HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED IN YOU OR JUST BEING NICE

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  • Wondering how to tell if she's interested OR JUST BEING NICE? Signals easily get crossed in these situations and it can make relationships messy. Check these signs she likes you romantically so you don't get friend-zoned again.
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  • @emlovz
    @emlovz  3 роки тому +276

    What signs is the woman you’re dating giving you to make you feel like she’s interested, or just being nice........?

    • @michaelatwood6656
      @michaelatwood6656 2 роки тому +11

      Most of them usually say that they feel so comfortable when they talk to me that they feel like they could tell me anything because I don't judge them mainly because I pay them the attention they diserve and I respect them enough to be upfront and honest sometimes when I am in the middle of a conversation with someone and I am just meeting a girl in a conversation I can spot out their attention to me especially when they are shy because they like to conveniently jump in a conversation and relate my interests with there own. For instance about a week ago i was in line at a grocery store and seen an old friend and said I wish I had a couple of kayaks to take on the water and the woman checking out in front of me jumps in and asked me if it was scary because she always wanted to do that but couldn't swim very good. Eventually I ended up getting her number to hook up and take her sometime unfortunately come down with covid 2 days later and still under quarantine presently

    • @pergustafsson1155
      @pergustafsson1155 2 роки тому +8

      Well, mirroring is kind of a classic. You do some kind move, take some kind of stance, take some kind of posture ,start playing with your wine glass or whatever. After a few seconds you catch her doing the exact same thing as you do, to create some kind of bond the too of you.

    • @breaks3085
      @breaks3085 2 роки тому +3

      some women will use born methods depending on the environment, if she's at work she may not be too obvious/ vocal she likes a guy cos she may not want others to know, but then stares at you /gives sly looks while licking her lips,

    • @robertlilly4703
      @robertlilly4703 2 роки тому +2

      What if they run to the backroom and come back out in a minute?

    • @digitalian2022
      @digitalian2022 2 роки тому +4

      I'm so slow ... Thank you💕👍

  • @disgruntledconservativevet1798
    @disgruntledconservativevet1798 Рік тому +2615

    It’s less confusing just to stay single. It’s a hell of a lot cheaper too.

    • @jamesoeming5022
      @jamesoeming5022 Рік тому +102

      LOL You betcha!

    • @aj3751
      @aj3751 Рік тому +153

      And a hell of a lot more lonely. Do you enjoy being the only single friend on a night out? I don't.

    • @allykid4720
      @allykid4720 Рік тому +159

      @@aj3751 Try to meditate, soon will become comfortable with being lonely.

    • @V8ToYy
      @V8ToYy Рік тому +53

      @@allykid4720 not really, humans need other humans. can short periods without it but it will eventually effect you

    • @allykid4720
      @allykid4720 Рік тому +96

      @@V8ToYy Humans have other humans: you have yourself to be with in the first place. Who's more reliable, amicable and loyal person to you: yourself, or that random chick?
      One also has friends, parents, brothers and sisters, whom he knows his whole life. But strangely, that chick he knows for two weeks suddenly becomes the center of his universe.

  • @jaredjadlowski2433
    @jaredjadlowski2433 2 роки тому +1342

    I’ve been “cute” and “sweet” my whole life, it means you’re friend zoned

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 роки тому +120

      Not always true. Check the tone and inflection of her voice.

    • @jaredjadlowski2433
      @jaredjadlowski2433 2 роки тому +163

      @@emlovz it happened a lot when I was younger, now that I’m 36 nobody calls me much of anything anymore

    • @anthonyc70
      @anthonyc70 2 роки тому +55

      Wow...I could have had a V-8.

    • @Treadstone7
      @Treadstone7 2 роки тому +95

      I have heard this before, cute is not a description you want to fit as a man...

    • @jaredjadlowski2433
      @jaredjadlowski2433 2 роки тому +8

      @@Treadstone7 it must be nice to be able to control what others think about them and get everything you want- you might want to talk to emlovz, she disagrees- and you might want to read previous replies so that you have a frame of reference

  • @justjim3168
    @justjim3168 3 місяці тому +153

    Always assume that she's just being nice, then ignore her.
    Stay safe guys.

    • @Zappy1210
      @Zappy1210 Місяць тому +4

      Was about to post the very same thing. 100% the best way to go.

    • @user-eg7yt2gg5f
      @user-eg7yt2gg5f Місяць тому

      Hahaha this comment reminds me of 40yr old Virgin. "I respect women so much I stay away from them" idk if that's how it goes but you get the jist

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 28 днів тому

      ​@@user-eg7yt2gg5fwife back door not allowed ect

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 28 днів тому

      ​@@Zappy1210don't die as a disbeliever

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 28 днів тому

      Wife back door not allowed ect

  • @TheMusic4Soul
    @TheMusic4Soul 5 місяців тому +223

    Very helpful. Now I know, that nobody is interested in me. Thanks.

    • @billburr5881
      @billburr5881 4 місяці тому +28

      They will never be interested in you - only what you can do for her.
      How attractive her friends find you enhances her reputation among that group, your status, your money. How you compare to the other men around her.
      You are just a delivery method for these benefits.

    • @kelly2558
      @kelly2558 2 місяці тому +3

      Being cynical and self defeatist won’t bring you one step closer to improving things either.

    • @Youtuber-o
      @Youtuber-o 2 місяці тому

      Beside all the obvious things you should be doing like taking good care of your personal hygiene and dressing like a man, not a boy... Learn game, that's it. you do that, you'll get women.

    • @nelsonwilbury6162
      @nelsonwilbury6162 Місяць тому +1

      Wild amounts of incels in these comments, right?

    • @R.Bilquist
      @R.Bilquist Місяць тому

      I thought it was being funny. That’s exactly the quip I woulda made ;) funny guys get women too.. everyone likes someone not too boring.

  • @mikemiller8221
    @mikemiller8221 2 роки тому +288

    one way to tell if a girl likes you is by her feet for an example if they are behind her ears she really likes you

    • @bwghall1
      @bwghall1 5 місяців тому +6

      I am older generation and we say Knee level with her ears.

    • @kimmorrison9169
      @kimmorrison9169 4 місяці тому +4

      Took me a second to get that comment, very good one🤣

    • @magicalesquilax7232
      @magicalesquilax7232 4 місяці тому +2

      hahahhaha you made my day

    • @OregonDARRYL
      @OregonDARRYL 3 місяці тому +4

      That also means I really like her.

    • @MichaelRector-qf7xp
      @MichaelRector-qf7xp 3 місяці тому

      I was hoping that was a woman that was saying that but no it was a guy

  • @rajkoelguapo12
    @rajkoelguapo12 Рік тому +217

    One thing I pay attention to is how many questions they ask. If she's highly interested, she'll want to know a lot about you.

    • @neetrab
      @neetrab Рік тому +11

      This is very true

    • @SirenaSpades
      @SirenaSpades Рік тому +4

      That comes later. You need to get to that point first.

    • @JuanTorres-ny9ff
      @JuanTorres-ny9ff Рік тому +3

      @@SirenaSpades Excuse me, if I make a bold move, and she stops me from keep on; it means she doesn't want me to get to that point, is it that?

    • @zachbocchino5501
      @zachbocchino5501 11 місяців тому +7

      Her: Where do you live?
      Me: Outside of town
      Her: House or apartment?
      Me: House
      Her: Dogs or cats?
      Me: Dogs
      Her: Do you have a dog?
      Me:Yes
      Her: Red or Blue?
      Me: Blue
      Her: Why not Red?
      Me: Don't know
      Her: What do you do for work?
      Me: Laboring stuff at a retail store
      Her: What are you interested in?
      Me: Lots of things
      Her: Do you have a car?
      Me: No
      Her: How come?
      Me: It's a long story
      Her: Do you even drive?
      Me: No
      Her: Why not?
      Me: It's even a longer story
      Her: Do you have a girlfriend?
      Me: Don't have one
      Her: How come?
      Me: Haven't met the right person
      Her: Would you like to go out with me?
      Me: What's your record for consecutive questions asked?
      Her: 156
      Me: I would like to go out with you, alright.

    • @DJS4497
      @DJS4497 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@SirenaSpades How do you get to that point?

  • @maxjakobi4418
    @maxjakobi4418 4 місяці тому +28

    Like Einstein said: I could try to understand womans nature. But I decided to go the easy way, I did quantum physics 😂

  • @risefromyourpain
    @risefromyourpain 9 місяців тому +34

    If she’s interested, you won’t have to ask yourself if she’s interested. Fact

  • @pergustafsson1155
    @pergustafsson1155 2 роки тому +329

    She's interested in you.
    0:59​ She uses words like "cute" and "sweet".
    1:49 She wants to be close to you.
    2:10 She wants to be one on one.
    2:34 She's being sense-itive.
    3:28 She offers to do things for you.
    3:44 She gets deep with you.
    4:20 She’s touchy.
    4:44 She allowes you in her personal space.
    5:04 I'm really glad.
    5:24 She wonders where you are.
    5:44 She's energetic around you.
    6:01 She's looking at you.
    6:24 She's blushing.
    6:50 She's asks for your number.
    7:13 She wants to hang out in the future.
    7:44 The heart to heart hug.
    8:26 She touches her hair.
    8:55 She teases you.
    9:14 She tries to get your attention.
    Just being nice.
    10:34 She doesn't initiate convos.
    11:06 Conversations are surface level.
    11:28 Eye contact but no blushing.
    11:52 She talk about other guys.
    12:28 There's touching, but as a friend.
    12:49 She doesn't reciprocate affection.
    13:11 She doesn’t tease you playfully.
    13:23 She treats you the same as everyone.
    13:44 She doesn't really look at you.
    14:04 She's just being proffessional.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 роки тому +34

      This is really cool! Thanks for taking the time to do this!

    • @pergustafsson1155
      @pergustafsson1155 2 роки тому +21

      @@emlovz You’re welcome!! I did it because you shared a great video, that i know I’ll revisit more than once. 😀🥰 Otherwise i wouldn’t have bothered. If i’m helping others too is just a bonus. 🤣

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 роки тому +14

      @@pergustafsson1155 Major karma points my friend!

    • @jaredjadlowski2433
      @jaredjadlowski2433 2 роки тому +2

      Professional*

    • @raymelleonardo7149
      @raymelleonardo7149 2 роки тому +5

      Eh i had girl tell me im cute and sweet and i still smashed lol soo idk

  • @Payne..
    @Payne.. 2 роки тому +93

    Being sweet and cute are guaranteed to get you in the friendzone

  • @RedAlert987
    @RedAlert987 6 місяців тому +33

    I believe if people click they just click nothing more and nothing less

    • @equinoxb8711
      @equinoxb8711 4 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, attraction is not a choice. Just a numbers game.

  • @kevinbarber7640
    @kevinbarber7640 8 місяців тому +117

    Being single beats out getting rejected 99.9% of the time... It hurts being rejected so much that men lose confidence and say it is not even worth it. Dating apps are the WORST!!!

    • @3loy612
      @3loy612 6 місяців тому +10

      That’s the problem you’re using dating apps lmao women have more options on the apps if you go out and actually make connections with women it’s not as bad bc they actually get to know your personality instead of just seeing pics of you

    • @erikarnold5220
      @erikarnold5220 6 місяців тому +2

      I don''t even waist my time with dating apps anymore. Complete waste of time.

    • @FRWD_FXLRST
      @FRWD_FXLRST 6 місяців тому +9

      Lol, being rejected doesn’t hurt at all, you didn’t lose anything.

    • @amelbaghdad381
      @amelbaghdad381 6 місяців тому +2

      You get nothing to lose,,beats being without her company..it only takes $$$😂

    • @Cortesevasive
      @Cortesevasive 6 місяців тому +8

      Thats your problem, women can smell that you are emotionally weak. You have to be self motivated and dont give a f.

  • @DuaLeaD
    @DuaLeaD 11 місяців тому +186

    Getting a woman into her senses and getting her to FEEL emotions around you is great advice.
    People won't remember what you said but they remember how you made them feel.

    • @antsups
      @antsups 9 місяців тому +16

      with women it's all about how you make them feel. With men it's all about respect. Simple stuff really.

    • @youtuber3328
      @youtuber3328 9 місяців тому +6

      in elementary school we learn FACT vs OPINION so who's to determine and/or say these things SERIOUSLY

    • @kiwidiesel
      @kiwidiesel 9 місяців тому +6

      ​@@antsupswoman's feels change daily too😂

    • @antsups
      @antsups 9 місяців тому

      @kiwidiesel oh and did I imply that you make them feel one feeling and it stays put? As long as you and her bounce off each other well it's all good

    • @Sandro-ij7te
      @Sandro-ij7te 8 місяців тому +1

      Women don't deserve my attention

  • @Nonamed70
    @Nonamed70 Рік тому +67

    okay so after watching this, this just confirmed my theory that in fact there was not a single woman in my life that was genuinely interested in me, thanks for clarifying :)

  • @anthonypearce6506
    @anthonypearce6506 8 місяців тому +36

    Nearly 6 years being single it’s not that bad it is nice having company now and again but I do prefer being alone

  • @lalomex1123
    @lalomex1123 5 місяців тому +56

    She literally did all of these, i just hesistated because there's a large age gap between us and didnt want to misjudge it and get labeled a creep. After i made my move she mentioned shes been trying to manifest me making a move😂. Goin out on saturday:)

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  5 місяців тому +4

      Nice work!

    • @MrWhaatay
      @MrWhaatay 4 місяці тому

      How big is the age gap and who is older?

    • @lalomex1123
      @lalomex1123 4 місяці тому +10

      @@MrWhaatay i'm 31, she's 18
      Update: she was playing games but I could tell and played along long enough to at least..you know. Lol think we both knew neither of us was stupid and it kinda just ended as quickly as it happened. Lol

    • @MrWhaatay
      @MrWhaatay 4 місяці тому +1

      @@lalomex1123 Thank you for the reply.

    • @theusixion4165
      @theusixion4165 4 місяці тому +4

      @@lalomex1123 It's weird, isn't it? Mine is even worse- 44 & 18... I'm really flattered, and it's making me a little crazy, but I don't want to be unfair to her (I'm old and gimpy because I got hit by a truck many years ago.) It's very confusing, because she is doing all of these things.

  • @larrybird3729
    @larrybird3729 Рік тому +188

    Sadly most these things overlap with being in the friend zone.

    • @MidnightMark12
      @MidnightMark12 Рік тому +20

      Hey, that's the "No Divorce Zone".
      It's even better than it sounds.

    • @spinninggood
      @spinninggood Рік тому +1

      Lol..no shit,huh

    • @timjummichuck
      @timjummichuck 9 місяців тому +8

      Are you saying women send mixed signals and have no idea what or who they are and only know the stimulation of their environment on their senses like some kind of insect? Because if that's what your saying, lollerfall roflcopter lmaotrain bud

    • @youtuber3328
      @youtuber3328 9 місяців тому

      in elementary school we learn FACT vs OPINION and before covid we had 7.6 BILLION people and life as a whole still VARIES ALL in ALL SERIOUSLY why wouldn't it

    • @youtuber3328
      @youtuber3328 9 місяців тому

      last i checked ALL 5 star ratings belong to emlovz

  • @ptrichie71
    @ptrichie71 Рік тому +146

    I fell for all the "she's interested " signs - turns out she was playing me for a fool and ended up dating the guy she'd told me "had no chance " 🤷🏼‍♂️🤣

    • @venomsymbiote7555
      @venomsymbiote7555 Рік тому +24

      What can we do? They are the devil and nothing in history has ever changed them for the better. Im sorry bro

    • @ptrichie71
      @ptrichie71 Рік тому +22

      @venomsymbiote7555 dodged a bullet bro 😆

    • @lestrum
      @lestrum Рік тому +10

      @@venomsymbiote7555 Its all an inexact science. While the advice is basically helpful, there is no " one size fits all" as you discovered.

    • @sonicmoj1
      @sonicmoj1 Рік тому +2

      @@ptrichie71 Exactly. Feel blest! Trust me!

    • @ptrichie71
      @ptrichie71 Рік тому +5

      @sonicmoj1 absolutely bud! Bullet dodged! I've already survived a relationship where I was a glorified baby sitter to a single mother that had no interest in her son!

  • @SpeedwayRon
    @SpeedwayRon 8 місяців тому +4

    As a gas station manager, I see many of these traits in play every day. As a married man, I am often amused just watching how men and women behave around one another. Younger men and women are often surprised when I let them know someone is clearly interested in them. It's kind of awesome when they don't realize it themselves.

  • @johnguzman7425
    @johnguzman7425 6 місяців тому +7

    The lack of blinking when you speak/ smiling-eye contact- laughing at your jokes-HEAD TILT-Feet pointed towards you

  • @kevinfhaney
    @kevinfhaney Рік тому +24

    no money no wife

  • @RoyalCaribbeanCruiseChronicles
    @RoyalCaribbeanCruiseChronicles Рік тому +60

    Eye contact is an important clue and someone who’s focused on you as you’re the only person in the room. Those are key.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +2

      Huge.

    • @boracay12
      @boracay12 Рік тому

      if her ankles are on your shoulders she is probably interested in sex

    • @gdfggggg
      @gdfggggg 8 місяців тому +4

      They also do the opposite to what you might think to get your interested. They deliberately ignore you in the hope you’ll make the extra effort to engage. Some are outwardly interested, some do the opposite.

    • @DavidHernandez-dk1zs
      @DavidHernandez-dk1zs 4 місяці тому +3

      I dated a woman who would almost stare into my soul and we had such an amazing connection, her love felt so real, and I swear she loved me the same just as back. She still ended up cheating on me. So honestly women are just unpredictable, the fact she is a woman is already enough for her to cheat on you, it’s best to just never let your guard down or stay single

    • @4MyTube4Ever
      @4MyTube4Ever 4 місяці тому

      ​@@DavidHernandez-dk1zsim afraid same happend to me what were the signs she cheated? I had a person who allways eye locked me later on she wanted to speak with me.she Look in her shoes (allways)

  • @jayayyyyy
    @jayayyyyy 8 місяців тому

    Thank you! Some of these tips actually are new & surprising. I am closer to confirming that a woman I know & interact with is interested in me and does like me, rather than just being professional & 'nice'!

  • @pedroponcepapa
    @pedroponcepapa 6 місяців тому +8

    I like how you explain things. I understand everything you say. Down to earth.
    Love it.

  • @dedeborya9015
    @dedeborya9015 Рік тому +73

    Never confuse customer service vs attraction
    Not in the cafe / strip club / relationship / marriage.
    Take Time, Energy, Attention and Money off the table - if she disappears, she was a customer service widget.

    • @darylhopkins9796
      @darylhopkins9796 Рік тому +1

      Facts 💯

    • @350Scrambler
      @350Scrambler Рік тому

      Well said. 👍

    • @stephensmith4124
      @stephensmith4124 Рік тому +1

      Not so sure, there was once a Barrista who always wanted to talk to me and keep a convo even with a line behind me, in line she would make a point of saying 'Hi' and wanted a response (I was thinking about something I needed to do later and didn't see her coming past, completely in my world) pretty sure she was interested in me, but she had a boyfriend and later got pregnant so that was the end of that

    • @youtuber3328
      @youtuber3328 9 місяців тому

      please tell me can and will you provide proof AT ALL ESPECIALLY since we learned FACT vs OPINION in elementary school and since we previously had 7.6 BILLION people before covid

    • @youtuber3328
      @youtuber3328 9 місяців тому

      in elementary school we learn FACT vs OPINION and it's a FACT that before covid we had 7.6 BILLION people

  • @chrisebbesen5798
    @chrisebbesen5798 Рік тому +45

    I AGREE, ITS LESS CONFUDING TO JUST STAY SINGLE

    • @JuanTorres-ny9ff
      @JuanTorres-ny9ff Рік тому +4

      Yes, you will miss the enjoyment of having a woman.

    • @SilverBullet22250
      @SilverBullet22250 11 місяців тому +2

      @@JuanTorres-ny9ff And appreciate the fact of not being played by someone sending you mixed singles.👌

    • @williamvanholder3368
      @williamvanholder3368 9 місяців тому +1

      @@JuanTorres-ny9ff the misery of having a woman you mean

    • @JuanTorres-ny9ff
      @JuanTorres-ny9ff 9 місяців тому

      @@williamvanholder3368 Most of them undoubtedly will bring misery to any man, but there are a few of them that are gold, that kind I'm refering to.

    • @youtuber3328
      @youtuber3328 9 місяців тому

      in elementary school we learn FACT vs OPINION and before covid we had 7.6 BILLION people and life as a whole still VARIES ALL in ALL SERIOUSLY why wouldn't it

  • @larrydee8859
    @larrydee8859 8 місяців тому +1

    Great video Emy!
    You're very analytical, pointing out both points of view, of whether or not a woman is interested.
    Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @user-kx4ti9db8g
    @user-kx4ti9db8g 6 місяців тому +8

    I met a woman who didn't feel that we were a romantic match, but getting to know her was a wonderful experience for me. She's an incredibly kind person, and it was a unique pleasure to know her. So I consider that a win!

    • @user-kx4ti9db8g
      @user-kx4ti9db8g 6 місяців тому

      ​@@CortesevasiveI have never put this woman on a pedestal. She had flaws just like any other woman does.

    • @josephtreadlightly5686
      @josephtreadlightly5686 3 місяці тому

      Businesses like the one I'm working for has Code of Conduct & Ethics training for business that is all very positive & necessary in the work force. Too many companies are losing good employees due to the toxic ones. These toxic ones they've had for a while haven't had the training or live anything that resembles a professional standard of Ethics. Many things were given to us like the Golden Rule but that might be something that isn't in the public school curriculum these days. 😢

    • @Cortesevasive
      @Cortesevasive 3 місяці тому

      @@user-kx4ti9db8g yes you did, who thefuk calls smb incredibly kind. Uniquepleasure ?, dude do you talk like that about the guys you meet?.

  • @michaeldiffey3791
    @michaeldiffey3791 Рік тому +38

    If you catch a woman looking at you and paying attention to a conversation you're having with someone else. She probably likes you.

    • @youtuber3328
      @youtuber3328 9 місяців тому +1

      your PROBABLY right and before covid we had 7.6 BILLION people and life as a whole still VARIES ALL in ALL SERIOUSLY why wouldn't it

    • @hawaiidoc808
      @hawaiidoc808 3 місяці тому +1

      Or she’s a cop 👮‍♀️

    • @magorzatamargaret294
      @magorzatamargaret294 14 днів тому

      @@hawaiidoc808 LoL

  • @rocke1ne
    @rocke1ne Рік тому +22

    here is a twist... I thought I was in the friend zone until I started a flirtatious conversation... then everything changed... I was not in the friend zone anymore... they just wanted to know my interest level.

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 8 місяців тому +1

    I have been a few times in the rejection/ non-reciprocation events and is just what it is and good to find out early instead of later !!!

  • @farmoar
    @farmoar 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm glad to have stumbled on this video. I've been beating myself up mentally, for the past couple of weeks. Thought a female friend wanted to be more (very large cluster of "signs she's interested", only 1 or 2 "signs she's just being nice"), so I took my shot and told her how I felt.
    It backfired, and now she doesn't to be in each other's lives. I've been doubting/second guessing myself since that night, that I had read too much into things.
    But this video gives me a little bit of hope that maybe I wasn't the problem. That it wasn't all my fault.
    Thank you for that.

    • @MegaWilson82
      @MegaWilson82 3 місяці тому

      The mistake you made is telling her how you feel.
      It would have been better to ‘show’ rather than tell.
      Practically speaking this would mean creating situations where you could go out with her without calling it a date and use the opportunity to flirt with her and build tension/chemistry with the aim of making a move to kiss her.
      If that’s not going to happen then you’ll know about it quite quickly and you can move on to another girl.
      Telling a girl how you feel about her is the fastest way to make her reject you.

    • @farmoar
      @farmoar 3 місяці тому

      @@MegaWilson82 nah, honesty is better than trying to deceive her.

    • @MegaWilson82
      @MegaWilson82 3 місяці тому +1

      @@farmoar Read my post again. I don’t say anything about deceiving her.
      I said show her rather than tell her. Let your actions do the talking.

  • @StephenDoty84
    @StephenDoty84 Рік тому +18

    One of the surest signals from a girl, whether she has a boyfriend or an imaginary one, is when she says, "My boyfriend would love this." And points to something in the room. I've seen a hot girl do that. The guy turned cold & distant after that. And a few days later, she acted surprised when she tried to be friendly with him, as if unaware of what went wrong.

  • @dustingreen9274
    @dustingreen9274 2 роки тому +15

    I found when they say your sweet sometimes that means your friend zoned

  • @dennisqueener5208
    @dennisqueener5208 Місяць тому

    You're pretty spot on, I'm sure you've helped a lot of guy's with this post.
    Thanks for validating what I've learned in the past.
    Looking fwd to your next video 🙂

  • @FreeSoul132
    @FreeSoul132 9 місяців тому +1

    Great vid thanks , things to keep an eye on in future .

  • @jeffsmith8197
    @jeffsmith8197 Рік тому +34

    There's always the age old classic when she leaps on you like the facehugger from Alien. BTW, after dating since the early 70's, I realized that every time I thought a woman was really interested, she totally wasn't and I made a fool of myself. I've had girls that clammed up and avoided eye contact who were actually crazy about me. You never know, guys!

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +3

      Don't give up :)

    • @jeffsmith8197
      @jeffsmith8197 Рік тому

      @@emlovz Ce n’est pas la mer à boire. It's not as if you have to drink the sea.

    • @Chuncy566
      @Chuncy566 4 місяці тому

      Go a head and give up its ok

  • @d.leroy2567
    @d.leroy2567 Рік тому +13

    No matter how she says sweet or cute you’re heading to the zone just keep your distance I get called sweet all the time and nothing happens

  • @Thomasjohn1490
    @Thomasjohn1490 9 місяців тому

    Wow, you are just great. You have provided more than enough information to recognize what her actions mean. Good job Emlovz!

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  9 місяців тому

      Thank you

  • @DanielBEDoffen.
    @DanielBEDoffen. 19 днів тому

    I must say thank you. It is wonderful to hear a woman say that. It is clear signs, but also many signs i have heard from many men, but some how it is nicer to hear it from a woman.

  • @aufhflskih6830
    @aufhflskih6830 2 роки тому +10

    this video taught me that she's sending mixed signals. yay for mixed signals.

  • @drvee1983
    @drvee1983 Рік тому +13

    Thank you for posting this.
    Even if we knew this before, or saw the signs our whole lives, sometimes we forget, or need to be reminded.
    When we miss those signs, we could be missing allot more that could've come later.

  • @stanimal3124
    @stanimal3124 5 місяців тому

    You give good advice Emlovz. A few pointers from your other videos helped me get digits from the woman I was most attracted to at my first singles mixer. I also like how you point out using the advice as "data-points." A combination of signs is more realistic than one magic solution.

  • @roxfire23
    @roxfire23 18 днів тому

    Think the low whistle takes the cake on this one, has a nice mellow tone and also the echos of the forest help that

  • @DD-ic1bd
    @DD-ic1bd Рік тому +18

    "Blushing, teasing, joking, poking.."😂 these are the best signs!! Lol!
    The most obvious signs I give when interested in a man more than friends.. subtlety flirting while looking in his eyes, lightly touching him when talking, smiling a lot and giggling, lol.. allowing some contact, without pulling away.. talking in a seductive, but still classy way... if a woman knows you like her, but you are being respectful.. if she's feeling the mutual attraction.. she will even make the first move sometimes and kiss you!;))

    • @piratecat990
      @piratecat990 Місяць тому +1

      Just tell him you like him, and that you don'tconsider him a creep. It will be 100% easier.

  • @joaquin67
    @joaquin67 Рік тому +8

    Omg... ironically enough, paying attention to senses is the most logical thing I've heard when it comes to being more in terms of emotion. Thank you.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому

      You're welcome.

  • @tallman4040
    @tallman4040 8 місяців тому

    Interesting video, thanks for letting me know that no woman has ever been interested in me. but I already knew that.

  • @johnstephanos1128
    @johnstephanos1128 5 місяців тому +1

    The signs she mentioned are a good starting point, but there's more to it. Prolonged eye contact, smiling, finding reasons to touch you, and having meaningful conversations might work for some women, but everyone's different. Women are naturally drawn to confidence, so your body language and how you carry yourself can make a noticeable difference in how she responds to you.

  • @bettys5100
    @bettys5100 Рік тому +5

    So on point about the dude, bro, man comment. Even if I’m dating someone, once I say any of those to then it’s game over. It means they’ve already put me on offense/defense mode and I’m no longer interested. You’ve shown me that your ego will trump ALL and you make me feel unsafe.

  • @darylhopkins9796
    @darylhopkins9796 Рік тому +22

    Real simple math. Nice + Sweet = Friend Zone. Be the bad boy that she’s crazy about.

    • @bustercam199
      @bustercam199 Рік тому +4

      that's high school logic

    • @JustMe-ig1mw
      @JustMe-ig1mw 11 місяців тому

      @@bustercam199 No son...LIFE IS HIGH SCHOOL....I am 55 and these dumb bitches still chase the bad boy NOT the good guy.....I was just called Sweetheart last month after a great first date...I KNEW I was FUUUUUCKED....and sure enough the next two times I asked her out I was DENIED

    • @dansykes7594
      @dansykes7594 10 місяців тому +5

      Over 99% percent of women I've met in my 60 years are STILL emotionally in high school, regardless of age. Fact.

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 8 місяців тому

      U are right.. but if u just met a girl, having a conversation, and she is throwing those words in, they have romanticaly interest..

  • @joecastanon2479
    @joecastanon2479 4 місяці тому

    Hey your spot on with these phrases.

  • @michaelanthony6785
    @michaelanthony6785 9 місяців тому +1

    Good information . Thanks !!

  • @ChadsT.A.
    @ChadsT.A. Рік тому +27

    in my experience, every woman is different. what one woman considers flirting, another considers friendly. i don't think looking for signs is the best way for men to be thinking. one thing i guess i could consider is if a woman treats a guy different than other guys. that could be something i would consider.
    for guys, i think it's best to not care if they are interested. and also, to be a little less interested in them. i know that sounds counter-intuitive, but men put their personality in a box when they like someone. not caring is the best path forward.
    something interesting you might like hearing,
    i used to have a problem. i would have pretty much every girl i didn't like being into me. i had zero people i actually liked being into me. it made me mad. it made me wonder if my standards were too high or something. i eventually said... screw it. i went black-pill and wrote everyone off. i stopped being into anyone. i put everyone into the box of "you dont have a chance with me and i'm not interested." i was nice to people yeah but i stopped thinking about anyone as a potential partner.
    well... this was the magic. all of a sudden, the most amazing women were basically throwing themselves at me. the types of women every guy dreams of were putting the moves onto me.
    the secret? not caring lets you actually be yourself. dont care until someone gives you reason to. that's most guys' problem, imo.

    • @righteousness8606
      @righteousness8606 Рік тому +2

      This is the absolute truth.

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 8 місяців тому +1

      biology almost every woman on the planet respond the same in the form of these signals when it comes to sexual attraction. I can say u that for sure, because (i dont want to be arrogant) woman find me a sexual attractive guy. In my experience they all basicly act the same, trying to get attention, glancing at me.. trying to orbit in my space.. for me its easy to have a first conversation with most of them, they are very open to talk and very smiley, u get special treatments.. if u look average u will never experience that world.. and u think that every woman is different.. attraction works the same. a bit the same like most woman loves shopping..

  • @michaelrainbow4203
    @michaelrainbow4203 Рік тому +12

    It's such a novel experience for the average man to even be looked at by a woman that it's easy to see why he might be confused.

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 8 місяців тому

      its simple.. if a girl likes your appearance , she will almost force u to look at her.. i am a super chad, and every girl want attention from me.. its so obvious.. its just hard for me to ignore them.. However this doesn't mean she is single or able to date u... married, couples they all want eye contact with me.. its pretty extreme and weird.. but thats the nature of woman, its build-in.. the girls who are smiling at u at short distance, they are pretty much single and available..

  • @matthewmoore325
    @matthewmoore325 5 днів тому

    I don't know why people are so negative. I really appreciated your video. Thank you!

  • @austinsellerfinance
    @austinsellerfinance 8 місяців тому

    Good advice and I think you hit it out of the park.

  • @josejoyette1142
    @josejoyette1142 Рік тому +5

    You’ve got a friendly personality & it was fun to hear you and your advice/opinions. ❤

  • @seankelly1366
    @seankelly1366 2 роки тому +20

    Your video definitely works! It definitely shows the signs that she is interested as well as attracted to you....Love is a powerful feeling and yet it can definitely create calculated risks better both if not all parties involved.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 роки тому

      Thanks Sean. Feel free to join my free group here: facebook.com/groups/thedatingformula/?ref=share

    • @ameerzaman8254
      @ameerzaman8254 Рік тому +1

      How

    • @andersnielsen6044
      @andersnielsen6044 8 місяців тому +2

      Love and attraction is two very very different things.. !

    • @perrytornado
      @perrytornado 6 місяців тому

      @@andersnielsen6044 Yes/ Attraction is the initiator of the sexual need for self-gratification/ It's a lustful sensation, not love which is spiritual, real and eternal/

    • @Chuncy566
      @Chuncy566 4 місяці тому

      I noticed that most of the coments are from a lone time ago, your videos are not geting that much comment any.more

  • @delianyc8696
    @delianyc8696 Місяць тому

    Finally, someone who says something and gives examples 👏👏👏

  • @daneyre5813
    @daneyre5813 8 місяців тому

    Oh you're good Emy. A lot of us already know the "signs", but when you spell it out, it all seems so basic like everybody should know this stuff.
    Because of all your tips, I now have to get a separate mailbox for all my incoming love notes.😉

  • @captaindan1000
    @captaindan1000 Рік тому +15

    I think I figured it out. Many women have had more interest in me than I thought. It's just that they lose interest when they remember they have so many more options than I do.

    • @captaindan1000
      @captaindan1000 Рік тому +1

      @Linl Like a phone filled with many numbers from other guys. Many of which will get deleted without an explanation why. They'll figure out for themselves they gotta move on.

    • @littlebuckslayer
      @littlebuckslayer 5 місяців тому +1

      I agree to a extent but some probably took it that you were not interested remember most women are expecting you to make the move the two big ones that I pick up on are the touching and willingness to have extended eye contact

    • @piratecat990
      @piratecat990 Місяць тому

      A roster...most guys are just foodie dates to them.

  • @calibay1989
    @calibay1989 2 роки тому +16

    Also be careful if she's an introvert or shy, she wouldn't initiate a conversation that easy

    • @bodekolawole6082
      @bodekolawole6082 2 роки тому +7

      Really?
      I see signs she likes me but I don’t understand anymore.. wish she could just tell me she’s not interested in me and I’ll move on

    • @Caesar-nq5if
      @Caesar-nq5if Рік тому

      @@bodekolawole6082 if you see signs, RUN! She has HIV and herpes. Or she will take your kids and use them against you. Or accuse you of grape... This stuff is real. I know so many men like me. Just freaking RUN RUN RUN!!!!!!!

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 8 місяців тому

      @@bodekolawole6082 try to kiss her and u know the answer..

  • @ganis9679
    @ganis9679 3 місяці тому

    Hi from Cali 👋🏼. Recently came across your channel. Thank you for sharing this super helpful, insightful, and interesting videos. You're smiling often, passionate, engaged and lively, cover a lot of key points succinctly, and tell it like it is. I like that and found the videos i checked out to be helpful for me in having a general idea about what ladies like, what to look for (like in this clip), and about dating overall. Stay blessed and be well 🙂🙏🏽

  • @johnvaillancourt4168
    @johnvaillancourt4168 9 місяців тому +1

    Well I recall when I was in my twenties a girl at a club I was talking to responded to my question: So what’s your name? She said “anything you want it to be.” Best answer ever😃

  • @christopherweaver2398
    @christopherweaver2398 2 роки тому +9

    Nicely enumerated without the fluff. Well done!

  • @PapiEson
    @PapiEson 2 роки тому +34

    attraction and interest of a women is like a roller coaster it goes up and down just like my experience with this girl showing interest in me over text so I test the water by ignoring her last message to me, she didn't hit me up again and totally like ghosting me too, brothers trust womens actions than their words 💯

    • @rocke1ne
      @rocke1ne Рік тому +2

      women have many men coming at them everyday, and all day long.... if you see a hint of interest... flirt with her to get her to say something to the definitive that she is interested. you may have to go a bit out of your comfort zone but ... hey its worth a try

  • @Brandon-yy5cc
    @Brandon-yy5cc 9 місяців тому

    Great video. I’m very bad at reading signs and I just feel like the opportunity to find a good woman has passed me by. I’m not giving up but it just is extremely hard.

  • @dieselmalone944
    @dieselmalone944 7 місяців тому

    I think if we knew one another it would make the world a better place Emyli

  • @dubongros3108
    @dubongros3108 2 роки тому +6

    I have watched a lot of videos on this topic so I can say that the sense-itive part was totally new ! It makes sense

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 роки тому

      Thanks! Check out my new group … facebook.com/groups/thedatingformula/?ref=share

  • @allfu93
    @allfu93 3 роки тому +131

    Love your channel, because you actually show both sides of the coin. Many other channels only focus on the flirty side of flirting but you show both the flirty and the “rejection” (Can’t think of a better word for it right now) Thank you.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  3 роки тому +14

      Hi Allen…thank you very much. That was kind. My team and I try and cover “everything” dating related….It’s not easy, but it’s a passion :-)

    • @johntoomey357
      @johntoomey357 Рік тому +4

      @@emlovz I'm not saying your wrong but all women are different some women do what your saying but many do not I don't know it all but I have 30 years Experience with woman and have seen lot's of things I am presently with the same woman now for 13 years when we met we both knew we liked each other and we're still together God Bless

    • @robertarthurs328
      @robertarthurs328 Рік тому +4

      I was recently surprised that a family member of my work place owner started to playfully harass and confide in me. We recently chatted and summarized some past relationships/outcomes and she put a handful of slime on my face. So I take she's comfortable with physical contact but she's able to converse with me by text/messenger and doesn't make the effort. It seems I'm just convenient at work.

    • @boracay12
      @boracay12 Рік тому

      If she is on her knees sucking you she is probably interested in sex

    • @arturo8995
      @arturo8995 Рік тому

      ​ When a girls holds eye contact for a long time

  • @peterkatznelson12
    @peterkatznelson12 6 місяців тому

    😅Thanks for the great tips in the UA-cam ad! You are one convincing sweetie, pretty too. Cheers, may see you soon🙏🏻

  • @peterhoatson
    @peterhoatson 4 місяці тому

    Very thorough, thank you

  • @deltaradiance9034
    @deltaradiance9034 2 роки тому +89

    I laughed through out the whole video because I did all these things with one guy I was interested in. I looked him straight in the eyes and admired him. I hugged him with both excitement and anxiety. I felt so energetic around this guy lol except the touching my hair and peacock part I did ALL these signs.

    • @teweldenegusse1345
      @teweldenegusse1345 Рік тому +8

      But some are complicated, I had these types of signs from my female classmates and in my opinion it was very clear that she was interested but when I ask her she said I have boyfriend 🤔. I thought she might try to know me and if I am better she wants to dump her boyfriend or she was trying to make her dude jealous through my texts or may be she was in an open relationship and doesn't matter if she date me. I don't know, and then I left her.

    • @gmartinz01
      @gmartinz01 Рік тому +4

      And?

    • @johntoomey357
      @johntoomey357 Рік тому +13

      Yes females are complicated no questions about it 😆

    • @johntoomey357
      @johntoomey357 Рік тому +3

      You pretty much let him know you liked him without the BS mind games some woman play that makes it easier when you like somebody You Let Them Know Without The Mating Game 😁

    • @luketimewalker
      @luketimewalker Рік тому +2

      great to have your input Delta Radiance!

  • @classad98
    @classad98 Рік тому +3

    you’re a great communicator… really helps for this type of content. All your points make such good common sense 👏👏👏

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +2

      I appreciate that!

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 8 місяців тому

    The just being nice tips were really good !!! I end up in the friends zone alot but it's tends to be at a distance somewhat it may be me or it might or possibly her past life experiences with other men !!! My past experience with some women I am careful and can be a little leary !!! But don't pre-judge !!! Because every woman is different and an individual !!!

  • @louisbonilla6780
    @louisbonilla6780 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you - I thought I was goin' crazy - Not anymore❤❤❤

  • @tonykemp4645
    @tonykemp4645 2 роки тому +5

    I use the eyes to communicate with also body language , plays a big part I look at her and valueate her from top to bottom , and smile with my eyes

  • @DiegoGonzalez-jr9lv
    @DiegoGonzalez-jr9lv Рік тому +6

    Or just straight up tell the guy you like him that also works

  • @Randy_Butternubs
    @Randy_Butternubs 5 днів тому +1

    I checked all the boxes on everything for a girl I like at work!!!😅😅😅

  • @smiles7631
    @smiles7631 6 місяців тому

    Thank you, subscribed!

  • @szililolabu
    @szililolabu Рік тому +4

    Congratulations on the channel!

  • @doraldobuchanan4041
    @doraldobuchanan4041 2 роки тому +11

    Based upon my experience, I was in the friend zone, but not for too long. I confidently showed her my level of attraction towards her. Then I realized that I can freely touch, caressed and even kisses her naturally.

  • @Eng4555
    @Eng4555 5 місяців тому

    Discerning my vibes concisely

  • @kelly2558
    @kelly2558 2 місяці тому

    I really enjoyed your approach to this topic, lighthearted and fun but practical and informative. As a reformed incel male, I feel better about myself after taking in your presentation. Thank you.

  • @MrAddonald9
    @MrAddonald9 Рік тому +4

    Very helpful; I wish I had known these things before, considering some of the mistakes I have made , for example seeing something that was not really there. The best part of this video is saying you should look for clusters, not just one thing!

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +2

      Thank you!!!

    • @user-pp6nv4ky6c
      @user-pp6nv4ky6c 11 місяців тому

      ​​@@emlovz❤ its out playing with my cockring❤🎉😊

  • @jaredshaw5023
    @jaredshaw5023 Рік тому +4

    Speedy it was excellent teaching man like me on how to catch all the nuances on how to tell if a woman likes you or not! The most specific video on dating around! Two thumbs up! Way to go. I will definitely sign up for your sessions in the near future Jared.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +1

      Thanks Jared!

  • @AverageGuitarHero42
    @AverageGuitarHero42 2 місяці тому

    Got it. Ive boiled it down to my dog and my reflection. At least one of them likes me, and im pretty sure my reflection keeps blushing with eye contact

  • @daves913
    @daves913 5 місяців тому +1

    Be charming, make them laugh, have a great smile, with great teeth, and be confident. Just to name a few… I’m speaking From experience.

  • @makoshark3759
    @makoshark3759 Рік тому +5

    It is sad that I come across your u tube video 13 months late.., but I tell you ..what an interesting, honest , direct.. cut the chase type of information's and help you put here .. like summing up 20 videos in one.. ,yes truly amazing and yes truly helping to many ,it is like you are there watching how these women behave and telling how they really and honestly think.. THANK YOU and god bless you .

  • @pratik8678
    @pratik8678 2 роки тому +14

    I never really had any girl being mean to me , been called cute and sweetest and i always assumed every girl is nice always since thy don't want any tension and usually avoid being rude. All in all its tough to understand girls.

    • @nuck482
      @nuck482 Рік тому +1

      If you figure it out write a book! You will be a billionaire !

  • @TheSledgehammer2024
    @TheSledgehammer2024 3 місяці тому

    This is a great video for a level 2 relationship... For a complete stranger that approaches women (its night and day).

  • @explorewithahsann
    @explorewithahsann 9 місяців тому

    great video. insightful 😊

  • @dwaynemcallister7231
    @dwaynemcallister7231 Рік тому +4

    It really comes down to chemistry and then when that exists you both will feel it, the cue's follow normally, but the eyes say much if one is in doubt. Thx for your tips much appreciated!

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +1

      You got it !

  • @iceman5891
    @iceman5891 Рік тому +4

    Enjoyed your time. Have probably had td the same questions other men have had trying to read or understand women & their messages. Thank you for the enlightenment.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +1

      You’re welcome

  • @johnb911
    @johnb911 10 місяців тому

    I’ve basically fallen for someone I can never have 😄 so fun

  • @noself7889
    @noself7889 2 місяці тому +1

    I was always pretty good at intuiting who was interested or not. I was never pushy and if a woman declined my offer for a date, I let it go and moved on. I never wanted wanted to be one of those creeps who doesn’t understand a no, or one of those creeps who overly sensualizes women or acts creepy. I never had a problem getting a girl friend but I usually got rid of the good ones, and stayed with the bad ones. I don’t think it’s a skill, you either have it or you don’t. I know if a women likes me or not. Your video is spot on. 😊

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 місяці тому +1

      Read the book Attached and take a quiz to learn about your attachment style. It should help with that

  • @nigelskipping7941
    @nigelskipping7941 Рік тому +3

    I came across a female once who showed some interest in me. I drove straight to the nearest airport and got out of there as fast as I could! I went to the other side of the world and hid in a wardrobe for 3 months. She finally found me in that wardrobe and said that she was just trying to deliver a pizza to me! We were married 3 weeks later. I'm glad she was such a determined pizza delivery woman!

  • @LynnDisclose
    @LynnDisclose 2 роки тому +5

    This was a great video, and from your heart.

  • @non-wx8qm
    @non-wx8qm 9 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for making this straightforward and to the point. 👍🏻