Self love - treat yourself well Conflict resolution - Friends first Heal- Drop your baggage Single - No exes or soul ties Celibacy- No sex Share - Individual vs Group, communicate regularly and have accountability, share time, energy, money, food. Interests- friends, hobby, etc. Interdependence Fight or flight - resolve or run Marriage vs Wedding - Be intentional Be yourself, share your unique self with others, be relaxed or comfortable, get to know yourself Be the best version of you Work while you wait Don't settle, be encouraged
love the message! inspired. I am single. taking excellent care of myself. waiting for the man of dreams. I am fabulous so man has to be amazingly fabulous too.lol
This is so true! I've been single for 3 years and during that time I've travelled, worked hard, gone on a sabbatical, studied, done workshops to better myself, dealt with my own toxic traits, remained completely celibate and just learnt so much about myself.
good girl...keep learning about yourself...time to learn not to waste...eventually the good man will come knock your door. knock knock...i am here! open the door !
@@youreincredible1648 oh definitely, im working on my own life and myself too, one day ill meet someone but loving this single season where I can be all about me too. It is so important to work on yourself!!
A man who is secure in himself & healthy (in all areas mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, financially). Healed from any trauma, emotionally intelligent, open and ready to love, affectionate, romantic, thoughtful, respectful, unwavering loyal, 100% truthful and genuine. Prioritizes me.
@@blandine9259 i love that part about being healed from trauma... yeah i feel also like i put soo much effort on healing myself and cleaning out inner garbage and my man has to meet me on that level too
@@yoyoyo5621 this! I'm always continually assessing myself and holding myself accountable, working and healing me to be my best so it's only right he meets me on that level because I do not have the time nor energy for anything less than.
Remember that even though you have to be selfless in a relationship, if you have to compromise your sense of self and self love to sustain it, it's not the one.
I absolutely loved this! Being single is the time when you should selfishly work and invest in yourself. Self evaluate yourself in past relationships and see how you can grow for your future.
This is so true. At times I find myself wishing I was in a relationship but I do enjoy this time finding what I like, what I don’t like, and just soul searching.
Why I had to be someone who NEVER had a valentine, I’ll never know. I sometimes feel like God has forgotten me. This video gives me some hope that someday I’ll be good enough to have the love I’ve always dreamed of and worked for. Having a lifetime of abuse that’s not my fault to heal myself from is what’s holding me back.
I'm sorry for what you are going through. But you need to understand that you are already good enough. A relationship is not what determines your value!
Diva 504 - You are already good enough. Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone else’s inability to see your worth, your pain may not have been your fault but your healing is totally your responsibility ♥️
Diva work on yourself anything you don’t like about yourself already CHANGE IT, I need to loose 110 lbs and I know the weight is causing me not to find a man that can add to my happiness. I guess what I’m saying is when gm you feel your best you are treated your best and way more happy so work on yourself first.
Glowingup_shan yes ma’am I’m pushing through the lonely bed and sore muscles from the workout. I also had to choose between eating and being invisible to the opposite sex. I wish you much success on your weight loss journey. I lost 140 pounds and I’m at my goal weight. Though there’s no man, but the benefit of being healthy and comfortable in your own skin and not having to pay extra for plus size is priceless.
Breeny Lee thank you. I have already healed, got down to my goal weight, and got a publishing deal on my books. You are a blessing to other women and you’re so humble you don’t rub your success in other women’s faces that are struggling in the dating arena in a shady undertone. You are a beautiful and genuine person inside and out. I’m happy for your relationship and I wish you and your partner longevity, prosperity, and health. I didn’t think in a million years my manuscript would ever be accepted and it did. That gives me the faith to believe in miracles when I’m not seeing. God bless.
I am falling in love and it's bringing up all my insecurities.. "what if he hurts me, what if he changes his mind, what if he lets me down, what if, what if...."
I get that way too but I remind myself that anything worth having requires vulnerability & the chance to get hurt. I also remind myself how worthy of love I am & that if this doesn’t work out, I’m closer to finding the one that will love me the way I deserved to be loved.
It’s good that these insecurities are coming up, because it means they are there. And they do not belong in a healthy relationship. I would turn those questions inwardly & ask myself why, not what if. Why would he hurt me> meaning I do not carry the vibration of someone that my partner would hurt. Why would he change his mind> meaning you are confident that you are a prize & any man that gets you is quite lucky to have you. Why would he let me down> meaning you are not the type of person to be let down. Everything is about vibration. You attract what you are. Like attracts like. So if you have good self love & self confidence, you will attract these qualities in a mate. These thoughts show you have low self esteem & self worth. It also shows that you give your power away to the man completely. A man doesn’t get to decide the entire trajectory of a relationship. This is a socio cultural narrative that I truly dislike. Women are not some little wall flowers waiting to be picked & swept off their feet by men. Women have equal control in a relationship. It is a partnership. Work on yourself darling. Know that you have many things of value to bring to a man’s life, & to have you is to have something unique & special. 💜
In dating people do get hurt, it's part of dating. You can't step into the boxing ring and expect not to get hurt. Dating is messy, it's not a linear curve. People who risk nothing gain nothing. You have to put yourself out there and trust in yourself you can handle whatever happens in life.
Exactly companionship love grows with time, but people are caught up in this fantasy land of romantic love which soon fades. The hotter the flames, the quicker the ashes.
Please don't leave us without a video for this long again.. I'm glad to see you.. You look refreshed, stunning and at ease... Much blessings for the new year to you! ❤️ 💫
Share your food sis but never your money, as a man you need to let him do his duty and that is to provide, never let a man near your money as that can ruin you, he should be your provider not the other way round
Me: Man that sun is hitting her so freakin beautifully... 😩😍 Her: Man, I hope that sun is not too bright. 😂 Breeny, I love your gorgeous self. Beautiful inside and out! Today's advice was A100! Thank you for this! I've been struggling and you just hit everything i needed to hear!
@@jackassfat it's not always that easy though. 1.you need a dad. 2. What if he was a poor role model. 3. What if you struggle to find a man like him? That was a different generation, molded by different nuance details in culture.
@@ilykfritos1 wow lucky you! !! i am so jealous now! you got a man and you are commenting here??? go have fun with your man,here is for single lonely people.
If they’re a narcissist, they won’t find someone better that suits them. They’re going to be running from partner to partner bc no one will ever be enough. Pray that they will be healed from their tormented childhood, instead of hating what they put u through. That’s what I need to do
Stuck between loving my own company and wanting to be in a relationship. I looooove being in my own company (it's addictive) but I also like having the person I like with me. I am a giving person in relationships and I have taught myself to be this way through my relationships with my family and friends so that it comes natural. I am such a private person and I just love intimacy and am saving myself for someone special.
I think that you have to know the person is coming from a good place and is a good person first and foremost bc if u don’t feel their intentions are good you will never be willing to find a common ground.
I’m glad you included the part about your mentor asking you if the man you were with is the man of your dreams. If you can’t say yes confidently, like you said, you’re settling. I broke up with my ex almost two months ago and even though I miss him and loved him, if you asked me if he’s the man of my dreams, I would say no with no hesitation. There’s no point in getting back together. I needed to see this. Watching your videos has been helping me cope. Thank you for helping me and many others ❤️
I love that you put emphasis on how friendships and romantic relationships have overlap in terms of power dynamic and conflict resolution. And if you’re not doing too hot in the most fundamental kind of relationship, you might be setting your
I am a man and this advice really helped me, I recently got divorced after 5.5 years with the mother of my children and my head has been all over the place. One day I am swiping away at Tinder and having great chats and wanting to connect with people while the other day I regret the entire divorce. I decided to remove myself from these apps and just calm TF down. Thanks!
I love love love this, I got out of a toxic relationship in November. Now in February I’m so happy and so satisfied being alone that the thought of a relationship is far away. I want one, one day. But I’m so happy just being alone that it’s nice to feel my own tank.
You are the woman I wish I had in my life growing up. I'm 30 now and am still so ignorant about so much. I got myself into abusive relationships because I didn't love myself. I let people suck all the life right out of me. This year is the year I set boundaries and love myself and not sell myself short! Thank you so much for sharing this God given wisdom and for always speaking truth. So much love sis 💖 God bless you
THIS IS SO REAL! Love that you talk truth. It's so important for women to understand what it takes to be in a healthy relationship and how they can prepare.
WOW Breeny, I tell my BF this all the time . I let him know, he doesn't make me "Happy", he makes me "Happier". You are responsible for your OWN happiness.
You (!) have become my role model when it comes to dating, I have learnt from your mistakes that led to good advice and I always return to your videos whenever I need a quick pepp talk. You’re a blessing and I wish you and your man all the best. ✨🌺
I’m the same too. I’ve been on this planet for 23 years and 5 months. I have never had a relationship, because I’m learning to still love myself, my flaws, my insecurities and building my brand. I don’t want things to be ‘expected’ and I know I am responsible for my life. People spread their intoxicating ideas of love onto other people. Still finding myself and of course it’s a choice. Holding yourself accountable, we shift the blame to others. Awareness is key to the good life, so you can welcome the good vibes 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Ok after watching the video I was invited to a movie. Ok I prayed before I went out with him. I had a great time! He was such a gentleman. This video gave me such strength. I'm on a love me journey and changing things I don't like about myself. We went to see the "Photograph" Awesome movie!
I love how real you are! Just got out of my first relationship (All my firsts!) and I am embracing what your preachin' sis for my future! Celibacy and I need to find a man that loves Jesus.
I’m trying to focus on what she’s saying; but it’s hard! I keep looking at how beat her face is and those baby hairs are laid! Goodness lady, keep slaying 💅🏾💁🏾♀️
My soul was singing when you said the comment about the last Valentines day being single.. Not that I am expecting a relationship but it aligned with something that is going on in my life right now. I may be wrong but in the end I leave it up to God because he knows. Wonderful video as usual !
You know what!!!! I can‘t even listen to the things you say bc your face is just..... FLAWLESS! Please girl, do a make up tutorial for this look!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Please share more about your celibacy journey. Currently COMPLETELY celibate and I’m still working out how to navigate. I have to figure out what works for me but I’d love your perspective.
Please please please make a video on celibacy in a relationship. It would really help and motivate so many of your followers that are celibate. Looking gorgeous by the way xx
Great advice. Looking forward to the next ones. What stood out to me- whatever you do in your singleness will copy and paste into your relationship. #woke
8:22 minutes in and there it is. I for the last 8 minutes i was just listening and thinking this girl GETS IT. and there ya go(: you've so obviously filled with the Spirit of Truth
I actually can’t wait to see you married, your advise has helped me so much and I’ve learnt so much from you and I’m only 19 . And yes I would love for you to make a video on your journey celibacy .
BREENY this is THE MOST BEAUTIFUL you have EVER LOOKED!!! Hair face makeup skin EVERYHING FLAWLESS!!!! Just thought u should know I WAS SHOOK when I saw the thumbnail 😍😍☺️💜💜
You said it all girl....spot on! And Omg, it's my first time celebrating valentine with the love of my life too. I dated myself for years before I met the one.
This video is one of THE BEST relationship videos I have seen in a LONG time! And I do relationship videos!!! You are a true gem for sure and I am SOOOOOOO happy for you and your new relationship! So many people need to see this video. People are truly selfish and toxic! Thank you for this! I've already shared it with ten of my clients!
A toxic person wont be your mirror, he will manipulate you, and make you feel.. like you’re the problem, like you’re crazy, clingy and so on. The right person has to be nice.. He will give you a good feeling about yourself! I think the wrong bf will make you feel bad, it doesn’t matter how confident, intelligent, indepedent you are.. or feel. Beeing to nice is never good idea, maybe after 1 year you can fully open up(that’s my opinion)! Of course beeing honest is the best thing you can do.. if he treats you like an option, dont give him wife-treatments!!! Like cooking, washing his clothes.... at least always less than he does for you! When he don’t want to talk, or spend more time with you, than you do... than spend it with your friends. When he wants you, you will KNOW, and if not... he will let you know at all costs. If he isn’t jealous: Red Flag!! That means he is not afraid of losing you, that means you give him to much attention, to much love and so on! Go two steps back, and stop fighting! The relationship is not only about him... its also about his love towards you, let him fight a little bit.. stop wondering what he is thinking about... it doesn’t f* matter!!! Dont ask him: what are you thinking about!! 🤩 he isn’t trump! He will let you know, if its relevant!!
its been two months since my heart was severely shattered, but I didn't let this be the end of me, I got myself up and now I'm a full-time student studying Pre-Law while working two jobs and I just created my own non-profit organization to help others during this pandemic, I know there's hope for me, there's still a lot I need to accomplish. May we all find the spark of happiness within ourselves.
I love this pep talk. I'm learning to be in my relationship. I've been feeling like he has no time for me because he is working so much. I like attention but felt I wasn't getting enough from him. But communication helps...letting each other know feelings is important.
This motivates me to find more productive things I want to do and work on my relationships with my friends and esp my family since it’s pretty rocky, also need to heal a lot from dating and should’ve just stayed single single. I wasn’t healed. It just added pain again. You have the best perspective with life advice seriously I appreciate you for sharing thank you
You speak with so much love! Love changes everything. Love to forgive, love to love yourself, love to love someone else, love to accept yourself, love to understand, love to learn.
Amen to your prayers. This year is my last year to celebrate Valentine's day alone. Henceforth, I will celebrate St. Valentine's day with the Man of my dreams in Jesus name, Amen. Thanks and love you so much Breeny.
All very true! Glad to hear this from someone else’s perspective that’s not on a soapbox proclaiming to be some love guru ya know!! Im deep into this matrix of self love, deep healing, transcending, & realigning with the 5th dimension of myself in preparation for love.
Welcome back to YT Breeny. Wordsound!👌🏾 Your really glowing and look at peace which is a testimony to all you have been saying about self love giving and receiving love plus letting go and learning to forgive. Congrats and love your honesty.✌🏾💜
Self love - treat yourself well
Conflict resolution - Friends first
Heal- Drop your baggage
Single - No exes or soul ties
Celibacy- No sex
Share - Individual vs Group, communicate regularly and have accountability, share time, energy, money, food.
Interests- friends, hobby, etc. Interdependence
Fight or flight - resolve or run
Marriage vs Wedding - Be intentional
Be yourself, share your unique self with others, be relaxed or comfortable, get to know yourself
Be the best version of you
Work while you wait
Don't settle, be encouraged
My favorite line is if he's not thg he man of your dreams, then you're settling.
Thank you
Wish my mom would’ve gave me this advice
love the message! inspired. I am single. taking excellent care of myself. waiting for the man of dreams. I am fabulous so man has to be amazingly fabulous too.lol
Thank you, i wrote all of this down..😍🙏
"If he's not the man of your dreams, you're settling."
That set deep!
Rohze Amelia I don’t even know what the man of my dreams is like
Agreed. Met a lot of trifling unattractive men in 2019. Its a whole new vibe baby!
@M.C.Honey Rose Very well said
Absolutely. Settling basically means you don't trust God to provide his best. Have faith and practice patience!
spam autumn he is everything that you want in a man and more! 🔥💖
I like the idea of a new relationship but in reality I’m not ready.
That's good to know. As long as you are aware of it, you can do something about it.
Erica T - that’s good to know, honesty is really the best policy ♥️
I felt this!
Same here
Omg same!
“Whatever you do in your singleness will copy and paste in your relationship”. A WORD!
This is so true! I've been single for 3 years and during that time I've travelled, worked hard, gone on a sabbatical, studied, done workshops to better myself, dealt with my own toxic traits, remained completely celibate and just learnt so much about myself.
good girl...keep learning about yourself...time to learn not to waste...eventually the good man will come knock your door. knock knock...i am here! open the door !
YAS GIRL! here for it
YESSS❤️
Amazing!
Wow, this is so refreshing to hear. I am super proud of you. Keep pouring into yourself, sis.
I want a guy who truly loves himself, knows how to love, and is brave, and is willing to put in work for a relationship. What do you gals want?
To be single untill my self esteem has build back up.
@@youreincredible1648 oh definitely, im working on my own life and myself too, one day ill meet someone but loving this single season where I can be all about me too. It is so important to work on yourself!!
A man who is secure in himself & healthy (in all areas mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, financially). Healed from any trauma, emotionally intelligent, open and ready to love, affectionate, romantic, thoughtful, respectful, unwavering loyal, 100% truthful and genuine. Prioritizes me.
@@blandine9259 i love that part about being healed from trauma... yeah i feel also like i put soo much effort on healing myself and cleaning out inner garbage and my man has to meet me on that level too
@@yoyoyo5621 this! I'm always continually assessing myself and holding myself accountable, working and healing me to be my best so it's only right he meets me on that level because I do not have the time nor energy for anything less than.
Remember that even though you have to be selfless in a relationship, if you have to compromise your sense of self and self love to sustain it, it's not the one.
Egg Egg Absolutely, my regular viewers know that’s what I preach x
I absolutely loved this! Being single is the time when you should selfishly work and invest in yourself. Self evaluate yourself in past relationships and see how you can grow for your future.
Amen. It's so important not to waste your singleness wishing for a relationship, but use it to grow and live your best life.
This is so true. At times I find myself wishing I was in a relationship but I do enjoy this time finding what I like, what I don’t like, and just soul searching.
that's ok worse comes to worse you can meet your dream man in a nursing home hopefully eventually..
Why I had to be someone who NEVER had a valentine, I’ll never know. I sometimes feel like God has forgotten me. This video gives me some hope that someday I’ll be good enough to have the love I’ve always dreamed of and worked for. Having a lifetime of abuse that’s not my fault to heal myself from is what’s holding me back.
I'm sorry for what you are going through. But you need to understand that you are already good enough. A relationship is not what determines your value!
Diva 504 - You are already good enough. Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone else’s inability to see your worth, your pain may not have been your fault but your healing is totally your responsibility ♥️
Diva work on yourself anything you don’t like about yourself already CHANGE IT, I need to loose 110 lbs and I know the weight is causing me not to find a man that can add to my happiness. I guess what I’m saying is when gm you feel your best you are treated your best and way more happy so work on yourself first.
Glowingup_shan yes ma’am I’m pushing through the lonely bed and sore muscles from the workout. I also had to choose between eating and being invisible to the opposite sex. I wish you much success on your weight loss journey. I lost 140 pounds and I’m at my goal weight. Though there’s no man, but the benefit of being healthy and comfortable in your own skin and not having to pay extra for plus size is priceless.
Breeny Lee thank you. I have already healed, got down to my goal weight, and got a publishing deal on my books. You are a blessing to other women and you’re so humble you don’t rub your success in other women’s faces that are struggling in the dating arena in a shady undertone. You are a beautiful and genuine person inside and out. I’m happy for your relationship and I wish you and your partner longevity, prosperity, and health. I didn’t think in a million years my manuscript would ever be accepted and it did. That gives me the faith to believe in miracles when I’m not seeing. God bless.
You don't have to lose yourself in a relationship 💗💫
True but unfortunately it happens
Wow look at the glow. look at the melanin. Ladies don’t settle
I want to hear about the celibacy journey. I’m doing that
She’s spoken about it loads in her videos
iman bell faccts!
I have been celibate for a year
I've been celibate for 10 years; it's definitely been a journey. My case is probably the most extreme though lol.
@@faa1412 23 and been celibate for 23.
Facts sis, being ready mentally will take us to that next level of self awareness. Self love is our journey 💯
I am falling in love and it's bringing up all my insecurities.. "what if he hurts me, what if he changes his mind, what if he lets me down, what if, what if...."
Stephanie Buckley Im just like this....wonder if anyone has any advice. sometimes Im even scared that Im going to sabotage it and make him leave
I get that way too but I remind myself that anything worth having requires vulnerability & the chance to get hurt. I also remind myself how worthy of love I am & that if this doesn’t work out, I’m closer to finding the one that will love me the way I deserved to be loved.
It’s good that these insecurities are coming up, because it means they are there. And they do not belong in a healthy relationship. I would turn those questions inwardly & ask myself why, not what if. Why would he hurt me> meaning I do not carry the vibration of someone that my partner would hurt. Why would he change his mind> meaning you are confident that you are a prize & any man that gets you is quite lucky to have you. Why would he let me down> meaning you are not the type of person to be let down. Everything is about vibration. You attract what you are. Like attracts like. So if you have good self love & self confidence, you will attract these qualities in a mate.
These thoughts show you have low self esteem & self worth. It also shows that you give your power away to the man completely. A man doesn’t get to decide the entire trajectory of a relationship. This is a socio cultural narrative that I truly dislike. Women are not some little wall flowers waiting to be picked & swept off their feet by men. Women have equal control in a relationship. It is a partnership. Work on yourself darling. Know that you have many things of value to bring to a man’s life, & to have you is to have something unique & special. 💜
Stephanie Buckley WHAT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU LIKE YOU NEED TO BE LOVED???? Don’t sabotage based on FEAR (False Evidence Appearing Real)
In dating people do get hurt, it's part of dating. You can't step into the boxing ring and expect not to get hurt. Dating is messy, it's not a linear curve. People who risk nothing gain nothing. You have to put yourself out there and trust in yourself you can handle whatever happens in life.
Who was also waiting for the queen?
You Are Amazing!!!
The way you spit out facts in every sentence whewww
Eva Grayson she’s verbally eloquent! Love her!!!!
*Love is always a growing journey. Understanding how to love each other the way each other wishes to be loved.*
Exactly companionship love grows with time, but people are caught up in this fantasy land of romantic love which soon fades. The hotter the flames, the quicker the ashes.
Please don't leave us without a video for this long again.. I'm glad to see you.. You look refreshed, stunning and at ease... Much blessings for the new year to you! ❤️ 💫
It's been a long time. Shouldn't have left you. Without a dope beat to step to!
@@gcass87 😂 😂 😂 😭 😭 😭 😭 your sense of humor is off the chain
Laughter really is the best medicine! Thank you. High 5
YAAAAASSSSSSS
I was actually wondering why she wasn't posting. :( but im super glad she came back with so muchh to say🤍
I thought I was ready until she said “share your food and money” 🤣🤣🤣
Joceline Robert 😂😂 same here !
Yeah, I'm looking at myself, too!!!😟😯😕
Joceline Robert 😂😂😂
Share your food sis but never your money, as a man you need to let him do his duty and that is to provide, never let a man near your money as that can ruin you, he should be your provider not the other way round
Ha ha ha 😂 😂 😂 same then I'm definitely not ready
I can't wait to celebrate valentines with the man of my dreams. Never celebrated any valentines 😩😊😊😊
Me: Man that sun is hitting her so freakin beautifully... 😩😍
Her: Man, I hope that sun is not too bright.
😂 Breeny, I love your gorgeous self. Beautiful inside and out! Today's advice was A100! Thank you for this! I've been struggling and you just hit everything i needed to hear!
ilykfritos1 - 😁 thank you sweetheart xx
so confusing...look at your dad, was he a good role model? find a man just like him.easy peasy !
@@jackassfat it's not always that easy though. 1.you need a dad. 2. What if he was a poor role model. 3. What if you struggle to find a man like him? That was a different generation, molded by different nuance details in culture.
@@jackassfat lol i got a man already, but thank you for the suggestion!
@@ilykfritos1 wow lucky you! !!
i am so jealous now!
you got a man and you are commenting here???
go have fun with your man,here is for single lonely people.
Would love to hear more about your celibacy journey!!!
Same
Same here
If they’re a narcissist, they won’t find someone better that suits them. They’re going to be running from partner to partner bc no one will ever be enough. Pray that they will be healed from their tormented childhood, instead of hating what they put u through. That’s what I need to do
A man can make you happier but you are the only one that can make you happy
Stuck between loving my own company and wanting to be in a relationship. I looooove being in my own company (it's addictive) but I also like having the person I like with me. I am a giving person in relationships and I have taught myself to be this way through my relationships with my family and friends so that it comes natural. I am such a private person and I just love intimacy and am saving myself for someone special.
Literally me.. kinda scared that I’ll push the people away because I’m so used to loving my own company
Looking beautiful today girl😻
I think that you have to know the person is coming from a good place and is a good person first and foremost bc if u don’t feel their intentions are good you will never be willing to find a common ground.
"Love me, hate me or leave me alone"
Breenyy!!!!! she snapped
I’ve never seen someone speak with so much wisdom
Every time she talks about her man I see that lil smile trying to come out 🥺🥺😭 it’s sooo cuteeee
I’m glad you included the part about your mentor asking you if the man you were with is the man of your dreams. If you can’t say yes confidently, like you said, you’re settling. I broke up with my ex almost two months ago and even though I miss him and loved him, if you asked me if he’s the man of my dreams, I would say no with no hesitation. There’s no point in getting back together. I needed to see this. Watching your videos has been helping me cope. Thank you for helping me and many others ❤️
Her eyes when the sun hit 🥺😍😍😍
dear lord you’ve been gone soo long i didn’t know what to do with myself 😭
glad you’re back ❤️❤️❤️
I love that you put emphasis on how friendships and romantic relationships have overlap in terms of power dynamic and conflict resolution. And if you’re not doing too hot in the most fundamental kind of relationship, you might be setting your
You might be setting yourself up for failure in a romantic relationship**
This video made me realize that I'm not ready for a relationship. THANKS!
I am a man and this advice really helped me, I recently got divorced after 5.5 years with the mother of my children and my head has been all over the place. One day I am swiping away at Tinder and having great chats and wanting to connect with people while the other day I regret the entire divorce. I decided to remove myself from these apps and just calm TF down. Thanks!
Relationship advice + British accent = GOLD
Thanks Breeny!!
I want to hear more on your celibacy journey
I have been working on myself for just about 2 years now and I finally love myself I came to this about 3 days ago so yeah!
Being celibate and not doing other things, being completely celibate that's chastity as I understand it. I'd like to hear you talk about it though😊
Amen. The man God has for me is coming sooner than later. I'm about to receive suddenly blessings. 🙌🏾
Amen! I touch and agree with you for the both of us! Good God-Fearing men whose ready to add to our lives🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love love love this, I got out of a toxic relationship in November. Now in February I’m so happy and so satisfied being alone that the thought of a relationship is far away. I want one, one day. But I’m so happy just being alone that it’s nice to feel my own tank.
Yes, I totally understand about doing more during my celibacy.
You are the woman I wish I had in my life growing up. I'm 30 now and am still so ignorant about so much. I got myself into abusive relationships because I didn't love myself. I let people suck all the life right out of me. This year is the year I set boundaries and love myself and not sell myself short! Thank you so much for sharing this God given wisdom and for always speaking truth. So much love sis 💖 God bless you
Your wisdom is flowing like a river babe!
THIS IS SO REAL! Love that you talk truth. It's so important for women to understand what it takes to be in a healthy relationship and how they can prepare.
WOW Breeny, I tell my BF this all the time . I let him know, he doesn't make me "Happy", he makes me "Happier". You are responsible for your OWN happiness.
You (!) have become my role model when it comes to dating, I have learnt from your mistakes that led to good advice and I always return to your videos whenever I need a quick pepp talk.
You’re a blessing and I wish you and your man all the best.
✨🌺
Been single for 23 years
I’m the same too. I’ve been on this planet for 23 years and 5 months. I have never had a relationship, because I’m learning to still love myself, my flaws, my insecurities and building my brand. I don’t want things to be ‘expected’ and I know I am responsible for my life. People spread their intoxicating ideas of love onto other people. Still finding myself and of course it’s a choice. Holding yourself accountable, we shift the blame to others. Awareness is key to the good life, so you can welcome the good vibes 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I'd rather be single forever. Its not worth it in 2020.
Girlll we missed you🥺🥺🥺
Ok after watching the video I was invited to a movie. Ok I prayed before I went out with him. I had a great time! He was such a gentleman. This video gave me such strength. I'm on a love me journey and changing things I don't like about myself. We went to see the "Photograph" Awesome movie!
lamonica Hardwell omg this is so cute! ❤️ glad you got to see the movie with a gentleman
@@britneycampbell4945 Yes!!!! Your Awesome! Keep making us strong!
I know right 🤗🤗
I jumped on UA-cam to find a video on not being ready for a relationship, and this was at the top of my suggested videos.. thanks Breeny.
I love how real you are! Just got out of my first relationship (All my firsts!) and I am embracing what your preachin' sis for my future! Celibacy and I need to find a man that loves Jesus.
I’m trying to focus on what she’s saying; but it’s hard! I keep looking at how beat her face is and those baby hairs are laid! Goodness lady, keep slaying 💅🏾💁🏾♀️
Missed you girl 💕 going to watch this when I get in bed 💆🏻♀️
My soul was singing when you said the comment about the last Valentines day being single.. Not that I am expecting a relationship but it aligned with something that is going on in my life right now. I may be wrong but in the end I leave it up to God because he knows. Wonderful video as usual !
You know what!!!! I can‘t even listen to the things you say bc your face is just..... FLAWLESS! Please girl, do a make up tutorial for this look!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Girl idk what u doin but ur lookin SNATCHEDDDDDDDDD
Please share more about your celibacy journey. Currently COMPLETELY celibate and I’m still working out how to navigate. I have to figure out what works for me but I’d love your perspective.
Breeeeeenyyyyy Loooks so happy 😍
Please please please make a video on celibacy in a relationship. It would really help and motivate so many of your followers that are celibate. Looking gorgeous by the way xx
everything you said is major, especially working on the friendships you have. being selfless. paying attention to how people react
Great advice. Looking forward to the next ones. What stood out to me- whatever you do in your singleness will copy and paste into your relationship. #woke
I feel like the whole video she was just reading my mind omg
8:22 minutes in and there it is. I for the last 8 minutes i was just listening and thinking this girl GETS IT. and there ya go(: you've so obviously filled with the Spirit of Truth
Yes make the video about celibacy !!!!
I actually can’t wait to see you married, your advise has helped me so much and I’ve learnt so much from you and I’m only 19 . And yes I would love for you to make a video on your journey celibacy .
Rari S same!!!!
"things that aren't cooked all the way through is gonna make you sick"......AMEN, so true!!
BREENY this is THE MOST BEAUTIFUL you have EVER LOOKED!!! Hair face makeup skin EVERYHING FLAWLESS!!!! Just thought u should know I WAS SHOOK when I saw the thumbnail 😍😍☺️💜💜
You said it all girl....spot on! And Omg, it's my first time celebrating valentine with the love of my life too. I dated myself for years before I met the one.
This video is one of THE BEST relationship videos I have seen in a LONG time! And I do relationship videos!!! You are a true gem for sure and I am SOOOOOOO happy for you and your new relationship! So many people need to see this video. People are truly selfish and toxic! Thank you for this! I've already shared it with ten of my clients!
Ur makeup looks so good
I am already here, with ♥️ from South Africa...
Aww Beautifully said. Wishing all the best🥰. Im single and learning to put myself first 💗
great advice, honestly needed this right now, and you look so beautiful Masha'Allah 😍
A toxic person wont be your mirror, he will manipulate you, and make you feel.. like you’re the problem, like you’re crazy, clingy and so on. The right person has to be nice.. He will give you a good feeling about yourself! I think the wrong bf will make you feel bad, it doesn’t matter how confident, intelligent, indepedent you are.. or feel.
Beeing to nice is never good idea, maybe after 1 year you can fully open up(that’s my opinion)! Of course beeing honest is the best thing you can do.. if he treats you like an option, dont give him wife-treatments!!! Like cooking, washing his clothes.... at least always less than he does for you!
When he don’t want to talk, or spend more time with you, than you do... than spend it with your friends. When he wants you, you will KNOW, and if not... he will let you know at all costs.
If he isn’t jealous: Red Flag!!
That means he is not afraid of losing you, that means you give him to much attention, to much love and so on!
Go two steps back, and stop fighting!
The relationship is not only about him... its also about his love towards you, let him fight a little bit.. stop wondering what he is thinking about... it doesn’t f* matter!!! Dont ask him: what are you thinking about!! 🤩 he isn’t trump! He will let you know, if its relevant!!
Celibacy Story please!!!! I gotta hear more 💜
its been two months since my heart was severely shattered, but I didn't let this be the end of me, I got myself up and now I'm a full-time student studying Pre-Law while working two jobs and I just created my own non-profit organization to help others during this pandemic, I know there's hope for me, there's still a lot I need to accomplish. May we all find the spark of happiness within ourselves.
Darling😍😍😚
I love you so much ..
Um 22 and learning alot from you...
Breeeeeeeeny😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘❤❤❤❤
I'm 52 and learning a lot! 😂
I love this pep talk. I'm learning to be in my relationship. I've been feeling like he has no time for me because he is working so much. I like attention but felt I wasn't getting enough from him. But communication helps...letting each other know feelings is important.
You look so pretty😍....practice being selfless! Yass
This motivates me to find more productive things I want to do and work on my relationships with my friends and esp my family since it’s pretty rocky, also need to heal a lot from dating and should’ve just stayed single single. I wasn’t healed. It just added pain again. You have the best perspective with life advice seriously I appreciate you for sharing thank you
I SWEAR I NEEDED THIS❤️😩 Thank you sis and I am so happy you celebrating this day with your lover you deserved!!!❤️
"Learn to love the person that you are." ❤
&
I RECIEVE THAT PRAYER😂😂😂
Omg Breeny you’re literally so freaking pretty
You speak with so much love! Love changes everything. Love to forgive, love to love yourself, love to love someone else, love to accept yourself, love to understand, love to learn.
Amen to your prayers. This year is my last year to celebrate Valentine's day alone. Henceforth, I will celebrate St. Valentine's day with the Man of my dreams in Jesus name, Amen.
Thanks and love you so much Breeny.
Amen!!!
Freshly single but ready to meet the one lol. Not rushing but I know what I want and not settling anymore. Great advice. 💓
Love you girl!❤️ Thank you so much for this beautiful inspiring video. I really missed your uploads! *your hair and makeup though!* 👌🏾😻
All very true! Glad to hear this from someone else’s perspective that’s not on a soapbox proclaiming to be some love guru ya know!! Im deep into this matrix of self love, deep healing, transcending, & realigning with the 5th dimension of myself in preparation for love.
Sis love the hair, make-up and lashes😘🥰
You look radiant, happy and confident. I am so happy for you.
Welcome back to YT Breeny. Wordsound!👌🏾 Your really glowing and look at peace which is a testimony to all you have been saying about self love giving and receiving love plus letting go and learning to forgive. Congrats and love your honesty.✌🏾💜
You’re absolutely gorgeous! Weight gain or not, you’re beautiful inside and out! Glad you are HAPPY! ❤️❤️❤️
Queen, this hair really suits you 😍😍😍 and your make up looks beautifull 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 thank you for the wonderful tips x
im currently on a weight loss and self love journey and im so grateful for the truth you were spitting in this video.
You look gorgeous 😍
Now this is FORWARD THINKING. I wish more people understood these things and practiced them! Thank you for the great words.