I hate hearing about stories when a woman takes control over their “husbands” entire estate & leave out the biological kids from what they’re entitled too
Hello Dr. Grande, I would really like to hear your take on Natalie Bollinger case. She was a 17 year old addict, who ordered a hitman from Craigslist to have her killed and blamed it on her stalker Shawn Schwartz, who is a homeless man with autism and Asperger syndrom. It is a truly disturbing case, with many twists, and I'm very interested to hear your professional analysis on both of these individuals. Thank you and have a nice day!
Omg!! Shaun is actually commenting on that fear Files video!!! He has a UA-cam channel!! It's Shaun David!! I'd never have noticed if your comment hadn't have prompted me to look again!!!! Wow!!!
A friend of mine actually used to date her. I think she would have taken him out if she hadn't found a better victim. She left him for the chiropractor.
I went out with her a few times but she was way too expensive. I had to pay $ 50 000 to get shot at. And sometimes she didn't even keep her end of the contract refusing to fire on me. She was soooo high end !!! She would charge a mere slap $3000.
A dry observation: If you go by the old time strippers (maybe even burlesque) you would note they take off their clothing/costume with style and an entertaining performance in public; but generally quite quickly gather up and take their clothes away with them once complete and repair and redress in private (whether then stylishly or not).
@@Don.Challenger that’s because nobody is paying to watch them put their clothes back on. Stage time is money! When their set is done they have to get out of the way.
Came for the analysis, stayed for the scorchingly bone dry humor! Thank you Dr. Grande, we really appreciate your insightful content. Gratefully, Dennis
Agree theory 1 is the explanation, and she fits the serial killer psychological profile of early childhood trauma resulting in fusion of sex, violence, and self hate which at some point gets projected onto victims. Another weird horse-related case involves Helen Brach, the candy heiress, who disappeared in the midst of a national insurance fraud and con involving high end horses, famous barns and Olympic riders, a veterinarian, a lawyer, and trainers all colluding to con older, vulnerable, rich women and insurance companies. It's often referred to as the Chicago Horse Mafia case. Brach has never been located and is presumed murdered. Edits due to spellwreck.
God bless anyone who timestamps and quotes the humor that blends in so perfectly through his narrative. I blurt out laughing always everytime, it always happens at least once in every video.
Thank you, Dr. Grande for giving me the clearest definition of schizoaffective disorder. I was originally diagnosed as this, but once my psychosis cleared up, I was reassed as bipolar 1 with a history of psychosis.
@@daveatkins3568 I'm not trying to laugh but "can't imagine hallucinations made me laugh!! Shawn, I'm so glad you're doing better! And Dr Grande really is great at explaining things!!
I had a “breakdown” once for 3 days, couldn’t sleep, hallucinations, it was awful. I was told it was from severe stress. Anyway, just never talked to someone else that has experienced such a thing before and is back on a healthy track. Good for you ❤️ it’s hard not to worry it could happen again. What a bizarre and frightening ordeal! Our brains can do powerful, terrifying things to us! I don’t think it’s something people can really, truly understand without having gone through it. I used to work as a psych nurse and I understood all that stuff in an educated way, but it is a whole different animal going through an episode like that! Anyway, keep yourself healthy and safe ❤️
"If the police can't trust a woman who burns human remains who can they trust" hahaha 🙄😅😂 She definitely seems to have known what she was doing. Seems too organized to be in psychosis. Thanks for another interesting analysis, Dr. Grande 👍❤️⚔️🔥🐴
@@mikelobrien I think perhaps times were even less gentle in the past, but things just weren't publicised and were mostly 'handled with discretion'. Especially when the local police were well acquainted with a suspect. I cannot believe they left her with the evidence though; especially the femur in the firepit. That's the purest, most refined form of idiocy I've ever heard. It's almost holistic idiocy.
your humor is always perfectly timed and delivered in such a dry sense that it almost always causes me to burst out laughing. perfect way to relieve some of the tension of the stories. fantastic video as always. i had never heard of her prior to this and it genuinely shocks me how little law enforcement seemed to care about any of it whatsoever. they received numerous concerns but apparently only seemed to take it seriously after the stabbing.
It’s amazing how many of these stories involve repeated unhealthy relationships. I’m surprised by how one person can victimize so many. Hopefully, these videos can prevent a few such relationships.
I live about 20 mins from where this happened. I also know a corrections officer that worked at yhe Strafford county Jail in Dover NH. He aaid ahe was scary and tried to get the guards to have relations with her. She is one disturbed individual
Thank you for being willing to dive into these often dark and disturbing cases in order to Educate us so much Dr. Grande!! 💖 I feel like we can learn a lot from these terrible cases. Things like, first of all, what can happen to some people who are hurt as children and never get help or find a way to overcome or properly cope with that trauma- And ALSO just how dangerous it is when people just let their darkest desires and impulses run wild without any moral compass or restraint or self-control of any kind- I mean far be it for me to...I believe the term is..."Kink Shame" Anyone- but I think once people start getting truly hurt the whole "Whatever 2 consenting adults do is fine and no one's business" thing kinda no longer applies! I believe people in abusive relationships often lose the will or ability to ever say "No" or stand up for themselves after a while. Like the police who were called to the store about them and he was in a wheelchair with visible injuries all over, I feel like a LOT MORE could've been done to protect him at that time maybe? And I'm sorry to admit that I was drinking from a water bottle when you mentioned the "random unidentified human toes" they found scattered around at the ranch, and I laughed so hard and unexpectedly water got everywhere and I had to change my shirt even!! 😂 Maybe that makes me a TERRIBLE person for laughing, but that was just too entirely darkly rediculous not to just LOSE IT- I think it was half laughing in pure shock 😲, like "HUUHHH?? I MUST'VE Heard that wrong, PLEASE let me have heard that wrong!!" I don't even know HOW to comment on the level of DISTURBING THAT rose to!! So I'll just end here and apologize for this MUCH TOO LENGTHY comment- but no matter WHAT the subject matter- even apparently severed human TOES- Dr. Grande is ALWAYS a bright spot and boost in my day- Thank You again "Grande the Gifted"!! 💖😘👍🧠🥰🤓🌵🤗 Hope you have a FANTASTIC Weekend Doc, and all my Fellow Grande Groupies also! 😁❤️
Strange that she felt total empathy for animals but not for people? Maybe she felt safe on the farm! Best wishes to all for a wonderful weekend and Easter! 👒🐇🐥🌺
Oops! Got her mixed up with the veterinarian women who wanted to save the worms-infested kittens! (btw everyone agreed the kittens should have been saved!)
Had I a nickel for every "just plain mean" termagant I've run into I'd be a rich man. Thoughtful eye-opening story, Dr Grande -- oh, that you'd just been around for people 50 years ago... Thanks a million.
Sadly, society had to await the developing internet and its immense supporting infrastructure; TV and radio networks could not have supported this vast programming nor would it have been allowed.
I remember when this case was all over the news in NH. I would hear that Sheila LaBarre was on trial for killing Kenneth County and my go to joke was "Damn, she killed the entire county of Kenneth?" and didn't think about it much after that aside from how bizarre it was that she burned his remains in a fire pit and left the bone fragments there.
as for the cops, i remember a Simpson;s episode where Homer was caught as a counterfitter. Chief Wiggum left the printing press with Homer and told him to save it because there was no case without it.
Hi Dr. Grande! I"m only early because I have the day off! I find it ironic that this woman was born in Fort Payne. She enjoyed inflicting pain and in the end she caused so much pain for others.
It's interesting how many violent and disturbed people come from abusive, alcoholic backgrounds. It's also tragic and confusing when trying to de-stigmatize mental illness that some form of mental illness is frequently used to "defend" serious crimes. Most people with mental illness are more of a danger to themselves than others yet, possibly being mentally ill is the first go-to when someone won't take responsibility for their actions.
Dr. Grande: "..."only speculating about what could happening in a situation like this." Dr Grande: Proceeds to describe one of the most bizarre stories I have ever heard. Here's to hoping these are the only "situations" like this!
You must be new to this channel. I recommend you watch a few more. He did one just about a week ago of about an Australian woman that makes this lady seem almost benign. She attempted to feed this man (chopped up and cooked) to his own children.
Hey Dr Grande, looking snazzy as usual! Thanks for the upload! I was wondering if you could cover the case of the Diemel brothers from Wisconsin who were murdered in Missouri, please?
They should really make a law that someone that look as bad as the guy in the wheelchair has to be put in a shelter for a number of days sufficient to get the truth out of him; or have them both wear a location device and order them to stay apart for those days.
Thanks, Dr Grande. Can you please analyze the Michael Barisone - Former Olympic Horse Trainer Shooting Trial, attempted murder case? He was found not guilty today by reason of insanity on all 5 charges.
I hope Dr. Grande would analysis the case of Lori Erica Ruff for us. She killed herself in the driveway of her wealthy in-laws during a difficult divorce. Her husband and daughter had to have been shocked to find out that she was living with a stolen identity. She remained a Jane Doe until the investigation uncovered her true identity. It's fascinating and tragic.
Someone I cared about very much told me she was diagnosed as bi-polar while we were together her illness and symptoms progressed so quickly she was diagnosed with schizo-affect disorder toward the end of our relationship. She never complained about delusions but she informed me of what the voices where telling her and I left when she told me the voices told her to harm me. She never did, which made her different than Sheila but honestly not by much. Sheila was a perfect storm of insanity and unlike my ex should never have been given the benefit of doubt. I do not think everyone who is memtally ill is a monster like Sheila but I do believe if you are the significant other of someone with a mental illness you have to establish how much you are willing to take before saving yourself.
I’m the Wayne Ennis that you are talking about I am now living in Jamaica and you are so right about all that I am lucky and happy that I am still alive what I can say about Sheila she’s crazy and belongs where she is 😮
How about a speculative analysis on the 1984 kidnapping of Jody Plauche by Jeffery Doucett? What made the case famous is the reaction of Jody’s father, Gary Plauche. Very interesting and chock full of potential mental health factors. Either way please keep us the amazing work you are doing. We all enjoy your videos regardless of the topics you choose.
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Could you analyze J Z Knight, otherwise known as "Ramtha" who was really popular in the 80's? She claimed she could channel a million year old spirit and put on quite a theatric show for her followers. Thanks!
"Three Human Toes": A classic case in the many chapters on the Heart of Darkness (remember, "the horror, the horror"). I would like to state simply for the benefit of those for whom the Heart of Darkness is not their "go to" issue that Sheila obviously learned these dark practices very early in life. Growing up abused and with an alcoholic parent is the best way to be introduced to darkness. In other words, the brain responds to external stimuli by adjusting to its environment. As the brain goes, so does the personality. This is clearly the case of the Night Stalker who hit his head on concrete by accident as a child. As the brain goes, so does the personality. Chaotic messages flood the brains of damaged brains unless of course Martians, visiting Earth as humans, decide to do experiments and so remove subjects so that ordinary people say, "We don't know what happened, he/she disappeared." I believe that the Martians were very interested in Sheila's practices, sought to understand her, and neglected to collect the three toes on their journey back to the Red Planet. Thank you, and be careful out there, a reference of course to Hill Street Blues.
The police did a welfare check on the young man with her present. They totally dropped the ball in the situation. The local police also had what they called the Shelia Rule. If they had to go out to her place they always went in a pair. She would often answer the door nude. They knew given the chance she would make any claim that they attacked her, so they made sure they had somebody that could collaborate their story. My friend used to date her told me that she would go off on these rants about a house she hate it child molesters and maintained she had been molested as a child. She confessed to killing the young man and then played the tape where he supposedly confessed to molesting children, however was more likely that he did that under duress. I listened to the author of a book about her tell how after she played the tape even though she admitted to murder she thought the police were going to let her walk out of there. He maintained that had the genders been reversed the place probably would have done a lot more during the welfare check.
The police knew she was violent and unhinged so they should have spoken to the man alone. Maybe if the genders were reversed this would not have happened but it's not a foregone conclusion as police frequently overlook domestic violence which is why murders of women are usually committed by a husband or boyfriend. My abuser was a relative and the police advised me not to press charges, despite my having visible injuries. He was let off with a caution, which expired after 6 years. Not surprisingly, he went on to attack me again and I didn't tell the police because I knew they would be no help but I did seek medical attention. Thankfully, I don't have contact with this person anymore.
@@cleoldbagtraallsorts3380the police telling you not to press charges is ridiculous. I have heard some of the most ridiculous idiotic things police have done. One friend of mine was working out of town and her husband's granddaughter by his first marriage was supposed to be staying there and taking care of him. She and her baby's father moved all my friends stuff into a garage or a shed and took over her office she was a writer on the side. She basically threw them out and they carried a computer off with them. When she pressed charges the detective told her that these people were just victims of the welfare system and we're trying to get by. She asked him what about me I'm driving to another state all week to earn a living. They brought the computer back but by that time they put a new operating system on it and wiped out everything she had on there including the first chapters of a book she was working on.
If the genders were reversed you can bet your ass there would be a much more swift and thorough police action. Being a man is a crime in and of itself in this society.
Dr. Grande, love your channel and was wondering if you can offer a case analysis of Patrick Bateman, the main character in the book/movie American Psycho. Thanks for your time.
Dr. Grande, upon reviewing your playlist I could not find a case analysis of Johnny Depp & Amber Heard case… Have you analyzed this case yet? If so, could you tell me an approximate date so that I can find the video!? If not, can you PLEASE analyze their case? THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE. I look forward to your response🙏🏻 Best regards!
This is the 1st time I've heard this case analyzed. My understanding is that she was caught in Boston and had over$30K of cash with her. The police were worried about HER safety because they thought she was delusional.
She is not clinically crazy, she is evil. This kind of monster is one of the most dangerous as she knows how to lure her victims and make them submissive to her. After that she burns them and moves on to the next victim. I won't be surprised she uses the same manipulative tactics in prison. I hope she is never released.
I just responded to someone else about how I bet she has a huge fan club of Sub men writing her in prison begging her to be their "Goddess" or "Mistress." She is the ultimate dream for the most masochistic of men. She's a monster who deserves the death penalty. She doesn't deserve anymore attention or air to breath.
Fascinating case, she just became a murderous predator. I fully agree with your opinion, and you summed it up perfectly when you said "Her psychosis developed after she had already accumulated wealth...." Had to laugh when you said "....or they "bought" the farm." ;D I hope you have a wonderful Easter weekend, Dr. Grande! 🐰♡ And thank you again for all your unbelievable dedication to bring us the best content on UA-cam! ♡
They're deceived by the intensity of their emotions -- swept up in a spell, be it love or rage, which seems to be a prerequisite for the hasty foolishness we see acted out everyday.
It's so frustrating that crappy humans get so much and still want to hurt others. Any non-killers have a farm and want to let me live there? 😂 Edit to add: I won't kill you if you don't kill me 😂
I find that I should not consume beverages whilst viewing your offerings. Your ambush humor is profoundly stealthy can cause aspirations of said beverages prior to fits of laughter. Thank you, Dr. Grande!
how about her diagnosis being 'just a escalating serial killer.' She knew exactly what she was doing, including counting on the stupidity and gullibility of men and police officers. She must have known how to do the convincing trustworthy persona, or knew the law and their incompetence.
I believe she suffered from PTSD from childhood abuse and very likely was sexually abused by her father and other men too. Many sexually abused children become promiscuous and obsessed with sex and some also develop an interest in sadomasochism as a way to express their anger towards the gender of their abusers. She spiraled out of control because she did see the older man as her father or a friend of her family who abused her as a child and she did have the younger guy confirm that he abused children, so she saw all men as threats and her hyper vigilance caused her to snap and kill them. The obsession with money could be just another way for her to feel like she has some power/control, which she didn’t feel she had any as a victim of both physical and sexual abuse as a child. Not much different from many serial killers profile.
I concur. Even though there is no evidence to support whether she was abused by men, we shouldn’t blame her for any of her actions. We should automatically presume that if a woman ever commits vile, selfish and heinous acts, in some way, it has to be some man’s fault. We should free her immediately and find some men to blame and then Punish them.
@@MrSmith-on1qz I'm with you. Women need to take responsibility and face the Reaper too! She deserves the death penalty and nothing less. She has it good with our tax dollars providing her safety, security, and subsistence. And you know the real kicker! I bet you a $1,750 (including inflation) she has her own fan club writing her in prison even as we speak. They call her their "Goddess" and themselves her "Slaves." They beg her for Total Power Exchange. There are more and more men like this coming out of the woodwork. They would not only love to be with her yet would love to fall to the same demise as her "victims." These men are Subs. The world is predominantly unaware of this community because most people think it's just BDSM dominatrix stuff but it's far more complex than that. This woman is 100% sociopath which means she was created. She's a monster nonetheless. Although these men initially consented doesn't mean they consented to die. She always made a choice to torture and kill. Those 2 actions aren't in the TPE code of conduct. She violated her bond with these men by committing those 2 actions. She deserves nothing less than what she dished out but she'll never receive her due justice in prison. Her life is easy.
@@MrSmith-on1qzdoubting that a woman was ever abused is very typical of men... I didn’t say she should be freed at all, but as usual, men will twist what any women said for his own benefit. I don’t expect a man who picked the most ridiculously generic name to understand anything about why women assume there was sexual abuse involved when the women finally snap and decide to be the oppressors instead of the oppressed. Men don’t usually have the depths nor the interest to really understand what women go through in society and will go out of their to prevent women from being heard or taken serious especially when they are right and men are wrong. Men feel the obligation to gaslight and mansplain women at every chance they get! We women have adapted and thrived in a world maintained by and for men while men have stayed the same; always protecting their delusional beliefs that they are superior and entitled even to things he have not earned at all. Men will lie, cheat and even kill to get what they want! And when they finally realize that the women they think should kiss the ground they walk on can’t wait to replace them or simply get rid of them, those men can’t handle their fragile little ego getting hurt and will decide then the women are more worth to them dead than alive. They might kill her kids and her pets too. Luckily for men, women are not natural predators like they are so, there will never be as many female serial rapists and/or killers in the world. Thank the Gods for your Y chromosome, thank them twice if you’re a white male, thank them thrice if you’re also rich. 🎵This is a man's, man's, man's world… But it wouldn't be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl!🎵
I read this book many years ago. I don't believe she had any psychosis just like you said. She had evilphrenia🤣 She was extremely cruel and mean, diabolical if you will. That poor Countie guys mother tried to get him back from Sheila but was unable to. She beat him into confessing about child abuse and taped it and if I remember correctly it went on and on. She killed several other men besides Michael and Countie. At least it was reported men came there but never left
I imagine people will be crazy things when they are bored and have no goals. Once a person has land and lots of money, they may not be motivated to do anything else. Interesting case, thank you for the video.
Crazy, my parents once told me I had actually met this woman, while she was working in the chiropracters office as a receptionist, they asked if I remembered her, when this all came out, (I did not) One of them told her they admired her hair or something (it was apparently very long and beautiful at he time) and she reccomended the "citre" haircare line which we did use for sometime afterward. I DO remember the shampoo and it smelling really good. LOL small world, weird existence.
I was almost lured by Sheila LaBarre to her farm, after chatting online with her back in 2002. I won't go into the whole back n forth we had, but I lucily got a gut feeling pretty early on that she was a little off, eventually just ignoring her messages and never thought about it again. Till i actually came across a video here on youtube about women who kill. When It showed 2 pictures of her and talked about the farm along with the connection to bdsm and internet chat,(but the pictures were what made my jaw drop and near shit my pants cuz they were both pictures that she had sent to me, one of which was her in her younger years in that red dress which i believe ended up on the cover of the book about the murders) Anyway,,I thank god for gut feelings!
Good gracious. BDSM Farm Homicides. I will say this. Listening to this stuff makes me feel like a much better person. I'm not perfect. But at least I'm not a psycho. I can die happy knowing I've never hurt anyone or done something despicable. 🤣
You neglected to mention that there are actually 2 types of scizoaffective disorder the 1st is scizoaffective depression class and the second is the one you are talking about scizoaffective bi-polar class. Just thought I would bring that up incase anyone is interested in mental health. I actually suffer from scizoaffective disorder depression class.
I hate hearing about stories when a woman takes control over their “husbands” entire estate & leave out the biological kids from what they’re entitled too
Hello Dr. Grande,
I would really like to hear your take on Natalie Bollinger case. She was a 17 year old addict, who ordered a hitman from Craigslist to have her killed and blamed it on her stalker Shawn Schwartz, who is a homeless man with autism and Asperger syndrom. It is a truly disturbing case, with many twists, and I'm very interested to hear your professional analysis on both of these individuals.
Thank you and have a nice day!
they r crazy
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Oh yes, I just watched this case in The fear Files! Good thinking bat...girl?! You're top comment btw. 👍
Omg!! Shaun is actually commenting on that fear Files video!!! He has a UA-cam channel!! It's Shaun David!! I'd never have noticed if your comment hadn't have prompted me to look again!!!! Wow!!!
Yeah do it grande
A friend of mine actually used to date her. I think she would have taken him out if she hadn't found a better victim. She left him for the chiropractor.
What? That´s messed up and the world is so small it´s disturbing.
I went out with her a few times but she was way too expensive. I had to pay $ 50 000 to get shot at. And sometimes she didn't even keep her end of the contract refusing to fire on me. She was soooo high end !!! She would charge a mere slap $3000.
@@cluelessjoe5745 wait so she was like a Escort in New Hampshire ?
Your friend should really head to Vegas or Atlantic City and try their luck, I think they might hit Megabucks lol
@@EarlSmith2469 he may have you used all its luck up avoiding her
I love your dry humor. “He has finally found what he was looking for… someone who knew how to remove their clothing.”
and "someone either took the bones to the farm, or they bought the farm... so to speak" hahaha
He says it with a straight face. 😂😂😂
A dry observation: If you go by the old time strippers (maybe even burlesque) you would note they take off their clothing/costume with style and an entertaining performance in public; but generally quite quickly gather up and take their clothes away with them once complete and repair and redress in private (whether then stylishly or not).
@@Don.Challenger unnecessary and creepy comment there bud
@@Don.Challenger that’s because nobody is paying to watch them put their clothes back on. Stage time is money! When their set is done they have to get out of the way.
Your dry humor always makes my day just a bit better every day. Thank you, Dr. Grande for your funny and well-informed videos.
Came for the analysis, stayed for the scorchingly bone dry humor! Thank you Dr. Grande, we really appreciate your insightful content. Gratefully, Dennis
Yes, he has that talent, he can toss them about quite dryly: a well placed femur there, a sternum over here.
Your comments are always so polite ❤️
Any video titled "BDSM Farm Homicides" is a must-watch!
Love your dry humor and great true stories!!
Agree theory 1 is the explanation, and she fits the serial killer psychological profile of early childhood trauma resulting in fusion of sex, violence, and self hate which at some point gets projected onto victims.
Another weird horse-related case involves Helen Brach, the candy heiress, who disappeared in the midst of a national insurance fraud and con involving high end horses, famous barns and Olympic riders, a veterinarian, a lawyer, and trainers all colluding to con older, vulnerable, rich women and insurance companies. It's often referred to as the Chicago Horse Mafia case. Brach has never been located and is presumed murdered. Edits due to spellwreck.
God bless anyone who timestamps and quotes the humor that blends in so perfectly through his narrative. I blurt out laughing always everytime, it always happens at least once in every video.
Thank you, Dr. Grande for giving me the clearest definition of schizoaffective disorder. I was originally diagnosed as this, but once my psychosis cleared up, I was reassed as bipolar 1 with a history of psychosis.
Hope the world looks better to you now!💐
@@bthomson It does! I am doing fine. And I stay on my meds! I hated being psychotic. Hallucinations are very annoying.
I can’t imagine hallucinations. Life is hard enough. Glad you’re doing better bud. Keep up the good work!
@@daveatkins3568 I'm not trying to laugh but "can't imagine hallucinations made me laugh!! Shawn, I'm so glad you're doing better! And Dr Grande really is great at explaining things!!
I had a “breakdown” once for 3 days, couldn’t sleep, hallucinations, it was awful. I was told it was from severe stress. Anyway, just never talked to someone else that has experienced such a thing before and is back on a healthy track. Good for you ❤️ it’s hard not to worry it could happen again. What a bizarre and frightening ordeal!
Our brains can do powerful, terrifying things to us! I don’t think it’s something people can really, truly understand without having gone through it.
I used to work as a psych nurse and I understood all that stuff in an educated way, but it is a whole different animal going through an episode like that!
Anyway, keep yourself healthy and safe ❤️
"If the police can't trust a woman who burns human remains who can they trust" hahaha 🙄😅😂 She definitely seems to have known what she was doing. Seems too organized to be in psychosis. Thanks for another interesting analysis, Dr. Grande 👍❤️⚔️🔥🐴
And to remove for clothes that was a really good one too I'm glad cuz this story is horrifying if you've read the book
whats up with the horse and swords?
@@kristoffseisler2163 I believe they are emojis of the commenter's name (Iron Fire Horse).
I lived in NH for a while, and some towns' law enforcement departments were very trusting with offenders. A throwback to a gentler age.
@@mikelobrien I think perhaps times were even less gentle in the past, but things just weren't publicised and were mostly 'handled with discretion'. Especially when the local police were well acquainted with a suspect.
I cannot believe they left her with the evidence though; especially the femur in the firepit. That's the purest, most refined form of idiocy I've ever heard. It's almost holistic idiocy.
I can't believe she received his estate over his own kids..very sad...
blame it on Bill!
She must have won him over with SEX
He changed his will. She prob made him.
A constant repeat cheater too. What an idiot to let that happen
your humor is always perfectly timed and delivered in such a dry sense that it almost always causes me to burst out laughing. perfect way to relieve some of the tension of the stories.
fantastic video as always. i had never heard of her prior to this and it genuinely shocks me how little law enforcement seemed to care about any of it whatsoever. they received numerous concerns but apparently only seemed to take it seriously after the stabbing.
It’s amazing how many of these stories involve repeated unhealthy relationships. I’m surprised by how one person can victimize so many. Hopefully, these videos can prevent a few such relationships.
Your intriguing title enticed me.
I live about 20 mins from where this happened. I also know a corrections officer that worked at yhe Strafford county Jail in Dover NH. He aaid ahe was scary and tried to get the guards to have relations with her. She is one disturbed individual
Thank you for being willing to dive into these often dark and disturbing cases in order to Educate us so much Dr. Grande!! 💖 I feel like we can learn a lot from these terrible cases. Things like, first of all, what can happen to some people who are hurt as children and never get help or find a way to overcome or properly cope with that trauma- And ALSO just how dangerous it is when people just let their darkest desires and impulses run wild without any moral compass or restraint or self-control of any kind- I mean far be it for me to...I believe the term is..."Kink Shame" Anyone- but I think once people start getting truly hurt the whole "Whatever 2 consenting adults do is fine and no one's business" thing kinda no longer applies! I believe people in abusive relationships often lose the will or ability to ever say "No" or stand up for themselves after a while. Like the police who were called to the store about them and he was in a wheelchair with visible injuries all over, I feel like a LOT MORE could've been done to protect him at that time maybe? And I'm sorry to admit that I was drinking from a water bottle when you mentioned the "random unidentified human toes" they found scattered around at the ranch, and I laughed so hard and unexpectedly water got everywhere and I had to change my shirt even!! 😂 Maybe that makes me a TERRIBLE person for laughing, but that was just too entirely darkly rediculous not to just LOSE IT- I think it was half laughing in pure shock 😲, like "HUUHHH?? I MUST'VE Heard that wrong, PLEASE let me have heard that wrong!!" I don't even know HOW to comment on the level of DISTURBING THAT rose to!! So I'll just end here and apologize for this MUCH TOO LENGTHY comment- but no matter WHAT the subject matter- even apparently severed human TOES- Dr. Grande is ALWAYS a bright spot and boost in my day- Thank You again "Grande the Gifted"!! 💖😘👍🧠🥰🤓🌵🤗 Hope you have a FANTASTIC Weekend Doc, and all my Fellow Grande Groupies also! 😁❤️
Shay , I think she should be a contender, for wife of the year 😂😂😂
Strange that she felt total empathy for animals but not for people? Maybe she felt safe on the farm! Best wishes to all for a wonderful weekend and Easter! 👒🐇🐥🌺
@@bthomson There are no clues in this video that says she felt empathy for animals. Her killing was in service to children, according to this video
Oops! Got her mixed up with the veterinarian women who wanted to save the worms-infested kittens! (btw everyone agreed the kittens should have been saved!)
Thanks, Dr. Grande.
Happy Friday. I hope you and everyone else has a lovely weekend!!!
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Thank you, as always, Dr. Grande! I hope you and your family have a great weekend 😊
Dr. Grande, thank you for this video. I'd not heard of this awful woman. Every picture of her just looks off. Preditory. Gives one chills😳
That's because you know she's a killer.
I hate it when I accidentally leave my toes behind someplace.
Good Day, Dr. Grande. Still binging. 👌
Had I a nickel for every "just plain mean" termagant I've run into I'd be a rich man. Thoughtful eye-opening story, Dr Grande -- oh, that you'd just been around for people 50 years ago... Thanks a million.
Quick question : How much money would you have made from the nice women you have met?🤔
Bonus points for using "termagant" in a sentence!
@@bthomson Not much. Enough maybe to keep me in hairshirts & sandals.
@@ericdodson2644 Harridan; virago; shrew, et al. Lots more where those came from, sad to say....
Sadly, society had to await the developing internet and its immense supporting infrastructure; TV and radio networks could not have supported this vast programming nor would it have been allowed.
I remember when this case was all over the news in NH. I would hear that Sheila LaBarre was on trial for killing Kenneth County and my go to joke was "Damn, she killed the entire county of Kenneth?" and didn't think about it much after that aside from how bizarre it was that she burned his remains in a fire pit and left the bone fragments there.
I knew Kenneth County and his mother. It was very sad for the mother.
I'll have to say...the title made me drop what I was doing.
as for the cops, i remember a Simpson;s episode where Homer was caught as a counterfitter. Chief Wiggum left the printing press with Homer and told him to save it because there was no case without it.
Hi Dr. Grande! I"m only early because I have the day off! I find it ironic that this woman was born in Fort Payne. She enjoyed inflicting pain and in the end she caused so much pain for others.
It's interesting how many violent and disturbed people come from abusive, alcoholic backgrounds. It's also tragic and confusing when trying to de-stigmatize mental illness that some form of mental illness is frequently used to "defend" serious crimes.
Most people with mental illness are more of a danger to themselves than others yet, possibly being mentally ill is the first go-to when someone won't take responsibility for their actions.
I read a book on this case. Horrifying!😱
Do you remember the title?
@@cleoldbagtraallsorts3380 Wicked intentions: The Sheila LaBarre Murders
@@cleoldbagtraallsorts3380 It is called "Wicked Intensions" I read it too, forgot the title. I looked it up.
I read it, too. Yes, horrifying. Seeing Kenneth's bruised face was chilling. Dr Grande did a good job of telling the story.
*Intentions
Dr. Grande: "..."only speculating about what could happening in a situation like this."
Dr Grande: Proceeds to describe one of the most bizarre stories I have ever heard.
Here's to hoping these are the only "situations" like this!
You must be new to this channel. I recommend you watch a few more. He did one just about a week ago of about an Australian woman that makes this lady seem almost benign. She attempted to feed this man (chopped up and cooked) to his own children.
Hey Dr Grande, looking snazzy as usual! Thanks for the upload! I was wondering if you could cover the case of the Diemel brothers from Wisconsin who were murdered in Missouri, please?
They should really make a law that someone that look as bad as the guy in the wheelchair has to be put in a shelter for a number of days sufficient to get the truth out of him; or have them both wear a location device and order them to stay apart for those days.
Thanks, Dr Grande. Can you please analyze the Michael Barisone - Former Olympic Horse Trainer Shooting Trial, attempted murder case? He was found not guilty today by reason of insanity on all 5 charges.
I hope Dr. Grande would analysis the case of Lori Erica Ruff for us. She killed herself in the driveway of her wealthy in-laws during a difficult divorce. Her husband and daughter had to have been shocked to find out that she was living with a stolen identity. She remained a Jane Doe until the investigation uncovered her true identity. It's fascinating and tragic.
Very good suggestion. I agree 👍🏼
Someone I cared about very much told me she was diagnosed as bi-polar while we were together her illness and symptoms progressed so quickly she was diagnosed with schizo-affect disorder toward the end of our relationship. She never complained about delusions but she informed me of what the voices where telling her and I left when she told me the voices told her to harm me. She never did, which made her different than Sheila but honestly not by much. Sheila was a perfect storm of insanity and unlike my ex should never have been given the benefit of doubt. I do not think everyone who is memtally ill is a monster like Sheila but I do believe if you are the significant other of someone with a mental illness you have to establish how much you are willing to take before saving yourself.
Hey Dr. Grande ❣️ Thank you for the new video. This case is crazy🙆♀️
Dr Grande’s safe word is O.C.E.A.N.
I’m the Wayne Ennis that you are talking about I am now living in Jamaica and you are so right about all that I am lucky and happy that I am still alive what I can say about Sheila she’s crazy and belongs where she is 😮
Was she abusive?
How about a speculative analysis on the 1984 kidnapping of Jody Plauche by Jeffery Doucett? What made the case famous is the reaction of Jody’s father, Gary Plauche. Very interesting and chock full of potential mental health factors. Either way please keep us the amazing work you are doing. We all enjoy your videos regardless of the topics you choose.
Happy Easter 🐇🐇🐇, Everyone!🐰🐰🐰
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Third time is a charm: Can you do the case of Dorothy Kilgallen? lol
I love the subtle humor
" ... she did not intend her remark as a compliment."
Could you analyze J Z Knight, otherwise known as "Ramtha" who was really popular in the 80's? She claimed she could channel a million year old spirit and put on quite a theatric show for her followers. Thanks!
Oh yeah. I remember that crazy b. Good idea.
OMG YES PLEASE
Whoa, the Bad Seed all grown up. I'd really hate to be the person in jail with her.
"Three Human Toes": A classic case in the many chapters on the Heart of Darkness (remember, "the horror, the horror"). I would like to state simply for the benefit of those for whom the Heart of Darkness is not their "go to" issue that Sheila obviously learned these dark practices very early in life. Growing up abused and with an alcoholic parent is the best way to be introduced to darkness. In other words, the brain responds to external stimuli by adjusting to its environment. As the brain goes, so does the personality. This is clearly the case of the Night Stalker who hit his head on concrete by accident as a child. As the brain goes, so does the personality. Chaotic messages flood the brains of damaged brains unless of course Martians, visiting Earth as humans, decide to do experiments and so remove subjects so that ordinary people say, "We don't know what happened, he/she disappeared." I believe that the Martians were very interested in Sheila's practices, sought to understand her, and neglected to collect the three toes on their journey back to the Red Planet. Thank you, and be careful out there, a reference of course to Hill Street Blues.
The police did a welfare check on the young man with her present. They totally dropped the ball in the situation. The local police also had what they called the Shelia Rule. If they had to go out to her place they always went in a pair. She would often answer the door nude. They knew given the chance she would make any claim that they attacked her, so they made sure they had somebody that could collaborate their story. My friend used to date her told me that she would go off on these rants about a house she hate it child molesters and maintained she had been molested as a child. She confessed to killing the young man and then played the tape where he supposedly confessed to molesting children, however was more likely that he did that under duress. I listened to the author of a book about her tell how after she played the tape even though she admitted to murder she thought the police were going to let her walk out of there. He maintained that had the genders been reversed the place probably would have done a lot more during the welfare check.
The police knew she was violent and unhinged so they should have spoken to the man alone. Maybe if the genders were reversed this would not have happened but it's not a foregone conclusion as police frequently overlook domestic violence which is why murders of women are usually committed by a husband or boyfriend. My abuser was a relative and the police advised me not to press charges, despite my having visible injuries. He was let off with a caution, which expired after 6 years. Not surprisingly, he went on to attack me again and I didn't tell the police because I knew they would be no help but I did seek medical attention. Thankfully, I don't have contact with this person anymore.
@@cleoldbagtraallsorts3380the police telling you not to press charges is ridiculous. I have heard some of the most ridiculous idiotic things police have done. One friend of mine was working out of town and her husband's granddaughter by his first marriage was supposed to be staying there and taking care of him. She and her baby's father moved all my friends stuff into a garage or a shed and took over her office she was a writer on the side. She basically threw them out and they carried a computer off with them. When she pressed charges the detective told her that these people were just victims of the welfare system and we're trying to get by. She asked him what about me I'm driving to another state all week to earn a living. They brought the computer back but by that time they put a new operating system on it and wiped out everything she had on there including the first chapters of a book she was working on.
@@thomasswafford250 Was that California? Sounds like a California cop.
If the genders were reversed you can bet your ass there would be a much more swift and thorough police action. Being a man is a crime in and of itself in this society.
@@anamariacoyote4815 I think New Hampshire.
Dude is so analytical he says, “he had difficulty limiting his intake of alcohol,” instead is saying, “he’s an alcoholic” haha
Sometimes I think he says in order to avoid diagnosing someone as an alcoholic.
@@maddieb5787 I watched the video and came up with a diagnosis.....he was an alcoholic
Happy Holiday, Dr. Grande.
Dr. Grande, love your channel and was wondering if you can offer a case analysis of Patrick Bateman, the main character in the book/movie American Psycho. Thanks for your time.
Born and raised in NH... NH doesn't recognize or "honor" common law situation ships...
Strange coincidence: 'BDSM Farm' was the name of Dr Grande's College Band.
Now we need an explanation from Dr. Grande as to why they chose such name, don’t you agree?
@@lillithmoon2935YES! but explanations may not be forthcoming. :)
You always handle the stories of terrible people with good grace.
And always so calm. 🤣😂🤣
"He was supporting her having other lovers." Yeah, sure.. As much as Will Smith...
These poly BDSM entanglements are a total cancer.
Spot on analysis, Dr. Grande.
I feel blessed that women like this have never come into my life!
Great analysis and interesting case review. Counting my toes as soon as I’m finished typing.
Dr. Grande, upon reviewing your playlist I could not find a case analysis of Johnny Depp & Amber Heard case… Have you analyzed this case yet? If so, could you tell me an approximate date so that I can find the video!?
If not, can you PLEASE analyze their case?
THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE.
I look forward to your response🙏🏻
Best regards!
As always, I found your analysis to be informative.
Thank you for covering this story 👍👍
Dr. Grande, please consider analyzing the Papin sisters. Fascinating.
Happy Easter Dr Grande......
This is the 1st time I've heard this case analyzed. My understanding is that she was caught in Boston and had over$30K of cash with her. The police were worried about HER safety because they thought she was delusional.
She is not clinically crazy, she is evil.
This kind of monster is one of the most dangerous as she knows how to lure her victims and make them submissive to her. After that she burns them and moves on to the next victim. I won't be surprised she uses the same manipulative tactics in prison. I hope she is never released.
I just responded to someone else about how I bet she has a huge fan club of Sub men writing her in prison begging her to be their "Goddess" or "Mistress." She is the ultimate dream for the most masochistic of men. She's a monster who deserves the death penalty. She doesn't deserve anymore attention or air to breath.
Fascinating case, she just became a murderous predator.
I fully agree with your opinion, and you summed it up perfectly when you said "Her psychosis developed after she had already accumulated wealth...."
Had to laugh when you said "....or they "bought" the farm." ;D
I hope you have a wonderful Easter weekend, Dr. Grande! 🐰♡
And thank you again for all your unbelievable dedication to bring us the best content on UA-cam! ♡
When the title has "..... of Death", you know it's going to be interesting!
Not to mention, "BDSM Farm"!
I thought the exact same thing
He had me at “BDSM Farm”.
Unbelievable humor dr grande😅I just love how the sharp, detailed, objective analysis is second by moments of black humor
Dr. Grande you’re such a Gentleman and such a wonderful Therapist! Thank you for good case to give insight.
Why do people get so crazy " in love" they sign over Everything??? I'm not even close to rich, but I don't understand it!!
They're deceived by the intensity of their emotions -- swept up in a spell, be it love or rage,
which seems to be a prerequisite for the hasty foolishness we see acted out everyday.
@@White-Michael935 well said! Thank you!
It's so frustrating that crappy humans get so much and still want to hurt others. Any non-killers have a farm and want to let me live there? 😂
Edit to add: I won't kill you if you don't kill me 😂
get a job.
@@puketinmoarliek994 someone doesn't understand humor. Have a good day.
Sheila's brutality made me think of Larissa Schuster.
Schuster would be a good case for Dr. Grande to discuss.
I find that I should not consume beverages whilst viewing your offerings. Your ambush humor is profoundly stealthy can cause aspirations of said beverages prior to fits of laughter.
Thank you, Dr. Grande!
“She had many different romantic relationships” got any confessions doc?you don’t fool me. Lol. Great video doc
how about her diagnosis being 'just a escalating serial killer.' She knew exactly what she was doing, including counting on the stupidity and gullibility of men and police officers. She must have known how to do the convincing trustworthy persona, or knew the law and their incompetence.
I believe she suffered from PTSD from childhood abuse and very likely was sexually abused by her father and other men too. Many sexually abused children become promiscuous and obsessed with sex and some also develop an interest in sadomasochism as a way to express their anger towards the gender of their abusers. She spiraled out of control because she did see the older man as her father or a friend of her family who abused her as a child and she did have the younger guy confirm that he abused children, so she saw all men as threats and her hyper vigilance caused her to snap and kill them. The obsession with money could be just another way for her to feel like she has some power/control, which she didn’t feel she had any as a victim of both physical and sexual abuse as a child. Not much different from many serial killers profile.
I concur. Even though there is no evidence to support whether she was abused by men, we shouldn’t blame her for any of her actions.
We should automatically presume that if a woman ever commits vile, selfish and heinous acts, in some way, it has to be some man’s fault.
We should free her immediately and find some men to blame and then Punish them.
@@MrSmith-on1qz I'm with you. Women need to take responsibility and face the Reaper too! She deserves the death penalty and nothing less. She has it good with our tax dollars providing her safety, security, and subsistence.
And you know the real kicker! I bet you a $1,750 (including inflation) she has her own fan club writing her in prison even as we speak. They call her their "Goddess" and themselves her "Slaves." They beg her for Total Power Exchange. There are more and more men like this coming out of the woodwork. They would not only love to be with her yet would love to fall to the same demise as her "victims." These men are Subs. The world is predominantly unaware of this community because most people think it's just BDSM dominatrix stuff but it's far more complex than that. This woman is 100% sociopath which means she was created. She's a monster nonetheless. Although these men initially consented doesn't mean they consented to die. She always made a choice to torture and kill. Those 2 actions aren't in the TPE code of conduct. She violated her bond with these men by committing those 2 actions. She deserves nothing less than what she dished out but she'll never receive her due justice in prison. Her life is easy.
@@MrSmith-on1qzdoubting that a woman was ever abused is very typical of men... I didn’t say she should be freed at all, but as usual, men will twist what any women said for his own benefit. I don’t expect a man who picked the most ridiculously generic name to understand anything about why women assume there was sexual abuse involved when the women finally snap and decide to be the oppressors instead of the oppressed. Men don’t usually have the depths nor the interest to really understand what women go through in society and will go out of their to prevent women from being heard or taken serious especially when they are right and men are wrong. Men feel the obligation to gaslight and mansplain women at every chance they get! We women have adapted and thrived in a world maintained by and for men while men have stayed the same; always protecting their delusional beliefs that they are superior and entitled even to things he have not earned at all. Men will lie, cheat and even kill to get what they want! And when they finally realize that the women they think should kiss the ground they walk on can’t wait to replace them or simply get rid of them, those men can’t handle their fragile little ego getting hurt and will decide then the women are more worth to them dead than alive. They might kill her kids and her pets too. Luckily for men, women are not natural predators like they are so, there will never be as many female serial rapists and/or killers in the world. Thank the Gods for your Y chromosome, thank them twice if you’re a white male, thank them thrice if you’re also rich. 🎵This is a man's, man's, man's world…
But it wouldn't be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl!🎵
I read this book many years ago. I don't believe she had any psychosis just like you said. She had evilphrenia🤣 She was extremely cruel and mean, diabolical if you will. That poor Countie guys mother tried to get him back from Sheila but was unable to. She beat him into confessing about child abuse and taped it and if I remember correctly it went on and on. She killed several other men besides Michael and Countie. At least it was reported men came there but never left
I know carolynn, Kennys mother. So sad
Ty Dr Grande I would love to hear u speak on infantile personality disorder
Love you, Man!!
I often leave my toes behind when I visit farms as well. So I know where that guy is coming from.
I imagine people will be crazy things when they are bored and have no goals.
Once a person has land and lots of money, they may not be motivated to do anything else.
Interesting case, thank you for the video.
It’s been a while Doc! Missed these vids! Congrats again on a million!! 🎉👏🏼
I would love to hear your take on the Cindy James case
Crazy, my parents once told me I had actually met this woman, while she was working in the chiropracters office as a receptionist, they asked if I remembered her, when this all came out, (I did not) One of them told her they admired her hair or something (it was apparently very long and beautiful at he time) and she reccomended the "citre" haircare line which we did use for sometime afterward. I DO remember the shampoo and it smelling really good. LOL small world, weird existence.
Sweet, lunch with Dr G!
Thanks for the content
People need to treat BDSM like the red flag 🚩 it is.
Oh come on.. who doesn't want it to feel a little bit better than the last time.....
YES DUDE! I have been waiting for a big youtuber or podcast to cover this! The biggest thing to happen to Epping 😅
I ain't gonna work on Sheila's farm no more.
Good ol’ Mr. Robert Zimmerman
Difficulty regulating my intake of alcohol...I like that way of saying it.
Dr. Grande,
Thank you as always! This is an incredible case.
Love from Canada 🇨🇦
The irony of Sheila saying someone else has demonic eyes.
That's soooo crazy that the law left evidence there & asked her not 2 touch/dispose of it.......SayWot, like what were they thinking
I was almost lured by Sheila LaBarre to her farm, after chatting online with her back in 2002. I won't go into the whole back n forth we had, but I lucily got a gut feeling pretty early on that she was a little off, eventually just ignoring her messages and never thought about it again. Till i actually came across a video here on youtube about women who kill. When It showed 2 pictures of her and talked about the farm along with the connection to bdsm and internet chat,(but the pictures were what made my jaw drop and near shit my pants cuz they were both pictures that she had sent to me, one of which was her in her younger years in that red dress which i believe ended up on the cover of the book about the murders) Anyway,,I thank god for gut feelings!
It's good that the police came out to check on Kenneth. It might have ended badly but for their rigour and compassion.
Good gracious. BDSM Farm Homicides. I will say this. Listening to this stuff makes me feel like a much better person. I'm not perfect. But at least I'm not a psycho. I can die happy knowing I've never hurt anyone or done something despicable. 🤣
You neglected to mention that there are actually 2 types of scizoaffective disorder the 1st is scizoaffective depression class and the second is the one you are talking about scizoaffective bi-polar class.
Just thought I would bring that up incase anyone is interested in mental health. I actually suffer from scizoaffective disorder depression class.