type of narcissist: older, bitter women. I've had maybe 5 different manifestations of this personality in my life at different times & there was always a familiar thread: a feeling that she wanted to control my choices or opinions & a knee jerk reaction of me not wanting to trust them which really seems to upset this specific type of person. They live for others wanting their advice so me wanting to do things my own way personally offends them. Normally they will try even harder to take me under their wing until they finally realize that will never happen & they inevitably start to hate me. Like idc how old you are, that doesn't make you wise or mean I need to model my life after yours
Always waiting for us to fall flat on our face, to see our downfall.
It’s unfortunate but true that unfulfilled dreams and regrets can sometimes transform into envy, leading to the downfall of others and hindering their success. This can even come from those who are supposed to be your biggest supporters! Throughout my healing journey, I’ve observed that encouragement can often come from unexpected places, sometimes even more from strangers than from those closest to you. Keep radiating positivity, Paula!
@@thenanajourney spot on true. Thank you.
Truer words were never spoken. I never realized how far gone I was until I left. Four decades of doom and gloom. A disproportionate expense that I will likely pay until I die. Thank you for saving lives. Now that we have this education...apply it!
Thank you for sharing Leslie and yes I realized in can delay your life best to cut these negative people early. Well you still have life left and enjoy the journey now that you have left and have that light. Thank you I hope I'm helping others with my message thats the goal :)
Thank you for sharing. I delayed my life too long for others i no longer want to waste any time or allow toxcicity in my life
I just had to completely cut off my mom & my cousin this past spring. I was surrounded by them and kept getting hoovered back in to these same types of succubus types of exchanges... and you know what I realized that I also had to remove another so called 'best friend' from college who most recently began to displays 'weird' energy and starting arguments w/me since i've started to make progress as I've broken away from Chicago and started to move abroad. I've just literally had to cut off 'frens' whose energy for me is not congruent with my vision for me ✌💯
omg I love how you say "Be selfish in your healing journey. Be selfish with your time. - this resonates with me so much! Because these people, these "relationships" have taken so much from us, for so long. Thank you for your video, thank you for your channel
Family and friendships are for fools. Self is everything
amen to that
Please just hit the subscribe button as it helps more of us like minded people find us and being apart of our nana journey community is so we don't feel alone in our journeys and our healing towards peace :)
Have you ever thought about freezing your eggs at CNY Fertility in the U.S.? I know that you do not live in the U.S. However, CNY Fertility is a fertility clinic in the U.S. that tries to make egg freezing affordable for everyone. They have multiple locations in the U.S. They also have a payment plan for people who cannot afford to pay a one-time payment. I would imagine that even if you were to pay for a flight and hotel to come to one of the CNY Fertility clinics locations in the U.S. to freeze your eggs the cost of the flight and hotel, plus with down payment and the monthly payment to freeze your eggs at CNY Fertility, it would be a lot more affordable than paying to freeze your eggs for 15,000 pounds. BTW I would recommend for you to pay for 3 cycles if you are going to freeze your eggs because 3 cycles will make you more likely to have enough eggs. Most women are usually recommended to have multiple egg cycles. Here is a link to the CNY Fertility clinic website, www.cnyfertility.com/egg-freezing/
Also if you ever decide to freeze your eggs, I would recommend that you watch the video below to find out things you can do for your reproductive health which can be beneficial if you decide to freeze your eggs one day. The woman in the video is an OB/GYN.
ua-cam.com/video/HVkQOHiYYks/v-deo.html
Thank you for being open and vulnerable in your videos. It'll help many people in the same or similar situation. I resonate with you a lot as I've endured hell and narcissist abuse by my mother too. You're absolutely right that in order to heal we need to cut off all negative people even if they're family and even if you end up alone. Do you have an email address or a way of getting in touch with you? I would love to chat with you. Actually I'd love a friend like you but we probably live far away. I'm in Scotland.
My daughter is a narcissist and treated me very badly and spread terrible stories about me and said she would destroy my name so after years of being treated I had to walk away from her !
It’s not always parents to blame for narcissists behaviour it can be your own family!
I’m so much happier now and it was a hard decision but after I ended up in hospital because of the stress I had to leave her behind ! She was so spoiled and given everything she had wanted ! I never had nice things and I wanted best for her and no appreciation she just continued the abuse her father gave me and
It's like you are telling my story.
If I had known that wanting to give my now deceased son a sibling would result in him deleting himself and causing me so much stress, I would had just ab0rted her, took myself and my son and never looked back.
I love my children but I wished that I picked a better father for them.
Not only was I abused by my family, also bullied in school, coworkers and members of my neighborhood.
Like when does it stop?
how to move on when not financially independent?:( both my parents are narcissists
I have cut out all negative people . I am spending lots of time with myself . Truly learning the value of “time” and the value of protecting my peace .
i had this speech from my wife ..i was told i was being negative when i tried to curtail her credit card spending ..
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Yes, yes, yes!!! I know exactly what you're talking about! Soooo true!
You are such an inspiration to me. You are making me feel so much better about my life 💛🌟🙌✨💫 I love you soul sister
You are a strong and intelligent person. I agree with you and thanks for sharing your story and encouragement for others ❤
New here and loving it. Extremely relatable ❤
im neutral around people and see more then when i was positive or negative😉
It’s time ❤
I'm really not sure what it is but all my life I've attracted a certain type of narcissist: older, bitter women. I've had maybe 5 different manifestations of this personality in my life at different times & there was always a familiar thread: a feeling that she wanted to control my choices or opinions & a knee jerk reaction of me not wanting to trust them which really seems to upset this specific type of person. They live for others wanting their advice so me wanting to do things my own way personally offends them. Normally they will try even harder to take me under their wing until they finally realize that will never happen & they inevitably start to hate me. Like idc how old you are, that doesn't make you wise or mean I need to model my life after yours
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u r right😓
Nana, have you a channel email address? Namaste, Leslie
If mom gave us everything we need, growing up. We have 2 make sure; she has everything she needs, when she is older. 😇
Have you started you ASMR channel yet :) xxx