WHY MEN ALWAYS GO GHOST ON YOU?!
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I think you should ask men their personal experiences dating.. not just men you think are attractive because women are definitely not decent when it comes to rejection. I told a woman I wasnt trying to hit on her and she said she's was not worried about that in such an obviously sarcastic way, it completely bruised my ego but I'm a man so I walked it off and kept on...
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KAIZO POLYMATH she ain’t single though?
A man's rejection is God's protection. Let him be someone else's problem sis
bunnyandfawn jajajaja 🤣🤣for real
Hahahahahahaha, is it the same thing when women reject men? Or are men the only toxic sex?
Thank You sis 💕 is what I needed to read
@@Omoro192 yes girl!!!!!👏👏👏
in that case by your logic, women who do most of the rejection since they do most of the choosing must be the ones who bring the problems when they get into relationships.
Ladies be happy if a man goes ghost is better than him wasting your precious time , Atleast the trash took itself out !!!
And you didn't have to keep asking them to do it.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yessss😂😂😂thank you Sis I agree with you
Yesss Sis😂😂😂 I agree with you exactly🔥🔥
Yes! It’s like the trash taking itself out
“Someone’s actions should not change the way YOU feel about YOU.” 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I need to hear that
Eleanor Bittel facts 👏🏾👏🏾
Eleanor Bittel so true. we need to apply that to so many areas in life!
This statement will keep me going forward in 2020 🤟🏼
Yes true that😇
If the conversation gets shorter with you...It's getting longer with someone else. Usually men ghost because they are busy becoming someone else's problem. Let them. Never chase a ghost!
MorrocanZween lol “they are busy becoming someone else’s problem” I’m stealing this 😂🤣
Bingo
True
I’ve been ghosted many times and I don’t care. That just means HE wasn’t the one. I don’t need “closure”, the “closure” is; he’s NOT THE ONE.
💯💯💯
Well said
Morgan J I like how it’s always the guys problem when he doesn’t want to put up with the woman’s crap anymore. I wish I could’ve gotten closure out of a few of my exes but no, they just couldn’t keep a level head and have any kind of perspective whatsoever and I was not wasting my time with this foolery. Some people actually deserve to be ghosted.
love this!!
Guuuuuurl that’s a mood🔥🔥🔥
*Rejection is God’s redirection. Also if a guy ever says “let’s go with the flow” or “let’s see where this takes us”*
*run*
“Lets go with the flow” This is not true its just that guys are not going to plan their life with a stranger just because he finds her attractive. Getting to know someone first is our interpretation of going with the flow and if we lose interest we move on. Enjoying the moment is more important to us than planning for marriage unless we believe your the right person and making that conclusion is not easy for anybody.
I did. Just let it go.
@Strictly 4 Men fair enough
And if you are already in? After this( let's go with the flow)😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 omg my stomach
Strictly 4 Men Men will know within a few days of dating a woman if she is the one.Men can propose within 2 or 3 months of knowing a woman and within 6 months boom they married her.Isnt she still a stranger then? Yet they probably left a woman they strung along for 3 or 4 years !! Wake up ladies !!
“You have to be okay to walk away from anyone that has walked away from you” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Answer: they lack respect for you. The end .
And they can tell if ure promiscuous.
@@libertypltd4198 huh?
Promiscuous women have a stare that all men notice. If you have slept around, you disqualify yourself for long term commitment from high value men (the men you REALLY want), and if he's the type to lack sexual discipline, he will have sex with you and ghost. Either way, he lacks any respect for himself and especially you. Women taking advice from unwed single women is like diving from a 15 story building onto a trampoline, ud be lucky to bounce back.
FACTS!
@@libertypltd4198 👍🏾
The worst is when this person has ghosted you and stalking you on social media.
Isabelle yeAh they’re crazy !
It’s called orbiting google it
natasha181 I googled it but that’s actually rude to do 😒
Nash Kale blocking them stops it
Narcissist
Being ghosted really crushes your self esteem tbh 💔
I really needed to hear this. Rejection is God’s protection.
Mary Mensah greatly explained
sandra crump Sometimes we really be blinded by a mans potential. God really be protecting us from what we cannot see in the future.
Amen.
Amen
Boys go ghost , MAN speak up and tell you whats what keep that in mind ladies
Dæ Ka Not If the woman doesn’t have the ability to handle the truth. Seriously.. Some people will literally go crazy when they face rejection which is a lot more immature. Therefore not worth arguing with. So imma do us both a favor and bounce.
Yep
Warior4X peace
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Don't forget (MOVE IN SILENCE)
A guy i liked alot ghosted me this summer. I tried to reaching out to him a few times. He never called me back or responded. But he continues to watch my ig story even reacted to my pictures a few times. About 2 weeks ago he texts me a video of myself he took while we were on a date. I was surprised he even still had my number. So i asked him what happened. He said he did really like me but turns out he got another girl pregnant and didn't know how to tell me. I thanked God it wasn't me. Its so hard not having closure. Im happy i do now.
I'm from the school of thought if a man ghosts me, he wasn't in to me to begin with. I will NEVER chase or beg a man to love me. I'm worth more than that foolishness.😏😌😙
Belinda Joy we all deserve the best. Don’t settle for anything less.
Agreed.
A man?
There’s a billion reasons these men go ghost best thing for us ladies is to not care and move on!! #Next
Conversations with Leslie 😂
The end.
Exactly what I said you can't start imagining things, it's not in your place just go about your day like I say most of the times sometimes this men maybe dealing with their own demons and it's not in your place to think about it or solve it, it's really none of your biz life goes on
frican simmer I am a guy and I agree with everything you said.
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Could you do a bunch of videos on:
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They go ghost because they're dealing with someone else or have found someone better for THEM.... It's awful and such a coward move, they're whimps.
PeachyGin and when they start showing less interest in terms of communication or effort trust me they have found someone else !
@@_NayomieMcLeod I would bet money on 100% of the time, that being the case
Or because the woman revealed something about themselves that turned us off. (There are MANY reasons)
I wish I could’ve gotten closure out of a few of my exes but no, they just couldn’t keep a level head and have any kind of perspective whatsoever and I was not wasting my time with their foolery. Some people deserve to be ghosted in order to finally understand.
Rejection is temporary. Not knowing is forever
A man ghosting is a blessing in disguise so many men have wasted my time and then decided to change their mind about me after me investing time into seeing them and getting to know them for months so it's better when a guy decides early on that he's not interested enough in you to stay in contact with you and keep seeing you.
Men ghost because they don't owe you anything unless you're married. It sounds hurtful, but the real tragedy is that us women think we do owe to them.
Se A no one owes us anything in life, besides our parents
Se A factsss
@Se A idk. I dont think its a narc move. Inconsiderate yes but not a narc move. Like the other person said-- no one owes us anything unless theyre our parents or spouses. Also if someone ghosts me I wont be waiting around.. Id have enough sense to move on.
But i do agree with people who do this having someone on the side. Had an ex that would pop up with that hey how are you BS.. Just don't respond. Refuse to be their plan B..let them stay single until what they truly want comes along.
i have to disagree everyone deserves the respect of not being lead on/ j being respected
hope yall keep this energy when you find out that women are the primary abusers of the ghosting tactic. But I guess in those cases there will be a convenient excuse waiting for you to avoid accountability
I was so hurt when a guy I liked ghosted me, he treated me so badly, and ever since then, I can't hang out with men anymore. Not only did he ghost me, but he kept telling me how he really liked me, he forced me to admit my feelings for him by telling me he liked me first. I wish he would have just been honest, now I can't deal with the disrespect. It'd not the fact that he didn't like me, but the fact that he used me, ;ed me on, strung me along, love bombed me, used me to make other girls jealous, and manipulated the fuck out of me. There is a lot more to the story but he traumatised me so bad, I haven't been able to get close to guys ever since. He made me more of a coward, made me feel like having etiquette with people was weird. He messed me up a lot and took advantage of me at a really hard time in my life. I haven't been able to see myself the same way ever since. I was really open and honest for the first time. I empathise with anyone going through this.
EDIT:
Guys, I haven't replied to every comment yet even though I want to, but I want you guys to know, I think that the support that has been demonstrated for each woman in this comments section is truly uplifting and beautiful. Never let anyone make you feel unworthy, all of you beautiful ladies really touched my heart. I want you guys to know that even though this particular dude was a pig, not all guys are (I know we know this but sometimes we need reminders), and treat yourselves the way you deserve
E Nadine wow I'm sorry☹️
E Nadine men really are horrible people
Omgosh I can so relate to this. Your experience is identical to mines. ☹️
He manipulated the hell out of me too and I ended up giving him money all the time because I was in love with him. He forced me to admit that I liked him first and it went downhill from there...
I'm also traumatised....hopefully we can both get over this soon and start trusting men again.
Stay strong and I hope u heal from this soon and meet someone who treats you right ❤️
You will get through girl. Give yourself time to heal. 💕💕
This is exactly what happened to me :( stay strong, it will get better I promise ❤️
I NEEDED THIS. just when through a rejection by a guy who once liked me back.
Saloni Singh sorry❤️
Yoli R. U Don’t be ☺️ if it is meant to be, he’ll come around. If not, he won’t.
Same
tenderness Nk. I know the feeling, I was quite heartbroken
Saloni Singh i FEEL so fucking Sad I can't sleep my heart hurts, the boy I liked has a girlfriend now
Then they want to come back & start over 🤦🏾♀️ like no keep it pushing ✋🏾
That happened to me too. I was so confused. I decided that he was unreliable. Sometimes you want to be around, but at any given moment you can decide otherwise without having to communicate it.
Brittaney Dixon likewise then realized he's not what I even want so next!!
Ishaxoxo Exactly they ghost and pretend like they never ghosted.Keep you on rotation or when they haven't found a better option or can't meet your standards and hope that u forget your standards or so they don't verbally acknowledge that they can meet the standards.Men seem to be more fake these days that females
For me (a guy) I don’t do that. If I ghost you then you earned that. I’m moving on with my life
Ian Deep But many of your brothers, men, do that so often. Losers and fools.
"God will not take anything from you that you need", does this apply to everything in life? including losing loved ones?
Jerome.J I guess you can say you don’t need anyone....
Life and death is a mystery. Has nothing to do with anything logical
I believe that we forget who we are on earth. This world does not reflect your actual soul which god himself crafted. Once you start to believe that your soul is godly and the only thing you need is follow you passion and do you, nobody would want to leave you, they would crave your energy. You are rejected because you reject yourself, which is not a crime, it's human nature.
@@shawtiepie4339 I respect and appreciate this opinion however I meant my question in terms of life and death.
Shawtie Pie wow you’re definitely not of this world ❤️😭
"Don't daydream only go by what this person is giving you." Noted. What's the best way to stop the daydreams especially when you're always thinking about the bigger picture/future?
“He can’t do u and do him at the same time. He got to pick a struggle! Pick a struggle” LOL, I love Breeny 😂😂 #VeryTrueFacts
"You have to be okay to walk way from anyone who has walked away from you" LOUDER PLEASE. 💯
I figure if he ghosted me he was not interested in the real me... I decided to wait until marriage to have sex and they go ghost real fast.., I don’t even worry about it anymore.. I ask God to reveal a MAn’s heart and He does
Amen! and continue to stand your ground and like she said in her vid be a rebound for any man. Continue to seek God's heart your time will come.
Awww Sis🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️ I face this kind of situation too...dont worry will give you a great man in Jesus Name.
This would be a great way to weed out the players really fast...tell them on the first date that you will not have sex before marriage ... such a quick way to dodge those bullets and not waste your time or theirs.
Dear I’m dealing the same thing it hurts my heart tho but I agree with you
@@tcsgirl6865 A greater way is to use discernment. Some men will agree and try to break you down, too. I think you should set clear boundaries from the start and see if they respect them. I put myself in a bad situation this way, doing things I said I wouldn't do, slowly compromising. I didn't sleep with him, but did things which made him think I was going to and I was, but God saved me from my own self and I'm forever grateful. He broke up with me and came back a year later. Knowing the real reason that he left and not being as dumb and naive as before, I put up boundaries and didn't want to kiss him and meet in public places, trying to guard and protect myself from going too far (i.e., not putting myself in vulnerable situations). I wanted to talk to him about these boundaries and I got ghosted after this.
No a man or women doesn't owe an individual anything but it's about having the DECENCY and RESPECT towards another individual. Being MATURE.
Amaraaa Sometimes you need to show some people respect by ghosting them lol. It’s not that the can’t handle.. Some people really cannot comprehend what rejection is.. and will go crazy when it eventually happens. So by not saying anything at all and having them reflect on their actions is what needs to happen.
I really beed a break from dating. Focusing on myself and then when I’m ready and feel good about myself and my life, maybe then love will find me 💓
Only grown boys go GHOST but, a mature man would be honest with you & you can’t do nothing but, respect that & move on
Crowned Virgo Some MEN are mature enough to NOT tell you because he knows you actually can’t handle the truth no matter how much you deny it. Seriously some people deserve to be ghosted.
What if he hasn't ghosted, but just became suddenly distant/slow to respond? Should I just ghost? I don't like trying to force conversation with someone who isn't trying and interested
Breeny what if no one asks me in a date? That's another situation where you don't discourage yourself because of a ghosting situation but because no one is interested in you :(
I’ve got videos on that coming ♥️
Yes please talk about this! I rarely get asked on dates and idk what I’m doing wrong
Must be a phenomenon! Same here!
Sigh!!! I feel you
Try online dating
This happened to me a year ago. He was the first serious love for me and we were in a situationship. I was so sure about him. All of a sudden he started acting strange. A couple months after i found out he was still in love with his ex. I cried for months, knowing i was his rebound whilst for me he meant so much. 1,5 years later I am mature enough to know that it was not my fault and im never blaming myself again for being rejected. He cant be alone and i know he has dated other girls. He just cant be single. I still think about him from time to time because i havent found anyone else that it just clicked with. But its okay, because i know i will find my true love and God is protecting me. Day dreaming is my worst enemy but someday my mind will be all clear from him. ❤️
If they ghost you, ghost them back and DO NOT UNBLOCK THEM FROM ANYTHING. Remember why you blocked them in the first place once you start feeling sentimental and go back and forth with the decision whether you should unblock them
Angel 😂
RealJoel ??
Girl God was speaking through you to me and it hit my souuuullllllll!! When you were like “Rejection is God protecting you from something!! 🙏🏾” “Nope you’re not going to mess with my daughter!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 girl I felt that in my heart! “
Even if your heart is broken, once it's healed, which it always will, you're stronger than ever before.
Shawtie Pie amen to that 💯❤️
*THE LORD knows BEST I truly feel the LORD protects US from negative ppl places & things that he does not want us to be involved ALSO which are good reason why things happen as they do for a good cause, look at it this way the person whom walked out your life ghosted you WHY he wasn't meant for you REGARDLESS if there's not been any closure this is the LORD'S way of protecting you from negative person, when we meet someone that's karmic this person is NOT meant for us only meat to teach us a lesson this is the LORD'S way of preparing us BEFORE meeting REAL LOVE.*
Nothing suites you like a black wig chileee!
P A N D O R A some fake thottie bullshit. That’s why y’all are “beautiful” and single lol it’s funny hearing what women complain about.
What about the reason a man might go ghost is you aren’t good enough for him? These thots talking like they shit gold
Unpopular O’pinion Who hurt you? 🤧
Tiffany Ducharme no one.
@@unpopularopinion149 then why are you so pressed sweetie ?
Rainbows and Unicorns I’m not I’m speaking facts and broads never listen to men who know Whatsup lol
I haven’t watched yet, but I know I need to hear this. This summer I fell for a guy and it was my first time opening up to a man emotionally and physically. Him ghosting me hurt so much and sent me into a mental breakdown. I feel much better now, but I can’t seem to stop thinking about him. I’m hoping your video will give me clarity and help me heal, you always speak straight wisdom 💕
Write him a letter but dont send it and then burn it. This is the best closure that's a tipp from queen shallon lester herself. Love her
Don’t care if you’re Christian or not, pick up a bible and start reading from the gospels. It’s all about Jesus and he came to heal the broken-hearted, that’s you sis. He came down from glory just for you
Omg, I'm litteraly in the same exact situation. I fell for a guy hard over the summer, and it took me so long to realize that he was not good for me. He didn't treat me well and I kept making excuses and pretending it was fine. He was really careless with my emotions and would play games with me. We would frequently get into petty arguments and I would cry and be so stressed. He ended up blocking me and I cried for days. I knew I deserved so much better, and he wasn't capable of treating me the way I deserved to be treated. I'm so happy he isn't in my life anymore, because my mental health is so much better now, and I'm happier! I know someone is out there for me, and they won't ever make me question how they feel about me. They will be there for me even when things get tough. I know what I don't want now, and he showed me how I shouldn't be treated. I will never settle for someone who doesn't put in effort to show that they care for me ever again!
H K so beautiful u deserve better 😢
I’m literally begging you, please do a video on procrastination and motivation in terms of studies
Same, I feel stuck and stagnant yet I have so much to get done 🤦♀️
Ughnotuagain Ughnotuagain 😭 it’s just so hard! I feel like my brain is fogged
Procrastination is a form of self sabotage. What are you scared of? A fear of failure maybe? Talk to the hurt kid inside tell her that she is smart and the study isn't scary and that you are capable to learn and achieve things. Check out numindframe vid on self sabotage scroll down for it. Pray boo, God will help you
I can so relate to this
In my experience they ghost because there’s someone else in the picture! Period, point, blank lol. That literally happens to me anytime I’m ghosted 🤷🏾♀️
Sometimes I'll ghost because I'm fed up with their behavior, even if I don't have another partner lined up.
i needed this. breeny, can you also make a video how to control emotions and not be too attached to a Man so quickly? Also maybe a video of finding yourself, your hobby, how to be happy with yourself and stay motivated in life? Just a couple suggestions, i love and depend on your advice. you've helped me through my last breakup and im So grateful for that. thank you 💓
What's your name?
I would love a video like this 🥺🥹
Breeny this reminds me of one of my favorite songs, named "unanswered prayers " despite it being a country song, the lyrics are amazing. Garth Brooks sings about bumping into a woman he used to date and how he'd pray God would keep that woman in his life, but seeing how the woman didn't turn out all that great, he thanked God ultimately for not answering his prayers back then, but instead giving him a different woman that's now his wife. 😍 it's a sweet song that lays out how rejection is Gods protection.
Mackenzietkd526 Wooow Thank you for your post :)
God does answer ALL prayers. Sometimes the answer is NO.
rejection is god's protection!!! thank you so much breeny i'd like to thank you, lizzo and ariana grande for helping me thru my breakup HAHAH
Omggg I had a run in with a dude we dated for months, then he mysteriously just stopped hitting me up. Long story short the same baby mother he said he hasn’t been dealing with called me and said they were still in a relationship. On top of that had four children that I wasn’t aware of. Never again !
“He can’t do him and do you at the same time... He gotta pick a struggle. Pick a struggle okay”. This got me rolling mehn 😂😂
I have never felt rejected..for some reason I always go beyond the guy's words and exterior and overanalyze.. oh that guy is scared, intimidated, struggling..etc and all of a sudden I am in my wonder woman suit getting ready to rescue the poor guy (who does not give a daaaamn about me) wasting my time and mental energy on someone who never asked for my help! It took me a long time to learn to leave everyone alone to walk their own path and deal with their issues.. they always come back but by then I am over.. I am wondering if I would ever meet someone who is suitable for me and does not need rescuing
You will meet a man who you don't have to mother you won't have to be a therapist for. He will behave like a man and he will be ready to be a husband. Sabr. God won't ever let you down stay on path sis
Same here. It only means one thing: WE LOVE GENUINELY and we always do the favor for those assholes who do not even deserve our TIME AND ENERGY in the first place. What we need to do is to stand our ground and learned from those lessons. Never settle for less.
"he was muslim but he read the bible. Some kind of confusion" LOOOOOOOOOLLL
Chelsea Antonio haha I am dying lmao
Nearly died laughing
muslims actually believe in Jesus . I don't wanna go deeper or make a debate but just wanted to give a kind of context ;)
French Toast no they don’t, they believe Jesus a prophet not the son of God
Ima His yea that’s what I meant . I’m Muslim 😇
Sorry english is not my first language 🙂
Needed to hear this today! Thanks Breeny❤️. I don’t need a “man” to validate me! I know who I am and my worth! I just keep it pushing. Thank you... NEXT!!💯
MY ABSOLUTE QUEEN 🥺i have never tapped so quick
I’ve been ghosted twice 💔💔 I’ll get over it
I’ve been avoiding this video for a little while now and while I was watching it I felt so uncomfortable but towards the end that changed. you are God-sent hun and He is using you tremendously. you have no idea how much your words mixed with scriptures have helped me.
You speak w such grace and certainty. You just KNOW these things like it’s in your bones. I hope one day I will feel that confident and positive about love and dating. Love your advice so so much
an entire 18 minutes and 34 seconds of the truth and nothing but the truth! Thank you for this video Breeny!
"God is protecting me from something I cannot see." Now that's a Word!🙌🙌 Ghosting is a dutty habit, and you are so right - common courtesy in dating/relationships is definitely lacking nowadays. The fact of the matter is, you are not always going to get the "closure" that you seek from certain men hence, as you pointed out the need to have/develop a healthy sense of self.Thanks for another great video Breeny👌
Always on point Bree! As people, we really need to understand and let people make choices for themselves. Even though rejection sucks, it's a blessing! Unfortunately, you only realise this when you find a great thing. I also agree that the problem arises when people aren't honest with how they feel and instead just ghost you. Such people have no respect and must be canceled!
Yes sister Breeny! Come to teach the masses. Slay girl!
Help me sis ,why all this guys who ghost come back and saying im sorry can we work this out ,to make matters worse i will be done with all the crying & the heartbreak & probably i had moved on
ok so what ill say is that as i read these comments alot of people have advice that seems to be pretty common. YES. on the outside looking in you can always tell someone what to do and how their worth isnt tied to someone else's view of them and be glad that person ghosted, etc. this is all true but also (not for everyone) but i see alot of judgement as well. When we are in these situations we know right from wrong but we also are human and make mistakes. to anyone that has ever felt worthless not enough , etc im not here to judge you, i am here to tell you i have been there and have experienced it as well. YOU are human and it is okay to experience pain and confusion in the moment. my one gem is to try not to dwell on it too long, continue to focus on your growth and development, and eventually when the dust settles you will see alot more clear. YOU CAN do it !
Breeny, i swear you're psychic! I've been struggling with this for so long, thank you for helping me move on... ❤️
Woaw breeny, another great video, this really helps a lot, relationships are complicated, thanks so much for putting these out, therapy is expensive but your video’s are free
'If at first you don't succeed, try & try his friend' LOL 😂 that was hilarious 😂great video as always girl 👌🏾✨
I swear you know exactly what is going on in my life at the moment. Perfect timing, this happened to me like 4 days ago.
This is my favorite video you've ever done. I can't even count the number of times I've been ghosted and it's always worked out for the best.
Girl! The gems you drop Shine and Shimmer my spirit. Thank you
I literally cried when breeny said about God protection cause is so true ♥️♥️
Why I ghosted her: there was no resolution between us after a year of trying. She has a long-time male best friend who she friend-zoned but who is still hoping after seven years to hook up with her attached to her hip like a conjoined twin who she refuses to cut the cord with him and put some healthy space between them. He continually tells her it probably won't work out between us, anyway, and insists she stay loyal to him. (They are the same race and I am a different race than them). She continually chooses him over me, and makes it obvious that he's more important to her - but strings me along. He lives with her in a reserved spare room in her house at least six months of the year every year (for at least three years now - when he's not living at his parents house in another country) and they text constantly everyday regardless of where he is, and he plans on that situation continuing until they are old and there's only the two of them, making it apparent they are a packaged deal for life, regardless - even if we marry. And all signs from her show that she's in agreement with his life-long plans. (And it not working out between us just proves him right.) He's atheist and I'm Christian. He mocks Christianity and God often but anything about sin and apologizing for him being rude, verbally abusive and offending her to the point of her crying and I'm being judgmental and she's guilt-tripping him. (She lies and covers for him and his behavior often.) And worst of all, she profusely and even boldly and blatantly says "G-ddamn" - even after knowing it's a definite deal-breaker for me, and then boldly claims she doesn't say curse words (when she has vids of her making that claim and of her boldly saying that curse word). It just wasn't getting better or working out. But damn is she fine, tho. But that's just way too much bs for me. And talking about it multiple times throughout an entire year did nothing to improve or change anything. I felt I had to walk away, and it best for me to just wash my hands of the whole situation. But she seemed happiest the times she and I were getting along well. And I loved seeing her happy. It's not easy just walking away.
So sorry for this situation you had to deal with. It sounds like you really care for her. But I also read that you know her relationship with the other guy is not right, and I agree. She needs to choose and by all her actions she's not going to let him go, nor he her. Just a thought but I wonder if he'd pursue her so hard if you weren't in her life anymore, no competition to him... maybe he just enjoys the game of "winning". But yes they are too close and you will suffer for as long as she keeps the three of you in a relationship. Relationships are made for two. Friends are ok but everything you stated tells me there is more than friendly interest between them. She needs to choose.
Breeny you’re out here preaching!! The shoe bit had me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how stunning Breeny looks! 😍😍 Breeny he’s really treating you well.. girl you’re glowing 🤗❤️
Woooooooooooooow I was just dating a guy who wanted to go with the flow he’s a gentleman, however I told him I don’t have time for the foolishness! He acts like him and I are in a relationship he doesn’t want me talking to other men, however wants to play games forget that !
It’s interesting, I’m starting to see a pattern. Not saying all guy are the same but wow
Ughnotuagain Ughnotuagain girl it’s sad out here I believe a lot are broken from past heart break 🙄
Stacyann J Girl! I just went through the same exact thing!!
jackqualine jones and what makes it worst he’s one of my male bestfriends and it sucks
Omg if this isn’t the truth I’ve been going through the same thing with this guy but I’ve finally had the courage and strength to ignore him and it feels great it’s like I’m at peace !
This is so relatable. I remember the first guy I loved, we were knew eachother for 6 years, he was a few years older, then he started to pursue me. I had heared let him chase so I kinda rejected him but not really. Then 1 year later he was engaged. My heart lol, was shattered.
I was so naive younger , men always overlapp/talk to multiple women. And another thing I learned is men don’t do closure, you just got to move on. I wasted so much time trying to get closure from him.
A guy saying ‘a woman can’t handle it’ is no excuse... even if she didn’t take it well it’s the better thing to do!
They’re just cowards and they can’t admit it to themselves!!
Last year I had a date, didn’t feel it, was gutted, but I still met up with the guy in person and let him know that... I cried I felt so bad and because I was so disappointed and yeah it hurt him but he was so grateful I had the decency to do it to his face!!
I’ve just been talking to a guy for 2 months, he didn’t want to meet up yet because of covid and I was looking for a job so I was cool with that. Then as soon as we said about meeting up and I expressed that I was looking forward to it... GONE GHOST.
Why does this keep happening to me?!
This put the biggest smile on my face. I needed this. Thank you❤️
His rejection is Gods PROTECTION ❤️
This is so true. I've TRIED to put myself in bad relationships because I was desperate and lonely and God took them out of my life before I got too deep into it. He's looking out for me, and I sure don't deserve it XD. Thank you for your message Breeney, you've helped me strengthen my faith.
The camera quality of your new phone is amazingggg! I love it and I think you should keep on using it
I am happily married but still love your channel because you give great advice! I love the pep talks you give and they still teach me lessons and remind me of the empowerment of being a woman.
Don’t cry, don’t beg 😷
This is interesting because i was watching a similar thing but reasons for why women ghost and the explanation are the same lol. This suggest that men and women are more alike than we think. Personally as a man i’ve been ghosted on many times from women and understanding the potential reasons makes it easier to accept. The only thing missed on this vid if i’m not mistaken is depression someone could died etc and also because it has now been normalised and i find myself ghosting because i am put off the girl and since it was done to me i just do the same to her. Personally i love the dating game because its full of rewards and challenges. Lastly people prefer rejection in different ways and personally i feel the ego would be stroked regardless. Rejection is a notification that reminds me to step up my game.
Sometimes some men will ghost a woman not because they don't like them but as a form of control
because they are insecure about themselfs.
And they sometimes do this to amazing women who has learned to love herself or who has selfrespect.
It also happens that after a few years after they ghosted you years earlier, one day they contact you again out of nowhere pretending like nothing happened or when they finally releaze that they lost an amazing woman but then its already too late or they try to repair the trust and friendship with a woman who loved him because he catched feelings himself but the woman already choose another partner or the feelings on her part are dead and her interest in him is already gone.
Trying to accept this slowly but surely 👏🏼👏🏼
That's because they were never interested in you and just wanted them biscuits.Be Honest To The Women fellas And Women Be Honest To the men.
That's just how it's done Right..
Ghost the Ghoster..
I Promise he's gonna come back texting (red flag) do not give in..
Thanks Breeny😘
You always post the right topic whenever I need it😭
I’m literally living for these peep talk/car videos xz
I needed this so much! Thank you! Gave me my closure!
THIS CAME AT A PERFECT TIME IN MY LIFE 💖💖
looking good together, I can relate so much to that! Had that exact same thing with the past guy I was seeing. Its an amazing feeling to see people look at you and your date that way!
I'm trying this six months of being single. (No dating apps, or pursuing anything) And Breeny these videos are just healing me slowly through this
I looooooove you so much breeny Lee😢❤
You helped me so much.
I always say "run away like you mean it... I have neither the time nor the inclination to deal with the fragile Male ego.
This video helped me sooo much! Just recently dealt with this & although its not my first time dealing with rejection this one REALLY hurt. I came across this video @ the perfect time and now I feel even stronger & more confident that I'll be ok. Thank you!
I love this Sis!!! Thank you! I shared this with my daughters. I'm 53 years old and this has delivered me❤
HE CANT DO HIM AND DO YOU AT THE SAME TIME!!!!!! DAAAMN! Well said!!!!!!!
I'm married . And my husband recently stop talking to me . We have kids together . And he's with other woman. I'm learning to move forward. It so hard , cause I recently gave birth two months ago
I’m sorry you’re going through this... sometimes we don’t realize how horrible a person is until we create a family. Trust me it’s too early now to say get over him... but trust me..you will look back years later and realize that leaving this disrespectful man is better for you and your kids. Keeping you in my prayers
@@JM-ip1es thank you so much :)
GIRL HE CAN GO FUCK HIMSELF .... YOU WILL BE ALRIGHT HONEY . I CANT IMAGINE YOUR PAIN . GOD BLESS
BREENY You’re the elder sister I never knew I needed in my life ❤️ love you!