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As he said, these wants and wishes change over time, so you cant negotiate them in advance.
Also, as a man, what BENEFITS do you get by marrying a woman? Just have a long-term relationship and refuse to sign any contracts. It's the same thing without the legal risks.
If you're living with a woman, then the same laws apply that if you would be married.
Basically, it's the celebration of transfer of power/leverage over.
Not in all countries@@raczyk
The legal risks still apply in most areas.
Even prenup-esque contracts are like rolling the dice 🎲🎲
Benefits of marrying a woman, take a look at that football player who has millions and she divorced him expectations but paycheck and she got SWEET F/A
If genuine desire is there stay. If not then leave and find a girl who does have genuine desire for you. Negotiation over.
The only way to keep that desire is to constantly change women every so often. If you live with a woman eventually the desire will fade.
Its not even about sex. Men want a woman to enthusiasticly be in a relationship. If it doesnt seem like you want to be there for a long period of time... im out.
I'm out too
And I don’t owe you cash and prizes.
That's so true. It's not the act of just sexual interaction. As you stated you want your partner to desire it. What happens a lot in very long relationships is that sex become less and less overtime. This may lead to either one of the partners feeling less desirable and almost unwanted / no longer attractive to their significant other. Which hurt the other person. It's also a very difficult thing to communicate about. For most it's an awkward conversation, because ultimately you don't want your significant other to think all you care about is sex. However I do believe that sexual interaction regularly is healthy for a relationship. If your partner always had wild interactions with you and it just stops - his/her desires haven't changed. They've most likely just gotten the gratification from somewhere else.
Exactly what happened to me.. I died in her arms and didn’t leave her. Instead I chose to not give to her like she not gave to me.. She was far more powerful at not giving than I was. She destroyed me… Killed me.. It was so stupid of me to try and beat her at her own game because I needed her love. She didn’t need mine… She wanted from me what she wanted and as long as I was willing to give it to her in the intensity that she wanted she would have stayed… Where for me I was dying for it the entire time.
She was in business while you were in love. They're used to be in relationship just because at that moment is more convenient than being single. Unlike us men, they always have options, but can only fall in love with an ideal man, not the ones that are willing to be with them. They will deny it, but pay attention and find out for yourself.
Men want the Barbie Doll. Women don't want the Ken Doll, but rather all the stuff the Ken Doll comes with. The only way you win that is to kick her ass to the street, and the courts make that impossible to do.
Ur cringe dude
I’m going to stay single as I was born that way. that’s the easiest thing.
We men have already come out the box!
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It s the main theme from Men Go Their Own Way? If I am not mistaken?
@@alibabarouge a lot of crap on the Internet is from somewhere or someone else, just like Andrew Tate, he uses cartoons and film quotes
@@davidallahgod3217 i didn’t get you
Guys, enthusiasm is nurtured through emotional connection for alot of us women. Won't speak for all.
True no one can negotiate enthusiasm.
...enthusiasm that was the key word. When she starts loosing that, be weary of what she will do next.
The way relationships work is that most of the time they don't. It's rare when they do. Speaking from experience.
ask your self this.. would you date yourself?
No because I want to date women who are not like me. That's why I like them.
@@edheldudeLol. Dude, he meant if you were a woman, would you date you as the guy you are.
@@edheldudethe thing is we don’t look for people who are completely identical in thoughts, values, goals and personalities to us.
I wish I had discovered your channel long time ago. I absolutely love your work and what u do for (wo)men kind 💯👍 keep it up
0:19 It's like just put yourself out there as a solution. You can't just do that it has to be calibrated.
Oh my goodness, he is so right!!! I had to ask for sexy time with my last partner... That seems to be one of the downfalls to most of my relationships. Some guys think they want someone that is enthusiastic and then when you are it's like having it well stocked all the time. They don't care anymore or are confused why you want them😐 (I tried a gentle contract with a boyfriend and it didn't work either.) Slowly realizing I'm not a typical woman either🤷🏼♀️
Yeah I've heard from many friends that once sex is in plentiful amounts it becomes stale. It still feels like an alien concept to me since I've never been in a relationship long enough to get to that state.
Very similar to Rollo, “you can’t negotiate genuine desire”.
"Can't negotiate"
Bet. 1 Corinthians 7 requires spousal blankey struggles. To deprive the other is considered sxl immorality and if it is prolonged, is grounds for divorce in the church.
Truth
Does the interviewer even listen? So Orion says there is an evolution of wants/needs over time. The interviewer then says so the answer is upfront negotiation. Huh?
Exactly
First off, a good interviewer doesn't just represent himself. He also represents others. Good interviewer will also ask questions, which some people in the audience would have also asked if they were there.
Second, what he is asking isn't wild. He is trying to resolve chaos with (some) certainty. Some people like me crave certainty of the steel, and that's exactly what the answer says isn't possible.
Just be a Zombie when you first get with them, and then be a Zombie when you break up, because you will always be one step upfront, because she will always think he was a Zombie
I also came to that conclusion
What? 😂
Did you have a fucking brain aneurysm while writing that, genuinely what the fuck does this even mean?
It seems like women only marry as a precursor when marriage fails they will be financially embursed
So whats the solution?
PUMP AND DUMP
A woman who initiates fellaciOH with you in abundance is one example, 'cause you'll be able to tell it turns her on to pleasure you & that she enjoys expressing her love in various ways like that. (Not advocating it outside a committed relationship, but you get the idea.)
go monk
Passport or just don't bother. At this point, anytime I see a recently mary'd man in the West, I can't help but think he's re tar ded.
To remove all privileges and protections from women in the west. Men build and maintain basically EVERYTHING. Women are supposed to be "helpmates", not equal-access-to-everything-by-default
partners who aren't really equal. Simply revoke her access to civilization and watch how fast they change their tune and want individual men, even on her own level, badly. Seems funny but we need to actually implement it.
What's the background music called?
You cant negotiate burning desire.
If women would just do what they are told we wouldn't have these messes
Bring back Sean Connery slapping a woman for not doing as she told!
Then do something that gives them the ability to be authentically enthusiastic. 😊
You can't after they have been ran through by countless men. One of my female friends said she's tired of s"x (at 29 yo).
Few men understand what a woman often _really_ wants, unfortunately.
If he knew her deepest, darkest desires, he might feel like he doesn't have it in him to fulfill them.
I give them my spunk!
@@davidallahgod3217 Have some standards bro.
@@_Solaris what most really want isn't you. You're just the most available option at the moment. If give. Opportunities to upgrade, they will.
💯💯💯
Wish I wasn't so boring. 🤷♂️
You can negotiate poly
Don't negotiate with a woman!
Negotiate with yourself
If you're okay with your wmn being a toilet for men.
If it's a Godly marriage, where two people are pursuing and leading a Godly Christ like life, their focus won't be on the things of this world. Setting your mind on kingdom purposes and how you can bring meaning into other people's lives by serving them and reflecting Jesus. It's all in your mindset. The book of philippians in the Bible is about changing the way you think. When you allow God to work by transforming you, the things of this world lose there value.
Solution: Polygamy.