I often wonder why my own mother hated me so much since I was born, I didn’t look too different from my other 3 brothers, but I was the only one she hated. I’ve been wondering for decades why she treated me that way, with 0 love and affection. Now, 62 years later, if I were granted the wish that I could change all that, I would not change a thing! Every tear I shed, every pain I experienced, all made up what I am, and I am so grateful for what my life, and pain taught me, making me a much better person than I could ever be. My life taught me to love myself.
Your journey is incredibly powerful, and the self-love and strength you’ve found through it are deeply inspiring. Transforming pain into gratitude and wisdom is no small feat-thank you for sharing such a heartfelt reflection. It’s a reminder that even the hardest challenges can shape us into the best versions of ourselves.
@ The thing is, you wouldn’t know how much it could hurt until you lost the people you loved. And after you lost them, we need to move on or we would end up dwelling on the sadness. I was lucky enough to have met a very wise Rinpoche after I lost my mother, and two of my brothers within months. He had a talk with me and helped me move on and learn to let go. I read the book ‘the Greatest secret’ last week and I was quite taken by the part how she was saying that we should welcome and embrace unhappiness like our best friend. Then I just realised that I have been doing that for a while now, counting the misfoortunes that happened in my childhood a blessing. Holding a grudge doesn’t solve anything, letting go and counting one’s blessing is the way to happiness.
❤I had about the same in my lifetime. Almost 60 years here and I wouldn't change a thing. Except for the loss of my family 😭Though I know now that there is a reason for this. Amazing Our Lord Jesus Christ 🙏 ❤️
It's inspiring to hear that you're committed to breaking the cycle! Endings can lead to new beginnings, and your determination to create a positive change is powerful. Keep shining your light!
My mother never loved or liked me. I was well fed,dressed and lived in a nice house an only child. I was never kissed or cuddled.Always put down and sometimes physically hurt.My father never got involved working away from home to avoid my mother. I truly understood how toxic she was when I had my own children.I never forgave her for how she treated me. She destroyed so many parts of me and at age 74 I still hurt.
Thank you for sharing your deeply personal experience. It’s heartbreaking to endure such pain and carry it for so long. Acknowledging it as you have is a powerful step toward healing. Remember, your resilience and the love you chose to give to your own children are incredible strengths. May you find peace and continue to heal from these wounds, knowing that your story inspires others to overcome similar hardships. Sending love and light your way.
Thank you for sharing. I to did not feel loved by my mother, no hugs, no kisses, never said she loved me.for some reason she treated me differently from my siblings. It hurt. My father was abusive in everyway possible. My mother abandoned the family, my father turned the children against each other there are 8 of us. I don't see my siblings or rarely speak to only 2. I carried a lot of resentment, anger and pain for over 3 decades. I'm 55 now, but I have broken the cycle of abuse. I love all 3 of my children. I had to learn to forgive to heal. I suffered a lot of pain carried a lot of anger but I forgive every person who hurt me otherwise I would never be happy. Forgiving is not saying they didn't do wrong or that what they did was ok it was for my own healing. Most of the people who hurt me are gone, they passed away. My siblings are still here but I remain estranged for my own happiness, and peace. My siblings are very toxic. I have a wonderful husband and his family is really nice!
You must forgive her to free yourself. You ever thought that perhaps she raised you as she was raised…. she behaved aligned with her state of consciousness level. Following her beliefs her “conditioned” beliefs that she learned. Have compassion in your heart ❤️ for her only. Free yourself…
It's empowering to embrace your uniqueness and stand strong in your light! Being a black sheep often means you’re meant to shine differently and inspire others. Keep embracing your gifts and never dim your light for anyone. Amen to that!
Given up at birth by a teenage mother, adopted into a very toxic religious family. The gaslighting, beatings, hate, ridicule, screaming, starving into the skinniest kid at every school. People think I'm strong, they have no idea.. Still healing, learning, growing.
Your journey speaks of resilience beyond words. To endure such pain and still commit to healing, learning, and growing is a testament to your incredible inner strength. Often, the strongest souls are forged in the fiercest fires. Keep moving forward-your strength and growth inspire others more than you may realize.
@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 Okay, so I helped to heal some ancestral wounds from my birth family AND the adoptive 'family". Bully for me. I inherited a double dose of "toxic family issues" to heal. The health issues and psychological handicaps resulting from such a nightmarish early life become continuing roadblocks and sources of suffering for the so-called "chosen ones". (We're supposed to feel special?) A toxic family is a torturous gift that keeps on giving. Nowhere did I hear what kind of appreciation or validation the chosen ones receive from enduring and struggling through constant difficulties.... will I "earn my wings"? Why did I volunteer for this assignment? It has felt like punishment for being alive since I was abandoned at birth in 1955.
Growing up with no no love, empathy or guidance and not understanding it until I became a adult and welcomed God into my life. I start to cry sometimes just out of nowhere,from all the surpressed feelings
Thank you for sharing your journey. Acknowledging those suppressed feelings and letting them out is a powerful step toward healing. Welcoming God into your life is a testament to your strength and resilience. You’re never alone in this process-sending you love and support as you continue to grow and heal. 🙏💖
Wow...from emotional, physical and sexual abuse from "family", then 45 years of drug addiction (marijuana to ease the anxiety), to breaking free of all that was a miracle from God....everyone has since died, but I am still here happier & healthier than ever before at age 70!
Your journey is nothing short of inspiring. Breaking free from such hardships shows incredible strength and resilience. Thank you for sharing your story-it’s a testament to hope and healing. 🌟💪
@whitehorse3828 33 years of thc addiction, been free from for about a year, take an occasional edible tho but that doesn't cause me to chase a dragon or disassociate me as much.. still drink tho but drinking doesn't disassociate me. I am almost 50, I started too young on THC at 14, I am beating my tobacco habit today. THC helped tho when I was young to deal with my family. Took to much lsd from 17-20, started drinking at 25. Bought a cat today to deal with social rejection.
@@rudestbeast4907I’m 30 years into thc addiction and I am just so sick of it. Thank you for posting your comment. I hope 2025 is the year I can break away from it and let my mind free again.
I had to let my family go. Emotionaly and physically. It's the only way for me to become really free. If god will bring us together again, it will be. If not, it will be. Thank you❤
Letting go takes incredible strength and faith. Trusting that God’s plan will unfold in the right way, whether or not reconciliation happens, is a powerful step toward freedom and healing. Sending you love and light on your journey! ❤️
@VonsWanderingMind Affirmation of Love: JESUS LOVES ME: Spoken out loud every time that a wicked thought comes to mind. Until tears of LOVE start rolling. Got me out of the Devils DEN, kept me from murder. GOD told me to quit praying for him, JEREMIAH 7! Referring to 1JOHN 5;16 ALL SIN IS SIN BUT THERE IS A SIN UNTO DEATH, I'D HAVE YOU NOT ASK OF THIS. AN ENIGMA, 1JOHN 4 GOD IS LOVE AND WE MUST HAVE LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER OR WE HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP WITH CHRIST. JEREMIAH 7 describe those who QUENCH the Holy Spirit, thus no oil.
At a very young age I accepted that I was not like them. I had no one to turn to, no one that loved me. Because of that I learned to love myself and to not care what others thought of me. When you are born to a Father and a mother that love nothing, or no one. It teaches you far more than you realize. It teaches you that you have a creator that loves you in ways you can only fully understand once you learn to truly love yourself with the same unconditional love they love you with. I could write a book here, but instead I will simply say I am proud of myself and my journey. I learned to truly deeply love others in a way that only my creators could fully understand.
It takes immense strength and self-awareness to transform pain into a guide for what not to be. Loving yourself and living authentically despite adversity is a powerful example of resilience and growth. Keep shining your light.
I'm at the point where God is shining a mirror onto my life and that of my family. The abuse I experienced, I have inflicted it, too. Not all of it but aspects of it, it's a multifaceted mirror.. It's a bitter pill to swallow but necessary for deep healing and real growth. Thankyou, Father 🙌🏻👑🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Coming from a family which treated me with neglect and constantly implanted me that everything I did wasn't good enough, I turned into a people pleaser, constantly neglected my own needs and limits, just to keep up the facade of "everyone's happy" around me. Face the truth: Everyone's happy does never work without you being happy yourself as well. Love your next like you love yourself. Not more, not less, but equally. That balance is the most difficult part to achieve.
Thank you for being so open about your experience. Growing up in such an environment can be so challenging, but recognizing the patterns and working on yourself is a huge step forward. Turning that pain into self-awareness and empowerment is such a powerful journey. Sending you strength and healing! 🌱✨
Can relate. The pretend facade on the surface that everything is fine they expect from one just robs any and all feeling towards them eventually. Am sick and tired having to be the one that must always give in to their ways by default. They are so damn clueless the harm its caused. Why must one fight hard to be respected and never get the respect? The resentment towards them is not teaching me anything good.
I never could figure out how I turned out so different than everyone else in my family. I thought it was bc I stayed away from home a lot in my teens. Being around other friends and their families and learning what “normal “ was. I have dealt with feeling unloved and unwanted for 59 years. My mom died this year and the toxic siblings attacked with a vengeance. I took a stand to put myself first for once and changed my number. I am going to overcome their abuse and rise to be the best person God intended me to be.
It’s incredible how your journey of self-discovery has shaped you into someone different from your surroundings. Sometimes distance and self-reflection help us find our true selves. Thank you for sharing your story!
.last year I cut off my brother.he was my number one abuser.as a child he would go out of his way to torment me and attack me.i always got blamed and yelled at.last year God showed me what he really was.he has a demon.he turned up to my house out of the blue and, refused to leave.i have pleated the blood of Jesus Christ all over my house.doors,walls you name it.last year I cleaned the kitchen,walls and doors. The holy spirit told me not to remove the cross off the door.i didn't listen.thats when he turned up.he only ever would enter and exit through the back door.the one I cleaned.he refused to enter any rooms or doors that had the cross.i called him into a room,he was following,looked up saw the cross,stopped and made a sudden excuse to go back to the kitchen. Where he was scrubbing rocks looking for Gold 😳.he got abusive and wouldn't leave.until I said get out in the name of Jesus Christ.while he was here a holy man just so happened to walk past my gate.he had a hat like this🎩. It was a surreal moment.i heard my brother deny jesus again.i had had a bad dream two weeks before this happened.i was yelling at a person to get out of my house and they wouldn't.after he left the phone calls started.my pastor recognised he had the spirit of torment.you did the right thing.we have warned them time and time again
My experience of narcissistic abuse triggered my spiritual awakening and allowed me to face negative core beliefs. It was such a painful yet liberating experience.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's amazing how such difficult situations can lead to profound awakenings and personal growth. Transforming pain into liberation is truly powerful, and your journey inspires others to find strength in their own challenges. Keep shining!
What a powerful scripture to share! Jeremiah 1:5 truly reminds us of the divine purpose and calling each of us has. Thank you for this uplifting reminder!
Yes God knew in his foreknowledge before the foundation of the world. The creation us and the price for free will. Jesus Christ was Gods offering to redeem us ❤
I had to cut ties with my family, because of all the overwhelming toxicity directed towards me. The holidays were the worst when I spent time with them. So many attitudes flying around, that I could not wait to leave from the time I arrived at one of their homes. I just turned 60 on 6-30-2024 , and for a while my life was just me and my beloved cat Scrunchie. When he suddenly passed away on 4-25-2023, I didn`t want to live anymore. That`s how badly losing him affected me. I eventually wound up in the ER for an emotional breakdown, with strong suicidal ideation. I`ve been in grief therapy ever since. This video had great meaning to me, and I hope everyone else as well. For now "I continue to burn the midnight lamp alone" Jimi Hendrix. All of this healing from my toxic family, and the loss of Scrunchie, is one more day to continue living, and continuing therapy for me.
Thank you for sharing such a deeply personal story. It takes immense strength to navigate the pain of both toxic relationships and profound loss. Scrunchie’s love and your journey to find healing are a testament to your resilience. Each day is a step forward, and I hope this video continues to serve as a light for your path. You are not alone in this journey-sending you warmth and encouragement as you continue healing.
😢 jamminjoe sorry about scrunchie.... godblessd you with his company .... the void will remain but you got to go on loving.... godbless you to ❤ing yourself .. gently ... kindly and in time you shall experience a shift . Godbless and ❤ to uou .
Stay strong 👊Ur a survivor 👍Ur still ere 🙏I want 2 send u soooooo much luv from my heart ❤️❤️❤️❤️ and pray dat God bless u wit everything u want 🙏🙏🙏🙏..please don't leave anyone bring u dwn, otherwise dey win! And I want u 2 win, everything in life🙏🙏sooooooo much love I send u ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
A gift? Why me? This is why I stayed single, and never was responsible for bringing more children into this world. I avoided their suffering the same fate as I did. I made more than my share of mistakes. There is little left for me to do at 80+ years, since most of my family have passed on.
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's understandable to feel that way, especially when reflecting on past experiences. Recognizing the impact of our choices can be a powerful step toward healing. Your journey and insights are valuable, and I appreciate you contributing to this discussion.
@@AndySullivan2343First of all, the person you are speaking to JUST stated that they are above 80 years old. Try actually listening to a person for a change before you start invalidating their feelings. I think your son would probably also appreciate if you learned this skill. Be well.
watching this at my old age (48) 😭. I've wasted so many years and only through prayers, I was able to come out from that dark hole, and I am a working progress. I am learning how to love myself and hoping to be able to receive it!
It's inspiring to hear about your journey and the progress you've made. Self-love is such a powerful tool for healing, and it's wonderful that you're embracing that path. Your resilience shows that it's never too late to grow and transform. Keep shining and nurturing that love for yourself!
I m sorry what you have, been throug its hurt but your family can not healing you alone your selfs can heal your selfs pain trauma been used throug Jesus christ He heal the broken hearts run too God Yaweh beause he loves you so much yes I do love you too honey don t give up be strong you can do it I m accept you how you are you are a blessings you are loved by God I m have been throug this to my own mother saying bad things over me when I m was a littel girl she kick me in my womb saying I m hope you will never getting childeren trying to kill me in my sleep I m was sleeping in my bed I openen my eyes and i saw a knife in her hand she walking away out the room I m was afraid of her I m forgive her what she have done too me she was sick I care for her but she don t accept jesus Christ in het life my own niece says the same she had hates me have no respect for me there are tree people saying too me a good friend of my saying it too I m chat with him 9 months never met him i can take it anymore I m don t need him in my life he don t love me together we breaking the cycles.
1st- sorry for your pain!!! 2- you're 48yrs young. I'm 53 yrs young, and I'm still pressing forward to become who God created me to be. 3- as long as you are willing, God will ALWAYS be there to transform you into your higher self. Healing is a process, Keep Healing, keep moving, keep believing, Keep loving.❤
At 56 years of age presently and have always been the black sheep of the family. Most family members despise me.....especially my parents. Still I'm grateful because I've learnt alot in life 🙏
Being the ‘black sheep’ can be incredibly isolating, but it sounds like you’ve found strength and wisdom in your journey. It’s inspiring how you’ve turned your pain into gratitude and life lessons. Thank you for sharing your story-your resilience is truly remarkable!
This video really hits home. It’s incredible to think that being born into a toxic environment could actually be part of a greater purpose. The struggles we face can shape us into stronger, wiser individuals, helping us break generational cycles and inspire others to do the same. Truly a gift in disguise!
Absolutely! Turning pain into purpose is one of the most profound gifts. The strength and wisdom gained from those experiences can inspire change and healing in others. Thank you for sharing this insight-it truly adds depth to the conversation!
@@TheWorldofChosen that’s all a lie.. struggles to make us stronger is a diabolical, absurd, nonsensical lie we have been fed in order to make an excuse for all the trauma and terror.. what it is, our human desire to achieve even in the face of pure evil.. but learning via terror is a diabolical LIE
God has been with me the moment I was created I've survived all forms of abuse from my family God was shaping me for a higher purpose God is with me for he is stronger then any negativity on this earth
What a powerful testimony of faith and strength! Your story is a reminder that God’s presence and purpose shine brighter than any darkness. Thank you for sharing and inspiring others with your resilience and trust in Him. Stay blessed!
I needed to see this video. At 32 and just having my first child, I have been struggling SO much since giving birth to my daughter. I feel this immense pressure to give her the peace I didn’t really have growing up. I’ve had SO much fear that I won’t break the cycle of trauma that’s it’s made me more depressed. This video is making me think in a different light. Thank you
Thank you for sharing your journey. Motherhood is a profound and transformative experience, and it’s okay to feel the weight of it all. Sending you strength, love, and encouragement as you navigate this path. You’ve got this!
I came from HELL as a child and God always watches over me and protects me, that's how he built me as a powerful and fearless and faithful and a PURE UNCONDITIONAL Loving HEART servant of JESUS CHRIST.
Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s incredible how faith and resilience have shaped you into someone powerful and fearless. Your story is truly inspiring and a reminder of how challenges can build strength. Stay blessed! 🙏✨
I grew up in that toxic environment. .and tried so hard to raise my girls loved, wanted, valued, important and capable. But, my ex was just like my mom, and never loved me either, or respected me. ..so they learned to disrespect, dishonor and to not value me. My girls are in their 40s now and it's hard to be around them.
I lost my mother at 10 months old. My dad a cop became an alcoholic. Married 2nd time she beat me. My grandmother took me at 1st grade. Then died at 15. Went to live with aunt. Dad was on his 3d marriage with a women with 5 kids. They had 3 more. I got pregnant at 17. I ran from Kentucky to California with a baby. Got pregnant again. We had a son. 6 months later his dad was shot. I then was once again no family. I moved to 8 different states. Just starting over. Was pretty so jobs came ease. Im now 62. Divorced from 2nd husband. My only FRIND is JEASUS. I have endured. My kids are good. They liked moving somewhere new. In Florida 30 years now. I don't feel choose. 😢. But I have become liking to be alone. I will endure.
Your story is a testament to incredible resilience and faith. Despite the hardships, your ability to endure and find solace in your faith is truly inspiring. You are a living example of strength through adversity, and your journey is a light for others who are struggling. Thank you for sharing your truth. Keep enduring, you are never alone.
I am Aquarius & I have never fit in! I stand out & I always try to avoid being in public. I am the Wounded Warrior & had a very challenging upbringing. I am the baby and not the golden child. My sister was always mean to me growing up and now she can’t remember that! I grew up forced into the black sheep mentality and I am so grateful that I am who I am because I am a powerful force to be reckoned with! I have transformed hate into love and lemons 🍋into lemonade ✨🪽🩵😇 Loving yourself is the Greatest Love of All 🩷 Sending my Love to All of You Beautiful Souls ✨
Your resilience and transformation are truly inspiring! Turning challenges into strengths and embracing self-love is such a powerful journey. Thank you for sharing your story and spreading love and light to others-it’s a beautiful reminder of how we can all rise above and thrive. Sending love back to you! ✨
Lets not forget we cant believe in zodiacs and God!! Its oil and water, unless you dont have a relationship with God, if you do..., you might have to revisit your belief in Zodiac signs...i was obsessed with being a Leo and God made it clear that it will hinder my walk with him!!! He is the only one who gives us our identity, no one else.
Your journey is truly inspiring! It’s amazing how you’ve found gratitude and understanding through it all. Sometimes the most challenging paths lead to the deepest wisdom and peace. Keep shining!
The notable event is (like you said) when it all makes sense, as that is when we have finally risen above it all and understand it from a higher level.
My hope is the next or another dimension is only love....no need to learn or grow from toxicity, polarization, separation, or any other negative experience. The only things needed would be love, inclusion, peace, creativity, laughter, intergalactic friendship, honesty, true freedom and authentic true love.😌💗
Thank you for sharing your beautiful perspective! Love and connection are indeed at the core of our spiritual journeys. Embracing these values can lead to profound healing and growth, both individually and collectively. Let's continue to spread that love!
debdo1960, It is bcs Earth is a polarized planet. But I KNOW I come from a place that is not! I KNOW there are Much Better places, where Beings live in peace with each other. Maybe you & I will meet there someday. 😊
@momobrule3 AWESOME!!!!! I'm ready. I feel I come from a loving non polarized place too. Would love to meet you and other peaceful and loving beings as this has been a very lonely place....too hostile 💕
This is exactly how my life has been. For those of you who are struggling, I know you can move past your past. Have faith, God knew you were ready for this path.
Thank you for sharing your experience and encouragement! Your words are a powerful reminder to have faith and embrace the strength within. God truly prepares us for the journeys we are meant to walk. Stay blessed!
I have been waiting for these words for the longest time, despite having started my healing journey I still had doubts and resentment in myself based on what my family made me think. It's time to break free.
Your realization is such a powerful step forward! Breaking free from the doubts and resentment planted by others is a profound act of self-love and growth. You’re on a transformative journey, and it’s inspiring to see your strength and determination. Keep moving forward-healing and freedom await you!
It's inspiring to hear about your healing journey and how you've come to see yourself as a blessing. Your growth is a testament to your strength and resilience. Thank you for sharing your experience-it's a beautiful reminder for others on their own paths! 🌟💕
When I think about how I feel about my narcissistic family, being their scapegoat, my first thought wasn't pain or hurt, it is injustice. My light is about justice for the innocence (that also includes me).
My whole adopted family minus one sibling out of 10 are narcs! My fAther was a narc. My boyfriend’s son is a narc. I have learned how to deal with them and more importantly how to protect myself. Eventually I will get to the healing
To @sirphil13: Your strength in standing for justice and seeing yourself as part of the innocent is truly inspiring. Turning pain into purpose and light is one of the most powerful gifts of a chosen one. Stay true to your mission; your light will guide others toward healing and truth.
To @rochellefreeland4338: Recognizing the patterns and learning how to protect yourself is such an important step. Healing is a journey, and the strength you’ve shown in navigating such a challenging environment is remarkable. You’re on the right path, and your resilience will lead you to the peace and freedom you deserve. Keep going!
@@rochellefreeland4338 Not surprising. Cain's serpent seedline (aka "narcs") outnumbers Adam's by a landslide. Those born into a family with normal, loving, Adamic parents and siblings truly won the biological lottery in this life. I wouldn't wish my "gift" (covert narc mother and golden child brother along with cowardly enabling father) on my worst enemy!! Thank God I had loving paternal grandparents!!!
It’s incredible how certain truths resonate so deeply. I’m grateful this video spoke to you in such a meaningful way. Sending you love and strength on your journey!
I drove around last night trying to escape old cycles , I reached out to the universe for a sign it hadn't given up on me... And nothing came until this morning, when this video was the first in my feed.... Thank you.
It’s incredible how the universe works in such mysterious ways. It’s no coincidence that this video appeared when you needed it most. Stay strong and trust that you are being guided towards something greater. You are not alone in this journey. Keep moving forward!
Though it all makes sense intellectually but your broken shattered heart never recovers completely. When you are all alone with no friends or family, when you don’t even know what it feels like to be loved and cared for by another human being, when all you have seen your entire life is hatred and ridicule, when you feel scared and awkward to face the world cause of all the shame and guilt, then how do you erase and forget all that and be ok with it. Yes this experience taught me to very strong mentally and made me read and learn about spirituality, consciousness universal laws and connect to God. But all this happened intellectually my heart still bleeds, craves for love and approval. The emotional pain and the wounds getting deeper and deeper. Every day of life is a struggle in this world. But yes my mental and intellectual growth has been phenomenal which I am unable to put to use cause of my shattered heart and the emotional trauma. I am unable to escape this deep trauma and want to leave this world peacefully
Your words carry so much depth and pain, and it’s clear how deeply you’ve reflected on your journey. The heartache and longing for love you describe are incredibly human, and it’s okay to feel the weight of it. Spiritual and intellectual growth is a tremendous achievement, but it doesn’t erase the need for emotional healing. Remember, you are not alone in this struggle. Sometimes, leaning into self-compassion and connecting with those who understand your pain can bring light into those dark corners. Your courage to share this is a testament to your strength, even in moments when it doesn’t feel that way. Please take gentle care of yourself and know that your existence holds meaning, even in the face of profound challenges. Sending you love and peace.
@@Rsinha702 I understand completely. On top of hell growing up also had all the abuses mentioned above but my step father was a nasty bad person and my brothers, every since my mom passed away in 1993, I have never been invited to another family function untill I got with my late husband in 2000 and then we were invited to them. When my husband died in my arms in2013 day before mother's day I as never invited again. I was not called to see how I was. I started traveling back and forth to a couple of them because they never came to my house again but drove right by when they went to see each other. I've never done anything to anyone of them but no matter what I did I guess I was still shit. I went back to school itt tech after that and one day they closed doors and my health started failing around that time. Been homeless a couple times because everyone hated me and I had nowhere to go but my carso me and my dog did that. Live on disability now . I can't afford to live. Had colon cancer 4 years ago. Died 3 times. Twice ooperatng table and then ended up with COVID and was dying with it. Dr after that odeed me with phentyl patches. Was in hospital 3 days. My life I have never done any one wrong I very blunt and honest to the point but I'm not mean unless provoked. I was taught to stand up and speak your mind the truth by my brothers. Now I see they can't handle it and I don't care. My stone will have on it I LIVED I TRIED AND THEN I DIED!. TY FOR LETTING ME KNOW IM NOT ALONE.
If you have grown but unable to use it try teraphy. Alone you will most likely not make it. Try and do it for yourself . Set yourself free by healing ans putting the trauma behind
That’s such a healthy and empowering perspective! Learning and growing from those experiences while focusing on your own peace and self-worth is truly a gift. Keep shining and thriving! ❤️
My life has truly been changed forever right here right now! Gratitude is my attitude. This was definitely a gentle nudge from the divine source of the universe for me to turn my pain into my true purpose Divine permission granted🙏🏽😌💚🦋💚🦋
What a beautiful realization! Gratitude transforms pain into purpose, and it’s amazing to see how you’ve embraced this divine nudge. Wishing you continued strength and clarity on your journey!
It's took me a few decades to be grateful for the lessons i have now learned. God has been patient with me, like only he could. He's had my back all along and now I know it....... pray for discernment every day...... this video is spot on. Break the cycle.
It’s truly beautiful how patience and faith can lead to such profound lessons. Your story reminds us of the importance of trusting the process. Grateful you found peace and clarity! 🙏✨
This is one of the best videos I have ever watched on youtube. I can relate to every bit of it, as I got to watch it after I healed & learned. Now, I see that God chose me for this special path, a bigger purpose for the world. Thank you!
Wow, thank you so much for your kind words! I’m truly glad this video resonated with you and became part of your healing journey. It’s amazing to hear how you’ve embraced your purpose-wishing you continued strength and inspiration! 🙏✨
Hello, i am French and living in Vienna. This is the best video so far o have watched on that subject. Thank you very much because it is complete and precise. Going through the commentaries i understand that we are many black sheeps having endured, sometimes having brocken free and feeling much better now after having learned the lesson of forgiveness. I have truly learned that on Earth there is no light without shadow. We just need both if we want to evoluate. All the best to everyone for 2025 ❤
As a chosen one you see the repeating cycles, toxic patterns and generational trauma - genetic alcoholism, narcissism and abuse. There are a lot of lessons to learn from this. We are here to learn and grow. It’s unfortunate that some people will never learn and grow in this life. As an adult, you have free will and the wisdom to know better. Choose peace over chaos and move on. Break away, heal, grow and ascend.❤ Great video!!
Thank you for sharing such profound insights! Your perspective on choosing peace over chaos and embracing growth is truly inspiring. Breaking away and ascending takes immense strength, and your words resonate deeply. ❤️✨
Yes, I'm grateful for seeing this, and it helps greatly. I know I was born awake, I shut it all down almost immediately after coming in. I know that I chose this family to break cycles. I now have no relationship with any of my family, even my kids. I've gone through several dark nights of the soul and suffered greatly with depression. It's taken a lot of work to hold them in compassion, forgiveness and come to neutrality. Thanks so much I love how my guides bring me these videos on UA-cam. I do no social media at all. 🙏
Your journey of choosing compassion, forgiveness, and neutrality is truly admirable. Breaking cycles and navigating through such deep challenges takes incredible strength. I’m so grateful this video resonated with you and supported your path. Wishing you continued healing and peace as you embrace your light and purpose.
At age 77, I can appreciate now what a blessing it was to awaken in this life. The process takes time. Especially in a toxic family ❤ Remember: they only saw my decisions, never my choices for those decisions. 🎉
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's inspiring to hear how you've embraced your journey. Your wisdom and experiences can truly help others understand the growth that comes from challenging situations. Keep shining your light! 🌟❤️
Your faith in Jesus is your greatest strength. Even in the midst of the storm, He is your anchor and light. Remember, being born into a toxic family does not define your worth; it shapes your testimony. Keep leaning on Him, for He is with you, guiding you to a brighter and more peaceful future. Stay strong in His love!
I was born dead, strangled by the umbilical cord..after 35 minutes returned to life.. my mother did not want any children, she told me at age 8 that she hated me and wanted me to be dead...she never changed and throughout the years I was her scapegoat/punching bag emothionally and physically...she had a public image which left me with no support because people didn't believe me although I learned not to divulge the truth about my home life. Still I survived and had a deep desire to know God. I forgive her and even still love her I pray she repented before she died and asked Jesus to save her. The conditioning however led me to marry not just one but two men who physically/emotionally abused me the second man attempted to murder me....Jesus sent me back. God knows best and I eventually came to understand why we all need Jesus.
Your story is deeply moving and a powerful testimony of resilience and faith. It’s incredible how, despite unimaginable challenges, you’ve found strength in Jesus and a desire to forgive and love. Your journey highlights the profound ways God works to bring us closer to Him, even through trials. Thank you for sharing such a raw and heartfelt story-your faith and strength are truly inspiring.
So sorry. I to was abused by a mother who was scared of being single w kids. Any man will do. Just provide n raise her above the gossip of being needy. My real father was sexually abuser from alcohol even as a baby. He left n she remarried to another one in between the other men in my life was also alcoholic n sexual abuser. N Jesus Christ was always there. I pray you receive the healing inside ur heart. We all love u. God n his family n army. Being cased out by her n them as bait. Made me a loner now. By reading the words of God it will heal u. I also had Billy Graham’s books n Jimmy Swagger. That helped. Was going to church my whole life n found out they were being controlled by government n stop. The truth is. To find Jesus Christ he’s at the cross. Repent praises n worship him n pray always. Making him ur bestie n knowing he’s beside me. I feel like a lion mom ready for anything. He tells me what to say to others n they see my relationship w him is real. I’m always bringing people into the word n to God n w Jesus Christ I learned to be more like him n not like the worldly me. Simple n not from this world. All my problems n needs r met at the cross and the one who died a horrible death. Make me stronger n to rely totally on him until I cross over to heaven. Ur job is be a fisherman of others. I caught them n seen them to Jesus Christ at the cross where he’s at waiting for all w ears.
Thank you so much for your kind words. It’s heartwarming to know this message resonates and can bring healing to others. May the journey of truth continue to inspire and uplift those who need it most!
I've always known that I chose this challenge. I asked for it. That is extremely helpful. It led me to see it for what it was worth. I change it. A lot of it was through Stoicism. Almost no one knows what is on my mind or what I acknowledge about what I see. But I do not forget.
What a strong and insightful perspective. It’s amazing that you’ve embraced this challenge and turned it into growth. Stoicism is such a powerful tool-thank you for sharing your journey!
This video is mine. The spirit of God let me left home to shine in darkness. Am homless , no parent, no siblings care,no friends. Harder than hard, i keep moving.
Your resilience and faith are truly inspiring. The light within you is a testament to the strength that God has placed in you to shine even in the darkest moments. Keep moving forward; your journey is a powerful story of hope and perseverance. You are not alone in this. Stay blessed!
May God provide you with a home and love in it....🫶 Keep strong moving forward and prayerful watchful expecting God to provide. He is going to ...faith of a mustard seed...brings much💫You deserve ♥️
Healing from such an experience truly is one of the greatest gifts. It allows us to transform pain into strength, wisdom, and compassion. Your journey of healing is a testament to the resilience of the soul. Keep embracing the gift of growth.
Not till I lost my mama that's when I felt free. God knows exactly what he's doing. The hurt is still there. But thank God I'm free. Thank you so much for posting this, it has enlightened me so much on top what else I've been taught.
It’s powerful that you can see God’s purpose even in your pain. Finding freedom through such a loss is a profound experience. Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s inspiring and a reminder that healing and enlightenment often come through our toughest trials. Stay blessed!
Absolutely, Leon! That’s a powerful insight. It’s often through our challenges that we grow stronger and discover our true selves. Thank you for sharing this beautiful reminder!
Your resilience shines through your words. Walking away to survive takes immense courage, and I’m so grateful this video resonated with you deeply. You are never alone on this journey, and your strength is an inspiration to so many. Stay empowered!
Thank you for sharing your emotions so openly. Walking away to survive is a courageous decision, and it shows your incredible strength. You’re not alone in this-there’s so much love and support for you here.
Well said! Solitude often becomes the birthplace of self-discovery and true strength. Rejecting the need for external validation can lead to a much more authentic and fulfilling path.
I want to thank You from the bottom of my heart and soul for this video, You saved and healed so many of us with Your understending how deep are the wounds from difficult childhood. You are wonderful human being and friend that we could only wish for. I am sending You my gratitude and love for this eternal wisdom that You are sharing with us ❤🙏
Thank you so much for your heartfelt message. It means the world to know that this video has resonated with you and brought healing. Sending you love, light, and strength on your journey forward!
My parents, both alcoholics [ claims she left me in my baby carriage all afternoon while drinking at a bar], tossed me across a room where I have a dent in the hairline on my forehead as an infant, took my car title under false pretenses and sold the only car my Dad ever gave me, had me iron at 9 with a burnt finger from the iron and on and on. She left 4 of us a month after my 16th b'day - no prom ... bc she did that, I had to quit high school and give my father my paycheck to substitute for hers, slept w my first husband and much, much more.... I signed up for this??? I am an empath and got my GED at 30 so I could take the SATs for nursing school after being out of school for over a decade ... didn't study for it but was an avid reader and passed. I was not allowed friends or after school activities bc I had to care for my siblings since age 8 after school. By 12, I was making a full Thanksgiving dinner while she lay too hungover to get out of bed. When I found out she made a pass at my late husband when we were engaged [ 2nd marriage ] ... I had to cut ties w her. No matter what I did to try and please her, it wasn't good enough. I always thought I was unlovable. I was a curious and caring child ... often beaten and made to go to bed without supper. I broke the chain of violence and neglect and now my children have wonderful, loving families. Thank you God for letting me learn the lessons I needed to and learning to forgive. I'm going to be 77 in a few months and am ready to be with my Jesus. I love giving to strangers w no expectations of obligations or reward and caring for animals and my fav patients were hospice, stroke and Alzheimer's [ those unable to help or speak for themselves ]. I love my alone time w my mini Doxie to reflect and continue to grow spiritually.
Thank you for sharing your incredibly powerful and moving story, and for your generosity in supporting the channel. Your strength in breaking the cycle of violence and creating a loving environment for your children is truly inspiring. It’s a testament to your resilience and heart as an empath. May your journey continue to bring healing and light. Sending you love and gratitude!
The synchronicity of this popping up in my feed, today, at this exact moment, just couldn't be random. There is healing, for all of us. Start changing the way you think about yourself, and how you think about your family. I'm praying for all, all who have watched this, and identified with it. Peace be with you.
What a beautiful reflection. The timing of messages like this is never a coincidence. Thank you for your prayers and for sharing this powerful reminder of healing and perspective. Peace and blessings to you!
I always said why me. In my later years my family members started dying. I had the responsibility of taking care of everything since I was born first, the only girl with 3 brothers. Everything was my fault. My parents, one brother and my son all passed between 2018 and 2021. Transformation was happening for me until my son died. No words left.
Your story carries so much weight and pain, and I’m deeply sorry for all the losses you’ve endured. Sometimes life puts the strongest souls in the toughest situations to shape something beyond our understanding. Your resilience through such profound challenges is extraordinary, and even when words fall short, I hope you find moments of peace and healing. Sending you strength and love.
Such a profound connection! Toxicity can indeed manifest in various ways, whether through family or culture. I’m so glad the message resonated with you and brought some emotional release. Thank you for sharing your reflection-it truly adds depth to the discussion. Many blessings!
2:31 I was not born to fit in, born to stand out, to rise above not just yourself but the generations that came before and after me, thats what makes me the chosen one!
What a powerful declaration! You embody the spirit of what it means to be a chosen one-breaking generational cycles and paving the way for those who come after you. Keep rising and inspiring others to see their own light. Thank you for sharing this!
@ I definitely know I was given a second chance, went ahead and unfortunate cycling accident back in an Amsterdam. Something told me to share that story online and that’s what built the foundation for who I am today.
That’s such an incredible story! It’s amazing how something as challenging as your accident became the turning point that shaped who you are today. Your resilience and purpose inspire so many-thank you for sharing your journey. 🙏✨
I am going through this kind of emotional pain and having many questions within me. Out of nowhere surprisingly i randomly found this video.. Thank you soo much sir thank you 🙏❤️
I’m so glad this video found you at the right moment. Your journey, though challenging, is leading you to incredible growth and strength. You’re not alone in this, and I’m sending you love and encouragement to keep moving forward. Stay strong and stay blessed!
@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 thank you again and again.. truly higher power answers through the evolve soul like you. Lots of gratitude and good wishes to you too. Happy New year 🙏
This reading felt so personal to me. It’s as if the narrator knew all my dark family secrets of abuse and total neglect of my being! You have shed light on what I’ve just recently learned but it is nice to get this confirmation that what I have believed is true! I have acknowledged my part in my growing up and the abuse is and was there pain of denial! Thank you for sharing this!❤😊❤
I’m so grateful this message resonated with you and brought confirmation to your journey. Acknowledging and facing the pain takes immense courage, and it’s such a powerful step toward healing. Thank you for sharing your story-your strength and self-awareness are truly inspiring. Sending you love and light as you continue to grow and heal! ❤️😊❤️
I picked a doozy of a family. I am chosen because even in my dreams they are trying to continue to wound me because they KNOW I have the ultimate power. Faith. A child like faith that all things are a blessing and patience in myself and my own power is the ultimate power. I trust all who read this are beautiful souls with an amazing ability to see themselves as they truly are...souls that chose to come here at the best time in history where we can see a better future for man kind. See that better planet that YOU would choose for you and your inner circle and your culture. Love to you all.
Your perspective is so powerful and inspiring. Recognizing the blessings in disguise and having faith in your own power is truly what makes you a chosen one. Thank you for sharing such profound wisdom-sending love and light to you as well.
That is such a beautiful realization. Ancestral healing is truly powerful, and recognizing your purpose to help brings so much light to your journey. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt reflection! Blessings to you.
I very nearly did not make it. I was suicidal from a very early age but somehow I have managed to live up until now. I have stood up against so much. It was the book "The Dissappearance of the Universe" that taught me the importance of forgiveness. Only recently I have learned to say the words "You are valued" to myself and others.
Your journey is incredibly inspiring, and it’s a testament to your resilience and strength. Learning to value yourself and others is such a powerful breakthrough. Thank you for sharing your story-it’s a reminder to us all that forgiveness and self-worth are transformative tools for healing. You are truly valued!
It’s truly heartbreaking to go through something so overwhelming. Remember, even in the chaos, there’s a strength within you that has carried you this far. You’re not alone, and your story, however heavy, holds power and meaning. Sending you love and light on your journey.
That's a beautiful perspective! It's inspiring to see how challenging experiences can empower us to help others. Your journey can truly make a difference in the lives of many. Thank you for sharing!
Growing up I was an only child with seven adults around me. There is so much in this video that has very poignant messages, it is real. Since being an adult I have cared for my mother and eleven other individuals. This has been my wake up call, there is no family that does not have any toxicity. Now there is none left and my gift is realized, healing is part of my life. Freedom is waiting for you, blessings to all use this as a wake up to a new life!❤️🌹
Your journey is truly inspiring and a testament to the power of transformation. Healing and freedom are such beautiful gifts, and your story shows that even in challenging circumstances, there’s an opportunity for growth and awakening. Blessings to you as you continue to live in this newfound peace and share your light with others!
It takes incredible self-awareness and strength to make a decision like that, and it sounds like you’ve found peace with it. Breaking toxic cycles is a profound and personal journey, and your courage to end it with you is deeply inspiring. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
My difficult family and childhood outside the home aided me in becoming very strong emotionally, mentally and physically; not to depend on others to bolster me up, to build me up, make me feel loved or give me confident pep talks or tell me I'm worthy. Those old spirit crushing recordings still play, I still have the feelings of being a failure and not good enough...and I still choose to sit down from time to time and talk with those painful feelings and let them tell me all they need to.....like holding a screaming crying baby, I hold them and let them rage, I hug them and tell them 'it's OK, let it all out'....... but a louder voice now says, well, I 'll just love myself then, I say things to myself that I wish I had heard from others, and I ask myself "What can I do to make you feel joy today?" or I say things like "I'm so proud of you for continuing to bring your most excellent self to each day in spite of all you've been thru"...and a few years ago I made the following promises "I will never strain, strive, struggle, stress or hurt myself for anyone or anything ever again" and "People have to treat me at least as well as I treat them or better, or they're out". Thank you! sub'd 💖 p.s. yes, that is how I look at my family, as great teachers...or any difficult people...
Your strength is inspiring! Turning a difficult upbringing into a foundation for emotional, mental, and physical resilience is no small feat. Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s a testament to the power of inner strength. 💪✨
Thank you for your kind words! I’m glad the message resonated with you. It’s so important to focus on the positive and find meaning in our experiences. Wishing you a joyful and inspiring New Year! 🎄✨
Thank you so much for noticing and appreciating the positive intent of this message! Wishing you a joyful and transformative New Year filled with light and clarity! 🎉🌟
This video glosses over a lot of pain and heartbreak along the difficult journey to healing. No child should have to go through abuse and neglect. I have at least realized that scar tissue grows back stronger. But let's not idealize these burdens and this perilous path.
You’re absolutely right, and I deeply appreciate your perspective. The journey of healing is painful and complex, and no child should endure such hardships. The video’s intention is to provide hope and meaning for those trying to make sense of their struggles, but it’s so important to acknowledge the reality of the pain as well. Your strength in recognizing the growth from those scars is incredibly powerful. Thank you for sharing this honest and thoughtful insight.
Our benevolent God allows his creation free will to choose between good and evil. Those that choose evil, make others suffer as a way to upease the pain of the consequences of their bad choices. The good learn that choosing righteousness is the key to peace in this life - no matter what others have done to them - they refuse to allow evil to take them over - and choose to do good no matter how bad their circumstances were growing up. So the question really is not about God - but about which path we as his creation choose. Everyday we must choose between light and darkness. I choose the light of love and peace on my journey.
@@teresalevell2624 "Our benevolent God allows his creation free will to choose between good and evil." That's not a good answer as it only accounts for the priests behavior. Why doesn't your supposed benevolent god protect the children?
@ "Our benevolent God allows his creation free will to choose between good and evil." That's not a good answer as it only accounts for the priests behavior. Why doesn't your supposed benevolent god protect the children?
I’m the youngest and only girl… I’m the only one in therapy for all the bs over the years. It’s hard to heal when they still don’t want to see it. I can only heal myself and they seem happy on their hamster wheel … so I’m estranged now I had to remove me and my family from that ….. I asked God what to do but I feel I have no other option it’s been 40 years of repeated pain. I see it all and I see what I’m doing that are things I’ve learned from my toxic childhood. This whole video nailed it. I asked God to forgive me because I feel I failed Him but I’m so empty idk what else to do. The more I heal and see more the more grief I feel.
Your journey reflects immense courage and resilience. Remember, healing is not about fixing others but finding peace within yourself. Grief can feel overwhelming, but it often leads us to a deeper understanding of love and purpose. Keep trusting in the process, and know that God’s grace covers you, even in the moments of emptiness. You are never alone in this path.
I can really relate to your comment. As far as more compassion for others & seeing the truth of who my family really are, my painful experience taught me those . Trying to be a better person & think of others trauma & insecurities as the reason for their behaviour, so being the bigger person & not retaliating but instead, being consistent In my conduct of reliability and being unconditional support instead of their manipulative conditional support. All these so called " good traits" over years = people pleasing doormat & poverty & loneliness. That's what my soul has learned & a little too late . Peace be with you & I home what lies in your future is freedom from all those repressing people & situations. survival traits that, caused you to merely exist by not really living but by making everyone around you have a better life by neglecting your own . People pleasing as a result is soo hard to not automatically fall into no matter where you go or what new people or environments you end up in, people pleasing is like default mode.
@@nickibanks5185 thank you 🙏🏽 I am a recovering ppl pleaser only because I know it fees like to feel abandoned, shunned, ostracized (scapegoat) and yet I see their issues and pain they have blindly accepted as it just being them when they don’t realize it was what was done to them, I’ve tried to have heart to heart conversations that always end up with yelling and me being pushed away, I know they don’t know how to love me just care for all my other needs to keep me alive while my spirit was slowly die’n. It has caused me to silence myself around them not share my feelings or happiness because they will drag me down somehow. They project their fears onto my excitement towards the wonderful unknown they lost their faith and I feel it’s too late for them and that makes me feel like a failure to my Lord. I have my own family and I do not want them to take on those traits because of me that’s why I’ve felt it necessary to remove myself (mental health) because my kids need me at my best and healthiest I can be, they deserve that they deserve the love and support that I never had. While I also need to give that to myself because I to deserve it. That’s why I continue to ask God if this is right because I know He sees everything in my heart and soul. I can’t control others God gave me free will as to all His creations. I feel I need to let it go and let it be.
I wish l left my family sooner than l did. Instead l just allowed them more time to cause more damage. Leaving was the best thing you could do. Good for you. Be strong and love yourself. You deserve it🙏💕🌸
Absolutely, the journey of healing through the family we chose can be challenging but deeply transformative. Thank you for embracing this perspective and sharing your understanding-it’s a reminder that every step is part of a greater purpose.
Thank you Dear One this was the Divine Confirmation and True Liberation!! I view the pain differently Right here right now. Thank you for seeing the Gift😌🙏🏽🥰💝 True Freedom Today!
Your realization is beautiful! True liberation begins when we shift our perspective and embrace the divine gift in every experience. Sending you love and strength on your journey!
I can recognize almost everything you have said in this video! Thank you so much for the help! I have been blessed with spiritual gifts such as HEALER, and more!💜💜💜
That’s truly amazing to hear! Recognizing those spiritual gifts is such a powerful step in your journey. Your ability to heal and uplift others is a beautiful blessing. Keep shining your light! 💜✨
Thank you for this video. Now i understand Isaiah 48: 10 " Behold i have refined thee but not with silver , I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction." Thank you Lord for your goodness and your mercy even when i don't understand what you are doing.
My narcissistic mother knew which child will break free and it was me and she knew which child will expose her abuse and it was me and she also knew which child will break the generational curse and it was me. I am proud of myself ❤ and my children are blessed to have me as a mother 😊
Wow, what an incredible story of resilience and strength. Breaking generational cycles is no small feat-your children are lucky to have you. Thank you for sharing your journey!
It is easier to rise above it all if a) they weren't still trying to hurt you triggering very deep and old wounds and b) if you weren't broken from birth because of the lack of love from them. I KNOW my mother is very broken, and I sometimes feel some compassion, but on the other hand, I am also broken because of her, but I am NEVER deliberately hurtful to anyone. I have only crossed her one time. She is very selective in her targets so I know there is also deliberate choice on her part. I look forward to the day that we are ALL healed and able to forge the family bonds that we were unable to here. I believe in being patient with ourselves and our pain (which is real) and try to be patient with her because she is incapable. I am 70. We do not become whole while still living in the family dynamic that created deep pain as it is unconciously triggering. When I step away, I am healthier. My mother is in her 90s. I will be grateful when she passes so that I can escape her games, deliberate meannesses and the disingenuous charm toward others that captivates them and keeps them from seeing.
Your words are incredibly powerful and reflect the immense strength and patience you’ve cultivated over the years. Acknowledging the pain while striving for compassion is no small feat. You’re right-stepping away from toxic dynamics can often be the path to true healing. I admire your resilience and your hope for eventual healing for all. Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s truly inspiring to others who may be facing similar challenges
I really needed to hear and watch this video. Family continues to bring me toxicity with their judgment and drama. I had to go deep within to finally let go of their judgment, criticism, and so-called intervention of what I'm not doing right. I've had enough.
It takes immense strength to recognize and release yourself from the cycle of judgment and criticism. You’re on a powerful path of self-healing and growth. Stay strong and true to your journey-you deserve peace and freedom!
Once again, the wisdom from whomever this is spoken from on this video, is all truth! Thank you for helping souls to see the light at the end of the tunnel! Just wanted to share a saying that I read decades ago on my life-time journey, that may resonate for some. Plenty of other ones I read too, but this one is not seen as much! Here is is! "The more sorrow that carves into your being, the more joy you can contain". I've lived it and now I Mentor, true TRUTH SEEKERS! BLESSINGS for an amazing, SOULS AWAKENING, NEW YEAR!💝💖🌟
Thank you for your kind and uplifting words! It means so much to know that the message resonates with you. Sharing wisdom from your journey is such a gift-thank you for being part of this space
We all have a different journey in being a chosen one. Healing for me has been a massive one. Being chosen means also marrying someone who doesn’t bring love and peace and joy but rather constant challenges. Like an extension of what you experienced in the family of origin. And everyone can give you advise but ultimately we need to listen to our intuition and know what path to follow. And becoming intuitive only comes when we move towards god. We let him take control of our journey.
You’re absolutely right-each journey as a chosen one is unique and deeply personal. Healing is such a transformative process, and it sounds like you’ve made incredible strides. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom. 🌟💖
@@skinnyway life is more complicated than ‘you don’t have to live with a terrible spouse’. We are all born to do the right thing by others in life. What maybe the right thing for one person may not be the right thing for another. That’s why our intuition plays a big role in knowing what is the right thing to do in any given situation.
@@kayprice9621seem like you attracted that kind of person in your life. Abraham hick, and neurosciencist, Dispenza used to say ask yourself why? what am I doing wrong. You didn't have to do it. Change yourself; change your mind change your outcome. All the best
I’m so glad the illustrations resonated with you! Art has a unique way of touching our souls and conveying truths beyond words. Your appreciation means so much-thank you for sharing how it transformed your perspective! 💜
I am grateful I was born in dysfunctional family, if not I would have not grown into spiritually and strong human. Not just family even friends & relationships, today I am working on healing myself, started tarot and healing modules to help other souls. I had option to walk down in dark path, but my faith n trust in divine made me the person today. I believe we all have purpose and trust in universe 🙏 Thank you so much for making us feel valuable ❤ I am your new subscriber
Your journey is truly inspiring. It’s amazing how you’ve transformed challenges into spiritual growth and are now helping others. Faith and trust in the divine truly light the way, and your dedication to healing and purpose radiates so much strength. Thank you for being here and for sharing this beautiful energy with us! Welcome to the community!
Thank you for your kind and poetic words! The journey of breaking barriers and finding clarity is a powerful one, and I’m honored to be part of your path to deeper consciousness. Stay connected to your light and truth! 🌟✨
I needed this video. I’ve been going through unbearable pain in my soul. I was also born a curious child, spiritual (my dad says at 2 &3 I would ask who made the stars) philosophical, poetic and empathic. I had a loving heart and wanted to give my best to everybody. Severe trauma started with my family of origin and has continued throughout my life. Abused in every way possible. Tormented. My old therapist even called it torture. It has taken a toll on me. I can’t even explain it but I know now how people die from heart break. I don’t think people who haven’t gone through severe trauma where you had to disassociate to survive really understand the effects of ongoing trauma on the body.. what I do know is that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I have felt so much vitality leave my being-ness and it’s not because I wasn’t strong enough or didn’t pray hard enough.. it’s literally like I’ve been crushed and my soul is bleeding out.. I’m blessed to know I have a soul. I am a soul. I know that because of the complexity of what is happening to me..I’ve asked God to let me check out.. I’ve seen enough down here. Please pray for me. These days it takes a lot just to pray for myself. ❤
I’m glad this video resonated with you. It sounds like your spiritual curiosity has been with you from a young age, and it’s shaping a meaningful journey for you. Sending you strength and peace as you navigate through this pain.
My friend you are being made stronger than before. You can withstand this it’s like climbing a mountain, running a mile. Allow it to hurt and then pick your soul up and find that it is stronger You will find that you have been needing to discover your higher self who is always with you holding you It’s those unbearable experiences where we discover our unbreakable spirits I know it hurts but you are moving through it growing and becoming stronger that’s what that heartache is. … your heart expanding
@@MarlaneM I prayed about it and say in silence, and you know what, you are right. I am being asked to expand my heart and grow through this, not break down and die. Thank you for taking the time to respond to me. The love of a stranger with a robust human heart, like yours, can be a true balm. May the Creator Bless You.
@ I relate to you in every way. You are special and stronger than most. I believe in you. I don’t know you but I know you. My heart goes out to your heart. ♥️
You’re very welcome! I’m glad my words resonate. Keep shining your light and embracing the journey-you’re stronger and more loved than you realize! Blessings always! 🙏💙✨
Absolutely true! Changing how we perceive ourselves can unlock deep healing and transformation. It’s a powerful step toward self-love and growth. Thank you for sharing this insight!
Absolutely, trusting in the Lord allows us to see how even the hardest situations can be used for growth and greater purpose. Thank you for sharing this powerful truth!
I hear you-sometimes the pain feels overwhelming, and it’s hard to see the gift in it. But every struggle holds the potential for transformation. Hang in there; you’re not alone in this fight. 💜
I am over 60, I chose not to have children because of my mother. She divorced my dad when i was 2 and she never remarried. I always felt like her little slave. The only girl with 2 bothers. She always held me back from anything I tried, my brothers got more freedom than I had. I grew up with very low self esteem from her criticizing me my entire childhood. Dad was never a part of my life.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s common for chosen ones to feel held back by their early environments, but acknowledging this can be a powerful step toward healing. Your journey of self-discovery is important, and it’s inspiring to see you reflect on your past. Remember, it’s never too late to embrace your true potential! 🌈✨
From one wounded soul to another. I was born into a toxic family, all of the wounds do reflect my greatest strengths. I have entered the realm of awareness and I know I must fulfill my purpose. Not healing myself but accepting it and changing my lineage. I hear you. 🙏🏿
I see more today that ever how much God was with me every step of the way throughout my 60 year journey. I wouldn’t change a thing either because I am who I am today because of it. I lost my dad when I was twelve and he was my everything. My mother hated me but I always thought it was because I was such a daddy’s girl. Now I know that she couldn’t stand my light! She has passed on and I pray that she is in heaven but I just don’t know for sure. I took her into my home the last year of her life and I loved her no matter what she did or said to me. God molded my heart and I am so blessed to have been chosen by him. 🙌🙏❤️
Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s inspiring to see how you’ve embraced every step, knowing God has been with you through it all. Your strength and perspective are truly uplifting. Wishing you continued blessings on your path! 🙏✨
I grow in loveless family and my mother was the reason for that. Her rule in my journey was painful to her, too. Today, after 60 years, i am grateful for her hard work. I always forgive all people who hurt me in my life and were a reason to my soulful self life .
It’s amazing that you’ve found a way to turn such a tough journey into gratitude and self-growth. Your story is so inspiring-thank you for sharing it. Wishing you continued peace and strength! 🌟
Well, This video is a sign for me to walk away from my toxic family. thanks for make this video and Now I'm motivated and sure about what I have to do next. Also I read a lot of comments here that are similar to what I experienced. I thought I was the only one experiencing this, thank you for sharing, I feel like I'm not alone.
I’m so glad this video resonated with you and gave you clarity. Taking that step for yourself is incredibly brave, and you’re never alone in this journey. Thank you for sharing your story-it’s inspiring to see how many others feel the same way. Sending you strength and love as you move forward!
I understand where you’re coming from, and it’s true that such experiences can feel overwhelming and unfair. The perspective shared in the video aims to show how even the hardest challenges can eventually reveal hidden strengths and purpose. Sending you light and strength on your journey.
I am still heading in the direction of healing. Throughout my life I often wondered if I was in the wrong family throughout my life I always wondered was I exchanged in the hospital for another child that should have been born into that awful family that I was raised in..I was abused both physically and mentally throughout my life by my siblings and my mom. I was in and out of psychiatric hospitals from the age of 17 up to the age of 50 due to so much emotional torment. I was seen by so many psychologists and psychiatrists... Recently I just been touched by the Holy Spirit and now I see why I was born into this family and this lifestyle and this video was helping me understand it even more as I have been watching many videos stating as to why I was born into a toxic family. It is only through the guidance and the love of our Lord Jesus Christ he is showing me that I am here for a reason and I am going to receive every bit of that healing from the Holy Spirit.
Your story is truly powerful, and your journey toward healing is deeply inspiring. It’s beautiful to see how the Holy Spirit is guiding you and revealing your purpose through the love of Christ. Stay strong and continue to embrace the healing and transformation that is unfolding in your life. You are a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of divine guidance. Blessings to you on your path.
Thank you!!! This has been super helpful at reminding me why I am here. It's not my job to fix others, it's my task to make sure their dysfunction ends with them,and isn't carried on by me.
Amen! Thank you for sharing such a beautiful blessing. May God’s light continue to guide and uplift everyone on this journey. Sending love and gratitude your way! 🙏✨
Watching this after 5 days it's been uploaded here. It's 31st of Dec 2024, if anyone who is watching this in the future i truly hope your fire (rage) that's been burning within you, hurting you and making you feel horrible will disappear sooner and so that you'd understand that this life cycle is all your choices and not to make them get wasted. No one is for you but yourself. Remember sometimes the family your were born in not exactly your family. ❤ Do it for you. Love and kindness will definitely come back. 😊
So glad this message resonated with you! It’s truly empowering when we find the space to share and explore these profound truths together. You’re not alone on this journey-thank you for being here!
its the format. We are here to not be like the hateful and deceptive folks .... My mother tried her best to suppress me and now I need no validation and fake love from anyone. Ive learned and im learning. Breaking these curses is what it is. Here for it. Not everyone is here to be a robot and perform like the rest. You have to dislike something enough to not repeat
This is such a powerful realization. Breaking those patterns and standing in your truth is no easy feat, but you’re doing it. Keep trusting in your growth-you’re paving the way for a brighter future. 💪✨
Ive ended the cycle. No more. My mother never wanted me, unplanned pregnancy in a toxic relationship, but when i finally saw how much pain my mother was carrying thats when the bitterness disappeared. Thank you to my family 🙏
Breaking the cycle and finding empathy in the pain of others is a powerful act of healing and growth. Your journey is inspiring, and your ability to transform bitterness into understanding is truly a gift. Keep shining your light.
I often wonder why my own mother hated me so much since I was born, I didn’t look too different from my other 3 brothers, but I was the only one she hated. I’ve been wondering for decades why she treated me that way, with 0 love and affection. Now, 62 years later, if I were granted the wish that I could change all that, I would not change a thing! Every tear I shed, every pain I experienced, all made up what I am, and I am so grateful for what my life, and pain taught me, making me a much better person than I could ever be. My life taught me to love myself.
Your journey is incredibly powerful, and the self-love and strength you’ve found through it are deeply inspiring. Transforming pain into gratitude and wisdom is no small feat-thank you for sharing such a heartfelt reflection. It’s a reminder that even the hardest challenges can shape us into the best versions of ourselves.
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@ The thing is, you wouldn’t know how much it could hurt until you lost the people you loved. And after you lost them, we need to move on or we would end up dwelling on the sadness. I was lucky enough to have met a very wise Rinpoche after I lost my mother, and two of my brothers within months. He had a talk with me and helped me move on and learn to let go. I read the book ‘the Greatest secret’ last week and I was quite taken by the part how she was saying that we should welcome and embrace unhappiness like our best friend. Then I just realised that I have been doing that for a while now, counting the misfoortunes that happened in my childhood a blessing. Holding a grudge doesn’t solve anything, letting go and counting one’s blessing is the way to happiness.
❤I had about the same in my lifetime. Almost 60 years here and I wouldn't change a thing. Except for the loss of my family 😭Though I know now that there is a reason for this. Amazing Our Lord Jesus Christ 🙏 ❤️
It turns out that I am not even related to my toxic family and parents through DNA but they signed my birth certificate. They even called me Junior😊.
I am not here to repeat a pattern, I am here to end it. 🎉
It's inspiring to hear that you're committed to breaking the cycle! Endings can lead to new beginnings, and your determination to create a positive change is powerful. Keep shining your light!
Yes
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That’s a keeper
Aloha from Hawaii, Love it me as well. Game Over. 😎👣👣👣👣🌴🌴🌴🌴🌊🌊🌊🌊 🎤
My mother never loved or liked me. I was well fed,dressed and lived in a nice house an only child. I was never kissed or cuddled.Always put down and sometimes physically hurt.My father never got involved working away from home to avoid my mother. I truly understood how toxic she was when I had my own children.I never forgave her for how she treated me. She destroyed so many parts of me and at age 74 I still hurt.
Thank you for sharing your deeply personal experience. It’s heartbreaking to endure such pain and carry it for so long. Acknowledging it as you have is a powerful step toward healing. Remember, your resilience and the love you chose to give to your own children are incredible strengths. May you find peace and continue to heal from these wounds, knowing that your story inspires others to overcome similar hardships. Sending love and light your way.
Sending you a big hug ❤❤❤❤❤
You got this ❤
Thank you for sharing. I to did not feel loved by my mother, no hugs, no kisses, never said she loved me.for some reason she treated me differently from my siblings. It hurt. My father was abusive in everyway possible. My mother abandoned the family, my father turned the children against each other there are 8 of us. I don't see my siblings or rarely speak to only 2. I carried a lot of resentment, anger and pain for over 3 decades. I'm 55 now, but I have broken the cycle of abuse. I love all 3 of my children. I had to learn to forgive to heal. I suffered a lot of pain carried a lot of anger but I forgive every person who hurt me otherwise I would never be happy. Forgiving is not saying they didn't do wrong or that what they did was ok it was for my own healing. Most of the people who hurt me are gone, they passed away. My siblings are still here but I remain estranged for my own happiness, and peace. My siblings are very toxic. I have a wonderful husband and his family is really nice!
You must forgive her to free yourself. You ever thought that perhaps she raised you as she was raised…. she behaved aligned with her state of consciousness level. Following her beliefs her “conditioned” beliefs that she learned. Have compassion in your heart ❤️ for her only. Free yourself…
Black-sheep here and wear the badge with honour, along with my empathic superpowers. No longer shall I dim my light for anyone; amen to that!
It's empowering to embrace your uniqueness and stand strong in your light! Being a black sheep often means you’re meant to shine differently and inspire others. Keep embracing your gifts and never dim your light for anyone. Amen to that!
@@watersprite333 question?
Do you remember your last incarnation? If so?
Conversation requested?
Sincerely yours,
Paratrooper 56.
Yes I love this comment I'm proud to be the black sheep
Black sheep another word for family scapegoat. FSA. Family scapegoat abuse.
i was never told that my step was not my real family but my soul knew the truth and finally the truth came to light through my guidance from the lord
Given up at birth by a teenage mother, adopted into a very toxic religious family. The gaslighting, beatings, hate, ridicule, screaming, starving into the skinniest kid at every school.
People think I'm strong, they have no idea.. Still healing, learning, growing.
Your journey speaks of resilience beyond words. To endure such pain and still commit to healing, learning, and growing is a testament to your incredible inner strength. Often, the strongest souls are forged in the fiercest fires. Keep moving forward-your strength and growth inspire others more than you may realize.
Hugs 🫂 thank you for sharing.
You are a fighter ❤
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@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 Okay, so I helped to heal some ancestral wounds from my birth family AND the adoptive 'family". Bully for me. I inherited a double dose of "toxic family issues" to heal. The health issues and psychological handicaps resulting from such a nightmarish early life become continuing roadblocks and sources of suffering for the so-called "chosen ones". (We're supposed to feel special?) A toxic family is a torturous gift that keeps on giving. Nowhere did I hear what kind of appreciation or validation the chosen ones receive from enduring and struggling through constant difficulties.... will I "earn my wings"? Why did I volunteer for this assignment? It has felt like punishment for being alive since I was abandoned at birth in 1955.
Healing = Joyful living ❤
Growing up with no no love, empathy or guidance and not understanding it until I became a adult and welcomed God into my life. I start to cry sometimes just out of nowhere,from all the surpressed feelings
Thank you for sharing your journey. Acknowledging those suppressed feelings and letting them out is a powerful step toward healing. Welcoming God into your life is a testament to your strength and resilience. You’re never alone in this process-sending you love and support as you continue to grow and heal. 🙏💖
I felt this! Very relatable! May God bless you
I cried today, I understand the pain is brutal... never ends so sorry 😢
Same
Wow...from emotional, physical and sexual abuse from "family", then 45 years of drug addiction (marijuana to ease the anxiety), to breaking free of all that was a miracle from God....everyone has since died, but I am still here happier & healthier than ever before at age 70!
Your journey is nothing short of inspiring. Breaking free from such hardships shows incredible strength and resilience. Thank you for sharing your story-it’s a testament to hope and healing. 🌟💪
@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 Thank you...I hope it helps someone to never give up because you are worth it!
How did you do it?
@whitehorse3828 33 years of thc addiction, been free from for about a year, take an occasional edible tho but that doesn't cause me to chase a dragon or disassociate me as much.. still drink tho but drinking doesn't disassociate me. I am almost 50, I started too young on THC at 14, I am beating my tobacco habit today. THC helped tho when I was young to deal with my family. Took to much lsd from 17-20, started drinking at 25. Bought a cat today to deal with social rejection.
@@rudestbeast4907I’m 30 years into thc addiction and I am just so sick of it. Thank you for posting your comment. I hope 2025 is the year I can break away from it and let my mind free again.
I had to let my family go. Emotionaly and physically. It's the only way for me to become really free. If god will bring us together again, it will be. If not, it will be.
Thank you❤
Letting go takes incredible strength and faith. Trusting that God’s plan will unfold in the right way, whether or not reconciliation happens, is a powerful step toward freedom and healing. Sending you love and light on your journey! ❤️
@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 Thank you ❤️!!
Amen same her😢❤🙏wish you all the best❤
@VonsWanderingMind Affirmation of Love: JESUS LOVES ME: Spoken out loud every time that a wicked thought comes to mind. Until tears of LOVE start rolling.
Got me out of the Devils DEN, kept me from murder. GOD told me to quit praying for him, JEREMIAH 7! Referring to 1JOHN 5;16 ALL SIN IS SIN BUT THERE IS A SIN UNTO DEATH, I'D HAVE YOU NOT ASK OF THIS. AN ENIGMA, 1JOHN 4 GOD IS LOVE AND WE MUST HAVE LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER OR WE HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP WITH CHRIST. JEREMIAH 7 describe those who QUENCH the Holy Spirit, thus no oil.
@VinceGuthrie Thank you and God bless you❤️!
At a very young age I accepted that I was not like them. I had no one to turn to, no one that loved me. Because of that I learned to love myself and to not care what others thought of me. When you are born to a Father and a mother that love nothing, or no one. It teaches you far more than you realize. It teaches you that you have a creator that loves you in ways you can only fully understand once you learn to truly love yourself with the same unconditional love they love you with. I could write a book here, but instead I will simply say I am proud of myself and my journey. I learned to truly deeply love others in a way that only my creators could fully understand.
Gratitude is a beautiful practice. Stay connected to your faith and light. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for your kind words. You are truly beautiful.@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505
Family abuse, hatred toward me teaches everything that I'm not and never want to be. I love myself dearly and live it out.
It takes immense strength and self-awareness to transform pain into a guide for what not to be. Loving yourself and living authentically despite adversity is a powerful example of resilience and growth. Keep shining your light.
@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505
Amen 💕 🙏🏻 💕
Same
I'm at the point where God is shining a mirror onto my life and that of my family. The abuse I experienced, I have inflicted it, too.
Not all of it but aspects of it, it's a multifaceted mirror..
It's a bitter pill to swallow but necessary for deep healing and real growth.
Thankyou, Father 🙌🏻👑🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
A healing and loving and learning journey but tremendously difficult. Painful yet purposeful. God help ❣️
Coming from a family which treated me with neglect and constantly implanted me that everything I did wasn't good enough, I turned into a people pleaser, constantly neglected my own needs and limits, just to keep up the facade of "everyone's happy" around me. Face the truth: Everyone's happy does never work without you being happy yourself as well. Love your next like you love yourself. Not more, not less, but equally. That balance is the most difficult part to achieve.
Thank you for being so open about your experience. Growing up in such an environment can be so challenging, but recognizing the patterns and working on yourself is a huge step forward. Turning that pain into self-awareness and empowerment is such a powerful journey. Sending you strength and healing! 🌱✨
"...Unspoken truths..." Yeah, that one!💪🏾💯
Can relate. The pretend facade on the surface that everything is fine they expect from one just robs any and all feeling towards them eventually.
Am sick and tired having to be the one that must always give in to their ways by default. They are so damn clueless the harm its caused. Why must one fight hard to be respected and never get the respect? The resentment towards them is not teaching me anything good.
Same here!! Balance and love thy own spirit and soul. 😊
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I never could figure out how I turned out so different than everyone else in my family. I thought it was bc I stayed away from home a lot in my teens. Being around other friends and their families and learning what “normal “ was. I have dealt with feeling unloved and unwanted for 59 years. My mom died this year and the toxic siblings attacked with a vengeance. I took a stand to put myself first for once and changed my number. I am going to overcome their abuse and rise to be the best person God intended me to be.
It’s incredible how your journey of self-discovery has shaped you into someone different from your surroundings. Sometimes distance and self-reflection help us find our true selves. Thank you for sharing your story!
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Toxic siblings… jeez I’m still in this…
Stay strong. You let go and are finally ready to heal. I did this 2 years ago. Freeing! ❤
.last year I cut off my brother.he was my number one abuser.as a child he would go out of his way to torment me and attack me.i always got blamed and yelled at.last year God showed me what he really was.he has a demon.he turned up to my house out of the blue and, refused to leave.i have pleated the blood of Jesus Christ all over my house.doors,walls you name it.last year I cleaned the kitchen,walls and doors. The holy spirit told me not to remove the cross off the door.i didn't listen.thats when he turned up.he only ever would enter and exit through the back door.the one I cleaned.he refused to enter any rooms or doors that had the cross.i called him into a room,he was following,looked up saw the cross,stopped and made a sudden excuse to go back to the kitchen. Where he was scrubbing rocks looking for Gold 😳.he got abusive and wouldn't leave.until I said get out in the name of Jesus Christ.while he was here a holy man just so happened to walk past my gate.he had a hat like this🎩. It was a surreal moment.i heard my brother deny jesus again.i had had a bad dream two weeks before this happened.i was yelling at a person to get out of my house and they wouldn't.after he left the phone calls started.my pastor recognised he had the spirit of torment.you did the right thing.we have warned them time and time again
My experience of narcissistic abuse triggered my spiritual awakening and allowed me to face negative core beliefs. It was such a painful yet liberating experience.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's amazing how such difficult situations can lead to profound awakenings and personal growth. Transforming pain into liberation is truly powerful, and your journey inspires others to find strength in their own challenges. Keep shining!
Same here
Me too
Same.
Me too ... thank god ...❤
Jeremiah 1:5
“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”
What a powerful scripture to share! Jeremiah 1:5 truly reminds us of the divine purpose and calling each of us has. Thank you for this uplifting reminder!
@ iAmen. It is one lot my favorite reminders when I feel alone. We are alone with God but not lonely; and lacking nothing.🦋
Yes God knew in his foreknowledge before the foundation of the world. The creation us and the price for free will. Jesus Christ was Gods offering to redeem us ❤
@@FreeIndeed-Teleo Sometimes I m feeling lonely my parents are died and sister family members I m have no Partner no childeen kind a lonely hier.
Amen
I had to cut ties with my family, because of all the overwhelming toxicity directed towards me. The holidays were the worst when I spent time with them. So many attitudes flying around, that I could not wait to leave from the time I arrived at one of their homes.
I just turned 60 on 6-30-2024 , and for a while my life was just me and my beloved cat Scrunchie. When he suddenly passed away on 4-25-2023, I didn`t want to live anymore. That`s how badly losing him affected me. I eventually wound up in the ER for an emotional breakdown, with strong suicidal ideation. I`ve been in grief therapy ever since. This video had great meaning to me, and I hope everyone else as well. For now "I continue to burn the midnight lamp alone" Jimi Hendrix. All of this healing from my toxic family, and the loss of Scrunchie, is one more day to continue living, and continuing therapy for me.
Thank you for sharing such a deeply personal story. It takes immense strength to navigate the pain of both toxic relationships and profound loss. Scrunchie’s love and your journey to find healing are a testament to your resilience. Each day is a step forward, and I hope this video continues to serve as a light for your path. You are not alone in this journey-sending you warmth and encouragement as you continue healing.
There are so many beautiful little cats that never had love and need loving people (bless)
😢 jamminjoe sorry about scrunchie.... godblessd you with his company .... the void will remain but you got to go on loving.... godbless you to ❤ing yourself .. gently ... kindly and in time you shall experience a shift . Godbless and ❤ to uou .
Ohhhh please get yourself another little kitty to love I'm so sorry for your pain
Stay strong 👊Ur a survivor 👍Ur still ere 🙏I want 2 send u soooooo much luv from my heart ❤️❤️❤️❤️ and pray dat God bless u wit everything u want 🙏🙏🙏🙏..please don't leave anyone bring u dwn, otherwise dey win! And I want u 2 win, everything in life🙏🙏sooooooo much love I send u ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
A gift? Why me? This is why I stayed single, and never was responsible for bringing more children into this world. I avoided their suffering the same fate as I did.
I made more than my share of mistakes. There is little left for me to do at 80+ years, since most of my family have passed on.
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's understandable to feel that way, especially when reflecting on past experiences. Recognizing the impact of our choices can be a powerful step toward healing. Your journey and insights are valuable, and I appreciate you contributing to this discussion.
Same
I understand this. Me too. This world is hard 😢
@@AndySullivan2343First of all, the person you are speaking to JUST stated that they are above 80 years old. Try actually listening to a person for a change before you start invalidating their feelings. I think your son would probably also appreciate if you learned this skill. Be well.
Same
watching this at my old age (48) 😭. I've wasted so many years and only through prayers, I was able to come out from that dark hole, and I am a working progress. I am learning how to love myself and hoping to be able to receive it!
It's inspiring to hear about your journey and the progress you've made. Self-love is such a powerful tool for healing, and it's wonderful that you're embracing that path. Your resilience shows that it's never too late to grow and transform. Keep shining and nurturing that love for yourself!
I m sorry what you have, been throug its hurt but your family can not healing you alone your selfs can heal your selfs pain trauma been used throug Jesus christ He heal the broken hearts run too God Yaweh beause he loves you so much yes I do love you too honey don t give up be strong you can do it I m accept you how you are you are a blessings you are loved by God I m have been throug this to my own mother saying bad things over me when I m was a littel girl she kick me in my womb saying I m hope you will never getting childeren trying to kill me in my sleep I m was sleeping in my bed I openen my eyes and i saw a knife in her hand she walking away out the room I m was afraid of her I m forgive her what she have done too me she was sick I care for her but she don t accept jesus Christ in het life my own niece says the same she had hates me have no respect for me there are tree people saying too me a good friend of my saying it too I m chat with him 9 months never met him i can take it anymore I m don t need him in my life he don t love me together we breaking the cycles.
You should try positive affirmations and meditation
@@brianm1185 i am good, thanks
1st- sorry for your pain!!! 2- you're 48yrs young. I'm 53 yrs young, and I'm still pressing forward to become who God created me to be. 3- as long as you are willing, God will ALWAYS be there to transform you into your higher self. Healing is a process, Keep Healing, keep moving, keep believing, Keep loving.❤
At 56 years of age presently and have always been the black sheep of the family. Most family members despise me.....especially my parents. Still I'm grateful because I've learnt alot in life 🙏
Being the ‘black sheep’ can be incredibly isolating, but it sounds like you’ve found strength and wisdom in your journey. It’s inspiring how you’ve turned your pain into gratitude and life lessons. Thank you for sharing your story-your resilience is truly remarkable!
This video really hits home. It’s incredible to think that being born into a toxic environment could actually be part of a greater purpose. The struggles we face can shape us into stronger, wiser individuals, helping us break generational cycles and inspire others to do the same. Truly a gift in disguise!
Absolutely! Turning pain into purpose is one of the most profound gifts. The strength and wisdom gained from those experiences can inspire change and healing in others. Thank you for sharing this insight-it truly adds depth to the conversation!
@@TheWorldofChosen that’s all a lie.. struggles to make us stronger is a diabolical, absurd, nonsensical lie we have been fed in order to make an excuse for all the trauma and terror.. what it is, our human desire to achieve even in the face of pure evil.. but learning via terror is a diabolical LIE
Same
My struggles made me stronger and I think I broke the abuse cycle, my kids are awesome
@@lesleyM84so how do u learn n grow strong from life being great all the time? Real question. ..
God has been with me the moment I was created I've survived all forms of abuse from my family God was shaping me for a higher purpose God is with me for he is stronger then any negativity on this earth
What a powerful testimony of faith and strength! Your story is a reminder that God’s presence and purpose shine brighter than any darkness. Thank you for sharing and inspiring others with your resilience and trust in Him. Stay blessed!
Amen
You are correct.. and very strong !! Keep up the faith and you will thrive not just survive. ❤
I needed to see this video. At 32 and just having my first child, I have been struggling SO much since giving birth to my daughter. I feel this immense pressure to give her the peace I didn’t really have growing up. I’ve had SO much fear that I won’t break the cycle of trauma that’s it’s made me more depressed. This video is making me think in a different light. Thank you
Thank you for sharing your journey. Motherhood is a profound and transformative experience, and it’s okay to feel the weight of it all. Sending you strength, love, and encouragement as you navigate this path. You’ve got this!
I came from HELL as a child and God always watches over me and protects me, that's how he built me as a powerful and fearless and faithful and a PURE UNCONDITIONAL Loving HEART servant of JESUS CHRIST.
Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s incredible how faith and resilience have shaped you into someone powerful and fearless. Your story is truly inspiring and a reminder of how challenges can build strength. Stay blessed! 🙏✨
Amen
I agree, I knew my guardian angels watched over me and saved me several times...as well as comforting me after the beatings..
I grew up in that toxic environment. .and tried so hard to raise my girls loved, wanted, valued, important and capable. But, my ex was just like my mom, and never loved me either, or respected me. ..so they learned to disrespect, dishonor and to not value me. My girls are in their 40s now and it's hard to be around them.
Me too!!! I understand it now and I do believe it now what this tells us
I lost my mother at 10 months old. My dad a cop became an alcoholic. Married 2nd time she beat me. My grandmother took me at 1st grade. Then died at 15. Went to live with aunt. Dad was on his 3d marriage with a women with 5 kids. They had 3 more. I got pregnant at 17. I ran from Kentucky to California with a baby. Got pregnant again. We had a son. 6 months later his dad was shot. I then was once again no family. I moved to 8 different states. Just starting over. Was pretty so jobs came ease. Im now 62. Divorced from 2nd husband. My only FRIND is JEASUS. I have endured. My kids are good. They liked moving somewhere new. In Florida 30 years now. I don't feel choose. 😢. But I have become liking to be alone. I will endure.
Your story is a testament to incredible resilience and faith. Despite the hardships, your ability to endure and find solace in your faith is truly inspiring. You are a living example of strength through adversity, and your journey is a light for others who are struggling. Thank you for sharing your truth. Keep enduring, you are never alone.
You are precious and you are loved by the most high❤jesus loves you and thats what really matters❤✝️🥰💎
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Wow, may God continue to bring you total healing and make you whole
Wow that sounds rough, I hope you don't let all the colour your present. That's a lot to carry.
I am Aquarius & I have never fit in! I stand out & I always try to avoid being in public. I am the Wounded Warrior & had a very challenging upbringing. I am the baby and not the golden child. My sister was always mean to me growing up and now she can’t remember that! I grew up forced into the black sheep mentality and I am so grateful that I am who I am because I am a powerful force to be reckoned with! I have transformed hate into love and lemons 🍋into lemonade ✨🪽🩵😇
Loving yourself is the Greatest Love of All 🩷
Sending my Love to All of You Beautiful Souls ✨
Your resilience and transformation are truly inspiring! Turning challenges into strengths and embracing self-love is such a powerful journey. Thank you for sharing your story and spreading love and light to others-it’s a beautiful reminder of how we can all rise above and thrive. Sending love back to you! ✨
I am aquarius and I was a Golden child yer grew up without mom even though I missed her all my life
Lets not forget we cant believe in zodiacs and God!! Its oil and water, unless you dont have a relationship with God, if you do..., you might have to revisit your belief in Zodiac signs...i was obsessed with being a Leo and God made it clear that it will hinder my walk with him!!! He is the only one who gives us our identity, no one else.
Aquarius by ascandennt, sun or moon??
Candace, We have a similar upbringing. May I send you a free healing poetry bundle from my book? 😇
born in a broken family grew up with my grandparents after 40yrs I'm all alone, now I am Grateful! I love it! and it all make sense now!
Your journey is truly inspiring! It’s amazing how you’ve found gratitude and understanding through it all. Sometimes the most challenging paths lead to the deepest wisdom and peace. Keep shining!
Me too! I love being alone! Thank you Father for your protection 🙏
The notable event is (like you said) when it all makes sense, as that is when we have finally risen above it all and understand it from a higher level.
lucky you!!
that's amazing
My hope is the next or another dimension is only love....no need to learn or grow from toxicity, polarization, separation, or any other negative experience. The only things needed would be love, inclusion, peace, creativity, laughter, intergalactic friendship, honesty, true freedom and authentic true love.😌💗
Thank you for sharing your beautiful perspective! Love and connection are indeed at the core of our spiritual journeys. Embracing these values can lead to profound healing and growth, both individually and collectively. Let's continue to spread that love!
Me too.
debdo1960, It is bcs Earth is a polarized planet. But I KNOW I come from a place that is not! I KNOW there are Much Better places, where Beings live in peace with each other.
Maybe you & I will meet there someday. 😊
@momobrule3 AWESOME!!!!! I'm ready. I feel I come from a loving non polarized place too. Would love to meet you and other peaceful and loving beings as this has been a very lonely place....too hostile 💕
I know right? I wish there was no suffering at all, ever
This is exactly how my life has been. For those of you who are struggling, I know you can move past your past. Have faith, God knew you were ready for this path.
Thank you for sharing your experience and encouragement! Your words are a powerful reminder to have faith and embrace the strength within. God truly prepares us for the journeys we are meant to walk. Stay blessed!
Bless you
I have been waiting for these words for the longest time, despite having started my healing journey I still had doubts and resentment in myself based on what my family made me think. It's time to break free.
Your realization is such a powerful step forward! Breaking free from the doubts and resentment planted by others is a profound act of self-love and growth. You’re on a transformative journey, and it’s inspiring to see your strength and determination. Keep moving forward-healing and freedom await you!
Same😢❤
I've been healing my childhood for 13 years. I can now say it was worth the trip. I finally see myself as a blessing and l am truly blessed
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It's inspiring to hear about your healing journey and how you've come to see yourself as a blessing. Your growth is a testament to your strength and resilience. Thank you for sharing your experience-it's a beautiful reminder for others on their own paths! 🌟💕
Been at it for same exact years
Am yet to be grateful for the trauma though
Expect nothing of others, only of self 💯 YOU ARE THE BAG 💰 SECURE YOURSELF 😘
Preach! Focusing on your own growth and strength is the ultimate way to thrive. Love the energy-thank you for sharing this wisdom! 💯💰✨
When I think about how I feel about my narcissistic family, being their scapegoat, my first thought wasn't pain or hurt, it is injustice.
My light is about justice for the innocence (that also includes me).
My whole adopted family minus one sibling out of 10 are narcs! My fAther was a narc. My boyfriend’s son is a narc. I have learned how to deal with them and more importantly how to protect myself. Eventually I will get to the healing
To @sirphil13: Your strength in standing for justice and seeing yourself as part of the innocent is truly inspiring. Turning pain into purpose and light is one of the most powerful gifts of a chosen one. Stay true to your mission; your light will guide others toward healing and truth.
To @rochellefreeland4338: Recognizing the patterns and learning how to protect yourself is such an important step. Healing is a journey, and the strength you’ve shown in navigating such a challenging environment is remarkable. You’re on the right path, and your resilience will lead you to the peace and freedom you deserve. Keep going!
@@rochellefreeland4338 Not surprising. Cain's serpent seedline (aka "narcs") outnumbers Adam's by a landslide. Those born into a family with normal, loving, Adamic parents and siblings truly won the biological lottery in this life. I wouldn't wish my "gift" (covert narc mother and golden child brother along with cowardly enabling father) on my worst enemy!! Thank God I had loving paternal grandparents!!!
Amen!
When one video speaks your whole life ❤
It’s incredible how certain truths resonate so deeply. I’m grateful this video spoke to you in such a meaningful way. Sending you love and strength on your journey!
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Me!
I drove around last night trying to escape old cycles , I reached out to the universe for a sign it hadn't given up on me... And nothing came until this morning, when this video was the first in my feed.... Thank you.
It’s incredible how the universe works in such mysterious ways. It’s no coincidence that this video appeared when you needed it most. Stay strong and trust that you are being guided towards something greater. You are not alone in this journey. Keep moving forward!
Though it all makes sense intellectually but your broken shattered heart never recovers completely. When you are all alone with no friends or family, when you don’t even know what it feels like to be loved and cared for by another human being, when all you have seen your entire life is hatred and ridicule, when you feel scared and awkward to face the world cause of all the shame and guilt, then how do you erase and forget all that and be ok with it. Yes this experience taught me to very strong mentally and made me read and learn about spirituality, consciousness universal laws and connect to God. But all this happened intellectually my heart still bleeds, craves for love and approval. The emotional pain and the wounds getting deeper and deeper. Every day of life is a struggle in this world. But yes my mental and intellectual growth has been phenomenal which I am unable to put to use cause of my shattered heart and the emotional trauma. I am unable to escape this deep trauma and want to leave this world peacefully
Your words carry so much depth and pain, and it’s clear how deeply you’ve reflected on your journey. The heartache and longing for love you describe are incredibly human, and it’s okay to feel the weight of it. Spiritual and intellectual growth is a tremendous achievement, but it doesn’t erase the need for emotional healing. Remember, you are not alone in this struggle. Sometimes, leaning into self-compassion and connecting with those who understand your pain can bring light into those dark corners. Your courage to share this is a testament to your strength, even in moments when it doesn’t feel that way. Please take gentle care of yourself and know that your existence holds meaning, even in the face of profound challenges. Sending you love and peace.
@@Rsinha702 I understand completely. On top of hell growing up also had all the abuses mentioned above but my step father was a nasty bad person and my brothers, every since my mom passed away in 1993, I have never been invited to another family function untill I got with my late husband in 2000 and then we were invited to them. When my husband died in my arms in2013 day before mother's day I as never invited again. I was not called to see how I was. I started traveling back and forth to a couple of them because they never came to my house again but drove right by when they went to see each other. I've never done anything to anyone of them but no matter what I did I guess I was still shit. I went back to school itt tech after that and one day they closed doors and my health started failing around that time. Been homeless a couple times because everyone hated me and I had nowhere to go but my carso me and my dog did that. Live on disability now . I can't afford to live. Had colon cancer 4 years ago. Died 3 times. Twice ooperatng table and then ended up with COVID and was dying with it. Dr after that odeed me with phentyl patches. Was in hospital 3 days. My life I have never done any one wrong I very blunt and honest to the point but I'm not mean unless provoked. I was taught to stand up and speak your mind the truth by my brothers. Now I see they can't handle it and I don't care. My stone will have on it I LIVED I TRIED AND THEN I DIED!. TY FOR LETTING ME KNOW IM NOT ALONE.
If you have grown but unable to use it try teraphy.
Alone you will most likely not make it.
Try and do it for yourself .
Set yourself free by healing ans putting the trauma behind
Hey we all are together in this you can message anyone of us ,, by the way hope you have a beautiful year ahead ,...happy new year
There are many others out there who also don't have friends or family to turn to. Hoping you can find at least one. ❤ Sending well wishes your way.
I love the lessons I learned from my family. I love the fact that they are all over there and I’m here doing me without worrying about any of them. ❤
That’s such a healthy and empowering perspective! Learning and growing from those experiences while focusing on your own peace and self-worth is truly a gift. Keep shining and thriving! ❤️
😂😂😂. Thank you. My sentiments exactly!
My life has truly been changed forever right here right now! Gratitude is my attitude. This was definitely a gentle nudge from the divine source of the universe for me to turn my pain into my true purpose Divine permission granted🙏🏽😌💚🦋💚🦋
What a beautiful realization! Gratitude transforms pain into purpose, and it’s amazing to see how you’ve embraced this divine nudge. Wishing you continued strength and clarity on your journey!
It's took me a few decades to be grateful for the lessons i have now learned. God has been patient with me, like only he could. He's had my back all along and now I know it....... pray for discernment every day...... this video is spot on. Break the cycle.
It’s truly beautiful how patience and faith can lead to such profound lessons. Your story reminds us of the importance of trusting the process. Grateful you found peace and clarity! 🙏✨
This is one of the best videos I have ever watched on youtube. I can relate to every bit of it, as I got to watch it after I healed & learned. Now, I see that God chose me for this special path, a bigger purpose for the world. Thank you!
Wow, thank you so much for your kind words! I’m truly glad this video resonated with you and became part of your healing journey. It’s amazing to hear how you’ve embraced your purpose-wishing you continued strength and inspiration! 🙏✨
@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 Thank you for your good wishes! :D
Hello, i am French and living in Vienna. This is the best video so far o have watched on that subject. Thank you very much because it is complete and precise.
Going through the commentaries i understand that we are many black sheeps having endured, sometimes having brocken free and feeling much better now after having learned the lesson of forgiveness.
I have truly learned that on Earth there is no light without shadow. We just need both if we want to evoluate.
All the best to everyone for 2025 ❤
As a chosen one you see the repeating cycles, toxic patterns and generational trauma - genetic alcoholism, narcissism and abuse. There are a lot of lessons to learn from this. We are here to learn and grow. It’s unfortunate that some people will never learn and grow in this life. As an adult, you have free will and the wisdom to know better. Choose peace over chaos and move on. Break away, heal, grow and ascend.❤ Great video!!
Thank you for sharing such profound insights! Your perspective on choosing peace over chaos and embracing growth is truly inspiring. Breaking away and ascending takes immense strength, and your words resonate deeply. ❤️✨
Yes, I'm grateful for seeing this, and it helps greatly. I know I was born awake, I shut it all down almost immediately after coming in. I know that I chose this family to break cycles. I now have no relationship with any of my family, even my kids. I've gone through several dark nights of the soul and suffered greatly with depression. It's taken a lot of work to hold them in compassion, forgiveness and come to neutrality.
Thanks so much
I love how my guides bring me these videos on UA-cam. I do no social media at all. 🙏
Your journey of choosing compassion, forgiveness, and neutrality is truly admirable. Breaking cycles and navigating through such deep challenges takes incredible strength. I’m so grateful this video resonated with you and supported your path. Wishing you continued healing and peace as you embrace your light and purpose.
At age 77, I can appreciate now what a blessing it was to awaken in this life. The process takes time. Especially in a toxic family ❤ Remember: they only saw my decisions, never my choices for those decisions. 🎉
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's inspiring to hear how you've embraced your journey. Your wisdom and experiences can truly help others understand the growth that comes from challenging situations. Keep shining your light! 🌟❤️
I am born to a toxic family...I am broke but the only thing that I have right now my Lord,my saviour Jesus....
Your faith in Jesus is your greatest strength. Even in the midst of the storm, He is your anchor and light. Remember, being born into a toxic family does not define your worth; it shapes your testimony. Keep leaning on Him, for He is with you, guiding you to a brighter and more peaceful future. Stay strong in His love!
He is the most important person to need and love ❤
Amen!
I was born dead, strangled by the umbilical cord..after 35 minutes returned to life.. my mother did not want any children, she told me at age 8 that she hated me and wanted me to be dead...she never changed and throughout the years I was her scapegoat/punching bag emothionally and physically...she had a public image which left me with no support because people didn't believe me although I learned not to divulge the truth about my home life. Still I survived and had a deep desire to know God. I forgive her and even still love her I pray she repented before she died and asked Jesus to save her. The conditioning however led me to marry not just one but two men who physically/emotionally abused me the second man attempted to murder me....Jesus sent me back. God knows best and I eventually came to understand why we all need Jesus.
are you familiar with ACourse In Miracles aka ACIM? mUCH LOVE TO YOU
Your story is deeply moving and a powerful testimony of resilience and faith. It’s incredible how, despite unimaginable challenges, you’ve found strength in Jesus and a desire to forgive and love. Your journey highlights the profound ways God works to bring us closer to Him, even through trials. Thank you for sharing such a raw and heartfelt story-your faith and strength are truly inspiring.
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@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 It is all Jesus and His Love. He restored my soul.
So sorry. I to was abused by a mother who was scared of being single w kids. Any man will do. Just provide n raise her above the gossip of being needy. My real father was sexually abuser from alcohol even as a baby. He left n she remarried to another one in between the other men in my life was also alcoholic n sexual abuser. N Jesus Christ was always there. I pray you receive the healing inside ur heart. We all love u. God n his family n army. Being cased out by her n them as bait. Made me a loner now. By reading the words of God it will heal u. I also had Billy Graham’s books n Jimmy Swagger. That helped. Was going to church my whole life n found out they were being controlled by government n stop. The truth is. To find Jesus Christ he’s at the cross. Repent praises n worship him n pray always. Making him ur bestie n knowing he’s beside me. I feel like a lion mom ready for anything. He tells me what to say to others n they see my relationship w him is real. I’m always bringing people into the word n to God n w Jesus Christ I learned to be more like him n not like the worldly me. Simple n not from this world. All my problems n needs r met at the cross and the one who died a horrible death. Make me stronger n to rely totally on him until I cross over to heaven. Ur job is be a fisherman of others. I caught them n seen them to Jesus Christ at the cross where he’s at waiting for all w ears.
So many need this. Thank you. May your truth heal many more
Thank you so much for your kind words. It’s heartwarming to know this message resonates and can bring healing to others. May the journey of truth continue to inspire and uplift those who need it most!
I've always known that I chose this challenge. I asked for it. That is extremely helpful. It led me to see it for what it was worth. I change it. A lot of it was through Stoicism. Almost no one knows what is on my mind or what I acknowledge about what I see. But I do not forget.
What a strong and insightful perspective. It’s amazing that you’ve embraced this challenge and turned it into growth. Stoicism is such a powerful tool-thank you for sharing your journey!
This video is mine. The spirit of God let me left home to shine in darkness. Am homless , no parent, no siblings care,no friends. Harder than hard, i keep moving.
Your resilience and faith are truly inspiring. The light within you is a testament to the strength that God has placed in you to shine even in the darkest moments. Keep moving forward; your journey is a powerful story of hope and perseverance. You are not alone in this. Stay blessed!
🙏🏻…for a home…friends…🫶🏻✨
May God provide you with a home and love in it....🫶 Keep strong moving forward and prayerful watchful expecting God to provide. He is going to ...faith of a mustard seed...brings much💫You deserve ♥️
The greatest gift to heal from the expiriance of the toxic family
Healing from such an experience truly is one of the greatest gifts. It allows us to transform pain into strength, wisdom, and compassion. Your journey of healing is a testament to the resilience of the soul. Keep embracing the gift of growth.
Not till I lost my mama that's when I felt free. God knows exactly what he's doing. The hurt is still there. But thank God I'm free. Thank you so much for posting this, it has enlightened me so much on top what else I've been taught.
It’s powerful that you can see God’s purpose even in your pain. Finding freedom through such a loss is a profound experience. Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s inspiring and a reminder that healing and enlightenment often come through our toughest trials. Stay blessed!
Through the fire the soul is refined
Absolutely, Leon! That’s a powerful insight. It’s often through our challenges that we grow stronger and discover our true selves. Thank you for sharing this beautiful reminder!
Thankyou for the insights in this video ❤🙏
This entire video speaks volumes to me. I just cried through it. It looks like I got a lot of company, 10k likes. I had to walk away just to SURVIVE.
Your resilience shines through your words. Walking away to survive takes immense courage, and I’m so grateful this video resonated with you deeply. You are never alone on this journey, and your strength is an inspiration to so many. Stay empowered!
Thank you for sharing your emotions so openly. Walking away to survive is a courageous decision, and it shows your incredible strength. You’re not alone in this-there’s so much love and support for you here.
Same shory for me. We are plenty of that sort and are doing much better than our offenders ❤
Same. I didnt expect I'd cry from this 😅
Rejection leads to solitude, then self validation, knowing oneself etc. Much better than fake love and depending on the approval of others
Well said! Solitude often becomes the birthplace of self-discovery and true strength. Rejecting the need for external validation can lead to a much more authentic and fulfilling path.
I want to thank You from the bottom of my heart and soul for this video, You saved and healed so many of us with Your understending how deep are the wounds from difficult childhood. You are wonderful human being and friend that we could only wish for. I am sending You my gratitude and love for this eternal wisdom that You are sharing with us ❤🙏
Thank you so much for your heartfelt message. It means the world to know that this video has resonated with you and brought healing. Sending you love, light, and strength on your journey forward!
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My parents, both alcoholics [ claims she left me in my baby carriage all afternoon while drinking at a bar], tossed me across a room where I have a dent in the hairline on my forehead as an infant, took my car title under false pretenses and sold the only car my Dad ever gave me, had me iron at 9 with a burnt finger from the iron and on and on. She left 4 of us a month after my 16th b'day - no prom ... bc she did that, I had to quit high school and give my father my paycheck to substitute for hers, slept w my first husband and much, much more.... I signed up for this??? I am an empath and got my GED at 30 so I could take the SATs for nursing school after being out of school for over a decade ... didn't study for it but was an avid reader and passed. I was not allowed friends or after school activities bc I had to care for my siblings since age 8 after school. By 12, I was making a full Thanksgiving dinner while she lay too hungover to get out of bed. When I found out she made a pass at my late husband when we were engaged [ 2nd marriage ] ... I had to cut ties w her. No matter what I did to try and please her, it wasn't good enough. I always thought I was unlovable. I was a curious and caring child ... often beaten and made to go to bed without supper. I broke the chain of violence and neglect and now my children have wonderful, loving families. Thank you God for letting me learn the lessons I needed to and learning to forgive. I'm going to be 77 in a few months and am ready to be with my Jesus. I love giving to strangers w no expectations of obligations or reward and caring for animals and my fav patients were hospice, stroke and Alzheimer's [ those unable to help or speak for themselves ]. I love my alone time w my mini Doxie to reflect and continue to grow spiritually.
Thank you for sharing your incredibly powerful and moving story, and for your generosity in supporting the channel. Your strength in breaking the cycle of violence and creating a loving environment for your children is truly inspiring. It’s a testament to your resilience and heart as an empath. May your journey continue to bring healing and light. Sending you love and gratitude!
Your strength and forgiveness inspires me. I am really sorry you had to go through that. You have helped me today, I pray I can forgive abs let go.
Sounds like my Mother and Sister. You are not alone. Xxx
The synchronicity of this popping up in my feed, today, at this exact moment, just couldn't be random. There is healing, for all of us. Start changing the way you think about yourself, and how you think about your family. I'm praying for all, all who have watched this, and identified with it. Peace be with you.
What a beautiful reflection. The timing of messages like this is never a coincidence. Thank you for your prayers and for sharing this powerful reminder of healing and perspective. Peace and blessings to you!
I always said why me. In my later years my family members started dying. I had the responsibility of taking care of everything since I was born first, the only girl with 3 brothers. Everything was my fault. My parents, one brother and my son all passed between 2018 and 2021. Transformation was happening for me until my son died. No words left.
Your story carries so much weight and pain, and I’m deeply sorry for all the losses you’ve endured. Sometimes life puts the strongest souls in the toughest situations to shape something beyond our understanding. Your resilience through such profound challenges is extraordinary, and even when words fall short, I hope you find moments of peace and healing. Sending you strength and love.
One can substitute “toxic family” with toxic materialistic culture. Bravo! That gave me a good cry. Many thanks
Such a profound connection! Toxicity can indeed manifest in various ways, whether through family or culture. I’m so glad the message resonated with you and brought some emotional release. Thank you for sharing your reflection-it truly adds depth to the discussion. Many blessings!
2:31 I was not born to fit in, born to stand out, to rise above not just yourself but the generations that came before and after me, thats what makes me the chosen one!
What a powerful declaration! You embody the spirit of what it means to be a chosen one-breaking generational cycles and paving the way for those who come after you. Keep rising and inspiring others to see their own light. Thank you for sharing this!
@ I definitely know I was given a second chance, went ahead and unfortunate cycling accident back in an Amsterdam. Something told me to share that story online and that’s what built the foundation for who I am today.
That’s such an incredible story! It’s amazing how something as challenging as your accident became the turning point that shaped who you are today. Your resilience and purpose inspire so many-thank you for sharing your journey. 🙏✨
I am going through this kind of emotional pain and having many questions within me. Out of nowhere surprisingly i randomly found this video.. Thank you soo much sir thank you 🙏❤️
I’m so glad this video found you at the right moment. Your journey, though challenging, is leading you to incredible growth and strength. You’re not alone in this, and I’m sending you love and encouragement to keep moving forward. Stay strong and stay blessed!
@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 thank you again and again.. truly higher power answers through the evolve soul like you. Lots of gratitude and good wishes to you too. Happy New year 🙏
This reading felt so personal to me. It’s as if the narrator knew all my dark family secrets of abuse and total neglect of my being! You have shed light on what I’ve just recently learned but it is nice to get this confirmation that what I have believed is true! I have acknowledged my part in my growing up and the abuse is and was there pain of denial! Thank you for sharing this!❤😊❤
I’m so grateful this message resonated with you and brought confirmation to your journey. Acknowledging and facing the pain takes immense courage, and it’s such a powerful step toward healing. Thank you for sharing your story-your strength and self-awareness are truly inspiring. Sending you love and light as you continue to grow and heal! ❤️😊❤️
@ - thank you so much for the acknowledgment! The healing is ongoing but very liberating and getting stronger each day!♥️♥️♥️😇👍🌎💡💐
I picked a doozy of a family. I am chosen because even in my dreams they are trying to continue to wound me because they KNOW I have the ultimate power. Faith. A child like faith that all things are a blessing and patience in myself and my own power is the ultimate power. I trust all who read this are beautiful souls with an amazing ability to see themselves as they truly are...souls that chose to come here at the best time in history where we can see a better future for man kind. See that better planet that YOU would choose for you and your inner circle and your culture. Love to you all.
Your perspective is so powerful and inspiring. Recognizing the blessings in disguise and having faith in your own power is truly what makes you a chosen one. Thank you for sharing such profound wisdom-sending love and light to you as well.
Yes. Finally learned about ancestral healing, and it is such a blessing to know that i came here to help.
That is such a beautiful realization. Ancestral healing is truly powerful, and recognizing your purpose to help brings so much light to your journey. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt reflection! Blessings to you.
I very nearly did not make it. I was suicidal from a very early age but somehow I have managed to live up until now. I have stood up against so much. It was the book "The Dissappearance of the Universe" that taught me the importance of forgiveness. Only recently I have learned to say the words "You are valued" to myself and others.
Your journey is incredibly inspiring, and it’s a testament to your resilience and strength. Learning to value yourself and others is such a powerful breakthrough. Thank you for sharing your story-it’s a reminder to us all that forgiveness and self-worth are transformative tools for healing. You are truly valued!
Same here , hope you are doing great,, happy new year ❤
I can't even write out what I've experienced from my *family*. It's absolutely insane.
It’s truly heartbreaking to go through something so overwhelming. Remember, even in the chaos, there’s a strength within you that has carried you this far. You’re not alone, and your story, however heavy, holds power and meaning. Sending you love and light on your journey.
It's insane. It defies words.
I also have a lot i could write , but realize so many have it worse than I have had..
I'll be praying for you and all here 🙏
Now I can help heal so many more people, thanks to these challenging experiences
That's a beautiful perspective! It's inspiring to see how challenging experiences can empower us to help others. Your journey can truly make a difference in the lives of many. Thank you for sharing!
Growing up I was an only child with seven adults around me. There is so much in this video that has very poignant messages, it is real. Since being an adult I have cared for my mother and eleven other individuals. This has been my wake up call, there is no family that does not have any toxicity. Now there is none left and my gift is realized, healing is part of my life. Freedom is waiting for you, blessings to all use this as a wake up to a new life!❤️🌹
Your journey is truly inspiring and a testament to the power of transformation. Healing and freedom are such beautiful gifts, and your story shows that even in challenging circumstances, there’s an opportunity for growth and awakening. Blessings to you as you continue to live in this newfound peace and share your light with others!
My tainted, toxic blood line ends with me by my conscious decision to never have children and I've never regretted the decision
It takes incredible self-awareness and strength to make a decision like that, and it sounds like you’ve found peace with it. Breaking toxic cycles is a profound and personal journey, and your courage to end it with you is deeply inspiring. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
My difficult family and childhood outside the home aided me in becoming very strong emotionally, mentally and physically; not to depend on others to bolster me up, to build me up, make me feel loved or give me confident pep talks or tell me I'm worthy. Those old spirit crushing recordings still play, I still have the feelings of being a failure and not good enough...and I still choose to sit down from time to time and talk with those painful feelings and let them tell me all they need to.....like holding a screaming crying baby, I hold them and let them rage, I hug them and tell them 'it's OK, let it all out'....... but a louder voice now says, well, I 'll just love myself then, I say things to myself that I wish I had heard from others, and I ask myself "What can I do to make you feel joy today?" or I say things like "I'm so proud of you for continuing to bring your most excellent self to each day in spite of all you've been thru"...and a few years ago I made the following promises "I will never strain, strive, struggle, stress or hurt myself for anyone or anything ever again" and "People have to treat me at least as well as I treat them or better, or they're out". Thank you! sub'd 💖 p.s. yes, that is how I look at my family, as great teachers...or any difficult people...
Your strength is inspiring! Turning a difficult upbringing into a foundation for emotional, mental, and physical resilience is no small feat. Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s a testament to the power of inner strength. 💪✨
This is awesome! Maybe now you can help others. Ever thought of coaching or counseling?
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A lot of exitential videos tend to sow seeds of doubt within their inspirations. Thank you for the actual, positive message. Have a happy new year! 🌲
Thank you for your kind words! I’m glad the message resonated with you. It’s so important to focus on the positive and find meaning in our experiences. Wishing you a joyful and inspiring New Year! 🎄✨
Thank you so much for noticing and appreciating the positive intent of this message! Wishing you a joyful and transformative New Year filled with light and clarity! 🎉🌟
This video glosses over a lot of pain and heartbreak along the difficult journey to healing. No child should have to go through abuse and neglect. I have at least realized that scar tissue grows back stronger. But let's not idealize these burdens and this perilous path.
You’re absolutely right, and I deeply appreciate your perspective. The journey of healing is painful and complex, and no child should endure such hardships. The video’s intention is to provide hope and meaning for those trying to make sense of their struggles, but it’s so important to acknowledge the reality of the pain as well. Your strength in recognizing the growth from those scars is incredibly powerful. Thank you for sharing this honest and thoughtful insight.
"No child should have to go through..." yet many do. Can you say why a supposed benevolent god would allow this?
Our benevolent God allows his creation free will to choose between good and evil. Those that choose evil, make others suffer as a way to upease the pain of the consequences of their bad choices. The good learn that choosing righteousness is the key to peace in this life - no matter what others have done to them - they refuse to allow evil to take them over - and choose to do good no matter how bad their circumstances were growing up. So the question really is not about God - but about which path we as his creation choose. Everyday we must choose between light and darkness. I choose the light of love and peace on my journey.
@@teresalevell2624 "Our benevolent God allows his creation free will to choose between good and evil." That's not a good answer as it only accounts for the priests behavior. Why doesn't your supposed benevolent god protect the children?
@ "Our benevolent God allows his creation free will to choose between good and evil." That's not a good answer as it only accounts for the priests behavior. Why doesn't your supposed benevolent god protect the children?
I’m the youngest and only girl… I’m the only one in therapy for all the bs over the years. It’s hard to heal when they still don’t want to see it. I can only heal myself and they seem happy on their hamster wheel … so I’m estranged now I had to remove me and my family from that ….. I asked God what to do but I feel I have no other option it’s been 40 years of repeated pain. I see it all and I see what I’m doing that are things I’ve learned from my toxic childhood. This whole video nailed it. I asked God to forgive me because I feel I failed Him but I’m so empty idk what else to do. The more I heal and see more the more grief I feel.
Your journey reflects immense courage and resilience. Remember, healing is not about fixing others but finding peace within yourself. Grief can feel overwhelming, but it often leads us to a deeper understanding of love and purpose. Keep trusting in the process, and know that God’s grace covers you, even in the moments of emptiness. You are never alone in this path.
@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505🙏🏽🥲
I can really relate to your comment.
As far as more compassion for others & seeing the truth of who my family really are, my painful experience taught me those . Trying to be a better person & think of others trauma & insecurities as the reason for their behaviour, so being the bigger person & not retaliating but instead, being consistent
In my conduct of reliability and being unconditional support instead of their manipulative conditional support.
All these so called " good traits" over years = people pleasing doormat & poverty & loneliness.
That's what my soul has learned & a little too late .
Peace be with you & I home what lies in your future is freedom from all those repressing people & situations.
survival traits that, caused you to merely exist by not really living but by making everyone around you have a better life by neglecting your own .
People pleasing as a result is soo hard to not automatically fall into no matter where you go or what new people or environments you end up in, people pleasing is like default mode.
@@nickibanks5185 thank you 🙏🏽 I am a recovering ppl pleaser only because I know it fees like to feel abandoned, shunned, ostracized (scapegoat) and yet I see their issues and pain they have blindly accepted as it just being them when they don’t realize it was what was done to them, I’ve tried to have heart to heart conversations that always end up with yelling and me being pushed away, I know they don’t know how to love me just care for all my other needs to keep me alive while my spirit was slowly die’n. It has caused me to silence myself around them not share my feelings or happiness because they will drag me down somehow. They project their fears onto my excitement towards the wonderful unknown they lost their faith and I feel it’s too late for them and that makes me feel like a failure to my Lord. I have my own family and I do not want them to take on those traits because of me that’s why I’ve felt it necessary to remove myself (mental health) because my kids need me at my best and healthiest I can be, they deserve that they deserve the love and support that I never had. While I also need to give that to myself because I to deserve it. That’s why I continue to ask God if this is right because I know He sees everything in my heart and soul. I can’t control others God gave me free will as to all His creations. I feel I need to let it go and let it be.
I wish l left my family sooner than l did. Instead l just allowed them more time to cause more damage. Leaving was the best thing you could do. Good for you. Be strong and love yourself. You deserve it🙏💕🌸
Thanks, I do understand that we chose our family to heal all past lives. It isn’t easy, but it is worth the journey.
Absolutely, the journey of healing through the family we chose can be challenging but deeply transformative. Thank you for embracing this perspective and sharing your understanding-it’s a reminder that every step is part of a greater purpose.
Thank you Dear One this was the Divine Confirmation and True Liberation!! I view the pain differently Right here right now. Thank you for seeing the Gift😌🙏🏽🥰💝 True Freedom Today!
Your realization is beautiful! True liberation begins when we shift our perspective and embrace the divine gift in every experience. Sending you love and strength on your journey!
I can recognize almost everything you have said in this video! Thank you so much for the help! I have been blessed with spiritual gifts such as HEALER, and more!💜💜💜
That’s truly amazing to hear! Recognizing those spiritual gifts is such a powerful step in your journey. Your ability to heal and uplift others is a beautiful blessing. Keep shining your light! 💜✨
Thank you for this video. Now i understand Isaiah 48: 10 " Behold i have refined thee but not with silver , I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction."
Thank you Lord for your goodness and your mercy even when i don't understand what you are doing.
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My narcissistic mother knew which child will break free and it was me and she knew which child will expose her abuse and it was me and she also knew which child will break the generational curse and it was me. I am proud of myself ❤ and my children are blessed to have me as a mother 😊
Wow, what an incredible story of resilience and strength. Breaking generational cycles is no small feat-your children are lucky to have you. Thank you for sharing your journey!
It is easier to rise above it all if a) they weren't still trying to hurt you triggering very deep and old wounds and b) if you weren't broken from birth because of the lack of love from them. I KNOW my mother is very broken, and I sometimes feel some compassion, but on the other hand, I am also broken because of her, but I am NEVER deliberately hurtful to anyone. I have only crossed her one time. She is very selective in her targets so I know there is also deliberate choice on her part. I look forward to the day that we are ALL healed and able to forge the family bonds that we were unable to here. I believe in being patient with ourselves and our pain (which is real) and try to be patient with her because she is incapable. I am 70. We do not become whole while still living in the family dynamic that created deep pain as it is unconciously triggering. When I step away, I am healthier. My mother is in her 90s. I will be grateful when she passes so that I can escape her games, deliberate meannesses and the disingenuous charm toward others that captivates them and keeps them from seeing.
Your words are incredibly powerful and reflect the immense strength and patience you’ve cultivated over the years. Acknowledging the pain while striving for compassion is no small feat. You’re right-stepping away from toxic dynamics can often be the path to true healing. I admire your resilience and your hope for eventual healing for all. Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s truly inspiring to others who may be facing similar challenges
I really needed to hear and watch this video. Family continues to bring me toxicity with their judgment and drama. I had to go deep within to finally let go of their judgment, criticism, and so-called intervention of what I'm not doing right. I've had enough.
It takes immense strength to recognize and release yourself from the cycle of judgment and criticism. You’re on a powerful path of self-healing and growth. Stay strong and true to your journey-you deserve peace and freedom!
@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 Thank you and bless you 🙏.
Be free and be healed
@@ameliawilliams6716 Thank you 🙏
Once again, the wisdom from whomever this is spoken from on this video, is all truth! Thank you for helping souls to see the light at the end of the tunnel! Just wanted to share a saying that I read decades ago on my life-time journey, that may resonate for some. Plenty of other ones I read too, but this one is not seen as much! Here is is! "The more sorrow that carves into your being, the more joy you can contain". I've lived it and now I Mentor, true TRUTH SEEKERS! BLESSINGS for an amazing, SOULS AWAKENING, NEW YEAR!💝💖🌟
Thank you for your kind and uplifting words! It means so much to know that the message resonates with you. Sharing wisdom from your journey is such a gift-thank you for being part of this space
@@Vibrationoftheuniverse2505 Your so welcome and thanks again for yours!
We all have a different journey in being a chosen one. Healing for me has been a massive one. Being chosen means also marrying someone who doesn’t bring love and peace and joy but rather constant challenges. Like an extension of what you experienced in the family of origin. And everyone can give you advise but ultimately we need to listen to our intuition and know what path to follow. And becoming intuitive only comes when we move towards god. We let him take control of our journey.
You’re absolutely right-each journey as a chosen one is unique and deeply personal. Healing is such a transformative process, and it sounds like you’ve made incredible strides. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom. 🌟💖
I married someone like that
most chosen ones walk alone. you dont have to live with a terrible spouse.
@@skinnyway life is more complicated than ‘you don’t have to live with a terrible spouse’. We are all born to do the right thing by others in life. What maybe the right thing for one person may not be the right thing for another. That’s why our intuition plays a big role in knowing what is the right thing to do in any given situation.
@@kayprice9621seem like you attracted that kind of person in your life. Abraham hick, and neurosciencist, Dispenza used to say ask yourself why? what am I doing wrong. You didn't have to do it. Change yourself; change your mind change your outcome. All the best
The illustration in this video is Amazing!!! Absolutely stunning. The artwork transformed me. 🤗✝️
I’m so glad the illustrations resonated with you! Art has a unique way of touching our souls and conveying truths beyond words. Your appreciation means so much-thank you for sharing how it transformed your perspective! 💜
I am grateful I was born in dysfunctional family, if not I would have not grown into spiritually and strong human. Not just family even friends & relationships, today I am working on healing myself, started tarot and healing modules to help other souls. I had option to walk down in dark path, but my faith n trust in divine made me the person today. I believe we all have purpose and trust in universe 🙏 Thank you so much for making us feel valuable ❤ I am your new subscriber
Your journey is truly inspiring. It’s amazing how you’ve transformed challenges into spiritual growth and are now helping others. Faith and trust in the divine truly light the way, and your dedication to healing and purpose radiates so much strength. Thank you for being here and for sharing this beautiful energy with us! Welcome to the community!
WHO are you sir...breaking barriers of my mind and dissolving thoughts in ocean of consciousness thus purifying me..mysterious !!
Thank you for your kind and poetic words! The journey of breaking barriers and finding clarity is a powerful one, and I’m honored to be part of your path to deeper consciousness. Stay connected to your light and truth! 🌟✨
I needed this video. I’ve been going through unbearable pain in my soul. I was also born a curious child, spiritual (my dad says at 2 &3 I would ask who made the stars) philosophical, poetic and empathic. I had a loving heart and wanted to give my best to everybody. Severe trauma started with my family of origin and has continued throughout my life. Abused in every way possible. Tormented. My old therapist even called it torture. It has taken a toll on me. I can’t even explain it but I know now how people die from heart break. I don’t think people who haven’t gone through severe trauma where you had to disassociate to survive really understand the effects of ongoing trauma on the body.. what I do know is that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I have felt so much vitality leave my being-ness and it’s not because I wasn’t strong enough or didn’t pray hard enough.. it’s literally like I’ve been crushed and my soul is bleeding out.. I’m blessed to know I have a soul. I am a soul. I know that because of the complexity of what is happening to me..I’ve asked God to let me check out.. I’ve seen enough down here.
Please pray for me. These days it takes a lot just to pray for myself. ❤
I’m glad this video resonated with you. It sounds like your spiritual curiosity has been with you from a young age, and it’s shaping a meaningful journey for you. Sending you strength and peace as you navigate through this pain.
Jesus loves us and will free a day heal us
My friend you are being made stronger than before. You can withstand this it’s like climbing a mountain, running a mile.
Allow it to hurt and then pick your soul up and find that it is stronger
You will find that you have been needing to discover your higher self who is always with you holding you
It’s those unbearable experiences where we discover our unbreakable spirits
I know it hurts but you are moving through it growing and becoming stronger that’s what that heartache is. … your heart expanding
@@MarlaneM I prayed about it and say in silence, and you know what, you are right. I am being asked to expand my heart and grow through this, not break down and die.
Thank you for taking the time to respond to me. The love of a stranger with a robust human heart, like yours, can be a true balm. May the Creator Bless You.
@ I relate to you in every way. You are special and stronger than most. I believe in you. I don’t know you but I know you. My heart goes out to your heart. ♥️
PLEASE FEEL DEEPLY BLESSED ❤ YOUR WORK IS A GIFT TO THE WORLD ❤ I appreciate it a lot ! Blessings from Western Europe ❤
Thank you so much for your kind words! That truly means a lot. Sending blessings right back to you from here! ❤️✨
I actually found this video to be unfounded and condescending.
Bless you all who chose this path...You are stronger than You will ever know...and Loved beyond all measure..if You could only see it 🙏💙 ✨
You’re very welcome! I’m glad my words resonate. Keep shining your light and embracing the journey-you’re stronger and more loved than you realize! Blessings always! 🙏💙✨
Thanks for the encouragement ❤
Change of thoughts about yourself perception is key to healing yourself
Absolutely true! Changing how we perceive ourselves can unlock deep healing and transformation. It’s a powerful step toward self-love and growth. Thank you for sharing this insight!
All things work for the good for those who love The Lord
Absolutely, trusting in the Lord allows us to see how even the hardest situations can be used for growth and greater purpose. Thank you for sharing this powerful truth!
YES! EVERYTHING is beneficial when we truly LOVE HIM!
Thank you for your replys.
The war within feels more like an ungodly curse than a gift.
I hear you-sometimes the pain feels overwhelming, and it’s hard to see the gift in it. But every struggle holds the potential for transformation. Hang in there; you’re not alone in this fight. 💜
I am over 60, I chose not to have children because of my mother. She divorced my dad when i was 2 and she never remarried. I always felt like her little slave. The only girl with 2 bothers. She always held me back from anything I tried, my brothers got more freedom than I had. I grew up with very low self esteem from her criticizing me my entire childhood. Dad was never a part of my life.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s common for chosen ones to feel held back by their early environments, but acknowledging this can be a powerful step toward healing. Your journey of self-discovery is important, and it’s inspiring to see you reflect on your past. Remember, it’s never too late to embrace your true potential! 🌈✨
Thank you for sharing! I to forgive my parents, ex-mother in law and siblings.
From one wounded soul to another. I was born into a toxic family, all of the wounds do reflect my greatest strengths. I have entered the realm of awareness and I know I must fulfill my purpose. Not healing myself but accepting it and changing my lineage. I hear you. 🙏🏿
Your strength and self-awareness are truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey with us
I see more today that ever how much God was with me every step of the way throughout my 60 year journey. I wouldn’t change a thing either because I am who I am today because of it. I lost my dad when I was twelve and he was my everything. My mother hated me but I always thought it was because I was such a daddy’s girl. Now I know that she couldn’t stand my light! She has passed on and I pray that she is in heaven but I just don’t know for sure. I took her into my home the last year of her life and I loved her no matter what she did or said to me. God molded my heart and I am so blessed to have been chosen by him. 🙌🙏❤️
Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s inspiring to see how you’ve embraced every step, knowing God has been with you through it all. Your strength and perspective are truly uplifting. Wishing you continued blessings on your path! 🙏✨
I grow in loveless family and my mother was the reason for that. Her rule in my journey was painful to her, too. Today, after 60 years, i am grateful for her hard work. I always forgive all people who hurt me in my life and were a reason to my soulful self life .
It’s amazing that you’ve found a way to turn such a tough journey into gratitude and self-growth. Your story is so inspiring-thank you for sharing it. Wishing you continued peace and strength! 🌟
Well, This video is a sign for me to walk away from my toxic family. thanks for make this video and Now I'm motivated and sure about what I have to do next.
Also I read a lot of comments here that are similar to what I experienced. I thought I was the only one experiencing this, thank you for sharing, I feel like I'm not alone.
I’m so glad this video resonated with you and gave you clarity. Taking that step for yourself is incredibly brave, and you’re never alone in this journey. Thank you for sharing your story-it’s inspiring to see how many others feel the same way. Sending you strength and love as you move forward!
Trust me IT IS NOT A GIFT IT IS A CURSE
I understand where you’re coming from, and it’s true that such experiences can feel overwhelming and unfair. The perspective shared in the video aims to show how even the hardest challenges can eventually reveal hidden strengths and purpose. Sending you light and strength on your journey.
@sofy786 - it's a gift & a curse simultaneously.
I am still heading in the direction of healing. Throughout my life I often wondered if I was in the wrong family throughout my life I always wondered was I exchanged in the hospital for another child that should have been born into that awful family that I was raised in..I was abused both physically and mentally throughout my life by my siblings and my mom. I was in and out of psychiatric hospitals from the age of 17 up to the age of 50 due to so much emotional torment. I was seen by so many psychologists and psychiatrists... Recently I just been touched by the Holy Spirit and now I see why I was born into this family and this lifestyle and this video was helping me understand it even more as I have been watching many videos stating as to why I was born into a toxic family. It is only through the guidance and the love of our Lord Jesus Christ he is showing me that I am here for a reason and I am going to receive every bit of that healing from the Holy Spirit.
Your story is truly powerful, and your journey toward healing is deeply inspiring. It’s beautiful to see how the Holy Spirit is guiding you and revealing your purpose through the love of Christ. Stay strong and continue to embrace the healing and transformation that is unfolding in your life. You are a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of divine guidance. Blessings to you on your path.
Amein.
Thank you!!! This has been super helpful at reminding me why I am here. It's not my job to fix others, it's my task to make sure their dysfunction ends with them,and isn't carried on by me.
Thank you for sharing! Your insight is so inspiring-ending dysfunction is a meaningful mission. Keep shining your light!
May God’s light shine upon everyone watching this video, bringing endless joy, blessings, and strength for a prosperous life. 🙏✨
Amen! Thank you for sharing such a beautiful blessing. May God’s light continue to guide and uplift everyone on this journey. Sending love and gratitude your way! 🙏✨
Watching this after 5 days it's been uploaded here. It's 31st of Dec 2024, if anyone who is watching this in the future i truly hope your fire (rage) that's been burning within you, hurting you and making you feel horrible will disappear sooner and so that you'd understand that this life cycle is all your choices and not to make them get wasted. No one is for you but yourself. Remember sometimes the family your were born in not exactly your family. ❤ Do it for you. Love and kindness will definitely come back. 😊
So glad this message resonated with you! It’s truly empowering when we find the space to share and explore these profound truths together. You’re not alone on this journey-thank you for being here!
its the format. We are here to not be like the hateful and deceptive folks .... My mother tried her best to suppress me and now I need no validation and fake love from anyone. Ive learned and im learning. Breaking these curses is what it is. Here for it. Not everyone is here to be a robot and perform like the rest. You have to dislike something enough to not repeat
This is such a powerful realization. Breaking those patterns and standing in your truth is no easy feat, but you’re doing it. Keep trusting in your growth-you’re paving the way for a brighter future. 💪✨
Ive ended the cycle. No more. My mother never wanted me, unplanned pregnancy in a toxic relationship, but when i finally saw how much pain my mother was carrying thats when the bitterness disappeared. Thank you to my family 🙏
Breaking the cycle and finding empathy in the pain of others is a powerful act of healing and growth. Your journey is inspiring, and your ability to transform bitterness into understanding is truly a gift. Keep shining your light.