I suppose whether I knew it or not? All those years ago, 34 yrs ago, I handled that amazingly well with my then ex-wife, the first time I was at her place, and something happened between us, I didn’t call back for 3 days or more. The next thing I knew she was all over me, on the phone, begging me to come back over etc. Either I was way cool more than I knew, and willing to press forward for more options, or perhaps I figured she wasn’t happy with the performance and that was that. I often wonder what would have happened if she had not called back, all those years ago?
Please teach men how to be effective communicators rather than play games. Perhaps gen Z women have an issue with candid transparency and compliments but the rest of us do not. What's wrong with a man letting a woman know that he had a great time with her? Nothing. Being aloof and distant, especially in the beginning when you're showing a person who you are, can lead to a breakdown before the car even starts.
I suppose whether I knew it or not? All those years ago, 34 yrs ago, I handled that amazingly well with my then ex-wife, the first time I was at her place, and something happened between us, I didn’t call back for 3 days or more.
The next thing I knew she was all over me, on the phone, begging me to come back over etc.
Either I was way cool more than I knew, and willing to press forward for more options, or perhaps I figured she wasn’t happy with the performance and that was that.
I often wonder what would have happened if she had not called back, all those years ago?
Please teach men how to be effective communicators rather than play games. Perhaps gen Z women have an issue with candid transparency and compliments but the rest of us do not. What's wrong with a man letting a woman know that he had a great time with her? Nothing. Being aloof and distant, especially in the beginning when you're showing a person who you are, can lead to a breakdown before the car even starts.
I teach both men and women how to be better communicators but also build the tension needed to exit the courtship phase and into a relationship