This is why I do not believe in matching a man's energy. If you cannot live in your authenticity in a relationship that is not the relationship for you.
Matching your partner's bad energy = toxicity. TF are they even staying together for? Ridiculous. These'll be the same people who'll later hop online and say they gave a man 7-15 years. We only get one life. Why waste it?
Absolute truth. My biggest hater was my ex-husband. As soon as I became an RN and started making more money than him, all of a sudden, he changed his mind about kids and wanted to have a baby. I said absolutely NOT. Divorced him 5 months later and got licensed as an APRN 3 years later and never looked back. That MF didn't want kids. He just wanted ME to have a child or two to stop my success. I am so glad I peeped his motives and got rid of him. I am now in a lovely relationship with the bear🐻 of my dreams!!! 😊❤
One reason we feel "insecure" is by comparin ourselves with others. Life is not a checklist, ya don't need to have that dream job at certain age etc. Just take it easy, step by step, get to know yourself, don't follow other peoples paths, everyone has their time to shine ❤
It's crazy to think that everyone's life is perfect. Not every single day, not every single moment, but there's perfection in all our lives. Yet none of us see it. Because we are all too busy comparing ourselves to each other.
I had a "friend" that was incredibly insecure of everyone but she covered it with fake confidence. If someone said I looked pretty she'd say "ikr? I always tell her she'd be perfect if she got her nose done" when I asked her about a good dermatologist for my acne because I was new in the city, she said "yeah I noticed your acne really ruined your face but didn't want to say anything, don't worry we'll get it fixed with your nose too" if anyone complimented me on the way I dressed she'd say I got it from her, while she would try to buy clothes like mine. She LITERALLY bought the exact same skirt when I told her where I got it. Here's the catch, I was the one that told her about my nose, she knew it was an insecurity of mine so she used it against me the whole time.
So basically, she was indirectly trying to downplay your beauty by making anyone who finds you pretty think that your beauty is all because of your nose job. Wow 😮
Insecurity projected on you can come in the form of concern and worry... It boils down to fear and the more you are around the fearful person trying to dissuade you from your dreams the more your confidence in yourself goes down and the more likely you are to give up. Stay around ppl that are balanced in their advice, that encourage you... Not those always telling you to be careful, to not take ANY chances, or keep informing you of the negative and telling you to give up.
I strongly agree. This describes my mother. I used to have a lot of anxieties (i.e. social anxiety, anxious avoidant attachment style in relationships) and it took me until adulthood to realize that she was the source of it all. She would fill my head with her fears about anything I told her, whether big or small. Nearly everything she said would always be irrational and while I knew that and would tell her so, it would still infuse me with anxieties about that plan or person in general. I'd have a general feeling that something would go wrong, and my mind would come up with more rational worries. I had to stop telling her almost everything, and all of my anxieties went away, so I know I had no problem within myself. Now my life is more on track than ever.
This is my mother. I grew up with her constant criticism: always picking at my appearance, my behaviour, my success (or lack thereof) in school. I'm nearly 50 and she still tries to do it, despite my drawing a firm boundary with her years ago. Needless to say, this messed me up for life. But what is really behind all of that criticism and bullying, is her own deep insecurities. Women, if we don't deal with this BS, we pass it onto the younger women in our lives.
I’ve noticed if you mind your own business people get REALLY insecure. The fact you aren’t trying to suck up to them or get their approval means you don’t want anything from them thus you can’t be manipulated or used as a status boost and you’re a threat. They can also misinterpret shyness as “you think you’re better than me stuck up b$tch”.
Kinda reminds me if my grandmother that would compare my sister and my weight. When we were kids she was severely underweight and couldn’t gain weight and my grandmother just thought she was thin and look good and I was a normal weight for a child and was called “chubby”. I had baby fat of course! It led to me having eating issues throughout adolescence to adulthood me and my sister fluctuate like normal human beings. I was recently looking at old photos and realized that I really wasn’t “fat” or “chubby” I was just a normal weight being compared to my sister who was underweight at the time.
of course, typically how your grandparents raised your parents is how they will treat you. this why you always here the phrase, " i would never talk to my mother like that." in other words, they never stood up for themselves as a kid but resent you for standing up for yourself. they see you as the child they never could be and their ego cant handle it. they blame this generation for not masking their trauma and passing it on to the next. they think you should process and deal with it, just hide it and pass it on to your kids
I work with kids and I swear I BEAM with pride every time they have the audacity to stand up to me, tell me no or call me out on my B.S! It's so weird! Watching them be comfortable being the kid I was never allowed to be heals the inner child in me
Generational trauma. The cycle ends with us, and a lot of people have huge issues with it for some reason. Like how dare we do things differently and actually stand up for ourselves and not just act like 'nice victims' and let it out on our kids like they do.
I was telling this guy I was dating how proud I was of myself for accomplishing some goals I’d never thought I’d accomplish. He was like “you think you’re better than me?” I said, “You think that and you’re right.” He was silenced 😂
Insecure friends will DESTORY you. Please, PLEASE be warned. All forms, friendship, relationship, family. It would be like picking to cross sinking sand over a bricked road. Every step forward a insecure person will drag you down. If you are not mentally good, they will keep you there.
When I was young, I was very insecure. I was living according to other people's standards. I think I was a drain to some people. I had to get therapy, go NC with my birth family, and make changes in my life. Once I started living for myself -- which is actually a quiet, simple, modest life -- I stopped being resentful of others. I'm not perfect -- always a work in progress -- but life is so much better.
I see your personal growth within the last few months. When I first started to watch your videos, you came across as somewhat aloof, but now you are far more open and carefree. It's beautiful and a privilege to be a part of this part of your journey. Keep it up. A sister for the win. Rooting for you ❤
Some people will be angry that you're _not_ jealous of them too (i.e., insecure people)! / I really appreciate the one woman talking about how dangerous insecure people are. Insecure people are the jealous mothers who know their partner SA's their female child and hate the child for it. They're the women who will let a man SA their children and/or otherwise procure other children for him to abuse (there was a case about this where a woman fully knew the man's proclivities, went and got her BEST FRIEND'S little girl [because she was her babysitter], and the man choked the woman [the one who was insecure enough to help a predator] to d/eath and kidnapped the little girl). They're the men who will start an argument with you before a test or a big event in your life. They're the men who will hide important documents or work that you need to submit for something big to happen. Domestic abusers are insecure; bigots are insecure. And all types will not just sit and stew in their emotions but will go out and do harm. If I sense insecurity on a person, I distance myself.
I feel like I’ve dealt with this for the majority of my life from family, friends, lovers, coworkers etc. People were constantly projecting their insecurities onto me. It’s one thing to be beautiful but it’s another thing to be beautiful and naturally happy and confident.They see your light and the way it draws others to you and they want to do everything to dim it. That very light attracted them. I’ve allowed myself to shrink to the point I’ve isolated myself. I just couldn’t take it anymore. To constantly have to question the people who are supposed to be in your corner can be very discouraging. I’ve been spending so much time rebuilding the confidence within me that others have destroyed. At the same time I’m grateful because it’s only made my discernment stronger. I’m much wiser from these experiences.
4:32 I feel that way too hard, it is the killer of my friendships, and the distance in my family. Me being genuine as true to myself that I can be it pushes the bad ones out, even when it takes a minute.
I wish I knew this when I was younger. I would try things, and be ridiculed for not doing them perfectly. All the people who made fun of me ended up not amounting to much in life. They were just jealous I wasn't miserable and still had a light within me that allowed me to try new things.
I've realized something. I'm the type of person who really truly enjoys my own company. Being at home watching a movie and eating French fries is my happy place. I don't need to be out, partying or whatever. I don't wear makeup or lashes or have a bbl or whatever. And I've always thought everyone else has it better than me. That something is wrong with me and I need to be different. And yet I've had OPS like these for as long as I can remember. Friends who mock belittle and patronize me and put me down every chance they can get but it was always a "joke" and if I had an issue I was "too sensitive" NOW is when I realize that they have a problem with the fact that I just do me and go about my life. And im happy! We can't all be CEOs, we can't all be famous, some of us are just happy as we are and that SHAKES the evil spirits of conformists!
It's hard to get picked on, but knowing where it comes from helps. The people who are trying to tear you down are actually showing you their a**. Don't engage with them. Their poison is their own business. Let them keep it.
What people are describing as insecure reminds me more of someone with covert or vulnerable narcissistic traits. Because everyone has some area where they are wanting improvement but that doesn’t mean that they’ll lash out at as a result. I do think some people talked about doing the work to get over insecurity. But I think some insecurity is natural. It actually works as a motivator for me. For example if I wasn’t a little insecure about my performance at playing saxophone in high school compared to my peers I would never had practiced and asked for advice to get better. I think this is a great conversation starter about what type of people to avoid and can help people identify problematic behavior. But like everything it is nuanced and I hope this adds to the discussion.
@@Lilithslittlehelper Yes I did personalize my comment. Personal is typically the nature of anecdotal evidence. The speakers in the videos stitched shared their personal experiences and thoughts as well. The video is about relationships with other people and the challenges of maintaining a healthy relationship with an insecure individual. The video discusses examples of what relationships with insecure people often look like among other things. What point do you believe was taken out of context in my previous comment? I’m interested in furthering the discourse. As I mentioned I think it’s nuanced. So I haven’t negated what was said in the video.
I was insecure about my body when I was in high school and I had this ex friend that would always tell me that if I wanted a boyfriend i needed to have a fat booty and be mixed race because that's the only way a guy will give me the time of day and she would also tell me that I was ugly and I needed to get plastic surgery on my face done if I wanted a boyfriend i use to believe it and it got to a point were I wanted to wish that I was not black but now I love myself because I took time to heel.😊
I've never understood why someone would do this. I tell EVERYONE they are crazy as shit for jumping from a plane. Not because I don't want to. I WANT TO. I'm just DEATHLY terrified of heights. Like I lose control of my knees and may faint 😵💫. 😂😂
It's interesting bc a "friend" would tease me about my workouts. She even said, when did you start working out? Oh, you should join my gym. Me: I have a gym membership. Her: oh?
Every single video you do has been incredible. This is alllll the info I wish was available to me, and so many more, as I grew up. Safety 1st, ladies. Love YOU 1st.
Truth! I had a naysayer like this in my life. She hated hearing about any of my wins and wouldn't waste a second to sow doubt. As soon as I caught on I started to withhold information about my life and one night I found them standing over me trying to get into my phone to snoop. Cut them off shortly after that. Very pathetic behaviour🚮
I agree with everything on this video. I had a friend like that and near the end, for a time, I tried "playing her game" and she got even worse and dominating.
Something I learnt is that sometimes people who seem very confident actually aren’t. It’s a facade. A lot of insecure people seem confident because of the facade they put out like the girl in the video said “they are very loud” but if you look closely you’ll realize it’s fake confidence and they are insecure. You realize they are very obnoxious, annoying, loud in a rude way, fake confident.
Exactly 💯 One of my favorite quotes: “Confidence is silent, and insecurities are loud.” I have also seen people who claim to “tell it like it is,” or are “keeping it 100” but they are doing this as an excuse to be rude to others. These types are extremely insecure.
I have a question. How do you know the difference between people being envious of you versus you actually being the problem? I have a strenuous relationship with "friends" and family. Im not going to make it seem like I’m just innocent. Im mostly laid back but im zero tolerance to bs, and some people can’t handle that. I’ve had to fight them several times and had to cut them off.
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This is why I do not believe in matching a man's energy. If you cannot live in your authenticity in a relationship that is not the relationship for you.
I agree ,they always come off perfect and the mask come off when you start getting serious about them.
Well said!
Matching your partner's bad energy = toxicity.
TF are they even staying together for? Ridiculous. These'll be the same people who'll later hop online and say they gave a man 7-15 years. We only get one life. Why waste it?
Absolute truth. My biggest hater was my ex-husband. As soon as I became an RN and started making more money than him, all of a sudden, he changed his mind about kids and wanted to have a baby. I said absolutely NOT. Divorced him 5 months later and got licensed as an APRN 3 years later and never looked back. That MF didn't want kids. He just wanted ME to have a child or two to stop my success. I am so glad I peeped his motives and got rid of him. I am now in a lovely relationship with the bear🐻 of my dreams!!! 😊❤
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👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 good for you sis!
Im so happy for you❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
These men out here are literally acting like they’re flat worms 😂😂🙄🙄🙄 im glad you didn’t cave in to his bs.
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 beautiful self awareness ❤
One reason we feel "insecure" is by comparin ourselves with others. Life is not a checklist, ya don't need to have that dream job at certain age etc. Just take it easy, step by step, get to know yourself, don't follow other peoples paths, everyone has their time to shine ❤
You're so right.
It's crazy to think that everyone's life is perfect. Not every single day, not every single moment, but there's perfection in all our lives. Yet none of us see it. Because we are all too busy comparing ourselves to each other.
I had a "friend" that was incredibly insecure of everyone but she covered it with fake confidence. If someone said I looked pretty she'd say "ikr? I always tell her she'd be perfect if she got her nose done" when I asked her about a good dermatologist for my acne because I was new in the city, she said "yeah I noticed your acne really ruined your face but didn't want to say anything, don't worry we'll get it fixed with your nose too" if anyone complimented me on the way I dressed she'd say I got it from her, while she would try to buy clothes like mine. She LITERALLY bought the exact same skirt when I told her where I got it. Here's the catch, I was the one that told her about my nose, she knew it was an insecurity of mine so she used it against me the whole time.
😂 I told my "friend" about my weight insecurity and it's all they ever talk about now 🙄
@@roxy4325my cousin who grew up together like sisters is the same. They are haters
So basically, she was indirectly trying to downplay your beauty by making anyone who finds you pretty think that your beauty is all because of your nose job. Wow 😮
@@faithochem2202 girl. I never even got a nose job lmao. She told me I needed one the moment she was aware of how insecure my nose made me.
negging, somatic narcissism
Y'all just described my whole family... and they try to make me believe I'm the weirdo 🤦🏽♀️
Thank u especially in black families like💀
Insecurity projected on you can come in the form of concern and worry... It boils down to fear and the more you are around the fearful person trying to dissuade you from your dreams the more your confidence in yourself goes down and the more likely you are to give up. Stay around ppl that are balanced in their advice, that encourage you... Not those always telling you to be careful, to not take ANY chances, or keep informing you of the negative and telling you to give up.
I strongly agree. This describes my mother. I used to have a lot of anxieties (i.e. social anxiety, anxious avoidant attachment style in relationships) and it took me until adulthood to realize that she was the source of it all. She would fill my head with her fears about anything I told her, whether big or small. Nearly everything she said would always be irrational and while I knew that and would tell her so, it would still infuse me with anxieties about that plan or person in general. I'd have a general feeling that something would go wrong, and my mind would come up with more rational worries. I had to stop telling her almost everything, and all of my anxieties went away, so I know I had no problem within myself. Now my life is more on track than ever.
@@ds37215 Omg same! My mother is exactly the same!
This is my mother. I grew up with her constant criticism: always picking at my appearance, my behaviour, my success (or lack thereof) in school. I'm nearly 50 and she still tries to do it, despite my drawing a firm boundary with her years ago. Needless to say, this messed me up for life. But what is really behind all of that criticism and bullying, is her own deep insecurities. Women, if we don't deal with this BS, we pass it onto the younger women in our lives.
I’ve noticed if you mind your own business people get REALLY insecure.
The fact you aren’t trying to suck up to them or get their approval means you don’t want anything from them thus you can’t be manipulated or used as a status boost and you’re a threat.
They can also misinterpret shyness as “you think you’re better than me stuck up b$tch”.
So true
Kinda reminds me if my grandmother that would compare my sister and my weight. When we were kids she was severely underweight and couldn’t gain weight and my grandmother just thought she was thin and look good and I was a normal weight for a child and was called “chubby”. I had baby fat of course! It led to me having eating issues throughout adolescence to adulthood me and my sister fluctuate like normal human beings. I was recently looking at old photos and realized that I really wasn’t “fat” or “chubby” I was just a normal weight being compared to my sister who was underweight at the time.
Quiet , reserved people can be the most confident. The have quiet confidence
True.
I don't think insecure people realize we can see right through them.
of course, typically how your grandparents raised your parents is how they will treat you. this why you always here the phrase, " i would never talk to my mother like that." in other words, they never stood up for themselves as a kid but resent you for standing up for yourself. they see you as the child they never could be and their ego cant handle it. they blame this generation for not masking their trauma and passing it on to the next. they think you should process and deal with it, just hide it and pass it on to your kids
Now, this is interesting. I never thought of it this way.
I love this!!! Never thought about this, but its so true!!
This is really well said. I totally relate to what you say here
I work with kids and I swear I BEAM with pride every time they have the audacity to stand up to me, tell me no or call me out on my B.S! It's so weird! Watching them be comfortable being the kid I was never allowed to be heals the inner child in me
Generational trauma. The cycle ends with us, and a lot of people have huge issues with it for some reason. Like how dare we do things differently and actually stand up for ourselves and not just act like 'nice victims' and let it out on our kids like they do.
I was telling this guy I was dating how proud I was of myself for accomplishing some goals I’d never thought I’d accomplish. He was like “you think you’re better than me?” I said, “You think that and you’re right.” He was silenced 😂
😹😹👌🏿
Im using that from now on 😂👌🏽💯
But did you keep dating him after that? Something like that would make me end it.
Insecure friends will DESTORY you. Please, PLEASE be warned. All forms, friendship, relationship, family. It would be like picking to cross sinking sand over a bricked road. Every step forward a insecure person will drag you down. If you are not mentally good, they will keep you there.
When I was young, I was very insecure. I was living according to other people's standards. I think I was a drain to some people. I had to get therapy, go NC with my birth family, and make changes in my life. Once I started living for myself -- which is actually a quiet, simple, modest life -- I stopped being resentful of others. I'm not perfect -- always a work in progress -- but life is so much better.
Yes! I’m finally applying for my doctorate! I’ve lost the weight of the negative people of my past. 💖💖💖💖
I see your personal growth within the last few months. When I first started to watch your videos, you came across as somewhat aloof, but now you are far more open and carefree. It's beautiful and a privilege to be a part of this part of your journey. Keep it up. A sister for the win. Rooting for you ❤
Some people will be angry that you're _not_ jealous of them too (i.e., insecure people)! / I really appreciate the one woman talking about how dangerous insecure people are. Insecure people are the jealous mothers who know their partner SA's their female child and hate the child for it. They're the women who will let a man SA their children and/or otherwise procure other children for him to abuse (there was a case about this where a woman fully knew the man's proclivities, went and got her BEST FRIEND'S little girl [because she was her babysitter], and the man choked the woman [the one who was insecure enough to help a predator] to d/eath and kidnapped the little girl). They're the men who will start an argument with you before a test or a big event in your life. They're the men who will hide important documents or work that you need to submit for something big to happen.
Domestic abusers are insecure; bigots are insecure. And all types will not just sit and stew in their emotions but will go out and do harm.
If I sense insecurity on a person, I distance myself.
I feel like I’ve dealt with this for the majority of my life from family, friends, lovers, coworkers etc. People were constantly projecting their insecurities onto me. It’s one thing to be beautiful but it’s another thing to be beautiful and naturally happy and confident.They see your light and the way it draws others to you and they want to do everything to dim it. That very light attracted them. I’ve allowed myself to shrink to the point I’ve isolated myself. I just couldn’t take it anymore. To constantly have to question the people who are supposed to be in your corner can be very discouraging. I’ve been spending so much time rebuilding the confidence within me that others have destroyed. At the same time I’m grateful because it’s only made my discernment stronger. I’m much wiser from these experiences.
YES YES YESSSSSSSSSSS💖 Especially when you don’t have the “look”. 🙄
4:32 I feel that way too hard, it is the killer of my friendships, and the distance in my family. Me being genuine as true to myself that I can be it pushes the bad ones out, even when it takes a minute.
Oh gross... I became the isecure friend due to my current insecure friend ... Time to change my circles...
The insecure weirdo in your friend group is your biggest op and they need to be booted immediately.
I wish I knew this when I was younger. I would try things, and be ridiculed for not doing them perfectly. All the people who made fun of me ended up not amounting to much in life. They were just jealous I wasn't miserable and still had a light within me that allowed me to try new things.
I've realized something. I'm the type of person who really truly enjoys my own company. Being at home watching a movie and eating French fries is my happy place. I don't need to be out, partying or whatever. I don't wear makeup or lashes or have a bbl or whatever. And I've always thought everyone else has it better than me. That something is wrong with me and I need to be different. And yet I've had OPS like these for as long as I can remember. Friends who mock belittle and patronize me and put me down every chance they can get but it was always a "joke" and if I had an issue I was "too sensitive" NOW is when I realize that they have a problem with the fact that I just do me and go about my life. And im happy! We can't all be CEOs, we can't all be famous, some of us are just happy as we are and that SHAKES the evil spirits of conformists!
"Evil spirits of conformists" is now living rent free in my head😅
It's hard to get picked on, but knowing where it comes from helps. The people who are trying to tear you down are actually showing you their a**. Don't engage with them. Their poison is their own business. Let them keep it.
Yes. Once I learned this, I could let go of it all. I actually started to pity the people who tried to put me down.
My mom, whew.
What people are describing as insecure reminds me more of someone with covert or vulnerable narcissistic traits. Because everyone has some area where they are wanting improvement but that doesn’t mean that they’ll lash out at as a result. I do think some people talked about doing the work to get over insecurity.
But I think some insecurity is natural. It actually works as a motivator for me. For example if I wasn’t a little insecure about my performance at playing saxophone in high school compared to my peers I would never had practiced and asked for advice to get better.
I think this is a great conversation starter about what type of people to avoid and can help people identify problematic behavior. But like everything it is nuanced and I hope this adds to the discussion.
I got your point but clearly this was taken out of context and you are personalizing it
@@Lilithslittlehelper
Yes I did personalize my comment. Personal is typically the nature of anecdotal evidence. The speakers in the videos stitched shared their personal experiences and thoughts as well.
The video is about relationships with other people and the challenges of maintaining a healthy relationship with an insecure individual. The video discusses examples of what relationships with insecure people often look like among other things.
What point do you believe was taken out of context in my previous comment?
I’m interested in furthering the discourse. As I mentioned I think it’s nuanced. So I haven’t negated what was said in the video.
I was insecure about my body when I was in high school and I had this ex friend that would always tell me that if I wanted a boyfriend i needed to have a fat booty and be mixed race because that's the only way a guy will give me the time of day and she would also tell me that I was ugly and I needed to get plastic surgery on my face done if I wanted a boyfriend i use to believe it and it got to a point were I wanted to wish that I was not black but now I love myself because I took time to heel.😊
Telling someone they won’t get a boyfriend because of their race is pretty racist 😨
“They will be drawn to you, but at the same time they will resent you” 💯
Im going to view this again. New data emerged. I thank you for the qualities of your content. 🍹🍾💯👍
I am so glad that my insecure friends are all removed from my life.
I've never understood why someone would do this. I tell EVERYONE they are crazy as shit for jumping from a plane. Not because I don't want to. I WANT TO. I'm just DEATHLY terrified of heights. Like I lose control of my knees and may faint 😵💫. 😂😂
Love this topic!!! ❤❤❤❤
Yes, integrity is everything! I'm so glad that lady pointed it out.
Can’t no female or male make me feel any type of way foh😂😂❤
It's interesting bc a "friend" would tease me about my workouts. She even said, when did you start working out? Oh, you should join my gym. Me: I have a gym membership. Her: oh?
Every single video you do has been incredible. This is alllll the info I wish was available to me, and so many more, as I grew up.
Safety 1st, ladies. Love YOU 1st.
"You didn't know that?!" So true - one of my biggest pet peeves. If I knew, why would I be asking?
Truth! I had a naysayer like this in my life. She hated hearing about any of my wins and wouldn't waste a second to sow doubt. As soon as I caught on I started to withhold information about my life and one night I found them standing over me trying to get into my phone to snoop. Cut them off shortly after that. Very pathetic behaviour🚮
I agree with everything on this video. I had a friend like that and near the end, for a time, I tried "playing her game" and she got even worse and dominating.
her insecure list is loud n wrong
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Something I learnt is that sometimes people who seem very confident actually aren’t. It’s a facade. A lot of insecure people seem confident because of the facade they put out like the girl in the video said “they are very loud” but if you look closely you’ll realize it’s fake confidence and they are insecure. You realize they are very obnoxious, annoying, loud in a rude way, fake confident.
Exactly 💯 One of my favorite quotes: “Confidence is silent, and insecurities are loud.” I have also seen people who claim to “tell it like it is,” or are “keeping it 100” but they are doing this as an excuse to be rude to others. These types are extremely insecure.
@@Shay4YourMind81 I've almost shed a tear or two after reading this. Too much came to mind😢 boot them insecure "friends"
I have a question. How do you know the difference between people being envious of you versus you actually being the problem? I have a strenuous relationship with "friends" and family. Im not going to make it seem like I’m just innocent. Im mostly laid back but im zero tolerance to bs, and some people can’t handle that. I’ve had to fight them several times and had to cut them off.